How to conquer your fear in 30 seconds!

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ความคิดเห็น • 664

  • @laulaubilau
    @laulaubilau 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have a COLOSSAL fear of the dark, of being alone. I hate it so much. And this video actually helped me an LOT. I got to breathe and realize that if I control this fear, I'd be able to sleep better and grow as a person. Thank you so much for this. You made my whole week!

  • @DaysLikeThese65
    @DaysLikeThese65 8 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This excellent advice should be compulsory in all schools

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +James Harrison Thank you! We created a program for a leading prep school in LA and excited about educational opportunities in the future!!
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    • @illman3006
      @illman3006 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      should be yes, but this system survives off fear. i think the parents should take more responsiblity in teaching their children instead of leaving everything to schools that work for a much different agenda.

  • @rachaelryan00
    @rachaelryan00 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "Always go with the choice that scares you the most, because that's the one that is going to help you grow" -Caroline Myss.
    Thank you so much! I know I will be coming to this video frequently :)

  • @kajanthanaero433
    @kajanthanaero433 9 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    ''If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Get up and do it''- Del Carnegie,
    thanks Brian :)

  • @STRDoc
    @STRDoc 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the personal story about the business plan and am often reminded that fear is excitement without the breath.

  • @JubiDC
    @JubiDC 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you, Brian. Thank you for spreading the Light!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jubi D-C Big smile and thanks! :)

  • @ishimoiishimwa351
    @ishimoiishimwa351 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a nice guy. A pleasure listening and learning from you.

  • @johnhealy614
    @johnhealy614 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm that one person you helped today, thankfully. yours John from the UK keep it up dude

  • @Apreston14
    @Apreston14 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been practising positive affirmations, hypnosis, visualisations etc to try and remove fear for years. This, and knowing that confidence is more experience related than mentally related, is the only technique that has helped me achieve the things I want. Thank you :)

  • @Bexxxyable
    @Bexxxyable 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lots of substance yet so simple. Extremely helpful and eye-opening.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  8 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @8BitRetroGhost
    @8BitRetroGhost 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Simple, yet brilliant. I've been more or less scared of heights all my life. I took these steps and jumped my first tandem skydive and ENJOYED it. Now I'm seriously considering making it a hobby. Thanks!

  • @RonD108
    @RonD108 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got something out of this. I'm looking to walk through a lifelong fear of public dancing. Failed miserably a few nights ago, but am climbing off the canvas to give it another look. Best I like what you said about not approaching it to get rid of fear, but to walk through it. I've heard the quote by Cus D'Amato where he told Mike Tyson that all fighters felt the same fear, but champions learned to walk through it. Very inspirational. By the way, I'm 61 years old.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing, Ronald. Thanks for sharing and rock it!!
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  • @deyawiley3957
    @deyawiley3957 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! seeing you explain this brings me such clarity. I've never seen it explained this way before. I've been frozen by fear not knowing what to expect, while embarking on a new journey. You now have given me the courage to take action, & allow myself to receive all the Prosperity , and new opportunities that are waiting for me. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. I am eternally grateful. I love you for helping me to stop standing in my own way.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Deya Wiley Amazing and thanks for your note, Deya!!!
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  • @Davidka1978Xoroshiy
    @Davidka1978Xoroshiy 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the better models i have come across. Brian Johnson, this is a work of art.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Davidka1978Xoroshiy Thank you!!

  • @Markscott55
    @Markscott55 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brian, your body of work has inspired me for many years. I always look forward to your videos, it's good to have you back in full force again. Have you heard of the butterfly effect? Well,, I think your message spreads through your followers in the best possible direction all over the world. Thank you for all that you do!

  • @sandeepprajapati-oq6gb
    @sandeepprajapati-oq6gb 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    excellent brian....should be taught in every school all over the world

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +sandeep prajapati Thanks, Sandeep!
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  • @Leon2101
    @Leon2101 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Brian. You are helping people across the planet. You are a great man.

  • @MrDeaDMaLaUa
    @MrDeaDMaLaUa 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I REALLY HOPE YOU BECOME MORE POPULAR THAN NOW AND I HOPE YOU ARE DOING GREAT!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MrDeaDMaLaUa Thanks and thanks! :) Hope you're doing great as well!

  • @samal8339
    @samal8339 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Brian. Great video. Always feared and felt negative before starting anything in life. Will try this in future.

  • @nooraniwalji3025
    @nooraniwalji3025 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Priceless...simple and clear explanation...
    thank you so much....
    I am constantly fearful of EVERYTHING..it just holds me back again, and again.
    I am gonna be putting into practice!!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @justchillb
    @justchillb 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah. You are right we can be fearless. It's different ways to look at it. Fear is mostly doubts. & this video helps people get over their doubts & keep it pushing. I love your videos man. I discovered you a few days ago. I'm rolling with you

  • @luckyducky224
    @luckyducky224 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing your positivity! Refreshing video!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      luckyducky224 Thanks! :)

  • @razzer49
    @razzer49 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    STOP CRYING !!---10:09 YOU found me! I am the 1 person that you helped! Thanks for the visual on paper and explaination-it helped a lot!

  • @jdctoday1
    @jdctoday1 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    you really spelled it out in such basic terms for all who will receive it...got alot out of it..tks so mcuh

  • @tbrodigan
    @tbrodigan 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks, Brian. Gotta say -- was not expecting such clear-cut, no-nonsense wisdom with a lap-based, non-white balanced video (unless you actually have blue notebooks!). A great photo editor told me, I don't care what way you show me your photos -- just make sure your photos show me something! And you know the best jazz players have the most messed-up horns (Charlie Parker's was in hoc when he needed drug money). So keep dropping wisdom, in any way, shape or form you can. And get that life101 website up -- it's gonna be great, and so helpful to so many people!! Thanks again. Really.

  • @JustinHarmon
    @JustinHarmon 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for this Brian! Love the way you do your videos on notebook like this. I have so much that I write in notebook for and never thought to do a video like that. Nice! Also the info is super important. I can't tell you how many times I let fear hold me back into my comfort zone.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Justin Harmon Thank you, Justin!! I hear ya on the fear and let's do this! :)

  • @jordiedobrich-jones8667
    @jordiedobrich-jones8667 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This will get me up and moving again. Thank you😊😊😊😊

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Jordie Dobrich-Jones Awesome, Jordie!! My pleasure!!
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  • @HelderP1337
    @HelderP1337 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know how I ended up here, some guy talking while recording a scribbled page... but I stuck with it and oh my god Brian you have hit the nail on the spot!
    Thank you so very much for this, deeply appreciated!

  • @Ventemido
    @Ventemido 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you. I really needed this.

  • @lajahna
    @lajahna 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life changing concept. I was in a crippling state of anxiety earlier today...wish I had watched this first thing this morning. Thanks Brian for sharing this valuable lesson.

  • @da151123
    @da151123 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very very very well done. I loved this. I had traumatic events happen to me which in turn left me in the hospital for five months and had to re-learn how to do everything. I deal with flash backs and pain on a daily basis but this video has helped me with taking a different approach to fears. Breath! You have to breath. Think about what you want not what you don't want. Thank you man keep up the videos!

  • @cevera70
    @cevera70 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome way of disecting fear and presenting a practical way of facing it-Thanks!!

  • @johnaccolade5732
    @johnaccolade5732 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok now you are a good teacher. I can't even see you but your voice is hugely energized. If there's proof that voice can convey huge amounts then here it is. And a great video too.

  • @stressfreeyou1385
    @stressfreeyou1385 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brian, I couldn't agree more with your thesis. It applies to so many things and I've always overcome fear by rationalising the the result of fear. Think "what's the worst that could happen?". If it's doesn't get you arrested or physically hurt you, you can handle it.
    I've used this in anything from entering rooms where I don't know anyone to making board presentations. And I can tell you addressing my fears has had a whole lot of positive upsides.

  • @doodo1509
    @doodo1509 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow.
    "Fear is excitement without the breath"
    this hits me pretty hard. Thanks!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @carolynr9154
    @carolynr9154 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You helped me move past my fear today and everyday from here on out. Thank you.

  • @battomataxa
    @battomataxa 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    This changed more than just my day, thank you so much

  • @HarleyMama89
    @HarleyMama89 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome!!!! Thanks! Love your style with the notebook.....very creative way to present your ideas! Thanks again!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks!
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  • @Sauce4dinner
    @Sauce4dinner 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brian. Thank you. You have made my day.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Charif Shell Right on, Charif!!! Thanks for your note! :)
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  • @09vitec
    @09vitec 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video! THanks. For me I have written this statement about Fear on an index card and placed it on my bathroom mirror so I can read it everyday. "Courage is not the absence of Fear, but more the judgement that something else is more important." This statement helps me to get passed fears that I feel at times and helps me to continue on.

  • @lynmadelle820
    @lynmadelle820 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love this Brian great ilustration,demonstration and technique that makes it more deeply absorbable.thank you i love that ex.even just one person...that very moving & touching especially when your intentions of creation is for the good of those who understands it...i love your brilliance how u come up w/ your own way thats personalized from the knowledge & materials out there...very inspiring ❤❤❤

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +madelle lyn Thank you so much, Madelle!!
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    • @lynmadelle820
      @lynmadelle820 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're most welcome Brian...we greatly are blessed...❤❤❤👍

  • @RevitalizeWithin
    @RevitalizeWithin 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Brian. This is such a blessing!

  • @ellenpalangio7984
    @ellenpalangio7984 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your really good at this. Keep doing it because it's your vulnerability that makes it so great.

  • @poshansharma
    @poshansharma 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally found 'THE' youtube video after watching thousands.Thanks Brian. This has bocome my motto of life.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @HeroicArete
    @HeroicArete 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a legend. In my country we would knight you for your work and contribution. I always know I can turn to your work for guidance and inspiration. Thank you for all that you do.

  • @ashleywright5514
    @ashleywright5514 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant! Super simple practice that works. Try it. Thanks Brian.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ashley Wright Thanks, Ashley!! :)

  • @Tuubaholic
    @Tuubaholic 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brian... Thank You. With a tear in my eye now, I am your one person you got through to today. I personally have fear running all through me... so the fact that I am even writing this post is a measure of your inspiration!!

  • @TonyAmstaff2012
    @TonyAmstaff2012 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    you just made my day better... so yes! your video worth it
    BIG THANKS !

  • @ReachingHigher001
    @ReachingHigher001 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh, Brian. Yet another fantastic vid. God bless you, sir.

  • @KaraZigay
    @KaraZigay 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brian! I LOVE your video's! And I love you! :) I am learning sooooo much. I am taking notes and soaking it up! OPENING MY MIND and mastering my consciousness! Practice makes perfect! I read your book, A Philosopher's Notes 101... LOOOOVEED it! I was blown away when I read the purpose section. Having thought that my purpose was my calling or my "dream job" when in fact I am my purpose ... to be me. And to live my truth. It really just made complete sense!
    Thank you! Thank you!

  • @2003bfambrose
    @2003bfambrose 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    good stuff-re-watching now

  • @JaytheMarketer
    @JaytheMarketer 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish i can "like" this clip multiple times!
    Mind blowing work, thank you!
    And frankly, you are the first one who made me write comment on youtube.

  • @jazmineperez9045
    @jazmineperez9045 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Brian!

  • @HeroicBrian
    @HeroicBrian  11 ปีที่แล้ว

    My pleasure and thanks for your thanks! :)

  • @icdigitalassets8643
    @icdigitalassets8643 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed that. Before breakfast as well. Love the workbook presentation.

  • @aehaut1
    @aehaut1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brian - Thank you so much for this video! It has truly helped me to see my potential. I'm currently working to overcome panic disorder and anxiety, and pushing past my fears is what is getting me there. Thank you for being a light in the dark!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Andy Haut Thanks for your note, Andy! I used to have a lot of anxiety as well and focusing on consistency on my fundamentals (exercise + nutrition + rest + meditation) has been HUGE. Have you seen this? th-cam.com/video/VDTFpQ5JEMA/w-d-xo.html

    • @aehaut1
      @aehaut1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ***** Thank you for responding to my post! Wow that means a lot to me. My biggest anxiety comes from coping with change - anything that changes my routine or causes me uncertainty. My #1 non-negotiable self-care habit is probably sleep, although I don't spend enough time exercising to know where that falls in my hierarchy. Any pointers on this? Again, thank you for responding!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Andy Haut My pleasure, Andy! Sleep is huge. I'm a big fan of circadian rhythms and being consistent. In terms of exercise, that could be a REALLY big missing piece for you. Science shows exercise to be as effective as Zoloft. (And that *not* exercising is kinda like taking a depressant.)You might dig this: brianjohnson.me/philosophers-notes/spark/ I'm here to help so let me know if you have more questions, etc. You've got this!!!

  • @riverjoefro
    @riverjoefro 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it Brian, keep doing what you're doing and keep being an awesome individual.

  • @LifeByMuse
    @LifeByMuse 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a beautiful expression you've created here, Brian! So clearly illustrated and well said plus (bonus!) open and honest ... I so love this! It touched my heart today and gave me something to focus on when I'm feeling fear. Grateful!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Colleen McGunnigle (Col) Yay!! Thanks for your awesome note, Colleen!!! :) Really appreciate it and here's to optimizing!! :)
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  • @MattBrun
    @MattBrun 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow this is so so good! You nailed it Brian, thanks for the awesome info!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Matt Brun thanks, Matt!
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  • @illman3006
    @illman3006 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    as the saying goes, courage is the not the absence of fear but the will to proceed despite being afraid.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +illman300 Yes!
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  • @dawnbell681
    @dawnbell681 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks, Brian, let me be that "one person" that responds wholeheartedly and say "Thank You"!!! Sometimes you just need to know someone else is feeling it too!! What you have shared has truly empowered me to launch out even further into the deep to see what possibilities life has for me. I just did a career change and I am now working at a software firm and our growth rate is off the chart and I can see so many possibilities in front of me, but it will definitely stretch me, and I am up for the challenge. I've learned to do things afraid, but now I don't have to listen to that voice that says "what is wrong with me, why am I so afraid?" Now I can say, nothing is wrong, it's just a part of the process. Thanks again Brian :)

  • @mountainhomemama3338
    @mountainhomemama3338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You really helped me today my friend miss you!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @markmarko9069
    @markmarko9069 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know what? That changed my day! Great little morsel that seems like it's quite powerful. Thank you!

  • @lexiherzer2819
    @lexiherzer2819 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much. This video will help me throughout my entire life! It already has helped me out a bunch, and it is all thanks to you. You are the BEST!!!

  • @Jedi_Triangle
    @Jedi_Triangle 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brian if you ever think you uploads are Stupid. You have helped me soo much watching this. Thank you so much, Its time for me to prove who i really am.

  • @iwtbn54
    @iwtbn54 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    +Brian Johnson
    I went to your website poked around and check out you video! I am very impressed and feel very lucky to come across some of your videos and philosophy that you summarized from those positive psychology books! I am very passionate about philosophy and looking for a authentic life ! You seem very generous, has good attitude towards and try to create a good connection between your viewers by responding our questions energetically! your passions,ideas,business and point of view deserve more attention than it is right now! That's what our generation need to hear and follow! I do my best to get my friends or anybody that are worthy of hearing it hook up also and i would love to be hooked on the philosophers notes and keep current dated with your videos or philosophical idead it's very very inspiring! I will grant my blessing for your passion to be heard through the whole world if I could!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chang Hao Amazing. Thank you, Chang!! I appreciate your kind words and love your enthusiasm!
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  • @chadwithporsche
    @chadwithporsche 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    My last fear to conquer is heights, and your video has really helped me in my pursuit of a skydiving license. Thanks for being succinct with your wisdom.

  • @thelyes1
    @thelyes1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    From france.
    It is exactly what i needed to know. It is very liberating.
    Thank you

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      thelyes1 Thrilled to hear and appreciate you sharing!

  • @denizerginel2306
    @denizerginel2306 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate your teaching method a lot. I learn very quickly. It's simple and effective.Many thanks.

  • @Ari_Bo
    @Ari_Bo 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im telling ya, you are amazing, You are giving me and many others some answers that we are searching for a hard long long long time in our life. Thanks A LOT!

  • @evzervoudakis4777
    @evzervoudakis4777 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoy your style of teaching, thank you

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Ev Zerv Thanks!!!
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  • @786anwaar
    @786anwaar 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks. Your message was so powerful that turned my 50% fear into optimism & self control, for remaining I will practice. Thanks again!

  • @MercerSmith
    @MercerSmith 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    You just made a HUGE break through with me! Thank you!!

  • @zulkiflizul6132
    @zulkiflizul6132 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Brian Johnson; I will definitely join your premium membership program

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @ahmedxo9094
    @ahmedxo9094 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    alot of love from me. you can teach anything bro.

  • @gents6379
    @gents6379 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's official - you have definitely reached more than one person with this message. Thank you for conquering your fear and becoming such a great teacher!

  • @jessehenderson9237
    @jessehenderson9237 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was great, lots of real applications, Thanks!!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +jesse Henderson Right on! Happy you loved it and thanks for your note, Jesse!
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  • @alenastavrova4604
    @alenastavrova4604 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    You were right, Brian. That changed my day!

  • @YOSUP315
    @YOSUP315 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I actually already feel better after watching this. Just accept all that fear, add a little something and turn it into excitement? That's an excellent technique.

  • @traderdave007
    @traderdave007 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing this video. Powerful and succinct!

  • @PaulGoldBergVlog
    @PaulGoldBergVlog 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Brian! Breathing is such a key skill. We all need to master it and make it a habit :)

  • @JasonSani
    @JasonSani 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super cool Brian! The visual aid and steps created a super clear picture. THANK YOU for making these life changing concepts relateable and practical!

  • @coreo881
    @coreo881 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been on the self help circuit since I was teenager, reading countless blogs and watching videos. And I got jaded. But watching this inspired me. Even if someone doesn't buy into the subject matter, just listening to you speak passionately is really moving. Great video man.
    Also editing your notes while you instruct is just damnnnn compelling. Gives me that Draw My Life vibe, and it really held my attention throughout.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Corey Holmes Amazing and thanks, Corey!!! Really appreciate your kind words!!
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  • @johnwhite6000
    @johnwhite6000 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Skydiving progression with many opinions about fear from many in the sport at the DZ and online - this one makes the most sense to me and put me over the edge ( no pun intended lol ) tomorrow I will use this to make my jump for the 15th time from 14000 feet - the ultimate test of fear. The first fourteen times I had an instructor at my side - tomorrow I'm on my own. Thank you very much.

  • @neha_srii
    @neha_srii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that's great...I'll try to implement your theory. I hope it'll work. That comfort zone point was so relatable.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep up the awesome work, my friend! -Charlie & Team Optimize
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  • @dalecollins477
    @dalecollins477 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very good stuff thank you.
    I have the opposite problem in that I don't actually feel fear that much in many things. This is a BIG problem for my family who have watched me take the most ridiculous risks, sometimes ending up with me in serious trouble in hospital (and a few of those where my life was saved by medics!). My son has hidden my axe because he doesn't trust me with it since I nearly cut off my finger chopping wood, my daughter has had nightmares because of the stupidly dangerous things I've done (like solo a 1000 foot cliff, or swim down a raging river etc) and my wife has gone for weeks without talking to me because she really ends up picking up the pieces when I fail - which has been often.
    I have to remind myself each time I want to do something not to do it because its so selfish and dangerous. Its not big or clever to have less fear. Fear is the sign that gets held up to you by your subconsciousness to say "have you really thought this through?" before doing something and it should be respected and balanced.
    I don't want my wife and kids to grow up without me or looking after me following an awful accident.
    I do love this video though and I think fear (for most people) does hold them back from even mundane things and it must be breached as described to achieve goals.
    Final thought from one who has gone way too far sometimes. Going to extremes and crashing out in some self created dreadful situation leaves you mentally less capable. It damages your mind and gives you phobias. I can no longer go surfing in big seas because of being swept away one evening by rip currents in the dark with no one around or knowing where I was. I regret doing that because now the sea scares the crap out of me and I can only surf small breaks. So its not true that"What doesn't kill us makes us stronger" I'd say its more like "What doesn't Break us makes us stronger"
    Please don't judge me, because I genuinely try not to do dangerous things (for the sake of my family and friends). Its a conscious effort to draw back each time.

  • @djs1258
    @djs1258 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was really nice 1... Loved the excitement that you share while explaining ... Keep going ... waiting to watch more such excitements.....!!!!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jaya shanker Thanks, Jaya! I appreciate your kind words and I'm excited to share all that's in store! :)

  • @anantheeswaran
    @anantheeswaran 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you buddy. Your presentation was awesome.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anantheeswaran Iyer I appreciate your kind words! :)

  • @Worldcitizenravi
    @Worldcitizenravi 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep up the outstanding work.

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Ravi Prakash Thank you, Ravi!
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  • @LesiureBoy
    @LesiureBoy 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been battling fear to the point where it has literally paralyzed me and your video has helped me to understand that I'm not alone and how to work pass my fear barrier. You're awesome Brian. Thank you.

  • @victorleon8874
    @victorleon8874 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw your video last night anticipating having to make a hard dissension the next day and fear always play a part. I used your 30 sec plan. it made the process some much easier... Thank you Brian for your insight I am reminded of a bible ver in Romans 12:2 "be transform by the renewing of your mind".

  • @yellowhair03
    @yellowhair03 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    i think i've been needing to hear this for a long time! thank you!

  • @michelledupreez7130
    @michelledupreez7130 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you - Changed my day - Awesome !

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michelle du Preez Right on!! Thrilled to hear and thanks for sharing, Michelle! Made the start of my day even better! :)

  • @DaroldDOuglas59
    @DaroldDOuglas59 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot, this message is very simple but powerful. Great job

  • @WatermelonMoon260
    @WatermelonMoon260 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow! Great video! I like this!! Thanks for taking the time and helping everyone!

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ***** Thank you and my absolute pleasure! :)

  • @fairyelfin
    @fairyelfin 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Brian, this video really helped me today! Many Blessings!

  • @maric2274
    @maric2274 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Brian, thanks a lot. I really appreciate your work and you don't have idea how much your work impact my life. Well done. Keep shining

  • @in2ishun
    @in2ishun 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brian... This changed my day!! This is a great way to see this and I plan on using your explanation to help my wife, son and friends. Thank you! I'm a subscriber now :-)

  • @rashmitaamancha9377
    @rashmitaamancha9377 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    thats awesome Brian. Its just quick and shows very easily where u are.
    Now I gonna follow it.
    Thank u.

  • @imana1990
    @imana1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your methode of taking note and explaining it

    • @HeroicBrian
      @HeroicBrian  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!:) Zak | Team Optimize
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