Am I a bad parent if I don’t send my child for tuition? | Imperfect by CNA Insider podcast

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  • @josephyeo6966
    @josephyeo6966 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The best tuition and opportunity you can give to your children is your own time, your encouragement and a safe and harmonious home environment. No amount of money or external tuition can buy that or outsource that. I know, parents work hard and cannot find the time or effort to provide the three elements mentioned above, but that is what you sign up for when you decide to have children.

  • @jameswang362
    @jameswang362 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “My father kept telling me that going to school is not only about studying and getting good grades, but instead, education is meant to expand one’s horizons,...
    “My father had never forced me to get an A in my exams, and he said it doesn’t matter if I get a B.”
    ~ Yen Kuok, daughter of Malaysia’s richest man, Robert Kuok

    • @deschan2246
      @deschan2246 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yr comment is relevant only if u hv a father like Robert Kwok, 😂

    • @jameswang362
      @jameswang362 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Des Chan
      Not really. Plenty of people do well in life without As.
      Btw, she had to build her biz on her own.

  • @deschan2246
    @deschan2246 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Such question existence is a reflection of Singapore education system failure.

    • @鲁焚化炉
      @鲁焚化炉 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah ya, still dunno is the KS mentality? Only keep asking about ditching, sign of dementia! 😝

    • @victorvictor4235
      @victorvictor4235 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What did the system do wrongly that they have to send them to tuition?

  • @Chill-Ice
    @Chill-Ice ปีที่แล้ว

    9:09 That how I celebrated my PSLE as well, but I improved my prelims by 100%

  • @ShariSGP
    @ShariSGP ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i have 3 sons and none of them had tuition. I could not afford it - single income supporting 2 households. My eldest graduated from SIM U and is now an auditor. My second son topped his JC and got a full scholarship at NTU. He is now a computer engineer. My youngest studied at Curtin Uni in Perth Australia. He is now a physiotherapist, currently working in Perth on a work permit. No, I don't think tuition is a necessary. The children can actually manage and devvelop well on their own.

    • @cholesterol804
      @cholesterol804 ปีที่แล้ว

      Their father?

    • @Buttercookies0
      @Buttercookies0 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unlike the past, nowadays there are more distractions. Actually, by looking at the child's school results and his attitude towards his study, one should be able to know whether the child needs tuition or not. Is that a difficult question?

    • @tankman20064
      @tankman20064 ปีที่แล้ว

      The father quietly give money😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @rayngmelb
    @rayngmelb ปีที่แล้ว +1

    To frame a child to a certain stream, so young, is so wrong, they don’t do it in the West and their kids still does well at the top Universities around the world.

  • @kongphirom
    @kongphirom ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank for your share my friend !!

  • @KarunanithiNRamachandran
    @KarunanithiNRamachandran ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't think tuition is necessary for all children , not esp. if the child is intelligent and self disciplined .
    They will be able to learn on their own through the internet which I didn't have when I was schooling but was unable to further my studies because my family couldn't afford it and it wasn't as easy as now to get scholarships or student loans .
    Children nowadays are so mollycoddled and yet don't amount to anything , esp. when it comes to civil and social responsibility .

  • @godsamazinggrace5331
    @godsamazinggrace5331 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A good parent will build child's character
    Not giving tuition to serve academic challenges

  • @鲁焚化炉
    @鲁焚化炉 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Depends. Some may need extra help to catch up on certain subjects.

    • @lamjianyuan
      @lamjianyuan ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thats easy for you to say uncle...how much are you earning per month? How many children do you have that are still studying?

    • @鲁焚化炉
      @鲁焚化炉 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lamjianyuan What so difficult for you, ah pek?! 😝

    • @lamjianyuan
      @lamjianyuan ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@鲁焚化炉 its very EASYYY to say, just like the pap and lw, which have done NOTHING for singaporeans, after years...

    • @鲁焚化炉
      @鲁焚化炉 ปีที่แล้ว

      Typical mess up own life ah pek's mentality.
      Whereas, our recent gathering, we are discussing buying another property or upgrading to a bigger property before we reach 50. 😝

  • @godsamazinggrace5331
    @godsamazinggrace5331 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you afford tuition??
    Don't just join the crowd!!

  • @godsamazinggrace5331
    @godsamazinggrace5331 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Does your child needs tuition??

  • @ttkoh123
    @ttkoh123 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Definitely bad if you continue to do wrong in 2025. Is not the tuition per se, is the bleak opportunity ahead.

  • @tankman20064
    @tankman20064 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No money give what😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MonsterBoy-q7y
    @MonsterBoy-q7y ปีที่แล้ว

    No. Don't waste money on forcing your children to do something that they will hate you for. Instead put it in an investment account and when they are older, you got the money to pay for Poly or Uni.

  • @Ennnn.jenn.
    @Ennnn.jenn. ปีที่แล้ว

    My parents dun send me to Tution n im still doing fine 😂 they teach me

  • @cholesterol804
    @cholesterol804 ปีที่แล้ว

    What makes a good parent? Would it be better to make kids skip college and just spend tuition on getting their own flat?

  • @fiveparticles
    @fiveparticles ปีที่แล้ว

    This is an outdated form to develop intelligence 😂

  • @godsamazinggrace5331
    @godsamazinggrace5331 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guilt tripping parents
    Don't be fooled
    Bad parent just because didn't give child tuition??
    Lame definition

  • @hutanchew9250
    @hutanchew9250 ปีที่แล้ว

    Indian said The Loser Family

  • @adrishassan-yk1xl
    @adrishassan-yk1xl ปีที่แล้ว

    Acose.de.vous.je.block.moi.je.aime.pas.le.secsy..non.je.aréte.vous.voire.vous.fait.quoi.le.midia

  • @mrtienphysics666
    @mrtienphysics666 ปีที่แล้ว

    if you dont invest in tuition, how can your kid get good grades and good jobs to earn the salary to pay you stipends when they grow up?
    Tuition is good return in investment,

  • @minhsun5441
    @minhsun5441 ปีที่แล้ว

    The British never taugh Singapore, Hong Kong, Malaysia to develop young generation playing sport like Australia, Canada, New Zealand . Why ? Sport will bring people all walks of life united together heart and soul for the country and it hard to control them . They taugh Australian playing sport and united against Asian and China. They dont even allow Singaporean migrate to Australia like hundred of thousand of Vietnamese.Thousand of Singaporean have to retire and give 6 figure salary job to Australian and British . I am so sorry Singaporean, nothing we can do for you. We can defeat the French and American, what chance British and Australian in Viet nam? No chance at all , The British empire collapse already, they just hang in there for left over. " curry flavour" we can speak your language very well, you be surprise kids

  • @lamjianyuan
    @lamjianyuan ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It has already been so many years, it has already been 40+ years, what has the pap and lhl done for singaporeans?

    • @鲁焚化炉
      @鲁焚化炉 ปีที่แล้ว

      Always asking the same question, sign of dementia!😝

    • @lamjianyuan
      @lamjianyuan ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@鲁焚化炉 its not sign of dementia. the truth is the pap sucks and even some rich people also dont support the pap.

    • @鲁焚化炉
      @鲁焚化炉 ปีที่แล้ว

      Healthy minds, by now, know how to follow the progression of Singapore to work toward better lives. On the other hand, those who thought that sitting back doing nothing can also enjoy prosperity, their brains should have been malfunctioning!😝