I tried for several years, culminating in a trip to Greece this summer. Still wasn't good enough for this Ukrainian girl. I found an American girl who is sweet as can be. I use the Eastern European dating techniques I learned and definitely surprised her. She actually asks to pay for dinner some times. Every once in a while I will let her. But I know I made enough money, the American girl makes much more than the Ukrainian girl and I make a lot more than the American girl. So that wasn't the issue. But I decided why try so hard when there is someone close to home who actually really appreciates me?
When you are still young it is better to look in your own country, in foreign country it cost you a lot agency, traveling, translations, and once in your country you have to provide for her. Only when you are over 50 i can understand. But in Ukraine it is finished too when you are over 60 because age gap is not that big as many people think not more than 15 years.
It's also about if he is smart with money, or not. Living a bit below our means, in order to save for the future provides more security. There should be a balance between being cheap, and wasteful. Frugality is not a negative thing, as long there's healthy levels of generosity/comfort. Too many people spend a lot of money on the image of looking rich. Living a bit below our means, and saving a bit each month will bring security for rainy days.
My wife is from Ukraine & I dated extensively in Ukraine from 2016-2019. You don't have to be rich, but you do need to be financially secure. It's not for guys living paycheck to paycheck.
I am above the top salary listed (which is not hard in the US, really), and I can be close to functionally retired or completely so by 40 (I'm not quite 40 at this time). I am not bad looking, I don't think. I am excellent at personal security (ex-Marine Infantry, served in wartime in theatre, was personal security to a Battalion Commander). I have many other skills and talents. The only real downer for women is that I am not insanely tall (average height for a Wh!te guy and Wh!te). Is that impressive enough for a younger Ukrainian QT? A lot of you are very attractive, but I think you already know that your country has this reputation internationally. I have a lot of experience with women, and I know that any of them worth having are very difficult to please, so I could literally pay her a salary, unlike most men. I am old-fashioned and take responsibility very seriously. I find that most people in the US are not disciplined enough or hard working enough. It seems like most of the younger women here just want to waste their youth partying and lowering their value instead of doing something intelligent like starting a family. Of course, expense is no object. I will be able to travel the world indefinitely soon in order to try to find someone who is worth spending energy on because they are very hard to find. You red flags video on men seemed rather harsh, but maybe you don't know that life is extremely harsh for men. It's why we have so much to offer.
I'm not sure If I will go back into the dating world. I'm 61, Aug 2023 I lost a women that was the love of my entire life. she past from cancer. women here in the US are just lost, they have no soul or heart and look at men as a tool to be used to get to the next better man. as I have been watching these videos for a month or so now wondering if I should try this, I hear a lot of the foreign women expressing some of the same mantras are the American women. the whole thing can be disheartening as a man. worried if or when a women will leave him for another man because he has more money. its just crazy what the world has come to.
@@Alsol-lr7tr Mmm, while some may do such a horrible thing, others don't. I know foreign men who have been happily married to wonderful Ukrainian ladies. It is a mixed bag and you have to be very careful and wise when choosing.
Hello Inna. BIG PROBLEM!! Your video is packed with excellent information. However, the thumbnail is misleading. I wanted to share this information with my ukrainian fiance, but when she saw the thumbnail, she took immediate offense to it, and we got into a big argument over text. She did not watch the video yet, because I had to explain to her what was in it. I assumed she would just watch the video first? What I am saying is that it caused big problems that did not need to happen. My fiance got her feelings hurt very bad, thinking I accuse her of being a gold digger. That is what the thumbnail depicts. After watching the video, it does not have an accurate relation to the thumbnail. All I am saying is this video thumbnail offended my fiance and hurt her feelings a lot. She is a very sweet girl. She did not need this aggravation! I know you were doing the right thing by explaining all of the traits that a western man like me can understand from a ukrainian point of view. Now I have a train wreck to clean up! My fiance said she will watch the video after I spoke with her over text at great length. Also... When I saw the thumbnail at first, I interpreted it's as the mindset of western men perceiving ukrainian women. It is misleading to both ukrainian and western culture! There is too much misinformation on the internet to poison the minds of people who don't understand ukrainian culture and how ukrainian women think. This thumbnail bit me in the ass and got me into a lot of trouble! I had to immediately go into damage control. MY FIANCE MEANS THE WORLD AND BEYOND TO ME!! I would never do anything to hurt her feelings or upset her! All I wanted to do was share this information with her, but the thumbnail got in the way and created a big problem between us! This problem will get solved, but it was important enough to write you and let you know what happened. You have an amazing channel with very good information videos. You have helped me understand a different culture and way of thinking. It would not be possible if you have not made educational videos like you have been. I thank you tremendously for the information. I just wanted you to know the video thumbnail is provocative to ukrainian women with a pure heart. I hope you get this message! If I had your email, I would send it. That is all... have a good day! :-)
thank you a lot for your comment and sorry for inconvenience. The next time will formulate the topic more mildly ;) I hope your relationships are ok now.
Yes. Thank you! I appreciate your response! After watching your video, my fiance understood the content and my intentions. She immediately apologize. I told her no need to apologize, I misunderstood the message, and my approach what's confusing. We have grown so close together, what we are still learning about each other's different worlds. I am sure you understand what I am saying.. Thank you for caring! 🥰 One thing about my ❤ Ukrainian fiance is that she does not hold a grudge. An american woman would never let this go, and I would never hear the end of it! I say this because my X wife, it's just that way! I tell my girl that when GOD made perfect women, he put them in Ukraine! ❤ Thank you again for your kind message!! 🥰
👈 Friend of Conor - 👍 Video Dear - Bulgaria is on my list for a European hub for Nomad Capitalist Expat Lifestyle as is Albania, Serbia, & Ukraine . I support Christina Katrakis 🇺🇦 #bethelight & will be in UA next Spring. I will never bring any♀️to The USA. To the Men build a location independent internet-based business structure that you control & practice wise legal tax minimization strategies 💪 Foreign earned income credit is just the tip of the iceberg. @Helene dear you have a soft kind beautiful Soul, care about yourself, be happy girl! 😊
I agree America and the west is toxic beyond belief! Bringing anybody into this social shit hole is a high risk bet! Working abroad is not available for everybody. It's nice when you got it like that! Glad you're living the dream life! 👍
I tried for several years, culminating in a trip to Greece this summer. Still wasn't good enough for this Ukrainian girl. I found an American girl who is sweet as can be. I use the Eastern European dating techniques I learned and definitely surprised her. She actually asks to pay for dinner some times. Every once in a while I will let her. But I know I made enough money, the American girl makes much more than the Ukrainian girl and I make a lot more than the American girl. So that wasn't the issue. But I decided why try so hard when there is someone close to home who actually really appreciates me?
When you are still young it is better to look in your own country, in foreign country it cost you a lot agency, traveling, translations, and once in your country you have to provide for her. Only when you are over 50 i can understand. But in Ukraine it is finished too when you are over 60 because age gap is not that big as many people think not more than 15 years.
It's also about if he is smart with money, or not. Living a bit below our means, in order to save for the future provides more security. There should be a balance between being cheap, and wasteful. Frugality is not a negative thing, as long there's healthy levels of generosity/comfort. Too many people spend a lot of money on the image of looking rich. Living a bit below our means, and saving a bit each month will bring security for rainy days.
You're a wise man.
My wife is from Ukraine & I dated extensively in Ukraine from 2016-2019. You don't have to be rich, but you do need to be financially secure. It's not for guys living paycheck to paycheck.
Amazing another video from my friend ! Canada checking in.
Thank you so much !)
For men in the US, many have a high income but also many debt payments on real estate, student loans, car payment, etc.
Hallo Elena thanks for the videos, I always like them, but where do I start if I want to meet a Ukrainian Woman.
Thank you a lot for your supporting comment🥰🙏
Do you mean to start search with my help or on your own ?
There are many sites which I've read about, but are not honest.
The definition of the average income can vary from someome to another :).
Yep ) I also told about average for Ukraine )
@@matchmakerhelen yes, that came after I had put the comment.
I am above the top salary listed (which is not hard in the US, really), and I can be close to functionally retired or completely so by 40 (I'm not quite 40 at this time). I am not bad looking, I don't think. I am excellent at personal security (ex-Marine Infantry, served in wartime in theatre, was personal security to a Battalion Commander). I have many other skills and talents. The only real downer for women is that I am not insanely tall (average height for a Wh!te guy and Wh!te). Is that impressive enough for a younger Ukrainian QT? A lot of you are very attractive, but I think you already know that your country has this reputation internationally. I have a lot of experience with women, and I know that any of them worth having are very difficult to please, so I could literally pay her a salary, unlike most men. I am old-fashioned and take responsibility very seriously.
I find that most people in the US are not disciplined enough or hard working enough. It seems like most of the younger women here just want to waste their youth partying and lowering their value instead of doing something intelligent like starting a family. Of course, expense is no object. I will be able to travel the world indefinitely soon in order to try to find someone who is worth spending energy on because they are very hard to find. You red flags video on men seemed rather harsh, but maybe you don't know that life is extremely harsh for men. It's why we have so much to offer.
I'm not sure If I will go back into the dating world. I'm 61, Aug 2023 I lost a women that was the love of my entire life. she past from cancer. women here in the US are just lost, they have no soul or heart and look at men as a tool to be used to get to the next better man. as I have been watching these videos for a month or so now wondering if I should try this, I hear a lot of the foreign women expressing some of the same mantras are the American women. the whole thing can be disheartening as a man. worried if or when a women will leave him for another man because he has more money. its just crazy what the world has come to.
Do some Ukrainian ladies believe in sharing the family's budget 50/50 if they can afford it? Maybe only few of them?
They don't! They only want you to spend your money for them so they can put their feet on the table and text to other men while you work!
@@Alsol-lr7tr Mmm, while some may do such a horrible thing, others don't. I know foreign men who have been happily married to wonderful Ukrainian ladies. It is a mixed bag and you have to be very careful and wise when choosing.
@@Alsol-lr7tris this your experience or your opinion?
@@RT69hemicharger My experience. That picture on the video explains it all!
@@danmax2986 My wife is from Ukraine. You're absolutely correct.
Hello Inna.
BIG PROBLEM!!
Your video is packed with excellent information.
However, the thumbnail is misleading.
I wanted to share this information with my ukrainian fiance, but when she saw the thumbnail, she took immediate offense to it, and we got into a big argument over text.
She did not watch the video yet, because I had to explain to her what was in it.
I assumed she would just watch the video first?
What I am saying is that it caused big problems that did not need to happen.
My fiance got her feelings hurt very bad, thinking I accuse her of being a gold digger.
That is what the thumbnail depicts.
After watching the video, it does not have an accurate relation to the thumbnail.
All I am saying is this video thumbnail offended my fiance and hurt her feelings a lot.
She is a very sweet girl. She did not need this aggravation!
I know you were doing the right thing by explaining all of the traits that a western man like me can understand from a ukrainian point of view.
Now I have a train wreck to clean up!
My fiance said she will watch the video after I spoke with her over text at great length.
Also... When I saw the thumbnail at first, I interpreted it's as the mindset of western men perceiving ukrainian women. It is misleading to both ukrainian and western culture!
There is too much misinformation on the internet to poison the minds of people who don't understand ukrainian culture and how ukrainian women think.
This thumbnail bit me in the ass and got me into a lot of trouble!
I had to immediately go into damage control.
MY FIANCE MEANS THE WORLD AND BEYOND TO ME!!
I would never do anything to hurt her feelings or upset her!
All I wanted to do was share this information with her, but the thumbnail got in the way and created a big problem between us!
This problem will get solved, but it was important enough to write you and let you know what happened.
You have an amazing channel with very good information videos. You have helped me understand a different culture and way of thinking.
It would not be possible if you have not made educational videos like you have been.
I thank you tremendously for the information.
I just wanted you to know the video thumbnail is provocative to ukrainian women with a pure heart.
I hope you get this message! If I had your email, I would send it.
That is all... have a good day! :-)
thank you a lot for your comment and sorry for inconvenience. The next time will formulate the topic more mildly ;)
I hope your relationships are ok now.
Yes. Thank you!
I appreciate your response!
After watching your video, my fiance understood the content and my intentions. She immediately apologize.
I told her no need to apologize, I misunderstood the message, and my approach what's confusing.
We have grown so close together, what we are still learning about each other's different worlds.
I am sure you understand what I am saying..
Thank you for caring! 🥰
One thing about my ❤ Ukrainian fiance is that she does not hold a grudge.
An american woman would never let this go, and I would never hear the end of it!
I say this because my X wife, it's just that way!
I tell my girl that when GOD made perfect women, he put them in Ukraine! ❤
Thank you again for your kind message!! 🥰
She isn't offended that you write double space novels?
👈 Friend of Conor - 👍 Video Dear - Bulgaria is on my list for a European hub for Nomad Capitalist Expat Lifestyle as is Albania, Serbia, & Ukraine . I support Christina Katrakis 🇺🇦 #bethelight & will be in UA next Spring. I will never bring any♀️to The USA. To the Men build a location independent internet-based business structure that you control & practice wise legal tax minimization strategies 💪 Foreign earned income credit is just the tip of the iceberg. @Helene dear you have a soft kind beautiful Soul, care about yourself, be happy girl! 😊
Thank you 🙏
I agree America and the west is toxic beyond belief!
Bringing anybody into this social shit hole is a high risk bet!
Working abroad is not available for everybody.
It's nice when you got it like that!
Glad you're living the dream life! 👍
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