so he had kids with a previous wife who left him and took the kids and then went on to marry a second woman and have more kids? Hes never thought about anyone except himself and should never had kids to inflict this on them
I used to live with a Greek guy for 14 years, in that time he did absolutely no house work at all. He was used to his mother doing everything, she even ironed his socks. When we split he got married to a lazy woman and now he has to do everything. Revenge is sweet.
OMG I lived this word-for-word. I had a 'feeling' but I didnt want to insult him. He loved to decorate & design all my clothes, he loved hanging out with the girls instead of the guys, and I found male adult material on his computer. I confronted him and he embarrasingly confessed. We had no marriage/kids attachments so I left, and he was able to come out and live in his truth. Kindness goes a long way and I was glad to leave gracefully with no disrespect between us. I never judged him. Mental health issues are real and you never want to push somebody to hate themselves based on their decisions in life. Always lead with love💚
“I don’t understand why Natalie is upset that I am not working. Not working has not affected us financially, other than we are draining the savings slightly” 😂😂😂
The husband that refuses to work needs to find his video console missing. And the wife needs to move on and take him to court for child support. What’s she waiting for?
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The wife in the first couple needs to get her own life. She’s worried that she will resent him in the future. She will definitely get resentful. She deserves the chance at relationship fulfillment in the future. Husband said that they could live as neighbors. That would be a good alternative. A friend did this with their kids and it made the divorce easier.
It is selfish beyond belief to use another person to prove a point to yourself. The wife needs to get away before she wastes any more of her precious life on this loser
Lol. If her life is precious, so too is that loser's life. You can't pick and choose just because you agree with someone! Either all life is precious, either Jesus died for ALL mankind instead of the handpicked few that made him chuckle, or it's all hypocrisy.
My Father is gay and my Mother knew it and stayed with him until her death……..basically the opposite of what Dr. Phil is recommending here. I can tell you that my Father absolutely worshipped my Mother, but his homosexuality created a perversion in him and he then tried to get his fulfillment in shocking and disturbing ways. It would have been better if my Mother had divorced him years ago.
Agree. Look at Freddie Mercury& his former fiancée, Mary. He loved her above all others. “Love of My Life” is about her. She remained his best friend & he left most of his inheritance to her. She buried his ashes on his property in only a place she knows. She’s never once betrayed their love to write an exposé about their relationship. Love is love & that love can change as is seen with Freddie & Mary. Their love went way beyond anything to do with sexuality.
I'm surprised Dr Phil that you seem to accept that when I know you talked about being a Christian so I'm just a little surprised that you would take the stand that you're taking on this subject
I do not hate gay people and I know it must be a confusing period in your life when you become aware of "different" preferences you might have, but if you are unsure and trying to figure things out dont complicate and involve a spouse and especially children while you do that. This guy has hurt many other people by his selfishness, and I dont give him a pass and neither should Dr. Phil..
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Case 3: in a house, everyone messes up and moves things around. So, if we don't do our share, we give twice as much work to the other person. It's as if we were in a canoe, & instead of rowing, we let the other row, carrying our weight as well as his. How selfish!
I don't know why but this reminds me of some friends marrying each other just for the convenience. They don't love each other but they are legally married
I did have once a man like that he treat me like a Queen ,a beautiful person with the most loveable heart!!!! I did believe him when he told me that I was the only woman he love, but……. I have a suspicion that he was haven a relationship with a mutual friend ,he never admitted so I live him ,he still an a closet .
There has to be a division in the "jobs" you do. When you get older, or you hit health problems...things can change. The only thing that helps with that is LOVE.
I commend the man for wanting to live right by God. I'm also happy that he has children because I don't have any and may not ever but people say they didn't know they could be so in love, that it's the most important thing you will ever do. Is being gay "who you are?" I don't think so. You are a child of God. You aren't defined by your sexuality.
I feel bad for Dan, I can't stand messes. I hate clutter. When I'm done using something I put it away. I can't understand how anyone can not see stuff laying around.
More gay people are out of the lifestyle than are in it currently.Groups such as Changed have given many people freedom from a lifestyle where there is no Peace.
Yep that's what a lot of people do they don't listen to their inner self get married and then after that they got problems that's the mentality of people today😅😅😅
I play video games but after i worked all day and done my share of the housework. I see nothing wrong with videogames just as long as you first do all the things a mature man should do in a marriage. If this guy wants to take a change of writing a book then he should commit to it at least 8 hours a day. That is what proffesional writers do also.I dont think this guy has was it takes to do that
Happened to me I when to bed very drunk an a party at my boyfriend home after someone was and the same bed I thought was my boyfriend an when I try to put my pants down an call his name the guy say no I’m not Alberto, I was an shock anyway nothing happens.
Hard wired? No and adultery yes ! Don't gloss over what God calls sin ,now all of a sudden we dispose of what God created in the beginning ! And everyone does whats right in their own eyes! Shaky business God is going to judge ... it wont be pretty!
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And you didn't know you mean to tell me that you didn't know after your husband was sewed was doing sewing and all that other stuff you didn't realize the man was gay wow honey you better wake up
Myself, I do not believe in homosexuality I believe that it is a sin, and I believe that when God destroyed the city of autumn, he said if we can find one person pure enough in the city that it will not be destroyed, and the angels force seeking to find one pure individual And then try to give his daughters to the angel. I said here she’s pure take her even lie himself fell to temptation in that city and then lots Wife left should’ve told by the Angels leave go course, but if you turn back, you will fall to a pillar of salt She left when she reached the top of the hill. She turned to look to see the city Main destroyed and she whipped and cried and fell to her tears for what does ones tears actually taste like salt now maybe mistake on this, but nonetheless, there’s a difference between fornication and love, but only God can judge us search and seek the truth within your heart and live your life within the way that God lays it upon your heart to quit then and only thendo you live in truth I say the name of the father amen and amen and amen
That first guy is a prick. He just used women for whatever reason to try and convince the World he isn't gay not to mention how dangerous it is for the women when it comes to STD's. What a selfish person. He is lucky that she is letting him see the children I would have left him and it would be completely over.
so he had kids with a previous wife who left him and took the kids and then went on to marry a second woman and have more kids? Hes never thought about anyone except himself and should never had kids to inflict this on them
😅He has made this mistake once before! Once is a mistake, twice is deliberate act of selfish defiance
I used to live with a Greek guy for 14 years, in that time he did absolutely no house work at all. He was used to his mother doing everything, she even ironed his socks. When we split he got married to a lazy woman and now he has to do everything. Revenge is sweet.
It doesn’t mean you’re gay if you sew or bake
OMG I lived this word-for-word. I had a 'feeling' but I didnt want to insult him. He loved to decorate & design all my clothes, he loved hanging out with the girls instead of the guys, and I found male adult material on his computer. I confronted him and he embarrasingly confessed. We had no marriage/kids attachments so I left, and he was able to come out and live in his truth. Kindness goes a long way and I was glad to leave gracefully with no disrespect between us. I never judged him. Mental health issues are real and you never want to push somebody to hate themselves based on their decisions in life. Always lead with love💚
You sound like a lovely person. ❤
Why is it even a question. Your husband is gay!! Divorce him. Let him live his life and you live yours
“I don’t understand why Natalie is upset that I am not working. Not working has not affected us financially, other than we are draining the savings slightly” 😂😂😂
"He sewed my wedding dress." Girl, you knew.
Lol..😂😂😂
seriously? just because a man likes to sew and decorate doesn’t automatically make him gay! lmbo how bizarre that kind of thinking is in 2024!
Girl.
@@faramoans but sewing your wife's wedding dress kinda does
The husband that refuses to work needs to find his video console missing. And the wife needs to move on and take him to court for child support. What’s she waiting for?
I don't believe that was his kid. I agree with everything else you said, just not the child support part.
Upkeep our home is our first priority.
Wake up earlier if you can not manage it before you leave home for work or shopping.
It takes only about one hour if you make it a habit.
Having a clean and uncluttered home is good for relationships, clarity, peace, and happiness.
It gives good vibes and energy.
Our home is our century.
Clean your home everyday and see how your being feels.❤❤❤
I do a bit of cleaning every day and it has helped so much with my depression. Having a clearer space does wonders for a person's mental health.
Except when you have chronic pain & House becomes a mess with no one to help you. Then it hits mental health as well…
Sancturay
*sanctuary
Spot on.
Terrible he would drag a wife and kids into all of this
She needs to leave, he’s gay FFS….. Have some self respect, you deserve to be in a happy relationship, with a straight man.
He knew he was gay many many years ago!
This is horrible for the wife!.really disgusting on his part
Agreed.
Selfish! Wasted this woman’s time 😒
But...she had a feeling he was gay abs still chose to marry him :/
@ She had a “feeling” … He KNEW
New Dr Phil means today is a good day
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The wife in the first couple needs to get her own life. She’s worried that she will resent him in the future. She will definitely get resentful. She deserves the chance at relationship fulfillment in the future. Husband said that they could live as neighbors. That would be a good alternative. A friend did this with their kids and it made the divorce easier.
Dr Phil is wrong on this issue, the guy broke his vows and it doesn't matter why.
He already had kids in his previous marriage, lying to this women about who u really are is not ok.
You don’t need to hide that you’re gay. You need to resist homosexual temptations and live a healthy life.
It is selfish beyond belief to use another person to prove a point to yourself.
The wife needs to get away before she wastes any more of her precious life on this loser
Lol. If her life is precious, so too is that loser's life. You can't pick and choose just because you agree with someone! Either all life is precious, either Jesus died for ALL mankind instead of the handpicked few that made him chuckle, or it's all hypocrisy.
@@Undomaranelbut one is deceitful and one is genuine?
@@dalalal8397 Where did I say genuine? Stop putting words in my mouth.
@@Undomaranel i’m saying that?
@@dalalal8397 What kind of AI are you?
My Father is gay and my Mother knew it and stayed with him until her death……..basically the opposite of what Dr. Phil is recommending here.
I can tell you that my Father absolutely worshipped my Mother, but his homosexuality created a perversion in him and he then tried to get his fulfillment in shocking and disturbing ways. It would have been better if my Mother had divorced him years ago.
I'm sorry
I'm so sorry..
The couple with the gay husband needs to break up
They can stay best friends and great parents
They're still young and deserve to have full lives
Agree. Look at Freddie Mercury& his former fiancée, Mary. He loved her above all others. “Love of My Life” is about her. She remained his best friend & he left most of his inheritance to her. She buried his ashes on his property in only a place she knows. She’s never once betrayed their love to write an exposé about their relationship. Love is love & that love can change as is seen with Freddie & Mary. Their love went way beyond anything to do with sexuality.
For sure...❤❤❤
I'm surprised Dr Phil that you seem to accept that when I know you talked about being a Christian so I'm just a little surprised that you would take the stand that you're taking on this subject
Yerp
9:10 “If you feel the desire to watch porn, then a porn addict is who you are.” It’s a sin. It’s unhealthy and damaging. Period.
Hes so selfish..he got the best of both worlds,what a jerk
I guess being single isn't such a bad thing after all...
Dr Phil is the man!
I do not hate gay people and I know it must be a confusing period in your life when you become aware of "different" preferences you might have, but if you are unsure and trying to figure things out dont complicate and involve a spouse and especially children while you do that. This guy has hurt many other people by his selfishness, and I dont give him a pass and neither should Dr. Phil..
Case 3: in a house, everyone messes up and moves things around. So, if we don't do our share, we give twice as much work to the other person. It's as if we were in a canoe, & instead of rowing, we let the other row, carrying our weight as well as his. How selfish!
The last Woman can’t even sit up straight.. Speaks volumes of how she views herself in life..
The second guy who wants to publish a book. He`s got no idea.
I don't know why but this reminds me of some friends marrying each other just for the convenience. They don't love each other but they are legally married
I do not ask that you take them out of the world, but that you keep them from the evil one.
Oh lord the old writer excuse lol
YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE THE MAN ROBERT STAND UP AND BE ONE INSTEAD OF BEING A LITTLE MOUSE AND A COWARD
So much for that, he is not the only one who is in denial!!!
Did you just hear what you said you can't depend on him for anything so what good is he he's just taking up space
I did have once a man like that he treat me like a Queen ,a beautiful person with the most loveable heart!!!! I did believe him when he told me that I was the only woman he love, but……. I have a suspicion that he was haven a relationship with a mutual friend ,he never admitted so I live him ,he still an a closet .
It’s not fair on her he knew he was gay stop pretending let her go
1 hour of her time on the weekend to clean... isn't important enough for her to care about her marriage? He should've stopped doing the work ages ago
Sending prayers for both 🙏🙏
There has to be a division in the "jobs" you do. When you get older, or you hit health problems...things can change. The only thing that helps with that is LOVE.
I commend the man for wanting to live right by God. I'm also happy that he has children because I don't have any and may not ever but people say they didn't know they could be so in love, that it's the most important thing you will ever do.
Is being gay "who you are?" I don't think so. You are a child of God. You aren't defined by your sexuality.
I feel bad for Dan, I can't stand messes. I hate clutter. When I'm done using something I put it away. I can't understand how anyone can not see stuff laying around.
If you ever risk being "kicked out" of a church, then you are in the WRONG CHURCH
More gay people are out of the lifestyle than are in it currently.Groups such as Changed have given many people freedom from a lifestyle where there is no Peace.
How selfish. Why did he waste her time? The last couple...my goodness wife. Step up and help clean the house
I dont agree with dr. Phil regarding homosexuality.
Don’t bring a baby into this world This marriage won’t work
So he wrecked two woman's lives and 2 sets of kids. He not nice. NOT NICE
Praying for him to find Jesus christ.
Robert is a Temu version of Steven Seagal
I cried the night before my wedding, so scare
I think this might mean he is bisexual. He is on his 2ed wife.
Run girl, he wastes your best years. Wth
Doctor feel your wrong for this one! This is horrible
The Dead. not a good title for a book.
Jesus Christ 's Love SAVES the whole world praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you all
Yep that's what a lot of people do they don't listen to their inner self get married and then after that they got problems that's the mentality of people today😅😅😅
Don’t bring a baby into this world
I play video games but after i worked all day and done my share of the housework. I see nothing wrong with videogames just as long as you first do all the things a mature man should do in a marriage. If this guy wants to take a change of writing a book then he should commit to it at least 8 hours a day. That is what proffesional writers do also.I dont think this guy has was it takes to do that
His wife is amazing for being so self less … this is rare to see. I love this.
He needs to pack up and move out and pay child support.
Happened to me I when to bed very drunk an a party at my boyfriend home after someone was and the same bed I thought was my boyfriend an when I try to put my pants down an call his name the guy say no I’m not Alberto, I was an shock anyway nothing happens.
old story. I sow this years ago.
Hello, the wife knew that her husband is gay from the beginning. Not a shock.
Hard wired? No and adultery yes ! Don't gloss over what God calls sin ,now all of a sudden we dispose of what God created in the beginning ! And everyone does whats right in their own eyes! Shaky business God is going to judge ... it wont be pretty!
I was very disappointed in Dr. Phil on this too.
He is doing something wrong. Don’t pat his hand ugh. Disgusting
IT'S WRONG
Grow up! Robert! Go to a trade school then dude! Any excuse will do to not work huh…🤦♀️🙄
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Being gay is a choice,
Sure is.
What makes you the expert??,
@ everything you do in life is a choice..
🤦♀️So you never even bothered to meet a gay person?
@ lol yes I know several gay people.. whatever you do in your life has been your choice!!!
Religion,
Figures.
Jesus Christ died for our Sins according to the scriptures and that he was buried and that he rose Again the third day praise God praying for everyone Everyday God bless you all...
Gay after making kids. Shame😢
The wife in the last couple probably just has ADHD 🤷♀️ I hope that so many years later she’s figured that out.
He has a struggle..................please?????
And you didn't know you mean to tell me that you didn't know after your husband was sewed was doing sewing and all that other stuff you didn't realize the man was gay wow honey you better wake up
oof,my God,today! please,be so mf fr rn,bruh!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅
This is obnoxious!!!! Sorry.
Myself, I do not believe in homosexuality I believe that it is a sin, and I believe that when God destroyed the city of autumn, he said if we can find one person pure enough in the city that it will not be destroyed, and the angels force seeking to find one pure individual And then try to give his daughters to the angel. I said here she’s pure take her even lie himself fell to temptation in that city and then lots Wife left should’ve told by the Angels leave go course, but if you turn back, you will fall to a pillar of salt She left when she reached the top of the hill. She turned to look to see the city Main destroyed and she whipped and cried and fell to her tears for what does ones tears actually taste like salt now maybe mistake on this, but nonetheless, there’s a difference between fornication and love, but only God can judge us search and seek the truth within your heart and live your life within the way that God lays it upon your heart to quit then and only thendo you live in truth I say the name of the father amen and amen and amen
Yes. Faith in Jesus removes all sin. His blood cleanses us. We must all repent and turn from sin and we will be forgiven. ❤
I was once a huge fan! Guess you FAFO!
Unsubscribed
Sounds like he might have adhd and dont know how to coup with it
America
He's gone woke, what a shame.
He's been woke. I'm glad he backed it and did thorough research on the tranz issue.
Dr Phill. You sold out to Trump. Take your BS and go somewhere else. I suggest X. Later.
That first guy is a prick. He just used women for whatever reason to try and convince the World he isn't gay not to mention how dangerous it is for the women when it comes to STD's. What a selfish person. He is lucky that she is letting him see the children I would have left him and it would be completely over.
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God will judge Dr Phil for saying being gay is not a sin. Shame on him.
Leave him and found a real man
They need to find a bisexual live in male. Preferably younger. This will solve everything.
Haram