I actually feel really bad for Caleb. If this was a man wanting intimacy and being pushy about it, we would all call him a creep and not like him. I’m proud of him being respectful and having his own boundaries.
Homegirl lied about the extent of her disability…left out the part about him having to be her caregiver…showed up with a friend and no heads up…now she’s begging the man for sex…sorry but Alina seems manipulative to me. Like she’s learned to lie as a means of coping/defense/survival.
Ever notice how she gives Caleb the side eye....trying to lure him into her web. I don't get a good feel about her, manipulative and playing the poor little disabled princess. 😠
He's a douche and a phony. The kind of guy who tells a girl what they want to hear and then walk out on her when things don't go his way. This won't end well.
Of course there's nothing wrong with him but her ego .. he's very respectful any man when women very thirsty and desperately for sex they going to run away from her but he's still there
I know they said it’s been 13 years but she doesn’t seem to be letting things happen naturally and when you do that you are forcing his hand you can’t be mad if it doesn’t play the way you want
Alina has to realize that realistically there needs to be an adjustment period. He openly admitted that he didn’t expect her to be so small. The fact that she needs to much help is scary when he clearly had no idea that her disability was so prominent. It seems like she wasn’t open about this and thinks she was entitled to hide it. It’s really not fair to either of them.
In the recent episode they showed a parody mail order bride video she did for him in which you could see full body clips of her standing, so I think some people were unfair by assuming she wasn't forthcoming about her height
@@jag5014 It probably hit harder for him in person, honestly. He saw videos of her standing, but that doesn't mean she informed him just how much she needed outside of these videos in terms of caretaking.
Or you’re blaming her for not knowing everything he was going to deal with because she’s had successful relationships with average height men before, she’s not spoiled goods, so this whole it isn’t fair to both of them. What isn’t fair to him?
@@93everything and shes trying to guilt him into it. She should've been honest from the beginning. From experience i always end up disliking the things that are forced on me. She needs to let it happen naturally.
Nothing like watching a poor man being pressurised and guilt-tripped into having reluctant sex with a woman he clearly doesn't fancy. Thanks TLC. We love semi-consensual, half-arsed, 'ok then' kind of sex. What an inspiring romance.
Alina pretty much begged and begged to be boned. Now that she's got it, she wants to brag like he genuinely took time to have that special bond with her. Chile ..
IfYoUReSoPeRfEcT huurrrhurrrrr hahaha! Seriously, I'm happy for you. If your good looks can detract from your ill informed and annoying know-it-all attitude long enough to score some love, who am I to judge? Superficial is using your real photo online hoping thirsty people will take your looks into account when responding and compliment you. *flicks the air*
In her head, she feels entitled to be wanted but doesn't respect the fact that for a normal person to accept her the way she is, will definitely take time.
@@zfouleur2904 that's rude referring to women or even people as numbers. We all get older, our appearances change as long as someone is good to you and makes you happy, thats what should matter
I really like Caleb! He has integrity and is honest, transparent and thoughtful! Alina, give him time and tell your friends to BACK OFF or else he will be pushed away way far from you !
She things that he may change his mind after sex. Her long term care is a big responsibility that not many man may be willing to undertake. He’s being honest with her but she does not seem to accept it.
Bless Ximenas children. Caleb is getting manipulated into sleeping with Alina which is sad. I feel like he’s only doing it because of having to answer to her friends. And Alina has unhealthy boundaries with her friends. This should be a private romantic trip for the two of them to get to know each other but it seems like Alina sees it as a group thing
I remember my best friend wanted to come with me to meet my long distance boyfriend for the first time. Heck no! I understand Alina bringing Elijah for help, but even then she should've told him and her other friend not to pry.
@@redheadedfreckles2 they didn’t speak for 13 years continuously. Furthermore, it’s obvious how reluctant he is to sleep with her. He’s trying to get his head around the physical differences but she’s rushing him
@@mako3197 True, he does make his own decisions but it’s obvious he’s being highly influenced by what her friends might say. So much so that he doesn’t realise just how much he’s being manipulated
And then the way she’s talking about an intimate private thing they did with her friend was just creepy and smarmy. How is her behavior any different or better than the fuckbois who use women for sex than brag to their friends about their sexual escapades? If I were him, I’d feel off put by that, disrespected at most. But then again, no woman or her side show friends are going to pressure me into having sex with my gf before I’m ready to do it.
If the roles were reversed we would all call Caleb a creep so pushy about wanting to do it , remember people it doesn't matter how long you've known someone or how long you've been together if he/she isn't comfortable to get intimate with you for whatever reason please respect it and don't be passive aggressive about it , alina is just so insecure ! Just because Caleb wants to take things slow she equates it to " an I not good enough ? " ughh
@@brennathecatlover4360 no, i would think it either way! Also, if this was the other way around, people would be going crazy. The way her and her friend talked about him in a language he couldnt understand while he was sitting right there was really rude. My friends and i always speak the same language when we are hanging out without question. Especially, since all 3 of them speak perfect English.
It’s actually a blessing for Ximena to not be able to have a child because Mike needs to stop supporting her, leave & find a woman that will truly love him
@Eveline Nava He is in real danger because it's so obvious she is and has been with the Gang Bangers in Columbia !! I have many friends from there and I was told I wouldn't be safe if I went with them on vacation because I am blonde and American ! I've traveled to Central/ South America several times but knew where to go which was my all inclusive Resort and only went on the resorts excursions as recommended by my travel agent !! Mike is in real danger, thank God for the filming crew !!!
@@janetmartin5382 same sh*t was said to me by my Colombian friends when I wanted to go with them . I’m East African but born and raised in the Netherlands although there are black Colombians . I was told my nationality would make me a target and I would be in danger. I really hope that mike stays safe .
@@kayanurshiya3778 At first I thought they were kidding but soon realized they weren't !! Pretty scary stuff, I have definitely traveled but your really need to do your research. I just hope Mike is going to get out of there alive !
@@janetmartin5382 I thought it was a joke too until they literally begged me not to. I have traveled before as well and been to countries that are considered ‘dangerous ‘. I have traveled to Africa as well and although certain countries could be considered dangerous but it’s no where near dangerous as in Colombia . I don’t know wth is going in Russia but I was warned about it too by frieking Russians and was told stick to the bigger cities. Apparently they have Neo Nazi problem and oh better not be gay too. At least mike has the camera crew with him and I’m sure they have hired bodyguards. Dude needs to be careful coz Colombia ain’t no joke.
Ximena is really playing Mike. I hope he took this as his way out. But I'll bet he didn't. It just amazes me how women like ximena will put their legs in the air for a man who can't even raise a child but will play a man like Mike. It's sick really.
I really dont understand why she is even on the show... she is not looking for love she is clearly looking for someone to take care of her one night stand child and her prison baby...she clearly said if her second childs father wasn't doing alot of time in jail she would wait for him but since he has so much time she needs to find someone to take care of her and her kids.she also stated that mike is no where near her type of man that she would consider being with but she needs someone to take care of her and her family so he will do just fine...
@@yolandac9334 i thought the same. I think i look every bit of my age (almost 40) but she seems way older than her young 20s. It could be a rough fast life but even considering that her face looks a lot older. Her body is great though and now days it can be a lot harder to tell so who knows. Either way i feel bad for Mike. ☹
Awwww poor Mike. He is too good for her. She doesn't deserve him. Caleb is adorable. She really wanted him. Hopefully she doesn't get hurt in the process
Shit I hope he doesn't get killed because obviously she is attracted to the GANG BANGERS in Columbia ! I am friends with many Columbian people and they say it isn't safe for me to go with them to go on vacation !! Mike is really in danger 😳😳
@@fightfear3979 he chose her under a false idea. If I was getting to know someone and they told me everything I wanted to hear and in my head I started creating the idea of what our life is going to be like when in reality it’s not that way because I’m being lied to. I would feel betrayed after I already invested my time and money into someone. It’s not the same. She took his choice away when she continues to front him about a fake life that she can’t give him.
I don’t think Alina understands Caleb position. And I feel shes too pushy. Let forget her limitations. See more of her personality than her abilities. She need to be a bit more patient. I just feel she’s a bit aggressive. Caleb is so real. He’s a great heart.
i really like caleb. i suspect alina is terrified of being rejected and not being dicked down immediately made her feel too insecure for her to handle. i don't think she's nearly as confident as she acts. i've seen this in a few women - myself as well once 😬
@@ellieshaw693, you are right. I observed some internal emotional issues on her, she needs to handle that first with a licensed professional before getting into any relationship. No one owe anyone anything regardless of their positions in life. (I totally understand her position in life, it is also fair to understand Caleb position.) I honestly felt Caleb is being scripted and made to do more on this show for money. Which I also felt might not being genuine enough for 90days fiancé.... Caleb seem cool and very collective. The end result for the young woman might turn out bad if she does not come to the realization of the true reality-> “that no one is obligated”. Respect must be given regardless of the circumstances which surrounds ones life. Respect is reciprocal. I believe she will make a good girlfriend if she can first come to term with herself. Alina the sunshine.
Caleb is really nice in this story and Alina is taking the advantage to make him do what she wants, I feel sorry for him he is isn't ready yet to get intimate with her but he is pushed to do it so sad!
I feel really bad for mike because he seems like such a genuinely sweet guy and he deserves someone who actually loves and cherishes him and not just his wallet. I don’t know ximena personally obviously but it really doesn’t seem like she cares about anything but his money. I mean she wasn’t even honest with him about not being able to have children in the future. It seems like she doesn’t really care about mikes safety or what he wants at all.
Ximena doesn’t care about anyone but herself and she may not even care too much about herself. She has kids with men who she knows for sure will never be there and she dates men who are super violent
I’m disabled and get where Alina is coming from, being disabled and using a wheelchair and putting yourself out there so so far and being so vulnerable even just letting yourself think he could be attracted to you and genuinely want you and not see you as some kind of freak or someone to feel bad for and is just being nice. Like knowing if you weren’t disabled he would be all over it and wouldn’t even think twice, and knowing that one thing is keeping you totally separate. Even just being physically close is being vulnerable. Caleb’s honesty and communication are great and refreshing, but it still does hurt because it’s something you can’t control, and I think she’s overcompensating for her fears by going sexual immediately, like that would be the one thing that would prove it was real with him, and shoe that he didn’t see her as an “other”. I’m not speaking for her, and she’s much more confident than I am, but I see myself in her. Like when someone truly doesn’t care about my wheelchair and disability, it’s almost too good to be true.
You don't only show your upper half before meeting up in real life and begging someone to quench your thirst immediately. If a disabled man did that, you'd likely see it as manipulative. That's what she's doing.
Ximena obviously talks to her son's murderer father in jail daily; so Mike isn't only throwing his money away on a woman that will never love him, he's also putting his life at risk. God help him if they marry and she's on his life insurance policy.
I agree with you. Its obvious that she still loves her sons father, she even accidentally said it and then quickly corrected it to “loved”. Mike is so sweet, he needs to make a run for it😅
Mike is a really cool guy and now knowing the fact that she can't even give him a kid gives him a perfect excuse to walk away and I hope he does because the Jezebel just wants to use him🤔
Let's be honest. Caleb is trying to be honest with Alina, and she's having none of it! He's way over his head. She brought her friends to bully Caleb, and the inquisition started the very next morning! This girl isn't just horny, she's shows no mercy.
She went to have sex at jail because she loved the prisoner and wanted to get pregnant by him? What is wrong with these people. I'm glad I've never met anyone on Facebook in person because something about it seems to make people irrational. Plus it makes me think they can actually get a girl in real life
I think Caleb just feels sorry for her and wants her and her "attack dogs" (aka. her friends) to get off his back. (Pun intended) That's why he finally gave in to her. Plus, she probably bases her self-worth on whether or not guys want to have sex with her. Which is quite sad.
Agree seems exactly what she bases it on, then to brag, she basically guilty and pushed him into it. I find her very self absorbed and neither really nice ppl..since the minute he got there, if I was him I would ditched them both and explored the country lol.
I think that Caleb is starting to feel pressure from her and her friends about not showing affection and that's why he kissed her. I think that he cares for her but not in that way due to some differences that he wasn't expecting.
Mike and Ximena's talk about having children but she had tubes ligation without telling him before its literally the reverse version of Ed and Rose 😂😂😂
There’s no reason for Caleb to be intimate if he doesn’t want to. If it was the other way around everyone would be on Caleb for wanting to be so intimate.. it’s weird intimacy=relationship to her🥴
Imma need Caleb to run far ,and fast. This is getting so ridiculous I get feelings of insecurity, and wanting to be wanted. However these things are something that should never be rushed or pressured . If it was Caleb doing this to alina , we'd be calling him a creep. Plus she has to understand that desperation is not an attractive trait at all.
He doesn’t need to run. It’s not like she has bad intentions, seems like she genuinely likes the dude. However, ofcourse there is insecurities , due to her height which I can understand as dating and finding a person who likes you for you is always scary…but it’s a risk we all take. Ofcourse you can’t pressure a relationship, I agree with that. I think she just wants to make sure that he is feeling her foreal than to be hurt if things suddenly changed.
@@Coodykween just because a guy sleeps with you that doesn’t mean he actually wants you or a relationship with you, so I don’t understand why she’s putting so much pressure on that
Spoiler, they're not together today. It's another fake TLC couple of actors. He's been in contact with women online and they've posted no pictures of themselves together.
At least Caleb is warming up to Alina and he's actually being respectful I just hope her friends don't ruin her relationship there a bit too pushy and hold up did she say disco stick LMAO😂😂😂😂
Caleb is repulsed by Alina. She's not just short. She's deformed. I'm not trying to be mean, but she never let him see the rest of her body .... just her face for 13 yrs. She catfished Caleb.
I respect Caleb, he’s a FR Man. He doesn’t hold anything back and makes sure they’re both on the same page. He’s a respectful and natural caregiver, he will treat his women right!
Damn…. Her recent past relationship with a Columbian sicário ! That is no joke right there. If I were mike I would really be freaked out. Everyone has a past ..but ; that kind of situation could 100% have a direct scary & dangerous consequences on their current lives.
Yeah that’s super scary!! Like he’s in the cocaine capital, with a hood chick who has those kinds of ties.. do we know if he’s still alive, got kidnapped for ransom.. what?? I can only imagine the horror his friends stateside felt watching this.. dude with the tats called it tho
@@tipsybass7060 He does seem really naive. I hope he gets a clue and dumps her before something bad happens to him or she takes him for all the money he's got.
@@tipsybass7060 All bullshit aside Mike is in real danger because she's directly hooked up with the GANG'S in Columbia !! I hope he makes it out alive !!! 😱😱 My friends from Columbia won't let me go on vacation with them because they say I am exactly what they want a blonde American and the danger is to bad for me to go !! I've been to Central and South America but always stayed in a all inclusive Resort only going on excursions booked directly through the resort, they even tell you don't wonder from the group because it's to dangerous !! I hope Mike makes it out alive and I am glad the film crew is there. 😱😱
I don’t trust that Ximena! Mike is an atm to her. He has bought her so many expensive items and she doesn’t even seem to are about him. Mike deserves a real woman that won’t use him but rather love him.
@@bubblesxo dear TLC, stop insulting our intelligence. No one is buying it, she's not 24 at ALL. We have eyes and that is a rough 24 or 44 more than likely.
Mike is in true DANGER and doesn't even know it !! She was/ is involved with the Columbian gang bangers that YOU NEVER CAN GET OUT OF !!! I pray he makes it out alive !
🚩🚩🚩 Mike and Jimena🚩🚩🚩 Run Mike! She says she loves the guy in prison, her son talks to his dad that's in jail everyday, Mike's not good in bed, he's not her type, & she lied to him about having a kid with him. SHE'S USING HIM. He can do better.
I’m sensing a theme this season - the female leads have “baggage” and the male leads are confronted dealing with it… From Kim, Alina, Jasmine , Memphis and now Ximena… is it just me? Lol
Alina is a Villain, she lied about being single , when she started talking to him and she was still living with her ex ,and those dirty look she give when she’s around her friends . Sorry but I feel bad for Caleb 🥴 mike is not too sharp to pay all that money to someone he met on line Without even meeting her 🤷♀️
He's in a no-win situation because if he's not attracted to her and it doesn't turn out that he wants to be with her that way people are just going to call him names and criticize him and there's nothing wrong with simply not being attracted to someone period and from the way Alina exes seems like she gets plenty of sex and wants plenty more
So the preview for the next episode and the end of the last episode confirms they had sex.. I really feel he was pressured. It's like he said he wanted to wait one moment and then it happened anyway. I don't know if that was editing or not but I doubt Caleb just lost control in the moment. As far as Mike not fair to him if he wants children to not have the option and never tell him. She assumed he would just be ok taking care of her kids...
Alina is very pushy! There's no way Caleb is going to marry Alina. Not everyone could ignore her physical differences. I'm not being prejudice, just honest.
I don't understand why everyone pitties Mike, he could have found a normal girl in the US, yet he is chasing a hot looking girl who is out of his league. They are both there for wrong reasons. He is chasing the beauty, she is chasing the comfort he gives her, cause she has two kids to raise.
I actually feel really bad for Caleb. If this was a man wanting intimacy and being pushy about it, we would all call him a creep and not like him. I’m proud of him being respectful and having his own boundaries.
Best comment 👏🏻
The reaction everyone had to Ed pressuring Rose into sex is the same way Alina's pushy manner should be looked at.
@@kingayy9267 true but Ed and rose had a bigger age gap.
Doesnt matter
Totally agree…
Caleb seems so respectful, normal and stable.
Which is rather weird coming from tlc
FR I've never understood the mean comments about him.
He seems chill and nice, while Elijah and Alina were mean and pushy.
He's sensible and knows his limits and not to promise anything I can respect that but something about him is a little smug also
Im really surprised that a normal person came to this show 😄 still waiting for some plot twists
Doesnt mean that he ACTUALLY is
Homegirl lied about the extent of her disability…left out the part about him having to be her caregiver…showed up with a friend and no heads up…now she’s begging the man for sex…sorry but Alina seems manipulative to me. Like she’s learned to lie as a means of coping/defense/survival.
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EXACTLY!! 👍💯💯💯💯
Ever notice how she gives Caleb the side eye....trying to lure him into her web. I don't get a good feel about her, manipulative and playing the poor little disabled princess. 😠
Alina should have shown him the situation with her stubs, that's too big a surprise to spring on someone. She has the club.
@@catherinescanlon8846 creepy vibes. She's annoying, it's such a turnoff. It's all about her, and the constant manipulation got old fast
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with Caleb.
I just love his openness and honesty.
He set his own boundaries. I respect that
He's a douche and a phony. The kind of guy who tells a girl what they want to hear and then walk out on her when things don't go his way. This won't end well.
Of course there's nothing wrong with him but her ego .. he's very respectful any man when women very thirsty and desperately for sex they going to run away from her but he's still there
I know they said it’s been 13 years but she doesn’t seem to be letting things happen naturally and when you do that you are forcing his hand you can’t be mad if it doesn’t play the way you want
@@sunnysammy3944 I don't agree.
He seems very honest he's not saying what she wants to hear he's being himself!
Alina has to realize that realistically there needs to be an adjustment period. He openly admitted that he didn’t expect her to be so small. The fact that she needs to much help is scary when he clearly had no idea that her disability was so prominent. It seems like she wasn’t open about this and thinks she was entitled to hide it. It’s really not fair to either of them.
Yes ur right
In the recent episode they showed a parody mail order bride video she did for him in which you could see full body clips of her standing, so I think some people were unfair by assuming she wasn't forthcoming about her height
@@jag5014 It probably hit harder for him in person, honestly. He saw videos of her standing, but that doesn't mean she informed him just how much she needed outside of these videos in terms of caretaking.
And Caleb is not in love as yet but Alina wants to push for a committed relationship and Caleb wasn't aware of Alina's height.
Or you’re blaming her for not knowing everything he was going to deal with because she’s had successful relationships with average height men before, she’s not spoiled goods, so this whole it isn’t fair to both of them. What isn’t fair to him?
Alina is in denial about her condition and a bit manipulative. "Im i that different?" YES girl, you are.
Right. She’s not just a little person
Quite frankly, homegirl is disabled.
She expect him to just act normal and look past that.
Hats off Elizabeth for having the guts to say what we have all been wanting to say
Yep 😅
@@93everything and shes trying to guilt him into it. She should've been honest from the beginning. From experience i always end up disliking the things that are forced on me. She needs to let it happen naturally.
@@SuperVintageFlowers thank you, many don't like the truth because it can be a hard pill to swallow but that's the only way for me.
Nothing like watching a poor man being pressurised and guilt-tripped into having reluctant sex with a woman he clearly doesn't fancy. Thanks TLC. We love semi-consensual, half-arsed, 'ok then' kind of sex. What an inspiring romance.
😆😆😆 it was totally cringe because he totally needs time.
Calab did signed up for it.
I want legs like a deer after a street accident so I can demand affection!
@@cheechicana i mean we get your point but that's kinda rude lmao
@@solrxjas you're right. Sorry
Alina pretty much begged and begged to be boned. Now that she's got it, she wants to brag like he genuinely took time to have that special bond with her. Chile ..
Can't blame Caleb for feeling weird after being lied to
IfYoUReSoPeRfEcT huurrrhurrrrr hahaha! Seriously, I'm happy for you. If your good looks can detract from your ill informed and annoying know-it-all attitude long enough to score some love, who am I to judge? Superficial is using your real photo online hoping thirsty people will take your looks into account when responding and compliment you. *flicks the air*
I feel bad for Alina. I don't think she fully realizes her partner will need to double as a care giver, and instead thinks it's not that big of deal.
In her head, she feels entitled to be wanted but doesn't respect the fact that for a normal person to accept her the way she is, will definitely take time.
@@staryeyedify It's the false sense of entitlement women have today. That's why women who are 5's act like they deserve a 10.
@@zfouleur2904 that's rude referring to women or even people as numbers. We all get older, our appearances change as long as someone is good to you and makes you happy, thats what should matter
@@chicka-chickaslimcheyney2914 thank you
@@chicka-chickaslimcheyney2914 It's honest
I really like Caleb! He has integrity and is honest, transparent and thoughtful! Alina, give him time and tell your friends to BACK OFF or else he will be pushed away way far from you !
Why would she even _want_ to have sex with someone who had to be pressured into it, anyway?
She's kind of thirsty she's pushing him to have sex 🤣😂 if I wear him I'm going to run away from her
You cant hurry love
She things that he may change his mind after sex. Her long term care is a big responsibility that not many man may be willing to undertake. He’s being honest with her but she does not seem to accept it.
@@kingayy9267 It's another feather in her cap.
Bless Ximenas children. Caleb is getting manipulated into sleeping with Alina which is sad. I feel like he’s only doing it because of having to answer to her friends. And Alina has unhealthy boundaries with her friends. This should be a private romantic trip for the two of them to get to know each other but it seems like Alina sees it as a group thing
Agree 🖐🏻
I remember my best friend wanted to come with me to meet my long distance boyfriend for the first time. Heck no! I understand Alina bringing Elijah for help, but even then she should've told him and her other friend not to pry.
Can y’all be that ignorant ?? He has talked to her for 13 years.. he went to be with her intimately
@@redheadedfreckles2 they didn’t speak for 13 years continuously. Furthermore, it’s obvious how reluctant he is to sleep with her. He’s trying to get his head around the physical differences but she’s rushing him
@@mako3197 True, he does make his own decisions but it’s obvious he’s being highly influenced by what her friends might say. So much so that he doesn’t realise just how much he’s being manipulated
Caleb is a pretty stand up guy. Very respectful. His boundaries shouldn't be mashed down like that. Alina give him some time.
Caleb, RUN away from Alina as far away as you can!
Imagine if a man was putting so much pressure on a woman for intimacy…… I really dislike Alina’s entitlement.
And then the way she’s talking about an intimate private thing they did with her friend was just creepy and smarmy. How is her behavior any different or better than the fuckbois who use women for sex than brag to their friends about their sexual escapades? If I were him, I’d feel off put by that, disrespected at most. But then again, no woman or her side show friends are going to pressure me into having sex with my gf before I’m ready to do it.
she’s a creep.
she’s a creep.
He's being extremely respectful. He's respecting her , more than she's respecting herself. Caleb is being a gentleman. She should appreciate that.
@@bekaruiz61 She is, she should appreciate how respectful he is.
If the roles were reversed we would all call Caleb a creep so pushy about wanting to do it , remember people it doesn't matter how long you've known someone or how long you've been together if he/she isn't comfortable to get intimate with you for whatever reason please respect it and don't be passive aggressive about it , alina is just so insecure ! Just because Caleb wants to take things slow she equates it to " an I not good enough ? " ughh
Ximena is the female version of big ed, so sneaky and manipulative
They should get together and call themselves an institution, LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She's way too pushy, makes me question her intentions.
It’s probably cuz she’s a female and/ or disabled no one’s saying anything or as loudly
@@brennathecatlover4360 no, i would think it either way! Also, if this was the other way around, people would be going crazy. The way her and her friend talked about him in a language he couldnt understand while he was sitting right there was really rude. My friends and i always speak the same language when we are hanging out without question. Especially, since all 3 of them speak perfect English.
@@familyof1052 agree 👍🏻
Nah she just wants that pipe badly
@@familyof1052 that’s what I said? People would obviously throw a fit if it was a male pressuring sex but since she’s disabled no one really cares
I love this commentator she’s feels like a friend that I’m watching with☺️
I'm really liking her.
Llpp
Me too!
She reminds me of that one black muslim comedian
It's hard to find a good one, isn't it?
It’s actually a blessing for Ximena to not be able to have a child because Mike needs to stop supporting her, leave & find a woman that will truly love him
Im digging caleb. His honesty is refreshing. Alina give him some time!
She’s nasty hooking up with this dude in jail. She’s using Mike. That’s hella clear. She said she loves jail guy. She just seems to want the MONEY.
Mike seems like such a heartwarming person. I don’t want to see him get hurt it’s gonna hurt me 😭 He deserves the world
He might feel he cant get another women...but he is wrong
@Eveline Nava He is in real danger because it's so obvious she is and has been with the Gang Bangers in Columbia !! I have many friends from there and I was told I wouldn't be safe if I went with them on vacation because I am blonde and American ! I've traveled to Central/ South America several times but knew where to go which was my all inclusive Resort and only went on the resorts excursions as recommended by my travel agent !! Mike is in real danger, thank God for the filming crew !!!
@@janetmartin5382 same sh*t was said to me by my Colombian friends when I wanted to go with them . I’m East African but born and raised in the Netherlands although there are black Colombians . I was told my nationality would make me a target and I would be in danger. I really hope that mike stays safe .
@@kayanurshiya3778 At first I thought they were kidding but soon realized they weren't !! Pretty scary stuff, I have definitely traveled but your really need to do your research. I just hope Mike is going to get out of there alive !
@@janetmartin5382 I thought it was a joke too until they literally begged me not to. I have traveled before as well and been to countries that are considered ‘dangerous ‘. I have traveled to Africa as well and although certain countries could be considered dangerous but it’s no where near dangerous as in Colombia . I don’t know wth is going in Russia but I was warned about it too by frieking Russians and was told stick to the bigger cities. Apparently they have Neo Nazi problem and oh better not be gay too. At least mike has the camera crew with him and I’m sure they have hired bodyguards. Dude needs to be careful coz Colombia ain’t no joke.
Ximena is really playing Mike. I hope he took this as his way out. But I'll bet he didn't. It just amazes me how women like ximena will put their legs in the air for a man who can't even raise a child but will play a man like Mike. It's sick really.
What a horrible human being this ximena girl. She’s awful, run Mike run
I really dont understand why she is even on the show... she is not looking for love she is clearly looking for someone to take care of her one night stand child and her prison baby...she clearly said if her second childs father wasn't doing alot of time in jail she would wait for him but since he has so much time she needs to find someone to take care of her and her kids.she also stated that mike is no where near her type of man that she would consider being with but she needs someone to take care of her and her family so he will do just fine...
I feel bad for Mike! This lady has a lot if baggage as many people do but she's gone overboard
Totally agree, run Mike
Who bets he won't?
It's sad that Cuban women do weird stuff like this..my clients sons baby mom is very shady
Dunno but I like Caleb a lot. Like he seems very down to earth and honest.
He seems like a womanizer, he has the talk lets say. But at the same time it seems like he really likes alina
Melicia is my new favorite reporter/tv personality/host! She's good at this!
Is it just me or does Ximena look older than 24?🤔
Poverty and having two kids as a single mom can do that to someone.
Yes definitely like mid 30s
@@yolandac9334 i thought the same. I think i look every bit of my age (almost 40) but she seems way older than her young 20s. It could be a rough fast life but even considering that her face looks a lot older. Her body is great though and now days it can be a lot harder to tell so who knows. Either way i feel bad for Mike. ☹
What?
She's on 24?!
That mole is screaming 40ty
Caleb is very honest i like him, he is keeping it real.
Alina, girl, stop being so pushy. This is a trainwreck and I can't look away 😂.
Awwww poor Mike. He is too good for her. She doesn't deserve him. Caleb is adorable. She really wanted him. Hopefully she doesn't get hurt in the process
Completely agree
He deserves so much more.
He chose her so clearly he deserves what he chose. Plus Mike is not a saint.
Shit I hope he doesn't get killed because obviously she is attracted to the GANG BANGERS in Columbia ! I am friends with many Columbian people and they say it isn't safe for me to go with them to go on vacation !! Mike is really in danger 😳😳
@@fightfear3979 he chose her under a false idea. If I was getting to know someone and they told me everything I wanted to hear and in my head I started creating the idea of what our life is going to be like when in reality it’s not that way because I’m being lied to. I would feel betrayed after I already invested my time and money into someone. It’s not the same. She took his choice away when she continues to front him about a fake life that she can’t give him.
I don’t think Alina understands Caleb position. And I feel shes too pushy. Let forget her limitations. See more of her personality than her abilities. She need to be a bit more patient. I just feel she’s a bit aggressive. Caleb is so real. He’s a great heart.
i really like caleb. i suspect alina is terrified of being rejected and not being dicked down immediately made her feel too insecure for her to handle. i don't think she's nearly as confident as she acts. i've seen this in a few women - myself as well once 😬
@@ellieshaw693, you are right. I observed some internal emotional issues on her, she needs to handle that first with a licensed professional before getting into any relationship. No one owe anyone anything regardless of their positions in life. (I totally understand her position in life, it is also fair to understand Caleb position.) I honestly felt Caleb is being scripted and made to do more on this show for money. Which I also felt might not being genuine enough for 90days fiancé.... Caleb seem cool and very collective. The end result for the young woman might turn out bad if she does not come to the realization of the true reality-> “that no one is obligated”.
Respect must be given regardless of the circumstances which surrounds ones life. Respect is reciprocal.
I believe she will make a good girlfriend if she can first come to term with herself. Alina the sunshine.
I like Caleb,he speaks his mind he's very straight forward about how he feels ,and I agree with him
He seriously does a great job, especially under pressure
Caleb is really nice in this story and Alina is taking the advantage to make him do what she wants, I feel sorry for him he is isn't ready yet to get intimate with her but he is pushed to do it so sad!
I hope Mike goes home without her. He could do better.
I feel really bad for mike because he seems like such a genuinely sweet guy and he deserves someone who actually loves and cherishes him and not just his wallet. I don’t know ximena personally obviously but it really doesn’t seem like she cares about anything but his money. I mean she wasn’t even honest with him about not being able to have children in the future. It seems like she doesn’t really care about mikes safety or what he wants at all.
Ximena doesn’t care about anyone but herself and she may not even care too much about herself. She has kids with men who she knows for sure will never be there and she dates men who are super violent
Yeah mike needs to meet latinas in America not these gold diggers.
@@BlackNoiseCat omg this comment sucks
This absolutely didn't age well
@@ChristismyLordforever7 true mike doesn’t deserve anyone but ximena is still a gold digger
I’m disabled and get where Alina is coming from, being disabled and using a wheelchair and putting yourself out there so so far and being so vulnerable even just letting yourself think he could be attracted to you and genuinely want you and not see you as some kind of freak or someone to feel bad for and is just being nice. Like knowing if you weren’t disabled he would be all over it and wouldn’t even think twice, and knowing that one thing is keeping you totally separate. Even just being physically close is being vulnerable. Caleb’s honesty and communication are great and refreshing, but it still does hurt because it’s something you can’t control, and I think she’s overcompensating for her fears by going sexual immediately, like that would be the one thing that would prove it was real with him, and shoe that he didn’t see her as an “other”. I’m not speaking for her, and she’s much more confident than I am, but I see myself in her. Like when someone truly doesn’t care about my wheelchair and disability, it’s almost too good to be true.
Wake up
@@goiufro ……..to what
I agree with you 100% (I'm a disabled too)
You don't only show your upper half before meeting up in real life and begging someone to quench your thirst immediately. If a disabled man did that, you'd likely see it as manipulative. That's what she's doing.
Ximena obviously talks to her son's murderer father in jail daily; so Mike isn't only throwing his money away on a woman that will never love him, he's also putting his life at risk. God help him if they marry and she's on his life insurance policy.
I agree with you. Its obvious that she still loves her sons father, she even accidentally said it and then quickly corrected it to “loved”.
Mike is so sweet, he needs to make a run for it😅
She likes bad men. Grrrrr
She probably gives him money and food in jail too. Poor Mike, he is supporting Ximena and probably Ximena gives some of that money to her bf in jail.
Caleb is such a respectful young man!!!! When you are in a relationship don't allow anyone to meddle in
That Ximena sounds a horrible person! Mike is so innocent and sweet. RUN, Mike, don't get ruined by that woman!
Unfortunately they’re still together
Why is he innocent and sweet? No. He is getting something out of this too.
Mike is a really cool guy and now knowing the fact that she can't even give him a kid gives him a perfect excuse to walk away and I hope he does because the Jezebel just wants to use him🤔
Jezebel. Absolutely! U hit the nail on the head...id even go as far as to say the succubus!
Yes, this woman is really disgusting and evil with Mike.
Yes definitely, she's all about the money.
Lol jezebel 😂 I haven’t heard that being used in a while
The Jezebel, exactly!!! You understand
Lmfao i took a ride on his disco stick omg i am laughing so hard at that remark.
Omgggg me tooooo! And that was a reaaal song?? Lolllll
That gaga reference
Yassss made me think of gaga song instantly love that remark from Alina lol
I hate it when Alina said “Where were my cuddles” in a joke way, Then being low key angry!
Let's be honest. Caleb is trying to be honest with Alina, and she's having none of it! He's way over his head. She brought her friends to bully Caleb, and the inquisition started the very next morning! This girl isn't just horny, she's shows no mercy.
She went to have sex at jail because she loved the prisoner and wanted to get pregnant by him? What is wrong with these people. I'm glad I've never met anyone on Facebook in person because something about it seems to make people irrational. Plus it makes me think they can actually get a girl in real life
Shes sick in the head i dont care! Obviously still likes sorry loves prison bae.. poor Mike
I think Caleb just feels sorry for her and wants her and her "attack dogs" (aka. her friends) to get off his back. (Pun intended) That's why he finally gave in to her.
Plus, she probably bases her self-worth on whether or not guys want to have sex with her. Which is quite sad.
Agree seems exactly what she bases it on, then to brag, she basically guilty and pushed him into it. I find her very self absorbed and neither really nice ppl..since the minute he got there, if I was him I would ditched them both and explored the country lol.
I think that Caleb is starting to feel pressure from her and her friends about not showing affection and that's why he kissed her. I think that he cares for her but not in that way due to some differences that he wasn't expecting.
Caleb deserves way better.
Mike and Ximena's talk about having children but she had tubes ligation without telling him before its literally the reverse version of Ed and Rose 😂😂😂
Caleb is a Man. Despite the lies she told him he manages to handle everything with respect and honesty.
When he threw alina on the bed .. lord forgive me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Auntie melicia really needs to be host for these tell all’s so we can get the real tea 🤣 she don’t be playing when it comes to these couples!!
Oh gosh, I feel bad for Caleb, Mike, etc. It is sometimes easier to have someone, who is not right, than no one, but c'mon ...
Actually I think it’s easier to be alone than be with someone who isn’t right
@@roojistanr5015 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👏👏👏👏 I feel the same!!
@@roojistanr5015 Yes I find being alone works best,I'm not settling and this April I'm 3 years celibate and doing just fine.
I think it's better to be alone than in the presence of just really bad company
@@omadjourney 👍💯. Never settle
Mike is such a sweetheart. I hope he finds someone that actually loves him.
There’s no reason for Caleb to be intimate if he doesn’t want to. If it was the other way around everyone would be on Caleb for wanting to be so intimate.. it’s weird intimacy=relationship to her🥴
Exactly !!!! And he’s trying to take it slow. She wants to rush it like calm down girl damn.
@@cindyds10 it’s predatory but no one’s catching on bc she’s a women 🥴
@@ZA-lw6jm exactly!
The lady gaga part was hilarious 🤣
Imma need Caleb to run far ,and fast. This is getting so ridiculous I get feelings of insecurity, and wanting to be wanted. However these things are something that should never be rushed or pressured . If it was Caleb doing this to alina , we'd be calling him a creep. Plus she has to understand that desperation is not an attractive trait at all.
He doesn’t need to run. It’s not like she has bad intentions, seems like she genuinely likes the dude. However, ofcourse there is insecurities , due to her height which I can understand as dating and finding a person who likes you for you is always scary…but it’s a risk we all take. Ofcourse you can’t pressure a relationship, I agree with that. I think she just wants to make sure that he is feeling her foreal than to be hurt if things suddenly changed.
@@dootdoot94xo44 never said it was.
@@Coodykween just because a guy sleeps with you that doesn’t mean he actually wants you or a relationship with you, so I don’t understand why she’s putting so much pressure on that
Spoiler, they're not together today. It's another fake TLC couple of actors.
He's been in contact with women online and they've posted no pictures of themselves together.
Melicia is GORGEOUS and the editing is on point 🤣💀
Great content!!!
There's no way Ximena would have hooked up with Mike before she became a mom.
Ximena look sweet but she's taking advantage of Mike. Lying about something so important is just too much. Mike needs to run.
They talked about it but never said anything ...
I really hope Caleb won’t go any further with this woman. Genuinely he’s way too good for her
facts
True 👏🏻
Alina is a little troll. He’s just not attracted to her.
At least Caleb is warming up to Alina and he's actually being respectful I just hope her friends don't ruin her relationship there a bit too pushy and hold up did she say disco stick LMAO😂😂😂😂
Caleb is repulsed by Alina. She's not just short. She's deformed. I'm not trying to be mean, but she never let him see the rest of her body .... just her face for 13 yrs. She catfished Caleb.
Her body was everywhere online for the years prior to them meeting. She even did burlesque.
I totally agree
Alina’s thirst is realllll somebody grab that girl a sprite or something 🥴
This presenter is so beautiful and also she was born to spill the tea on this show hahaha, she does it so well!
I feel so sorry for Mike he's being played like a fiddle
Wtf !!! She begged him to do that
🤣🤣🤣🤣
No self respect. She wanted him to sleep with her so that she could go brag
Should I stay or go?
Go, go, go 🤣🤣🤣
The more I learn about her the more I think she is perfect for big Ed. 😂
Tell me about it lol
Agree
She’s probably with the guy in jail and is using mike.
Yeah he was probably like aye go catfish and get me some snack cash.
I respect Caleb, he’s a FR Man. He doesn’t hold anything back and makes sure they’re both on the same page. He’s a respectful and natural caregiver, he will treat his women right!
RUN MIKE RUN!!! Stop putting a roof over her dad's head while he's already making digs at you!
Intimacy must be difficult for little people and those trying to engage with it.
LMAOOOOO MELICIA IS THE BEST HOST!!! she makes it so much more entertaining lol
Damn…. Her recent past relationship with a Columbian sicário ! That is no joke right there. If I were mike I would really be freaked out. Everyone has a past ..but ; that kind of situation could 100% have a direct scary & dangerous consequences on their current lives.
Yep. Good point!
Yeah that’s super scary!! Like he’s in the cocaine capital, with a hood chick who has those kinds of ties.. do we know if he’s still alive, got kidnapped for ransom.. what?? I can only imagine the horror his friends stateside felt watching this.. dude with the tats called it tho
@@tipsybass7060 He does seem really naive. I hope he gets a clue and dumps her before something bad happens to him or she takes him for all the money he's got.
@@tipsybass7060 All bullshit aside Mike is in real danger because she's directly hooked up with the GANG'S in Columbia !! I hope he makes it out alive !!! 😱😱 My friends from Columbia won't let me go on vacation with them because they say I am exactly what they want a blonde American and the danger is to bad for me to go !! I've been to Central and South America but always stayed in a all inclusive Resort only going on excursions booked directly through the resort, they even tell you don't wonder from the group because it's to dangerous !! I hope Mike makes it out alive and I am glad the film crew is there. 😱😱
I don’t trust that Ximena! Mike is an atm to her. He has bought her so many expensive items and she doesn’t even seem to are about him. Mike deserves a real woman that won’t use him but rather love him.
It's *VILE* how some are pressuring Caleb into relations (reverse genders and it's not kool). Alina and her friends need 2take a cold shower.
Ximena had a one night stand at 15 , she's 24 and her oldest is 9...wow
I doubt she's 24
@@ejayemm 🤣
@@ejayemm ikr she doesn’t look 24 at all lmao
@@bubblesxo dear TLC, stop insulting our intelligence. No one is buying it, she's not 24 at ALL. We have eyes and that is a rough 24 or 44 more than likely.
@@ejayemm ye
I love how this beautiful and funny host said "stay safe Mike"...I am worried about his safety as well to be honest...
Mike is in true DANGER and doesn't even know it !! She was/ is involved with the Columbian gang bangers that YOU NEVER CAN GET OUT OF !!! I pray he makes it out alive !
🚩🚩🚩 Mike and Jimena🚩🚩🚩
Run Mike! She says she loves the guy in prison, her son talks to his dad that's in jail everyday, Mike's not good in bed, he's not her type, & she lied to him about having a kid with him. SHE'S USING HIM. He can do better.
Mike is sacrificing A LOT for someone who doesn't seem to think too much of him.
I’m sensing a theme this season - the female leads have “baggage” and the male leads are confronted dealing with it…
From Kim, Alina, Jasmine , Memphis and now Ximena…
is it just me? Lol
Alina is a Villain, she lied about being single , when she started talking to him and she was still living with her ex ,and those dirty look she give when she’s around her friends . Sorry but I feel bad for Caleb 🥴 mike is not too sharp to pay all that money to someone he met on line
Without even meeting her 🤷♀️
Mike is sweet and has a good heart. I hope he finds someone who truly cares for him
I cant really believe Alina asked Caleb is she that different? ummmm honey in many ways yes! and Caleb has to mentally adjust to this!
Its only a show to keep the ratings going and the show not be cancelled.
She took a ride on his disco stick 💀💀💀
😂😂😂😂😂
@@yolandac9334 literally so happy they added lady Gaga singing the lyric afterwards 💀💀💀 cuz I was singing in once she said that shit 😂
Personally I wouldn’t do it. It’s not her disability. It’s her personality and demeanor. Pass!
He's in a no-win situation because if he's not attracted to her and it doesn't turn out that he wants to be with her that way people are just going to call him names and criticize him and there's nothing wrong with simply not being attracted to someone period and from the way Alina exes seems like she gets plenty of sex and wants plenty more
Somebody needs to go and save Caleb from that weirdo bro
11:00 When Ximena’s beautiful boys say that they want Mike to be their step-dad 🥺🥺🥺😢😢😢😭. Soooooo sooooo precious!!!
So the preview for the next episode and the end of the last episode confirms they had sex.. I really feel he was pressured. It's like he said he wanted to wait one moment and then it happened anyway. I don't know if that was editing or not but I doubt Caleb just lost control in the moment. As far as Mike not fair to him if he wants children to not have the option and never tell him. She assumed he would just be ok taking care of her kids...
I’m loving the new edits 🤣 👍🏼
Mike and Jimena are not gonna make it.
She’s using the hell outta him lol
@@qtcarmen7d896 It's so clear
She looks like the type to set him up to the gang gang for money. Run Mike!
These ET recaps are better than the actual show. I rarely watch 90 day Fiancé anymore, but these entertaining recaps are must-see.
I quit watching long ago. With new couples, I tried again.
I won't be continuing that experiment.
It's still phony drama.
I love Caleb. He's mad cool
Alina is very pushy! There's no way Caleb is going to marry Alina. Not everyone could ignore her physical differences. I'm not being prejudice, just honest.
The host and the editing are GOAT
Caleb trying so hard to be respectful and understanding of Alina. While she thinks and feels so entitled. Poor Caleb. Run away, now!
I bet she burned her tubes to show loyalty to the jailbird she is still in love with.
I am so sorry but the way he threw her on the bed killed me ☠️☠️☠️☠️
Atleast he is honest, refreshing.
I don't understand why everyone pitties Mike, he could have found a normal girl in the US, yet he is chasing a hot looking girl who is out of his league. They are both there for wrong reasons. He is chasing the beauty, she is chasing the comfort he gives her, cause she has two kids to raise.