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Jess, for your deep dive series I'd love a conversation solely about motherhood. I'm 23 with a toddler and pregnant and this life has been so amazing but sooooo difficult. I'd love to hear more about losing identity as a mother, marriage struggles, self image, and drive to do the things we used to love before motherhood. Love you girl!
Please make one of your "getting real" videos on having kids, and wanting to have kids, but include Tyler please. I remember vividly something he said in a previous video on the topic th-cam.com/video/Ys0zTZYkgvo/w-d-xo.htmlfeature=shared
My 30s and 40s were the best. In my 40s, I learned a lot more about myself even though this is an ongoing process. The wisdom, knowledge and inner-strength we built
One of my best friends once told me “trust your future self to handle whatever issue comes your way because you’ve handled everything life’s thrown at you so far” and that has stuck with me ever since. I definitely have anxiety and worry all the time about the future but there’s nothing present me can really do so I just really try to remind myself to trust myself bc I’ve made it so far!
Human Resources professional here-it is ABSOLUTELY illegal for employers to inquire about how employees spend personal days. It is also illegal to ask how they’re spending sick days, but they can require a doctor’s note excluding specific medical information. It is positively wild that we’re still having these kinds of issues today, which is one enormous reason why I got my Master of Public Administration this year. It’s time to be a voice for people and really make some positive change in this country. We have the potential for greatness-it’s time to live up to it! Btw, this passion came to me at the age of 30 so there is never a right or wrong time to live your dream. 😊
I've been a teacher for almost 30 years and when I first started teaching I had a principal that would ask teachers what they were going to do on their personal days. One veteran teacher told him "It's called a personal day for a reason! When they call it a principal day I'll let you know!" LOL!!
I was a social worker for over 10 years and finished my masters in mental health counseling at 39. I am now 41 so I am two years into being a therapist and I really feel like it’s been fulfilling.
I will finish my Masters in Social Work in August (also at 39)! I am focused on removing maternal mental health barriers at the community level. It's been fulfilling so far and I can't wait until I'm done with school so I can fully focus on that purpose!
I wanted to become a clinical mental health therapist, but life never presented the circumstances to make that happen for me. However, I just finished my Master of Public Administration, so I’m hoping to be able to advocate for people on the political and legislative level to improve mental and social health community-wide. I’m 31 and I’m hoping to use my young age, knowledge base, and heart for the community to the collective advantage. Anyone who has the grit to get through a graduate program, at whatever stage in life, should be incredibly proud of that achievement. It really is fulfilling! Congrats to all of you who are doing this!❤
That’s so encouraging to hear! I’m 35 and feel like life is so good now, how could it get any better. But then I think in my 40s my kids will be older and I won’t be in the tiny littles stage and my hubby and I will hopefully be able to go on more adventures together and with our older children.
@@prayersponytails6227 I have two teenage daughters, and I’ve truly enjoyed every single stage of their lives. This one is just as special as when they were little. In my 40’s I’ve noticed I’ve stopped caring as much what people think, and I’m suddenly ok with saying the word “no” in my life. It’s allowed me to be way more less stressed. The 30’s are better than your 20’s, but there’s a certain confidence with who YOU really are that happens in your 40’s. It’s easier to forgive your past failures and know those same failures have helped form the victories you have today.
Whew Jessica I needed this 😢 hearing “you got through every difficult moment in your life.” We just bought our 1st home, and despite having a home inspection, we have had nothing but trouble with the house. Plumbing issues, water damage, etc. I have cried more days in that house than not. It sucks that such a big accomplishment (and what should have been an exciting time in our lives) has been the center of stress and disappointment. But just like everything else I’ve been through, I’ll make it through.
PS you are adorable, real, raw, vulnerable, and super humble and normal :) I appreciate you so much, in this world of loud loud loud chatter all around us.
I'm 54 and you just made me cry...I have made it!! I'm raising my grandkids and it's tough but I wouldn't have it any other way 😢😊 I'm definitely interested in more mom content , you inspire me more than you know ❤
I'm 35 and have known Jesus my whole life but it wasn't until 8 months ago that I realized I never actually had a relationship with Him. My journey/walk with Him in 8 short months has been wild. I can't believe it took 30 years to begin my true walk and looking back I can't believe how little I knew. I feel most of us could agree this journey can be a roller-coaster and for me, so far it sure has been😅. So it's super comforting to hear from like minded folks!
I switched careers at 32 and did grad school (social work) during the pandemic to become a therapist and it was the best decision I ever made. I love my job and get so much fulfillment out of it!!! Highly recommend!!!
Oh my word sweetheart you had this lady in tears again.I struggle with being and staying in pjs all day as I have 2 serious and chronic illnesses LUPUS and FIBROMAYALGIA which causes sooooo much pain 24/7 as well as depretion. I have been fighting lupus since birth and fibro for 39 years. I do use medication that takes the edge off but oh boy I am at 59 now tired of it all. I feel mostly that I simply just cannot go on anymore. I do not tell anyone anymore as I realized they dont GET it and want to preach to me how to solve myself. Iys the loneliest place to be and illness to have. I love you and your amazing lil family and wait everyday for the two of you to post especially you darling. May God Bless you and keep you to be our safeplace everyday. Thank you sweet girl xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx😘😥😥💌🙏🏼🤗🤗🤗
I’m 36 and have a newborn. My god, I can’t believe I ever went back and forth about this. I’m thankful I didn’t have children with my ex husband, that was a blessing and probably my body was telling me “NO!”. But now that I’m with a good man, this is by far the most exciting, fun, fulfilling, and beautiful time in my life by a mile. Gone are the feelings of wondering what to do next or those painful unsure feelings. It all makes sense now.
Can I just say how comforting you are to listen to. I lost 2 of my dogs within 47 hours this week... and listening to you helps distract from my reality. Thank you
30s had wonderful life changing milestones (especially becoming a mother) but 40s feel great because I’m confident, peaceful, financially stable, professionally accomplished, my kids are still young but developing more independence and I am making time to nurture deeper relationships with my children and husband and other people who have a meaningful part of my life ❤️
Oh you all have so much to look fore forward to, I’m 65 and love it. I find I’m a lot calmer about a lot of things because your priorities are different. You have lived through so much by this age. Wait till they hit school, you’re in for a totally different life, I hope you talk about it on your channel, as a parent that was a teacher. The girls will start having a life away from home. Plus they seem to grow up so much faster after they start school.
I am 62 yrs "oh sweet child"... So much of life has been lived at this point. So many milestones met and memories made Yes, I am taking things more in stride, however the stress of aging is also real. Much more learning to do. ❤
Jess, I love these real, raw, chats as you get ready. I am 62 and I STILL don't have it all figured out! But, God does. The older I get, the more I realize that, learning to listen to his still small voice, the promptings He sends us along the journey... Are what it's all about. You keep doing you honey. Sweet baby girl you are a couple years older than my daughter and I smile as I watch the two of you go through many of the same challenges and mommy things, raising toddlers. Now. If you really want to talk... Being a grandmother, I am a Mimi, is a whole another life journey. That one I was not prepared for at all. The love you feel for your grandchildren is explosions of everything you felt for your own child. It truly is a whole new roller coaster of emotions. Get ready get ready get ready😊❤🎉
I was one of those people on the fence about having kids... and kept pushing it further until I was 35. I don't regret it becoming a mom at all I was surprised how much I love it. I am grateful I was still able to have a child and have a supportive partner. I kept telling myself I can't travel anymore once I have kids or pursue my interests and it really affected me from wanting children but its not true that you cant pursue your interests as a mom it just looks really different and your priorities and sense of self really changes definitely for the better. I really enjoy watching you and Tyler travel with your family. Sure it's different to travel with children but I've taken my daughter so many places and she is only two 😊 now i look at it as i get to share my love for travel with her. I think an interesting real talk along with your parenthood topic would be pursuing your passions while having kids. It's cool tyler pursues his passion for travel nd you do youtube and makeup vids with 2 daughters! And yes the Europe videos were epic I was looking forward waking up every Saturday to watch the next episode so glad he did edit them!
I’m so happy you’re sharing your faith online! I’ve watched you for probably 6-7 years and it’s been amazing to watch you and your family grow in so many ways! Also I’m so sad you don’t love the Dior concealer! I LOVE it and the foundation!! They look so natural and skin-like!
You have every right to choose what you believe. That being said, if no one has ever told you, for God so loved you that He gave His only Son Jesus, and if you will believe on Jesus as your Savior, then you shall receive with Him eternal life. Thank you for allowing me to share this with you. The love and grace of God in my life by receiving Jesus for myself have so filled my life with hope and fulfillment and peace that I want others to enjoy these gifts, as well. Again, thank you for graciously reading my message. Please know that it comes from a place of good will. I hope you have a good day. 😊
I am 53, I look back at my 30s and say "oh sweet child!" haha!! But, you are so right. When I hit my 30s, I definitely felt like I had arrived at adulthood.
on the topic of kids, it really is forever changing. I have 3 children. a toddler, a pre-teen and a teenager. It is an ongoing learning process. My oldest were not planned and even though I was young I don't regret any decision I've made! I've been a mom for 15 years and still can't believe I'm their mother.
Lol.. yes! Oh sweet child.. Im in my 40s and still getting wiser.. definitely great decade for me.. come to terms that things are great and I don’t always to have hard if I don’t want too.. I do things my terms.. I have life experience that have taken me thus far.. and its great!
I am currently in a counseling program with a specialization in school counseling. The way you talk about self-care, burnout, and mental health in general resonates with some of what we're taught about it in our classes. I think if you ever decided to go into the field you'd be a great therapist :)
I’m 40 and I have a lot to say about life path and career choices. In my experience, all of my education led me towards certain opportunities and I realized certain strengths and interests I have while pursuing those opportunities. Those opportunities, people, and interests have led me to other opportunities I did not anticipate or ask for! All of this to say, life is a strand of connections and experiences that lead us from one thing to another. It would be boring to be doing the same thing all of the time! My undergraduate degree was in dance education, I later became a Montessori teacher, I became interested in pole dance, now I am a pole dance instructor, and I own my own studio now! The path has led me to be a business owner, and I never would have anticipated that!
Loved this video so much. The quote you said "you got through every difficult moment in your life" is something that is so powerful and more people need to hear that. Evryone experiences pain or discomfort in their life and how they overcome the difficult moment is very empowering but to remember that they overcame is just as powerful. I also enjoyed the perfectionism video as well.
I’m an empty Nester. My kids are 41,38 and 20. I have had kids in my home for 40 years and absolutely loved it. I can tell you having other hobbies or groups to be involved with during this time has literally saved me -Bible studies I love to paint are things I look forward to. However, the empty nest syndrome is so real - it’s grieving - it’s getting through letting go of the life you had. I have experienced lots of changes in my life and this is one of the biggest. You have to trust God to show you the opportunities. You have to trust him with your heart whether it’s grieving or whether it’s being joyful. It’s not easy. But it’s growth. Jessica you are so insightful. I love hearing your ideas and girl you have more wisdom than you think you do. Trust yourself. You are making the world a better place.
I recently told a friend I never knew or even realized one of the best things about being a parent is having adult kids! I’ve enjoyed “most” all of it haha but this time of our relationships is so full ❤️. I also really appreciate your honesty about where you are on your faith journey 😊
Your life thoughts did give me some solace so thank you! I’m feeling COMPLETELY lost in life right now, I’m 44 and have had a full time job since I was 15 and now I’m a stay at home mom and just nothing feels certain it’s so different every day when I have always been regimented to a 60 hour work week. I feel like I don’t know what I’m doing.
LOVING this series!! I also love seeing you come into your own when it comes to stating your opinion and how you live your life. I really do look up to you like a big sister (I’m 29) 🩷
You’re absolutely right dear one, no one has everything figured out in life. We are all just doing our best. And I think you’re overthinking the book review video. You don’t need to follow someone else’s style or structure. People like hearing your thoughts on the books you’ve read the same way you do your reviews at the end of the year. You don’t need to change the way you do things. And like you said you could totally do it in a vlog, or you could even do it at the end of a favorites video. And that way if some aren’t interested in it they can move on. ♥️
I loooove these videos. You speak so well, and great advice. Makes me feel as a mother, and business owner. Not SO ALONE. The work, family has been soooooo hard! Shutting down, letting yourself feel and be human is so importance. Thank you so much for these videos.
One of the best things that ever happened to me work-wise was getting a work cell phone. I know a lot of people hate the idea of two phones, but being able to turn that phone off and disconnect has been the best thing that I could do to keep myself from being burned out. My supervisor has my personal cell phone number if something really insane happens, but it's only been used twice in the 3.5 years since I got my work phone. I HIGHLY recommend everyone who can get a separate phone for work to do it!
Jess, I recommended your channel to my 11-year-old SIL because you are trustworthy not just as beauty-tuber but as an example of a classy human being who wants to please God…and also because SIL has somehow loved family vlogs for years, lol. Last night she told me she LOVES your videos!! Thank you for being you. 😊
Oh I used to dye my hair red and I loved it! Was often mistaken as a natural red head because it looked great on me...but it's A LOT of maintenenance. I gave it up after two kids because I just don't have the time/money it takes to maintain anymore. Now I'm just rocking my natural dirty blonde/bronde hair and just highlights updated 2-3x year. I do miss it at times, but yeah. Just a forewarning on the level of maintenance required for red hair! Edited to add: Another thing I think people need to think about when they are discussing whether or not to have children is what would you do if something doesn't go typically with the pregnancy or with your child's development? I say this coming from experience. Both of my boys are on the Autism spectrum. I never thought about what would happen if my child didn't develop typically before having kids. Thank goodness we were in a place for me to become a SAHM because there is zero way I could've managed working and getting my children to all of the different evaluations, therapies and appointments! I'm defintely not trying to scare anyone out of having kids, but I think neurodivergencies are so much more common than anyone talks about with new parents!
Oh my goodness the purpose of life and religion portion was honestly so helpful I never thought about it that way and you are so right! Thank you for this! ❤
Yeah hit 45 going on 46 come September so funny! I'm learning to take each day as it comes, appreciate the ones around you because you never know how long they will be here, love yourself first!
I’m so excited for the return of Disneyville! And I love all kinds of chatty, brain dump type podcasts, so you’d have a listener if you and Tyler ever started one like that!
“Your faith should be a journey.” Yep. We never get to the depth of it, there’s always more to learn in our relationship with God. That’s what I love about my now Catholic faith. So much deeper than the evangelicalism I grew up in. There’s a divine simplicity, but also a depth you could never reach the bottom of.
First, BEST chat video you’ve done! I’m so happy you are where you are in your 30’s…I sure wasn’t! I thought my 40’s were fantastic….but THEN! My 50’s…OH SO GOOD! I made the decision to not have kids, and have no regrets…but I think you said it perfectly that if someone is going back and forth, they will not regret HAVING kids! That was perfectly said! Re Tyler’s Europe vlog, WOW! It was definitely Rick Steve’s quality! So well done….i could’ve listened and watch hours more of it! I look forward to the possibility of more of this type of vlog from Tyler’s channel! ❤️ Tho I’m much older than you, you were one of the first TH-camrs I watched back in the day….you were still teaching, no kids, etc. You’re so genuine and precious! THANK YOU! 💕
I relate so much to the sentiment of "you got through all the hard things". Im 37 and a single Mom to a special needs kiddo. I have had to work so hard to get our life to this place of peace (its not perfect but we are doing so much better) and now its even better bc I was able to take all my years of my career to end up working along side my 2 sisters. Always growing and still facing challenges but I really feel the confidence of being comfortable in myself!
Please. Please. I would love to see a video on parenthood. My daughter is 6 and I’ve watched your videos through your pregnancy with Genevieve and struggled so much with the baby phase and pregnancy in general. Love how real you are because so many of us can relate 💐💐💐
I loved the way you answered all questions, especially the last one, so insightful and inspirational. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us on here! ❤
I’ve watched the European videos on Tyler’s channel and he absolutely did do a great job. I got to see so many cool places that I would never have seen if he hadn’t done the videos.
Along with what you said about not having just 1 purpose in life, your purpose can change in every season and it doesn’t have to be this monumental thing.. for me right now it’s being a good wife & mom & helpful friend. Last year it was worship leading and only God knows that next year I could add on something completely new and what currently feels out of my element!! All that to say I think this is part of your purpose, I know that these talks are so inspiring and relatable for many! You are blessing a lot of people with your stories & knowledge! I’ve been here many years and I’ve been praying for your family and faith to flourish and it’s so cool to see that more and more come through in your videos💕🙏🏼
I’m turning 30 in July and I’m seriously so excited. 🎉 Also, I’ve had a rough life, lots of trauma and whatnot, but I always remind myself “god will never give me more than I can handle” and it gives me so much comfort when I’m feeling beat down. ❤ Jess, I freaking love your channel and your videos. You’re such a light on this dark earth and I’m so thankful for you. 🩷
You should absolutely focus an episode on parenting specifically being a new mom, growing into that role finding yourself again, postpartum depression/anxiety etc. you’re the reason I was brave enough to tell my doctor how much I was struggling and get therapy and medication. Not to be dramatic but you helped save my life ❤
Your perfectionism video really got me thinking, too! I am an adult woman with adhd so I struggle with hyper focusing on my perfectionism. I can’t even put into words what it’s like to have a constant struggle in the neurodivergent brain. It can be so painful at times.
I’m a child and family therapist and work with ages 0-18. I got my degree online and it was easy to do because I went at my own pace. It’s a very rewarding job but can be very exhausting and burn out is real
I love what you’ve said about religion and faith. I’ve never felt closer to my faith and god since letting go of what I was told religion and faith looked like or should look like! ❤
why do I feel so special that you answered my question about hair color 😂😂❤ i agree tho maybe you should try the reddish brown one day!! i think now a days its being called “ cowboy copper “ 😂
I love your makeup and lifestyle blogs. And it's why i continue to watch the channel. Not crazy about the churchy or kid stuff so if you could label that in the video so it could be skipped, that would be nice. Alot of us aren't into those things. Or just do separate videos when you want to talk about those things so we can choose? Food foe thought.
I've been a follower for a long time and all these lovely, intelligent, concise comments are so true. AND Tyler did do a spectacular job on the European videos. Finally. 😂 love you girl.
When people started asking me when I was going to have a second child, they always said I would never regret having a second child so I should just go for it. I got a lot of pressure and it was super annoying but it also made me cry many nights thinking that I was terrible for not really wanting to take that step. My son has a pretty significant articulation disorder and it's taken years of speech therapy to get him where he is now, and we still have a way to go. In addition, I had HELLP syndrome when I was pregnant with him and had to be induced six weeks early because of how severe my illness was. I'm at super high risk for having something like that happen again, and my son and I both almost died last time. I really wanted to just focus on my son's development and happiness. Now my son is 10 and I can safely say that I am comfortable with my decision to just have one child. He is an absolutely wonderful kid and although there are times when I feel a little pang when I think about how he won't have a sibling, I remind myself that he has great friends and that our family is extremely happy and close. The decision about starting or expanding a family is incredibly personal and my advice for what it's worth is to not let yourself be bullied into making a decision you are leaning against. Definitely seek out advice and pray about it (if that's something you do) and at the end of the day make sure you're doing something you and your significant other are comfortable with. We all have our own paths to walk.
I really love these type of sit down and chat videos that you do Jessica. You always have such thoughtful responses and well researched discussions in the getting real series! I’d be interested to see the video on becoming a parent, even though I personally have no interest in having biological kids 😅 But the answer about feeling like you can only have one life purpose really resonated with me. I’ve changed my career/focus in life so many times because that purpose can be expressed in so many ways. I’m mainly a storyteller, so when I was a kid I told stories through music. I told stories through theatre as an actor and director through college. I told stories as a news reporter right out of undergrad. And now I tell stories though athletes after getting my masters. Looking back it’s been very cool to see how many different ways I could focus on telling stories. And I love that now it’s more acceptable to make those changes in society too. Hopefully it gets to stay that way!
As a fellow Irish American gal I highly recommend doing the auburn hair color you will love it. I had it for like three - four years and miss it but it got a little expensive for me to maintain.
I love your topics you choose on your real talks. Anything about life and your personal exeriences, testimonies and what you overcame is always so encouraging and uplifting❤❤❤God bless you richly🎉🎉🎉
You have such a cool and soft skin tone (most likely one of the Summers in seasonal color analysis)- The coppery hair would be really fun but if you wanna stick to what is most flattering a dark ashy brown would be beautiful 😍🤎
Awh Jessica🥰Talking about faith and spirituality!!! You are sooo great at explaining your thoughts on this subject. I’m 61 in April and a Nondenominational Christian who believes in a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. I went to so many controlling, “do this not that churches!” My husband and I do our own private devotionals each day and prayers together for our family and friends. Thanks so much for sharing your journey so openly🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼I’ve been watching your videos for years. You are so inspiring!
You're so right! Having kids is so much more than having a baby. I say this all the time, you have a baby for 1 year, then a toddler, then a kid, then a teenager, then a young adult. And parenting looks different at every stage, emotionally and financially!
Yessss to red hair! Me, my mom, and my 2 year old daughter have red hair (all natural). I think you’d love it and rock it. There’s something about being a red head (natural or not) that just sits well with the soul. And I wholeheartedly agree, Tyler’s videos are so well done; thorough, informative, interesting, entertaining and professional. I’ve been enjoying watching the Yurt videos so much!
30's were the best for me. Late 40s to now.. ( 57 this year, and my son just turned 36!) I learned to stand up for myself. The last 4, Ive been VERY strong about keeping my peace and sanity. ❤
Really loved this one. I'm 58, changed carreers at 54, still don't know what my "purpose" is. My inly will be graduating college this spring (Muscial Theater!). I want to continue to learn - I want to do more art, make people laugh (I do Improv) and read more.
Great video! I’m also a big fan of your Target shopping, vlogs, house stuff . . . And I love that you get dressed up for date night! Have you shopped at Evereve? It would be fun to see you do a styling session there. Different price point than Kohl’s (congrats on the sponsorship!) but I feel like you would get some cute stuff!
Jess you constantly amaze me at your maturity and wisdom level for someone so young, I am old enough to be your mum so yes you are very young 😂 I think that you have exactly what it takes to one day become a very successful qualified therapist or a life coach. But until then I will continue to watch your free therapy sessions I mean vlogs 😉 Colour your hair any and every colour you have ever thought of and do it now while you’re young. It’s just colour if you do it and you decide it’s not working for you, change it back or change it up. Because the day will come when your hair is white and difficult to colour and you will long for those ‘colourful days’. Speaking from first hand experience here. Regarding the question on finding your purpose you answered it beautifully. Sadly it took me a long time, to late 40’s early 50’s before I realised that there was not that “One Purpose” that often makes us feel like we are all on some sort of Karmic treasure hunt to find that when we do find it suddenly life becomes easier and fulfilling and that makes those of us that aren’t finding the right clues are somehow failing at life and all that rubbish that I at least have bought into during my life. I know believe, as you said, that each phase/stage of our lives brings with it its own changes, challenges, experiences. And so now I believe therefore there just has to be different “purposes”, lessons and chances for growth so it is doesn’t even make sense to me that it is even possible for there to be just one, seemingly elusive, magical purpose that will finally make sense to us. Keep doing what you’re doing Jess and thank you for letting us watch you and learn from you as you change and evolve yourself and your channel. It is an honour and a joy 🥹 ❤from 🇦🇺
I had just decided last night that after work and school we are gonna start taking walks in the afternoon. We really need to get out as a family and it’s getting warm enough to enjoy a walk
Well from my 62 year old self when I was 35 I do believe that was my very favorite age. You are wise beyond your years and I absolutely adore you and your family. I try to keep you and your family in my prayers. Keep up the the awesome amazing job you're doing we all absolutely love you guys
I have been watching you since the beginning of your youtube career and I have to say it is refreshing to hear you be open about your religion:) I myself am not religious but I am always intrigued when others share their beliefs:) Also, you would look great as a redhead!🥰🔥
Please do a getting real vid about your faith journey. I am a 62 year old woman and find everything you present inspirational and uplifting. I found you through the beauty community but continue watching because I am inspired by your journey. My 30s were a difficult period, 40s were a growth stage, 50s I came in to my own and 60s have been years of healing physically and mentally, and gratitude. You, young lady, remind me that there is wisdom and truth from the mouths of (with total respect) babes.
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Jess, for your deep dive series I'd love a conversation solely about motherhood. I'm 23 with a toddler and pregnant and this life has been so amazing but sooooo difficult. I'd love to hear more about losing identity as a mother, marriage struggles, self image, and drive to do the things we used to love before motherhood. Love you girl!
I literally shared the perfectionism on my fb feed 😄 and I never share on fb
Please make one of your "getting real" videos on having kids, and wanting to have kids, but include Tyler please. I remember vividly something he said in a previous video on the topic
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oh, sweet child...hahahah (I'm 57) The 30s and 40s were some of the very best of my life. Loved them. 50s are great too.
I am laughing also. I’ll be 52 on Thursday the 7th. My 40’s through now have been the best! Although some of my 30’s were omg so much fun!
My 30s and 40s were the best. In my 40s, I learned a lot more about myself even though this is an ongoing process. The wisdom, knowledge and inner-strength we built
Just turned 58 and enjoy all the laughs of life!
Same!
Definitely but I’m striving to make my 50’s just as good as the others.
One of my best friends once told me “trust your future self to handle whatever issue comes your way because you’ve handled everything life’s thrown at you so far” and that has stuck with me ever since. I definitely have anxiety and worry all the time about the future but there’s nothing present me can really do so I just really try to remind myself to trust myself bc I’ve made it so far!
That seems like solid advice!
Human Resources professional here-it is ABSOLUTELY illegal for employers to inquire about how employees spend personal days. It is also illegal to ask how they’re spending sick days, but they can require a doctor’s note excluding specific medical information. It is positively wild that we’re still having these kinds of issues today, which is one enormous reason why I got my Master of Public Administration this year. It’s time to be a voice for people and really make some positive change in this country. We have the potential for greatness-it’s time to live up to it! Btw, this passion came to me at the age of 30 so there is never a right or wrong time to live your dream. 😊
👏👏👏PREACH!
I have been following you for years. You have grown and evolved to be a wise, fun, clever, delightful woman. This video was amazing!
I've been a teacher for almost 30 years and when I first started teaching I had a principal that would ask teachers what they were going to do on their personal days. One veteran teacher told him "It's called a personal day for a reason! When they call it a principal day I'll let you know!" LOL!!
I was a social worker for over 10 years and finished my masters in mental health counseling at 39. I am now 41 so I am two years into being a therapist and I really feel like it’s been fulfilling.
Clinical social workers can also do therapy! I’m so glad you are feeling fulfilled!
I will finish my Masters in Social Work in August (also at 39)! I am focused on removing maternal mental health barriers at the community level. It's been fulfilling so far and I can't wait until I'm done with school so I can fully focus on that purpose!
I wanted to become a clinical mental health therapist, but life never presented the circumstances to make that happen for me. However, I just finished my Master of Public Administration, so I’m hoping to be able to advocate for people on the political and legislative level to improve mental and social health community-wide. I’m 31 and I’m hoping to use my young age, knowledge base, and heart for the community to the collective advantage. Anyone who has the grit to get through a graduate program, at whatever stage in life, should be incredibly proud of that achievement. It really is fulfilling! Congrats to all of you who are doing this!❤
Omg yes PLEASSSSSSE do a video about becoming a parent!! I would love to hear your deeper thoughts
I’d love to hear some perspective on going from 1 to 2 kiddos!
Especially because I'm pretty sure Tyler didn't want kids in the beginning.
I’ve got news for you. Your 40’s are even a 1000 times better than your 30’s
Agree!!!
Agree!! I was thinking to myself Ahhh sweet child, you are going to LOVE your 40’s! 😃
That’s so encouraging to hear! I’m 35 and feel like life is so good now, how could it get any better. But then I think in my 40s my kids will be older and I won’t be in the tiny littles stage and my hubby and I will hopefully be able to go on more adventures together and with our older children.
@@prayersponytails6227 I have two teenage daughters, and I’ve truly enjoyed every single stage of their lives. This one is just as special as when they were little. In my 40’s I’ve noticed I’ve stopped caring as much what people think, and I’m suddenly ok with saying the word “no” in my life. It’s allowed me to be way more less stressed. The 30’s are better than your 20’s, but there’s a certain confidence with who YOU really are that happens in your 40’s. It’s easier to forgive your past failures and know those same failures have helped form the victories you have today.
50's are pretty good too. Each decade I level up I love myself more and more.
Whew Jessica I needed this 😢 hearing “you got through every difficult moment in your life.” We just bought our 1st home, and despite having a home inspection, we have had nothing but trouble with the house. Plumbing issues, water damage, etc. I have cried more days in that house than not. It sucks that such a big accomplishment (and what should have been an exciting time in our lives) has been the center of stress and disappointment. But just like everything else I’ve been through, I’ll make it through.
Jessie girl, I've been wanting to say that in your last several videos you've seemed so much more relaxed and at ease! So happy to see it :)
PS you are adorable, real, raw, vulnerable, and super humble and normal :) I appreciate you so much, in this world of loud loud loud chatter all around us.
I'm 54 and you just made me cry...I have made it!! I'm raising my grandkids and it's tough but I wouldn't have it any other way 😢😊 I'm definitely interested in more mom content , you inspire me more than you know ❤
Im 46 and feel like my faith is ALIVE for the first time in my life. It really is a journey. I would love an entire video about your faith journey ❤❤
Me too 🙏🏼
I would love that too 🙏🏻
I'm 35 and have known Jesus my whole life but it wasn't until 8 months ago that I realized I never actually had a relationship with Him. My journey/walk with Him in 8 short months has been wild. I can't believe it took 30 years to begin my true walk and looking back I can't believe how little I knew. I feel most of us could agree this journey can be a roller-coaster and for me, so far it sure has been😅. So it's super comforting to hear from like minded folks!
@@katiestevens6207 that’s so awesome 👏🏼 so happy for you 🙏🏼I’m 61 and still feel like I’m on a relationship journey with the Lord.
@@sandybowers5085🙂thank you! That's amazing!! I imagine it just gets better and better ❤
I switched careers at 32 and did grad school (social work) during the pandemic to become a therapist and it was the best decision I ever made. I love my job and get so much fulfillment out of it!!! Highly recommend!!!
As someone who’s grown up with and had a tricky relationship with religion, I love how you speak about it
Oh my word sweetheart you had this lady in tears again.I struggle with being and staying in pjs all day as I have 2 serious and chronic illnesses LUPUS and FIBROMAYALGIA which causes sooooo much pain 24/7 as well as depretion. I have been fighting lupus since birth and fibro for 39 years. I do use medication that takes the edge off but oh boy I am at 59 now tired of it all. I feel mostly that I simply just cannot go on anymore. I do not tell anyone anymore as I realized they dont GET it and want to preach to me how to solve myself. Iys the loneliest place to be and illness to have. I love you and your amazing lil family and wait everyday for the two of you to post especially you darling. May God Bless you and keep you to be our safeplace everyday. Thank you sweet girl xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx😘😥😥💌🙏🏼🤗🤗🤗
I’m 36 and have a newborn. My god, I can’t believe I ever went back and forth about this. I’m thankful I didn’t have children with my ex husband, that was a blessing and probably my body was telling me “NO!”. But now that I’m with a good man, this is by far the most exciting, fun, fulfilling, and beautiful time in my life by a mile. Gone are the feelings of wondering what to do next or those painful unsure feelings. It all makes sense now.
Can I just say how comforting you are to listen to. I lost 2 of my dogs within 47 hours this week... and listening to you helps distract from my reality. Thank you
On my third comment on this one video because this was just so thought provoking and real! You’re the best, Jess. The ultimate internet big-sis
30s had wonderful life changing milestones (especially becoming a mother) but 40s feel great because I’m confident, peaceful, financially stable, professionally accomplished, my kids are still young but developing more independence and I am making time to nurture deeper relationships with my children and husband and other people who have a meaningful part of my life ❤️
I agree my 40’s so far have been so peaceful.
I’m 13 wks pregnant after trying for 4 years. Would love a video on parenting!
What a lovely speech about not having life all figured out and why that’s a good thing. I need to remind myself of that often. Thanks Jess!
Do it!!! I'm a fellow Irish girl and I'm wanting that same brunette red color!
I just like how you are so open and honest…😊
Oh you all have so much to look fore forward to, I’m 65 and love it. I find I’m a lot calmer about a lot of things because your priorities are different. You have lived through so much by this age.
Wait till they hit school, you’re in for a totally different life, I hope you talk about it on your channel, as a parent that was a teacher. The girls will start having a life away from home. Plus they seem to grow up so much faster after they start school.
I am 62 yrs "oh sweet child"... So much of life has been lived at this point. So many milestones met and memories made
Yes, I am taking things more in stride, however the stress of aging is also real. Much more learning to do. ❤
Jess, I love these real, raw, chats as you get ready. I am 62 and I STILL don't have it all figured out! But, God does. The older I get, the more I realize that, learning to listen to his still small voice, the promptings He sends us along the journey... Are what it's all about. You keep doing you honey. Sweet baby girl you are a couple years older than my daughter and I smile as I watch the two of you go through many of the same challenges and mommy things, raising toddlers. Now. If you really want to talk... Being a grandmother, I am a Mimi, is a whole another life journey. That one I was not prepared for at all. The love you feel for your grandchildren is explosions of everything you felt for your own child. It truly is a whole new roller coaster of emotions. Get ready get ready get ready😊❤🎉
I was one of those people on the fence about having kids... and kept pushing it further until I was 35. I don't regret it becoming a mom at all I was surprised how much I love it. I am grateful I was still able to have a child and have a supportive partner. I kept telling myself I can't travel anymore once I have kids or pursue my interests and it really affected me from wanting children but its not true that you cant pursue your interests as a mom it just looks really different and your priorities and sense of self really changes definitely for the better. I really enjoy watching you and Tyler travel with your family. Sure it's different to travel with children but I've taken my daughter so many places and she is only two 😊 now i look at it as i get to share my love for travel with her. I think an interesting real talk along with your parenthood topic would be pursuing your passions while having kids. It's cool tyler pursues his passion for travel nd you do youtube and makeup vids with 2 daughters! And yes the Europe videos were epic I was looking forward waking up every Saturday to watch the next episode so glad he did edit them!
I’m so happy you’re sharing your faith online! I’ve watched you for probably 6-7 years and it’s been amazing to watch you and your family grow in so many ways!
Also I’m so sad you don’t love the Dior concealer! I LOVE it and the foundation!! They look so natural and skin-like!
Love your coffee chats! I am not religious/spiritual at all, but I like that you present it in a way that is general and respectful of all.
You have every right to choose what you believe. That being said, if no one has ever told you, for God so loved you that He gave His only Son Jesus, and if you will believe on Jesus as your Savior, then you shall receive with Him eternal life. Thank you for allowing me to share this with you. The love and grace of God in my life by receiving Jesus for myself have so filled my life with hope and fulfillment and peace that I want others to enjoy these gifts, as well. Again, thank you for graciously reading my message. Please know that it comes from a place of good will. I hope you have a good day. 😊
I agree. Tyler’s videos are so professional and impressive. The Alaskan cruise videos blew my mind.
I agree. The Alaskan cruise is my favorite of Tyler’s travel videos. Vlogmas is my favorite over all
You should totally do the brownish red!! It would be gorgeous with your skin
I am 53, I look back at my 30s and say "oh sweet child!" haha!! But, you are so right. When I hit my 30s, I definitely felt like I had arrived at adulthood.
Due in 5 weeks with first baby and would love your next chat to be about becoming a parent!
on the topic of kids, it really is forever changing. I have 3 children. a toddler, a pre-teen and a teenager. It is an ongoing learning process. My oldest were not planned and even though I was young I don't regret any decision I've made! I've been a mom for 15 years and still can't believe I'm their mother.
Lol.. yes! Oh sweet child.. Im in my 40s and still getting wiser.. definitely great decade for me.. come to terms that things are great and I don’t always to have hard if I don’t want too.. I do things my terms.. I have life experience that have taken me thus far.. and its great!
I am currently in a counseling program with a specialization in school counseling. The way you talk about self-care, burnout, and mental health in general resonates with some of what we're taught about it in our classes. I think if you ever decided to go into the field you'd be a great therapist :)
I’m 40 and I have a lot to say about life path and career choices. In my experience, all of my education led me towards certain opportunities and I realized certain strengths and interests I have while pursuing those opportunities. Those opportunities, people, and interests have led me to other opportunities I did not anticipate or ask for! All of this to say, life is a strand of connections and experiences that lead us from one thing to another. It would be boring to be doing the same thing all of the time! My undergraduate degree was in dance education, I later became a Montessori teacher, I became interested in pole dance, now I am a pole dance instructor, and I own my own studio now! The path has led me to be a business owner, and I never would have anticipated that!
I am still new but I am so thankful for you! Tonight you made me cry and THANK YOU! I needed it!! 😢
Loved this video so much. The quote you said "you got through every difficult moment in your life" is something that is so powerful and more people need to hear that. Evryone experiences pain or discomfort in their life and how they overcome the difficult moment is very empowering but to remember that they overcame is just as powerful.
I also enjoyed the perfectionism video as well.
I’m an empty Nester. My kids are 41,38 and 20. I have had kids in my home for 40 years and absolutely loved it. I can tell you having other hobbies or groups to be involved with during this time has literally saved me -Bible studies I love to paint are things I look forward to. However, the empty nest syndrome is so real - it’s grieving - it’s getting through letting go of the life you had. I have experienced lots of changes in my life and this is one of the biggest. You have to trust God to show you the opportunities. You have to trust him with your heart whether it’s grieving or whether it’s being joyful. It’s not easy. But it’s growth. Jessica you are so insightful. I love hearing your ideas and girl you have more wisdom than you think you do. Trust yourself. You are making the world a better place.
My forties are my favorite decade yet! It just keeps getting better!🥰
That’s so encouraging to hear!
I feel like I just had a great one-sided conversation with the older sister I never had 💛
I’d love to hear you talk about mom guilt, the realities of parenthood not always being enjoyable or easy, how you’ve grown since becoming a parent. ❤
I recently told a friend I never knew or even realized one of the best things about being a parent is having adult kids! I’ve enjoyed “most” all of it haha but this time of our relationships is so full ❤️. I also really appreciate your honesty about where you are on your faith journey 😊
I love your thoughts about purpose in life and how things are a journey and not supposed to look the same your whole life! ❤
These chats always feel like I’m hanging out with a sister 💕 thank you for always being so real and honest about life.
Your life thoughts did give me some solace so thank you! I’m feeling COMPLETELY lost in life right now, I’m 44 and have had a full time job since I was 15 and now I’m a stay at home mom and just nothing feels certain it’s so different every day when I have always been regimented to a 60 hour work week. I feel like I don’t know what I’m doing.
I did not now how much I needed this video until I watched it. Thank you for being so genuine ❤
LOVING this series!! I also love seeing you come into your own when it comes to stating your opinion and how you live your life. I really do look up to you like a big sister (I’m 29) 🩷
You’re absolutely right dear one, no one has everything figured out in life. We are all just doing our best. And I think you’re overthinking the book review video. You don’t need to follow someone else’s style or structure. People like hearing your thoughts on the books you’ve read the same way you do your reviews at the end of the year. You don’t need to change the way you do things. And like you said you could totally do it in a vlog, or you could even do it at the end of a favorites video. And that way if some aren’t interested in it they can move on. ♥️
LOVE how you handled the parenthood question. You answered it perfectly 🥰
I loooove these videos. You speak so well, and great advice. Makes me feel as a mother, and business owner. Not SO ALONE. The work, family has been soooooo hard! Shutting down, letting yourself feel and be human is so importance. Thank you so much for these videos.
One of the best things that ever happened to me work-wise was getting a work cell phone. I know a lot of people hate the idea of two phones, but being able to turn that phone off and disconnect has been the best thing that I could do to keep myself from being burned out. My supervisor has my personal cell phone number if something really insane happens, but it's only been used twice in the 3.5 years since I got my work phone. I HIGHLY recommend everyone who can get a separate phone for work to do it!
Jess, I recommended your channel to my 11-year-old SIL because you are trustworthy not just as beauty-tuber but as an example of a classy human being who wants to please God…and also because SIL has somehow loved family vlogs for years, lol. Last night she told me she LOVES your videos!! Thank you for being you. 😊
30's was alot more learning for me.. Upper 30's and now at 41 I am truly excepting and loving myself... Also forgiving my younger self..❤
I love how you described faith and how it's a journey. That it isn't about all the other stuff it is about a relationship.
Your advice on having kids is spot on 👍🏼
Oh I used to dye my hair red and I loved it! Was often mistaken as a natural red head because it looked great on me...but it's A LOT of maintenenance. I gave it up after two kids because I just don't have the time/money it takes to maintain anymore. Now I'm just rocking my natural dirty blonde/bronde hair and just highlights updated 2-3x year. I do miss it at times, but yeah. Just a forewarning on the level of maintenance required for red hair!
Edited to add: Another thing I think people need to think about when they are discussing whether or not to have children is what would you do if something doesn't go typically with the pregnancy or with your child's development? I say this coming from experience. Both of my boys are on the Autism spectrum. I never thought about what would happen if my child didn't develop typically before having kids. Thank goodness we were in a place for me to become a SAHM because there is zero way I could've managed working and getting my children to all of the different evaluations, therapies and appointments! I'm defintely not trying to scare anyone out of having kids, but I think neurodivergencies are so much more common than anyone talks about with new parents!
Oh my goodness the purpose of life and religion portion was honestly so helpful I never thought about it that way and you are so right! Thank you for this! ❤
Yeah hit 45 going on 46 come September so funny! I'm learning to take each day as it comes, appreciate the ones around you because you never know how long they will be here, love yourself first!
Podcast about life??? 1000% yessss ❤
I’m so excited for the return of Disneyville! And I love all kinds of chatty, brain dump type podcasts, so you’d have a listener if you and Tyler ever started one like that!
As always I loved to hear about your faith journey. Thx for sharing. Tell my mid 20’s daughter how much more confident the 30’s can be❤🎉
“Your faith should be a journey.” Yep. We never get to the depth of it, there’s always more to learn in our relationship with God. That’s what I love about my now Catholic faith. So much deeper than the evangelicalism I grew up in. There’s a divine simplicity, but also a depth you could never reach the bottom of.
First, BEST chat video you’ve done! I’m so happy you are where you are in your 30’s…I sure wasn’t! I thought my 40’s were fantastic….but THEN! My 50’s…OH SO GOOD! I made the decision to not have kids, and have no regrets…but I think you said it perfectly that if someone is going back and forth, they will not regret HAVING kids! That was perfectly said! Re Tyler’s Europe vlog, WOW! It was definitely Rick Steve’s quality! So well done….i could’ve listened and watch hours more of it! I look forward to the possibility of more of this type of vlog from Tyler’s channel! ❤️ Tho I’m much older than you, you were one of the first TH-camrs I watched back in the day….you were still teaching, no kids, etc. You’re so genuine and precious! THANK YOU! 💕
Would love a deep dive on your faith journey. I know it's such a personal thing, but I would love to hear more about that 😊
The Europe vlogs were absolutely amazing!!! It was like watching a picturesque movie and it was adorable seeing GiGi at a younger age!!!
I relate so much to the sentiment of "you got through all the hard things". Im 37 and a single Mom to a special needs kiddo. I have had to work so hard to get our life to this place of peace (its not perfect but we are doing so much better) and now its even better bc I was able to take all my years of my career to end up working along side my 2 sisters. Always growing and still facing challenges but I really feel the confidence of being comfortable in myself!
Please. Please. I would love to see a video on parenthood. My daughter is 6 and I’ve watched your videos through your pregnancy with Genevieve and struggled so much with the baby phase and pregnancy in general. Love how real you are because so many of us can relate 💐💐💐
I loved the way you answered all questions, especially the last one, so insightful and inspirational. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us on here! ❤
I’ve watched the European videos on Tyler’s channel and he absolutely did do a great job. I got to see so many cool places that I would never have seen if he hadn’t done the videos.
Along with what you said about not having just 1 purpose in life, your purpose can change in every season and it doesn’t have to be this monumental thing.. for me right now it’s being a good wife & mom & helpful friend. Last year it was worship leading and only God knows that next year I could add on something completely new and what currently feels out of my element!!
All that to say I think this is part of your purpose, I know that these talks are so inspiring and relatable for many! You are blessing a lot of people with your stories & knowledge! I’ve been here many years and I’ve been praying for your family and faith to flourish and it’s so cool to see that more and more come through in your videos💕🙏🏼
I’m turning 30 in July and I’m seriously so excited. 🎉 Also, I’ve had a rough life, lots of trauma and whatnot, but I always remind myself “god will never give me more than I can handle” and it gives me so much comfort when I’m feeling beat down. ❤ Jess, I freaking love your channel and your videos. You’re such a light on this dark earth and I’m so thankful for you. 🩷
Your comments about faith being a journey and less about rules and knowing everything really hit me. I love the way you thoughtfully share your faith.
My son just fell asleep and I warmed up my lunch. This couldn't have been better timing!
You should absolutely focus an episode on parenting specifically being a new mom, growing into that role finding yourself again, postpartum depression/anxiety etc. you’re the reason I was brave enough to tell my doctor how much I was struggling and get therapy and medication. Not to be dramatic but you helped save my life ❤
Your perfectionism video really got me thinking, too! I am an adult woman with adhd so I struggle with hyper focusing on my perfectionism. I can’t even put into words what it’s like to have a constant struggle in the neurodivergent brain. It can be so painful at times.
I’m a child and family therapist and work with ages 0-18. I got my degree online and it was easy to do because I went at my own pace. It’s a very rewarding job but can be very exhausting and burn out is real
I love what you’ve said about religion and faith. I’ve never felt closer to my faith and god since letting go of what I was told religion and faith looked like or should look like! ❤
why do I feel so special that you answered my question about hair color 😂😂❤ i agree tho maybe you should try the reddish brown one day!! i think now a days its being called “ cowboy copper “ 😂
I love your makeup and lifestyle blogs. And it's why i continue to watch the channel. Not crazy about the churchy or kid stuff so if you could label that in the video so it could be skipped, that would be nice. Alot of us aren't into those things. Or just do separate videos when you want to talk about those things so we can choose? Food foe thought.
I've been a follower for a long time and all these lovely, intelligent, concise comments are so true. AND Tyler did do a spectacular job on the European videos. Finally. 😂 love you girl.
When people started asking me when I was going to have a second child, they always said I would never regret having a second child so I should just go for it. I got a lot of pressure and it was super annoying but it also made me cry many nights thinking that I was terrible for not really wanting to take that step. My son has a pretty significant articulation disorder and it's taken years of speech therapy to get him where he is now, and we still have a way to go. In addition, I had HELLP syndrome when I was pregnant with him and had to be induced six weeks early because of how severe my illness was. I'm at super high risk for having something like that happen again, and my son and I both almost died last time. I really wanted to just focus on my son's development and happiness. Now my son is 10 and I can safely say that I am comfortable with my decision to just have one child. He is an absolutely wonderful kid and although there are times when I feel a little pang when I think about how he won't have a sibling, I remind myself that he has great friends and that our family is extremely happy and close. The decision about starting or expanding a family is incredibly personal and my advice for what it's worth is to not let yourself be bullied into making a decision you are leaning against. Definitely seek out advice and pray about it (if that's something you do) and at the end of the day make sure you're doing something you and your significant other are comfortable with. We all have our own paths to walk.
I really love these type of sit down and chat videos that you do Jessica. You always have such thoughtful responses and well researched discussions in the getting real series! I’d be interested to see the video on becoming a parent, even though I personally have no interest in having biological kids 😅
But the answer about feeling like you can only have one life purpose really resonated with me. I’ve changed my career/focus in life so many times because that purpose can be expressed in so many ways. I’m mainly a storyteller, so when I was a kid I told stories through music. I told stories through theatre as an actor and director through college. I told stories as a news reporter right out of undergrad. And now I tell stories though athletes after getting my masters.
Looking back it’s been very cool to see how many different ways I could focus on telling stories. And I love that now it’s more acceptable to make those changes in society too. Hopefully it gets to stay that way!
As a fellow Irish American gal I highly recommend doing the auburn hair color you will love it. I had it for like three - four years and miss it but it got a little expensive for me to maintain.
I love your topics you choose on your real talks. Anything about life and your personal exeriences, testimonies and what you overcame is always so encouraging and uplifting❤❤❤God bless you richly🎉🎉🎉
Loved this! And would love to see a “becoming a parent” real talk episode!
Currently in that stage and would love to hear your thoughts and advice! ❤
You have such a cool and soft skin tone (most likely one of the Summers in seasonal color analysis)- The coppery hair would be really fun but if you wanna stick to what is most flattering a dark ashy brown would be beautiful 😍🤎
Awh Jessica🥰Talking about faith and spirituality!!! You are sooo great at explaining your thoughts on this subject. I’m 61 in April and a Nondenominational Christian who believes in a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. I went to so many controlling, “do this not that churches!” My husband and I do our own private devotionals each day and prayers together for our family and friends. Thanks so much for sharing your journey so openly🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼I’ve been watching your videos for years. You are so inspiring!
But it’s not about rules and control it’s the opposite it’s about having the tools to help you on this journey to heaven.
@@roseg1333 I wholeheartedly agree with you ❤️
@@roseg1333 I wholeheartedly agree with you ❤️
You're so right! Having kids is so much more than having a baby. I say this all the time, you have a baby for 1 year, then a toddler, then a kid, then a teenager, then a young adult. And parenting looks different at every stage, emotionally and financially!
I am tough. I got through it and I will again. Thank you, Jess. 🥲
Yessss to red hair! Me, my mom, and my 2 year old daughter have red hair (all natural). I think you’d love it and rock it. There’s something about being a red head (natural or not) that just sits well with the soul. And I wholeheartedly agree, Tyler’s videos are so well done; thorough, informative, interesting, entertaining and professional. I’ve been enjoying watching the Yurt videos so much!
30's were the best for me. Late 40s to now.. ( 57 this year, and my son just turned 36!) I learned to stand up for myself. The last 4, Ive been VERY strong about keeping my peace and sanity. ❤
Really loved this one. I'm 58, changed carreers at 54, still don't know what my "purpose" is. My inly will be graduating college this spring (Muscial Theater!). I want to continue to learn - I want to do more art, make people laugh (I do Improv) and read more.
Great video! I’m also a big fan of your Target shopping, vlogs, house stuff . . . And I love that you get dressed up for date night! Have you shopped at Evereve? It would be fun to see you do a styling session there. Different price point than Kohl’s (congrats on the sponsorship!) but I feel like you would get some cute stuff!
Jess you constantly amaze me at your maturity and wisdom level for someone so young, I am old enough to be your mum so yes you are very young 😂 I think that you have exactly what it takes to one day become a very successful qualified therapist or a life coach. But until then I will continue to watch your free therapy sessions I mean vlogs 😉
Colour your hair any and every colour you have ever thought of and do it now while you’re young. It’s just colour if you do it and you decide it’s not working for you, change it back or change it up. Because the day will come when your hair is white and difficult to colour and you will long for those ‘colourful days’. Speaking from first hand experience here.
Regarding the question on finding your purpose you answered it beautifully. Sadly it took me a long time, to late 40’s early 50’s before I realised that there was not that “One Purpose” that often makes us feel like we are all on some sort of Karmic treasure hunt to find that when we do find it suddenly life becomes easier and fulfilling and that makes those of us that aren’t finding the right clues are somehow failing at life and all that rubbish that I at least have bought into during my life.
I know believe, as you said, that each phase/stage of our lives brings with it its own changes, challenges, experiences.
And so now I believe therefore there just has to be different “purposes”, lessons and chances for growth so it is doesn’t even make sense to me that it is even possible for there to be just one, seemingly elusive, magical purpose that will finally make sense to us.
Keep doing what you’re doing Jess and thank you for letting us watch you and learn from you as you change and evolve yourself and your channel. It is an honour and a joy 🥹 ❤from 🇦🇺
I had just decided last night that after work and school we are gonna start taking walks in the afternoon. We really need to get out as a family and it’s getting warm enough to enjoy a walk
Well from my 62 year old self when I was 35 I do believe that was my very favorite age. You are wise beyond your years and I absolutely adore you and your family. I try to keep you and your family in my prayers. Keep up the the awesome amazing job you're doing we all absolutely love you guys
I have been watching you since the beginning of your youtube career and I have to say it is refreshing to hear you be open about your religion:) I myself am not religious but I am always intrigued when others share their beliefs:) Also, you would look great as a redhead!🥰🔥
Yesss do the copper!! I think it’ll look great on you
Please do a getting real vid about your faith journey. I am a 62 year old woman and find everything you present inspirational and uplifting. I found you through the beauty community but continue watching because I am inspired by your journey. My 30s were a difficult period, 40s were a growth stage, 50s I came in to my own and 60s have been years of healing physically and mentally, and gratitude. You, young lady, remind me that there is wisdom and truth from the mouths of (with total respect) babes.