Brother,you did not define what you wanted,you were busy buying her gifts and you still didn't ask her out,that is so wrong. You can't expect her to be living in assumptions,make your intentions clear. Sister,he has been buying you expensive gifts and calling you all the time,yet you didn't bother to ask him his motives,that is so wrong. Please let's learn how to define relationships from the beginning so no one gets hurt.
How about girls stop collecting gifts from guys period, unless you're married to them. My mother taught me as a single woman to never take gifts from a single man, because somewhere along the line there is an expectation....namely sex. Women need to stop behaving so cheaply.
I personally believe there is a need to define every relationship... I don't also see anything wrong with asking someone exactly what they want when they start acting all nice to you.. And Well, I always personally question some acts... I don't want to hear how e take happen.. And for guys stop acting "assumption games" with us Don't do things and assume the person understands, be clear abeg.... 😂 By the way, I was blessed and enlightened..
Don't ask guys such questions again... Because he might not have that kind of thing for you, he might just be God sent sometimes... And that type of question might sent them away... ❤
They were both wrong. She was greedy while he liked to assume. I had a slightly similar situation when i was in school, I had gone to Abj to submit my IT form in a mega organization and he helped with the process, it was approved but I decided to do it elsewhere. Bro was way older and would always call to ask how I was doing. I never saw him with my eyes after that day, never took anything from him but he woke up one day, came to my school and told me that his people wanted to meet me, I was 19 didn't even know how to react that I burst out laughing. Meet me as wife to be, babe how? I don't even know the name of your village Bro... Assumptions dont work at all
"You and Who? Dating who? When did we start? Your not my type. But thank you for the gift.😂. Na Miyokukusheshe u dey do love with lol. As funny as this looks I have seen it happen live. Brother don't "invest" without communicating your intents. Sister when "investments" start coming be kind enough to inquire the motives and reject certain gifts when they are becoming too much even if the brother insists there are no strings attached it's better to err on the side of caution. Great message here thanks for acting.
The scary part was yes, he didn't set boundaries and she led him on, but also him trying to rape her was out of bounds to me. That was terrifying how his mood switched in a heartbeat. Be weary of people who are "nice" rather than "kind".
'If u are the one, u have a company and you are only investing and investing and u are not gaining anything, how will you feel, goo to the room now...'😅😅😅😅😂 Oga ie never reach like that na 😂 😂
They are both at fault.. Some brothers needed to be tutored on Relationship goals and likewise sisters.. Assumption only leads to frustration, anyone you don't want to have anything with whether long or short relationship that will lead to marriage avoid such.. Don't give or collect gifts, Gifts cannot buy love.❤
When you are interested in someone, you say it. Gift giving with a mindset of getting something in return is like holding someone to ransome. Make your intentions clear otherwise, consider your so called generosity as a humanitarian activity.
Alex Otti na tall guy? Abi Oshiomole tall? El rufai , Tinubu , Osibajo are all short men yet .. Forget the tall and black fantasies of teenage girls, just be wealthy, you'd be the speck of 98% of these girls. The remaining 2% are those who have very strong reasons not to marry anyhow men.These ones don't just look at externalities and won't marry you because of height or pink lips.
I for post the two girls, name when I was a stupid and inexperienced young Man😢😢😂😂... But God has rewarded me with the best woman in the world... I missed a bullet, 2 bullets. If God no help and change those 2 ladies, I pity the man that meets those two women.
I will not say its a sister an brother thing, what mean these things does happen in the church a lot but not different from whats happening in the world, this type of behavior has brought some uncertainty between men an women both in the church and in the world, the thing is, you would've thought church would be a safe place or common ground for dating or courtship without all the indirect feeling of manipulative ways, but no, the carnal mind is still very much active, whiles it is good couples and singles conferences, still dealing with the carnal mind is very important
You either ask brother a straightforward question even before collecting the first gift of he did not state it, or do not collect if not, get ready to COLLECT. You gerrit, if you don't, pls sisters gerrit😂
It's not right for a brother to just do things minus, speaking out how they feel,... I believe the gal was waiting for Mr Franklin to say something first... It is actually right to speak out first before you start giving out gifts on presumption...
This is my story being told in this movie. I asked myself, " what was all the love and kindness about ?" I was so broken and I've not been able to move on, but she has. I need healing 🙏
Brother is not your type but his gifts are your type bah?😂😂 On a serious note always define relationships and don't assume, it's usually costly to do so
Some women, marry men that's not their type, simply because he has money. Some women would use a man, simply because he's lavishing the money. And some women dont care if the man has money if he's not her type he's simply not her type. Which women are you.
She didnt lead him on technically. He didn't ask the right questions. Men always ask the right questions. and women if u like his gift like him too oo😂. Great message btw
Awww no just ask him what he’s doing or what he actually wants between friendship and relationship. You’ll sack your potentially future husband if you keep blocking guys like that
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Powerful clip... actions speak louder than words... but words are still needed for clarity...
As the chairman of short people in Kenya and East Africa....we wish to express our gratitudes for your unfailing support. God bless the Winlos. 😂😂😂😂
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Brother,you did not define what you wanted,you were busy buying her gifts and you still didn't ask her out,that is so wrong. You can't expect her to be living in assumptions,make your intentions clear.
Sister,he has been buying you expensive gifts and calling you all the time,yet you didn't bother to ask him his motives,that is so wrong.
Please let's learn how to define relationships from the beginning so no one gets hurt.
I love this piece
Sisters have learnt not to live in assumption make your point very clear
The sound when she says that he's not her type😂😂😂
Girls, stop collecting gifts from guys if you know he is not your type. Stop leading them on, the end is not always good.
Tell them
How about girls stop collecting gifts from guys period, unless you're married to them. My mother taught me as a single woman to never take gifts from a single man, because somewhere along the line there is an expectation....namely sex. Women need to stop behaving so cheaply.
What if the guy is just a friend
Who doesn't ask you out or anything
@@Meritodewu that's why the intentions of the friendship should be explained, to avoid been placed on assumptions
“Let me take my gift and leave”😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂.
She couldn’t even leave the last gift
introduction,.. are you getting married?😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is the first I’ve heard of “I want a short guy with pink lips.” 😂
😂😂😂😂
😅😅😅 am dieng
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Short guy ke??😂😂 me too eshock me
The nollywood sound in the background 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
You pay attention too much😂😂
This is why gifts can't be one of my love languages. You're gifting me? You're nice, that's how I see it.
"Are you Goliath?"..my best part 😂
😂😂😂😂 Goliath
I personally believe there is a need to define every relationship...
I don't also see anything wrong with asking someone exactly what they want when they start acting all nice to you..
And Well, I always personally question some acts... I don't want to hear how e take happen..
And for guys stop acting "assumption games" with us
Don't do things and assume the person understands, be clear abeg.... 😂
By the way, I was blessed and enlightened..
Always make sure you define your relationship before investing emotionally, and financially.
@05:46 I'm not your type but my money is @06:25 Madam drop the gift 😂😂
Brother zone never heard of it😅
Once guy start to be nice to me, i always ask, What do you want?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly
100% 👌🏾
Don't ask guys such questions again... Because he might not have that kind of thing for you, he might just be God sent sometimes... And that type of question might sent them away... ❤
Exactly
When you are a gift lover cause gifts is your love language qnd its hard to say no to gifts.
Forget that one😂
Always good to define every relationship from the get-go. ❤
They were both wrong. She was greedy while he liked to assume.
I had a slightly similar situation when i was in school, I had gone to Abj to submit my IT form in a mega organization and he helped with the process, it was approved but I decided to do it elsewhere. Bro was way older and would always call to ask how I was doing. I never saw him with my eyes after that day, never took anything from him but he woke up one day, came to my school and told me that his people wanted to meet me, I was 19 didn't even know how to react that I burst out laughing. Meet me as wife to be, babe how? I don't even know the name of your village Bro...
Assumptions dont work at all
7:42
Much love from Kenya 💟
"You and Who? Dating who? When did we start? Your not my type. But thank you for the gift.😂.
Na Miyokukusheshe u dey do love with lol.
As funny as this looks I have seen it happen live.
Brother don't "invest" without communicating your intents.
Sister when "investments" start coming be kind enough to inquire the motives and reject certain gifts when they are becoming too much even if the brother insists there are no strings attached it's better to err on the side of caution.
Great message here thanks for acting.
AM A CARRIER OF HIS PRESENCE. sister 😂😂
"I am not your type, but my gifts are your type right? " 😂😂😂
She said.. "Are you getting married?" 😂😂😂
This is soo true
😂😂mbu you're like Goliath 😂😂😂
absolutely enlightning.
It's the "You want to date my gift for me" 😂😂
Guilty as charged but great lessons
The first "he is generous right?" make me knew the girl was off to no good
The scary part was yes, he didn't set boundaries and she led him on, but also him trying to rape her was out of bounds to me. That was terrifying how his mood switched in a heartbeat. Be weary of people who are "nice" rather than "kind".
Yeah the mood switch....I didnt see that one coming 😮
This!!!
You will purge ooooooo😅😅😅😅
And brothers, be straight forward! Please! Spell it out! Because breakfast in bed! Not so good!
''You will purge oo''
Just so you know, awuf dey run bele!!!
'If u are the one, u have a company and you are only investing and investing and u are not gaining anything, how will you feel, goo to the room now...'😅😅😅😅😂
Oga ie never reach like that na 😂 😂
Did you ask me out?
Did i say yes?😂😂😂
Are you Goliath?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is the lady not Miokukusheshe 🙂???
😂😂😂😂
Lessons well delivered
Hmmmmmm Gifts for free..... Brother in the Lord with out definition is an Error!!!!!
Very powerful teaching to my fellow brothers
We should be boldly enough to air out our intention
I feel the pain from here...
Proper Communication was not present here
What is that high frequency sound in the background??
😂
@@emmanuelasomba6937 👀 What is funny?
Are you goliath😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
So hilarious. 😅😅😅
Action speaks louder than words 😂😂 but I support you let her drop the gift 😂😂😂
Ahh!!!! Why nahhh
@@theonlylaurel
Why not ?
What kind of wasted investissement is that ?😊😊
I hv learnt something 😂
They are both at fault.. Some brothers needed to be tutored on Relationship goals and likewise sisters.. Assumption only leads to frustration, anyone you don't want to have anything with whether long or short relationship that will lead to marriage avoid such.. Don't give or collect gifts, Gifts cannot buy love.❤
I don't even buy gift for a girl on the assumption that she will like me as a result, what if she is already in a serious relationship
I will make sure I collect the iPhone 😂😂😂
Frank Frank 😂
Message well delivered
And you did not tell me since😂😂
When you are interested in someone, you say it. Gift giving with a mindset of getting something in return is like holding someone to ransome. Make your intentions clear otherwise, consider your so called generosity as a humanitarian activity.
I like them short 😂. Finally short people have hope.
🤣
E be like say you short😂
@@dovelybora001 yes, I am someone's spec even with this height.
@@stan3304 you’re my spec then 😅
Alex Otti na tall guy?
Abi Oshiomole tall?
El rufai , Tinubu , Osibajo are all short men yet ..
Forget the tall and black fantasies of teenage girls, just be wealthy, you'd be the speck of 98% of these girls.
The remaining 2% are those who have very strong reasons not to marry anyhow men.These ones don't just look at externalities and won't marry you because of height or pink lips.
Are you Goliath 😂😂😂😅😅
who was counting the number of hugs in the first scene like me🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
I for post the two girls, name when I was a stupid and inexperienced young Man😢😢😂😂...
But God has rewarded me with the best woman in the world... I missed a bullet, 2 bullets. If God no help and change those 2 ladies, I pity the man that meets those two women.
If blunt is a person
The ending would have been more crazier if they showed that she still took the gift 😂
Guy had been tending another man's garden 😀
You will purgeooohh😝😂😂😂
I will not say its a sister an brother thing, what mean these things does happen in the church a lot but not different from whats happening in the world, this type of behavior has brought some uncertainty between men an women both in the church and in the world, the thing is, you would've thought church would be a safe place or common ground for dating or courtship without all the indirect feeling of manipulative ways, but no, the carnal mind is still very much active, whiles it is good couples and singles conferences, still dealing with the carnal mind is very important
You either ask brother a straightforward question even before collecting the first gift of he did not state it, or do not collect if not, get ready to COLLECT. You gerrit, if you don't, pls sisters gerrit😂
We are here to feed 🇬🇭
madam drop the gift 😂😂😂
How can a guy be buying this for you like this and you say, you don't know what he want
get married... she said relationship with who?😅
"I'll be looking up to you" tf😩😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some one is guilty now 😂
😂😂
😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Go to the room now 😂😂😂😂😂
Na Waa Ooh 🤣 #CHAI
I don't like you but of course I like your gifts 😂😂😂
U're always there for what???😂.. fire on the mountain oo
It's not right for a brother to just do things minus, speaking out how they feel,... I believe the gal was waiting for Mr Franklin to say something first... It is actually right to speak out first before you start giving out gifts on presumption...
And the receiver should have integrity enough to clarify things before receiving such expensive gifts
Are you Goliath😂😂😂
I will be looking up to u
You are not yet his type but you Dey collect gifts abi 😅😂
See as you tall like Goliath😂😂
IPhone 14 Jesus!
You just call Jesus anyhow.
Stop taking the Lords name in vain. Only when praising Him or in warfare.
Beware!!
You don't even know the meaning of ' Taking the Lord's name in vain'
I pray God will open the eyes of your understanding in Jesus name
You don't even know the meaning of ' Taking the Lord's name in vain'
I pray God will open the eyes of your understanding in Jesus name
This is nigeria for you dear JESUS ' name is said every where even in shrines 😂😂😂😂😂😂but its ok even JESUS loves it
Abeg rest
Officer Pius😅
I like my guys short ke?😂😂
Madam drop the gift😂
Funny enough this is how girls are... Its very painful to be brother zoned or friend zoned
😂😂😂but you too, did you propose?
Miokuku... 😂
This is my story being told in this movie. I asked myself, " what was all the love and kindness about ?" I was so broken and I've not been able to move on, but she has. I need healing 🙏
Pls heal
@@grow_with_adolphus thank you I will heal
It's a matter of time
i don't do this,I dont do premarital things🤣🤣
Madness oooo 😂😂😂😂
Omohhh
The truth is the both of them do not have strong faith.
Brother is not your type but his gifts are your type bah?😂😂 On a serious note always define relationships and don't assume, it's usually costly to do so
Waooo
Some women, marry men that's not their type, simply because he has money. Some women would use a man, simply because he's lavishing the money. And some women dont care if the man has money if he's not her type he's simply not her type. Which women are you.
There is no amount of money that will let me get involved with someone I am not interested in
The dangers of assumptions
After taking the gift you want to insult him and take his gift 😂😂😂, girl just return everything
Go to the room 😂.... I don't do premarital things keh?
She didnt lead him on
technically. He didn't ask the right questions. Men always ask the
right questions. and women if u like his gift like him too oo😂. Great message btw
Officer Pius
2nd to watch. 🎉🎉🎉🎉
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I like short, are you Goliath?😅😅😅😅
Kai..infact if he calls you too much gan all in the name of "brother from church "...block his number danu
Awww no just ask him what he’s doing or what he actually wants between friendship and relationship. You’ll sack your potentially future husband if you keep blocking guys like that
@@Dorindameghan 🤣🤣...if he is God's will then God will find a way to bring him back...
@@PromiseEgbayelo delulu is your bestie
@@ifeoluwaadekunle3559 and what's that??
@@ifeoluwaadekunle3559...and what does that mean??