I like being entertained as much as the next man. But this is exactly how these stories should go. You didn’t hesitate or wait for her to inevitably cheat with her ex. You cut that bih off. Good job bro.
@@terrelldowns6432 They seriously think you're still that puppy dog dude they were hooking up with back before you got serious. It doesn't dawn on their inner narcissist that you haven't exactly been sitting around waiting for the phone to ring because you REALLY want to get walked on all over again.
If you even suspect that she was not exclusive during dating, then she is just for fun, not relationship. Good woman don’t sleep with multiple people at the same time, regardless if you had the exclusive talk or not, that should only be a formality.
News flash: if you break your vows, you have no leg to stand on when it comes to your partner's vows. Why? By breaking your vows, you broke the marriage. There is no "us" there anymore. Now go away and leave him alone.
Most men needs tough love. Thank god most strong men are going to hold to it. If ur too weak and dont heed warnings from red flags dont come on forums crying
see how “you broke the vows” the action ls your X took had absolutely nothing to do with the dissolution of the marriage. - thats why a smart man doesn’t get involved with them nowadays.
This whole story is a massive red flag. Everything op did is everything you shouldn't do as a man. Date younger womn don't care about anyone trying to shame you for that. Or get your passport and join passport Bros.
Someone who is divorced [failed marriage] in itself is a yellow flag, not a red flag. What you want to find out is, whar did they learn from the failed marriage, and what did they change in themselves to prevent that failure from happening again? If all you ever hear is how horrible the other person was and nothing about what they themselves can and did improve, that's your red flag. No one is perfect. But if they present themselves that way [admitting "I'm not perfect" but putting all the blame on the partner is presenting themselves that way], guess what? Whatever problems they had with their partner, you will have too. The only winning move there is not to play.
I dont understand how u gonna get with a career driven women shes basically a man at home after that type of work field practically making you the woman and beta of the relationship if a woman cant cook or clean dont get with her she becomes financial problem. It's like she's a car that doesn't function, but when her ex-husband hopes on her, it magically functions.
I like being entertained as much as the next man. But this is exactly how these stories should go. You didn’t hesitate or wait for her to inevitably cheat with her ex. You cut that bih off. Good job bro.
Yes sir 💯 percent agree.
I hate it when they try to come back. I find it to be rather irritating, especially after an ugly breakup. It's like an insult to my intelligence.
It's like I know I trashed you and tried to make you bankrupt, but I need help and that's all that matters.
@@terrelldowns6432 They seriously think you're still that puppy dog dude they were hooking up with back before you got serious. It doesn't dawn on their inner narcissist that you haven't exactly been sitting around waiting for the phone to ring because you REALLY want to get walked on all over again.
Rich Cooper said it well. "They think you're a bookmark in a book they can go back to at any time".
Women and accountability101...
@@PlebiteBaller absolutely
If you even suspect that she was not exclusive during dating, then she is just for fun, not relationship. Good woman don’t sleep with multiple people at the same time, regardless if you had the exclusive talk or not, that should only be a formality.
Damn. She said, “it is what it is”.
She should've been blocked. That way she has no way to try to come back to you man 🤦🏾♂️
She didn't mean all those harsh things she said? Yeah, right
Say what you mean. Mean what you say. Simple as that.
Marriage for men is like global thermonuclear war, the only way to win is NOT to play!
News flash: if you break your vows, you have no leg to stand on when it comes to your partner's vows. Why? By breaking your vows, you broke the marriage. There is no "us" there anymore. Now go away and leave him alone.
She gotta bring up to be exclusive
They always come back 😅😅😅😅
Lmmao against the vows
Most men needs tough love. Thank god most strong men are going to hold to it. If ur too weak and dont heed warnings from red flags dont come on forums crying
see how “you broke the vows” the action ls your X took had absolutely nothing to do with the dissolution of the marriage. - thats why a smart man doesn’t get involved with them nowadays.
This whole story is a massive red flag. Everything op did is everything you shouldn't do as a man.
Date younger womn don't care about anyone trying to shame you for that. Or get your passport and join passport Bros.
Many men don't learn these things or come to Manosphere until this happens to them. However, now other men can learn BEFORE they make these mistakes.
I have to put my 2 cents in. You as the man should never bring up the relationship idea or inclusivity etc. Let her bring it up as her idea.
2024 is the year of people collecting their stupid prizes.
Someone who is divorced [failed marriage] in itself is a yellow flag, not a red flag.
What you want to find out is, whar did they learn from the failed marriage, and what did they change in themselves to prevent that failure from happening again?
If all you ever hear is how horrible the other person was and nothing about what they themselves can and did improve, that's your red flag. No one is perfect. But if they present themselves that way [admitting "I'm not perfect" but putting all the blame on the partner is presenting themselves that way], guess what? Whatever problems they had with their partner, you will have too. The only winning move there is not to play.
I dont understand how u gonna get with a career driven women shes basically a man at home after that type of work field practically making you the woman and beta of the relationship if a woman cant cook or clean dont get with her she becomes financial problem. It's like she's a car that doesn't function, but when her ex-husband hopes on her, it magically functions.