Ryan pulled a fast one. She shouldn’t have been expected to pay for his friends. His friends should have paid their own way. A couple of moochers! She DIDN’T invite them! He shouldn’t have invited them in the first place. What a jerk. You’re better off without him. Definitely not the a-hole. Break up NOW.
OP was being used. Dump the loser that thinks that kind of behavior is acceptable without asking OP prior to dinner. She was deliberately blindsided on purpose. If you invite yourselves you will pay for yourselves.
I have to wonder how this Ryan was raised. What a mooch! OP is lucky this happened when it did, before they were so seriously involved lawyers would need to be involved to get her out of it. His friends are no better either. Is this the current generation? That's scary.
Are these people five? I mean, they must be since they are acting like elementary school infants. An adult acting like this over a birthday is pathetic. These people clearly have no manners and the ex has no spine. He's just a wimp.
Don't apologize to Ryan and why isn't he your ex-boyfriend? He couldn't say no to his free loading friends and expected his girlfriend to cheerfully pay their expensive meals.
The boyfriend erred. HE was invited to a dinner. He was not told, "please bring your best friend and his girlfriend." It's stupid to assume that an invitation is for anyone other than whom the invitation is given to. The boyfriend invited his friends; if anything, then the boyfriend should pay. The other couple did NOT hear the invitation from the actual host. If they want to be offended, then it should be at themselves and at Ryan. All of them had overstepped.
Op should’ve written something about beggars who invite themselves to other people’s dinner and then get mad when they’re expected to pay and instead, rely on the birthday celebrant to pay for them.
Ryan's the kind of guy who would tell his fiancee that if she wants a ring, she'd have to buy it herself, then after the breakup, he'd demand the ring back, even though she paid for it.
What leeches Ryan and his friends are! 😮 Jeepers! Ordering all the expensive items on the menu. If I'm treated to a meal I take note of what the one footing the bill orders and choose something similar or less in price. Good for OP for not caving
You are not the asshole, he is. He should not of invited other people to an event you paid for. Leave him, he isn’t worth it. You are dodging a bullet.
She tried to apologize? FOR WHAT? OMFG… sometimes I’m so happy that I can be such a huge a-hole it makes people uncomfortable. That man would’ve been afraid to even bring extra people and expect me to pay.
Wait, why would op try contacting that pos, or even apologize? She knows what he did was wrong and he did that on purpose. The bad treatment would’ve been identical even if she had paid cause he stopped loving her before he decided to screw her over by inviting those two goofs. The tart had no business making her comment when she purposely ordered like a bloody pig yet didn’t offer a dollar towards the meal. She was in on the meal thieving and enjoyed every moment. I’ll never understand these cruel people but then again I’m not a douchebag
Ryan pulled a fast one. She shouldn’t have been expected to pay for his friends. His friends should have paid their own way. A couple of moochers! She DIDN’T invite them! He shouldn’t have invited them in the first place. What a jerk. You’re better off without him. Definitely not the a-hole. Break up NOW.
OP was being used. Dump the loser that thinks that kind of behavior is acceptable without asking OP prior to dinner. She was deliberately blindsided on purpose. If you invite yourselves you will pay for yourselves.
Ryan is now your EX-boyfriend.
You didn't do anything wrong.
Count your blessings! U ARE NOT MARRIED to this SLUG! Don't walk away RUN!
She's lucky he didn't show up with 6 people instead of just 2. Inconsiderate and entitled, massive red flag.
I have to wonder how this Ryan was raised. What a mooch! OP is lucky this happened when it did, before they were so seriously involved lawyers would need to be involved to get her out of it. His friends are no better either. Is this the current generation? That's scary.
Are these people five? I mean, they must be since they are acting like elementary school infants. An adult acting like this over a birthday is pathetic. These people clearly have no manners and the ex has no spine. He's just a wimp.
Sir Ryan she didn't mess up your BD u did, by inviting people she didn't know or were coming, DUMB DUMB
RYAN PLANED TO SET YOU UP ! QUESTIONING YOURSELF IS EXACTLY WHY HE HAS NO RESPECT FOR YOU
Don't apologize to Ryan and why isn't he your ex-boyfriend? He couldn't say no to his free loading friends and expected his girlfriend to cheerfully pay their expensive meals.
BOYFRIEND. INVITE THEM ! SO BOYFRIEND IS THE ONE THAT SHOULD HAVE PAID FOR THEM
So glad OP didn't cave. Nothing reveals a jerk's true colours like a shiny spine. So she doesn't waste any more time on this loser.
The boyfriend erred. HE was invited to a dinner. He was not told, "please bring your best friend and his girlfriend." It's stupid to assume that an invitation is for anyone other than whom the invitation is given to.
The boyfriend invited his friends; if anything, then the boyfriend should pay. The other couple did NOT hear the invitation from the actual host. If they want to be offended, then it should be at themselves and at Ryan. All of them had overstepped.
Dump him. That was so disrespectful
NOBODY IN THEIR. RIGHT MIND ! WOULD HAVE EXPECTED YOU TO PAY 💰 FOR THEM! NOBODY ! BOYFRIEND IS JUST A LEACH
Op should’ve written something about beggars who invite themselves to other people’s dinner and then get mad when they’re expected to pay and instead, rely on the birthday celebrant to pay for them.
Dump the guy. He would expect you to fund his entire life if you stayed with him and you would be miserable
At least you found out know before he put a ring on your finger.
Ryan's the kind of guy who would tell his fiancee that if she wants a ring, she'd have to buy it herself, then after the breakup, he'd demand the ring back, even though she paid for it.
@ladyv5655 🤣 you are probably right! 😂
What leeches Ryan and his friends are! 😮
Jeepers! Ordering all the expensive items on the menu. If I'm treated to a meal I take note of what the one footing the bill orders and choose something similar or less in price.
Good for OP for not caving
You are not the asshole, he is. He should not of invited other people to an event you paid for. Leave him, he isn’t worth it. You are dodging a bullet.
Ryan is a narcissist.. he is training you to take his control ..the abuse is just starting
Dump that guy. Abnoxious af
Yes, you should have paid for them and then every future dinner that you ever had out with anybody, you would be required to pay. (sarcasm)
Nah they invited themselves OP didn’t invite them OP did right so next time Matt & girlfriend won’t invite themselves ito private dinner
@pandamoon8067 did you read the (SARCASM) part
She tried to apologize? FOR WHAT? OMFG… sometimes I’m so happy that I can be such a huge a-hole it makes people uncomfortable. That man would’ve been afraid to even bring extra people and expect me to pay.
A lot of these situations wouldn't be so hard if the OP just had a backbone
CHANCE ?? FOR WHAT ?? TO STICK AROUND 4. YOU 2. REMBUSE. HIM
There's always a Sarah 🦋
PEOPLE DIDNT GO OUT OF THE WAY 4. HIM ! BECAUSE HE DIDNT GO OUT OF THE WAY 4. OTHER PEOPLE
BOYFRIEND &. HIS FAMILY WERENT USED TO BEING INVITED TO BIRTHDAY 🎂. DINNERS AT RESTAURANTS
Clickbait. If not, get a spine and walk away. Then get therapy.
Wait, why would op try contacting that pos, or even apologize? She knows what he did was wrong and he did that on purpose. The bad treatment would’ve been identical even if she had paid cause he stopped loving her before he decided to screw her over by inviting those two goofs. The tart had no business making her comment when she purposely ordered like a bloody pig yet didn’t offer a dollar towards the meal. She was in on the meal thieving and enjoyed every moment. I’ll never understand these cruel people but then again I’m not a douchebag