this video reminded me when i told my parents that i was a lesbian, at first it was horrible my whole family said i would go to hell, i cried every night thinking about it, but today i live with my wife in another city and I feel good being who I am, and thanks for making this video it was perfect
Dad: you know there’re a lot of gay people nowadays right? Me: yea, what about it? Dad: you’re not one of them, right? Me:um...no Dad: good, I’m just worried. Guess he’ll never find out lmao
as someone who's got homophobic parents, this was a huge comfort for me. the fact that they're willing to disown me for my sexuality and gender identity, sucks but I've grown numb to it. thank you so much for these audios and I hope you'll find the inspiration to make more of these in the future 💜
This helped me because my brother who is bisexual and me who is a lesbian, we’ve been meaning to come out to our mom, but due to the way she looks at the whole LGBTQ+ community we’re scared to come out to her, we don’t know what she’ll do or say to us, so it’s terrifying to us because we don’t want to lose someone who we love and care about.
Somewhere over the rainbow happens to be in a movie I used to watch with my dad a lot before he passed away. Hearing it whilst on the verge of tears bc of my homophobic and transphobic family just made me cry. This video really helped a lot
My mom were giving me a lecture and my mental/emotional battery is just drained cause her tone is always on lecture mode. It's like everytime I talk to her my battery gets drained fast. I almost broke down in front of her. And last time I broke down in her presence she criticized me. It feels like she doesn't understand that I have other things draining me too, I am my own person I have personal problems. As if college and discovering myself isn't stressful enough. So I ran to my room, broke down and found myself searching up this channel for comfort. Thank you so much
Sounds like your mom is making her life way more important than yours. That sucks. u deserve a better home. Because your home should be a place u may rest and recuperate. Good luck in your future Fudge.
Thanks for uploading stuff like this, I've been dealing with a lot of pain from a previous relationship and from my transphobic father and listening to audio like this helps me de-stress and fall asleep.
when you started humming, i immediately recognized the song and my dad used to play it a lot when i was younger and it reminded me of when things were better before i ever thought or knew about being gay/trans and it just broke me
Thank you for making this. I totally didn't tear up listening to it three times or anything. Shh... I'm going to bookmark it to come back to it as needed. Last time I talked to my parents on the phone, it left me in a depressive and anxious funk for almost 2 weeks. Years after I've moved away from them and they still get to me. I just... I want them to get it and to understand. I want them to be better because I don't want to have to cut them out of my life... But again, thank you for this. I'm definitely going to need to listen to it this weekend. 💜
god i need this my parents constantly tell me they refuse to accept any bit of me being trans I'd leave but I'm only 16 and my dad and i literally cut off all contact because of it yesterday he was too focused on how apparently it's a disease and it's ruining the world or something else stupid i just want normal parents lol this is hell but yeah, thank you for this
i told my mother and siblings that im non-binary a couple months ago and mother laughed in my face saying that “ your a girl its on your birth certificate ” my sister is trying to using my name and pronouns my brother today misgender me infront of his friends and his friend keep on calling me a girl
this by far my fav audio of all time, shoot my parents are homopobic and i cant be with my gf bc were 12 hours away. so i listen to this when there are problems between me and my mom bc im gay. thank you fir making this, its ine of the only things that help me sleep now a days.
This one definitely hit right at home, I just came out to my parents and they were ok with it but, my grandparent, I've looked up to them my whole life, they were there more so that my actual parents and they just want nothing to do with me.
I have an entire scene planned out for if I come out to my dad and I can imagine him saying I’m not his daughter. I’ll probably just say I never was his daughter lol ✨trauma✨
@@LanceAudios Thank you, I do have my mum and my brother who are supportive. I have a couple friends who are too but I haven’t come out to a majority of my family. I plan to do it when I am old enough to live by myself.
I come from a Christian family. But they're also a very supportive and progressive family. And I may not be homosexual or transgender (that I know of), but even if I was, they wouldn't treat me any different. That's something I'm very grateful for, and I honestly wish more religious families were like that. There'd certainly be a lot less people who are scared to come out. There have been many different versions of the bible. And each version can be interpreted many different ways. And some things in the Bible could be more a reflection of society at the time.
I'm so fucking scared cuz like my family is a Christian, military, Asian family and uh.. this shit got me crying while I'm eating dinner. Thankyou somehow it's comforting 😅
Bro my mum just called they them pronouns stupid and I’m literally gender fluid and use them I’m about to cry especially since my gender dysphoria has been so bad recently
I hope I can rant a little- I just am sick of talking to people and getting the same response... So I’m still in school and things just keep getting harder and harder I came out to my parents as bi and they excepted me without necessarily supporting me because they don’t understand but that’s not really the problem but today was kind of crap I keep getting made fun of because I have a boy haircut when I’m a girl and guys keep thinking that it’s OK to say the F slur and I’m just unhappy with the way I look (more specifically my hair i got it and liked it for a while but now it looks weird and i cant get it to look like i want it- and my friends want me to keep it even tho i get made fun of and don’t like the way it looks- i just wanna be happy) so I guess I came looking for a audio for LGBTQ- it’s normal to have those bad days but it’s already been getting hard because of the fact I’m getting unhappy with my hair and all of this extra homophobia is just making it worse... I have a girlfriend and she keeps trying to comfort me but nothing is helping and I’m kind of just falling- and i just can’t fix it... but this makes me feel a little better- i know i should let my girlfriend comfort me but all she can say is words and I’m so done with words... I guess I keep telling people how I feel in hopes they can find what my problem is and why words or people can comfort me but nothing works... they keep saying “I’m sorry for what’s happening to you” but I get a small irritation from that I guess bc that’s all I ever get from people when I tell them how I feel- I guess I’m tired of getting the same response and my girlfriend says “there’s always something to comfort someone” but there isn’t except ASMR and then the audio stops and I’m let with myself again... there’s no way to make his better and help myself- so I’m just living a soulless life and I don’t have compassion anymore... I don’t wanna die or live... I think and think and think and can never find what can help me or how I can help myself... my love language is physical touch and my girlfriend isn’t with me irl- and when I hug friends I just don’t feel that feeling I want to feel so I’m stuck- and for some reason I like getting this kind of thing off my chest in random TH-cam videos... sorry- thanks for the audio tho so amazing
@@LanceAudios I didn’t expect someone to read that book but I’m thankful someone cared enough to read it- I hope it gets better soon... that’s super sweet of you to say- you help a lot of people in different ways... thank you💙
im here bc my homophobic dad decided to pick up one of my yuri manga and since the cover was really gay he probably knows im lesbian now so im gonna run away from my home now 😇 tysm for this though, calmed down my anxiety, maybe ill survive this
Hey there. I'm a runaway youth. Not many of us make it. Make good choices out there. Try and stay sober (not always easy). Work food service, back of house if u want free food and front of house if u want a chance of making tips (both come with immense drawbacks) AND NEVER lose yourself in the nonsense. Good luck i love u. Dont die.
@@grassgeese3916 i didn't seriously consider running away bc im safe until he finds out but thank you so so so much ♥♥ I still have my mother by my side and she's accepting so I won't probably wanna do it unless stuff will get violent with my dad, either way tysm 2 both of uu ♥ good luck Grass Geese too i hope you're doing well and you are safe :) stay safe
Thank you Lance.😍 l’m so glad to receive ❤️notification from LanceAudios regarding my recent comment. It means a lot to me. Actually, l was worried that u might not be happy with my “negative” comment when u “swear” a lot in the audio. But l forgot that u were doing it by following the script and that it was just an act. I’m so sorry for being overly sensitive and overreacting. Anyway, you demonstrate a professional attitude.👍 Aunty F🤗 respect and understand u more now. Remember this: “Words are magical… Use yours to heal, inspire, encourage and empower…” Just be yourself.❤️
Thank you I don't know what I am but I know I'm not normal but I'm scared ill never find someone who appreciate me for me. If I ever do find someone I would never want them to meet my family..
Could you do something for non binary people? Either comfort, dysphoria, coming out anything there isn't enough video for us ( I just discovered your channel)
Hi Lance. Today l would like to comment regarding your audio - “Comfort For Homophobic/Transphobic Parents”. As always u did it well. Congratulations for your excellent work.💐👏👏👏 l really sympathize with all the suffering that she had to endure. But l really adored the way u show your concern and support for her. You did the right thing. The only thing that made me feel uncomfortable is when u start “calling” her parents using this vulgar word “[xxxxxxx]” in that audio.🤭 After that u said “sorry”….and l thought okay….u don’t mean it but then u keep repeating that word again. OMG…🤦♀️ That was my reaction. Probably u would say that was just a normal expression and nothing unusual about it. Sorry if l got it wrong. That was just my personal opinion. At first l was reluctant to highlight this matter cos’ l don’t mean to hurt anybody’s feeling. But l believe honesty is the best policy. Sometime anger can make people lose control what they say and do. Hate no one, no matter how much they’ve wronged you. Nobody is perfect. Forgive all and never stop praying for the best of everyone. Remember this quote: “Show respect to people who don’t deserve it not as a reflection of their character but as a reflection of yours.” Aunty F🤗is still your fan and will always be no matter what. You’re very creative and talented. I really like and value your work. I’m always looking forward to LanceAudios. #All fans and followers of LanceAudios pls….pls….pls keep supporting.🙏💐❤️
My whole family knows that I’m lesbian and none of them accept me and I’m scared they’re gonna find out that I have a girlfriend and make me break up with her
hey idk if youll see this but im kind of going through that, or more that i am. i told my parents im bi and they got so mad, more than i thought they would. they banned me from seeing my gf, made me cut contact with her, and EVEN took me out of school so close to ACTs because of it. they even threatened to send me with my grandparents, who live in mexico. i live in the us. its been 2 yrs since u wrote this and i just wanna know if they found out, if things got better, i just want a little bit of hope. i feel bad that my gf has to go through all this pain as well, when her parents are SUPER supportive. im 17, and i wish i could leave home but i know 18 is close but its hard to get out.
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this video reminded me when i told my parents that i was a lesbian, at first it was horrible my whole family said i would go to hell, i cried every night thinking about it, but today i live with my wife in another city and I feel good being who I am, and thanks for making this video it was perfect
That's so good to hear ❤️ and thank you!
I'm so happy for you! :D
Being bisexual in a Christian family isn’t the best😔
@@cileymassengale4375 yeah same
@@cileymassengale4375 yeah especially when your dad is the Pastor because then you supposed to be "oh so perfect".
Dad: you know there’re a lot of gay people nowadays right?
Me: yea, what about it?
Dad: you’re not one of them, right?
Me:um...no
Dad: good, I’m just worried.
Guess he’ll never find out lmao
Dude this is my mom exactly, she doesn’t care what other people do but she doesn’t want me being “queer” as she says. To bad for her though I am Bi XD
as someone who's got homophobic parents, this was a huge comfort for me. the fact that they're willing to disown me for my sexuality and gender identity, sucks but I've grown numb to it. thank you so much for these audios and I hope you'll find the inspiration to make more of these in the future 💜
Hope things get better for you my dear x
I legit broke down in tears when you hummed "somewhere over the rainbow" it hit too close to home especially in a video about homophobic people
awww yes i might've teared up during
Same that song reminds me of my mom alot
I must cry I feel so sad for the people who have to go through that.. Sending love to you guys
Tysm I have to live through a homiphobic dad and it's horrible but ty
This helped me because my brother who is bisexual and me who is a lesbian, we’ve been meaning to come out to our mom, but due to the way she looks at the whole LGBTQ+ community we’re scared to come out to her, we don’t know what she’ll do or say to us, so it’s terrifying to us because we don’t want to lose someone who we love and care about.
I'm so sorry you and your brother are going through that, please stay safe & ily both! x
Not me wanting to cry bc of this while my homophobic helicopter dad is across from me
Oh no 😢 things will get better I promise! X
Somewhere over the rainbow happens to be in a movie I used to watch with my dad a lot before he passed away. Hearing it whilst on the verge of tears bc of my homophobic and transphobic family just made me cry. This video really helped a lot
My mom were giving me a lecture and my mental/emotional battery is just drained cause her tone is always on lecture mode. It's like everytime I talk to her my battery gets drained fast. I almost broke down in front of her. And last time I broke down in her presence she criticized me. It feels like she doesn't understand that I have other things draining me too, I am my own person I have personal problems. As if college and discovering myself isn't stressful enough. So I ran to my room, broke down and found myself searching up this channel for comfort.
Thank you so much
Sounds like your mom is making her life way more important than yours. That sucks. u deserve a better home. Because your home should be a place u may rest and recuperate. Good luck in your future Fudge.
I'm sorry to hear that but I'm glad I can help xx
Thanks for uploading stuff like this, I've been dealing with a lot of pain from a previous relationship and from my transphobic father and listening to audio like this helps me de-stress and fall asleep.
as a demigirl lesbian i really appreciate this, thankyou❤️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
You're welcome from a nonbinary bisexual hahahaha xx
Not to be rude but what does Demigirl mean
Demi girl wtf are you fucking Maui
when you started humming, i immediately recognized the song and my dad used to play it a lot when i was younger and it reminded me of when things were better before i ever thought or knew about being gay/trans and it just broke me
Thank you for making this. I totally didn't tear up listening to it three times or anything. Shh...
I'm going to bookmark it to come back to it as needed.
Last time I talked to my parents on the phone, it left me in a depressive and anxious funk for almost 2 weeks. Years after I've moved away from them and they still get to me. I just... I want them to get it and to understand. I want them to be better because I don't want to have to cut them out of my life...
But again, thank you for this. I'm definitely going to need to listen to it this weekend. 💜
I hope you feel better 💜
god i need this
my parents constantly tell me they refuse to accept any bit of me being trans
I'd leave but I'm only 16
and my dad and i literally cut off all contact because of it yesterday
he was too focused on how apparently it's a disease and it's ruining the world or something else stupid
i just want normal parents lol
this is hell
but yeah, thank you for this
I got homophobic *and* transphobic I am the most powerful of all
Same my friend same x
oppressed by our own parents gang
i told my mother and siblings that im non-binary a couple months ago and mother laughed in my face saying that “ your a girl its on your birth certificate ” my sister is trying to using my name and pronouns my brother today misgender me infront of his friends and his friend keep on calling me a girl
all the love from one nb to another! x
this by far my fav audio of all time, shoot my parents are homopobic and i cant be with my gf bc were 12 hours away. so i listen to this when there are problems between me and my mom bc im gay. thank you fir making this, its ine of the only things that help me sleep now a days.
Thank you so much!! Hope things get better for you soon. X
I literally just came out to my mom... I needed this...
This one definitely hit right at home, I just came out to my parents and they were ok with it but, my grandparent, I've looked up to them my whole life, they were there more so that my actual parents and they just want nothing to do with me.
My dad told me earlier today that anyone within the LGBTQ+ has a mental illness. I haven't come out yet and that really hurt.
Boy some parents these days, huh?
I hate my dad so much, my mom was "supportive", then my dad dragged her down the homophobic path.
This helped me with my sadness. I live in (if you could believe it) a transphobic town. Thank you for this video.
Just listening to this while my mother had a Bible study in the next room centering around why I shouldn't exist💕
I have an entire scene planned out for if I come out to my dad and I can imagine him saying I’m not his daughter. I’ll probably just say I never was his daughter lol ✨trauma✨
I hope things turn out ok dear! Please only come out if it's safe xx
@@LanceAudios Thank you, I do have my mum and my brother who are supportive. I have a couple friends who are too but I haven’t come out to a majority of my family. I plan to do it when I am old enough to live by myself.
I come from a Christian family. But they're also a very supportive and progressive family. And I may not be homosexual or transgender (that I know of), but even if I was, they wouldn't treat me any different. That's something I'm very grateful for, and I honestly wish more religious families were like that. There'd certainly be a lot less people who are scared to come out. There have been many different versions of the bible. And each version can be interpreted many different ways. And some things in the Bible could be more a reflection of society at the time.
the cope is strong in this one
@@revooh-hj2nu My point is that just because someone is Christian, doesn't automatically mean they're conservative.
I told my parents that im bi a few months ago they don't support me at all and now I'm a lesbian and i can't tell them and it just makes me so sad.
I needed this my mother told me ill never be a girl because of my chromosomes
You do my favorite audio role plays! Would you consider doing another eating disorder audio with more of a sub/dom tone?
Oooh I'll add that to the list! x
I'm so fucking scared cuz like my family is a Christian, military, Asian family and uh.. this shit got me crying while I'm eating dinner. Thankyou somehow it's comforting 😅
Bro my mum just called they them pronouns stupid and I’m literally gender fluid and use them I’m about to cry especially since my gender dysphoria has been so bad recently
I hope I can rant a little- I just am sick of talking to people and getting the same response...
So I’m still in school and things just keep getting harder and harder I came out to my parents as bi and they excepted me without necessarily supporting me because they don’t understand but that’s not really the problem but today was kind of crap I keep getting made fun of because I have a boy haircut when I’m a girl and guys keep thinking that it’s OK to say the F slur and I’m just unhappy with the way I look (more specifically my hair i got it and liked it for a while but now it looks weird and i cant get it to look like i want it- and my friends want me to keep it even tho i get made fun of and don’t like the way it looks- i just wanna be happy) so I guess I came looking for a audio for LGBTQ- it’s normal to have those bad days but it’s already been getting hard because of the fact I’m getting unhappy with my hair and all of this extra homophobia is just making it worse... I have a girlfriend and she keeps trying to comfort me but nothing is helping and I’m kind of just falling- and i just can’t fix it... but this makes me feel a little better- i know i should let my girlfriend comfort me but all she can say is words and I’m so done with words... I guess I keep telling people how I feel in hopes they can find what my problem is and why words or people can comfort me but nothing works... they keep saying “I’m sorry for what’s happening to you” but I get a small irritation from that I guess bc that’s all I ever get from people when I tell them how I feel- I guess I’m tired of getting the same response and my girlfriend says “there’s always something to comfort someone” but there isn’t except ASMR and then the audio stops and I’m let with myself again... there’s no way to make his better and help myself- so I’m just living a soulless life and I don’t have compassion anymore... I don’t wanna die or live... I think and think and think and can never find what can help me or how I can help myself... my love language is physical touch and my girlfriend isn’t with me irl- and when I hug friends I just don’t feel that feeling I want to feel so I’m stuck- and for some reason I like getting this kind of thing off my chest in random TH-cam videos... sorry- thanks for the audio tho so amazing
I'm sorry for what you're going through. It sounds a lot like what I went through and I know how hard it is. Hope things get better for you soon. 💜
@@LanceAudios I didn’t expect someone to read that book but I’m thankful someone cared enough to read it- I hope it gets better soon... that’s super sweet of you to say- you help a lot of people in different ways... thank you💙
EWWW WHEN DID I RANT THIS- that’s embarrassing….
im here bc my homophobic dad decided to pick up one of my yuri manga and since the cover was really gay he probably knows im lesbian now so im gonna run away from my home now 😇 tysm for this though, calmed down my anxiety, maybe ill survive this
Wishing you all the best sweetheart! x
Hey there. I'm a runaway youth. Not many of us make it. Make good choices out there. Try and stay sober (not always easy). Work food service, back of house if u want free food and front of house if u want a chance of making tips (both come with immense drawbacks)
AND NEVER lose yourself in the nonsense. Good luck i love u. Dont die.
@@grassgeese3916 i didn't seriously consider running away bc im safe until he finds out but thank you so so so much ♥♥ I still have my mother by my side and she's accepting so I won't probably wanna do it unless stuff will get violent with my dad, either way tysm 2 both of uu ♥ good luck Grass Geese too i hope you're doing well and you are safe :) stay safe
Thank you Lance.😍 l’m so glad to receive ❤️notification from LanceAudios regarding my recent comment. It means a lot to me. Actually, l was worried that u might not be happy with my “negative” comment when u “swear” a lot in the audio. But l forgot that u were doing it by following the script and that it was just an act. I’m so sorry for being overly sensitive and overreacting. Anyway, you demonstrate a professional attitude.👍 Aunty F🤗 respect and understand u more now. Remember this: “Words are magical… Use yours to heal, inspire, encourage and empower…” Just be yourself.❤️
dang, you got some good parents
me literally being a trans lesbian 💀
❤️🧡💗 all the love 💗💙
Thank you I don't know what I am but I know I'm not normal but I'm scared ill never find someone who appreciate me for me. If I ever do find someone I would never want them to meet my family..
Okay this was a little too relatable
I'm still in the closet.. Both of my parents and even my brother are homophobic.. The only person that supports it secretly is my grandma..
All the power to u, proud of u! x
I needed this......
I don’t know about yall but I agree with the parents
Could you do something for non binary people? Either comfort, dysphoria, coming out anything there isn't enough video for us ( I just discovered your channel)
Sure, I'll work on something!
Hi Lance. Today l would like to comment regarding your audio - “Comfort For Homophobic/Transphobic Parents”. As always u did it well. Congratulations for your excellent work.💐👏👏👏 l really sympathize with all the suffering that she had to endure. But l really adored the way u show your concern and support for her. You did the right thing. The only thing that made me feel uncomfortable is when u start “calling” her parents using this vulgar word “[xxxxxxx]” in that audio.🤭 After that u said “sorry”….and l thought okay….u don’t mean it but then u keep repeating that word again. OMG…🤦♀️ That was my reaction. Probably u would say that was just a normal expression and nothing unusual about it. Sorry if l got it wrong. That was just my personal opinion. At first l was reluctant to highlight this matter cos’ l don’t mean to hurt anybody’s feeling. But l believe honesty is the best policy. Sometime anger can make people lose control what they say and do. Hate no one, no matter how much they’ve wronged you. Nobody is perfect. Forgive all and never stop praying for the best of everyone. Remember this quote: “Show respect to people who don’t deserve it not as a reflection of their character but as a reflection of yours.” Aunty F🤗is still your fan and will always be no matter what. You’re very creative and talented. I really like and value your work. I’m always looking forward to LanceAudios. #All fans and followers of LanceAudios pls….pls….pls keep supporting.🙏💐❤️
Thank you, aunty F! Unfortunately I swear a lot. It's fictional though. x
Am I the only one who doesn’t have parents ? No there not dead
My whole family knows that I’m lesbian and none of them accept me and I’m scared they’re gonna find out that I have a girlfriend and make me break up with her
:( I hope things get better for you! x
No! It's your girlfriend and your life, u can love who u want. Don't worry I support u. And don't break up with your girlfriend
@@inexplicable. awww thank you, you just made my day
@@ramen293 🥰
hey idk if youll see this but im kind of going through that, or more that i am. i told my parents im bi and they got so mad, more than i thought they would. they banned me from seeing my gf, made me cut contact with her, and EVEN took me out of school so close to ACTs because of it. they even threatened to send me with my grandparents, who live in mexico. i live in the us. its been 2 yrs since u wrote this and i just wanna know if they found out, if things got better, i just want a little bit of hope. i feel bad that my gf has to go through all this pain as well, when her parents are SUPER supportive. im 17, and i wish i could leave home but i know 18 is close but its hard to get out.
❤🧡💛💚💙💜🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
disclaimer: YWNBARW
Awww look everyone the bigot said his first words awww
Aww, thank you!💚
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what the hell, is this, and the voiceacting is so bad lmao, and why is reconmed on my feed 😂
idk maybe you're gay
You care enough to comment though maybe think before you type mate
@@LanceAudios hell naw lmao
@@gssalternatehistory its fine being a bit fruity pal