How can you come back to help someone heal? Healing is self induced. Toxic-codependent relationship of any kind... never work. They are meant to help us grow. Many blessings everyone
I love that y acknowledged that it wasn’t about promoting the relationship it’s about the awareness people be so simple minded talking this isn’t my goals that’s the point they wnated y’all to see it’s not a good look ashanti has been dealing with that for years when she was young every song is about broken love she’s amazing Joyner is a genius also lyrical!! I’m here for there relationship if it’s real cause those kissing scenes was reality tv lol
No disrespect but toxic love is no love.Love is good when it's pure.Dont think abuse is love it's lust that only hurts you more,trust in the Lord for your mate.
I respect ur point of view and all.. In life ur gonna go through somethings we all Suffern from some kind of trauma..So it's best to have knowledge of self to understand who you are as a person.heal people heal people hurt people hurt people think on that tho..
Ashanti is the true Definition a Black does not crack her Fashion killed the game...................... .. Mr. JOYER is such a deep artist huge fan Deep Lyrics
Facts. This type of struggle love gon have you in yo 40s and 50s bitter and regretting all the years and wasting your youth on..We will never get our youth back. Im good!!
I’m so proud of my Black women stating they DONT want this type of relationship. I’m so proud of y’all , y’all waking up and knowing y’all self worth . I’m here for it !! 🥰✊🏾💕 but Ashanti LOOKS 🔥🔥🔥
My daughter's mom dedicate me this song, i can relate so much.. never take life or that special one for granted.. they can be here today and gone tomorrow i pray she get better and stays in this world for a lifetime.. i love that girl so much she blessed me for the rest of my life with a princess.. all prayers needed🙏, fuck cancer💯
Wow! This video is 🔥! The feeling was deep. Lucas is definitely killing the game and he's giving all types of Zaddy vibes..And Ashanti never gets old! She was amazing in this joint!
It’s not about being toxic. It’s about 2 people who all they know is hurt cause of their past. When they have good times they try to enjoy those times the most
A song like this should be #1 worldwide. Everyone knows that kind of love where you love someone so much but determined to not love anyone else. No matter the bad days the good one overpowered it. ❤️❤️❤️
Dani cohan is trash im sorry she will never have the vocals of Ashanti what she did was so wrong . i grew up listening to foolish still do. Shany should sue her ass
The Fact That This Video Shows Exactly What I Just Went Through, Literally Everything . & The Lyrics Explains Us Soo Much 😞 I Cried All Over Again At The Cop Scene Cause Just 2 Weeks Ago I Had To Put Him In Jail Cause This Last Fight Was Just Too Bad 🤧 Damn This Hits Home For Me 💯
Banana Brianna hate to say but I can relate with this song because I’m the man In This scenario and I ruined it being selfish wish I would have done better she deserved better
Sending you a hug and shoulder from sc god will pull threw all this pain sorry that your going threw this but you are a jewel and you deserve the love and respect..
I know this is a reference to Ashanti sister’s relationship with slow bucks. He was very abusive and they were engaged and she got pregnant and lost the baby. Slow bucks ass should be in jail 😩 Such a good video because a lot of people are going through this rn and Ashanti was able to see her sister go through it.
Psalm 139:13-18 13 For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. 14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. 15 My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place in, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. 16 Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. 17 How precious to me are your thoughts, God! How vast is the sum of them! 18 Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand- when I awake, I am still with you.
I loved this mv!! The acting and the subject matter pulled me into the story right away. And of course you look Gorgeous Sis...... I think the mv will pull great numbers.
Yess this song is fire 🔥 ❤️❤️👅 make me thing about my ex that passed away in 2013 shit we was fire 🔥. I still never founded anyone else like him and and this song Reminds me of him thank you so much for putting this song out
Love the message of the song . We must learn self love. My ex boyfriend who I dated at the age of 20 grabbed me by my right arm. He didn't like what I was saying although he was intoxicated with alcohol. I knew it was wrong. I walked away from the relationship.
Such a great video. Man that hits home for so many people doesn’t it? It’s not how a good relationship should be but that doesn’t change so many people are stuck in this type. So sad. Your partner should be your best friend with none of the crazy drama. This video was true and not just about sex and bullshit like most videos are all about nowadays.
Ashanti is almost 40 years old and out here looking no more than 25! Beautiful!
I think she is more than 40
Like for real...Dang she still look good...
She’s 43
Ashanti’s stylist went off
Yes Jonathan did
Lucas on his thing too
PERIOD
I love every look! Get it Ashanti!
I was just thinking. She looks really good in this.
Ashanti so pretty ❤️👑❤️👑
Very fine
Always pretty 👌
Yes She is
Yes she is gorgeous
Really is
"And we never learned self love. So we been there for each other when no one else was" 💔 i felt that
Danielle Hernandez 🙏🏽🔖🎐
!!!
Ashanti serving looks throughout the whole video 😍🔥 Just wish she actually had a verse on this track 😩😭
Right!
Me too I was waiting for it and it never came dammit
Facts!!
Yes!! Agreed.
Is that her in the background vocals?It doesn’t sound like her but it could
"Like we under a spell, when we hurt each other we come back to help each other heal" Damn... this song....💯💯
How can you come back to help someone heal? Healing is self induced. Toxic-codependent relationship of any kind... never work. They are meant to help us grow. Many blessings everyone
It’s life
Love that Ashanti keeps “Domestic Violences” topic in every project . A reminder that violence comes in every form. Even under the guise of “Love”
I love that y acknowledged that it wasn’t about promoting the relationship it’s about the awareness people be so simple minded talking this isn’t my goals that’s the point they wnated y’all to see it’s not a good look ashanti has been dealing with that for years when she was young every song is about broken love she’s amazing Joyner is a genius also lyrical!! I’m here for there relationship if it’s real cause those kissing scenes was reality tv lol
Toxic relationships are tiring and too much depression/stress. I can't be with someone, who sees nothing wrong with putting their hands on me.
💜🙏🏼💜🙏🏼💜🙏🏼 I'm Blessed it's over
Exactly!
It’s very draining
Right?? That ish not cute
right i been thru it it aint fun at all
I like how she came back and kept her NATURAL BODY! She not letting Hollyweird change her.
Her curves are reals?
Yep
Hollyweird😂😂
Love Ashanti, 😍 They need to turn this into a movie!!! 🎥 I've watched this 5 times already!! 👀👀
Facts so did I! Im hooked on this video now im watching reaction videos
Me too
Nat SaidThat facts
@@shani97y75 Right!! I don't usually watch reaction videos but I'm on my 5th one. lol.
Yeeeesss!!!
No disrespect but toxic love is no love.Love is good when it's pure.Dont think abuse is love it's lust that only hurts you more,trust in the Lord for your mate.
Cindy say it again please!
Say it louder
Fact
I respect ur point of view and all.. In life ur gonna go through somethings we all Suffern from some kind of trauma..So it's best to have knowledge of self to understand who you are as a person.heal people heal people hurt people hurt people think on that tho..
Love is kind and gentle not hurt or rushed
Ashanti is the true Definition a Black does not crack her Fashion killed the game......................
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Mr. JOYER is such a deep artist huge fan Deep Lyrics
Shaminka Cargile Ashanti Pequot too love
Yes much better than whan Danielle cohn was trying to do on vm.tiktok.com/ZMJAwPeha/
Yes hunny
Facts
Who the chick that singing the end
The acting...especially the fight scene...great work. Everything looked real.
It is real day a real couple
The acting in this was so realistic I love the effort 💪🏽
Maybe they are together but if you go look at her jump offs with Ja Rule that looks like chemistry as well. She is a natural. For sure.
Ashanti has never left the early 2000’s with arguing with her man in the music video while music is playing lol
Jae Paul IN SLOW MOTION SOMETIMES TOO
Jae Paul Don’t do her like that..😅
@Jae Paul what's ur point.... Maybe she doesn't want children, but maybe she does....
Ashanti actually has a son with Nelly
@@lovelyli1305 Bish where????
OSCARS NEED TO BE GIVEN!! I just want a series, movie or something😍
Thats not love...Love is not toxic or abusive...Love is kind...love is peace...love is beautiful...Thats dysfunction
Umm this is no relationship goals of mine.. I want peace in my life!!
Well text back one of them “safe” niggaz u keep in yo phone. Every female got at least 2-3 “good guys” they ignore for the jokers.
Facts. This type of struggle love gon have you in yo 40s and 50s bitter and regretting all the years and wasting your youth on..We will never get our youth back. Im good!!
Mike Prestige my boyfriend brings me peace 🙌🏾 lol
Jasmine Michelle I bet you won’t check his phone...
Creole Cee girl yesss!!! I don’t need no extra stress in my life
Ladies this is not love...toxic 😥. Two people that need to heal and grow mentally.
True
I love Libra girls. She's 40 but still better than most of the girls at 20.
She how old!?
@@Thankfulforairinmylungs She was born in 1980. That means she's 40. Source wiki.
She 39
@@Chyntxl what's the difference?
@Loka congrats!
They have great chemistry
Exactly definitely see it
Yessssssss
They are in a relationship no acting here.
Why Ashanti slayed every look though?! 😍😍😭
who would’ve known this collab was needed
Can someone count HOW MANY GD LOOKS ASHANTI blessed our eyes with in this video , please? 🙏🏻🙏🙏🏾
Ashanti getting down 😍😍😍😍👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Wow, this was so rich, captivating and powerful.
Ashanti has crazy chemistry with him... 🦋😭💯
I’m so proud of my Black women stating they DONT want this type of relationship. I’m so proud of y’all , y’all waking up and knowing y’all self worth . I’m here for it !! 🥰✊🏾💕 but Ashanti LOOKS 🔥🔥🔥
I see chemistry Ashanti I love the song ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰
Babeee!!! Ashanti serving looks PERIODT🙌🏽🌹🔥🔥🔥I LOVE THIS SONG
This collab is 🔥🔥🔥
My daughter's mom dedicate me this song, i can relate so much.. never take life or that special one for granted.. they can be here today and gone tomorrow i pray she get better and stays in this world for a lifetime.. i love that girl so much she blessed me for the rest of my life with a princess.. all prayers needed🙏, fuck cancer💯
Ashanti is beautiful! Inside & out & musical genius 😍
You can’t glamourise this kinda of relationship for a song or anything. Toxic and unhealthy . Lord help us . Just say where together Period.
Yasss but this is some toxic shit 😫love hate relationship 😂❤️
Too toxic. We are off of this!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Rain on me 2.0 😁
Lmao omg yes. I just like them together without the violence 😂😂
Right I was saying the same thing, I’ll pass on this type of love 🤦🏽♀️ cause that’s not love at all🙌🏽
They have good on screen chemistry! I felt like I was watching a movie!💯
My new obsession they look so good together ugh 😩
Great video Ashanti!! Watching in 2024!! You are so beautiful and Joyner is very handsome. The chemistry is through the roof frfr girl!!
It just a video relax she married to Nelly now
It was the making out for me 🤣
He piped her out GOOD
Like they at war lol
Lol me to
*Who this dude, I’m loving the chemistry.*
He's really great joyner lucas💯
If she’s not my favorite singer then I don’t know who else? She’s a goddess.
I love you Ashanti❤️
So are they a thing because this acting is WAAAAYYY too real?
I believe so
oh shit foreel thats her man go ashanti he a cutie
Right
I was thinking the same thing I can’t even focus on the video cause I’m trying to search and see if they are real couple cause this ish look real lol
I was thinking the same cuz when has she been the type to be kissing like that in a video?
OMG!! Ashanti!! We need an album from you!!! We've been waiting for it!!!!
Mannnn listen Ashanti still looks good this women don't age. Over there looking like day 1
Ashanti just had like ten different wigs 😍😍😍 fye af period I just love it 😍😍
This what every Joyner and Ashanti fan needed. Period! 💪
This the down stage of a relationship and if you can get through this stage your inseparable.............Relationships aren’t always perfect.
No
This video was def made to show that dv relations aren’t a good look at all lol def don’t wanna start out or finish like this at all
She was the best pick for this video his video always be the best so underrated 👑👑👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I love Ashanti!! #team Libra!! Can't wait for Libra season...
Yesss me tooo 10/6
nelly just thru his phone at ms jackson lol
Maite Tebogo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can’t!!!!
@@qngs1 im jk 😭😅😅
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
😂😂😂😂
lol
Wow! This video is 🔥! The feeling was deep. Lucas is definitely killing the game and he's giving all types of Zaddy vibes..And Ashanti never gets old! She was amazing in this joint!
She looks good in every scene 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Rap version of foolish and rain and me together!
It really is
DEEP....Dysfunctionality acknowledged! Love vs abuse. Know the difference.
Damn this song fireeee but if yall together yall could have said that
It's nobody's business...
@@igetthatgoodjugg 😅😅
Zakaria Accolla Right!
It’s not about being toxic. It’s about 2 people who all they know is hurt cause of their past. When they have good times they try to enjoy those times the most
Can we get a remix with an Ashanti verse😉
A song like this should be #1 worldwide. Everyone knows that kind of love where you love someone so much but determined to not love anyone else. No matter the bad days the good one overpowered it. ❤️❤️❤️
Ashanti looks younger than that girl that stole her song.
Brooklyn 212 yes she do love your comment sweetie
Good one. 😂
😂 i was like " WHO STOLE HE--- 👀oh. Ooohhhhhhhh" 😂😂🤣🤣
Bloop 🤣😂🤣😂
Dani cohan is trash im sorry she will never have the vocals of Ashanti what she did was so wrong . i grew up listening to foolish still do. Shany should sue her ass
The Fact That This Video Shows Exactly What I Just Went Through, Literally Everything . & The Lyrics Explains Us Soo Much 😞 I Cried All Over Again At The Cop Scene Cause Just 2 Weeks Ago I Had To Put Him In Jail Cause This Last Fight Was Just Too Bad 🤧 Damn This Hits Home For Me 💯
Sorry your going through it right now
LogicWorldz Sad To Say But It’s Life 💔 In This World , We Experience Pain Either Physically or Emotionally Sometimes Both 💔😒
Banana Brianna hate to say but I can relate with this song because I’m the man In This scenario and I ruined it being selfish wish I would have done better she deserved better
Sending you a hug and shoulder from sc god will pull threw all this pain sorry that your going threw this but you are a jewel and you deserve the love and respect..
You are gorgeous. Please dont waste to much time or energy on someone who might be toxic.
Ashanti is Beautiful!!❤😍
I fell in love with this song fr it makes me cry
I know this is a reference to Ashanti sister’s relationship with slow bucks. He was very abusive and they were engaged and she got pregnant and lost the baby. Slow bucks ass should be in jail 😩 Such a good video because a lot of people are going through this rn and Ashanti was able to see her sister go through it.
That’s who I thought about too . He should be in jail
I didnt know that!!!!!!! 😵😵😵😵😵😵😵😵😵
She lost her baby because of him?????
@@shi0shi0luv yes 😩
@@ShaniceXO26 its so awful 😥😥😥😥😥
That tongue 👅 during the kiss was crazy 😳
Y’all look GOOD together 😍
🧢
I dunno y'all but I'm getting "365 Days" vibe in here.. Ashanti's blonde hair and that grab neck scene..
Lol just seen that movie on Netflix
😂.
Aww 🥰🥰🥰🥰 I'm loving this 💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘
Ashanti is goals💕👑!
Ashanti is soooo pretty and I love her and this was a great video 😍
Psalm 139:13-18
13 For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place in, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
16 Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.
17 How precious to me are your thoughts, God! How vast is the sum of them!
18 Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand- when I awake, I am still with you.
Ashanti fine fine! This a dope ass video! It’s the lyrics and video for me!❤️
This is the best I’ve seen her. She looked comfortable in her own skin and not stiff.
ASHANTI KILLEN ALL THE LOOKS 🔥🔥🔥DEF LOVIN THIS SONG💜💜💚💚
That glow up though!!!🤩🔥🔥❤
Yes keep making music ! We love you and you are lookin amazing !!
That was a whole mood !!!! LADIES LOVE YOUR SELF MORE THAN EVER !!! ASHANTI THANK YOU🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🌹🌹🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I loved this mv!!
The acting and the subject matter pulled me
into the story right away. And of course you look
Gorgeous Sis...... I think the mv will pull great numbers.
Love seeing Ashanti in a different light. More please.
Great collaboration!!✨💛
Ladies please say no to struggle love and abuse! Love yourself first!!!!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Yasss Toxicity give the relationship nothing 🔥🤐
I have watched this at least 1,000 times now!
ASHANTI👑👑👑🌟🌟🌟❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏😍
Sheeesh lettzzz goooo Santa
Ashanti you're so lovely and beautiful. ❤🌻🌹🌹🌻❤
Yess this song is fire 🔥 ❤️❤️👅 make me thing about my ex that passed away in 2013 shit we was fire 🔥. I still never founded anyone else like him and and this song Reminds me of him thank you so much for putting this song out
Woah, this was intense! Ashanti looks amazing, as always though.
Definitely a movie! Joyner Lucas always come through. Ashanti giving ‘Foolish’ vibes. I love it
I am so in love with this song, my new favorite🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Ashanti u are everything boo..
Love the message of the song . We must learn self love. My ex boyfriend who I dated at the age of 20 grabbed me by my right arm. He didn't like what I was saying although he was intoxicated with alcohol. I knew it was wrong. I walked away from the relationship.
This song is fiyah!!!! Ashanti is so gorgeous, always kept it sexy
Fabulous Shanti Fan For Life.
My mom named me after you cause your one of her favorite singers ❤️
Ashantilicious ❤️💚🖤
STEAMING HOOOOOOOOT!!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Such a great video. Man that hits home for so many people doesn’t it? It’s not how a good relationship should be but that doesn’t change so many people are stuck in this type. So sad. Your partner should be your best friend with none of the crazy drama. This video was true and not just about sex and bullshit like most videos are all about nowadays.
This is not relationship goals yungens! This is TOXIC!
Vid was made to raise awareness it always is that way with Ashanti check rain on me
@@chubbsdadon88 we know this! But others may not
Ashanti snapped! Her acting was was excellent in this video, as well as Joyner. The chemistry was very believable.
Ashanti is always looking beautiful forever young i Love her lifestyle