Eric has a point, the tone he's using makes it sound toxic, the thing is, there must be a leader in the house, there must be someone who is leading, and showing people the way. Most times it's men, because we normally marry people who are younger than us, people who want to feel secured with you, and people who feel they are comfortable being your support system. Otherwise, you will be in a marriage where people are in "competition."
See you have to lead you old parents and kids there is no need of leading your they are well functioning adult , and if your spouse is not able to lead their self it's your fault that you married someone like that. Marry someone who can take charge of their self
Ukinifungia hivo I just leave and it's good Eric amesema before he dates he gives you an option you either abide or leave...in this case I leave .... suffocation in marriage only leads to depression and unhappy marriages mimi si Kuku ata kuku huwachiliwa jameni .
I think Amerix is right.. women, deep down themselves, know that they need someone to protect and provide for them.. they need an authoritative figure whom they can look up to in their lives.. that's why in most cases, women tend to fall for men who share some traits with their fathers.. from my personal experience, I once found a message from my wife's phone and got mad.. she had to explain and write a message to the guy who I suspected was hitting on her to tell him to stop.. I thought that she would be mad that I was being insecure and not treating her like an adult but alas,,, she was happy to know that I wouldn't want to loose her... So even women who purport to be independent have a man somewhere or wish to find a man who will be above her
If you agree with Amerix on what a man should be like you're more of a baby.. Don't listen to another man telling you what to do. Just be you. I agree with Ras
Wallahi she is your child because you are providing for her I even thought that before Amerix Said It have But It's Either You Change Or Your Perish If you don't want my Kingdom You Can Go✔️
That rasta dude must be have been brought up by a single mum. 🤪😳 The point of my dude with glasses is about leadership in a marriage situation. His argument just flew past rasta man over here. 🙄
The lady was also raped at the age of 15 and faced domestic violence. Just because you cannot stand their point of view so you call them names or put a label on them.
Living according to your spouse's rules means sacrificing your dreams and career , hobbies and skills and one will never be able to speak their mind . Always living in fear so much that one day one will start fearing even their own shadow.
@@pratikshatiwari7011 but whenever there is a group of people or more than one person politic life has to come to play, the question is who is the leader?And the leader as to set or work with some rules. But nyote mkijifanya mnajua hakuna mahali wanaenda
@@kingyuaking your spouse is not group of people. Its just one person . And you and your spouse can lead the together the group of people ( kids , parents , challenges etc)
The dreadhead has an opinion and sounds logical but universe is not logical. We were built different. Anita will find a real man and she will submit follow all the rules like a chicken follow and chalk line
Dating and marrying right makes marriage stress free. If sth doesn't sit right with you, leave before getting into it. To me, marriage is about companionship and friendship, not what Amerix is saying
Eric seems like a narcissist and he encourages men to be the same.... In short this was wrong.. Anita is also a feminist the rasta guy has a point.. Live your life. How does you even start listing to lectures on how to run your marriage..
@@chapatimistress6589Both of you are women, you cannot understand the language of men, you will always side with the feminine man but your marriage will never work with a feminine man.
Huyo jama wa specs, ame tolewa wapi? Siku ata pata mtoi dem, ata nyamaza kimya. Kila mtu yuko na kwao. Two people come together and create their new culture. Budah!
This rasta guy is embarrassing what masculinity really means...... In a marriage u ain't equal and if it was nature would provide a room for sharing pregnancy carrying burden Try and understand your place and leadership will easily follow Eric is right
Someone please give this man the psychological help he so desperately needs to resolve his past trauma - before he inflicts real pain on someone. A dangerous, ill fella
Mtu anaweka dreadi akili inakuwanga kiasi sana
That's an example of one
A very soft boy he is
Uyu Rasta man bana 😂😂😂😂
The rasta guy man. This is actually the situation in the world right now. So tragic
I am watching this again in 2024 and the rastaman hasnt changed at all. A woman with beards
The rasta man ni umama ako nayo🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
A man leads,wife n children follow,it's the basic rule of nature
The rast has been pussified 😂😂😂
Maybe the rasta man put on his dreads just to be clear on his gender😂😂😂
Eric has a point, the tone he's using makes it sound toxic, the thing is, there must be a leader in the house, there must be someone who is leading, and showing people the way. Most times it's men, because we normally marry people who are younger than us, people who want to feel secured with you, and people who feel they are comfortable being your support system. Otherwise, you will be in a marriage where people are in "competition."
See you have to lead you old parents and kids there is no need of leading your they are well functioning adult , and if your spouse is not able to lead their self it's your fault that you married someone like that. Marry someone who can take charge of their self
@@chapatimistress6589 And I would have to be very wary of people who are quick to point out someone as a narcissist.
I like this. Eric has brains
Banah don't be a simp like the rasta fella, unlearn.
That's why the rasta is a rasta... If you know you know😂😂😂
amerix is more ligical💯
Ukinifungia hivo I just leave and it's good Eric amesema before he dates he gives you an option you either abide or leave...in this case I leave .... suffocation in marriage only leads to depression and unhappy marriages mimi si Kuku ata kuku huwachiliwa jameni .
That's why you'll be a single mother
Huyo mwanaume ako sawa,ameongea reality,hongera,
Huyu dem alikuwa wrong choice for marriage topic ya marriage.
Rastaman is definitely a Simp! ☹️
Alafu kuna vile ananikalia kaa ni member wa ile group tuliadamana kukataa...
I think Amerix is right.. women, deep down themselves, know that they need someone to protect and provide for them.. they need an authoritative figure whom they can look up to in their lives.. that's why in most cases, women tend to fall for men who share some traits with their fathers.. from my personal experience, I once found a message from my wife's phone and got mad.. she had to explain and write a message to the guy who I suspected was hitting on her to tell him to stop.. I thought that she would be mad that I was being insecure and not treating her like an adult but alas,,, she was happy to know that I wouldn't want to loose her... So even women who purport to be independent have a man somewhere or wish to find a man who will be above her
If you agree with Amerix on what a man should be like you're more of a baby.. Don't listen to another man telling you what to do. Just be you. I agree with Ras
Exactly , people are different and personalities differ. Thank you for saying this sir.
your lost with that mentality...
There's nothing like just be you..
Leadership is essential but seeing a woman as your child unless you want someone to train from scratch baby steps he he!
Amerix has something to say.
Wallahi she is your child because you are providing for her I even thought that before Amerix Said It have But It's Either You Change Or Your Perish If you don't want my Kingdom You Can Go✔️
My kingdom is my Kingdom. Hii rastaman has been disbanded from been a man
If Ja Lako was in the panel then this would have been more interesting
Amerix is right, Leadership is key in a successful marriage
Rasta zinafaa kua na qualifications Sasa.
Sri mwanaume ku open up heri kukufa😅😅
doktari si ukieka bytes unaattache
link ya full video ndio turevisit hio maneno just in case,,, otherwise viva!!
That rasta dude must be have been brought up by a single mum. 🤪😳 The point of my dude with glasses is about leadership in a marriage situation. His argument just flew past rasta man over here. 🙄
In that case Anita, it will not work, one has to submit. Like za first comments please....
Wrong panelist, there is high chance the lady is a lesbian and the rasta man is more of a woman.
True
The lady was also raped at the age of 15 and faced domestic violence. Just because you cannot stand their point of view so you call them names or put a label on them.
Anita misleads women alot
If you can't live under my rules kaa pekeako
Living according to your spouse's rules means sacrificing your dreams and career , hobbies and skills and one will never be able to speak their mind . Always living in fear so much that one day one will start fearing even their own shadow.
@@pratikshatiwari7011 but whenever there is a group of people or more than one person politic life has to come to play, the question is who is the leader?And the leader as to set or work with some rules. But nyote mkijifanya mnajua hakuna mahali wanaenda
@@kingyuaking your spouse is not group of people. Its just one person . And you and your spouse can lead the together the group of people ( kids , parents , challenges etc)
Wow,love this
Rasta you can win now.
The dreadhead has an opinion and sounds logical but universe is not logical. We were built different. Anita will find a real man and she will submit follow all the rules like a chicken follow and chalk line
Usually, when tbings go wrong, it's a man who gets blamed.
Does the dread guy get layed often ??
Mariga is from punydom
Amerix amee ndevu kwanza.
Toxic masculinity......
Huyu rasta man mko sure ni mwanaume?. Huyu anakaa kukaliwa na bibi ile serious
A perfect definition of a rasta man should speak with a base... Huyu anaongea kama lecturer wangu wa communication skills😂😂😂
Huyo Rasta ni Kama si a straight man
Dating and marrying right makes marriage stress free. If sth doesn't sit right with you, leave before getting into it. To me, marriage is about companionship and friendship, not what Amerix is saying
Eric seems like a narcissist and he encourages men to be the same.... In short this was wrong.. Anita is also a feminist the rasta guy has a point.. Live your life. How does you even start listing to lectures on how to run your marriage..
And everyone seems to come at ras, he's actually the one who's points seem to be well thought out.
Only soy men will support this
that Rasta is more feminine than men that cannot be my husband so weak and womanly
@@chapatimistress6589Both of you are women, you cannot understand the language of men, you will always side with the feminine man but your marriage will never work with a feminine man.
Huyu mrasta ni mjinga sana . Feminized man
😂😂😂on point..congrats Dr.K..great show
This Rasta doesn't look like he's a man
He is an absolute beta male
This rasta guy can't comprehend and analyze the point of Amerix
The rastaman though
Huyo jama wa specs, ame tolewa wapi? Siku ata pata mtoi dem, ata nyamaza kimya. Kila mtu yuko na kwao.
Two people come together and create their new culture.
Budah!
Amerix is very right.
The rasta guy is a woman, even the way she is expressing herself.
😂ati the way "she"
That amerix guy thinks he is perfect
Like wtf
Ikr?! 🙄
He is not perfect... He's just a specialist😊
Wrong guests except dr 🚮🚮
Rasta man ni simp ajab..
He 👏 is 👏 so👏 wrong 😩 daaaaamn
Amerix ❌🙅♂️
Amrex at it.
Hii Rasta ni weak man, simp
This rasta guy is embarrassing what masculinity really means...... In a marriage u ain't equal and if it was nature would provide a room for sharing pregnancy carrying burden
Try and understand your place and leadership will easily follow
Eric is right
Someone please give this man the psychological help he so desperately needs to resolve his past trauma - before he inflicts real pain on someone. A dangerous, ill fella
RASTA MAN... UMAMA AND LAMBISTIC AF!!!