Decide To Be The Change
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ก.ย. 2024
- Hello Everybody,
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I also want to say, I am not trying to be insensitive in this video; if you're in a low place, don't force yourself to be happy. Theres a lot of change that can occur with just accepting where you are, no longer fighting it, and giving yourself the well needed rest and recuperation that your body is calling for. If thats where you are, give yourself that break and do it without judgment (REALLY. Do not judge yourself or make yourself feel bad for needing a bed day)... Not everyday is going to be happy, easy, sunshine filled and perfect. If you can be okay with that, and accept yourself as you are, right now - that will allow for you to move through it and get back to that place where you are joyful again. Whenever i've had those moments, I would give myself that day or two to do nothing and just give myself a break without judging myself.. I found that after a day or two of genuine rest, I was then able to feel better and move about my reality again.. it kind of gave me my motivation back because I rationalized it like "I took that break, it was well needed, and now today I am going to apply what I know I need to do and feel good with that." It's a process, and above all else - you should always honor yourself and love yourself.. and sometimes that means loving the parts of you that just need to take a break and be okay with not being okay for a little bit.
Oh Dylan! Thanks, I so appreciate you x
Thank you for this. I didn’t feel like you were being insensitive at all! But it’s nice to have the reminder, too. I had to learn this the hard way after making my “off” days way worse by fighting or fearing them. You are the best and I appreciate you!!
You are a blessing ❤️ love you thanx you so much
Lol at the gym first time in a while at 5 am and exactly what I have been focusing on and first thing I hear is hi cutie! Lol I love you man !
I don’t know what you want to do with me but I don’t want to know
The “hey cutie” intro was so refreshing. Being greeted with compliments is honestly so needed, when you compliment yourself in the mirror, you’re already getting it back. Be the change like Dylan said. Thanks for making us smile and laugh with your videos. I always find myself clapping 👏 and saying YASSS anytime I agree with what you’re saying which is 99% of the time, lol. You being your authentic self and telling it like it is helps us more than you know 💗
Agreed haha! Loved it
Gotta give it a like when it starts like that. (I would have anyway.)
It took me off guard completely haha, i was about to email my SP that very line just a few minutes ago :0
Dylan honestly is the best friend we all wish we had
Yesssssssss
👁👁 oh so we’re not friends
@@IAm_DylanJames 🤣
@@IAm_DylanJames 🤣🤣🤣
@@IAm_DylanJames lmaoooo we are all friends here okay 😂😂😂
Success story: I decided to be the change and my mother and sister who I was stuck with in extremely triggering circumstances started showing up as absolutely different versions compared to how theyve “been” their whole lives and started doing everything for me. I don’t want to get into the details but I grew up in an extremely emotionally unavailable household and this is a huge manifestation for me because this has been something that I wanted my whole life.
Thank you Dylan, you changed my life!💜 Most importantly I live like a queen and I’m an embodiment of absolute sexy worthiness.
More success stories soon.
So happy for you!!
@@mermaidx9386 thank you so much🤍🤍💞
Tell us more...how have last 6 months been ?
I’ve recently started affirming, “I am growing and changing for myself,” anytime I find myself overthinking any particular outcome. And then breath work has been a game changer for me ❤️
No matter where E and I are at in our journey, there will always be an undeniable connection! Connection can not be created or destroyed! I have weird flash backs of a future together w him, and he’s had moments of “feeling like he left his body to be w me” so absolutely no circumstances can get in the way. Circumstances don’t matter when connection is REAL…it isn’t “hopeful” it isn’t “questioning” it’s isn’t “figuring it out” those are all your own “circumstances” protection mechanisms of your ego…it is just pure knowing, knowing is more real because it resides in the 5D…so allow things to happen, things are always “happening” because you live in a space where you are moving through time. Desires don’t come for no reason, they are placed there to show you what timeline you are experiencing. You came here to create this feeling you wish to expirience as a human, the imagination was placed for you as a tool…anything negative is just ego, protecting you because it thinks it needs “protection” you get to perceive things how you want…you don’t need protection from getting hurt, when you know they can not hurt you….you hurt you and this is why self concept matters so much because you will stop hurting you with your own thoughts when you realize you are worth any experience you desire!!!! Get in a meditative state, allow yourself to feel those highly positive things, and disregard anything negative that comes up as it is only trying to protect you….and even if this “thing” doesn’t happen…wouldn’t you want to look back on your life and think…damn I did that…I remained in a state of love most of my life, no mattter what came or didn’t 💕 That’s how I want to look back at my life….there is ONLY one of you….no one can be you, all the things you are…only one…you are THAT unique!!!
I stopped listening to other law of attraction/assumption channels because I often felt the focus was on changing yourself to get someone else. That never felt right for me. I want to do it for ME, and everything else will be a wonderful bonus! Oh, and I loved the intro and you being playful 😊
Heyyy.. I love this goofy Dylan.. 🐱😍💕It's also a proof that after listening to ur night tracks for 25 days now my reality is shifting also with a cutier version of U as well!😍 I'm not feeling any rush/urge.. Not even to any conscious techniques.. Only enjoying myself entirely..finally learning from u to hold the feeling state..😊😊Thank u so much! ❤️
Yes! What a wonderful perspective: we're manifesting a goofier Dylan 😄
I feel like when people align to your channel, we feel like we've found the key to getting back home. Thank you🙌🏽🌍☀️🌟👑🦋💜
The intro was everything 🤣 I even turned around to see who he was talking to... then I was like, "me of course!" Dylan is so ❤️ The change is real... Focus on self love and concept. Y'all got this 💪🏼
I gagged
@@dshericemo1144 It definitely caught me off guard 🤣
Absolutely loved the "Hey cutie" in the beginning! Thank you for the constant positivity and encouragement Dylan! Sending lot's of love! 🙏🏻💞✨
agreed, made me smile!! right back atcha cutie!!
😆 OMG !!!!! You know it’s 8am in India I woke up and feeling a lil down about my appearance and I just addressed it …no you r beautiful you are cute … I looked in the mirror 🪞 did the affirmations…hyped myself n then checked my phone n here you are …. Out of no where giving a special intro 😎🤩 I love you 😘
The no longer judging yourself really hit me. I forget that I don’t need to be perfect all the time and that I am still growing and just need to be gentle and kind to myself. Thank you Dylan 💕 I finally found a community where I feel safe, understood, and loved.
That "Hey, cutie!" greeting Dylan gave perked me up and just made me so happy! I was smiling through the entire video. I really loved his energy here, really appreciate you, Dylan!
So I started the limitless money sleep affirmations and I’ve kinda been going through it because I listened for two nights , tossed and turned had a bad day of going into that sad , emotional state but it’s clearly because of my beliefs so I’m gonna push through it , I can and have been listening to the limitless love for a month and I now can sleep through that for a full 8 hours, I wake up feeling great , happy all day , so I now know I officially need to get there regarding money 💙
Dylan. Something interesting that I’ve realized recently in my journey of self-regulating my emotional state of being is that I had developed a strong sense of independence in the past 5 years. However I skewed towards reclusiveness. I was really happy but ever so lonely. On my new path towards that sense of confidence I’m envisioning myself as embodying that pure happiness within BUT also encouraging a flourishing social existence! After all this is what I truly desire
on god! everything u said was so needed!! removed my sp from social media today for my own sanity😩
Dylan strange thing, every day whenever I binge watch your videos I say this in my mind that “next time I’ll open his channel he’ll have +1 subscribers increased “ I tried this as a small manifestation just for fun from 60.0 to 61k 😂 today it reached 61K! Everyday I just said one thing, “tomorrow it’ll increase by 1 and just carried on with my day or focused on your videos and content and Man !! Everyday I saw it increasing by 1 and you’ve reached 61K! Congratulations 🎉 and Lot’s of love 💕
I was literally just looking at Dylan's subscribers. I often look to see how well he's doing, and it wasn't so long ago that he had less than 10k 💪👏
Is anybody else a bit confused on where they are in their process? If anyone could give me an insight, that would be awesome! I listened to limitless beliefs "I am" track for about 22 days and now I moved on to releasing addictions and traumas (mostly to release traumas). I also visualise and affirm for mostly my SC every day. Before doing all this I was an emotional wreck. I would get triggered so much by a passing thought. I was desperate and in despair. A really crappy place to be in, honestly. But now, I am quite stable, yet not really. For example, I do feel this stability and security within me and I know that no matter what comes my way, I can deal with it. it might not feel nice but I can deal with it. But I do get triggered, but only by external things, I don't have negative thoughts anymore. And even then, I might cry and all, but I have this understanding that it is not messing up my manifestation and that I have to just continue working on my sc. Sometimes how I feel is calm and maybe panicky at the same time. I'm not sure how else to describe it lol, but it's like part of me that is insecure and feels unworthy is panicky and the other one that already knows all the good stuff is calm because I can deal with the panic and I know why it is there. I also truly see how my SC is affecting literally everything and everyone around me and now I get why Dylan is preaching on getting your SC healthy. It really all depends on your SC.
“Hey cutie” got my attention. Love your goofy fun side. You are so awesome and relatable. 🙃
Hi Dylan, can you please do a video on not feeling time urgency when manifesting marriage/SP especially if you want to have kids. It’s hard to sometimes not stress about aging etc, and all that. Some affirmations would be helpful! Thank you!
Good question
Back at ya Cutie!💝🌞🌈
Love the message, I am on this SC path now and realize why I am getting hot and cold behavior and not sustaining the change I want.
I loved your intro Dylan. Life is serious enough so the playfulness was so refreshing. Thank you for this I really needed to hear this message today.💞
You make me smile ahhhh I just love your energy. Too cute lol hey cutie. I love these short checking in videos to keep us on track.
Felt so off for the past few days because of hormones but this video helps a lot I will try to be aligned again soon !
Same girl same! Happy women’s day I’ll hang in there with you 🤍
@Emily Hayhurst Thank you for your kind message 💖 I’m slightly feeling better today hope you feel better soon too !
I am the change ❤️ I am in love with myself and who I am, I am not worried at all! I know I get everything I want, I am confident and I am happy !
What a CHEERFUL video 🥰 You have such a loveable personality that all aspects of it (be it the laughing & joking side or the "cursing" & blasting one) are PERFECT 👍🏻 And you Dylan are the proof that if you have self love and self worth, you'll always be loved and appreciated 💙
I love this channel and how we all lift each other up. Dylan cares so much and cares about every detail. It really got me through a break up. I am so grateful. Just a blessing. Yes heyy cutie back. ❤️
Oh my god I love the hey cutie intro! 🥰🥰🥰🥰♥️♥️😘😘😘
Dylan! You are so friggin DOPE! That is all, Period! You are amazing and I am so grateful that the universe brought you to my awareness to guide me to my ABSOLUTE BEST LIFE! Ever since I have been watching your videos, listened to your tapes...my life has changed so much for the better. I allowed the old story come back for a hot second and reacted (had an argument with an old friend that triggered me) HOWEVER, I was gentle with myself and forgave myself for getting triggered behind some old bullshit that I called into my experience when I didn't know any better. LOL!
I made the new decision to not only continue to choose my BEST LIFE filled with love, happiness, freedom and good times...but to definitely live with no regrets. Letting that friend go, I have no regrets because she was a representation of my old hurt self that I have lovingly put to rest. Anywho! I have this awesome awareness because of you and I can't thank you enough! :-)
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The " hey cutie" melted my heart 😫❤
Think your cute too! Your intro softened me! This channel is gold for me! I deserve this info! Feel blessed with it unlimitless!
DECIDE! 💯💯
Loved that hey cutie greeting!! If anyone was feeling sad or anything today I think that definitely just helped
Thank you for the daily reminder ❤
I love you Dylan! Praying we all stay aligned for our highest good 😊
To be the best version of ourself for us because we are worthy to transcend into our relationships
Yaaaaay!!! I’ve been struggling to sign up for your membership all these days but I logged into TH-cam through my Chrome app and selected “desktop version” and IT WORKED!! Wooo! So excited! 👏🏼😆
I just want to say Dylan, I love you and the light you bring into this world. Your energy is unmatched 💓
Love it when Daddy Dylan is playful 😍😜
When you said hey cutie
I’m like what? me? Ohhhh hey🙋🏻♀️
When you started saying “You make me smile and you make me laugh” I thought you were about to quote Shemar Moore’s message to all his babygirls🤣😭
I love this and this way of being has really changed my entire life. 💞 If everyone could think this way things would make so much more sense!
What has been working to calm my anxieties is affirming “I give myself my sp. I give myself ooo.” and “The anxiety I feel has nothing to do with my sp/the thing I desire. I wisely work through my anxieties while my sp/desire is always here with me.”
These affirmations feel easier and truthful than affirming that I am the creator or god of my reality or relating my anxieties with the lack of the presence of my desires which make me feel incompetent, powerless and more anxious.
Loved the intro! Life is serious enough sometimes. Let’s be playful 😃
Dylan- your videos. Just. Wow. Every time it’s exactly what I wanted, today esp I felt the ‘hey cutie’ vibe :). Realizing also how powerful I am to have you back in my life- manifested! Boom! So happy you are back sweetie 😘
love the new intro :) This was just a reminder that I need to do this for ME. Not for anyone else. I love growing and learning new things. Thank you for being so consistent with uploading. You're an amazing teacher
I found that with time I stopped doing things to get SP (cba) and naturally cared about myself more
We love your personality shining throw the videos! You content is so valuable. Thank you for being part of our lives. I watch all your videos, love you🌼
Thank You for helping us through this journey! I seriously love your videos and just vibing with you! 🥰🥰
Love the goofiness! Keep it coming “cutie” 😉
2nd comment! Thank you for being here Dylan. Your videos are life-changing
Dylan you’re on fire with these daily uploads! I am truly thankful you’re always there to guide and support us, really appreciate you thank you 🙏
Hey cutie! I’m sitting here with my 10 yr old son and loving you, Dylan! We are so glad we manifested you 💕🤍🕊
You are unapologetically authentic and open hearted -no need to justify or explain yourself :-)
If you were here I woulda given ya a warm hug.. you're so helpful and down to earth... thank you.
Absolutely love your goofiness!!! It brings me a smile 😊😊😊
Dylan you are so so adorable. I just love your refreshing self!! Your style, you are so uplifting, funny, happy, just a precious friend to all! Thank you for being YOU! 🌹
You are amazing and brilliant, never stop doing what you do; you have no idea the influence you have, just listening to you has turned around some of my worst days!!
I loooooove this “hey cutie” ❤️I want this smile all the TIME!!!!!
You're on fire lately man. Love it!
I totally understand what you are saying... Although I can't see any movement in my reality right now yet I know that change is going to happen soon. I am very much confident and persisting in my new believes. I am sure that soon I will be able to share my success story. Looking forward to it !!!
I love how you talk about just being free and showing your personality more. I too am trying to align more with who I really am and being more honest with myself and others in general. I enjoyed this off the cuff video. Definitely keep them coming!
“Stop waiting”, that’s a huge statement.
Yes show your personality more. LOVE IT!! That's why I subscribed, love the vibe ❤
It's funny you've mentioned tarot card videos a few times. I never watched them but clearly the phone is listening and they have shown up in my feed after watching your videos! Just found that amusing... Anyway, love your content Dylan. You are special!!
after this video i'm just getting ready to go to the gym and eat clean today. that's the only thing on my mind for today! TY dylan!!!
Love that..I have to be the change so that change occurs....it's a bit of a wobbly day....
Elated by the intro! Felt so loved and admired 🥺😭❤️
As always, your videos resonate to me at a time when it’s needed. I’ve worked so much on myself, these past years in particular. I do prioritise & love myself for all who I am, and haven’t been focussing on my SP for a long time. Recently I’ve had someone, (not my SP), in my life, but he’s not exactly available. It’s so curious why this has happened, as I’ve no idea why?! We’ve known each other for a while & we’re both attracted to each other, but I can’t be with him. I’ve been so happy in my life for a while - creating a new job that I love - my health has improved, lots of things are in my life that I’m happy with. So, the other day I found myself reacting to a message from this guy about something, which I shouldn’t have reacted about. I wasn’t sad or angry, but just replied with something that wasn’t necessary. It was old, old behaviours, that I’d not felt ,or done in a while. I reacted - and I was annoyed at myself! Listening to this video though, just helps me to bring myself back to everything I’d been doing for a while. I am confident. I am beautiful. And I am worth it!! I don’t need to worry about anything. Life is sweet & I will continue to focus on me. Thank you Dylan!! 💙
That little “hey cutie” was everything I needed for my morning workout
My goodness your videos are something serious!! Thank you so much for all that you’re delivering here 💕
Your videos and tarot card readings help me to feel like what I’m doing is working or gives me motivation. Guess I’m still attached to outside validation of my reality???
Dylan I am so hype for tomorrow’s video !! That’s LEGIT what I’ve been working on- what would the ideal version of me think of this? Would ideal me be watching a tarot video about finance predictions? NO... lol so I’ve stopped getting recommended them !!
But pleaseee I know u might not see this til after but when u do the next video can u discuss like when you are thinking “what would the ideal me do rn?” Or if the version of me that has my full bank account would worry about a bill? Like basically there sometimes is a gap between knowing what I would do and truly feeling/embody it, but at other times it seems so far off that I don’t even KNOW how ideal reacts! Like I don’t know... u hope this makes sense, please can u mention like how to get clarity and know what to embody, like how to get clear on that?
Thank u!! And keep being silly, it def adds a good vibe
You're a doll Dylan! A true gem of a human ❤ So many wonderful words of knowledge in a short video! Wow
Perfect intro "hey cutie!"!!! Gm perfect start of the day. Totally love it!!! Keep it coming.
Love the playfulness !!!!!!
Thank you Dylan daddy 🙃
We do need to watch your content.. it needs to be hammered into us by repetition ♥️🦋🙏🏾
Oh my I feel so special tonight, it’s so soft lol 🤍
I actually loved the intro. It made me grin from ear to ear ❤️ thank you, Dylan.
Loved hey cutie!! 💜
Hey handsome!! Thank you for providing us with great insights and guidance!
What’s really awesome is that I can teach my son what Dylan is teaching me, as opposed to allowing people imprinting (directly/indirectly) their shitty beliefs onto him. ❤️
True, l do same with my daughter. When l cry, l tell her it's not because of her...it's just mommy is sad.
@@kristyslo ❤️ I know exactly what you mean. I just got tired of having him see me sad all the time, I needed to make a change. I needed to stop giving my energy and love to people who were abusing it. I’ve become so selfish with my time because I also don’t need any negative energy in my life. Our kids deserve to have happy parents ❤️❤️❤️
I love love love the intro!!! And THANK YOU for the reminder to live my best life. This video really spoke to me.❤💕❤
Yes. We want to see your personality! ❤
The intro is 🤣 everything! ❤️❤️❤️
🤣 i was having a bad morning then i heard "hey cutie" & i'm like "😯 who you talking to?" & he's like "yes you" and i'm like 😅😌😏 thank you, Dylan! 🌻💛
Love love love getting to see your personality shine through!!!
was feeling really low tonight but i just finished some breathwork, a chapter of pyscho cybernetics and this EFT tapping video.. I AM that bitch
oops here's the video th-cam.com/video/VhdPBjc6Qec/w-d-xo.html
Loved the intro and seeing the goofy side!!
OMG 😂🤣😂😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰 "Hey Cutie" Me blushing and laughing so hard
I am living for all this new content!! TYSM dylan 👌
Really appreciate you and your personality!
Yes..yes..yes...! I love your Cutie intro..! ❤️❤️❤️ You make me smile everytime I see you new video 😘
You made my day with your intro, thank you sooo much
The way Dylan said "Hey Cutie" and the "Yes you" after that. Frankly, not even a minute into this video I feel better.
DYLAAAAAAANNNNN!!!! You are a sunshine!
I live in Belgium so I'm always excited when I see a notification of a new video when I wake up!
I'm in a very (very very) low place and I was barely awake this morning but your "hello cuties" made me smile! First time in a while! So THANK YOU! 🙏
put a smile on my face today, thanks dylan!
“Hey cutie” - absolutely love it 🥰🥰
Yep love the joyful personality.Keep making me smile and I will do the same for Everyone.Me too.xo
YALLL dylan said im a cutie 😌😌
Love you Dylan!! 💙 How can I sign up for the monthly subscription to your private lives? I can’t seem to find the link.. thnx
💕💕💕 such an inspiration love you ♥️