CAME OUT TO HIS DAD AT A FRAT PARTY | Sal's coming out story

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  • So proud of my baby for building up the courage to be in front of the camera and share his story. I hope his words can help some of you, and gives you a good perspective on how different everyone's coming out can be!
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  • @vladislav_terekhov
    @vladislav_terekhov 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Well, I almost died from that adorable kiss and smile

  • @adamwalker3726
    @adamwalker3726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Sal actually breaks my heart he is adorable and I’m so glad he was brave enough to share his story! I’m sure it’ll help others who are feeling scared to tell their parents!

  • @kenfraza
    @kenfraza 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Boy, that was so rough for Sal to sit alone, look in the camera and try to tell his story.... Thank you Noah for sitting with him and turning it into a Q and A to make him feel more comfortable. 🤗❤️

  • @FernandoGomez-jf1cv
    @FernandoGomez-jf1cv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I find Sal’s story relatable since I was also raised by a mexican family

    • @arif_and_ricky
      @arif_and_ricky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      that's so amazing! it's. so good how listening to others' stories can help us with our own journey right?

  • @jaaldag
    @jaaldag 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Aww. Sal is so nervous alone on camera. But I was glad when Noa joined him and he became more relaxed. Thank you for sharing your coming out story Sal. Happy Pride!!! 🏳️‍🌈🖤🤎❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈

  • @xenomex1620
    @xenomex1620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Sal is just so cute and adorable. PROTECT these souls at all cost

  • @kristianb2936
    @kristianb2936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    OMFG SAL IS SOOO PRECIOUS 🥺 i love you guys so much, y'all are my favorite couple on planet earth 🤍

  • @angellugo3714
    @angellugo3714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Noa is such a wholesome boyfriend!!,,, like knowing boyfriends like this are among us somewhere restores my faith in humanity a bit more lol

  • @oakpkdude
    @oakpkdude 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    So happy for you that everything worked out well. It's amazing how many of us finally come out because we fell in love. I remember telling my parents because my boyfriend and I moved in together and I knew I couldn't hide it for long but also I was so happy it somehow gave me courage. My Dad was also the macho type, veteran, major football fan etc.. I was shocked that right after I told him he said that he and my mother wanted to meet my boyfriend and invited us to dinner for the next week. All went well and I was happy. Next I had to introduce him to my 5 siblings who lived in NY so we flew up there. My sister organized a BBQ at her house and invited everyone over. My boyfriend was so nervous and told me he really didn't want to go but I insisted. After getting back to Florida he told me that BBQ was his favorite part of our 10 day vacation to NY. My whole family accepted him with open arms and he is just one of the family. in exactly one week we will have been together for 27 years so you can imagine what attitudes were like back then but my family is tight and they always have my back. I did not have to go through that on his side because he grew up in foster care and group homes and aged out when he was 18. He thinks of my family as the family he never had.

    • @genghissmith4949
      @genghissmith4949 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      oakpkdude That’s a wonderful story. I still feel sad that my parents couldn’t bring themselves to meet the most important person in my life, my partner, back in the ‘90’s. It’s too late now and I still wonder about how much of my life they missed out on...what if...

    • @oakpkdude
      @oakpkdude 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@genghissmith4949 That is sad but you found love and that part is great. Not everyone does.

  • @damondominique
    @damondominique 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    this is adorable

    • @thirdlegada46
      @thirdlegada46 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh damon hope u find "D one"

  • @nancyborden5860
    @nancyborden5860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sal's nervousness is so endearing, reminds me of myself back in the day. Your both so adorable.

  • @rafwd1968
    @rafwd1968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I'M DYING OF THE CUTENESS

  • @steventeixeira9176
    @steventeixeira9176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Noa is probably my most favorite TH-camr! The positivity is so radiant! Love it!

  • @mariom6884
    @mariom6884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why our stories have to be so full of sadness?Thank God there’s always an angel to support us,like Noa.Love you guys from Brazil.

  • @Urbaezfamily
    @Urbaezfamily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you Guys for sharing your story! It must be difficult at a such young age to admit your preferences. Your story help parents to understand a little bit more the struggles you are facing. My son has a similar background as Sal, as a

    • @Urbaezfamily
      @Urbaezfamily 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My son is gay, but he says he’s bisexual to friends now I understand why. He’s struggling but I think it’s a process that he has to go through. Your story is very educational for young people. Thank you for being authentic and genuine. Thanks Sal for sharing your insides I could see it was very difficult for you. I really appreciate your encouragement and bravery. We need more people like you talking about the importance of self acceptance and the family role as the first emotional support system for our young children.

    • @noataieb
      @noataieb  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      thank you so much for this. this is exactly the reason we share videos like this 💛 sending you and your son lots of love from nyc!

  • @evangraves6957
    @evangraves6957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This has to be the cutest fucking video I’ve ever seen. Sal is so precious. Ugh two kings being great ❤️

  • @janlindeboom1344
    @janlindeboom1344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Really liked your story Sal. It so nice you shared your story with us. Haha left some tears because you're so honest and real!

  • @ThanhMaiOFFICIAL
    @ThanhMaiOFFICIAL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Appreciate hearing this story. I’m sure many viewers will be able to relate to some aspects of this experience and find inspiration to share their stories. Keep up the awesome content and Happy Pride 🙌💯🌈

    • @arif_and_ricky
      @arif_and_ricky 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      you are totally right! Sharing is so important and help healing! Loads of love and HAPPY PRIDE to you too :)

  • @Pucky71
    @Pucky71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Sal, I would also be nervous if I had to tell my coming-out story in front of a camera. Thank you!
    You two are such a great couple. If I were a father, I would be happy if my son had such a boyfriend.
    Please make a cooking video again. It's so funny when you two cook together.

  • @jomccutcheon2173
    @jomccutcheon2173 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Y'all are just the cutest couple ever,,, so adorable and the coming out story was wonderful!!!

  • @raymondchan9802
    @raymondchan9802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sal and Noah...both of you are made for each other and both of you are so handsome. Take care of each other and enjoy life. Most importantly love each other.

  • @anelengwendu4261
    @anelengwendu4261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Wow was crying frm beginning till the end 😭 fan from South Africa 💙

  • @inkling1377
    @inkling1377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    0:07 aww encouragement 😭🌈♥️

  • @josieboi206
    @josieboi206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I teared up hearing Sal’s experience in middle school 😢 Thank you for sharing with us something so personal 💖

  • @Paulinrnke
    @Paulinrnke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It was very cool that you knew just how to help sal in the storytelling. Good job. Good video.

  • @russelstephan6342
    @russelstephan6342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sal is so cute and adorable when hes is nervous. Glad he became confident enough to share his heart warming story. You two are super adorbs. Big love❤😘

  • @JoeHollywood22
    @JoeHollywood22 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so proud of you Sal for having the courage to tell us your coming out story. Thank you!! I smiled throughout the entire video.

  • @b4804514
    @b4804514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sal Your parents should be so proud of you Cal is the Harvard of CA and your life has given you some of the best things a person could ask for

  • @Sam-xx6pu
    @Sam-xx6pu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sal is my favorite🥰

  • @anneliseingram4276
    @anneliseingram4276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved sal's boyfriend he seems like a scream and so supportive helping Sal with the interview bless him.

  • @camomiletea6708
    @camomiletea6708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sal must be the most patient tolerant person. I can’t help but get the feeling he is constantly pushed and pressured into social media and Noa’s woke trope view of the world.

    • @nicolasoke7421
      @nicolasoke7421 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. But just with the social media part. Sal definitely would be woke in his own right without Noa. Luckily Noa forces Sal to get in front of the camera so we can melt as these beautiful moments with them together. 😂😂❤

  • @pppmanly
    @pppmanly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing your story, Sal, and to Noa for supporting you through your telling of it. 👍🏾💙

  • @paulovitor8087
    @paulovitor8087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I literally don't understand anything you're talking about, because I don't know how to speak English, and there's no caption available in Portuguese, but I love you so much that your love is beautiful. I came from Instagram. (I'm using Google translator) ❤️✨

  • @jjnjjr4613
    @jjnjjr4613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you both for this video. Sal, you really moved me. I watched your story as if it were mine. Chicanos, we don't have a monopoly on machismo, it is simply toxic masculinity in our world. Watching you, both, care for each other makes me smile. It saddens me that the more the world changed the more it stays the same in some nodes of our society. But I am happy that both of your families have embraced your love. Cheers to you both.

  • @saltontheshelf
    @saltontheshelf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OK this was the most unexpectedly sweet thing I have seen all day. 😁👍🏾

  • @gabrielfernandez9870
    @gabrielfernandez9870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You guys are so beautiful , and Sal's story was so cute to listen to

  • @desqua2497
    @desqua2497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The cutest creature alive🤩( he look alike a kid for his first day of school )

  • @leonardorrocci
    @leonardorrocci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Omg he’s so cute! it's like a baby 🥺

  • @robo9883
    @robo9883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sal and Noa, i'm so glad your family accepted you and told you they love you no matter what. I'm glad to see you both happy and I wish you many many years of happiness and love!

  • @SweethomeSABANnation
    @SweethomeSABANnation 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was such a great vid! I loved hearing Sal’s story and anytime you two are on camera together the energy is just perfect :)

  • @jaypotter852
    @jaypotter852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for sharing your story Sal and thank you for your Service!

  • @yoeldavidcampos5539
    @yoeldavidcampos5539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I felt very identified this video, cuz i am in the same situation as Sal's. A pair of years ago i had an issue with my mom about some messages with some guys on facebook and my family is such a typical latin family with their patterns "machistas" and i told my mom that it was only aphase but now i am in love with my boyfriend and i plan to tell them that i love him and i want to have a story with him. I really liked that video, THANK YOU!

    • @arif_and_ricky
      @arif_and_ricky 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just read your comment :) it's so beautiful that you are ready to live a love story with your boyfriend. Loads of love! :)

  • @ihavenodream98
    @ihavenodream98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aww he’s so adorable 🥰 love you guys 🇫🇷

  • @d.j.7069
    @d.j.7069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most parents choose "love" over everything. It can be a process with a 'loving curve', but in the end, most realize that it doesn't matter in the way they had thought.

  • @Solskin60Tina
    @Solskin60Tina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sal dont be nervous we love you ❤️ Thank you for you story 🙏🏻😊

  • @lman5637
    @lman5637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Prrr prrr Ma! Ma!😅 He's adorable.

  • @beachboi83
    @beachboi83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm sure Sal has one of the best smiles in the world. And I love your names too, Noa & Sal. Happy Pride you guys!! xoxoxo

  • @tlm810
    @tlm810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You two are so unbelievably adorable. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @sergioleon9100
    @sergioleon9100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so sweet, both of you are so cute together ❤️

  • @yokweification
    @yokweification 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sal is sooo adorable :-) He looks innocent every time he smile! Noa you're lucky to him Sal :-)

  • @hudson.k
    @hudson.k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OMG!!! I'm crying right now, lol. I loved it. You're an amazing couple ♡♡♡

  • @slaaay7284
    @slaaay7284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    His cute when his smile

  • @edd5286
    @edd5286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so happy for you guys! And thank you Noah so much for sharing important things of your life and your boyfriend as well that can help others. You guys are pure love, respect an amazing supporting couple! Inspiration ❤

  • @dontemannings5336
    @dontemannings5336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely love you both. I hope i meet you guys some day. I live in N.Y too
    Keep the videos coming and much love.
    Great video by the way. Keep the love burning.

  • @deniloyster2105
    @deniloyster2105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awww sal is such a cute baby!! Love you both!!❤

  • @dontemannings5336
    @dontemannings5336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your story and love you both together. All the very best.

  • @raymondzhao6015
    @raymondzhao6015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    not me crying, such a cute story 😭

  • @heena3177
    @heena3177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Waw...his story is more interesting than Noah's...its like a movie sad n happy n interesting n drama n with a perfect ending...👍

  • @mjohnson9563
    @mjohnson9563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Raw courage. Sorry to hear the fear that you had to endure for so many years throughout your teens from your parents. Even after you were out to yourself and had a boyfriend and were financially independent, you still had to deal with the scariness of coming out to your parents and relatives. That thought alone keeps many gay guys in the closet. But instead you looked that fear in the eyes and took that scary chance which most would never do. I had a friend who told me one time that she was always worried about me living by my self as she knew plenty of straight guys who would not think twice about beaten up a gay guy. I told her that that did not bug me as I was ready to bring on the fight if need be and besides, I would just point out to them that they probably have better things to do like chasing after a chick as well as letting them know that they are not my type as they are pretty dam ugly. A gay guy calling a straight guy ugly is pretty much a hit below the belt. .

  • @paulhayday8212
    @paulhayday8212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good to see your bf supporting you so that you could complete the vlog! All the best to you both!
    Paul, 🇬🇧

  • @denisa.4200
    @denisa.4200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That was so cute! Thanks for sharing Sal! Love you guys 😘❤️

  • @zerdanphunrab
    @zerdanphunrab ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so proud of you boys. You're lovely young people. ❤🙏🏳‍🌈

  • @veerx5240
    @veerx5240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hahaha! You guys are so adorable together and make each other better. I hope the best for you both. ❤️

  • @diegochavero1110
    @diegochavero1110 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so adorable Sal. Super identificado con lo que pasaste al inicio. Keep on being so sweet & inspiring :)

  • @tafnapfan1
    @tafnapfan1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    nice to see another side of Sal

  • @TheGoldenMudkipz
    @TheGoldenMudkipz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    sal and noa being absolute pure angels for 15 minutes and 44 seconds straight

  • @woofenme1596
    @woofenme1596 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for sharing! I wonder what you guys think about the show “Love, Victor” on Hulu... Sequel to the movie Love, Simon. Best to the both of you!

  • @tom-ss2mn
    @tom-ss2mn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aww yall are so adorable. So glad you have great parents

  • @Munchkin2000
    @Munchkin2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Freeze frame at 15:44 it's the most beautiful adorable moment

  • @angelgauna9081
    @angelgauna9081 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Totally related to your coming out story. Coming from a Hispanic and catholic raised family. It’s not easy to come out.

    • @arif_and_ricky
      @arif_and_ricky 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely, I (Ricky) am Italian and as I share in my coming out story, I've grown up in a very close, catholic little town...I feel you:) Load of love and Happy Pride :)

  • @barakhammond3058
    @barakhammond3058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YOUR ALL SMILES, I LOVE IT!!!!

  • @darwinclavero8255
    @darwinclavero8255 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sal is the cutest!

  • @williamm8240
    @williamm8240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    in the beginning of this Video Sal sounded like Noa. I had to listen to it twice. Great story Sal and I am glad everything worked out(no pun there). I hope you do more video's with Noa.

  • @davide.montalvo3389
    @davide.montalvo3389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Awe he is so cute ❤️

  • @josephaguilera3264
    @josephaguilera3264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing your story

  • @kurt6235
    @kurt6235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you guys are so CUTE omg 😭🥰🥰

  • @rudahabaedmond5287
    @rudahabaedmond5287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We need more videos guys Noah do something!!!

  • @jesseursabakillereye9248
    @jesseursabakillereye9248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As usual your so cute the way your smile ❤️

  • @hejasmine
    @hejasmine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is too adorable

  • @garygary9310
    @garygary9310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s understandable to be nervous it’s ok be yourself 🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍

  • @julianalterman7193
    @julianalterman7193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG. You guys are sooo cute. And brave to tell your stories

  • @joaomarcosoliveira5503
    @joaomarcosoliveira5503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you look so good together

  • @noasal244
    @noasal244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    we love u sal! 🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @titustobias69
    @titustobias69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a great and honest vid. Impressive!

  • @vincentricharte961
    @vincentricharte961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "What’s my name" He’s so nervous 🥺

  • @zakariabaccouche3305
    @zakariabaccouche3305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sal is so cute

  • @yehorparkhomenko3354
    @yehorparkhomenko3354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aww, this made my day🥺💕

  • @yokweification
    @yokweification 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sal is so soft and have a very cool personality. You two are perfect together :-)

  • @christiangchrisg3302
    @christiangchrisg3302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really cute couple as you are now , and really much easier to living as gay as it was In the 60’s, 70’s,80’s . Now that you built a very good relationship, maybe consider not going to ‘restaurants to check the menu ‘ , stay a couple by yourself. Thief’s are everywhere... A very inspiring video, thx to sharing!

  • @njtee654
    @njtee654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow that's so good but i to cry to 😢😢😢😢😊😊i love u guys

  • @jesseursabakillereye9248
    @jesseursabakillereye9248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sal is soo cute💕

  • @yoeldavidcampos5539
    @yoeldavidcampos5539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    minute 11:05 I love that song...

  • @mohamedgill1459
    @mohamedgill1459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your story , made me cry 😢

  • @gathsfamily2866
    @gathsfamily2866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Didn't know this boy has a voice !!!!

  • @Verbindungs
    @Verbindungs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    10:05 Noah, when Sal says that he fell in love with you, what was that face? Fear? Surprise? Love?

  • @jesseursabakillereye9248
    @jesseursabakillereye9248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stay strong both of you

  • @andy_dk7756
    @andy_dk7756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww, what a lovely video. ❤
    To Sal: thanks for sharing your coming out story. You did this abolutely great, so you don't have to be so shy and nervous at all. 👏👍
    You guys are such a cute and wonderful couple. I just love to follow you guys. ❤
    Speaking of following, when are Sal going to have an Instagram again...? 😁

  • @rykalskyes8888
    @rykalskyes8888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never thought of normal as something to aspire to

  • @antonioruiz4531
    @antonioruiz4531 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi! I see you from Mexico, and I know what difficult is coming out with catholic familiy. Obviously love always win. That's for share! 💕🌈

  • @luciferathens9720
    @luciferathens9720 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    first 12 seconds omg my lil baby don't cry.. :(