psychologist here -- actually, the thing is ALL socio/psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are socio/psychopaths. so a lot of these things intersect with narcissistic traits, and we see a lot of the worst narcissists cross into the antisocial personality/dark triad/borderline personality disorder (the impulsiveness) category. it should have accounted for that. so what this test may say is "psychopathy or sociopathy" can also just indicate narcissism, and as calculated as narcs/socios/psychopaths are, they're all usually impulsive and looking for thrills, and lack regard and consideration for others and society. usually can never see things through to the end, jumping from one thing and person to the next. they're all entitled and will charm, manipulate, exploit, and demean others to get their way. pathological lying is usually always involved. they are highly materialistic, superficial, and feed off of recognition and attention, as that's what they measure their own (and that of other's) self-worth through, since they believe that they're deeply unworthy and rejected and think it'll all make up for it. it is all acting out of this entitled sense of resentment that they think makes the way they behave valid and justifiable. i feel like it takes a certain level of narcissism to be an internet personality. and there are different types of narcissism. but please do not take and rely on these tests unless you're just doing it for fun and won't take them at face value. obviously, ben is not a psychopath or sociopath. these are very extreme mental illnesses. some cautionary advice: even as a counselor, i've personally had a lot of dark experiences with these kinds of people, and i cannot stress it enough when i say please RUN as soon as you see a red flag. mental health professionals are not immune to their manipulation either, anyone can fall prey. don't always give people the benefit of the doubt, as soon as you sense something is off, you're usually always better off safe than sorry. always take your time to get to know people, don't let anyone completely charm you right off the bat into thinking they're these overly amazing, perfect, kind, generous people. don't let people invade and become a part of your life so quickly no matter how much they try to sneak their way into it, because they are very slick. always take at least 3 months before making a judgment on someone because by then, people tend to have shown their true colors. be careful and maintain even stronger boundaries. and they are everywhere, it can be anyone -- bosses, friends, colleagues/coworkers, peers, potential partners, family members, the person that opens the door for you in public, and they can be children too. really, anyone can run into people like this and we all do at some point in our lives. they present themselves as the best, most harmless people and everyone will adore them for the persona they put on. they fool us and of course, naturally we do fall for it. Psychopaths in specific are very calculated in how they do everything, so they do things that make others look like the problem in order to be favored and make themselves look good. most of them are running around without being diagnosed, as they tend to not see therapists since they don't believe they're the problem and refuse to accept it. the only time they'll see therapists is if the therapist validates their narratives, and if they have to see one, they make sure to convince them that they are the victims. it's very difficult working with them, because they are professional con artists, so unless you catch them and find out about their behavior, you end up believing them.
@@stinkywuzhere Aww I love hearing this! When you go on to study psychology and get your degrees and certifications, make sure you study de-colonial, intersectional psychology and follow a de-colonial model of mental health rather than the traditional, damaging western model of mental health!
As chaotic as you are, I think you're a genuinely good person, Ben. I'm probably THE oldest person that watches your videos (39), and I see so many people online doing mean "pranks" for content, with no regard for anyone but themselves and their money-making content factories, and you don't do that. The fact that you recognize things you've done in the past were not things you would do now proves that you are not a psychopath. People with psychopathy generally can't feel empathy and you definitely can.
My little brother is a phycopath and he genuinely doesn't know when her hurting ppl/things and he feels no remorse for anything. When we were both younger he stabbed me in the foot and didn't even register what he did was wrong (he no longer seeks out hurting ppl and is getting help)
1 SENTENCE DRAMA! This guy, in my grade (10) has been dealing 🍃 to 11 yo kids and taking advantage of them, and got jumped and almost beat to 💀 this Monday. That’s it, love the pod
My 1 sentence drama: I’ve had a crush on this girl and I finally told her how I feel, (now we’re girlfriends!) but the thing is both our families are homophobic and I’m sure how to 1, stay safe, and 2, cope with having to stay hidden around our families, I love her so much and I want to make it work!! (Love you Ben! Love the pod!)
It’s not going to end well, trust me. I was in the same situation a bit ago and the sneaking around becomes such a strain. (Idk when this vid was posted so sorry if this is literally years later 😭)
mental health professional here -- actually, the thing is ALL socio/psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are socio/psychopaths. so a lot of these things intersect with narcissistic traits, and we see a lot of the worst narcissists cross into the antisocial personality/dark triad/borderline personality disorder (the impulsiveness) category. it should have accounted for that. so what this test may say is "psychopathy or sociopathy" can also just indicate narcissism, and as calculated as narcs/socios/psychopaths are, they're all usually impulsive and looking for thrills, and lack regard and consideration for others and society. usually can never see things through to the end, jumping from one thing and person to the next. they're all entitled and will charm, manipulate, exploit, and demean others to get their way. pathological lying is usually always involved. they are highly materialistic, superficial, and feed off of recognition and attention, as that's what they measure their own (and that of other's) self-worth through, since they believe that they're deeply unworthy and rejected and think it'll all make up for it. it is all acting out of this entitled sense of resentment that they think makes the way the behave valid and justifiable. i feel like it takes a certain level of narcissism to be an internet personality. and there are different types of narcissism. but please do not take and rely on tests these unless you're just doing it for fun and won't take them at face value. obviously, ben is not a psychopath or sociopath. these are very extreme mental illnesses. some cautionary advice: even as a counselor, i've personally had a lot of dark experiences with these kinds of people, and i cannot stress it enough when i say please RUN as soon as you see a red flag. mental health professionals are not immune to their manipulation either, anyone can fall prey. don't always give people the benefit of the doubt, as soon as you sense something is off, you're usually always better off safe than sorry. always take your time to get to know people, don't let anyone completely charm you right off the bat into thinking they're these overly amazing, perfect, kind, generous people. don't let people invade and become a part of your life so quickly no matter how much they try to sneak their way into it, because they are very slick. always take at least 3 months before making a judgment because by then, people tend to have shown their true colors. be careful and maintain even stronger boundaries. and they are everywhere, it can be anyone -- bosses, friends, colleagues/coworkers, peers, potential partners, family members. really, anyone can run into people like this and we all do at some point in our lives. they present themselves as the best, most harmless people and everyone will adore them for the persona they put on. they fool us and of course, naturally we do fall for it. most of them are running around without being diagnosed, as they tend to not see therapists since they don't believe they're the problem and refuse to accept it. the only time they'll see therapists is if the therapist validates their narratives, and if they have to see one, they make sure to convince them that they are the victims. it's very difficult working with them, because they are professional con artists, so unless you catch them and find out about their behavior, you end up believing them. i'd say terri joe (kelon) is a good example of someone who shows signs of sociopathy or psychopathy. from what kelon shows of himself online (outside of the characters he plays), he literally does not have any concern or regard for others and their feelings, doesn't feel pain at the thought of the struggles of others, doesn't want to or care to, will even laugh when inappropriate, will put others down with no remorse, and doesn't care about others and always puts himself before them. people calling how he operates "sane" is very damaging, not to mention very concerning. because people should not be equating and labeling numbness, apathy, and disconnection to healthiness or what's considered "normal." you shouldn't aspire to be like this. some people say he just represses his own feelings so he doesn't allow himself to feel emotions when it comes to other things and people either, but he exhibits a literal lack of empathy and regard for how his words and actions affect others, even aside from the characters he plays.. Complete apathy.
@@m0th_cookie163 being a psychopath isn't a cool or cute thing. But the way you wrote this comment made it seem like you were flexing about how psychopathic you are
my drama is there’s this girl who’s squeezed her way into my friend group because she was nice at the start, now she’s changed character and last week SHE RIPPED UP SOMEONE’S END OF YEAR TEST because they got a higher mark than her 😭 we’re all trying to get her out the fg, any advice?? and love your videos!!
DRAMA: I switched buses and ended up next to a girl who lied about having multiple personality disorder in 8th grade. She'd be really mean and pick on me (LIKE FOR AN ENTIRE YEAR) and then apologize crying the next day, blaming her "sister in her head," or steal my stuff and say her sister did it. I didn't expect to see her again, we go to same college apparently, never ran into her in 2 years but, She seemed normal ,I was practically vibrating to ask "is your sister doing well?" i didnt
ben here's my drama; so my best friend of 7 years suddenly stopped talking to me about 2 months ago and refused to tell me why. a month later, we schedule a call and she explains everything. Turns out that she's been holding in things i've done to make her upset for over a year now and she says im not being mature. all of her critisms are valid, and i've realized my faults and apologized, but I also let her know that she needs to tell me when she's upset with me, so i don't continue my behavior because my intention is never to hurt her. things seemed fine for a day after the call, but then she suddenly stops talking to me without telling me why AGAIN so now i'm just confused where we stand. turns out, she's been complaining to the friends that I INTRODUCED HER TO about how i was "only apologizing because i pity her" and even if we start over she'll "always have the memories"(of me making her upset). i need to know if i'm crazy or not for expecting my best friend of seven years to let me know when I've upset/hurt her so i can fix it, or if i should just automatically know??? also should i reach out to her and ask her where we stand??
DRAMAAAA: so on a previous video comment i mentioned i got a new job, right? it SUCKS 😭 im under 16 and i feel like they're overworking me... scared abt saying anything bc i feel like they'll just say "womp womp deal with it" UPDATE: turns out the managers ive had were supposed to give me a 10-15 min break but they haven't been?? so um yeah that's great 💀 (sorry this is so long ben but the tea MUST BE SPILLED) anyways help me pleaseee 😭
@@yourlocalmephiles it depends on where you go. some places are easy to get into and some aren't too nice. and it also depends on whether they hire at your age or not
Ben thanks for making me laugh all the time! I’m 13 and have been going through a hard time. So I do appreciate everything you do! You’re amazing!!!! ❤🎉
DRAMA!! this might be longer but trust it’s good okay so my school had this field trip in February and I liked this guy (J) at the time. he actually started noticing me and we talked for a week, even tho he had a gf. he then got expelled (for AIRDROPPING THE DRAKE VIDEO 💀💀) and never texted me again. I kinda still have feelings for him but yea idkkk ALSO ILYSM IVE BEEN A MAMA SINCE 2022 😍😍
⚠️‼️DRAMA‼️⚠️ so basically i am literally the back up friend they only need me when there at their worst but treat my like 💩 when there at their best. and if i drop them ill lose my closer friends because she manipulates them.. what do i do. btw love you ben and your vids!
Tell your closer friends how they’ve been treating you before dropping them. Let your closer friends know that you are going to drop them so it won’t be a surprise.
relatable also, what andrea said is right. if your so-called friends dont listen or get mad at you for telling them "hey, youre doing this and it kinda sucks", they probably aren't your true friend
@@Andrea-3334 therapy is extremely expensive. If this person doesn’t have insurance or good insurance, it would cost a fortune for even just one appointment. Also there is the factor of even finding a therapy place that would support your insurance and finding a person you can trust. It’s not that easy, though I get where you’re coming from.
Hey Ben! So I have DRAMA about a friend that I will call Mia. So Mia was my best friend who accused me of being with her ex after I told her I didn’t want to be friends because she was a genuine PSYCHOPATH. She had been to the mental hospital many times and I didn’t want to be involved. After a while she sent interesting pictures to the boy who was my boyfriend at the time and then went to our principal crying about it.. she then continued on harassing me on the phone until I had to get a restraining order on her.😶 there’s so much more to it but that’s all I’m gonna say. Love your podcast and just got your mamas insanity shirt! Have a great new years!
I took this test with my friend for fun and I got 51.13% more psychopathic than the population average, and my friend got 32.11% more psychopathic than the population average...Lol
Guys! Ben is DEFINITELY NOT A PSYHCOPATH!! :)) HE IS TOTALLY SANE AND A NORMAL PERSON! (i am trapped in his basement, I am fed micro plastics of his baby alive child from his raising a baby video, talking ben watches me every day, glaring at me. The Vegan Teacher breaks into his house every night searching for him, I don't have much time left in here, it stinks. help me.) He is totally sane and an amazing person!!
Ben is NOT A PSYCHOPATH!!He is the best person in the world he makes me laugh, he makes me happy, and I CAN'T GO A DAY WITHOUT WATCHING HIS CHANNEL! I just wanna say Ben thank you so much you got me through a toxic relationship I went from crying to laughing. YOUR THE BEST BEN ILYYYY!!! Edit: ALL IN FAVOR TO KEEP THIS MAN SAFE👇
10:50 dude were here for you. Honestly, you should make some venting videos once in a while. There's no need to worry. We got your back🩷👍. Btw love your content. Keep up the great work😁. Also dont share if you dont like to, im just saying it might make you feel better about things if you share😁.
Backstory: My biological dad wanted my brothers phone but my brother wouldn't give it, so my dad hit him. My brother then gave his phone and ran out the door. He ran to her workplace in freezing temperatures and told her, and now my parents are divorced. I live with my mom and dont talk with my dad. 💫Drama💫: Recently, my school had a fundraiser for the girls pe, and I checked the app and saw the top donators name being my dad with 500 dollars. This happened months ago. I just wanted your opinion on this.
DRAMA; One of my friends is very manipulative, controlling, started dating my ex who assaulted and abused me multiple times, and overall is just a really bad person. I’m planning on texting their mother directly because confronting them would only result in negativity from them and them shutting down and refusing to talk, but im really hesitant because I’ve been friends with this person since third grade, and they’re one of the only constants i have in my life. What do I do in general, or to help get rid of my hesitancy? Btw love your videos, having you talk in the background is very useful when I go to draw and/or animate :)
DRAMA!! This kid at my school (teachers pet) has been doing a lot of bad things in school, but the teachers never think to question him. Recently, I got suspended for “bringing a lighter to school” when it was literally him 😡!! I don’t know what to do about them, pls help this!
drama!! so basically three of my friends randomly stopped being my friend, and our mutual friend (who i’ve know for 5 years) hasn’t been talking to me. they all said some really hurtful things and they all always laugh whenever i walk into any room, what should i do??
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Ben doesn’t need a psychopath test to figure out if he’s a psychopath
i feel like he’s not though
@@imthetopsuperlady yeah, he’s not a psycho I’m just playing around
he’s becoming one 😈
He already is🤪💅
He literally doesnt have a case on his phone, like thats a telling sign
“Have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror and thought- am I a psychopath?”
Yep, that’s part of my morning routine 😍
how do I repost a comment 🙏
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1:41 'I'm the alpha I'm the leader' ahh statement🙏💀
psychologist here -- actually, the thing is ALL socio/psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are socio/psychopaths. so a lot of these things intersect with narcissistic traits, and we see a lot of the worst narcissists cross into the antisocial personality/dark triad/borderline personality disorder (the impulsiveness) category. it should have accounted for that. so what this test may say is "psychopathy or sociopathy" can also just indicate narcissism, and as calculated as narcs/socios/psychopaths are, they're all usually impulsive and looking for thrills, and lack regard and consideration for others and society. usually can never see things through to the end, jumping from one thing and person to the next. they're all entitled and will charm, manipulate, exploit, and demean others to get their way. pathological lying is usually always involved. they are highly materialistic, superficial, and feed off of recognition and attention, as that's what they measure their own (and that of other's) self-worth through, since they believe that they're deeply unworthy and rejected and think it'll all make up for it. it is all acting out of this entitled sense of resentment that they think makes the way they behave valid and justifiable. i feel like it takes a certain level of narcissism to be an internet personality. and there are different types of narcissism. but please do not take and rely on these tests unless you're just doing it for fun and won't take them at face value. obviously, ben is not a psychopath or sociopath. these are very extreme mental illnesses.
some cautionary advice:
even as a counselor, i've personally had a lot of dark experiences with these kinds of people, and i cannot stress it enough when i say please RUN as soon as you see a red flag. mental health professionals are not immune to their manipulation either, anyone can fall prey. don't always give people the benefit of the doubt, as soon as you sense something is off, you're usually always better off safe than sorry. always take your time to get to know people, don't let anyone completely charm you right off the bat into thinking they're these overly amazing, perfect, kind, generous people. don't let people invade and become a part of your life so quickly no matter how much they try to sneak their way into it, because they are very slick. always take at least 3 months before making a judgment on someone because by then, people tend to have shown their true colors. be careful and maintain even stronger boundaries. and they are everywhere, it can be anyone -- bosses, friends, colleagues/coworkers, peers, potential partners, family members, the person that opens the door for you in public, and they can be children too. really, anyone can run into people like this and we all do at some point in our lives. they present themselves as the best, most harmless people and everyone will adore them for the persona they put on. they fool us and of course, naturally we do fall for it. Psychopaths in specific are very calculated in how they do everything, so they do things that make others look like the problem in order to be favored and make themselves look good.
most of them are running around without being diagnosed, as they tend to not see therapists since they don't believe they're the problem and refuse to accept it. the only time they'll see therapists is if the therapist validates their narratives, and if they have to see one, they make sure to convince them that they are the victims. it's very difficult working with them, because they are professional con artists, so unless you catch them and find out about their behavior, you end up believing them.
i wanna be you when i grow up (i’m being completely serious i really wanna be child psychologist, i love this comment)
@@stinkywuzhere Aww I love hearing this! When you go on to study psychology and get your degrees and certifications, make sure you study de-colonial, intersectional psychology and follow a de-colonial model of mental health rather than the traditional, damaging western model of mental health!
@@hazel.p5 oh ok! thank u!! :D
I’m not readin all that 😭you lost me after a while
Reading this lowkey makes me think I might be a psychopath.
As chaotic as you are, I think you're a genuinely good person, Ben. I'm probably THE oldest person that watches your videos (39), and I see so many people online doing mean "pranks" for content, with no regard for anyone but themselves and their money-making content factories, and you don't do that. The fact that you recognize things you've done in the past were not things you would do now proves that you are not a psychopath. People with psychopathy generally can't feel empathy and you definitely can.
you are probably a really funny parent
@@iaylalovespancakesfrfr
this is such a sweet comment I love u
My mom watches these videos as a 55 yo
@@Johnnie_guilbertlover shes prlly funny
8:38
Not him predicting something right AGAIN
😮
we love ben being self aware
seriously love this podcast tho
Ben, you're the opposite of a psychopath. A human being who makes mistakes, has the ability to learn from their mistakes and has a heart.
My little brother is a phycopath and he genuinely doesn't know when her hurting ppl/things and he feels no remorse for anything. When we were both younger he stabbed me in the foot and didn't even register what he did was wrong (he no longer seeks out hurting ppl and is getting help)
i wish ur brother gets well soon
@@SoonyTheDumbyit’s not something that’s curable
@@枒 yeah
@@枒 that depends entirely on the situation, don't make assumptions
I might be a psychopath then😞
1 SENTENCE DRAMA!
This guy, in my grade (10) has been dealing 🍃 to 11 yo kids and taking advantage of them, and got jumped and almost beat to 💀 this Monday.
That’s it, love the pod
wow.. thats .. deserved
word.
@@L4w1fr
you go to k-12 school?
WHATTT
ben i just broke my ankle and i listened to this on the abulance to the hospital 😂
You’re so iconic for that😭
@@brielleisme6413 lol
Ambulance
Bros a real one😂
My 1 sentence drama:
I’ve had a crush on this girl and I finally told her how I feel, (now we’re girlfriends!) but the thing is both our families are homophobic and I’m sure how to 1, stay safe, and 2, cope with having to stay hidden around our families, I love her so much and I want to make it work!!
(Love you Ben! Love the pod!)
Omg I wish u both of u luck w your familys 🙏
LEAVE YOUR FAMILY AND LIVE IN WALMART 👹👹
@@Han_Jisung-Hj25 We might have to 😢😭
It’s not going to end well, trust me. I was in the same situation a bit ago and the sneaking around becomes such a strain. (Idk when this vid was posted so sorry if this is literally years later 😭)
Uh: correction, I’m dumb
mental health professional here -- actually, the thing is ALL socio/psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are socio/psychopaths. so a lot of these things intersect with narcissistic traits, and we see a lot of the worst narcissists cross into the antisocial personality/dark triad/borderline personality disorder (the impulsiveness) category. it should have accounted for that. so what this test may say is "psychopathy or sociopathy" can also just indicate narcissism, and as calculated as narcs/socios/psychopaths are, they're all usually impulsive and looking for thrills, and lack regard and consideration for others and society. usually can never see things through to the end, jumping from one thing and person to the next. they're all entitled and will charm, manipulate, exploit, and demean others to get their way. pathological lying is usually always involved. they are highly materialistic, superficial, and feed off of recognition and attention, as that's what they measure their own (and that of other's) self-worth through, since they believe that they're deeply unworthy and rejected and think it'll all make up for it. it is all acting out of this entitled sense of resentment that they think makes the way the behave valid and justifiable. i feel like it takes a certain level of narcissism to be an internet personality. and there are different types of narcissism. but please do not take and rely on tests these unless you're just doing it for fun and won't take them at face value. obviously, ben is not a psychopath or sociopath. these are very extreme mental illnesses.
some cautionary advice:
even as a counselor, i've personally had a lot of dark experiences with these kinds of people, and i cannot stress it enough when i say please RUN as soon as you see a red flag. mental health professionals are not immune to their manipulation either, anyone can fall prey. don't always give people the benefit of the doubt, as soon as you sense something is off, you're usually always better off safe than sorry. always take your time to get to know people, don't let anyone completely charm you right off the bat into thinking they're these overly amazing, perfect, kind, generous people. don't let people invade and become a part of your life so quickly no matter how much they try to sneak their way into it, because they are very slick. always take at least 3 months before making a judgment because by then, people tend to have shown their true colors. be careful and maintain even stronger boundaries. and they are everywhere, it can be anyone -- bosses, friends, colleagues/coworkers, peers, potential partners, family members. really, anyone can run into people like this and we all do at some point in our lives. they present themselves as the best, most harmless people and everyone will adore them for the persona they put on. they fool us and of course, naturally we do fall for it. most of them are running around without being diagnosed, as they tend to not see therapists since they don't believe they're the problem and refuse to accept it. the only time they'll see therapists is if the therapist validates their narratives, and if they have to see one, they make sure to convince them that they are the victims. it's very difficult working with them, because they are professional con artists, so unless you catch them and find out about their behavior, you end up believing them.
i'd say terri joe (kelon) is a good example of someone who shows signs of sociopathy or psychopathy. from what kelon shows of himself online (outside of the characters he plays), he literally does not have any concern or regard for others and their feelings, doesn't feel pain at the thought of the struggles of others, doesn't want to or care to, will even laugh when inappropriate, will put others down with no remorse, and doesn't care about others and always puts himself before them. people calling how he operates "sane" is very damaging, not to mention very concerning. because people should not be equating and labeling numbness, apathy, and disconnection to healthiness or what's considered "normal." you shouldn't aspire to be like this. some people say he just represses his own feelings so he doesn't allow himself to feel emotions when it comes to other things and people either, but he exhibits a literal lack of empathy and regard for how his words and actions affect others, even aside from the characters he plays.. Complete apathy.
Did you just- copier
“Do you ever look in the mirror and ask yourself if you’re a psychopath?”
YES. Very often :))
This comment is kinda cringe
@@Weezer000????
😂😂😂 yea!
@@m0th_cookie163 being a psychopath isn't a cool or cute thing. But the way you wrote this comment made it seem like you were flexing about how psychopathic you are
@@Weezer000 it’s a joke??
this podcast is the reason wednesdays are my favorite day of the week
and bc of the sturniolos 😛🫶‼️
@@GreenCat223YESSS
@@1n0nlybr33 AAAA STURNIOLO FAN I LOVE YOUR PFP 🎀🎀
@@GreenCat223 TYYTTYYYYYTTT
@@1n0nlybr33 YOURE SO WELCOMEEE 💗💗
why do i feel like benoftheweek and benji krol would literally be besties
They are lol
this is something only ben could do without it being cringy
I LOVE UR PFP
AMAZING PFP
OMG UR PFP
I LOVE YOUR PFP
@@touchedbythetism123 TYSMMM
6:27 “If it’s like: oh, I’ve never wanted to hurt an animal, or like; oh, well, I put my, um, cat in the microwave” sent me 😂
this felt like a fever dream
bro was only 20 seconds in and couldn't even say institution
I was like I got that dawg in me but the dawg is a wolf and maybe it's going to murder someone one day but not like that. 😂 Damn
was the fact that ben's a psychopath something we were doubting?
Lmao psychopaths assemble starting here
The way our personalities are just sm alike!! Literally love you Ben!! ❤
my drama is there’s this girl who’s squeezed her way into my friend group because she was nice at the start, now she’s changed character and last week SHE RIPPED UP SOMEONE’S END OF YEAR TEST because they got a higher mark than her 😭 we’re all trying to get her out the fg, any advice?? and love your videos!!
Maybe try ignoring her and if it doesn’t work js tell her you don’t wanna talk to her
Put laxatives in her drink/food 🥰
Ooooo thats a good one @cocohostvidios5773
Ben is definitely the most chaotic person ever
DRAMA: I switched buses and ended up next to a girl who lied about having multiple personality disorder in 8th grade. She'd be really mean and pick on me (LIKE FOR AN ENTIRE YEAR) and then apologize crying the next day, blaming her "sister in her head," or steal my stuff and say her sister did it. I didn't expect to see her again, we go to same college apparently, never ran into her in 2 years but, She seemed normal ,I was practically vibrating to ask "is your sister doing well?" i didnt
She sounds deranged 💀
Please ask that that’s funny AF.
6:00 same. I'm so nervous and anxious, most people wouldn't even understand😭
ben here's my drama; so my best friend of 7 years suddenly stopped talking to me about 2 months ago and refused to tell me why. a month later, we schedule a call and she explains everything. Turns out that she's been holding in things i've done to make her upset for over a year now and she says im not being mature. all of her critisms are valid, and i've realized my faults and apologized, but I also let her know that she needs to tell me when she's upset with me, so i don't continue my behavior because my intention is never to hurt her. things seemed fine for a day after the call, but then she suddenly stops talking to me without telling me why AGAIN so now i'm just confused where we stand. turns out, she's been complaining to the friends that I INTRODUCED HER TO about how i was "only apologizing because i pity her" and even if we start over she'll "always have the memories"(of me making her upset). i need to know if i'm crazy or not for expecting my best friend of seven years to let me know when I've upset/hurt her so i can fix it, or if i should just automatically know??? also should i reach out to her and ask her where we stand??
DRAMAAAA: so on a previous video comment i mentioned i got a new job, right? it SUCKS 😭 im under 16 and i feel like they're overworking me... scared abt saying anything bc i feel like they'll just say "womp womp deal with it"
UPDATE: turns out the managers ive had were supposed to give me a 10-15 min break but they haven't been?? so um yeah that's great 💀 (sorry this is so long ben but the tea MUST BE SPILLED) anyways help me pleaseee 😭
As someone who is also barely under 16, YOU GOT A JOB? HOW?
@@yourlocalmephiles i just kinda did idk 😭
it can be easy or difficult it just depends on the laws in ur state
@@squishy_moss27 I'm terrified to try and get a job, what's it like? please help me 😭
@@yourlocalmephiles it depends on where you go. some places are easy to get into and some aren't too nice. and it also depends on whether they hire at your age or not
@@squishy_moss27 thanks friend
you needed to take this test ben after buying stuff off the dark web 😭
Testing positive are we Ben? 😔
@soggycat4lifei sure hope the translation to this is accurate!
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@soggycat4lifethis is horrifying that the translation says and wtf they cant even get si right ITS YES WHY WHY WHY
@soggycat4life the translation says and why is it so wrong like
@soggycat4life LMAOOO
15 seconds ago and 0 likes, bro fell off
secondary is wild😭😭
@@Rae1336 fr
@@ConanGray02 I DIDN'T EVEN NOTICE
@@Itzzz_cammi HAHAHAH
@@Rae1336damn bro ts was never that serious ☠️
29:47 the poop bread sticks really caught me off guard😂
This psychopath test didn’t give us any new knowledge ben
ben idk if u need a psychopath test to know ur a psychopath...
he has the sanity of an oatmeal cream pie
love those
@@imthetopsuperladyREALL
woooowwwww this was such a knee slapperrrrr
@@halleighwhat was the point of this
@@Sietched js letting them know how hilarious their comment was!
0:07 “have you ever looked In the mirror and said ‘am I a psychopath?”
YES.
To real😭
the reason i LOVE wednesdays!🤍
I accidentally drowned a ladybug in sand when I was younger...
Ben thanks for making me laugh all the time! I’m 13 and have been going through a hard time. So I do appreciate everything you do! You’re amazing!!!! ❤🎉
0:30 once a month?? HAH! l question my sanity everyday 🥲
DRAMA!!
this might be longer but trust it’s good
okay so my school had this field trip in February and I liked this guy (J) at the time. he actually started noticing me and we talked for a week, even tho he had a gf. he then got expelled (for AIRDROPPING THE DRAKE VIDEO 💀💀) and never texted me again. I kinda still have feelings for him but yea idkkk
ALSO ILYSM IVE BEEN A MAMA SINCE 2022 😍😍
expelled is a lil excessive....
@@gabea553 bro frrrr I wish it was just a long suspension or smt
1:42 the dog in me is a wolf but that wolf got severe anxiety so it ain’t doing shit
He’s not crazy he’s just to real
That thumbnail RADIATES Leo Valdez.
"Omg, mom jesus was seen."
"What?, please show me to me Rachel please Rachel , send it to me Rachel"
was this the tiktok he was talking about😭
0:53 him stuttering is so funny I mean I do the same but I didn’t know that how people sound when they do that lol😂
"a menstrual-mental institution" HELPP
This is the kind of content I need to watch while washing dishes😌
⚠️‼️DRAMA‼️⚠️ so basically i am literally the back up friend they only need me when there at their worst but treat my like 💩 when there at their best. and if i drop them ill lose my closer friends because she manipulates them.. what do i do. btw love you ben and your vids!
Tell your closer friends how they’ve been treating you before dropping them. Let your closer friends know that you are going to drop them so it won’t be a surprise.
You should go to a therapist but if you loose your “friends” for that then they’re not you’re real friends.
relatable
also, what andrea said is right. if your so-called friends dont listen or get mad at you for telling them "hey, youre doing this and it kinda sucks", they probably aren't your true friend
@@Andrea-3334 therapy is extremely expensive. If this person doesn’t have insurance or good insurance, it would cost a fortune for even just one appointment. Also there is the factor of even finding a therapy place that would support your insurance and finding a person you can trust. It’s not that easy, though I get where you’re coming from.
Ben I don't think you need a test for this
Hey Ben! So I have DRAMA about a friend that I will call Mia. So Mia was my best friend who accused me of being with her ex after I told her I didn’t want to be friends because she was a genuine PSYCHOPATH. She had been to the mental hospital many times and I didn’t want to be involved. After a while she sent interesting pictures to the boy who was my boyfriend at the time and then went to our principal crying about it.. she then continued on harassing me on the phone until I had to get a restraining order on her.😶 there’s so much more to it but that’s all I’m gonna say. Love your podcast and just got your mamas insanity shirt! Have a great new years!
wake up ben posted‼️
I took this test with my friend for fun and I got 51.13% more psychopathic than the population average, and my friend got 32.11% more psychopathic than the population average...Lol
can you take an adhd test next i feel like it could be beneficial
bro just called my uncreative
LOVE THE HAIR BENNN
i love ur video ideas theyre so random but so interesting
I LOVE THIS CHANNEL
0:03 yes
29:07 ITS GIVING “exposing nick sturniolo” 💀💀
HELPPP
Nah the trip thing is way too relatable 😭
Omg hazbin FANN!!!!’!
@@Ashèshüd Yas omg I’m a huge fan Im literally only drawing characters from the show right now! If you wanna see my art it’s on my channel 💗✨🤗
Uhm i once put nutella in the microwave and almost set the house on fire by acciddent
Guys! Ben is DEFINITELY NOT A PSYHCOPATH!! :)) HE IS TOTALLY SANE AND A NORMAL PERSON! (i am trapped in his basement, I am fed micro plastics of his baby alive child from his raising a baby video, talking ben watches me every day, glaring at me. The Vegan Teacher breaks into his house every night searching for him, I don't have much time left in here, it stinks. help me.) He is totally sane and an amazing person!!
BEN DO THE NEXT VID OF HISTORY OF PALESTINE PLSS
Ah yes just waking up and listening to ben
this was really good background noise while i was looking for somthing in my room
Agreeing to the intro knowing damn well I've been admitted to the psych multiple times
Haven't watched it yet but I'm sure it's a good video
Yes 0:19
I HATE THAT TEST HOW THE HELL AM I WORSE THAN YOU????
10:51
yeah people dont understand me but its not bc im a psychopath, its bc im autistic
lmao
I’m pretty sure we’ve already determined this.
I got 67.19% sociopathic, 68.18% impulsive and 42.82% more psychotic than a normal person🥰
Nah because I took this test and I was DIRECTLY in the middle of psychopath and impulsive like on the line. 💀
What is it called?
@@Iluqxentz I just looked up psychopathy spectrum test 27 questions and it should be the first link to pop up
@@RainonMel thx ml
@@Iluqxentz ofccc
Ben is NOT A PSYCHOPATH!!He is the best person in the world he makes me laugh, he makes me happy, and I CAN'T GO A DAY WITHOUT WATCHING HIS CHANNEL! I just wanna say Ben thank you so much you got me through a toxic relationship I went from crying to laughing. YOUR THE BEST BEN ILYYYY!!! Edit: ALL IN FAVOR TO KEEP THIS MAN SAFE👇
you say that like having ASPD automatically makes you a bad person
i think im going mad i swear ive had deja vu of him talking about frustration and fuses TWICE before
seeing an add before this vid saying getting naked changed his life💀
I’ve so hungry I’ve been watching mukbangs for 2 hours
I’m eating pho after starving myself for 3 days and it’s soooo good
@@casper_is_a_gh0stwhy?
10:50 dude were here for you. Honestly, you should make some venting videos once in a while. There's no need to worry. We got your back🩷👍. Btw love your content. Keep up the great work😁. Also dont share if you dont like to, im just saying it might make you feel better about things if you share😁.
“Am I a psychopath” yes , yes I am
6:02 "lil orange mothafucka from inside out 2"
8:17 im crying hes so adhd getting so sidetracked
14:13 TELL ME WHY THIS SCARED ME LWK
🤫🧏🏼♂️ BEN MEW IN THE NEXT VIDEO PLEASEE
Backstory: My biological dad wanted my brothers phone but my brother wouldn't give it, so my dad hit him. My brother then gave his phone and ran out the door. He ran to her workplace in freezing temperatures and told her, and now my parents are divorced. I live with my mom and dont talk with my dad.
💫Drama💫: Recently, my school had a fundraiser for the girls pe, and I checked the app and saw the top donators name being my dad with 500 dollars. This happened months ago. I just wanted your opinion on this.
Im sure everybody loves ben
Like if you love ben
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DRAMA; One of my friends is very manipulative, controlling, started dating my ex who assaulted and abused me multiple times, and overall is just a really bad person. I’m planning on texting their mother directly because confronting them would only result in negativity from them and them shutting down and refusing to talk, but im really hesitant because I’ve been friends with this person since third grade, and they’re one of the only constants i have in my life. What do I do in general, or to help get rid of my hesitancy?
Btw love your videos, having you talk in the background is very useful when I go to draw and/or animate :)
I feel like every creative person is at least a little psychopathic
It’s like how every artist and musician has some type of mental illlness
Psychopaths are not creative. The two are opposites.
DRAMA!!
This kid at my school (teachers pet) has been doing a lot of bad things in school, but the teachers never think to question him. Recently, I got suspended for “bringing a lighter to school” when it was literally him 😡!! I don’t know what to do about them, pls help this!
First (edit: you guys remember when he took a test and figured he had like 7 mental illnesses 💀)
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🎉 yippee u have been awarded a cookie 🍪
drama!!
so basically three of my friends randomly stopped being my friend, and our mutual friend (who i’ve know for 5 years) hasn’t been talking to me. they all said some really hurtful things and they all always laugh whenever i walk into any room, what should i do??
I eat oil 🥰🥰
Don't us all 🤔🤔🤔
@ yes we all do 😍😍
@@36Hi36 my favorites kerasene
@@AnnetteBurke-k3g real
Let’s boost that “likely has autism” to “yeah, he prob has autism it’s 50-50”
16 seconds 0 likes the podcast fell off
BABE WAKE UP, A NEW DRAMAMAMA PODCAST IS UPPPP
0:18 yes.
I watched this while literally dying form a fever.
GET THAT MAN AWAY FROM APARTMENTS 🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️‼️
Real.