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I don’t really care if you’re a traditional women or not, as long as you’re content with where you are at this point I’m good. HOWEVER, why do so many traditional men want traditional women to do traditional things (cooking,cleaning, taking care of the kids, etc), yet want her to get a job even thought that’s untraditional???? Make it make sense.
Actually I think we should all critically examine why women feel such pressure to be traditional wives, just because something makes you "feel good" does not mean it is not worthy of critique or empowering. A woman's, or anyone else affected by misogyny, choice does not exist in a vacuum. A lot of it patriarchal conditioning.
@@rinkyrosey9689thank you!
@@rinkyrosey9689it could be, though it could also be the dynamic that’s appealing for some. i can’t speak for women but tbh having one partner do the domestic things and having the other provide for the family monetarily doesn’t sound like a bad idea, as long as both partners are happy i don’t really see a problem with it. if a man wants to do the domestic role and if a woman wants to be the provider i also see nothing wrong with that, though i could see patriarchal conditioning being a part of it
These days, most parents can't afford to have one parent stay home while the other works.... not in this shitty economy. My husband and I are extremely lucky to be able to have me stay home, although I would've rather stayed home while our kids were young than now... but it works out. When I go back to work, he can finally stay home, and he'll do all the housework, chores, cooking, cleaning, etc. When we both worked, we both took half the housework, chores, and cooking.... I wasn't going to do it all after working a 12-hour shift. F that noise.
What they’re really saying by that is their traditional wife is somebody who does everything for them, including provide, regardless of their contribution
people saw women being happy and being their own people without being indoctrinated and were like “omg bring back sexism“
nah fr
Honestly, this guy who wasn’t even raised traditional wanted me to be his wife, have children and stay home for 18 years…. I might as well be dead 😂😂
@Enriquez2222 why do you say that? When my kids were very little, I worked all the time and worked very long hours. My hubby and I missed a ton of their milestones. We saved and saved until our boys got to be teenagers, and I figured I could stay home and be fine. I miss the medical field, but being with my boys is all that matters to me. Trust me, my husband is counting down the days until I go back to work so he can stay home and I'll pick up the slack.
@@CBaller2020My mom was there for my milestones and it meant nothing 😂
She’s not even my fav parent of the 3
@@CBaller2020if your kids are teenagers why would you working a 9-5 (you’re in an exception bcuz of your field and you knew the cons when you joined just like I did)? Highschoolers are at school 7-3 or 8-4, you miss 1 hour with them for 5 days of the week😂
the tradwife thing is like super common in eastern countries and there would be no problem if the men weren't so shitty. It's a cultural thing by now and its expected of all women and if you were to slightly differ they hit you with the- omg what will people say and use it as a way to control you.
women seeking jobs and a stable career is slowly normalising, but they're still expecting them to be baby machines and take care of the house like the guy in the messages.
As an AFAB person it is so fucking frustrating because its literally a whole culture thing and it feels suffocating. I don't want to do any of that but there's the societal pressure and pressure from your family and it fucking sucks.
thankfully tho i think we will see change in this very soon. i completely understand where you're coming from as i come from the very same culture you're on about but my sisters never went down this route thankfully! but i will admit i think change in these modern times is coming and we wont see the women basically being baby carriers and acc having their own careers and such, as i've seen many women in my age group and even older of my background doing their own thing and enjoying and getting on with life, it's honestly so cool to see! so dw the change will be coming very soon don't let the pressure of society get to you as remember you only have one life, don't waste it on losers with backward opinions hope that helps!
i’m not aromantic necessarily but the fact that people put so much importance on romance and sex and prioritize it over like… everything is confusing to me
Oof I'm Ace no interest in sex and questioning aro Don't understand why people want to have a bunch of kids and a partner so damn bad. Like think by yourself. You can have everything you with no one interfering. If You get yourself a decent front group. You can have fun with them. The 12 and a 1/2 cats is far too much too is more than enough anymore, and your house will reek.
@anbellfox good for you but some people really want romantic relationships and prefer them to platonic relationships. Theyre more intimate for me personally, in a way i can't be intimate with a friend. and theres nothing wrong withe either
If I may give my two cents real quick:
I have Level 2 Autism and I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and I got those disorders from my parents who didn’t believe in mental health (if you’re black or a POC you know what I mean).
Therefore, I don’t want kids. Which makes marriage easier!
Now I don’t hate kids, that’s a big misconception that people make about childfree people. I love kids and babies! I just cannot have them due to my situation, it wouldn’t be fair to my future kids if they have my anxiety. I would love to still be apart of the village that raises a child like a auntie or a godmother.
Therefore, whether you choose the tradwife lifestyle or career lifestyle, it’ll be easier with no kids of your own. It’s just you and your spouse, no one else, y’know? Plus pregnancy scares me to hell and back so yeah.
TLDR; I believe that I can get behind a tradwife lifestyle with my future spouse if no kids are involved.
the dude saying shes a gold digger is so backwards because she didnt say its just for herself, its for the family theyd probably start 😭💀
so males use all tools open to them to keep a woman for sex or retain or get his access to it for the future so kids are tools not something he cares about it's a rare male whose brain actually changes when he learns he's a father to prioritize & care for his kids if he's like the bulk of males his brain doesn't change and those kids are tools not human just like the baby mamma is also not human to him but his hit for his sex junkism.
And the kick is that for people (usually men, not gonna lie) who dream of this idealized "traditional" lifestyle always have some way of putting down all the work the wife does. Their work is some how always more taxing and important and this woman who just "stays at home all day" (is taking care of the kids, house, and also works a job) could never understand that.
Like, the amount of times ive seen older men act like no one has ever worked harder than them while simultaneously putting their wives work down us insane
"Feminists don't value motherhood!" My brother in christ, neither do your traditional men!
ngl being single forever and having 12 and a half cats sounds like exactly what i want (also love ur vids)
are you a fellow aromantic?
Honestly a dream,
Many of the men I’ve dated left me questioning my sexuality. Being single is so much easier
same tbh
I'd say 2 cats is all that's necessary, as you'd need a lot of litter boxes and as they got older Your house will become low litter box if you're not careful.
Men saying shit then getting mad at her for behaving like you wanted it and not being 400 things at once
They dead ass saying words then not understanding them
i feel like if you like being a stay at home mum/partner and it makes you happy, sure do what you want. if you feel like being a wife/mum/ partner is your "role/ calling as woman" lowkey imo that's kinda weird but it's your life. the problem only starts when you shame other women for their choices or tell little girls they need to live that way ('traditionally') because of the strong likelihood of getting into an abusive situation and also because it's shitty.
tdlr: do what you want, don't force other people to live the life you choose.
preach!! i wish more people would see this comment, facts on facts man
it's like the difference between a "traditional marriage" and a heterosexual 24/7 dom/sub setup. In a 24/7 bdsm relationship you have a previously agreed upon way out anytime you need a break as well as clearly outlined boundaries, "traditional marriage" types want it to be your only option with no way out and no way to say no to anything
@@molluscumlorei kinda disagree with this as a kinkster who also wants a traditional marriage my goal is not to be controlled 24/7 traditionally in most cultures outside of the west the woman hold the money it’s been this way for my parents for 20 years my mom held the money and took care of domestic labor but my dad also picked up slack and hired outside help for the family often my mother also was a SAHM and he’s not controlling over her she has the business degree they treat the marriage as the business contract it’s always been designed to be since the beginning of time. traditional marriages are about elevating your family’s status by reducing the home maintenance of other family members so they can excel career wise. It’s divorced from kink entirely, however there are emotionally abusive and financially abusive partners out there but they should NEVER be compared to bdsm dynamic lifestyles. and that’s coming from someone who’s had many dynamics and has been engaged (called it off cause my ex was abusive) and has also seen my parents make it work and my grandparents make it work
@@molluscumlore+ most actually traditional marriages you do get breaks my dad regularly sends my mom on vacation he regularly goes on trips himself we have several stories to separate and self isolate if necessary i just think your theory lacks nuance it works if you know what you’re getting into
@@princess4509 I was only speaking on the trend of "traditional marriage" discussed in this video, which is a very 50's american idea of traditional marriage. I can't speak on tradition in other cultures. This kind of traditional american marriage gets compared to kink a lot because it is VERY reliant on treating the man as the god of the household. He gets what he wants no questions asked, which often ends up looking a lot like a kink thing. But the key difference is that in a kink setup there is still choice to be had, it's not because you think you'll burn in hell if you leave.
What these guys who preach about wanting things to “be like the old days/50s” is that if you had a wife back then and you weren’t treating her right, she was cheating on you with the milk man 😭
I guess I'd be considered a traditional wife. My husband works, I stay home with our 20 year old son who is autistic and developmentally delayed. I clean, cook, and make sure the house is clean.
Call me old-fashioned, but I enjoyed staying home when the kids were younger.
My Mom also never worked and took care of the 4 of us while my Dad worked.
Don't get it twisted. I am a CRNA and plan on going back to work, but it won't be for a while.
do whatever works for you and your family! i wish you all the best :)
I hope it goes well for you, could you comment when you get the job? ☺️
@manwhoismissingtwotoenails4811 hi, I don't plan on going back to work for a while.... probably another year or so. I'm a Certified Registered Nurse of anesthesia, and luckily, the medical field is always in need. I'm letting my husband take care of us, which he doesn't mind.
@WURLDSTAR thank you so much, and right back attcha! Merry Christmas!
There's nothing wrong with that as long as there's no abuse going on, do what makes you happy. When people complain about tradwives they're referring to the alt-right weirdos with internalized misogyny
Women who are unsupportive of independent women and gender equity give me such a big ick (saying this as a female presenting person).
love men wanting a tradwife but not wanting to b the provider part of the tradhusband
i've seen enough stepford wives to understand that trope of the traditional is like so scary as well lol! i really don't understand what ppl find amazing of this trope it just encourages abuse and indoctrination in my eyes and just gives me creepy af vibes lol!
i understand the appeal of the good aspects but the potential harm makes it less appealing for me lol. i suppose it could work if you choose the right partner!
@@WURLDSTAR yhhh i completely get where you're coming from, don't get me wrong if a woman wants to go for that then fair play, but i just think the trad women archetype is really uncomforting for me idk i just find it as a conformist and a tactic of brainwashing bc lets be honest when it was originally conceited in like the 50s it was basically used to indoctrinate and force women to basically be tied down to one thing and nothing else basically!
It’s hilarious that they want women to be traditional wives as well as breadwinners bc it’s a different time but they can’t accommodate for the different time for their partner💀
Never really got the “trad wife” thing tbh
Ur not supposed to, a wife can be whatever the hell she wants wether y’all judge her or not 💀
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my thing is how idgaf abt what someone chooses to be, trad wife, girl boss wife, wtv. but it becomes a problem when ppl start slandering and discrediting the other. like cmon bottom line having kids is hard 😭 being in relationships can be hard so why put others down.
“obviously he needa get his money up” literally
These people are so brainwashed from reddit/ 4chan threads that it's kinda sad, they won't actually go talk to people so their expectations for women and relationships are stupid.
Okay can I just say you describing the american dream family is my family? Like... exactly? I am one of two siblings, my mom used to be stay at home while my dad was off working for a company no one knows about.
And we lived, and still live, in the suburbs of Pennsylvania.
Did you peak into my house and say "yes. I'm making a video about this exact family."? XD
did you ever have a golden retriever named Rocket
@@WURLDSTAR Sadly no, but I did have a dog. A chihuahua terrier mix. TwT
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The TikTok of the "trad woman spotting other trad woman" (all in quotes because wtf even is that statement?) s h o o k me. I had a roommate years ago who made me feel lesser for having a full time job, gaming with my guy friends, and literally BURPING IN MY OWN HOUSE 😭
I'm literally a stay-at-home mom now, and could never judge another woman for not choosing the same lifestyle. And I'm especially not going to judge other women for being comfortable with themselves.
world is legit so underrated. she’s so funny.
"you just a maid and nanny that can pay your bills" wrong he wants a mommy and to become a child again. GIRL RUN THIS IS CRITICAL MASS MOMMY ISSUES
Honestly id like to be a traditional wife or whatever they call it , i dont wanna call it names cause it doesnt feel right , everyone has their own way expressing themselvs in relationships, and as long as your happy you should do what you think is best , what i personally would like is to get a loving husband , who will do his work as best as he can to support me and the kids , and i can also help him with whatver he wants as much as i can , and i want to cook ,clean , take care of our kids , and when he comes back home maybe ask him to do somethings to help me as well with chores as much as he can cause i know working now has gotten harder than before , split things and help each other while doing our own things , that sounds perfect for me , as much as that also sounds like a perfect fantasy its still a nice thought in my opinion.
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Why are all this woman constantly comparing themselves to career woman. It's like the only way for them to be valued is by breaking down other woman.
As an asexual person I appreciate you shouting out being single and happy 🥹🥹 I need to remember that’s possible when relationships and marriage are treated as something that’s just supposed to happen in life
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im watching this at 2am and that goddamn bonny jumpscare scared the shit out of me bc i was half awake
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There is a really good Shanspere video on this topic. Your videa was pretty great though, like this is just having any man in a relationship do jacksh*t.
1:49 LMFAO
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10:42 me to my cat when hes staring at me too long
It's kind of a testament to how well 1950s advertising worked, that it still works now in terms of selling the whole lifestyle
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not you describing the entire plot of Boy Meets World in the first minute of the video
males want what the rich male of the Victorian era had they've wanted this for like 200 years now yet since the 1940s males were not being the rich male in their situations and couldn't understand why their slave I mean wife was unhappy and then he left her cuz he wanted another woman and couldn't get divorced cuz some other man made divorce very difficult to illegal.
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Out of pocket; But the intro of your video. Is that The song, “ Using You “ by Mars Argo?! I could’ve sworn I heard that tune before 🎶
But yes. The whole traditional thing confuses me. Because traditional guys want their partner to cook/clean/take care of the kids. But also wants them to get a job?! We can’t be two places at once 😵💫
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I’m a man but being a trad wife sounds like a rad life. New dream job 👍🏻
"Men these days" i never said any of this
To be fair I think the idea of a traditional family gets looped into the corniness of how the US used to look, especially when we think of old sitcoms that are obviously racist and or sexist depending on the time they were running. But you gotta think about every other place in the world where the traditional family ideal is a working father, a housewife mother and a child of each gender. (like you said, balance lol.) I think of a dad who is usually tired but wise from working to support, a mom who is tough yet loving from dealing with tedious kids, and a child for each of them to have their pros and cons with raising. Growing up with single parents you always miss out on one or the other. Sometimes a topic is better to talk to mom about or vice versa. There’s also the variety of perspective with the traditional gender role households. With that you can ask the same question to each parent and get a different response, on from the feminine and one from the masculine. Anywho I think it’s really common for ideas to get blown up online and get lost in the extremism. I think some sexist ass people on both sides made the whole idea of gender roles and or traditional relationships seem all messed up. It really just comes down to men embracing being masculine and women embracing being feminine and sometimes there are duties that fit those roles better than one another. Love the energy you put into your videos and I think you’ve got some really creative points of view. But ngl I did kind of cringe at your idea of a traditional relationship / family being some corny PA family, should look into how other countries raise their kids / manage their families it’s quite the norm
what if I want them extinct? I am the leading cause of traditional women dying (THIS IS A JOKE DONT GET IT TWISTED)
What’s wrong with traditional women, though? Most of them are women who WANT to have kids and WANT to take care of the house. Those who do not want to lead a traditional life style are allowed and should be applauded for getting divorces and leading the life style they want.
@@P0tat0ssh0uldb3blu3 I was joking.
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