@@pamelah1220 compliments from women are the best because 1. They are given without an agenda 2. They usually compliment something that you actively DO rather than things you happen to BE. Ex. Your outfit is amazing vs. You are so pretty 3. Women’s compliments usually are specific to you rather than a blanket statement that could apply to literally anyone
As a woman, I need to find an outfit that repeals sexists and racist like this. Acting like men aren't people is so wild to me. Just say you have daddy issues and you've never met a good man. And that maybe YOU'RE the toxic one.
@@divaofthedamned365 uhh… I have a pretty wonderful relationship with my father. We have weekly scheduled phone calls and I’ve actually just come back from a trip back home (meaning crossing oceans) to be there for a family reunion. There is a lot to be said about my mental health problems but Daddy Issues actually sure as hell aren’t one of those. Also, hey this is just my experience so far and I’m totally open to be proven wrong. It’s not like I haven’t met guys that give good genuine compliments it’s just that in the grand scheme of things those guys make up a minority, which doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Furthermore saying “I prefer compliments from girls because I feel they are usually more personal and genuine” isn’t dehumanising anyone, it’s just pointing out that girls are better at giving compliments Also, racist? Really? What about my comment even mentions race? You seem to have drank a bit too much of that Delulu lemonade. Hope you get better soon.
why is every white girl trying to dress up like middle eastern or arabian or ethnics similar to middle eastern all a sudden since the war happened like sorry u guys wanna be us so bad right now since we be getting the boys attention all a sudden when we never had it and it was always about u but yet u still try to find a way to still make it about u when its the ethnics turn to shine and u white girls had ur moment back in 2000s
Absolutely stunning outfit. It's definitely for the girls though! Let's be real, it's less of a "repellant" and more of a "too intimidating to approach" outfit. Men see you dressed beautiful like that and think you're out of their league. Most men don't know how to dress well so they're scared of a woman who does.
That’s crazy. Men know how to dress well, they just don’t have to because the clothes they wear daily don’t reflect their character since they have nothing to prove. This isn’t the same for women tho so don’t screw with my words
As a woman: YOU ARE A GODDESS AND THE ENTIRE DURATION OF THIS VIDEO MY MOUTH WAS AGAPE AND I WAS QUIETLY SAYING “ *gasp* … oh my goodness… oh my god… wow… you’re- *GASP* your hair! you’re a real goddess! You look like a real life Disney character, you look like you’d belong in Aladdin! That volume and the perfect, luxurious, shiny waves in your hair, cascading down from your head! Your magnificent makeup! The jewelry, the wrist cuff, those necklaces! The earrings! Ohh! Especially that arm band! Even your nails match! And with such a great shape, complimenting the ruffles! The corset’s got SUCH a BREATHTAKING pattern! GOSH, THOSE RUFFLES ARE OUT OF THIS WORLD! You are a DIVINE ANGEL, I COULD SWEAR THAT FABULOUS DRESS IS YOUR WINGS DISGUISED AND THE BEAUTIFUL-I DON’T KNOW WHAT ITS CALLED-THE STRING OF GLITTERING GOLD BITS AROUND YOUR WAIST IS YOUR HALO- oh my gosh! It just gets better- THE SHEER LENGTH ON THAT DRESS- YOU’RE ABSOLUTELY BEWITCHING! AGHH! YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY SCRUMPTIOUS!!! I NEED to tell her 🤩” FOLLOWED BY ME TYPING THIS COMMENT, TRYING TO REMEMBER EXACTLY WHAT I SAID BECAUSE I WAS ON AUTOPILOT- ALL I COULD THINK WHILE TALKING WAS “AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH” YOU ARE LOVELY AND I WOULD LOVE TO GIVE YOU A FLOWER CROWN MADE OF DAISIES TO MATCH THE ABSOLUTELY STUNNING WHITE AND GOLD THEME ❤❤❤❤❤ To whoever read through all that, wow, you did not need to read my lengthy paragraph of me fawning over this brilliant, divine mistress. But thanks for reading and I hope to GOD, you feel the same way about her “male repellent” (Actually a female magnet, and a strong one at that.)
As a man and an introvert I can confirm that I would have to really work up the courage just to come up to you and compliment your outfit. That outfit is breathtaking!
@@1943vermorkbro I think she meant "false. Men....." Otherwise she would've mentioned fake men. Because using fake men instead of false men sounds much better ig.
@@SassyNymphetbecause they tend to be easier to take adventage of... Most of the "timid" and "shy" girls/women are traumatised (I was one of them and all the men who aproched me because they liked my "shyness" liked the result of my trauma and add to them) Insecurity is not a quality in anyway. The only people who would like that would by narcisic perverts.
@@SassyNymphetall girls are cute, kindness is an act. The insecure part just sounds like you’re looking for a girl that’s easier to manipulate and control. Gross
@@Ordinal_Yoda I'm a woman, but I would suggest a character that gives hints when you're stuck! Or maybe a healer of sorts. I feel a character known by her wisdom would be perfect (but maybe you will need to Tinker with her outfit a bit to give it more videogame/ fantasy flair)
@@skybunny6258 Yo sis! That's probably super accurate. Even as her real self. I could definitely see a more squaring off on the low parts on the shirt with perhaps a shiney border. Perhaps even some sort of cloth dangling over the side of a beach hat or sompin. Would need a cool entrance scene though. What kinda voice eh? Deep water reverb or Anima Japanese?
It does really work, I wear stuff from 1280 right through to 1960 (oldest antique dress is from the 1910s, oldest accessory is from the 1840s, I do have antique corsets, bags, parasols etc. but most is repro) you get compliments and looks or people asking you about it (usually women).
The point is really that she's not showing her body. I can't see her cleavage I can't see her ass... I don't need to waste time trying to see something. If you go out in a little tank top I think I'll get a glimpse of your tits if you bend down just the right way and I'll be transfixed. This... there's nothing (perverted) to see. Muslims take it way too far, but they're not completely wrong. Their viewpoint is that women won't attract such attention if the woman covers herself. Now, I don't believe women should be forced to, by any means, but it's not wrong. I'd say if you have a problem with people looking, you shouldn't be showing because you can't control people looking.
@@bethanbaker70661280?! I thought I was the only person who wants to dress even older than the 19th century! Where do you go to find outfits for that ancient vibe? Because I know you look stunning! As someone who lives for dressing like an ancient witch in a fantasy world I simply must know!
Yeah, I’d go so far to say that there is no real male or female repellant outfit. Every man has his preferences and no matter what, there will always be someone who genuinely likes it. Same also the other way round
@SiiriCressey Ah OK. I can't really understand what goes through the mind of the cavemen that harass women, whatever they are wearing... But apparently they don't like certain fits.
The only male repellent thing about this outfit is how out of league you'll look Most guys don't even know to how approach a woman much less one wearing clothing so stunning and beautiful that they could be mistaken for a super model.
Yes yes and yes. Anytime I go the extra day mile with my outfits, no one bothers me. I get wonderful compliments from women and a few older/elder men who delight in extravagant ensembles.
Oh my god so TRUE! Most of the time I don't wear makeup nor do my hair...tshirt jeans. The one time I went to the club hair&makeup&heels& bra panties see through baby doll lingerie... it was repellent for men and women. I really thought that's the way to get a one nightstand...which happenstance I did (mediocre at best) but the social dynamics of that whole crowd werided me out. Can't win for trying.
@@lalaya5972 I wouldn’t say that. I know myself and a few other gentlemen who are definitely interested in this style and, admittedly, would probably go up and talk to her. I can speak for you ofc, but I would guess that a happy medium could be a man with morals and who can read a room lol
This is genuinely true, i experienced this all the time. As an earthy black girl myself i either get super nice compliments from innocent guys or kind compliments from women.
I second this. If she and I happened to pass by close enough where I could say "beautiful outfit! it's amazing" you would have heard such from me... But it's also important to note that it's really the hair that makes this.
@@crystalclear7329 Why would straight men get insecure about a chick dressing like that crab in Moana? Gay men I can understand cuz they want to be fabulous. Men usually get insecure about their physical appearance, wealth and capability in the fields they take pride in. Haven't ever seen a man intimidated by a gypsy
Just another case of women being clueless. It's just so stunning but also confounding. Every man has to re-evaluate standard tactics and come up with something they are not used to. In that time, they aren't approaching. She thinks they are repelled. Clueless!!! I mean, whose going to fumble up to Arwen, Eowin, or Galadriel? There'd probably be guys ready to take you out for such an affront to the the dignity of malekind.
Giiiiiiirl... Not kiding my jaw was slack for the whole entire video and i had to re-watch it to understand it. Feels like you've got a women attractant side effect for that men repellent
How is this male REPELLENT?!?!? That's the cutest corset I've ever seen. And the fact that you didn't mix metals?!?!? Sweetheart, you are a witch with how magic that dress is.
Yeah, I don’t know what she means by that. I probably wouldn’t say anything to her, but I’d be telling people for the rest of the day about the cool outfit I saw this woman wearing earlier
As a man, this outfit is incredible. However, I would never approach this woman because I would find her incredibly intimidating. Anyone who can dress this well is above talking to me.
No girl is above you and any girl that thinks she is isn't worth talking to. If I were single I wouldn't have any problem talking to her. I would compliment her dress because it looks cool and then I would be on my way unless she decided to talk to me further. The key to talking to women is treating them with respect and not a piece of meat. That will get you past about 50% of guys instantly. It also doesn't really matter what you look like as long as you take care of yourself. For example: always clean/showered, good haircut and brush your teeth. You would be surprised how far that will get you alone. One bit of advice I will give you if you are nervous talking to women is to get a job where you have to work with them. You will be amazed how much it will help you out. Don't be afraid of them. Most are really nice as long as you don't creep them out.
Oh, why does it exist? To encourage young and naive girls to hate men until they reach their 40s and lose their chances and realise they ruined their lives?
Except, she is wrong about why. We would think she is out of her league. Also, notice how she said harassed and not hit on? Any man that is kind, wouldn't harass her, also we wouldn't want to embarrass ourselves and her by trying to approach her.
nah its bc she thinks men are a troublesome thing and are to get rid off :) thats the vibe this vid gives to me, like a man repellant? wear an ugly face makeup or smth also men apptoaching you isnt men horrasing you its just men being attracted to you there is nothing wrong in that, you should be happy about it and not like ughhh another man gives me a complement🫥👍🏿
yes literally. but i don't believe this outfit is male repellent, it's pretty feminine and cute, if it were for her to dress like this in my town every single male in a area of 2km would turn heads and try to approach her😭
@@aproximativanonim303 I would not try to even get close to, that outfit shows class and has an aura to it that would make it hard to even consider getting close to
@@callmetaku3340 yes maybe she looks really beautiful in a way u don't see that often, wich can make it harder for ppl to approach her. i understand that some have a hard time talking or approaching someone they find extremely attractive and they get intimidated but also even more ppl would approach someone they find extremely attractive in fear of loosing them and bcz they would want to see them again
As someone who regularly dresses in EGL, you're right. You're SO RIGHT. I've been hit on more when I thought I looked 'okay' but casual. But when I'm decked out like I'm on my way to a Victorian funeral, high tea party or about to check on my geese in the wildflower garden.... Crickets. Absolute crickets. And I've had one dude in the past follow me for three blocks trying to 'convince' me to join his harem. (His description of the group of women he knows, not mine.) And before I wore EGL on the regular, I felt like I was constantly dodging advances I didn't want. Now? Blessed peace....and a parasol to boot.
@@pieceofpeace35 EGL = Elegant, Gothic Lolita. There's also EGA, Elegant Gothic Aristocrat. Most of us are using EGL as a short hand because lately, the tired old peanut gallery about this Japanese born street fashion being 'pervert bait' has surfaced again. For like, the tenth time over the last 3+ decades since the fashion was born. It's not bait. It's a rebellious style at its core for those who want to wear nice things without that **we** like and not for any other reason. There's more than a few subgenre's of EGL and I swing Gothic and/or Country with a sprinkle of Sweet. Hope that helped!
Girl, you out here dressing like a goddess! Men aren’t repelled by your outfit, they’re intimidated by your confidence! Edit: thank you everyone! I’ve never gotten this many likes on a comment before!
See this is a problem. Women taking women’s advice about what a man’s brain does. This is not intimidating. A man will profile her. Most men are done with princesses and attention seekers. I see this and I see someone who is less interested in a man and more interested in men. This is the female version of the guy who hits on everyone with cheesy pickup lines. If you all listened to us instead of trying to redefine what we mean when we tell you all things, you’d be better off. “You are/look too high maintenance” means exactly that. It doesn’t mean what women try to redefine it as, it means that the man finds the woman to be too much effort for the value she brings. It doesn’t mean he’s afraid of a “strong independent woman”. It means, he sees her as a liability. She needs too much attention. Her need for attention is probably constant which is too much for any man. This is a liability woman. When women think about the guys they want, they have lists of things they want, but never show what they will be offering. I’ll work 70 hours a week to keep us in a home, but are you going to say thank you? Or are you going to complain about how those extra 30 hours of overtime are leaving you home to do the laundry and that’s “not a fair equitable division of domestic labor”.
Facts. That dress is so pretty and it contrasts beautifully with her dark hair. It suits her to a T and in that dress she is so far out of my league that I'm not gonna even try.
As a male, of course we don't approach you, looking like a godess lmao. Girl that outfit is stunnnnnin'. Idk about repellant, but it's certainly gorgeous af
As a man myself I wouldn’t call this man repellent, you’re just really good looking and certain colors can make you pop out and yeah lots of guys have problems approaching beautiful women because of many reasons. The jewelry thing is depends on if you know how to wear it or you’re just overdoing it. Your outfit is good, beauty can be intimidating not because of confidence but just fear of rejection
i dont fear rejection from beauty, i fear acceptance, because the acceptance is only temporary and will leave me in pain afterwards, rejection is more simple and easier to deal with
That's what I was thinking. I think some men might be put off by the difference, compared to current trends, and others would be too intimidated to approach her.
And I am just gonna say: YOU look absolutely gorgeous. The ruffles and frills are chef's kiss. The color theme, oh my heavenly. Please never stop going out like that. As a woman I highly appreciate your outfit.
I think it has to do with how much confidence you give out. This outfit gives me the "she can kick my ass if I breathe too loud in her direction" vibes, just to explain how much confidence there is in it. Well done!
Yeah idk why she calls it male repellent when it’s just intimidatingly beautiful Too many people have a glass half empty instead of a glass half full mindset and they wonder why they’re so depressed, it’s how these people talk about themselves!
@@rocklee2282 I guess that sometimes, we need to word it in a "this is going to protect me" way in order to gain the confidence to do something or wear certain clothes.
Men are not scared of her, most men are just done. "Kick your ass if you breathe in her direction" uh huh, not the case. Women that look like her are a dime a dozen.
Its not that it is repelling, its just that we men dont know how to approach a girl dressed like that without lookin weird and trying to not look like a creep. Believe me, as a man, I can confidently say that a dressing like that is one of the most atractive things a girl can do
@@Vigilante8841 but that outfit gives high maintenance, often times men want to do 50/50 or dont offer to pay for a woman’s beauty treatments. That’s what this outfit is giving.
But this outfit, while reppelling the normies, will attract all the cosplayers, LARPers, roleplayers and a big part of the geeks, male or female... so... do not try it close to a Convention... ^^"
Men are repelled, women will be awestruck 🤩 Seriously, the outfit is gorgeous, your hair is beautiful and your face is lovely! You look like a beautiful gypsy girl! ❤
How about asking men in stead of assuming? It's not an outfit that tells men that you want to be laid, if that what's you mean. But men with serious intentions could be attracted, especially since it signals self respect.
I am a man, and honestly, it does the opposite of repel (i dont want to sound as a creep, hear me out). I find it interesting and intriguing. It looks amazing! I am a game developer and love concept art. This is straight up a character from my next game :D
Same, I do think it's more of a repellent to guys that don't see women as people with their own personality. Also, compliments aren't creepy if there aren't any hidden intentions.
@@vinc885women and men alike have hidden intentions. Most women might not sleep with that particular woman but she might just give out compliments to make herself feel better ;)
I can see why you would be generally right and I assure you that as a dude, I'm often told the same by my women friend/gf/ex. (Feels more like a human trait rather than being gendered). Imo, I much rather have a gf that rocks many styles and outfits than one dressing comfy/easy-going/same-as-the-others-all-the-time. It's fun, you can dress up together, you get to see her in many shades and lights, it helps spicing things up and so on. 😊
I think it also shows though that she can be cute or attractive still in pretty much anything, without the extra frills and yes, in a low maintenance, chill way.
Okay this explains so much!!! When i'm at work, men hit on me. Somehow, I'm approachable. But when I dress in my own identity, I might get some glances, but for the most part, I have experienced that men are definitely intimidated or not interested.
As a man i think more woman need to know this, 95% of the time if a guy doesnt approach you, it isnt intinmidation, not in the slightest. If a guy checking you out doesnt approach its almost always for 1 of 3 things - 1 - he actually just isnt interested in you like that, or wasnt even checking you out in the first place. 2 - as guys, if we approach a woman in just slightley the wrong way, we are now at risk of someone trying to cancel us and call us a creep for showing interest, especially with how social media is. Or finally 3 - quite possibly they are not single, have you heard the saying "im married, not dead"? People in committed relationships have wandering glances, totally natural, doesnt mean they want to act on it because they are already taken and happy. This is not meant as a "get over yourself guys arent approaching you" type comment, this is just giving you the honest male perspective.
@@classmst89 For number 2. Don’t lie like that, we all know if a man wants something he going try to get if he can. Men don’t care about being “cancelled” 🙄🙄. The only ones who do care are the ones who have enough respect to not be like the men that we are talking about😆
@@lilcomment get over yourself 🤣😂 and keep blaming men for your problems lol easier than you ever having accountability huh? Safe to say number 1 is why people dont approach you 🤣 you and your opinion arent inportant, you should learn that asap
I'll give you an even simpler explanation: the clothes we wear make people think something about us. Most careers have some kind of basic dress code or uniform to wear. Iit generally choreographs a specific and discernable message about who you are. They are also often gender coded (men wearing slacks, women wearing skirts) and too many jobs basically make it a requirement to wear makeup. Whether it's viscerally attractive or not, in many ways you'll still inadvertently be dressing for the male gaze, and many work cultures have developed standards based on misogyny (women wearing heels, doing their nails, makeup, and hair, on and on etc). When we dress for ourselves and showcase our own identity we are not as familiar and approachable. We often dress for own pleasure, wearing cute stuff that would be considered too childish for work, or soft colors that are too feminine for a work space. We're no longer just a drone, we're a woman, who knows what she's into, pastels and romance novels? Eww. A guy thinks he knows you because he's interacted with other women who have your work style and is familiar with the general way to act. He can ask you about subjects he is more comfortable with, related to career stuff, and thus break the ice more easily. Women also often dress more defensively/ aggressively/ ambitiously for work, giving the appearance that they're strong and cold and practical, blah, blah, blah. Regardless of the exact attire, the point is you're less you in work clothes, just a pretty face and a "uniform". Considering how many men are apparently completely put off by the softer aspects of feminity and only want to go towards the more sexual aspects, it makes sense. I hate the gender divide in our culture.
As a guy, it's less a "male repellent" and more a case of guys being too intimidated to approach you. If I see you in public, I'm definitely thinking, "She's way out of my league," cause you genuinely look gorgeous.
Tbh as a guy I'd still talk to her if I had a reasonable opportunity. Not even to flirt necessarily but because anyone wearing that is probably an interesting person
@lukatosic09 interesting enough, that's actually how I met a really good friend of mine. So yeah, I don't really see anything wrong with just talking to someone, even if it's just complimenting their fit
LOVE. I'm sure you get a lot of female attention in that outfit lmao, women tend to be so much kinder. I've had lots of compliments/conversations about my clothes from women, but I've never been catcalled by a woman!
Fr tho. Even the most assertive lesbians don't cat call. At most, they give you lots of kind attention then go "aww why are are the cute ones taken and straight?!" when they realize it's not going anywhere 😅 they don't take it personally and never threaten our safety like dudes.
@@counterscam6547 are yu realy surprised by that? Dude probably thinks we want "HiGh vAluE Men🤪" without realising that "high value" for most uf us is a safe man that is a real partner to us 🙄
It’s giving Esmeralda vibes! From the Hunchback of Notre Dame! I’d love to see you do an inspired look from her, like her color scheme. This is so gorgeous!
@@Xxxfallen_angelxxX That wasn't the question. And you're obviously not sophisticated or fun, so you're not the one to answer. I'm asking the men who are charismatic leaders not scared, hypocritical victims.
Would you take her home to meet the family dressed like that???? My guess is probably not. There's a time and place for everything. The renn fest is perfect for those clothes, and that is exactly where I go dressed like that, but I think a dinner date to a nice upscale restaurant and people will think what's wrong with her. She looks like an old fashioned harlot...not a good look when you need to be classy.
One of my favorite things about being a slightly older now, is that men never hit on me or harass me any more. And doctors actually listen to me and take me seriously now too. I am 40 now. I give off a very neutral energy when I am out in public, or working and interacting with men, and they give the same very neutral energy back to me (which is my goal). However I cannot tell you how much I wish I had your confidence, and comfort being yourself.
Nope! That would attract me way more than everything else you mentioned lol. And definitely not a “witch” look.. more like a modern day belly dancer 😍😆
I honestly really like the outfit and the hair complements it. If I saw you passing by, I'd probably wanna compliment you but not know how to approach you without being awkward. Honestly, it's giving me the inspiration to draw something rn so ty :D
It's 100% NOT supposed to be ugly, rather many people in the comments said that it comes across as confident in a way that predatory men don't feel comfortable trying to fuck with :3
I find that so interesting because as a female introvert I would immediately come up to you with a compliment about your outfit, it’s stunning
@@ami8181this can happen even if you’re fully covered 😢 I’m glad you’re okay
Introverts are magpies always on the lookout for the shiniest attraction 😌
agreed.
honestly as a introvert dude, I'd give her more a compliment when I'd otherwise mind my business
Was just thinking this. I'm all about giving people compliments, especially with that amount of effort in their outfit@@mdcu3893
sorry i'm just. i'm absolutely hypontized by your hair. the volume, the flow, the bounciness. i'm in awe
Yeah. That IS really nice hair!☺️
Same
Same
Right? I have such hair envy right now.
It’s my dream hair. ❤
And the best part is that you will get so many compliments from random girls passing by. It’s the best honestly
Compliments from women are the best. That's why even men want them
@@pamelah1220 compliments from women are the best because
1. They are given without an agenda
2. They usually compliment something that you actively DO rather than things you happen to BE. Ex. Your outfit is amazing vs. You are so pretty
3. Women’s compliments usually are specific to you rather than a blanket statement that could apply to literally anyone
@@claracatlady9844 women are 2 faced as fuck
As a woman, I need to find an outfit that repeals sexists and racist like this. Acting like men aren't people is so wild to me. Just say you have daddy issues and you've never met a good man. And that maybe YOU'RE the toxic one.
@@divaofthedamned365 uhh… I have a pretty wonderful relationship with my father. We have weekly scheduled phone calls and I’ve actually just come back from a trip back home (meaning crossing oceans) to be there for a family reunion. There is a lot to be said about my mental health problems but Daddy Issues actually sure as hell aren’t one of those.
Also, hey this is just my experience so far and I’m totally open to be proven wrong. It’s not like I haven’t met guys that give good genuine compliments it’s just that in the grand scheme of things those guys make up a minority, which doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Furthermore saying “I prefer compliments from girls because I feel they are usually more personal and genuine” isn’t dehumanising anyone, it’s just pointing out that girls are better at giving compliments
Also, racist? Really? What about my comment even mentions race? You seem to have drank a bit too much of that Delulu lemonade. Hope you get better soon.
As a male I can say that men are missing out. Because you are stunning as heck.
Yeah I was going to say, maybe it's an insecure man's repellent, because that fit is awesome af.
Gorgeous, your hair looks amazing
I would avoid being added to her closet
the point is she doesn’t want men coming up to her r yall slow
It’s weird that even when a man seems like he could understand, he still doesn’t seem to get the point.
The way my jaw dropped when I saw how pretty the outfit was
why is every white girl trying to dress up like middle eastern or arabian or ethnics similar to middle eastern all a sudden since the war happened like sorry u guys wanna be us so bad right now since we be getting the boys attention all a sudden when we never had it and it was always about u but yet u still try to find a way to still make it about u when its the ethnics turn to shine and u white girls had ur moment back in 2000s
Your pfp 😭😭
@@mcdonaldsworkerrazor HELP MCDONALDS RAZOR I THINK LISA GAVE UP ON TEACHING HIM-
@@PurePure963 LMAOOOO WHAT
you BROW be serious? lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Can't say it's exactly a repellant, but much more like a flash-bang that just bluescreens the brain. The literal definition of stunning
I totally agree! Like she's too stunning to be approached! Men become intimidated ❤
Or prob most male think you’re high maintenance 😂so they don’t even dare to holla cuz they can’t keep up
If it's a flashbang, then it works on girls too
yeah XD
@@hafizazakiya7847 also true
Woman attractant fr because you look like an actual goddess. Respectfully, you're very pretty
Male repellent my ass
She looks amazing!!!
Absolutely. I immediately want to be her friend 😂
respectfully you couldn't have simped harder on this. i mean course *Respectfully* lmaoooo CLOWN.
Ayo cam! do me a favor my boy...go touch grass!
Stunning! I would never harass any woman, regardless of what she wore
thanks! that's the bare minimum!
But then becomes a woman attractant
🙏🤭
@@JadeTheRock🙏🤭
Not a bad thing
@@cylyte2436 nope 😀
Omg I came to the comments looking for this!!
Absolutely stunning outfit. It's definitely for the girls though! Let's be real, it's less of a "repellant" and more of a "too intimidating to approach" outfit. Men see you dressed beautiful like that and think you're out of their league. Most men don't know how to dress well so they're scared of a woman who does.
Agree! You look amazing girl!
That’s crazy. Men know how to dress well, they just don’t have to because the clothes they wear daily don’t reflect their character since they have nothing to prove. This isn’t the same for women tho so don’t screw with my words
@@ArizonaReds and what does she have to prove, exactly, by dressing like thus, according to you?
@@ArizonaRedsthere are three mistakes in your comment, can you solve them?
@@starlight8115 you realize what i said at the end right? This is nothing to do with women? Or did you go blind for that last part? mb that was mean
as a straight man this is one of the most attractive looking outfits I've seen in recent memory
As a straight male, I second this motion. Also, a huge green flag concerning her character so Id probably go for it :)
I’m a gay man, but I agree with both this and the reply. Though I would only be complimenting her.
@@kittycarnagesame. As a gay man, can agree.
As a male i will approach her, but after hearing her annoying voice i will repell.😂😂😂
Yeah not sure how this is repellent because her dress is the reason I’m even here😂😂she looks good no cap
As a woman: YOU ARE A GODDESS AND THE ENTIRE DURATION OF THIS VIDEO MY MOUTH WAS AGAPE AND I WAS QUIETLY SAYING “ *gasp* … oh my goodness… oh my god… wow… you’re- *GASP* your hair! you’re a real goddess! You look like a real life Disney character, you look like you’d belong in Aladdin! That volume and the perfect, luxurious, shiny waves in your hair, cascading down from your head! Your magnificent makeup! The jewelry, the wrist cuff, those necklaces! The earrings! Ohh! Especially that arm band! Even your nails match! And with such a great shape, complimenting the ruffles! The corset’s got SUCH a BREATHTAKING pattern! GOSH, THOSE RUFFLES ARE OUT OF THIS WORLD! You are a DIVINE ANGEL, I COULD SWEAR THAT FABULOUS DRESS IS YOUR WINGS DISGUISED AND THE BEAUTIFUL-I DON’T KNOW WHAT ITS CALLED-THE STRING OF GLITTERING GOLD BITS AROUND YOUR WAIST IS YOUR HALO- oh my gosh! It just gets better- THE SHEER LENGTH ON THAT DRESS- YOU’RE ABSOLUTELY BEWITCHING! AGHH! YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY SCRUMPTIOUS!!! I NEED to tell her 🤩” FOLLOWED BY ME TYPING THIS COMMENT, TRYING TO REMEMBER EXACTLY WHAT I SAID BECAUSE I WAS ON AUTOPILOT-
ALL I COULD THINK WHILE TALKING WAS “AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH” YOU ARE LOVELY AND I WOULD LOVE TO GIVE YOU A FLOWER CROWN MADE OF DAISIES TO MATCH THE ABSOLUTELY STUNNING WHITE AND GOLD THEME ❤❤❤❤❤
To whoever read through all that, wow, you did not need to read my lengthy paragraph of me fawning over this brilliant, divine mistress. But thanks for reading and I hope to GOD, you feel the same way about her “male repellent” (Actually a female magnet, and a strong one at that.)
As a man and an introvert I can confirm that I would have to really work up the courage just to come up to you and compliment your outfit. That outfit is breathtaking!
Unfortunately nowadays such a compliment could land you in court.
@@williamhadley1580No, it won’t. Lol.
@@williamhadley1580 Idk about court, you could totally get rejected but that’s a way lower stake
@@nathandouvier1976 in the past yes but it's a different world now.
@@williamhadley1580 Can you find me a single case of a conviction for giving a compliment in passing like that?
As a man, this outfit is literally gorgeous. I see why no one approaches you, it'd be like trying to strike up a conversation with a goddess.
This guy gets it!
They think she is a gypsy woman who will put a curse on them.😅
Same
"How i keep foot out of mouth if front of pretty lady? I know I say nothing within 50 big sticks of pretty lady! Then I not say the dum."
Same.
False men are repelled by the absolute GODDESS energy you're giving!
I absolutely love this outfit!
Don’t tell men who they should be, you’re projecting a double standard
Real men = doormat
False men = not doormat
@@1943vermork
Double standard
@@1943vermorkbro I think she meant "false. Men....." Otherwise she would've mentioned fake men. Because using fake men instead of false men sounds much better ig.
Guys I think there's meant to be a comma between false and men 😭
I didn't think about that👁👄👁
Like, me a woman, would go up to you and compliment you. The outfit is gorgeous!💜
It’s the confidence they’re scared of 🫠
Dressing like this shows you’re doing you and don’t care about what other people think!! Keep rocking girl
yea the confidence or the crazy
she cute like that tho
because insecure girls are cuter and more kind
@@SassyNymphet *easier to manipulate
@@SassyNymphetbecause they tend to be easier to take adventage of... Most of the "timid" and "shy" girls/women are traumatised (I was one of them and all the men who aproched me because they liked my "shyness" liked the result of my trauma and add to them)
Insecurity is not a quality in anyway. The only people who would like that would by narcisic perverts.
@@SassyNymphetall girls are cute, kindness is an act. The insecure part just sounds like you’re looking for a girl that’s easier to manipulate and control.
Gross
Honestly as a man. I’d probably compliment your dress and save the design in my head for a fantasy character
Yeah we would need a cool character name for her. Hmm, do you think it's more NPCish though? Like a quest giver?
"Help me I need new boots!?" Hahaha
@@Ordinal_Yoda I'm a woman, but I would suggest a character that gives hints when you're stuck! Or maybe a healer of sorts. I feel a character known by her wisdom would be perfect (but maybe you will need to Tinker with her outfit a bit to give it more videogame/ fantasy flair)
@@skybunny6258 Yo sis! That's probably super accurate. Even as her real self. I could definitely see a more squaring off on the low parts on the shirt with perhaps a shiney border. Perhaps even some sort of cloth dangling over the side of a beach hat or sompin.
Would need a cool entrance scene though.
What kinda voice eh? Deep water reverb or Anima Japanese?
😂😂😂😂😂
glad i;m not the only one!!
She looks like a medieval princess in that dress
@@Samwise_genji More like a Disney princess. Medieval Is totally differenti.
Lol
I'm getting Disney Esmeralda vibs
Really looks lyke a gypsy who's gonna clean out your pockets
I was thinking a Egyptian/Greek queen like Cleopatra
the hair, the makeup, the outfit absolute perfectionn 😍😍
Male repellent = female magnet
Girl you look stunning
frrrr
just say you don't like men straight to them, men don't freak out over something that simple, trust me
I’m a man and if I see a girl dressed like I will 100% be mesmerized
@@moralles-l7b clueless
@@GGProduction100 as you should, I would be too!
"Dress like you don't belong in this era" and go super extra. Yup, it's perfect! I love my days in outfits like this!
Not only she change the era but she transcends the mortal realm and reside in heaven
It does really work, I wear stuff from 1280 right through to 1960 (oldest antique dress is from the 1910s, oldest accessory is from the 1840s, I do have antique corsets, bags, parasols etc. but most is repro) you get compliments and looks or people asking you about it (usually women).
The point is really that she's not showing her body. I can't see her cleavage I can't see her ass... I don't need to waste time trying to see something. If you go out in a little tank top I think I'll get a glimpse of your tits if you bend down just the right way and I'll be transfixed. This... there's nothing (perverted) to see.
Muslims take it way too far, but they're not completely wrong. Their viewpoint is that women won't attract such attention if the woman covers herself. Now, I don't believe women should be forced to, by any means, but it's not wrong.
I'd say if you have a problem with people looking, you shouldn't be showing because you can't control people looking.
@@bethanbaker70661280?! I thought I was the only person who wants to dress even older than the 19th century! Where do you go to find outfits for that ancient vibe? Because I know you look stunning! As someone who lives for dressing like an ancient witch in a fantasy world I simply must know!
As a man i'd actually think: "Damn! That outfit is different, but awesome, she looks like a character from an RPG that got lost in our world."
Yeah, weird men where she hangs out. That fit is dope, she looks amazing.
Exactly and for me that would make her MORE approachable than the tanktop and cut-off shorts.
Yeah, I’d go so far to say that there is no real male or female repellant outfit. Every man has his preferences and no matter what, there will always be someone who genuinely likes it. Same also the other way round
@@sangwaraumo "Yeah, weird men where she hangs out."
It sounds to me like in her statement, approach = harass.
@SiiriCressey Ah OK. I can't really understand what goes through the mind of the cavemen that harass women, whatever they are wearing... But apparently they don't like certain fits.
That outfit looks so ETHEREAL omg it slays
it’s crazy that this is a male repellant outfit, I’m a woman but you look like a literal goddess
That's why.
I can see why other men would dislike it but I love it, I would talk to her because of the outfit
It isn't a male repellent. That's the most beautiful dress I've ever seen, that's the ultimate masculin man attractant
Same 😍
The only male repellent thing about this outfit is how out of league you'll look
Most guys don't even know to how approach a woman much less one wearing clothing so stunning and beautiful that they could be mistaken for a super model.
Yes yes and yes. Anytime I go the extra day mile with my outfits, no one bothers me. I get wonderful compliments from women and a few older/elder men who delight in extravagant ensembles.
Oh my god so TRUE! Most of the time I don't wear makeup nor do my hair...tshirt jeans. The one time I went to the club hair&makeup&heels& bra panties see through baby doll lingerie... it was repellent for men and women. I really thought that's the way to get a one nightstand...which happenstance I did (mediocre at best) but the social dynamics of that whole crowd werided me out. Can't win for trying.
That's because most good men aren't interested in a women who takes 2 hours to get ready
@@Shawn-zt3gvGood to know. I and all my friends are probably going to start doing makeup like Versailles hookers.
Yeah cause it screams high maintenance or attention seeking, not saying you’re that, but that’s how it looks, like a red flag
Girl this just looks like desi clothes loool
This is not male attractant, this is THE female gaze omg ilysm ur fashion taste is the best
I know a lot of nerds/alternative mens that would fall in love with this woman immediately. (and this is not exactly a good thing tho...😂)
@@robertaavila4744 yeah I know these men too (I'm these men)
@@robertaavila4744 yeah but thankfully they’d never have the confidence to go up and bother her
@@lalaya5972 I wouldn’t say that. I know myself and a few other gentlemen who are definitely interested in this style and, admittedly, would probably go up and talk to her. I can speak for you ofc, but I would guess that a happy medium could be a man with morals and who can read a room lol
@@nathandouvier1976 before they can say shit, i assure u she's already SURROUNDED by women like me
Why are you SO PRETTYYYYYYY AAHHHHHH 😭 im obsessed
Girl, you look like a Greek goddess that a Renaissance painting would feature. That outfit is STUNNING! And your makeup is flawless!!! ATHENA WHO?? 🤩
Probably best to not boast within earshot of the Greek pantheon, no matter how warrented that does not end well.
@@blizzardgaming7070 Aphrodite will come for her 😂😂
The compliments are sweet, but congratulations, you have doomed her to the wrath of Athena
Maybe she's the daughter of Athena, you never knowwwww
Looks more like Ishtar, with the hair and the hanging beads. Just needs to hold some snakes.
-i see majestic thumbnail
-i click
-"male repellent"
LMAO I'M SAYIN
Right? Same experience. What man would be repelled by this outfit?
I immediately fell in love. Don't know what she's talking about 😂
She def lives in a gated community
IKR like bro what.
This is genuinely true, i experienced this all the time. As an earthy black girl myself i either get super nice compliments from innocent guys or kind compliments from women.
*waves* Hello from a Black EGL/Soft Decora gal!! The kind compliments are the best!
Same here, girly. ❤❤
What do u mean by earthy?
Cheers from a fellow black/biracial bohemian gal 😉
I concur. Greetings! Black nerdy lass who occasionally sports goth/occult garbs, here.
Your like a Walking Goddess !!! Absolutely STUNNING !!!! 😍
She shimmers, sparkles & shines...
Ma'am that would absolutely get my undivided attention. Who the hell is being repelled?
Beautiful outfit.
I second this. If she and I happened to pass by close enough where I could say "beautiful outfit! it's amazing" you would have heard such from me...
But it's also important to note that it's really the hair that makes this.
Insecure guys get repelled
I came here to write this comment lol. This would turn my head so fast it's not funny.
@@crystalclear7329 Why would straight men get insecure about a chick dressing like that crab in Moana?
Gay men I can understand cuz they want to be fabulous.
Men usually get insecure about their physical appearance, wealth and capability in the fields they take pride in.
Haven't ever seen a man intimidated by a gypsy
Just another case of women being clueless. It's just so stunning but also confounding. Every man has to re-evaluate standard tactics and come up with something they are not used to. In that time, they aren't approaching. She thinks they are repelled. Clueless!!!
I mean, whose going to fumble up to Arwen, Eowin, or Galadriel? There'd probably be guys ready to take you out for such an affront to the the dignity of malekind.
as a guy i think most men would be too shy to talk to you
That. This exudes classy. It’s less about scaring men and more like “whoa, where do I even begin?”
This
Thirded.
I concur
Nah a I will ded approach, that look sick
Bro, how is this a male repellent outfit? I find this outfit so cool.
ikr? i mean....she looks so pretty in this i wont lie.....
becouse its harder to aproche a godess then it is a cute girl in a hoodie xD
Nah I think she got a point there bro
@@theHyperion12 bro goddess? stop throwing words around 💀
@@theHyperion12 id think that she must be on her way to some fancy event that im too broke for so no need to interrupt.
I love how the men assume witch, and the women assume goddess
Giiiiiiirl... Not kiding my jaw was slack for the whole entire video and i had to re-watch it to understand it. Feels like you've got a women attractant side effect for that men repellent
I AGREE(Or could be men dont want to be seen as creeps when they approach her)….cough
don’t be fooled she knows she’s drop dead gorgeous, and just wants to show it off lol
@@jordanhedrick2428as she should lmao
@@The_Real_Kokichi_Oma there’s no shame in it lol
@@jordanhedrick2428 what does that have to do with women liking her tho
How is this male REPELLENT?!?!? That's the cutest corset I've ever seen. And the fact that you didn't mix metals?!?!? Sweetheart, you are a witch with how magic that dress is.
As a man, I don't think I would approach her simply because she's obviously on a time traveling mission that doesn't have time for my nonsense LOL
@@matthewarnold4557but do you think it looks ugly? because i'm dressing the same and men are be like: 👀
@@user-xp5op6sl3r oh no, it's stunning. In fact it might be a bit intimidating for most men.
she just wants to show off the outfit without actually showing off in the guise of useless advice
Yeah, I don’t know what she means by that. I probably wouldn’t say anything to her, but I’d be telling people for the rest of the day about the cool outfit I saw this woman wearing earlier
As a man, this outfit is incredible. However, I would never approach this woman because I would find her incredibly intimidating. Anyone who can dress this well is above talking to me.
bro you read my mind, I thought about commenting the same thing but didn't want to make her angry, she's scary
My thoughts exactly
No one is above talking to you because of how they dress, head up king
No girl is above you and any girl that thinks she is isn't worth talking to. If I were single I wouldn't have any problem talking to her. I would compliment her dress because it looks cool and then I would be on my way unless she decided to talk to me further. The key to talking to women is treating them with respect and not a piece of meat. That will get you past about 50% of guys instantly. It also doesn't really matter what you look like as long as you take care of yourself. For example: always clean/showered, good haircut and brush your teeth. You would be surprised how far that will get you alone. One bit of advice I will give you if you are nervous talking to women is to get a job where you have to work with them. You will be amazed how much it will help you out. Don't be afraid of them. Most are really nice as long as you don't creep them out.
Was just about to say that lol
Girl! That outfit is gorgeous! Literally slays so hard ❤
This. This is why the internet exists!
Preach beautiful sister!
Oh, why does it exist? To encourage young and naive girls to hate men until they reach their 40s and lose their chances and realise they ruined their lives?
Except, she is wrong about why. We would think she is out of her league. Also, notice how she said harassed and not hit on? Any man that is kind, wouldn't harass her, also we wouldn't want to embarrass ourselves and her by trying to approach her.
@@ddevil4980 I think they’re saying she needs a man who is also confident so it’s probably for the best lol ☝️✌️
@lyssgoddess Yeah, it's not about confidence.
Yeah well you know what you want 😅, that's right 😊
They don’t approach you because you’re too attractive
nah its bc she thinks men are a troublesome thing and are to get rid off :) thats the vibe this vid gives to me, like a man repellant? wear an ugly face makeup or smth also men apptoaching you isnt men horrasing you its just men being attracted to you there is nothing wrong in that, you should be happy about it and not like ughhh another man gives me a complement🫥👍🏿
@@musicproduction6744🤮
yes literally. but i don't believe this outfit is male repellent, it's pretty feminine and cute, if it were for her to dress like this in my town every single male in a area of 2km would turn heads and try to approach her😭
@@aproximativanonim303 I would not try to even get close to, that outfit shows class and has an aura to it that would make it hard to even consider getting close to
@@callmetaku3340 yes maybe she looks really beautiful in a way u don't see that often, wich can make it harder for ppl to approach her. i understand that some have a hard time talking or approaching someone they find extremely attractive and they get intimidated but also even more ppl would approach someone they find extremely attractive in fear of loosing them and bcz they would want to see them again
They aren't repelled by that outfit they're intimidated by how damn good you look.😅
Agreed!
@@Nocturnal_Alien True words
EXACTLY 😂
Yes, I would be more intimidated by someone so confident than scared. Pfhhh ... But to be sure, you're not a witch, right? Right?
REAL
Omg this outfit is perfect... gorgeous AND men repelant ???? PERFECT
genuinely and respectfully you look like an actual goddess
This gives me like pirate/princess vibes. The way the top drapes makes the silhouette so unique it's cool!
Definitely a female attractant. I'm introverted and i would walk up to you and tell you your outfit is pretty. You look stunning!
Would you ask her out?
Would you hit on her?
@@Therebelliousprince001 no. I'm not into women. Doesn't mean I can't compliment a nice outfit
True@@xChaosFlower
@@Therebelliousprince001 Hi, lesbian here. I would try only to be told to stand in line by the other ladies
As a man, I think you look gorgeous, not repellent at all. ❤
As someone who regularly dresses in EGL, you're right. You're SO RIGHT. I've been hit on more when I thought I looked 'okay' but casual. But when I'm decked out like I'm on my way to a Victorian funeral, high tea party or about to check on my geese in the wildflower garden....
Crickets. Absolute crickets. And I've had one dude in the past follow me for three blocks trying to 'convince' me to join his harem. (His description of the group of women he knows, not mine.)
And before I wore EGL on the regular, I felt like I was constantly dodging advances I didn't want.
Now? Blessed peace....and a parasol to boot.
What's EGL?
@@pieceofpeace35 EGL = Elegant, Gothic Lolita. There's also EGA, Elegant Gothic Aristocrat.
Most of us are using EGL as a short hand because lately, the tired old peanut gallery about this Japanese born street fashion being 'pervert bait' has surfaced again. For like, the tenth time over the last 3+ decades since the fashion was born.
It's not bait. It's a rebellious style at its core for those who want to wear nice things without that **we** like and not for any other reason. There's more than a few subgenre's of EGL and I swing Gothic and/or Country with a sprinkle of Sweet.
Hope that helped!
Girl, you out here dressing like a goddess! Men aren’t repelled by your outfit, they’re intimidated by your confidence!
Edit: thank you everyone! I’ve never gotten this many likes on a comment before!
I was about to say the same thing. Its not because they think she's a witch compared to her they must felt
See this is a problem. Women taking women’s advice about what a man’s brain does. This is not intimidating. A man will profile her. Most men are done with princesses and attention seekers. I see this and I see someone who is less interested in a man and more interested in men. This is the female version of the guy who hits on everyone with cheesy pickup lines.
If you all listened to us instead of trying to redefine what we mean when we tell you all things, you’d be better off.
“You are/look too high maintenance” means exactly that. It doesn’t mean what women try to redefine it as, it means that the man finds the woman to be too much effort for the value she brings. It doesn’t mean he’s afraid of a “strong independent woman”. It means, he sees her as a liability. She needs too much attention. Her need for attention is probably constant which is too much for any man. This is a liability woman.
When women think about the guys they want, they have lists of things they want, but never show what they will be offering. I’ll work 70 hours a week to keep us in a home, but are you going to say thank you? Or are you going to complain about how those extra 30 hours of overtime are leaving you home to do the laundry and that’s “not a fair equitable division of domestic labor”.
Just asked my man critter who confirmed this to be true.
Yup, we would feel she's out of our league, so we wouldn't want to embarrass ourselves and her.
Facts. That dress is so pretty and it contrasts beautifully with her dark hair. It suits her to a T and in that dress she is so far out of my league that I'm not gonna even try.
As a male, of course we don't approach you, looking like a godess lmao. Girl that outfit is stunnnnnin'. Idk about repellant, but it's certainly gorgeous af
Yeah sry simp she aint having you
Your actually beautiful girl- like genuinely ur face is stunning wth
You literally look like Wonder Woman in that fit! The gold accents tie everything together so perfectly
YAS OMG
Your dark hair and eyes elevates the already stunning outfit so much, genuinely in awe
As a man myself I wouldn’t call this man repellent, you’re just really good looking and certain colors can make you pop out and yeah lots of guys have problems approaching beautiful women because of many reasons. The jewelry thing is depends on if you know how to wear it or you’re just overdoing it. Your outfit is good, beauty can be intimidating not because of confidence but just fear of rejection
i dont fear rejection from beauty, i fear acceptance, because the acceptance is only temporary and will leave me in pain afterwards, rejection is more simple and easier to deal with
"The worst thing she can say ain't No."
-- another TH-camr
It's repellent. overly flashy for me. i would like it in a lover but not in some random stranger, so it would be repellent
Definitely repellent it would seem cringe or over the top it’s kind of a red flag when women dress too flashy like they are crazy or attention seekers
That's what I was thinking. I think some men might be put off by the difference, compared to current trends, and others would be too intimidated to approach her.
Her fits are such mindsets like she is different and I love it I get so tired of seeing the same thing like I love her you go girl❤
And I am just gonna say: YOU look absolutely gorgeous. The ruffles and frills are chef's kiss. The color theme, oh my heavenly. Please never stop going out like that. As a woman I highly appreciate your outfit.
I screamed " Girl move back, I wanna see the whole outfit" the entire video 😂😂
She wears it like every video soooo you’ll see it
Same. I was like, the makeup is perfect. The hair is fabulous! Please back up so we can see the whole outfit!!!!!
Guuurrrrl, me too! 😂🎉
I think it has to do with how much confidence you give out. This outfit gives me the "she can kick my ass if I breathe too loud in her direction" vibes, just to explain how much confidence there is in it. Well done!
Yeah idk why she calls it male repellent when it’s just intimidatingly beautiful
Too many people have a glass half empty instead of a glass half full mindset and they wonder why they’re so depressed, it’s how these people talk about themselves!
@@rocklee2282 I guess that sometimes, we need to word it in a "this is going to protect me" way in order to gain the confidence to do something or wear certain clothes.
No it just looks like that she gets married. You dont talk to a girl that gets married
You must be really weak because this outfit really doesn't look like she could win a fight against anyone while wearing it.
Men are not scared of her, most men are just done. "Kick your ass if you breathe in her direction" uh huh, not the case. Women that look like her are a dime a dozen.
As someone who dresses differently, i would have no apprehension against approaching you. You have a radiant beauty and wonderful sense of style 👌🏻
Its not that it is repelling, its just that we men dont know how to approach a girl dressed like that without lookin weird and trying to not look like a creep.
Believe me, as a man, I can confidently say that a dressing like that is one of the most atractive things a girl can do
this entire account is bu**sh**
Finally, somebody else says it! I'd love to meet & date a gal that dresses like this on the regular.
@@Vigilante8841 but that outfit gives high maintenance, often times men want to do 50/50 or dont offer to pay for a woman’s beauty treatments. That’s what this outfit is giving.
It’s not about how she is dressed. You would be a creep if she is not attracted to you. 😅
Actually its just because she looks high maintenance and a lain in the ass to deal with.
I am in love with every single aspect of this outfit, omg. It’s like you found the style/aesthetic I keep trying and failing to properly describe.
I call it boho pirate core
You and the outfit are ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS
It kinda looks like a pirate as a Greek goddess
Circe
I was getting Egyptian goddess but she does seriously look like Circe!
And also belly dances.
paid response LOL wow this is sad
@@Ieatz_ Do you mean your response?
Can we talk ab how gorgeous her hair is??
I'm a guy but i'd compliment the hell out of that outfit because it looks like it belongs in dnd.
Yeah.. thats a cosplay of a gypsy cartomancer of sort... She should go a renascance fair.
As a woman I would also never dare to approach an ethereal being like this, I would stay in my corner and gaze at her in amazement.
But this outfit, while reppelling the normies, will attract all the cosplayers, LARPers, roleplayers and a big part of the geeks, male or female... so... do not try it close to a Convention... ^^"
Men are repelled, women will be awestruck 🤩 Seriously, the outfit is gorgeous, your hair is beautiful and your face is lovely! You look like a beautiful gypsy girl! ❤
"gypsy girl" - That screams metric ton of potential trouble if you know a tiniest bit about gypsy culture. Hence "Men are repelled".
Fully agree, "gypsy" is kind of a slur tho so I'd say "Roma" or take another angle
How about asking men in stead of assuming? It's not an outfit that tells men that you want to be laid, if that what's you mean. But men with serious intentions could be attracted, especially since it signals self respect.
Boy repelled not men slow your role girl😂
It doesn't repel men. Also gypsy isn't a slur. I know someone from that time
That outfit is so stunning!!! I love your style and it suits you so well 😍
I am a man, and honestly, it does the opposite of repel (i dont want to sound as a creep, hear me out). I find it interesting and intriguing. It looks amazing! I am a game developer and love concept art. This is straight up a character from my next game :D
Same, I do think it's more of a repellent to guys that don't see women as people with their own personality.
Also, compliments aren't creepy if there aren't any hidden intentions.
@@vinc885women and men alike have hidden intentions. Most women might not sleep with that particular woman but she might just give out compliments to make herself feel better ;)
Yep, I saw this and immediately thought "jokes on you I'm into that shit!" 😂
Same, I was thinking this makes me want to talk to her because she seems unique and interesting.
Guys 😒
If I saw you in public I'd absolutely come tell you how gorgeous your outfit looks.
Yeah, it's not "male repellent" at all
@euso2008
It does act as filter though.
I dress like this on a daily basis (just without heels) and it's true, all you get is lots of compliments, but no inappropriate harassment at ALL
It's so very pretty! And I agree with the introvert coming up to you to compliment you! Would do the same 💯
Single men love casually dressed women. It conveys low maintenance, easy going and simple.
I can see why you would be generally right and I assure you that as a dude, I'm often told the same by my women friend/gf/ex. (Feels more like a human trait rather than being gendered). Imo, I much rather have a gf that rocks many styles and outfits than one dressing comfy/easy-going/same-as-the-others-all-the-time. It's fun, you can dress up together, you get to see her in many shades and lights, it helps spicing things up and so on. 😊
I think it also shows though that she can be cute or attractive still in pretty much anything, without the extra frills and yes, in a low maintenance, chill way.
Disagree. There is nothing better than elegance in a woman.
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Okay this explains so much!!! When i'm at work, men hit on me. Somehow, I'm approachable. But when I dress in my own identity, I might get some glances, but for the most part, I have experienced that men are definitely intimidated or not interested.
As a man i think more woman need to know this, 95% of the time if a guy doesnt approach you, it isnt intinmidation, not in the slightest.
If a guy checking you out doesnt approach its almost always for 1 of 3 things -
1 - he actually just isnt interested in you like that, or wasnt even checking you out in the first place.
2 - as guys, if we approach a woman in just slightley the wrong way, we are now at risk of someone trying to cancel us and call us a creep for showing interest, especially with how social media is.
Or finally 3 - quite possibly they are not single, have you heard the saying "im married, not dead"? People in committed relationships have wandering glances, totally natural, doesnt mean they want to act on it because they are already taken and happy.
This is not meant as a "get over yourself guys arent approaching you" type comment, this is just giving you the honest male perspective.
@@classmst89
For number 2. Don’t lie like that, we all know if a man wants something he going try to get if he can. Men don’t care about being “cancelled” 🙄🙄.
The only ones who do care are the ones who have enough respect to not be like the men that we are talking about😆
@@lilcomment get over yourself 🤣😂 and keep blaming men for your problems lol easier than you ever having accountability huh?
Safe to say number 1 is why people dont approach you 🤣 you and your opinion arent inportant, you should learn that asap
@@lilcommentyeah that's absolutely not true. I am always more aware of how things I say can be interpreted when speaking to women
I'll give you an even simpler explanation: the clothes we wear make people think something about us. Most careers have some kind of basic dress code or uniform to wear. Iit generally choreographs a specific and discernable message about who you are. They are also often gender coded (men wearing slacks, women wearing skirts) and too many jobs basically make it a requirement to wear makeup. Whether it's viscerally attractive or not, in many ways you'll still inadvertently be dressing for the male gaze, and many work cultures have developed standards based on misogyny (women wearing heels, doing their nails, makeup, and hair, on and on etc). When we dress for ourselves and showcase our own identity we are not as familiar and approachable. We often dress for own pleasure, wearing cute stuff that would be considered too childish for work, or soft colors that are too feminine for a work space. We're no longer just a drone, we're a woman, who knows what she's into, pastels and romance novels? Eww. A guy thinks he knows you because he's interacted with other women who have your work style and is familiar with the general way to act. He can ask you about subjects he is more comfortable with, related to career stuff, and thus break the ice more easily. Women also often dress more defensively/ aggressively/ ambitiously for work, giving the appearance that they're strong and cold and practical, blah, blah, blah. Regardless of the exact attire, the point is you're less you in work clothes, just a pretty face and a "uniform". Considering how many men are apparently completely put off by the softer aspects of feminity and only want to go towards the more sexual aspects, it makes sense. I hate the gender divide in our culture.
Here's the thing. As a man that has a thing for witches and women from different time periods. This is a plus.
Bro💀
@@franciscojaviergarcia116 We all have different taste and preferences. What you hate someone probably likes and vice versa.
@@spoopygamer6656 i agree and i don't care what are tour preferences in fact i share your opinión to a certain extent
As a 300 year old time traveler, I share in you sentiments. Obviously a person of good breeding in this century, so rare!
Ma'am with all due respect
Iam oogling right now
I fricking wish I could rock this outfit as hard as you do 😭😭 ur so pretty
That looks like a dress Aphrodite would wear, it’s stunning
She reminds me of Athena in that outfit
Just please don’t say she’s prettier, we know what happened last time someone said there was someone prettier than Aphrodite 😖
@@Ailyn_Is_Me ya that would be bad
@@Ailyn_Is_Me yeah lpl
@@Ailyn_Is_Me i feel as if i shouldnt be here, BUUUUT yes its true, poor greek women, it sucked to be naturally pretty.
As a guy, it's less a "male repellent" and more a case of guys being too intimidated to approach you. If I see you in public, I'm definitely thinking, "She's way out of my league," cause you genuinely look gorgeous.
Tbh as a guy I'd still talk to her if I had a reasonable opportunity. Not even to flirt necessarily but because anyone wearing that is probably an interesting person
@@lukatosic09ditto.
@lukatosic09 interesting enough, that's actually how I met a really good friend of mine. So yeah, I don't really see anything wrong with just talking to someone, even if it's just complimenting their fit
Yeah, that's the whole "repellent" part. It's obviously not "eww gross" type of repellent.
Bruhh men would beat me up if i wear something like that
LOVE. I'm sure you get a lot of female attention in that outfit lmao, women tend to be so much kinder. I've had lots of compliments/conversations about my clothes from women, but I've never been catcalled by a woman!
Fr tho. Even the most assertive lesbians don't cat call. At most, they give you lots of kind attention then go "aww why are are the cute ones taken and straight?!" when they realize it's not going anywhere 😅 they don't take it personally and never threaten our safety like dudes.
Uh huh, then you woke up right?
@@SomeGuy-rm7cryou’re in disbelief that women compliment other women’s outfits?
@@counterscam6547 are yu realy surprised by that? Dude probably thinks we want "HiGh vAluE Men🤪" without realising that "high value" for most uf us is a safe man that is a real partner to us 🙄
Women are not kind at all tf are you talking about 💀
YOU'RE SO PRETTY THOUGH!!!
It’s giving Esmeralda vibes! From the Hunchback of Notre Dame! I’d love to see you do an inspired look from her, like her color scheme. This is so gorgeous!
As a man, I'd definitely tell you how beautiful you look and keep it moving.
You are giving 💖 GODDESS ENERGY 💖 They cannot step because they don't feel worthy.
Agree. Only a prince or duke or similar should approach her.
I would not turn away from you in that out fit. A real man should see you for the beautiful woman you are. No matter what you have on.🎉🎉❤🎉🎉
Men of culture (such as myself) would proceed to invite you to the renaissance festival.
Love it. Keeping the hope alive that sophisticated yet fun men still exist. Can you tell us why other men don't get it?
@@lulunicles2866 because women destroyed chivalry themselves
Maybe because they wanted rights but it doesn't mean they destroyed or ruined it lol @@Xxxfallen_angelxxX
@@Xxxfallen_angelxxX That wasn't the question. And you're obviously not sophisticated or fun, so you're not the one to answer. I'm asking the men who are charismatic leaders not scared, hypocritical victims.
Would you take her home to meet the family dressed like that????
My guess is probably not. There's a time and place for everything.
The renn fest is perfect for those clothes, and that is exactly where I go dressed like that, but I think a dinner date to a nice upscale restaurant and people will think what's wrong with her. She looks like an old fashioned harlot...not a good look when you need to be classy.
One of my favorite things about being a slightly older now, is that men never hit on me or harass me any more. And doctors actually listen to me and take me seriously now too. I am 40 now. I give off a very neutral energy when I am out in public, or working and interacting with men, and they give the same very neutral energy back to me (which is my goal). However I cannot tell you how much I wish I had your confidence, and comfort being yourself.
"dress like you don't belong in this era ' gets me, it works btw and thanks
Nope! That would attract me way more than everything else you mentioned lol. And definitely not a “witch” look.. more like a modern day belly dancer 😍😆
I honestly really like the outfit and the hair complements it. If I saw you passing by, I'd probably wanna compliment you but not know how to approach you without being awkward. Honestly, it's giving me the inspiration to draw something rn so ty :D
I haven't even watched the video but you've got me in a chokehold. You are the definition of stunning. Thank you for your time.
HELP WAIT That's literally one of the prettiest outfits I've ever seen... Or do I just have really bad style?? 😭😭🙏
Not enough budget?
@@lisanguyen6324 Yes I am poor asf unfortunately 😩
@@lisanguyen6324why bring up budget?
It's 100% NOT supposed to be ugly, rather many people in the comments said that it comes across as confident in a way that predatory men don't feel comfortable trying to fuck with :3
No, its a good outfit, most people with taste would agree on that
That is actually so cute I love it
The repelent:
get so gorgeous that we can't think of a compliment good enough for you and just can't approach at all
That outfit is actually so gorgeous
As a man, I don’t think I’ve seen more stunning outfit in the 21st century… TF is wrong with the men interacting with they don’t see that.
It's not repellant, the men are just too shy and intimidated to talk to someone this beautiful in an outfit this authentic and stunning
Men treat respectable looking women with respect "it doesn't matter what I wear, I'll get hit o. Anyway" is proven nonsense...
Go to more Renaissance fairs, people wear great fantasy outfits
Clearly, the men she's encountering are not men of culture 😂
You are literally gorgeous
Male repellant: *check*
Little girl hero: *check*
Looking amazing: "check"
Not the most effective repellant, granted. I'd like to think I'd approach _just_ to point out how badass that fit is.
Not repellent at all. Total bs
@@commodorejones8044 youll survive this ;) when i look more "extreme" men tend to leave me be.
@@asmrlistner45 youll survive. there there.
Today’s kids are weird. There is nothing repellent about this outfit.
The boots in the end were the final statement. I'm convinced
What are you talking about ma’am, that outfit is gorgeous
But you look SO PRETTY!!