You cannot convince me that women who cause chaos are not malicious. There are plenty of women who don’t operate this way. If she’s creating drama in her life, it’s because she’s empty. That’s her responsibility. Not yours.
The only women who don't cause chaos and emotional upheaval/drama are the butch masculine type of broads that you go for a pint with. If she's feminine then she's chaotic. It's just how it is.
@ Sorry Howie, too much to unwrap for your attempt at baiting and shaming. Best to keep to your bounce castle of echoing validation. You might actually get a legacy out of it. Lol!
The judge of a real man is walking away from that narcissistic behavior. Value yourself boys, Don't base value off of these women. Be stoic, be brave, be Kings 👑
@@thebes83 the irony is that if they are set on playing mind games, they'll usually discard you once they realise your trying to play them. The sex will be absolutely crazy for a while though. You just have to accept it for what it is that it's just one big false role play.
Yes they get bored easily enough, but when a man works and gives her all the fruits of his labor and she dumps him "just because" the real academy award drama happens when our "courts" do her chaos bidding and rob the man through enforcing alimony and child support, and taking the house on top of everything else. Happened to me 5 yrs ago, and its been exciting all right, paying the divorce attorney thousands and later her in child support has been really thrilling. Marriage is dead guys, its not what our fathers and their father knew, today its just a way for women to legally rob you whenever they want to flip the script, and the state is behind them all the way. You young guys out there, this can easily, in fact more likely than not, happen to you. Keep your wealth to yourself and avoid marriage!
@@rjsimpkins2911 yes and they use that awful tool against the man an it forever ruins many relationships between a dad and his kid. there must be a special place in hell for people that use their kids as pawns in a divorce war, my ex made my kids turn agaisnt me in court and lie, lie, lie! using children like this is disgusting and yet very common!
The state makes money off them and sepersting families also increases demand for property which inflates prices. Its a disgrace and i assume that's why women are so protected from accountability.
There's absolutely NO reason to take on an adult dependent, especially when they can just pull the plug on your relationship & run off with your wealth
To me as a man, I look for peace, tranquillity. This would be EXHAUSTING to me. This doesn't match with how I want to live my life. Probably why I've never been married.
Same here, I crave quiet and peace, happiness, contentedness. I don't respond well when this is interrupted, men usually show who they are very quickly, via bullishness, arrogance, over friendliness etc, women are expert at wearing masks, 3 months usually before the mask starts to slip.
Women are not made for a long-term relationship. Marriage is just for children. Then they divorced and go back to the streets with assets. Then, look for another sucker for a retirement plan.
Women let the alpha hit them and abuse them. If a beta male hits a woman she will call the cops on him. I can’t be with women they are extremely toxic. They only thrive in a world of koas. I thrive in a world of peace and quit. It’s like women are demonic creatures sent from hell to destroy mankind. Sometimes all I want to do is just get rich and be my self forever
DO NOT GET MARRIED...EVER. DON'T DO IT. My marriage cost me 23 years, the worst heartache that I've ever experienced, and 560,000 dollars in 1999. Don't get married. They're all crazy.
Same but not as much money involved. It’s the heartache that is most costly for me. It’s a pain that is like no other & it’s been two years & sometimes I wonder if it ever gets better?
Millions of men have had their hard earned families, homes, legacies, and lifestyle destroyed over these emotional beaches! In 2024, you've gotta be a special kinda crazy to get married. Save yourself young men.
So, what you are saying is, when we define a "cavewoman" behavior (creating emotional stimulation), you conclude that "it's the way it is" and we can't do anything about it. But when we define a "caveman" behavior (violence), then men must learn to master it and sublime it into something else. Why the double standard?
After 28 yrs as a street cop I have to agree with 80% of this. I've had many long talks with women that have been mistreated as well as those that had great mates. Finally a prostitute explained it to me in terms I could understand. A woman needs to be kept off balance in any relationship. The reason she was a whore was because she was being punished for back talking her husband. He used the beating until over the years, she just laid there and took it. Then he stepped up his game. Taking her to alleys and making her do oral sex on drunks and he kept the money. As time progressed he would smack her around,( never on the face) and send her out to make rent money. Putting her out until she could pay all the rent, then he raised it to food and utilities. When she was out for a couple of weeks he moved her friend in so he still had a piece at home. You might laugh but they were together for 20 years last I saw her. She said she could not stand her life but loved him deeply. The man was an artist at relationships.
My grandma is 89 years old and is a very strong willed, yet stubborn woman who is an amazing person yet she constantly buys into scams and no one can tell her different. Family, the police, etc. She still thinks there is a box with a million dollars sitting in customs and she just needs to send $20k to get it. I think she knows better but the story is exciting and she can't get it out of her head. The lesson is that all women are susceptible to this chaos, not just some.
I knew a woman this happened to and I think a lot of women (if not most) believe they are destined for something better. This lady in particular had a shitty life, so OF COURSE she is supposed to meet a Nigerian prince, “Finally my real life can start” because being a 45 year old check-out lady at Wal-Mart obviously is not the life I’m supposed to live. Not saying that is your Gramdma. But it’s pretty sad. I see dudes take advantage of women in dating all the time, they know what these females want and pretend to be it. Because “I finally found the man I’m SUPPOSED to be with, he runs his own Engineering Firm”, a month later come to find out he’s unemployed at 30 and lives with his mom.
So, hang on... what you're effectively saying here is that women will create chaos and drama in your life, because they're bored, but it's the guys' fault if things go south... The majority of men just want peace and stability... and women tell men all the time that that's also what THEY want, so how are men expected to navigate this childish, irrational behaviour, especially when it often translates into infidelity? More importantly, WHY should they be expected to? Women should be taught to be aware of it and the consequences, and learn how to deal with it. Come on, dude... you're blaming the failure on the guys? jeez.
This notion of women having these emotional needs is a lesson for WOMEN, and it's a WOMAN's responsibility to adapt this aspect of her psyche to the modern world.
So true. I've experienced this at least twice so far. Whenever I felt that everything was going so smooth for a long period of time, I stopped to acknowledge how nice and peaceful things were, the very next thing that happened was chaos. She turned everything upside-down.
I've said this, online, for years and years. You can do a hell of a lot to a woman and she will put up with it. But you CANNOT bore her. She will drop you in a second, if you do.
This video explains not only divorces and bad boy privilege, but also all the Karens ruining the day of service workers! They are bored and bring chaos to the stores! Often making their husbands have to deal with the consequences of their awful behavior!
God instructs women to submit to their husbands and stay silent. This is for their own good, the good of their husband, and the good of their children. It is the woman's responsibility to grow up, not her husband's to enable her childish behavior.
Submission to a good, hard working man is literally the only thing that will save women from their own chaotic nature. Sometimes life is boring. Grow the fuck up, accept that, and be appreciative of stability sometimes.
Knew a couple together for 5 years. They get engaged. Then she broke it off because she “just didn’t like him” out of nowhere . Sucks for that dude I guess
She already knew what the issue was, but held on to it like an ace up her sleeve and ended the game. Definitely wasn't out of nowhere. She had her eyes on something or was waiting for something else to come along. Women do not stay with men for 5 years unless they truly like the guy, or they're using him for stability/money, no exceptions.
"this doesn't mean you should intentionally create chaos or treat women poorly" Now to many videos that i watched are talking about the same thing, plus i do have a past relationship where i delt with the women too softly to have her then merrying someone else, i think i will try my chances with treating them poorly
What I've found over the years that they really love a well mannered bad boy. You need to set solid boundaries with real consequences with her. And you need to be bold and confident. You need her to fully understand that you will dump her in a moments notice. You need to be firm but fun but incredibly selfish. YOU ALWAYS COME FIRST.
Best way to spot these types of women out is to flip the script. Show them a little weakness a little bit more and more over enough time right at the beginning and they'll show you who they really are in short time. Once you're happy you've seen enough ask directly what they want out of the relationship. The way they answer will tell you genuinely more about their personality than a hundred dates ever could. Sometimes you have to use their own tests against them if you want to find a good woman.
Yeaaah, I start to understand why so many men are choosing to be single. And why my wife wants to leave me for another man - adventurer without family despite we have two children together. I was too boring for too long and I realize that and now it is different, but too late. Thanks for eye-openening video.
Not true. Yes all of them do it, but to most it's subconsciously. She may not be aware that she's doing it. I call it the bullsht test. Women by nature will pick and probe at a man's metaphorically armour or Frame.
Women don’t need excuses made for them. This is how they are. it kind of sucks but it won’t change, no matter how much you try to fix them or shame them or rage against them. This is them.
1) this is not a secret that has been hidden for centuries. Men did not get smart all of a sudden. 2) this is true what you say of a majority of women. But in minority of women are not like this. I don’t know what the percentages. I don’t know if it’s 15% or 25%. My mother was not like this. And I have two sisters and one of them is not like this. And I’ve known many other women who are not like this But I do agree with you that MOST women are exactly like this. Why some are not, I do not know.
I believe it is like this because of the war on morals and the resulting, moral decay of our country, world really over the last century+ And the last 20years with hand held phones, really is putting this behavior, coming out of most women, over the top, sadly it is, and always be, a hard knock life for these women, until they wake up, if they ever wake up, humans love to be creatures of habits both good and bad one's ?
@ Maybe. Maturity assumes a natural progression, but I think there’s a spiritual component here, as well, and one doesn’t become a good person naturally, anymore than a monkey becomes a man, or a fish becomes a monkey, given enough time.
I don't mean to take away from your personal experience because that is your reality, but being a family member and being in a relationship is different, ask your father how it's been like to be with your mother and you might hear a different story - same for your sisters with their exes... You see them as siblings, not romantically (Unless you're from Alabama xD)
This only confirmed what i already knew for years. Im a guy, but i understand their need for thrill and excitement. Unpredictability is a magnet for such.
At best, even the "good" women will point out problems and raise things to people's attention. At worst, they are the ones making things worse or starting the problem in the first place. It's actually the exception for women to be the problem solver/diplomat outside of issues with children.
Just be willing to walk away at anytime And make sure she is aware of your willingness to walk away even if you have to remind her every so often Do that and never change and she'll be happy with you forever
Nah, they'll still cheat, they're always looking for an upgrade - there's always someone approaching her that's taller, or better looking, or a bigger wallet - even if he's just wanting a pumpNdump, she'll think she can hook him. She'll go through several guys like this, and you'll never know.
Yes, don't let her get to comfortable or thinking she's in an iron clad permanent position of stability. Remind her that being highly disrespectful, ungrateful, and rude can send her back to the streets at any moment.
Don’t listen to this convoluted garbage. Either your girlfriend behaves or you dump her and go to the next one who doesn’t cause drama. You’re not on this earth to waste your time and put up with idiots.
Looking back at my height of self centeredness, which I like to call my "D-bag" stage, women couldnt get enough of me. Now that Im heart centered, women run rough shot on me. This info puts the whole masculine and feminine dynamic into perspective. Being stagnant isnt beneficial to evolution, but unbridled hypergomy will cause complete destruction. Thank you for this insight!
EVERY time this has happened to me I have offered the girl 6.25" of "emotional stimulation." They ALL looked at me like they couldn't believe I said that. The girls who took my offer lasted longer than those who did not.
I worked in a nursing home before the pandemic. I saw older woman who had access to plenty of Wealth and resources just become feral dogs just out of sheer boredom! I always thought it was some sort of dementia or other medical problems. You video has opened up my mind that fact that it could be something else.
Most of these videos highlight the symptoms but not the cause. It is not just a need for chaos but a deeper psychological complex involving the Animus possession causing the masculine side of a woman to sabotage her need for a relationship. When women are possessed by the Animus it causes them to have irrational opinions. Basically, the masculine side of a woman wants to keep hold of her and not give her to 'another' man.
Probably one of the only intelligent men in this comment section. Sadly, most men beat themselves up because they are poorly lacking understanding deeper psychological issues that dictate our behaviours. Good day brother!
@@twotonrhinottr2877 Birth control is more a hormonal problem, not psychological. When women are on birth control they go for more feminine men because their hormones are suppressed and thus their desire for masculine men with it.
@@DoneManyThingsVery true. But perhaps my question failed to highlight the abundance of elevated testosterone levels now dominating the females decision-making process, thus giving credence to the theory you highlighted in your original post.
Tony Robbins teaches about fundamental psychological needs that humans have. Two of them are the need for stability and the need for instability (i.e., variety).
Outstanding insight of female psychological profile. Succinct and profound. Well done! Every man MUST listen to this every day until he knows it by heart. Follow this to avoid major problems in life and thrive.
AI is awesome. Pieces of the puzzle coming together. Once you see, you can never unsee. Women are from mars, men are from venus, they had it backwards all the time.
Good points, really. I think this plays out rough in modern marriage as we all live longer and the boredom cycle hits women with several decades left of life rather than mere years, just a working theory. I apply this in dating now, never chase, rarely compliment and let her beat a path to MY door, then nonchalantly invite her in with a cool calmness, when her emotions rage from this, one soothes and placates repeating the cycle as needed. Distance and minor care up to the brink of meltdown keeps them excited.
This is not something rediscovered or that has been buried for a century or centuries. I heard several people mention it but miss the forest through the tree. Truly, the topic of discussion is hitting the nail on the head, but several people have also done the same. I know a lot of people don't like him, but Jordan Peterson, Before the Fall, had mentioned it a few times. "Women represent chaos while men represent order" paraphrasing but essentially the same.
i wonder if the boredom is evolutions way of getting a woman to leave an infertile (we simulate infertility with birth control now) man. back in the day women always had a baby on the hip and one in the belly until menopause. my grandmother was pregnant 13 times. every year a woman is not pregnant is a threat to the species as we are seeing now with our declining populations.
This is something i was already aware of and have experienced personally. Really great overview of female nature. My ex was the most eye opening example. When i didn't give a fuck, we would be having a ton of sex. She would want to make time to see me. Fast forward. I got the feels. Things got more predictable. She began getting distant. Doing random activities. Picking up new hobbies. Dressing differently. Suddenly it was up to me to arrange time together. She became bitchy and hostile most of the time. I really dont think the juice is worth the squeeze. I dont want to be thinking about balancing stability with chaos in a relationship. Its extra shit for me to consider.
the more I hear your videos, the more I think animals act out of instinct, and that is because low order animals only have enough brains to act out of instinct, which are pre-programmed routines and subroutines, so now more and more I compare women to that, that I've commented before.
The key is pursue your goals and spinplates. No need to travel your lady, spend time with dates. The competition and dessirability of other women will handle that. Plain and simple.
Though I agree with much of what you have to say in this video, you simply must do some fact-checking before you publish it. Helen of Troy was not married to Vlenice---whoever that might be? She was married to Agamemnon's brother, Menelaus. Also, in Shakespeare's play, Othello, it is NOT dominated by "women of chaos"---rather, it's the men who are chaotic: Othello's passion and insecurity and Iago's narcissistic machinations drive the plot and create the turmoil. The woman--Desdamona and Amelia are icons of stability and rationality. So, that being said, yes there are plenty of examples of the chaotic feminine archetype and its various manifestations.
I think the reason women are more emotional is more likely that since they have always raised the children while men were off facing death, they adapted childish behaviors and reactivity.
Quality women exist… they are 💎 in the roughest locations of the world. They are everywhere just not as many as the majority of 🗑️ women. It’s about the quality of a woman not the quantity of women.
Honestly as a Male, I did to had a similar craving for emotional stimulation when things become too dull, I honestly integrated that by enjoying indulging into anime, manga, videogames as well as partake in digital art. I am not really interested in relationships at all since I could already care for myself and feel whole as a person. But I could recommend other guys women who enjoy anime, manga, and video games are even more of a prize, since they're likely the most emotionally stable.
I think it's more simple than that. The ones that did not fight back, were bred. The ones that fought back are dead. This also helps explain their diminutive stature.
I was married for 22 years, the first 10 years were ok. Then shit hit the fan, and we fought over nothing for the rest of the marriage. Nothing will satisfy her until she started going to the bar. Now she is a totally different person. She’s drunk from 10am on every day. Women want multiple men to control, or men who control her. It’s exhausting, I always wondered why I would she an old couple. And the man was sitting and shaking his head. While the woman was hitting him with a rolled up newspaper. If I could go back with what I know now I might stand a chance. But your best bet is to fallow the three F’s rule. Find them, Fuck them, and Forget them. This is how you keep your sanity.
Well, that's it, then. I'm not that wild and crazy "fun guy" - I'm literal, pensive, conscientious, etc. I have no doubt that if I had gotten married, I'd be divorced by now. A shame, really. I really wanted that comfortable family life. I'm 55 now, and on the verge of retiring. Looking ahead to when I'm on the verge of dying, I expect I'll be thinking, "Gee, what was the point of all that? All that effort, work, sacrifice?"
Im fifteen years ahead of you. I keep my time occupied looking after my house and investments. The rest is hobbies and internet learning not just surfing. Gotta keep busy as a single person.
I'm there now...just like you are. Im just now learning (and it's a new learning experience I'm not use to) to be selfish with myself for the first time in my life. Stay active, work on my house, my small metal shop and love my family and friends. Do a little traveling. Got my guitar and will get 2 dogs on my first day of retirement.... I don't have time, patience or years of life left for chaos or drama anymore. Kind of sad, but now I need to enjoy the fruits of my labor. Hope you guys do too.
I guess I'm just a boring responsible guy who just works and pays bills. Must be the reason women never seemed to like me. I'm 64 and nowdays I'd rather have the money and the freedom without a dysfunctional woman around.
I'm 49, I was always earnest in relationships, "a good guy", although i feel a few females may disagree that point. I've noticed that when you don't give them any assurances, in fact just want something casual, they become addicted,, if you are your genuine decent, hardworking and loyal self, they treat you like shit and with contempt. I don't want a relationship where I have to be a dick to get some peace or keep her interested frankly. So, my tools, my dog, my bus, my small but loyal group of friends, I'm good!! I'll die alone if it means I lived a happy life beforehand!!
Some guy listening to this video w/ little to no previous experience with women may walk away from this thinking it's all us being useful, successful, emotionally strong, not a pushover and we should be so lucky if we do a good job of generally being a man that they will then like us.... AND AS FOR THEM?!..... It's a two-way street y'all. Don't lose sight of that. How are they gonna get the best we can be and we not gonna get nothing of value from them, too? And just having them physically doesn't count because they would be also having us as well in that regard.
Interesting, and explains a lot about female decision making, eg when they ask for advice and you tell them what you would do in similar circumstances (never say 'you should' to anyone!), maybe giving a few alternatives, and pros and cons of each, you find she's made a completely different decision, with a more chaotic result. What we need is the equivalent of a cat toy, like the laser pointer, that the cat likes to chase? It makes sense when women get involved with con artists. They must be getting the same data as sceptics, but processing it as stimulus vs red flags!
Interesting. Gonna give this some more thought -and this is coming from and older guy. Partially explains why I never wanted to get married. I was shocked one day in the lunchroom when 5 male coworkers agreed that they would not want to get married again.
Let me save you 14 minutes.. This guy stretched a 10 second message into a 14 minute video, that is impressive and time-wasting at the same time... The message is : "Women need security and stability, but you should rock the boat from time to time because they hate boredom and will create drama if they're not emotionally stimulated enough - be it through cheating, causing unnecessary drama or starting fights" Thank me later
Get your boy to stalk her under a fake screen name, and then stage a Jake Paul vs Tyson style fake fight in which you book yourself to win... She'll love it!
How tedious.... ill guess that eons of war and struggle have developed men that want peace and love? What a fn problem to have we want completely different things. No wonder this is so damn difficult
My wife is close to leaving me and I couldn't figure out why. This all makes sense now. We have a 2 year old and it's been hard to keep things exciting.
Don't let her alienate your child against you. Also look for hypergamy, as she may be looking for the bigger and better deal. You may just be her starter husband.
Once she has a child, things usually change and her attitude towards you will go sour, now that she has fulfilled her biological urge. I've seen it endless times.
This is kind of dumb because there are a lot of woman that are smarter than this. You can be chill af no chaos needed and keep a woman. Just choose a smarter mate. This chaos mentality only leads to hard core s&m kinks, grape kinks and dumb manipulative mind games that will only hurt people who just want to love.
Every married man knows this well! Haha if things are going well there will be some kind of soap opera drama instigated… like she will find you too nice to some women and accuse you of cheating or she will say that you forgot something and explain to you that it means you don’t care about her truly and silent treatment will start or you will fight until she feels like you care about her and then there will be passionate makeup period with good sex and romance… and as the guy I start to just expect that she is doing this to make life less boring? I guess that’s the appeal of drama shows to women?
It is totally hardcore mode to not break when you are with a girl and you feel weak and then she hit you with something that you dont want to do and stay cool
Take everything from a man, he’ll find a way to be at peace. Give everything to a woman, she’ll find a way to be unhappy.
Just stay single, i already have a job, dont need another one.
Like I said through out my life: I have politics all day at work. I don’t want to come home and put up with more politics.
Both very well said!!
Yea after the last few women figured I'd wait until retirement to get married
Couldn't have said it better.
Amen I work two jobs I don’t have time to deal with her mind games
You cannot convince me that women who cause chaos are not malicious. There are plenty of women who don’t operate this way. If she’s creating drama in her life, it’s because she’s empty. That’s her responsibility. Not yours.
Heh, "Plenty" of them, huh? Ok, enjoy getting fleeced by that unicorn 😂
Uploaded doesn’t understand the concept of demonic.
Women who listen to their thoughts (which are lies btw) are demonic and evil
Never saw women who operates differently. Do you know how to find them?
I would love to find one
The wheat and the tares, the goat and the sheep.
The only women who don't cause chaos and emotional upheaval/drama are the butch masculine type of broads that you go for a pint with.
If she's feminine then she's chaotic. It's just how it is.
You’re correct but it’s disgusting. A man is expected to maintain infrastructure, be defender and be a jester for a mad tyrant.
Says who? Why are you listening to those people?
@ Sorry Howie, too much to unwrap for your attempt at baiting and shaming. Best to keep to your bounce castle of echoing validation. You might actually get a legacy out of it. Lol!
But they hate men😮
💯This is spot on... Cracked up, the second I read it. Crazy thing is, back to the fray I go! Equally, disgusting...
They are insurgents.
The judge of a real man is walking away from that narcissistic behavior. Value yourself boys, Don't base value off of these women. Be stoic, be brave, be Kings 👑
Finally some useful advice. Not this nonsense of jumping through hoops to be more attractive to 304s
Drizzle Drizzle
Absolutely. Why not have a little fun first though right 😂
Just never ever catch feelings. Balls in your court fellas.
@@0TheLastLoneWolf I feel you bro that's a fact but depends on the crazy/hotness ratio.
@@thebes83 the irony is that if they are set on playing mind games, they'll usually discard you once they realise your trying to play them.
The sex will be absolutely crazy for a while though.
You just have to accept it for what it is that it's just one big false role play.
Yes they get bored easily enough, but when a man works and gives her all the fruits of his labor and she dumps him "just because" the real academy award drama happens when our "courts" do her chaos bidding and rob the man through enforcing alimony and child support, and taking the house on top of everything else. Happened to me 5 yrs ago, and its been exciting all right, paying the divorce attorney thousands and later her in child support has been really thrilling. Marriage is dead guys, its not what our fathers and their father knew, today its just a way for women to legally rob you whenever they want to flip the script, and the state is behind them all the way. You young guys out there, this can easily, in fact more likely than not, happen to you. Keep your wealth to yourself and avoid marriage!
The only thing you left out was the Parental Alienation, which is where she hates you enough that she teaches the children to hate too.
@@rjsimpkins2911 yes and they use that awful tool against the man an it forever ruins many relationships between a dad and his kid. there must be a special place in hell for people that use their kids as pawns in a divorce war, my ex made my kids turn agaisnt me in court and lie, lie, lie! using children like this is disgusting and yet very common!
The state makes money off them and sepersting families also increases demand for property which inflates prices.
Its a disgrace and i assume that's why women are so protected from accountability.
There's absolutely NO reason to take on an adult dependent, especially when they can just pull the plug on your relationship & run off with your wealth
@@rjsimpkins2911in Winchester Virginia. The women dress the boys like girls...and give the kids head meds.very sad..I have names....ect
To me as a man, I look for peace, tranquillity. This would be EXHAUSTING to me. This doesn't match with how I want to live my life. Probably why I've never been married.
Unmmm, yeah, too much work for too little reward. She’s not yours, just your turn.
Same here, I crave quiet and peace, happiness, contentedness. I don't respond well when this is interrupted, men usually show who they are very quickly, via bullishness, arrogance, over friendliness etc, women are expert at wearing masks, 3 months usually before the mask starts to slip.
God bless you 🙏
Women are not made for a long-term relationship. Marriage is just for children.
Then they divorced and go back to the streets with assets. Then, look for another sucker for a retirement plan.
Women let the alpha hit them and abuse them. If a beta male hits a woman she will call the cops on him. I can’t be with women they are extremely toxic. They only thrive in a world of koas. I thrive in a world of peace and quit. It’s like women are demonic creatures sent from hell to destroy mankind. Sometimes all I want to do is just get rich and be my self forever
DO NOT GET MARRIED...EVER. DON'T DO IT.
My marriage cost me 23 years, the worst heartache that I've ever experienced, and 560,000 dollars in 1999. Don't get married. They're all crazy.
Same but not as much money involved.
It’s the heartache that is most costly for me. It’s a pain that is like no other & it’s been two years & sometimes I wonder if it ever gets better?
😂
A re you still paying the debts of it?
Millions of men have had their hard earned families, homes, legacies, and lifestyle destroyed over these emotional beaches! In 2024, you've gotta be a special kinda crazy to get married. Save yourself young men.
@@Ur2ez4me81your marriage definately needs prayer, and I will pray for yours.
Said this yesterday.All their decisions are fear based. They love drama...it will never change....
I noticed this a few years back. All the more reason for them to submit to good men.
So, what you are saying is, when we define a "cavewoman" behavior (creating emotional stimulation), you conclude that "it's the way it is" and we can't do anything about it. But when we define a "caveman" behavior (violence), then men must learn to master it and sublime it into something else. Why the double standard?
So women want stability and chaos at the same time? Insane
They will create the chaos to achieve order…
People are mad by nature
Alternatively, not at the same time. Based on alternative moods. Cat type behaviour.
Men are similar, except that the amplitude of the oscillations aren't so ridiculous and obvious .
@@cristig243 I would say men do it too, but by other means, like sports and war.
it already written... eve eat the forbidden fruit and create chaos.... she so talented to create chaos from the beginning
Women(Eve) were the first to be deceived. They are much easier to deceive.
After 28 yrs as a street cop I have to agree with 80% of this. I've had many long talks with women that have been mistreated as well as those that had great mates.
Finally a prostitute explained it to me in terms I could understand.
A woman needs to be kept off balance in any relationship. The reason she was a whore was because she was being punished for back talking her husband. He used the beating until over the years, she just laid there and took it. Then he stepped up his game. Taking her to alleys and making her do oral sex on drunks and he kept the money. As time progressed he would smack her around,( never on the face) and send her out to make rent money. Putting her out until she could pay all the rent, then he raised it to food and utilities. When she was out for a couple of weeks he moved her friend in so he still had a piece at home.
You might laugh but they were together for 20 years last I saw her.
She said she could not stand her life but loved him deeply.
The man was an artist at relationships.
That story gets A LOT of women wet. I'm not even joking
what the…hard to imagine that😢😅
The bigger the Goon the more women love him. It's so weird but it's like they love to be abused and used by such losers.
That's disgusting. Better to live alone than sink to that level of filth.
This cannot be true!
My grandma is 89 years old and is a very strong willed, yet stubborn woman who is an amazing person yet she constantly buys into scams and no one can tell her different. Family, the police, etc. She still thinks there is a box with a million dollars sitting in customs and she just needs to send $20k to get it. I think she knows better but the story is exciting and she can't get it out of her head.
The lesson is that all women are susceptible to this chaos, not just some.
I knew a woman this happened to and I think a lot of women (if not most) believe they are destined for something better. This lady in particular had a shitty life, so OF COURSE she is supposed to meet a Nigerian prince, “Finally my real life can start” because being a 45 year old check-out lady at Wal-Mart obviously is not the life I’m supposed to live. Not saying that is your Gramdma. But it’s pretty sad.
I see dudes take advantage of women in dating all the time, they know what these females want and pretend to be it. Because “I finally found the man I’m SUPPOSED to be with, he runs his own Engineering Firm”, a month later come to find out he’s unemployed at 30 and lives with his mom.
They are fricken crazy. Period.
All women are crazy, men have been saying that for generations.
Hear, hear
And get crazier the older they get.
So, hang on... what you're effectively saying here is that women will create chaos and drama in your life, because they're bored, but it's the guys' fault if things go south...
The majority of men just want peace and stability... and women tell men all the time that that's also what THEY want, so how are men expected to navigate this childish, irrational behaviour, especially when it often translates into infidelity?
More importantly, WHY should they be expected to? Women should be taught to be aware of it and the consequences, and learn how to deal with it.
Come on, dude... you're blaming the failure on the guys? jeez.
Exactly. Thank you.
This notion of women having these emotional needs is a lesson for WOMEN, and it's a WOMAN's responsibility to adapt this aspect of her psyche to the modern world.
So true. I've experienced this at least twice so far. Whenever I felt that everything was going so smooth for a long period of time, I stopped to acknowledge how nice and peaceful things were, the very next thing that happened was chaos. She turned everything upside-down.
Drizzle, drizzle, kings - you DESERVE the best, not agents of Kaos 👑
I've said this, online, for years and years. You can do a hell of a lot to a woman and she will put up with it. But you CANNOT bore her. She will drop you in a second, if you do.
This video explains not only divorces and bad boy privilege, but also all the Karens ruining the day of service workers! They are bored and bring chaos to the stores! Often making their husbands have to deal with the consequences of their awful behavior!
Thats why we need a strong patriarchy!
This doesn't spare anyone. Sooner than later, you get used to the strong patriarchy. What you need is to be pumped and dumped not a relationship!!
God instructs women to submit to their husbands and stay silent. This is for their own good, the good of their husband, and the good of their children. It is the woman's responsibility to grow up, not her husband's to enable her childish behavior.
don't slmp
Exactly. Men are expected to curb their more antisocial tendencies, but women? It's just their nature.....smh
Submission to a good, hard working man is literally the only thing that will save women from their own chaotic nature. Sometimes life is boring. Grow the fuck up, accept that, and be appreciative of stability sometimes.
Knew a couple together for 5 years. They get engaged. Then she broke it off because she “just didn’t like him” out of nowhere . Sucks for that dude I guess
She already knew what the issue was, but held on to it like an ace up her sleeve and ended the game. Definitely wasn't out of nowhere. She had her eyes on something or was waiting for something else to come along. Women do not stay with men for 5 years unless they truly like the guy, or they're using him for stability/money, no exceptions.
"this doesn't mean you should intentionally create chaos or treat women poorly"
Now to many videos that i watched are talking about the same thing, plus i do have a past relationship where i delt with the women too softly to have her then merrying someone else, i think i will try my chances with treating them poorly
Go ahead, it's time to stop being virtuous and start being manipulative, you shouldn't feel Bad anymore, it's now or never
Men need judge Judy attitude with women
What I've found over the years that they really love a well mannered bad boy. You need to set solid boundaries with real consequences with her. And you need to be bold and confident. You need her to fully understand that you will dump her in a moments notice. You need to be firm but fun but incredibly selfish. YOU ALWAYS COME FIRST.
@FrostyBob99 my man 🤜🏽
@@azizalbnay914 It's not easy being me...but somebody has to do it🤣🤣🤣
Best way to spot these types of women out is to flip the script.
Show them a little weakness a little bit more and more over enough time right at the beginning and they'll show you who they really are in short time.
Once you're happy you've seen enough ask directly what they want out of the relationship. The way they answer will tell you genuinely more about their personality than a hundred dates ever could.
Sometimes you have to use their own tests against them if you want to find a good woman.
Yeaaah, I start to understand why so many men are choosing to be single. And why my wife wants to leave me for another man - adventurer without family despite we have two children together. I was too boring for too long and I realize that and now it is different, but too late. Thanks for eye-openening video.
Nope. They intentionally do these things.
Not true. Yes all of them do it, but to most it's subconsciously. She may not be aware that she's doing it. I call it the bullsht test. Women by nature will pick and probe at a man's metaphorically armour or Frame.
@@badistbrother8384 That it might be subconscious doesn't make it better.
Intentions are fueled by feelings .aka moods.
@@Screaming-TreesIn a sense it makes it worse, aka they lack self control.
@@cristig243every woman to a degree lacks self control with her own nature. It's actually pretty alarming.
True but the application suggested is dangerous and kills many men.
Aka self deletion
We have to start calling it out / shaming and walking away
Stop making excuses for them.
Give him a bell
Thank you!
Women don’t need excuses made for them. This is how they are. it kind of sucks but it won’t change, no matter how much you try to fix them or shame them or rage against them. This is them.
1) this is not a secret that has been hidden for centuries. Men did not get smart all of a sudden.
2) this is true what you say of a majority of women. But in minority of women are not like this. I don’t know what the percentages. I don’t know if it’s 15% or 25%. My mother was not like this. And I have two sisters and one of them is not like this. And I’ve known many other women who are not like this But I do agree with you that MOST women are exactly like this. Why some are not, I do not know.
I believe it is like this because of the war on morals and the resulting, moral decay of our country, world really over the last century+
And the last 20years with hand held phones, really is putting this behavior, coming out of most women, over the top, sadly it is, and always be, a hard knock life for these women, until they wake up, if they ever wake up, humans love to be creatures of habits both good and bad one's ?
Maturity....
@ Maybe. Maturity assumes a natural progression, but I think there’s a spiritual component here, as well, and one doesn’t become a good person naturally, anymore than a monkey becomes a man, or a fish becomes a monkey, given enough time.
best comment here.
I don't mean to take away from your personal experience because that is your reality, but being a family member and being in a relationship is different, ask your father how it's been like to be with your mother and you might hear a different story - same for your sisters with their exes...
You see them as siblings, not romantically (Unless you're from Alabama xD)
You can be with a woman, just don’t get marrried. Get her a promise ring, DO NOT GET MARRIED! You think it can’t happen to you but it will…
Short Version….They’re all nuts.
This only confirmed what i already knew for years. Im a guy, but i understand their need for thrill and excitement. Unpredictability is a magnet for such.
Women start problems
Men solve problems
Which is why men should stay away
At best, even the "good" women will point out problems and raise things to people's attention. At worst, they are the ones making things worse or starting the problem in the first place. It's actually the exception for women to be the problem solver/diplomat outside of issues with children.
A song by Gloria Estefan: “ bad bad bad bad boy, you make me feel so good!”
I heard this and all I heard was "im bored, I have everything I want..ah, I think i'll burn the house down"
Just be willing to walk away at anytime
And make sure she is aware of your willingness to walk away even if you have to remind her every so often
Do that and never change and she'll be happy with you forever
Nah, they'll still cheat, they're always looking for an upgrade - there's always someone approaching her that's taller, or better looking, or a bigger wallet - even if he's just wanting a pumpNdump, she'll think she can hook him. She'll go through several guys like this, and you'll never know.
Yes, don't let her get to comfortable or thinking she's in an iron clad permanent position of stability. Remind her that being highly disrespectful, ungrateful, and rude can send her back to the streets at any moment.
Don’t listen to this convoluted garbage. Either your girlfriend behaves or you dump her and go to the next one who doesn’t cause drama. You’re not on this earth to waste your time and put up with idiots.
No, I definitely blame them. I have the same instinct to seek stimulation and change, but I don't use other people as tools to achieve that.
Looking back at my height of self centeredness, which I like to call my "D-bag" stage, women couldnt get enough of me. Now that Im heart centered, women run rough shot on me. This info puts the whole masculine and feminine dynamic into perspective. Being stagnant isnt beneficial to evolution, but unbridled hypergomy will cause complete destruction. Thank you for this insight!
Put all of your love on God and the earth, and the right woman will come into your life, if that is what you want.
@@NIN_THUG I Am an heir of all that is. Little g
@@NIN_THUG I don't "should" on people, else I find that others will "should on me.
addicted to chaos. ~ Megadeth (1994)
99 way’s 👍
Youthanasia is a great album.
EVERY time this has happened to me I have offered the girl 6.25" of "emotional stimulation."
They ALL looked at me like they couldn't believe I said that.
The girls who took my offer lasted longer than those who did not.
What are you saying?
I worked in a nursing home before the pandemic. I saw older woman who had access to plenty of Wealth and resources just become feral dogs just out of sheer boredom! I always thought it was some sort of dementia or other medical problems. You video has opened up my mind that fact that it could be something else.
Most of these videos highlight the symptoms but not the cause. It is not just a need for chaos but a deeper psychological complex involving the Animus possession causing the masculine side of a woman to sabotage her need for a relationship. When women are possessed by the Animus it causes them to have irrational opinions. Basically, the masculine side of a woman wants to keep hold of her and not give her to 'another' man.
Probably one of the only intelligent men in this comment section. Sadly, most men beat themselves up because they are poorly lacking understanding deeper psychological issues that dictate our behaviours. Good day brother!
If that’s true, then exactly what kind of havoc is birth control wreaking in our society? Hmph. Gotta be exacerbating that theory, no?
@@twotonrhinottr2877 Birth control is more a hormonal problem, not psychological. When women are on birth control they go for more feminine men because their hormones are suppressed and thus their desire for masculine men with it.
@@DoneManyThingsVery true. But perhaps my question failed to highlight the abundance of elevated testosterone levels now dominating the females decision-making process, thus giving credence to the theory you highlighted in your original post.
Teach me.. these are among the deepest words i ve read so far
What a clear and excellent presentation. So helpful.
In summary, if she refuses to have kids to introduce chaos into her life, you have to entertain her. Cool…
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Tony Robbins teaches about fundamental psychological needs that humans have. Two of them are the need for stability and the need for instability (i.e., variety).
Outstanding insight of female psychological profile. Succinct and profound. Well done! Every man MUST listen to this every day until he knows it by heart. Follow this to avoid major problems in life and thrive.
These women can keep them kids and cats, this is dumb to me and always will be
Cleopatra was a mega 304
Between being viewed as unattractive by women and retaining my values and dignity. Yeah, it’s an easy one. I can do this all day.
AI is awesome. Pieces of the puzzle coming together. Once you see, you can never unsee. Women are from mars, men are from venus, they had it backwards all the time.
Nope...the spoof of that book is: "Woman are from bras,men are from penis"....🤪🤣🦧👉😎
And men are more emotional, women are more sexual.
It was that way until the government flipped the script.
Good points, really. I think this plays out rough in modern marriage as we all live longer and the boredom cycle hits women with several decades left of life rather than mere years, just a working theory.
I apply this in dating now, never chase, rarely compliment and let her beat a path to MY door, then nonchalantly invite her in with a cool calmness, when her emotions rage from this, one soothes and placates repeating the cycle as needed. Distance and minor care up to the brink of meltdown keeps them excited.
@9:38 Women want hell & chaos. Men want silence and peace. Demons vs angels
Just remember when you talk bad about all women you're talking bad about your mother
if that is really true, no wonder so many marriages break up.
Men mostly look for peace and quiet, so that would be a contrast that always overlaps.
"its not because they want to create drama unnecessarily" than goes on and says "They don't want to be bored "
Don’t care about women, only what you can get from them.
do what ah do Read a BOOK!
This is not something rediscovered or that has been buried for a century or centuries. I heard several people mention it but miss the forest through the tree. Truly, the topic of discussion is hitting the nail on the head, but several people have also done the same. I know a lot of people don't like him, but Jordan Peterson, Before the Fall, had mentioned it a few times. "Women represent chaos while men represent order" paraphrasing but essentially the same.
i wonder if the boredom is evolutions way of getting a woman to leave an infertile (we simulate infertility with birth control now) man. back in the day women always had a baby on the hip and one in the belly until menopause. my grandmother was pregnant 13 times. every year a woman is not pregnant is a threat to the species as we are seeing now with our declining populations.
Could be but we're told their is 8billion people the planet, the most ever.
Declining doesn't mean not to many.....
i'm going to try getting a puppy every 2 years to simulate having a baby. I'll let you guys know in 8 years on this post if that works
@@moondogsundown8458 That is such a good way of looking at it. No kids= boredom= woman thinks she needs another partner.
Women: *_Chaos is a ladder!_*
The bridge to the superman
Absolutely fascinating! Thanks for sharing.
Now where’d I leave my monkey wrench?
monkey wench
This is something i was already aware of and have experienced personally. Really great overview of female nature.
My ex was the most eye opening example. When i didn't give a fuck, we would be having a ton of sex. She would want to make time to see me.
Fast forward. I got the feels. Things got more predictable. She began getting distant. Doing random activities. Picking up new hobbies. Dressing differently. Suddenly it was up to me to arrange time together. She became bitchy and hostile most of the time.
I really dont think the juice is worth the squeeze. I dont want to be thinking about balancing stability with chaos in a relationship. Its extra shit for me to consider.
And when society develops structure that provides a safe and stable life they will promote policies and movements that destroy it.
😂 ouch, truth has been spoken
the more I hear your videos, the more I think animals act out of instinct, and that is because low order animals only have enough brains to act out of instinct, which are pre-programmed routines and subroutines, so now more and more I compare women to that, that I've commented before.
If you're on, read Ephesians chapter 6 verse 12.
I don’t think that Bible verse is apropos for the original comment.
The Number Monkey to understanding women is that they are primitive.
BINGO
The key is pursue your goals and spinplates. No need to travel your lady, spend time with dates. The competition and dessirability of other women will handle that. Plain and simple.
So we should put up with this for women with a huge bodycount?!? Ha ha ha ha ha 😂.............no I'll keep my money thank you
Though I agree with much of what you have to say in this video, you simply must do some fact-checking before you publish it. Helen of Troy was not married to Vlenice---whoever that might be? She was married to Agamemnon's brother, Menelaus. Also, in Shakespeare's play, Othello, it is NOT dominated by "women of chaos"---rather, it's the men who are chaotic: Othello's passion and insecurity and Iago's narcissistic machinations drive the plot and create the turmoil. The woman--Desdamona and Amelia are icons of stability and rationality. So, that being said, yes there are plenty of examples of the chaotic feminine archetype and its various manifestations.
I think the reason women are more emotional is more likely that since they have always raised the children while men were off facing death, they adapted childish behaviors and reactivity.
Quality women exist… they are 💎 in the roughest locations of the world. They are everywhere just not as many as the majority of 🗑️ women. It’s about the quality of a woman not the quantity of women.
💡Exactly
Great insight! That describes my ex wife. And she monkey branched to a chaotic dude which left her with mixed feelings and i think some regret.
Well, that blows waiting at the finish line out the water. If she wants chaos, she should be there at the start line.
Honestly as a Male, I did to had a similar craving for emotional stimulation when things become too dull, I honestly integrated that by enjoying indulging into anime, manga, videogames as well as partake in digital art. I am not really interested in relationships at all since I could already care for myself and feel whole as a person.
But I could recommend other guys women who enjoy anime, manga, and video games are even more of a prize, since they're likely the most emotionally stable.
Great psychological analysis!
oh, but i can and will blame them. actions have consequences.
I think it's more simple than that. The ones that did not fight back, were bred. The ones that fought back are dead. This also helps explain their diminutive stature.
There has to be a correlation to them constantly wrecking cars.
Yes, and very often blaming the other driver.
I'm sure they'll meet the right bear for them one day 😅 🐻
I was married for 22 years, the first 10 years were ok. Then shit hit the fan, and we fought over nothing for the rest of the marriage. Nothing will satisfy her until she started going to the bar. Now she is a totally different person. She’s drunk from 10am on every day. Women want multiple men to control, or men who control her. It’s exhausting, I always wondered why I would she an old couple. And the man was sitting and shaking his head. While the woman was hitting him with a rolled up newspaper. If I could go back with what I know now I might stand a chance. But your best bet is to fallow the three F’s rule. Find them, Fuck them, and Forget them. This is how you keep your sanity.
Well, that's it, then. I'm not that wild and crazy "fun guy" - I'm literal, pensive, conscientious, etc. I have no doubt that if I had gotten married, I'd be divorced by now. A shame, really. I really wanted that comfortable family life. I'm 55 now, and on the verge of retiring. Looking ahead to when I'm on the verge of dying, I expect I'll be thinking, "Gee, what was the point of all that? All that effort, work, sacrifice?"
Im fifteen years ahead of you. I keep my time occupied looking after my house and investments. The rest is hobbies and internet learning not just surfing. Gotta keep busy as a single person.
I'm there now...just like you are.
Im just now learning (and it's a new learning experience I'm not use to) to be selfish with myself for the first time in my life. Stay active, work on my house, my small metal shop and love my family and friends. Do a little traveling. Got my guitar and will get 2 dogs on my first day of retirement....
I don't have time, patience or years of life left for chaos or drama anymore. Kind of sad, but now I need to enjoy the fruits of my labor.
Hope you guys do too.
I guess I'm just a boring responsible guy who just works and pays bills. Must be the reason women never seemed to like me. I'm 64 and nowdays I'd rather have the money and the freedom without a dysfunctional woman around.
I'm 49, I was always earnest in relationships, "a good guy", although i feel a few females may disagree that point. I've noticed that when you don't give them any assurances, in fact just want something casual, they become addicted,, if you are your genuine decent, hardworking and loyal self, they treat you like shit and with contempt. I don't want a relationship where I have to be a dick to get some peace or keep her interested frankly. So, my tools, my dog, my bus, my small but loyal group of friends, I'm good!! I'll die alone if it means I lived a happy life beforehand!!
Comfortable family life??? haha dont believe that fairy tale.....
Some guy listening to this video w/ little to no previous experience with women may walk away from this thinking it's all us being useful, successful, emotionally strong, not a pushover and we should be so lucky if we do a good job of generally being a man that they will then like us.... AND AS FOR THEM?!..... It's a two-way street y'all. Don't lose sight of that. How are they gonna get the best we can be and we not gonna get nothing of value from them, too? And just having them physically doesn't count because they would be also having us as well in that regard.
Interesting, and explains a lot about female decision making, eg when they ask for advice and you tell them what you would do in similar circumstances (never say 'you should' to anyone!), maybe giving a few alternatives, and pros and cons of each, you find she's made a completely different decision, with a more chaotic result. What we need is the equivalent of a cat toy, like the laser pointer, that the cat likes to chase? It makes sense when women get involved with con artists. They must be getting the same data as sceptics, but processing it as stimulus vs red flags!
Interesting. Gonna give this some more thought -and this is coming from and older guy. Partially explains why I never wanted to get married.
I was shocked one day in the lunchroom when 5 male coworkers agreed that they would not want to get married again.
Let me save you 14 minutes..
This guy stretched a 10 second message into a 14 minute video, that is impressive and time-wasting at the same time...
The message is : "Women need security and stability, but you should rock the boat from time to time because they hate boredom and will create drama if they're not emotionally stimulated enough - be it through cheating, causing unnecessary drama or starting fights"
Thank me later
thanx a bunch!
Get your boy to stalk her under a fake screen name, and then stage a Jake Paul vs Tyson style fake fight in which you book yourself to win... She'll love it!
They wanna be on the winning side of a loose canon
How tedious.... ill guess that eons of war and struggle have developed men that want peace and love? What a fn problem to have we want completely different things. No wonder this is so damn difficult
@ this👇
Just turned 55…I learned this the hard way over the years.
My wife is close to leaving me and I couldn't figure out why. This all makes sense now. We have a 2 year old and it's been hard to keep things exciting.
Don't let her alienate your child against you. Also look for hypergamy, as she may be looking for the bigger and better deal. You may just be her starter husband.
Be abt your way brevv, 'Stay Stoic' in all the circumstances coming from the situations
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Get out now
Once she has a child, things usually change and her attitude towards you will go sour, now that she has fulfilled her biological urge. I've seen it endless times.
What video software did you use for this?
Did you need to write out the words or did it automatically create the caption from your audio?
I think many men prefer "chaos" to boredom too. The latter is tough to tolerate.
I heard someone say that a girl can be anything but bored.
Why would I waste this much time and energy for a behavior that has all the downsides and little to no upside
Does this include also for women over 50 years old and older?
Yes.
Yes
Definitely
Yes.
Yep
Oh so thats why i was a player when i was a player. Makes sense.
This is kind of dumb because there are a lot of woman that are smarter than this. You can be chill af no chaos needed and keep a woman. Just choose a smarter mate.
This chaos mentality only leads to hard core s&m kinks, grape kinks and dumb manipulative mind games that will only hurt people who just want to love.
Every married man knows this well! Haha if things are going well there will be some kind of soap opera drama instigated… like she will find you too nice to some women and accuse you of cheating or she will say that you forgot something and explain to you that it means you don’t care about her truly and silent treatment will start or you will fight until she feels like you care about her and then there will be passionate makeup period with good sex and romance… and as the guy I start to just expect that she is doing this to make life less boring? I guess that’s the appeal of drama shows to women?
It is totally hardcore mode to not break when you are with a girl and you feel weak and then she hit you with something that you dont want to do and stay cool
You are right great knowledge
men, dont forget to grant consequences if it harms you.
I love chaos when it makes sense, I too get bored.