I used to think this advice was just shallow, greedy and gold digging.. But after accepting crumbs , settling with horrible treatment, Im tired. I know i deserve better , I deserve the best. And that is what this advice is about. Raising standards and not settling.
Nothing hurts like this. I remember lowering standards thinking I'll be treated better. I was given bottom barrel treatment. I'll never forget that shit😑
I dont remember whose book the quote is from but it went something like this "The one and only aspect of the feminism that men never fought against is the 50/50 lifestyle"
Just met my first provider, he is 11 years older than me, not cute but very smart and hardworking, he asked me to be his girlfriend on the first phone call, I’m 23 years old and just got to a comfortable place in my level up , he is very busy but I’m excited, I’ve never met a guy that’s so into me, ladies shera is an angel ,last year January I was an overweight tomboy now I wouldn’t feel insecure in a room with Naomi Campbell,universe protect shera and her family
It sucks that I'm just now finding this out at 27 and I went through a whole college experience only to find out that I'm so disconnected from my degree and now I feel like I'm looking stupid out here 😂 I should have been like this at 22 like Shera said.. hanging out with dusty guy friends/bfs on the internet all throughout college and I stopped that at the start of 2022! Never going back..
@@starfire246810 babe you’re just getting started 27 is nothing. If an older man dates anyone under 25 that would be very creepy and give me pedo vibes.
@love._962 In the East they most definitely do! I have been there several times and can confirm. In our Western culture, I am hesitant. I would become extremely familiar with their cultural norms first. Also, read the Quran and do NOT sleep with them unless married...or you will most likely get played. Stay away from the ones talking about "I can have up to four wives." Yes, their religion allows for it-but even the Muslimas do not go for that! I could go on, but I will leave it here...Happy hunting! 😉😊
That's because married women be acting all in love with these jokers. Married women stop playing the game, and these lazy dudes start thinking they have a ride or die woman at home.
This is one I still have a hard time with. Married men make me feel nauseous. I should have listened to Shera everyday during that time. Especially because I'm older. Should have been able to accept that.
I work in a famous business area here in Paris but my coworkers always be trying to ruin my freestyling opportunities at lunch because my boss likes us to all have lunch together as a team 🙄. And in my head I be like would y'all just leave me tf alone at least for lunch, I am on a serious mission here.
She asked if we were ready? I'm 51 years old... At this point I've dealt with so many dusty 50/50 dudes that I have no emotions in regards to "romance". My last dusty still owes me money and that hurts more than knowing a provider is not gonna be emotional. I need the provider at this point.
I Love a provider man but I also love having my own and not having to ask for everything I need/want. I can’t put my well-being in someone else hands. Theirs is extra. No shade to others that do.
I remember the year 1999- 2007, I dated a marry man, who was Caucasian. We both were at the same age, at the time. He had a really neatest job, in the suburbs of Illnois. Who always had me, visit him, on his job, or at places , he was going to treat me at. I did not have to ask him for nothing, like money, getting bills pay, car repairs, and shopping. He knew the routine, and did not have to ask him. Marry men are the best for me, cause I am not looking for anyman living with me, as long, they are paying the bills. I met most of my men, though personal ads, when it was not internet dating.
True but the other side of the same coin is you have to be really desperate to unsafely keep a cheating husband in the home like sooo many women do and eat s*#t every day trying to hide it. In this case this woman has it right @@jaylaporter1454
Shera ❤ you look so beautiful and soft with your hair like this 😍🥰 Happy belated birthday 🎉 I recently celebrated mine and my mom’s in early March #piscesfamily ❤
I think you can look for a provider who provides you with financial stability but more so emotional security. If you have to be in a loveless marriage to be taken care of, just be alone. The right person will provide for you financially and make the time to meet other needs you have.
I think so too. If it’s for the long haul I need to be attracted to you. Actually if you believe in the law of attraction you can have it all. You don’t need to settle for an ugly rich men that you don’t feel attracted to. I manifested a provider, a lawyer who is 4 years younger than me but mature and stable and cute.
Omg I saw one of your last lives and the sunglasses you were wearing! I use that shape to hand jewel frames and wanted to send you a pair for your birthday! I hope you see this and if so I would love to send you someeee 💗✨ as a thank you for all the Divine Feminine wisdom you provide us 🤲🏾
I am super emotional and have attachment issues. My best chance in getting a provider is healing all of my inner issues and transforming into the woman of my dreams. I ruined a serious relationship with a provider man because I fell in love, had trust issues and attachment problems 🙆🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
Can you find a provider man if you're in tour early fifty's and your children are over 18 but your raising your grandchildren because their mother died in car accident
Going with an ugly man gives ugly children. There must be a balance somewhere. Just thinking about the money is so soul selling. What about the ugly kids???
when u arent even out of college and already tired of work 😭 btw I tried a ‘sugar daddy’ site (but I was ready for a serious relationship) but he basically wanted an escort to sleep with and tried to groom me under the guise of ‘boyfriend’. Dating is hella scary.
i'm ready for real and been on the search since may last year paying for two paterons teaching how to do hypergamy sugaring finessing and watching all the black successful ladies like you on youtube learning game and buying the wigs wardrobe lashes nails brows and going to the hotels bars and starting to go out to events charity golf too girl.
Same. Look your best, have set in stone standards, be your most feminine, date older. ***Plus: older women(over 35) must do a lot more than younger ones, but the principles are the same. Shera has a video about it, "Older Women Have to Do more !"
Remind them that you traveled the world with other men, or remind them of the gifts you got from other men when ever they need a reality check. They feel so dumb when they make a big deal out or act like they put out so much effort on a cheap weekend getaway or cheap bag when you had men prior doing way more then that, without the hassle ! rub it in lol they will be so embarrassed. Carry that bag with him too…! A dusty most likely got you something on sale or used, don’t wear it, return it. Show him he ain’t up to your standards..don’t accept trash.
Does anyone else become physically and mentally sick from dealing with/ sleeping with dusties . Like I’ll literally get depressed or catch a cold. No joke.
they honestly are sickening. when it comes to men like this, you need boundaries, because they are mentally draining. They don’t have their ducks in a row… so they tend to empty out their traumas , struggles etc on their woman. Venting is okay and it’s normal but these men typically lack boundaries and have emotional issues. They should be journaling or seeking counseling or both. Set boundaries. A man who is building himself up is a bit safer than a man who is old and using a woman for their body. Withhold sex from men who are still building themselves and not providing for you either mentally or emotionally. they aren’t right mentally and shouldn’t be thinking of sex at the moment.
Can you please consider doing live consultations like Mr Samuel's... I think it'll be educational as well doing a deep dive in individual lives to see where most people go wrong in real life situations
Only shera can be so blunt....a lot of the type of men leveling up ladies want are married or in long term common law relationships........I always felt like married men are more “ generous than single men....maybe most of them...these married men out here be acting like they single....
Sheera how about when ur parents wants you to study for college and work in future . But for me ima get the certificate but will not work and get some daddy to pay my bills
Hey Ashera , I got a question. You know real money is quiet so rich men don't want to appear rich ( Mark Zuckerberg type) . So how can we decipher who is rich from who is trying to appear rich ? Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨
For me i check their scent(perfume), their Mani and Pedi, their hair if it's well kept, their footwear, and how relaxed they are, they don't try to show off car keys and stuff
Self development. Work on your body. Learn some new topics to be able to have deeper conversations. Get a makeover. Change your wadrobe. Get therapy if needed.
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Before my rich self made grandmother passed away her advice to ME SPECIFICALLY: "First you marry MONEY then you marry LOVE.
Your grandmother was amazing 😊
Good advice
I wish mine told me this
Thought it was the other way around lol
@@mavshorts1076if you want to be broke well yes
I used to think this advice was just shallow, greedy and gold digging.. But after accepting crumbs , settling with horrible treatment, Im tired. I know i deserve better , I deserve the best. And that is what this advice is about. Raising standards and not settling.
Men are ruthless so we were forced to be this way ❤
@@LorenCognitayup
Absolutely and just simply being a woman ☺️☺️
Nothing hurts like this. I remember lowering standards thinking I'll be treated better. I was given bottom barrel treatment. I'll never forget that shit😑
I’m ready for a trick(s), I gave up on love, and retired being a good woman. It is what it is, pay to play, or go away.
We call them generous men over here babe not tricks lbs
@@davianaleonard394exactly
@@davianaleonard394 😂😅
🤣🤣🤣
I need that on a bumper sticker 😂
Men say "it's not the 50's anymore" but they expect you to act like a housewife from the 50's. Cooking and cleaning etc.
I dont remember whose book the quote is from but it went something like this "The one and only aspect of the feminism that men never fought against is the 50/50 lifestyle"
@@agataa.5871 Exactly 💯
@@agataa.5871 love this
they say that because feminism happened. In reality they want the 50s relationships
@@agataa.5871true!!!
Just met my first provider, he is 11 years older than me, not cute but very smart and hardworking, he asked me to be his girlfriend on the first phone call, I’m 23 years old and just got to a comfortable place in my level up , he is very busy but I’m excited, I’ve never met a guy that’s so into me, ladies shera is an angel ,last year January I was an overweight tomboy now I wouldn’t feel insecure in a room with Naomi Campbell,universe protect shera and her family
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I love that not only her man be buying her gifts but the subscribers do LMAO this a queen right here 😭❤️❤️❤️
I love that too! Lol
❤ that's what gets meeee! 😂 I love it
😂😂😂😂😂😂a clown more like it.
For real tho 😂
Àà
Felt “I’m not built to work for other ppl”
So men are built for other people's need ?
I’m only 18 and been in the workforce for 1 year and I can’t do it anymore so I’m with you I was NOT built to work😫
🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭 literally me
It sucks that I'm just now finding this out at 27 and I went through a whole college experience only to find out that I'm so disconnected from my degree and now I feel like I'm looking stupid out here 😂 I should have been like this at 22 like Shera said.. hanging out with dusty guy friends/bfs on the internet all throughout college and I stopped that at the start of 2022! Never going back..
Blessings, suga!! I'm so glad you got it! I was 18 and ready to work smh 😂
@@starfire246810 babe you’re just getting started 27 is nothing. If an older man dates anyone under 25 that would be very creepy and give me pedo vibes.
Just say you are lazy
Its not only about money he has to be a gentel man also because some rich men are very evil and arrogant
Yep, like the dictator in Dubai 🙄
8:00-she was tired of working so thats how she knew she was ready
8:30-she’s not built to work for other people
I had a dusty living with me and now I'm kicking him out. I can't do this anymore
I had to start indulging myself in your videos so I can completely be blind to broke men💕💕💕 now it’s “Habibi do you want Chanel or Hermes?”
Wait could you elaborate a little more? 👀
Go sis! I am trying to get myself an Arab man too!
@love._962 In the East they most definitely do! I have been there several times and can confirm. In our Western culture, I am hesitant. I would become extremely familiar with their cultural norms first. Also, read the Quran and do NOT sleep with them unless married...or you will most likely get played. Stay away from the ones talking about "I can have up to four wives." Yes, their religion allows for it-but even the Muslimas do not go for that! I could go on, but I will leave it here...Happy hunting! 😉😊
I KNOW THATS RIGHT! HAHAA
@@meahgenhall2611 chile I need you to make a video 😂 good stuff and well put! I be thinking I’m too chocolate for em 😬🤷🏽♀️
i remember coming home from work on my FIRST day knowing i will never work EVER when im married . no boyfriend only provider husband like my father
And ladies even if you’re in your 30s, you still can have a provider man! ❤🎉
This the segment I need!! 😂
30’s ant old
As well as our 40s 🎉 speaking from experience 🔥🤑
@@FaithfulJoyfulness yes ma’am!
30 is barely the start 🤣
Ladies get ur 💼 .. married men act MORE single once married
That's because married women be acting all in love with these jokers. Married women stop playing the game, and these lazy dudes start thinking they have a ride or die woman at home.
@@munix9351 💯
@@munix9351 facts
This is one I still have a hard time with. Married men make me feel nauseous. I should have listened to Shera everyday during that time. Especially because I'm older. Should have been able to accept that.
Exactly
I am so ready !! I am tired of working
Me too.....I'm ready ❤
I work in a famous business area here in Paris but my coworkers always be trying to ruin my freestyling opportunities at lunch because my boss likes us to all have lunch together as a team 🙄. And in my head I be like would y'all just leave me tf alone at least for lunch, I am on a serious mission here.
😂
Where do you go to? I live in Paris as well and need to open my horizons 😂
😂😂
alone from Co workers not friends
@@Anna-yf9tv from anyone who's blocking or outshining her lol alone is better
Beautiful gifts. You help a lot of ladies find decent men.
Shera you deserve all those gifts,you changed our lives
🎉🎉🎉🎉
True
She asked if we were ready? I'm 51 years old... At this point I've dealt with so many dusty 50/50 dudes that I have no emotions in regards to "romance". My last dusty still owes me money and that hurts more than knowing a provider is not gonna be emotional. I need the provider at this point.
It’s never too late! Go for an 80yr old provider chile!🎉 Conferences, lunch happy hours at lounges, only on the perfect side of town
You’re going to find one! Don’t worry girl.
i'm 18 but i agree.
Getting ready now with this video playing in the background for motivation. Wish me luck at happy hour today #sprinklesprinkle #retireme
Good luck babes ❤
@@berenice072298 thanks girl 💕
How did It go?
I Love a provider man but I also love having my own and not having to ask for everything I need/want. I can’t put my well-being in someone else hands. Theirs is extra. No shade to others that do.
Facts
I am ready to have a provider man, I am being more prepared and positioning myself.
I just stumbled across this channel a few days ago and I must say this woman is funny, intelligent and KNOWS what she wants 🌻❤️
I remember the year 1999- 2007, I dated a marry man, who was Caucasian.
We both were at the same age, at the time.
He had a really neatest job, in the suburbs of Illnois.
Who always had me, visit him, on his job, or at places , he was going to treat me at.
I did not have to ask him for nothing, like money, getting bills pay, car repairs, and shopping. He knew the routine, and did not have to ask him.
Marry men are the best for me, cause I am not looking for anyman living with me, as long, they are paying the bills.
I met most of my men, though personal ads, when it was not internet dating.
Personal ads where like in craigslist?
That’s sad. I’m sorry but you have to be really low and desperate to be with a married man.
@@jaylaporter1454Shera’s husband was married when she was dating him
True but the other side of the same coin is you have to be really desperate to unsafely keep a cheating husband in the home like sooo many women do and eat s*#t every day trying to hide it. In this case this woman has it right @@jaylaporter1454
I’m done being broke! It’s my turn to win now. I fell off bad
Her little petty laugh 😂😂😂😂 I love it
Love this. I used to not like this mindset but I love it now 😊
Any Asian ladies here? I love love love Shera and her teachings! ❤
Asian Pakistani very useful videO Pakistan us full of Dusty's
Happy Birthday to Shera! 🎈🍩🎈🍩💎🎈💎🎈👠🎊🎉
Thank you Shera for getting me ready for the provider man and the lifestyle he brings!
Is she an Aries?!
@@NikkiBNice Pisces
The “sprinkle sprinkle” gets me every time😂😂 I love it here❤
Lol you a straight comedian 😂
My provider hubby is only 6 years older than me but he’s short. Soooooo, it’s possible in your age range. Can’t ask for it all
IAM SOOO READY! 🎉
Yes! Thanks to listening to you and RC Blakes can finally say Yes!
Girrl you got me sparkling from all these gems you're dropping.. so thankful for your teachings!
Girl you blowing up on TikTok again
Keep the videos coming sis I'm annoyed I just found you I'm on TH-cam a lot and see a lot of the other content I think they hide certain channels
Thank you for sharing your knowledge ❤
Shera ❤ you look so beautiful and soft with your hair like this 😍🥰 Happy belated birthday 🎉 I recently celebrated mine and my mom’s in early March #piscesfamily ❤
Happy birthday!!
Love those white shades 🕶️
So good. And a reminder to control emotions. Does anyone ever text/call a man you're dating or only wait for them to initiate?
never never never ever!
Initiate ..it makes them feel they actually are appreciative but seldom,sweet and short
Never. Over my dead body. I 🤣🤣 ever
I never initiate but if they talk first or call then I’ll be available and act sweet
@@davianaleonard394 Shera would never, please stop.
I must say shera is a real savage to be a female and I love it lol
This is my favorite video. Got me back on track❤❤❤
I think you can look for a provider who provides you with financial stability but more so emotional security. If you have to be in a loveless marriage to be taken care of, just be alone. The right person will provide for you financially and make the time to meet other needs you have.
I think so too. If it’s for the long haul I need to be attracted to you. Actually if you believe in the law of attraction you can have it all. You don’t need to settle for an ugly rich men that you don’t feel attracted to.
I manifested a provider, a lawyer who is 4 years younger than me but mature and stable and cute.
@@vivavidadela wait till u get older and he gets younger . Marrying a young guy is big mistake .
@@vivavidadelahow did u manifest
💯💯❤️
I also don't stand for older men, I can't even digest it, ugh! Around my age and provider is enough! 🙏🏻
Started working at 16 gonna be 22 soon and I’m tapped out😭 I’m tryna get me a provider
Have you had any luck
You look very pretty today !
Those shades look so cute on u SheRaseven
Girl, you almost made me spit my water out 😂😂😂😂
When family looks down on you cause you know that lineage of poverty isn’t right
Got rid of my dusties Shera I’m single and leveling up! ❤❤❤
Omg I saw one of your last lives and the sunglasses you were wearing! I use that shape to hand jewel frames and wanted to send you a pair for your birthday! I hope you see this and if so I would love to send you someeee 💗✨ as a thank you for all the Divine Feminine wisdom you provide us 🤲🏾
I’m in preparation
“You might as well pick out a women for him” 🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯
Happy belated birthday Shera❤️
Happy birthday Sheera !
Also I have my own home and established job
Thank you ❤
Very ready 😂 I just need to control my mouth ahahaha
MAN my mouth bad! 😂😂😂
Go to therapy. Seriously it works!
The dust has settled.
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Was also done working after dealing with a User Dusty
I am super emotional and have attachment issues. My best chance in getting a provider is healing all of my inner issues and transforming into the woman of my dreams. I ruined a serious relationship with a provider man because I fell in love, had trust issues and attachment problems 🙆🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
Just do better the next time. At least you know that most men will never match the emotions of a woman so focus only on the money next time...
@@SheRaSeven1 yes ma'am 🤗🤗 thank you for all the work that you do, you are truly changing lives ❤❤❤ you're the best in the game 💅🏿💅🏿💅🏿
The ones in the country clubs
Goddess energy! 😻🎉🥁🛍🥂🎵🍰🍭
Yay I’m excited to try your products on my next restock ❤
My daughter sister shares your bday Shera 🎉She works in the beauty industry. Happy belated bday. Those glasses look purrfect on you 😎 ✨
Love u Ashera 💓
It's crazy to me how so many women ask in these streams when to introduce their SD to their kids. Why would your kids want to know these dudes?
Can you find a provider man if you're in tour early fifty's and your children are over 18 but your raising your grandchildren because their mother died in car accident
Yesss
You got this!! ✨you can get you a provider! 😊👌🏽
Jeff Bezos' gf is 55!
Ah yes! ❤❤❤
Sprinkle sprinkle 🤭!! Here from tik tok! I live for you ❤
Thanks for coming
if they are married or cheat i'd use that as an opportunity to get some extra cash that day
Thank you for the video much appreciated ❤
Going with an ugly man gives ugly children. There must be a balance somewhere. Just thinking about the money is so soul selling. What about the ugly kids???
😂😂😂
If you're rich they can get plastic surgery. Lol
No child is Ugly if the women is beautiful.😊
EGGZAKLEE@@Zeroboy5467
Am ready 🤚🏿
when u arent even out of college and already tired of work 😭
btw I tried a ‘sugar daddy’ site (but I was ready for a serious relationship) but he basically wanted an escort to sleep with and tried to groom me under the guise of ‘boyfriend’. Dating is hella scary.
Only entertain the men chasing you and they will pay
what's the name of the website?😏
Sprinkle sprinkle!!!!!
😇🤌Happy Birthday from me an my wife who is a ♓ 😇😘hope you have a wonderful birthday an may God keep blessing you all thru your days!!!!!😏😘
All that hair ❤
your hair looks beautiful goddess
Sprinkle sprinkle ✨
i'm ready for real and been on the search since may last year paying for two paterons teaching how to do hypergamy sugaring finessing and watching all the black successful ladies like you on youtube learning game and buying the wigs wardrobe lashes nails brows and going to the hotels bars and starting to go out to events charity golf too girl.
Have you met anyone doing this?
@@VirgosGroove3 yup the ladies in the paterons i've mentioned are still doing this and i've started doing this myself!
I’m gone stay FREE 😂😂😂
Any advice for older women 39 single and wanting a provider man
Same. Look your best, have set in stone standards, be your most feminine, date older. ***Plus: older women(over 35) must do a lot more than younger ones, but the principles are the same. Shera has a video about it, "Older Women Have to Do more !"
@@mirand0la ✨
Remind them that you traveled the world with other men, or remind them of the gifts you got from other men when ever they need a reality check. They feel so dumb when they make a big deal out or act like they put out so much effort on a cheap weekend getaway or cheap bag when you had men prior doing way more then that, without the hassle ! rub it in lol they will be so embarrassed. Carry that bag with him too…! A dusty most likely got you something on sale or used, don’t wear it, return it. Show him he ain’t up to your standards..don’t accept trash.
Does anyone else become physically and mentally sick from dealing with/ sleeping with dusties . Like I’ll literally get depressed or catch a cold. No joke.
Boundaries
they honestly are sickening. when it comes to men like this, you need boundaries, because they are mentally draining. They don’t have their ducks in a row… so they tend to empty out their traumas , struggles etc on their woman. Venting is okay and it’s normal but these men typically lack boundaries and have emotional issues. They should be journaling or seeking counseling or both. Set boundaries. A man who is building himself up is a bit safer than a man who is old and using a woman for their body. Withhold sex from men who are still building themselves and not providing for you either mentally or emotionally. they aren’t right mentally and shouldn’t be thinking of sex at the moment.
Can you please consider doing live consultations like Mr Samuel's... I think it'll be educational as well doing a deep dive in individual lives to see where most people go wrong in real life situations
Only shera can be so blunt....a lot of the type of men leveling up ladies want are married or in long term common law relationships........I always felt like married men are more “ generous than single men....maybe most of them...these married men out here be acting like they single....
Just a reminder ladies hit the like button 🥰💖💖
I’m not ready yet. I need to get back into shape first.
Are you saying that blue collar men are not providers
Sheera how about when ur parents wants you to study for college and work in future . But for me ima get the certificate but will not work and get some daddy to pay my bills
Sing it Shera! 😂
Hey Ashera , I got a question. You know real money is quiet so rich men don't want to appear rich ( Mark Zuckerberg type) . So how can we decipher who is rich from who is trying to appear rich ? Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨
Great questions !
For me i check their scent(perfume), their Mani and Pedi, their hair if it's well kept, their footwear, and how relaxed they are, they don't try to show off car keys and stuff
Look at his Watch and electronics
Actions. What he actually does for you! ❤
20:33 😂 new year new value
Me watching this tho being 22 working since I was 15 👁👁👁👁👁👁
Hi beautiful love this look❤️💖❤️💖🌸🌸🌸💖🥰🙏❤️❤️🙏
Put a small bowl of Lysol’s under the bed lmbo
But what to do in the meantime? Between leaving the dusty and finding the provider?
Inner work + outer work. Best formula. Level up, everything else will follow.
Self development. Work on your body. Learn some new topics to be able to have deeper conversations. Get a makeover. Change your wadrobe. Get therapy if needed.
Go on dinner dates or paid lunches . Make money every week . There r websites for those kind of non physical dates
@@NA-vt6mzlol what's it called
@@zamiejibril4566 dinner dates paid google
I don’t engage in dusty talk 😂❤💎🐞