Best advice is that noone can take the piss out of u if u dont let them, listen to ur brain instead of ur heart, stop letting a feeling u feel for someone to be more important than how u feel towards urself
She's so raw with her lyrics. Ppl actually overlook the part about her cheating as well. She said she didn't want to hurt bf but she thought it was worth it, just to find out it wasn't. Cheated with someone who took advantage of her who also cheated on her. Love me some Jhene her story telling is impeccable
i overlooked that bar..... when she said cheated with someone who took advantage I thought she meant the current bf was the one she cheated with then got in a relationship with and she didnt mean to hurt her ex.... interpretation is a helluva thing huh
Sometimes you gotta avoid a whole entire artist because you don't want to hear your life in a song. A very painful memory. A nightmare. Cruel. Mine as well gave me an empty box. Now you opened Pandora's box
Naturally Lynn Lol, she was sleeping with a man who was with his bm and she had a bf he found out she left him. & side dude bm bust in one day and caught them.
^No. She left her man to be with someone she thought was worth it. Also a BM isn't a relationship lmao. You literally will always be BM and BD to someone you had a kid with, sounding stupid with that... She did fuck up though being in a relationship and doing that, both were messy but the point is she thought the guy was worth the risk/chance. But he was just using her instead. So she lost in all regards. So she's an asshole for cheating but the guy's an asshole for leading her to believe leaving her man would mean they'd be properly together.
You know Sean actually mentioned that too in his feature with queen naija in they hate our love. 👀 This song was definitely about Sean because he said he was there when her brother was dying
She's telling a story! That's what she does with her music! You need to listen to ALL her music and then judge. Or at least listen to more than just this song! Her albums always tell a story
+Donesia lee fuck yes. And In the worst way. He said "I love you" and that he'd be here. Well, after 2 years... Where the f are you... I'm glad I left tho
Oh sweetie; betrayal, disloyalty & being cheated on hurts like heck, & not to diminish anyone's heartache.. but imagine losing a child, being cheated on while grieving & having major health problems while taking care of an infant, that happened to me😔...now, that's a living hell, but I have to put a smile on for my children.
if you cheat on your girl then you deserve to have your Jordan's set on fire. Because it's pretty fucked up you're more loyal to a pair of shoes than to your own girl.
Someone who actually comprehends this. Thankyou. All these butthurt dudes in the comments saying they'd fuck her up over materialistic shit being burnt need to get a fucking clue. No one should destroy other's items, but regardless if it does happen, you don't physically harm the other person. Especially if they had enough money to get them shits in the first place, then they have enough money to go buy more.
Dear heartbroken people...nothing in this world is forever , not even life here on earth...Its ok to feel pain but you have to know everything is a beginning to an end..my boyfriend left me and I grieved for about two weeks and I was back living my life because I know heartbreak is apart of life experiences. I know it won't be the first or last heartbreak in my life..I am ready for the next one..People leave us through life or through death..its envitable...Nobody or nothing is forever..Even the seasons leave before another comes back the next year...you will find a new season a new 💘 love...
Very beautiful message. I was touched when reading this and I needed to read that for sure I really believe your comment was meant for me. Thank you for sharing such wise words. Very well said. God bless you!
looking at the comments 😯 this song displays after effects of Narcissistic abuse . Remember who you were before they tainted your esteem . You are worthy and deserving of a happy , beautiful life baby .😘
2 abusive relationships, toxic as poison. Suicidal was the end result. But then i found my worth in Jesus christ. Hes the one and only man who will remain faithful, even in death.
Been there. Never thought I’d end up dealing with a narcissist. Long story short they are toxic and will put you down and bring you back up just to do it all over again with no remorse or regrets. He saw every flaw he had in himself in me because of his own insecurities and guilt. And that was a part of the cycle. It went from perfect to bad to worst without anything happening. And to top it all off I lost our son at a week old due to his “bad habits “🤷🏾♀️, while for all of six years I was dating him while he was single and chasing everybody else....no matter how much you think someone is there for you always ❤️ yourself first and harder. Everybody isn’t worth it....
After hearing this song for YEARS this is what I got: Verse 1: She's yelling at herself at all her ex's that used her for their needs. She was cheated on and it hurt her to the point where she went to another guy. Verse 2: The new guy and her were really vibing and the sex was amazing. She was enjoying everything until " 'Quis" (I'm guessing Marquis from verse 1) found out. She left Quis for him and the new guy's baby mama caught them together. She was devastated to know that he was cheating on her too. Verse 3: Jhene reveals to us she was in a dark place and deeply sad because her brother was dying. She thought the new guy was her comfort and showed her vulnerability only for him to do the same thing everyone did to her. I'm pretty sure Marquis was cheating on her and she cheated back for revenge, but ended up falling in love with the wrong person.
I've never been cheated on, but if a guy ever cheated on me and I found out, forget burning clothes and Jordan's, I'm spreading rumors! From that point on, his ass has HIV. And he'll be guilty until proven otherwise.
This is one of those song that I would be chilling with a glass of wine in hand while tears trickle down my cheeks exiting my beautiful left and right eyes. Thinking of all the fuk up mistakes I've made allowing punk ass men in my life. After the tears have dried I would be back to my normal happy self.
Seeing her cry in the car is a different kind of pain you think u can never over come but I’m here to let u know that it gets better it always hurts when you deeply love someone & u won’t forget fast or easy but I promise it gets better with time 💜 self love is the best love
The worst feeling is when someone you love so much, someone you thought was the right one..tells you they don't love you and never did😔💯. This is why I don't date anymore, I'm not getting my heart broke by some dumb ass nigga.
Ended up in a toxic relationship around the time my brother was killed, 3.15.14, 10 years ago tomorrow. This song always helps me get my anger out about that whole period of time when it haunts me. Thank you Jhene.
@Georgia Peach I think her friend was naming all the guys that did Jhene wrong and jhene was just quoting what her friend told her in naming those guys. And right after she gives her a shout-out. Could be wrong but that was my interpretation 🤷♂️🤷♂️
Lyrics One, two, one two Thought I told you not to trust these hoes Say they love you, when you know they don't Say they will, but shit, you know they won't Yeah, you hear me, you don't feel me, though And you are not the only one You are not the only one You are not the only one You are not the only one Okay, fuck it It was Dominik, David, Braden All of them did the same to you Marquis and Sean and Brian All of them had they way with you Ever so often you get lost and miss out on everything Shout-out to Krissy That's my bitch 'cause she tells me everything And I was not the only one I was not the only one to you So I was the only lonely one Really, we had the perfect end That night we shared at the Comfort Inn We made love like the world would have ended If either of us had admitted We were in love But I was the only one So I was the only lonely one And I should've never took you on a boat for your birthday And I should've never fucked you on a boat on your birthday And I never would've came into your house in the first place If I would've known that you would hurt me like in the worst way 'Cause that night turned into every weekend and Every weekend turned to every evening You took me out and left me in the deep end then Quis found out and then I had to leave him 'Cause I couldn't be the one to hurt him Plus I thought you were the one so it was worth it But really we should've just ended it That day I was at your crib when Your baby mama just burst in, damn I was weak then and you knew it I was so weak then and you proved it 'Cause my brother was dying And you gave me a shoulder to cry on It was nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing If it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing Then why'd you Then why'd you call it love? Oh oh And I was not only one who was hurting And you were not the only one with the burdens But if we're nothing, we're nothing, we're nothing, we're nothing, We're nothing, we're nothing Why would you call this love when you knew that it wasn't? Why would you call it love when you knew that it wasn't? If this was not love then please tell me what was it If this was not love then please tell me what was it 'Cause when I met you at my favorite store And I saw you working at the door Traduire en français
to all the girls watching this, dont feel encouraged to burn or damage a man's belongings, you're probably not as pretty as Jhene, so he'll have no problem fucking you up, and he has good reason.
It would just be fukkin stupid lmao... All a smart guy would do is take yo ass to court and force you to pay for it all... Gawd forbid the guy was the soruce of income... Now you broke, paying shit tons of $$$ for damages, AND yo income gone
When she says "Cause my brother was dying, and you gave me a shoulder to cry on" WOOH I FALL APART. Imagine singing about losing a loved one, going through it is already enough. I commend her for that.
Luba Makwelo "Pose to Be" has a great dance beat, a subject matter of degrading women, lyrics loved by many of today's young people and the collaboration of 3 (make that 2) of today's hottest artists each with their own very large fan base. I would not be surprised if the song won an award next year.
You all over here crying about some fucking SHOES!!! That's exactly why i'm glad she burnt them. People are putting material things before others. Shoes mean more to you than her heart, so that's why she burnt all that shit and keyed his car. You cant take all that material shit with you when you are buried 6 feet under.
It's not that. Its that we pay a lot of money to get the things we have and for someone to completely ruin them is Hurtful. Bruuuuhhhhhhh he messed up big time.
Revisiting this song after so many years… but really just an observation. I’m glad she called out some of the questions like “why would you call it love when you knew that it wasn’t” “if this is not love than please tell me what was it” at the end of the day, the amount of love that you have for that person pour it into yourself. A unhealed/broken man, even sometimes lacking self awareness, will look for comfort and bury their hurt feelings into women when those unsuspecting women think it’s actually love. Guard your heart and your love ladies! Because that deep hurt, sorry will never be enough because it’s as though they stole a piece of you and threw it into the ocean when it doesn’t work out. Be open to pure love but only after you know and love yourself, and can trust what a man is offering you is intentional and fulfilling.
found out after 20 years of being loyal he cheated and lied for years. It destroyed my heart my trust my soul. It was the worse feeling I've ever felt. He broke me but it made me stronger and wiser And that broke him at the end seeing me soaring like a Phoenix from the crumbles he left behind.
Such an honest song. You never hear of a woman admitting to cheating. She had someone who loved her. She became interested in someone else. Turns out that relationship was not meant to be. Her dude found out so she had to leave him. In the end she was going through a lot. Making unwise decisions coping with losing a brother.
spoo man people interpret it in a personal way. I love her as an artist so I always listen to her lyrics. Without honesty and good lyricism a song is pointless.
Casey Walker ‘Cause that night turned into every weekend and Every weekend turned to every evening You took me out and left me in the deep end then Quis found out and then I had to leave him 'Cause I couldn’t be the one to hurt him Plus I thought you were the one so it was worth it I had to listen again too! Never picked up on that. Love when a person is lyrical like this
Man story time with this song… Had this guy I had been talking to for months and made him jump through hoops to meet with me… (mind you I was 3 years celibate) so we finally meet and start seeing each other for a few months.. he had me convinced I was the only one… then the day came when I decided to have sex with him… that same night as I’m walking home (1st red flag) I get a dm from someone who knew of him and told me he was already in a relationship and gave me persons info…. My heart literally broke to this song….
@@DavidGarcia-xu2ki Haha, for this post I meant.. It’s been a long time since we shot that. Almost forgot about it. And… we snapped on it, as in… did a lot with very little. Did a good job. Exceeded expectations.
I remember i used to say if my boyfriend cheated on me I would make his life a living hell blah blah. But then he did cheat. And i didnt even cry but i couldn't sleep.. like i was just so in shock i guess..
i had an abusive ex who always told me he loved me but he brought home a bottle every night and then choked me out when i was withdrawing. anyways this song means a hell of a lot to me.
I'm sorry for that idiot, I too was in an abusive relationship 2yrs ago but now he's in jail and plus I have a restraining order against him, I wish you nothing more but peace & harmony. For the pain & the suffering he afflicted on u will not be forgotten but we can heal when we forgive. Tc; -)
I'm praying for you Alex, thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad you made it thru, I'm sure it doesn't feel like making it thru at times. I'm glad you have this song. Music is so necessary. God bless you.
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Who's still here in September 2024? 😣❤
❤
I'm still here😊...from Cape Town ❤
@@NandiphaSithole-d6lThat’s South Africa
@@Cr7goatronaldosui Yes!
You are not the only one 😅
Do not listen to this if your going through a heartbreak over a niqqa...you'll end up in jail for murder
😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂true
Yes!!!!! Ahah lol I'm saying tho lol
Dulce Bernal a b
girl you aint never lied!! im sitting here listening to all the words like DAMN I WANNA KILL HIM!
" I was weak then, and you knew it" I felt that shit in my soul, yo
Mieshia Dyches chills
Oml
Yes! Back when this first came out I was dating someone who did similar stuff and caught me at a very vulnerable time in my life. Smh
damn rt this song so really real!!
Mieshia Dyches "chills"
2024 anyone .? Definitely nostalgic 💜
Yuh
Definitely ♡
Yep I'm here
Man!!! you ain't never lied 😢
Yep
“ I was weak then,and you knew it” I felt that 😭
💙
that part hits too hard 😭
Stuck😭😭😭
Felt it oh so personal
Bigperiodt
I still can't get over this being a freestyle. We are spoiled with her.
hellooooo I don't think people really understand how gifted she really is
+Dewey Raines can a freestyle be written down and then performed?
NirvanaDreamin Yes. Freestyle doesn't necessarily mean it's off the top of the head.
then what is a freestyle?
Tox.sick im guessing it was the notes she chose to sing
This song hit different when he really was cheating on you and you were right about your instincts all along .
I know
Like seriously
Man.. 💯💔
Yes 💯
true
She is seriously music therapy for me. I'll sing along to all her songs like I'm goin THRU it 😂
Yu are mi.. With all the emotions😂 and acting it all out in my head.
🤣🤣
me too 👀, this sounds like a problem lol 🤣😂
🗣️❤️💐
Nothing is worst than giving so much time & energy to love someone, just to end up alone in the end
PrettyBeautification so true 😩
AMEN TO THAT
PrettyBeautification bro exactly
😥 story of my life
Feel like all I've been doing is crying buckets of tears for the longest. Pssh. These dudes aint shit.
"Why would you call this love when you knew that it wasn't?" -still cuts deep into my soul.
Ik!!! My favorite line!
Dasha And Co. FELT THID
Also “If this was not love, then please tell me what was it?”
The way that she sang love was the best!
@@meeladsamadi lp
"if this wasn't love then please tell me what was it" that part hit me💮
I came back to this song for that part. Narcissistic men never loved you, youre just a means to their end. It was all a lie.
Love this entire song but that part hits me every single time!!!
Literally read this while she was singing the same words
Best advice is that noone can take the piss out of u if u dont let them, listen to ur brain instead of ur heart, stop letting a feeling u feel for someone to be more important than how u feel towards urself
Lust
She's so raw with her lyrics. Ppl actually overlook the part about her cheating as well. She said she didn't want to hurt bf but she thought it was worth it, just to find out it wasn't. Cheated with someone who took advantage of her who also cheated on her. Love me some Jhene her story telling is impeccable
Oh i always thought it had to do with keys wanting to fight the dude for cheating on her
i overlooked that bar..... when she said cheated with someone who took advantage I thought she meant the current bf was the one she cheated with then got in a relationship with and she didnt mean to hurt her ex....
interpretation is a helluva thing huh
One of the most underrated artists. Her voice is amazing lyrics are great also.
I think this is happening to me
When you realize it’s a freestyle. She just came with the whole situation in her head at the moment. Magic.
So I was the only lonely one...😔
😢😢
I was the only lonely one ...
Sometimes you gotta avoid a whole entire artist because you don't want to hear your life in a song. A very painful memory. A nightmare. Cruel. Mine as well gave me an empty box. Now you opened Pandora's box
Purtisha Wood Man 💔
Fr took a break from her for a long a$$ while but lookie here, I'm back
You right...
💔💔💔💔
😔
It's crazy how the most beautiful souls get used and abused , I thank god she put that pain into music and didn't become bitter
She also used him?? do u even listen to the song
Naturally Lynn Lol, she was sleeping with a man who was with his bm and she had a bf he found out she left him. & side dude bm bust in one day and caught them.
^No. She left her man to be with someone she thought was worth it. Also a BM isn't a relationship lmao. You literally will always be BM and BD to someone you had a kid with, sounding stupid with that... She did fuck up though being in a relationship and doing that, both were messy but the point is she thought the guy was worth the risk/chance. But he was just using her instead. So she lost in all regards. So she's an asshole for cheating but the guy's an asshole for leading her to believe leaving her man would mean they'd be properly together.
Wow. Exactly.
Bad taste in men.
When Jhene Aiko said “cause my brother was dying and you gave me a shoulder to cry on but it was nothing “ I FELT THAT😭😭
Sameeee
Felt felt felt that. Cos that really happened to me😪😪😪😪😪😪😪
Deadass :((( same ugh it hurts
Same here😭, had just lost my dad
You know Sean actually mentioned that too in his feature with queen naija in they hate our love. 👀 This song was definitely about Sean because he said he was there when her brother was dying
"Why would you call it love when you knew that it wasn't?" Gets me every time! 🤕😭
kaiasia boyer gold fish memory.
kaiasia boyer same here
kaiasia boyer swear
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kaiasia boyer fr tho
I’m always the “Chrissy”for all my friends. Everyone needs a Chrissy foreal
Shout out to you!!!!
Who is chrissy
@@tonantzinemia6427 chrissy is that one friend who will keep it real with you and never let you go
That’s ME.... I AM HER!!!! CHRISSY!!!!!! 😃😃😃😃
@@funnyvideosfunny6745 you look like you need an upgrade
The betrayal of it all, that's what cuts like a knife. When I get vulnerable with him and I tell him my inner fears and Pain and they still hurt you.
42893alison and they always promise th3y they wont hurt you.. liar!!!😤💔
Nicole Holder yesssss🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
42893alison it hurts
Or when they laugh about it in your face. ☹️😢
She's telling a story! That's what she does with her music! You need to listen to ALL her music and then judge. Or at least listen to more than just this song! Her albums always tell a story
This shit still hurts hearing in 2024 when you've felt the exact pain, she's a true poet
Yes
RIP to all the good girls out there.
💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔🤬
No, we’re still out here! 💪🏽
Completely destroyed 💔
Wow lol 😎
Yall should stop cheating and it wouldnt be RIP
“But I was the only one” “so I was the only lonely one” Those words hurt, especially if you’ve ever actually experienced those feelings first hand.
Forever_ Evolving_ she said I wasn’t the only one not I was
Girl I feel u ♥
💯💔
Im late but i am currently ecperiencing this and it sucks in the worst way
being cheated on is the worst feeling in the world.
cheated on and lied 2 is the worst
yess😭
+Donesia lee fuck yes. And In the worst way. He said "I love you" and that he'd be here. Well, after 2 years... Where the f are you... I'm glad I left tho
Oh sweetie; betrayal, disloyalty & being cheated on hurts like heck, & not to diminish anyone's heartache..
but imagine losing a child, being cheated on while grieving & having major health problems while taking care of an infant, that happened to me😔...now, that's a living hell, but I have to put a smile on for my children.
these lyrics sound like she entered into someone else's relationship knowing it, and got played,ppl like that always play the victim
She really spoke from her heart on this one. It takes a lot to get so vulnerable. This song will never got old :(
If you listen closely yo the lyrics sound like she left a nigga for a nigga. That’s called karma
if you cheat on your girl then you deserve to have your Jordan's set on fire. Because it's pretty fucked up you're more loyal to a pair of shoes than to your own girl.
💯
True
real MVP
(STANDING OVATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
Someone who actually comprehends this. Thankyou. All these butthurt dudes in the comments saying they'd fuck her up over materialistic shit being burnt need to get a fucking clue. No one should destroy other's items, but regardless if it does happen, you don't physically harm the other person. Especially if they had enough money to get them shits in the first place, then they have enough money to go buy more.
I need a friend like Chrissy.
Kendall Roberts same!!😂
I’m sayinn, like!!
Me too, I wish on a star!
Kendall Roberts god bless Chrissy's soul
Kendall Roberts 💯💯
The world needs more Krissy's. Like real talk
Tyra Johnson hell yeah
Tyra Johnson word
Tyra Johnson Amen.
Tyra Johnso
facts !
Crazy how you can actually feel her emotions thru the song, specially if your going thru something similar to this.
Yes a break up now
I love how the music video only focuses on her and they didn’t show the male actors face.
Exactly 💯💯💯
Dear heartbroken people...nothing in this world is forever , not even life here on earth...Its ok to feel pain but you have to know everything is a beginning to an end..my boyfriend left me and I grieved for about two weeks and I was back living my life because I know heartbreak is apart of life experiences. I know it won't be the first or last heartbreak in my life..I am ready for the next one..People leave us through life or through death..its envitable...Nobody or nothing is forever..Even the seasons leave before another comes back the next year...you will find a new season a new 💘 love...
Very beautiful message. I was touched when reading this and I needed to read that for sure I really believe your comment was meant for me. Thank you for sharing such wise words. Very well said. God bless you!
Thanks...it hurts so bad this ending of my bb dad of 11 years...the lies cut deep...
@@andreabartlett6160 u bak with him??
Yes but we shouldn't normalize countless heartbreaks. We need to grow and learn from it to not repeat otherwise its a bad toll on your health.
You can only have one heartbreak in a lifetime, other's are merely disapontments
looking at the comments 😯 this song displays after effects of Narcissistic abuse . Remember who you were before they tainted your esteem . You are worthy and deserving of a happy , beautiful life baby .😘
Dainty Dacia this.
Good words
2 abusive relationships, toxic as poison. Suicidal was the end result. But then i found my worth in Jesus christ. Hes the one and only man who will remain faithful, even in death.
Been there. Never thought I’d end up dealing with a narcissist. Long story short they are toxic and will put you down and bring you back up just to do it all over again with no remorse or regrets. He saw every flaw he had in himself in me because of his own insecurities and guilt. And that was a part of the cycle. It went from perfect to bad to worst without anything happening. And to top it all off I lost our son at a week old due to his “bad habits “🤷🏾♀️, while for all of six years I was dating him while he was single and chasing everybody else....no matter how much you think someone is there for you always ❤️ yourself first and harder. Everybody isn’t worth it....
Needed that
When she brought up her brother that shit tore me up 💔.
star bevolo dealing with this now ...
@@taylorh2967 I'm sorry hun :( . I hope everything gets better 💗.
star bevolo thanks it’s been a few months since I’ve lost mine so this song represents it oh so well ❤️
I literally cry every time she says that part.
star bevolo facts I was so damn sad
I don't care how good my relationship is when I listen this song I pretend I'm HURT HURT
Lol
Most def
True
💯💯💯
Okkkaaayyy 😂
Don’t ever listen to this after a breakup EVER.
But look who's here😢😢
Regina Patrice Damn that's deep as hell yo..
I'm here.....shit😟😠
Forever_ Evolving_ to late 😒
But lookie here I am 😒
Any people still listening in 2018 🗣👀
Netta Harris ,,,,yep dis is real eeven in 2018
Yea baby
Netta Harris my favorite song ❤️
Destiny OzaniMatari mee too ❤❤❤
Netta Harris me
I’m so over relationships at this point 😒
Mi too on everything 💔
I feel u girl
Me 2 smh I'm 43
Till February boo
Hope u find it though queen
After hearing this song for YEARS this is what I got:
Verse 1: She's yelling at herself at all her ex's that used her for their needs. She was cheated on and it hurt her to the point where she went to another guy.
Verse 2: The new guy and her were really vibing and the sex was amazing. She was enjoying everything until " 'Quis" (I'm guessing Marquis from verse 1) found out. She left Quis for him and the new guy's baby mama caught them together. She was devastated to know that he was cheating on her too.
Verse 3: Jhene reveals to us she was in a dark place and deeply sad because her brother was dying. She thought the new guy was her comfort and showed her vulnerability only for him to do the same thing everyone did to her.
I'm pretty sure Marquis was cheating on her and she cheated back for revenge, but ended up falling in love with the wrong person.
wow i have never looked at it like that, that was deep .
Sounds like a good interpretation to me.
Yep, I gathered the same thing pretty much too when I listened way back when.
You broke that down so well.
Or Marquis was a good guy n she fucked up
"we were in love , but I was the only one. so i'm the only lonely one" 😭
Shelby Swain a year later and still the realist line ever! So relatable
Shelby Swain facts
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I felt like he cheated on me lol
ver mujeres de nudas
Nikki LatelyX 😂😂😂😂
Nikki LatelyX shit😭
Me too lol
Nikki LatelyX he
Did..
when i look at her i only want to take her in my arms and tell her that everything will be allright..
that's really all she needs
+| NeverrLobby | true
i know
DEADASS yo
Boy she don't need your arms.
one of the best songs ever written. this describes women's pain so well. i felt every lyric and melody. thank you
Yes
Istg . But I don’t think she wrote it . I think it’s a actual freestyle
am i the only one that cries to this song when they listen to it?...yes, ok
Lilly Love same my dude
Lilly Love ❤️ I'm always crying to this song 💯
Lilly Love noooo
Lilly Love Every time.
Lilly Love nope
I've never been cheated on, but if a guy ever cheated on me and I found out, forget burning clothes and Jordan's, I'm spreading rumors! From that point on, his ass has HIV. And he'll be guilty until proven otherwise.
This is one of those song that I would be chilling with a glass of wine in hand while tears trickle down my cheeks exiting my beautiful left and right eyes. Thinking of all the fuk up mistakes I've made allowing punk ass men in my life. After the tears have dried I would be back to my normal happy self.
This made me lol. Why can't I be like this.
+Ebony Walter TF lol i love this comment
+Ebony Walter TF Real Talk girl! you gotta shed them tears in order to grow move on and remind yourself of the Queen you are!..
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Facts
Seeing her cry in the car is a different kind of pain you think u can never over come but I’m here to let u know that it gets better it always hurts when you deeply love someone & u won’t forget fast or easy but I promise it gets better with time 💜 self love is the best love
Idk smh
I'm also one of those people who listens to songs and ends up feeling like a pile of shit...
Same
🤗
sane either
sets my ptsd right off so I walk around depressed but its my favorite song
me to I was in a good mood now I'm thinking ....
Chrissy is a boyfriends worst enemy
Only if he's fucking up :)
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
chrissy like u and the sidepiece can catch it
😂😂😂
Carbon Nova 😂😭😭chile!!!! They be ready to risk it all to get rid of chrissy
The worst feeling is when someone you love so much, someone you thought was the right one..tells you they don't love you and never did😔💯. This is why I don't date anymore, I'm not getting my heart broke by some dumb ass nigga.
real shit that hurt like really bad
Onna Trapp I feel you
Onna Trapp here here sister
keep ya chin up buttercup, nothing is forever
dont let ANYONE ruin your chance at love, when they are living free and happy. #youllbeokay
Ended up in a toxic relationship around the time my brother was killed, 3.15.14, 10 years ago tomorrow. This song always helps me get my anger out about that whole period of time when it haunts me. Thank you Jhene.
“I was so weak then, and you proved it.”
every time I listen to music on TH-cam I end up here lol
yessss
frl dude
I'm back again lol
fr I always here
I like your taste in music ☺
This beat tho.
She badass!!!
@Georgia Peach
It was a freestyle. Maybe about something that happened to her.
@Georgia Peach her best friend’s name who help her harassing the other woman that her boyfriend have I think 😊
@Georgia Peach I think her friend was naming all the guys that did Jhene wrong and jhene was just quoting what her friend told her in naming those guys. And right after she gives her a shout-out. Could be wrong but that was my interpretation 🤷♂️🤷♂️
Yeah specially that break down
She's so underrated its sickening
Agreed!
All the people who speak real shit is underrated
I don't think she's underrated...
Love her voice... real shame though; awesome voice; she’s so old school, and the very best of👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Silvia Mendes she is thooooo doesnt have the spotlight like the big names cardi etc
Lyrics
One, two, one two
Thought I told you not to trust these hoes
Say they love you, when you know they don't
Say they will, but shit, you know they won't
Yeah, you hear me, you don't feel me, though
And you are not the only one
You are not the only one
You are not the only one
You are not the only one
Okay, fuck it
It was Dominik, David, Braden
All of them did the same to you
Marquis and Sean and Brian
All of them had they way with you
Ever so often you get lost and miss out on everything
Shout-out to Krissy
That's my bitch 'cause she tells me everything
And I was not the only one
I was not the only one to you
So I was the only lonely one
Really, we had the perfect end
That night we shared at the Comfort Inn
We made love like the world would have ended
If either of us had admitted
We were in love
But I was the only one
So I was the only lonely one
And I should've never took you on a boat for your birthday
And I should've never fucked you on a boat on your birthday
And I never would've came into your house in the first place
If I would've known that you would hurt me like in the worst way
'Cause that night turned into every weekend and
Every weekend turned to every evening
You took me out and left me in the deep end then
Quis found out and then I had to leave him
'Cause I couldn't be the one to hurt him
Plus I thought you were the one so it was worth it
But really we should've just ended it
That day I was at your crib when
Your baby mama just burst in, damn
I was weak then and you knew it
I was so weak then and you proved it
'Cause my brother was dying
And you gave me a shoulder to cry on
It was nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing
If it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing
Then why'd you
Then why'd you call it love?
Oh oh
And I was not only one who was hurting
And you were not the only one with the burdens
But if we're nothing, we're nothing, we're nothing, we're nothing,
We're nothing, we're nothing
Why would you call this love when you knew that it wasn't?
Why would you call it love when you knew that it wasn't?
If this was not love then please tell me what was it
If this was not love then please tell me what was it
'Cause when I met you at my favorite store
And I saw you working at the door
Traduire en français
I sang along. Thanks
🤍🤍🤍🤍
her music gives the absolute best vibes
Sooooo tru
yeeeeeeeeesss
She just gets better and better.
for sure!!!!!
Meni Asani omg marry me!! XD
Exb
Tru af
Indeed, the lovely lady Jhene Aiko has a beautiful gift. Her voice, heart, body, essence & spirit illuminates your mind to estonishing plains...
It’s odd cause Jhene seems like such a sweet calm person but she just keyed someone’s car and burned their clothes
Aisha G yeah..
😆😆😆😆😅😂😂😂 that's because she trip...
Me too
Aisha G the anger of a Pisces lol. Straight black out.
Looks can be deceiving.
“Why would you call this love when you knew that it wasn’t, If this was not then please tell me what was it” the ending of the song is my favorite
to all the girls watching this, dont feel encouraged to burn or damage a man's belongings, you're probably not as pretty as Jhene, so he'll have no problem fucking you up, and he has good reason.
100
Lmaooo truu
Listen to this with earphones, it reaches your soul...
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go viral today with get mad hits to ANY video!
It would just be fukkin stupid lmao... All a smart guy would do is take yo ass to court and force you to pay for it all... Gawd forbid the guy was the soruce of income... Now you broke, paying shit tons of $$$ for damages, AND yo income gone
Sorry to say this, but your comment isn't funny.
Someone had to say it :)
When she says "Cause my brother was dying, and you gave me a shoulder to cry on" WOOH I FALL APART. Imagine singing about losing a loved one, going through it is already enough. I commend her for that.
yeah me too. hits my heart.
okay? LOL...
i hate sad music
if that makes u feel some type of way listen to for my brother by her
therealimlikewoa sorry for your lost
"I was so weak then, and you proved it." Always a reminder of the things we shouldn't have tolerated
2024 still here. Jhene Aikos music is everything
...cause my brother was dying, damn that touched me a lot
+abel silva Same
Ikr 😔
:( Mirella Valle i can relate
right
fr 🙏😢
THIS SONG IS SO BEAUTIFUL CAN SOMEONE PLS TELL ME WHY I DIDNT DISCOVER IT BEFORE AND WHY A SONG ABOUT BUTTS IS MORE POPULAR THAN THIS
Luba Makwelo Because this generation is only about butts.
I'm sorry man...
I just don't want to be in this generation anymore.
Lana Rose
Luba Makwelo "Pose to Be" has a great dance beat, a subject matter of degrading women, lyrics loved by many of today's young people and the collaboration of 3 (make that 2) of today's hottest artists each with their own very large fan base. I would not be surprised if the song won an award next year.
so true. i love jhene's real songs
+Lana Rose me too.. at least you be you and love what u love. not what the massa wants you to love
When she scratched that Ferrari, I felt that in my soul 😩 sheesh!
Yessssss 😩😩
I replayed it so many times
jasmine j 😂😂😂
Oh😹😹😹
Yessss, #release
"You weren't the only one who was hurting, you weren't the only one with a burden." Damn that line! 😢
AND THE FACT THAT THIS IS A FREESTYLE OMG I LOVE HER
This lady should be receiving award after award. Such a deep soulful songs. Hits your core.
Sharon Davis you're right...I'm agree!!!
You all over here crying about some fucking SHOES!!! That's exactly why i'm glad she burnt them. People are putting material things before others. Shoes mean more to you than her heart, so that's why she burnt all that shit and keyed his car. You cant take all that material shit with you when you are buried 6 feet under.
I couldnt have said it better! Not saying she was right for it, but what you said is so true.Jerome Theseus
Preachhh
#trueee 🙌
It's not that. Its that we pay a lot of money to get the things we have and for someone to completely ruin them is Hurtful. Bruuuuhhhhhhh he messed up big time.
Shut up cuz if them was yo shoes you would have been hot asf 😂😂😂
Yeah you hear me but you don’t feel me though
Anyone listening after “Triggered”? Lol
Wtf how you know?
I swear I just did 😩😩😩😩 ready to set some shit off
i swear on god i was nw listening trigged skip 'the worst' and came straight to this
😂 same
I did
"cause that night turned to every weekend, every weekend turned to every evening" 💔😭😭😭
Mohau Haukiie Mafolo thee truest lyric in this entire song
Does she have a grammy? Cos if she don’t someone got some explaining to do...
Seino Parks
✌️ Grammy's
we all need a chrissy in our lives 🫀
This girl's lyrics doe...damn she pours her heart out on every song. You just don't see shit like that no more
Yessss!!!
actually you do
Tezzlena1x06 O, ok
***** *cough cough* August Alsina too
^^august alsina is a bubble gum r&b singer , justin biebers album went harder than his
The song seems so unfinished i wish i could hear the rest of the song
It is bro, she said theres like A LOT more and should be a part two on Sail Out
Revisiting this song after so many years… but really just an observation. I’m glad she called out some of the questions like “why would you call it love when you knew that it wasn’t” “if this is not love than please tell me what was it” at the end of the day, the amount of love that you have for that person pour it into yourself. A unhealed/broken man, even sometimes lacking self awareness, will look for comfort and bury their hurt feelings into women when those unsuspecting women think it’s actually love. Guard your heart and your love ladies! Because that deep hurt, sorry will never be enough because it’s as though they stole a piece of you and threw it into the ocean when it doesn’t work out. Be open to pure love but only after you know and love yourself, and can trust what a man is offering you is intentional and fulfilling.
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"I was weak then and you knew it" most heartbreaking part of the song for me...
Lydia that part BECAUSE THEY KNOW!
Lydia ,💯💯💯
Yess
Why was i listening to that excact part when i read this . 😢
WTF THIS WORLD NEEDS MORE CRISSY'S
hell ya
Deandra Shaquanie-Jackson no we don't bc Chrissy would get her ass beat eventually 😂😂😂
Deandra Shaquanie-Jackson what is a crissy?😂
Hvj Ly referring to the line 'Shout-out to Krissy, that's my bitch 'cause she tells me everything'.
Fadi Ohh right, thanks😂
This woman always speaks to my heart & soul 😩
I love her so much
SAME !!
+Destinee Colvin Girl did you just respond to your own comment??
she was talking to bullwinkle
yess$s$
7 years later, Im still crying over this song like I wrote it 🥴
found out after 20 years of being loyal he cheated and lied for years. It destroyed my heart my trust my soul.
It was the worse feeling I've ever felt.
He broke me but it made me stronger and wiser
And that broke him at the end seeing me soaring like a Phoenix from the crumbles he left behind.
I hear that
Same. 😇♥️💕
U have any advice? Like, what you learned from the situation?
💯💯💯💯💯
Happy for u hun 🥰
"Plus I thought you were the one so it was worth it " The WORSE feeling ever 😒💔
So Gingerella agree😟
Preach 🙌
So Gingerella facts
😥
💯
Such an honest song. You never hear of a woman admitting to cheating. She had someone who loved her. She became interested in someone else. Turns out that relationship was not meant to be. Her dude found out so she had to leave him. In the end she was going through a lot. Making unwise decisions coping with losing a brother.
spoo man people interpret it in a personal way. I love her as an artist so I always listen to her lyrics. Without honesty and good lyricism a song is pointless.
Karma is real
@@Lovergirl44 yesss you get what you put out into the world
Umm where is the she cheated part...
Casey Walker
‘Cause that night turned into every weekend and
Every weekend turned to every evening
You took me out and left me in the deep end then
Quis found out and then I had to leave him
'Cause I couldn’t be the one to hurt him
Plus I thought you were the one so it was worth it
I had to listen again too! Never picked up on that. Love when a person is lyrical like this
Man story time with this song…
Had this guy I had been talking to for months and made him jump through hoops to meet with me… (mind you I was 3 years celibate) so we finally meet and start seeing each other for a few months.. he had me convinced I was the only one… then the day came when I decided to have sex with him… that same night as I’m walking home (1st red flag) I get a dm from someone who knew of him and told me he was already in a relationship and gave me persons info…. My heart literally broke to this song….
A woman will do anything when she is hurt
hmm maybe some, just not all
I used play this song out! Cried cried cried....But stronger now...Time heals all wounds ...
Stronger = Crazy.
jhene got me feelin heartbreaks I never experienced
We really snapped on this lol. Forgot how we even shot this lol..
Wdym
@@DavidGarcia-xu2ki WHAT DO YOU MEAN !
@@TopshelfJunior WHAT DO YOU MEAN
@@DavidGarcia-xu2ki Haha, for this post I meant.. It’s been a long time since we shot that. Almost forgot about it. And… we snapped on it, as in… did a lot with very little. Did a good job. Exceeded expectations.
@@TopshelfJunior WAIT YOU MET JHENE?
January 2019 where u at???
Nevaeh Martinez RIGHT HERE GIRL
🖐️🖐️🖐️
Nevaeh Martinez right here ... this hit my soul... she said I could never be the one to hurt him... man I felt that
Estoy aqui ❤️
Right here😁
I remember i used to say if my boyfriend cheated on me I would make his life a living hell blah blah. But then he did cheat. And i didnt even cry but i couldn't sleep.. like i was just so in shock i guess..
:/ sorry
thank you.
sammmmme
Tooo true
mhm
What I love about this video is how Jhene had Krissy right there with her keying that car...
Krissy is best friend goals tbh
Lol big ups to the bff
afeefa Valentine What?...
It’s 2022 & still there’s an emotionally raw feeling attached to this song that resonates in the depth of my heart ❤️🩹
same
man..her music n a blunt n i'll be zoned out
Yess ! 🔥
😏😏😏💨💨💨🍷
X'O
😊🚬💨
🌬💨
Not even going through a break up right now. Actually happily married and this shit got me in my feelings!
Halleluja to that!
Exactly
me2
Coconut Bay Resort crazy right!!!
Give it time 😈
i had an abusive ex who always told me he loved me but he brought home a bottle every night and then choked me out when i was withdrawing. anyways this song means a hell of a lot to me.
I'm sorry for that idiot, I too was in an abusive relationship 2yrs ago but now he's in jail and plus I have a restraining order against him, I wish you nothing more but peace & harmony. For the pain & the suffering he afflicted on u will not be forgotten but we can heal when we forgive. Tc; -)
Alex Abrams I feel you
I'm praying for you Alex, thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad you made it thru, I'm sure it doesn't feel like making it thru at times. I'm glad you have this song. Music is so necessary. God bless you.
Alex Abrams that's because he wasn't a real man Alex you to beautiful for that
You always have another choice Alex, getting outta it is a task but you gotta toughen up and look towards the future. Stay strong!
Still here in 2024 ❤❤❤
She burned the J's. I'm dying.
+Mo Mo dont worry it was probably the knock offs
It was photoshopped
+//-// Fine grose
she keyed that Ferrari though :(
+Mo Mo thats what i said!
Jhene Aiko I WOULD NEVER DO THAT TO YOU
Who still gon be listening in 2020❤️❤️
💕Always..🙌🏻🎆
Me
Meeeeee ☺️❤️💔
Is this about big Sean ?
I hope one day I meet a man who won’t make me want to listen to this song ever again 💯
Still gives me chills listening at this moment in 2021.
still waiting for her to colab with the weekend
Taylor Kennedy The Weeknd*
How dare you spell king abel's name wrong!
Taylor Kennedy i taught i was the only 1 dat tink dat :)
Sara's World thats not real..
Taylor Kennedy The weeknd* is not what he used to be at his beginning, he's just voice now.. no lyrics anymoar :'(