Now I understand why I would keep repeating the same situations with people and end up being used! I also learned to ask more questions from them and to take time to give an answer. I feel like my heart chakra is blown open and I have way too much empathy, to the point of feeling a deep sadness for suffering on earth. I want so much to hide away from everyone just so I can be at peace. Thank you Anita for all you are doing.🙏🙏🙏🦋🐘🍊✌💜
This is actually NanMunkholm. Whenever people hurt me, I question my behavior… what I did wrong. I’m tired of that reaction. No more allowing unkindness. Need to love and respect ourselves.
Great talk Anita. I can relate. I have a sister who always acted like a bully. I recently cleared out my closet and came across some printed photos of my family from 30 years ago. About 10 photos were in consecutive order, the first picture showed me smiling, the second photo was my sister deliberately mocking and causing me pain, the next picture was me looking harmed and miserable, the next picture after that was her with a very happy and vindictive expression on her face because she was able to cause such pain to me. If I brought a friend over, she would immediately start making fun of them until they cried and left in tears from her bullying. This type of family leads to the inability to trust in general. I’ve moved across the country over 25 years ago and live very independently. Trust issues are always there. Will be changing my will to charitable giving only. I Believe I’m an empath. I usually can tune in and discern, agree it’s always better to mull things over and Never be pressured into a fast decision. When you think it over, crystal clarity will come. And there’s always a better option.
My sister is a narcissist too but she was covert about it and my Parents never knew because we shared a bedroom until I was 13. I am now 73 and until recently was still giving her ‘the benefit of the doubt’. It took overhearing a conversation she was having with her daughter in law saying she was going to lie to me and then destroying my youngest son’s character to finally make me accept she is never going to change. Like you say Anita I always responded to her pain and incredible low self esteem, always trying to help her feel better about herself. Not anymore. I have had 2 marriages and have now been single for 24 years. Thank you for your advice Anita it is very helpful. ❤
As an Empath awakening, I recently texted a “friend” of over 20 years with narcissistic behaviors and I am barely now seeing his abuse… he hit on me even though he is married with someone I know well, I even went to their wedding. I asked for time to think about it and after a month I responded in a very nonpallatable way but truthfully and transparently about our long term abusive friendship that now he wanted to turn into a romance as if I would be interested and wouldn’t be able to see clearly through him. I may have burnt the bridge but it is a good riddance given the record. Awakening to being an empath has included letting of relationships go as I realize many of them were narcissistic people in my life.
I have struggled in all relationships and recently realised i am with people that dont even want me to be happy. I have been hermitting for awhile! I find relationships so difficult!
That's why Anita always says it is important to be aware of our atmosphere. She calls it her 'marinade'. What energy do we surround ourselves with? Is there any way to be around some other people that can help balance the energetic marinade that might not feel so good to us! Plus in this video she tells us: Six points for Empaths who are having trouble finding a partner: (1) get to know and love yourself (2) be aware that you are an empath (3) be cautious about online dating (4) find people organically (5) don't make physical appearance your highest priority (6) don't rush into a relationship
@@michfromteamanita5495 I have been single for years. My mum has recently died that had dementia which was incredibly difficult and took alot of my energy. Just getting to know myself again.
As an empath who hit rock bottom and had kundalini awakening long time ago, even though I was healed I had to learn to love myself. Your course on self love helped me almost 8-9 years ago. Even now, I posted on empath and narcissist on my social media as Ive been dealing with a narcissist whole life without knowing I was being manipulated. Like you, I see the soul and energy not their intentions. I opened TH-cam for comfort and your video was right there on the top. You have always given me answers and comfort virtually through your work, Anitha. This is my first comment even though I’ve been admiring you for more than 12 years. Thank you ❤
Im an empath. Not a full blown one tho. Yes I agree on everything Anita says, its also very challenging to make friends as a woman. But Im one who cuts people off right away if I get an ounce of feeling that they're mistreating me. I learned that the hard way. I was a people pleaser before but Im now liberated from that role. I've also acquired the ability to snap back and to see through BS. I didnt have that before. Life teaches you what you NEED to learn. For me, it was to pay attention. Again, still working on these traits as they are a survival mechanism that we empaths should to learn.
Love Anita, the Sanctuary, and her messages! Did want to mention that her definition of an empath is more restrictive than that used by others (e.g. Judith Ortloff) so you may want to read different definitions. And, I have know full-blown empaths that deliberately hurt people (they were suffering and striking out at others) - probably Anita M. is not able to conceive this, since she would not do it, but this does happen.
This was such an empowering video for me. I am an empath and my older brother is a narcissist. I am facing challenges as he is prodding me for money, related to the inheritance of my late father.
I had to set a boundary, but was able to do it in a kind way. I'm still surprised at how this action has benefited me. I realized that I got used to passive-aggressive behavior and sarcasm. I don't have to apologize for who I am.
Hi Anita, I am 33 and just about a year ago I learned that I am an empath. I was a people pleaser my whole life and after my spiritual awakening I left all of my friendships. I never felt seen in those relationships and they always underestimated me. I am becoming more sensitive and I'm having a hard time with social meetings and encounters with people, I get extremely nervous, shy, and anxious, and the worst of all, I blush even if I just have to talk to someone. I have been like that my whole life which has affected my self esteem and made me want to hide from the world. I am also learning to say no and have been setting boundaries. Sometimes it feels easier to be alone but I'm craving conection after losing all of my friendships. I am learning to be patient in the process ❤ Thank you for this video ❤
Thank you for this 🙏. I thought all these years there was something wrong with me. I wish you were available so that I could have heard this when I was younger.
Wow TY for this helpful video. Anita’s loving energy is so soothing at very rough times & brings such comfort & understanding. While grieving the loss of my father, I haven’t been able to fathom how my partner could treat me so harshly in spurts, without seeming to care of the effects, + allowing me to continue supporting him. My heart is so wrung out & depleted. Your description of the guy in Hong Kong from long ago sadly lined up to a T, but helped with clarity. Thank u for your beautiful work. I would love to see u in person❤
Empaths are used to being on the other side, where no one can lie. I had to accept that on this side was lies and darkness, that these things are part of people here. I haven't gotten over that yet because I see all the suffering in the world that humanity is unconsciously choosing. None of it had to be like this. Dr Ramani has taught me a lot about how to deal with selfish people. Selfish people are attracted to empaths, we are their meal ticket, emotionally. Anita, I would love to see you and Dr. Ramani talk sometime. It might take some conversations to figure out how to bring your different spheres together, but I think a lot of good would come out of it
I love your ‘lives’ and what you share. It is sad but true that narcissists are drawn to empaths and know how to take advantage of us. And they start with love bombing us so our discernment is disabled.
I am HIGHLY Empathic, we have so much in common. Thank you for sharing, I can relate on so many levels. It feels good to knowthat I am not alone on this journey.
I was feeling regret over repeatedly trusting too easily. Yep, it’s difficult when people don’t feel comfortable. I also don’t want to be the recipient of obligatory actions. I dated so many narcissists on dating apps. Ugh….I was just thinking it would be better to meet in person. I too, see beyond the person’s intentions.
Thank you Anita for that very inspiring message about empathy. I am a very full blown empath I feel like you disarmament impaired. I have 2 daughters and they are both narcissistic which has made it very difficult as I don't have any relationship with them anymore due to me having no choice but to say no more as my health was falling as a result of stress. It's a tough one Please do more talks about empathy on tube 🙏 I love you and read all your books and watched all your videos which all helped me so much ❤️ with heartfelt gratitude Angela ❤
Being empathetic...I can say i rely on my inner being or intuitive feelings more than external feelings. If i feel uneasy about someone or something that's being presented to me, I remove myself or say no.. I allow my frequency to be higher than a manipulator. They must match my frequency rather than i match theirs.
This video is so insightful and helpful to me in this stage of my life. Your wisdom always resonates and has truly made a difference in my life. Thank you for all you do and share, Anita!
This is so helpful! Everyone has aspects that are underdeveloped, and this really helps explain my relationship history. I am an empath, and when I was younger, I got into a series of relationships that went bad. When we got together, I felt their pain from trauma and I rushed in, thinking I could love them out of it. I never had a truly healthy and mutually satisfying relationship until I met my husband. We were friends first and he did not fit the pattern. He loved my empathic nature and protected me, like Danny does! Sadly, I was widowed, and 7 years later I reverted to my old pattern and got together with a someone who had trauma and ended up gaslighting me, etc. Still, I wanted to help him and kept trying to fix things. We have now broken up and I hope I make better choices in the future. Thank you for these pointers, Anita!
Thank you Anita for expressing this weakness which is so common in empaths. This has helped me very much to ackowledge my feelings better and I appreciate your frankness very much !!! ❤
Love this ❤. I have been following you since 2014. Your videos helped me a lot as I am a “serious” empath and I could relate a lot to what you said in this video.
Exactly!!! I have the exact same problem: not seeing the (intent of) manipulation but the desperation and insecurity behind it! And I always, always only see it afterwards - when it's kind of too late already. I've tried so hard to fix it but it just won't change and I've beaten myself up over it so badly. I always felt so blind, as if everybody naturally sees somenthing that I just don't.
Thank you so much, Anita. This is really helpful for me. I’ve been single many years but I’m very resistant to going on a dating site even though I think I should; I can’t seem to bring myself to do it. I understand a bit more why now. ❤️🙏⭐️❤️
Anita So glad I found you I have been so careful not looking at other empath videos- felt I might be led down a path with that particular persons agenda Feel safe with you and yours A million thanks for the discernment ideas So grateful Will watch and follow you So grateful Owning myself Was going to shut the door on all But I love and will be kind but not get taken advantage of Will follow You are great Have subscribed!! Best Kerry
Hi Anitaji, I'm Elliot Coutinho, Age now, 40 I got multiple sclerosis at 25 reason my own self destroyed myself I'm guilt but now on wheelchair but it's a blessing, i learnt pranic healing and cured 8 if i would have been fully fit i wouldn't have recognized my power.. So I'm grateful.. I want to know from other side if i would be fit so shall i cure more people.. Thank you🙏❤❤
Great share Anita. Question - what about an empath that also has narcissistic tendencies and other toxic behaviors. Hard to deal with. Any suggestion appreciated.😊
Hi, Anita. I've been following you for a few years now, and it seems like I can feel the presence of my higher self only when I'm listening to you, which makes me feel very relieved and grateful. I've always had a question. I get almost full marks when I take your empath test, but I don't think I'm as good as you. I recently watched this video about guide to finding a partner for empaths, and when I heard that partners who are with empaths are happy, and that empaths don't hurt others, I felt insecure. Rather, I thought that the person who is with me will be unhappy. I was raised by a narcissist mother, and I feel like my inner world is broken. I can't find a counselor I can rely on, so I'm trying to heal myself by reading books, but after searching, I thought I might be a "dark empath." I want to believe in the existence of my higher self, which I've felt watching Anita's videos for the past few years, and the wisdom and kindness within myself, but if I was a dark empath, not an empath, was that a lie to make myself feel better? I think there is clearly a cold-hearted side to me. That's something I don't get from you. I've felt guilty, thinking that I'm a bad person compared to Anita, and I've often struggled with this. Ever since I was little, my mother would tell me many times that I have no heart, and it hurt me. I thought that if I could heal that, the way would open up, so I worked hard to heal myself. But now I'm doubting whether that was true. I don't know what to believe. And how should I live my life from now on? Do you have any advice? If you sense something dark in my messages, please don't respond. I'm not confident. I suspect that maybe I'm a bad person. I don't want to hurt you. You're a wonderful person, and I love you. Because I'm so grateful for you. I want you to change the world even more. Anyway, I'll keep following you. Thank you always.
I'm sorry for making such a rash comment earlier. I think I'm going to follow my higher self, heal myself, and move forward believing in myself. I've been able to change my mind thanks to watching your videos. Maybe one day I'll be able to solve the mystery of my doubts, but even if not, I should be able to choose the direction I want to go in regardless of my circumstances. I was overwhelmed with anxiety and became upset, so I ended up consulting Anita, the person I trust the most. I'm always grateful to you, so I'm sorry for suddenly venting my anxiety to you. Thank you so much for everything💕🙏
Your message really touched my heart. You are not a dark empath - it's clear from your words you care deeply! You are extremely self aware, and someone who truly is dark or not a good person would not care as much as you do. You just believe that you are a dark empath, and you believe that you are not a good person because that's how you've been conditioned. Please know that it's not true! I can see that you are caring, and have a beautiful heart. Just from the words in your message, I can sense that strongly. Sending you so much love! ❤
@@anitamoorjani Thank you for your message, Anita. I was so happy to hear you say that, I cried. I grew up always being suspected of having some selfish motive whenever I did something, so when you said that so directly, it really struck me and helped me calm down. Thank you so much.💕🙏 You're right. I cried my eyes out many times while exchanging messages, but each time I felt all the emotions I had no outlet for, something was purified, I calmed down, and I finally realized what kind of condition I had been in. I feel like I'm a little more aware now than I was yesterday. So I'm really glad we were able to exchange messages like this. Thank you so much for your reply. I'm so happy and it's the best encouragement I can have. I send you my love too.❤ Thank you as always.✨🙏
There are so many things I need to say to some about my own feeling that would grow my relationships but then I think I might sound hurtful and dont say it. I have been married 40 yrs to the perfect giy however he recently retired and seems lost , I want to help him and am trying in my own way but then feel resentful at times he is not getting my drift instead of just saying it. Then I am mad at myself for having those feelings. ❤
I felt in love with your book so much so that I gave my wife and my 2 daughters a copy. Now, I didn't know about your TH-cam channel until recently. Took me by surprise the things you have behind you. I just don't understand. What do they mean, if you don't mind me asking you?
I need help I lost my husband 16months ago from consequence of bizarre sports accident playing football while kept innocent in prison, I can't find any comfort
It must be difficult in your circumstance. Please be assured that your deceased husband will be experiencing full joy and love in the other realm, as Anita has always assured us.
I have a question. How can I as an older empath meet people or make friends? It is hard for me to meet others because I am very introverted and I am older, so it is not as easy for me to meet a partner or even make friends as for young people.
Anita talks about that in this video and really those six points she mentions are pinnacle to making the change that might lead you to find a super close friend or intimate relation if you are an empath. She says: Six points for Empaths who are having trouble finding a partner: (1) get to know and love yourself (2) be aware that you are an empath (3) be cautious about online dating (4) find people organically (5) don't make physical appearance your highest priority (6) don't rush into a relationship
It is incredibly easy for an empath to love others. We are here learning to love ourselves and put our needs over those of others.
Now I understand why I would keep repeating the same situations with people and end up being used! I also learned to ask more questions from them and to take time to give an answer. I feel like my heart chakra is blown open and I have way too much empathy, to the point of feeling a deep sadness for suffering on earth. I want so much to hide away from everyone just so I can be at peace. Thank you Anita for all you are doing.🙏🙏🙏🦋🐘🍊✌💜
Your comment is exactly how I feel ❤
This is actually NanMunkholm. Whenever people hurt me, I question my behavior… what I did wrong. I’m tired of that reaction. No more allowing unkindness. Need to love and respect ourselves.
Great talk Anita. I can relate. I have a sister who always acted like a bully. I recently cleared out my closet and came across some printed photos of my family from 30 years ago. About 10 photos were in consecutive order, the first picture showed me smiling, the second photo was my sister deliberately mocking and causing me pain, the next picture was me looking harmed and miserable, the next picture after that was her with a very happy and vindictive expression on her face because she was able to cause such pain to me. If I brought a friend over, she would immediately start making fun of them until they cried and left in tears from her bullying. This type of family leads to the inability to trust in general. I’ve moved across the country over 25 years ago and live very independently. Trust issues are always there. Will be changing my will to charitable giving only.
I Believe I’m an empath. I usually can tune in and discern, agree it’s always better to mull things over and Never be pressured into a fast decision. When you think it over, crystal clarity will come. And there’s always a better option.
My sister is a narcissist too but she was covert about it and my
Parents never knew because we shared a bedroom until I was 13. I am now 73 and until recently was still giving her ‘the benefit of the doubt’. It took overhearing a conversation she was having with her daughter in law saying she was going to lie to me and then destroying my youngest son’s character to finally make me accept she is never going to change. Like you say Anita I always responded to her pain and incredible low self esteem, always trying to help her feel better about herself.
Not anymore.
I have had 2 marriages and have now been single for 24 years. Thank you for your advice Anita it is very helpful. ❤
As an Empath awakening, I recently texted a “friend” of over 20 years with narcissistic behaviors and I am barely now seeing his abuse… he hit on me even though he is married with someone I know well, I even went to their wedding. I asked for time to think about it and after a month I responded in a very nonpallatable way but truthfully and transparently about our long term abusive friendship that now he wanted to turn into a romance as if I would be interested and wouldn’t be able to see clearly through him. I may have burnt the bridge but it is a good riddance given the record. Awakening to being an empath has included letting of relationships go as I realize many of them were narcissistic people in my life.
I have struggled in all relationships and recently realised i am with people that dont even want me to be happy. I have been hermitting for awhile! I find relationships so difficult!
That's why Anita always says it is important to be aware of our atmosphere. She calls it her 'marinade'. What energy do we surround ourselves with? Is there any way to be around some other people that can help balance the energetic marinade that might not feel so good to us! Plus in this video she tells us: Six points for Empaths who are having trouble finding a partner:
(1) get to know and love yourself
(2) be aware that you are an empath
(3) be cautious about online dating
(4) find people organically
(5) don't make physical appearance your highest priority
(6) don't rush into a relationship
@@michfromteamanita5495 I have been single for years. My mum has recently died that had dementia which was incredibly difficult and took alot of my energy. Just getting to know myself again.
As an empath who hit rock bottom and had kundalini awakening long time ago, even though I was healed I had to learn to love myself. Your course on self love helped me almost 8-9 years ago.
Even now, I posted on empath and narcissist on my social media as Ive been dealing with a narcissist whole life without knowing I was being manipulated. Like you, I see the soul and energy not their intentions. I opened TH-cam for comfort and your video was right there on the top. You have always given me answers and comfort virtually through your work, Anitha. This is my first comment even though I’ve been admiring you for more than 12 years.
Thank you ❤
Im an empath. Not a full blown one tho. Yes I agree on everything Anita says, its also very challenging to make friends as a woman. But Im one who cuts people off right away if I get an ounce of feeling that they're mistreating me. I learned that the hard way. I was a people pleaser before but Im now liberated from that role. I've also acquired the ability to snap back and to see through BS. I didnt have that before. Life teaches you what you NEED to learn. For me, it was to pay attention. Again, still working on these traits as they are a survival mechanism that we empaths should to learn.
Love Anita, the Sanctuary, and her messages! Did want to mention that her definition of an empath is more restrictive than that used by others (e.g. Judith Ortloff) so you may want to read different definitions. And, I have know full-blown empaths that deliberately hurt people (they were suffering and striking out at others) - probably Anita M. is not able to conceive this, since she would not do it, but this does happen.
This was such an empowering video for me. I am an empath and my older brother is a narcissist. I am facing challenges as he is prodding me for money, related to the inheritance of my late father.
I had to set a boundary, but was able to do it in a kind way. I'm still surprised at how this action has benefited me. I realized that I got used to passive-aggressive behavior and sarcasm. I don't have to apologize for who I am.
Hi Anita, I am 33 and just about a year ago I learned that I am an empath. I was a people pleaser my whole life and after my spiritual awakening I left all of my friendships. I never felt seen in those relationships and they always underestimated me. I am becoming more sensitive and I'm having a hard time with social meetings and encounters with people, I get extremely nervous, shy, and anxious, and the worst of all, I blush even if I just have to talk to someone. I have been like that my whole life which has affected my self esteem and made me want to hide from the world.
I am also learning to say no and have been setting boundaries. Sometimes it feels easier to be alone but I'm craving conection after losing all of my friendships. I am learning to be patient in the process ❤ Thank you for this video ❤
HSP/Empath here. Thank you so much for your channel! 💖💖💖
Thank you for this 🙏. I thought all these years there was something wrong with me. I wish you were available so that I could have heard this when I was younger.
In fact you are great woman Anita the way you express the subject very clear with strong words❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wow TY for this helpful video. Anita’s loving energy is so soothing at very rough times & brings such comfort & understanding. While grieving the loss of my father, I haven’t been able to fathom how my partner could treat me so harshly in spurts, without seeming to care of the effects, + allowing me to continue supporting him. My heart is so wrung out & depleted. Your description of the guy in Hong Kong from long ago sadly lined up to a T, but helped with clarity. Thank u for your beautiful work. I would love to see u in person❤
All the points that you brought up really resonated with me, and thank you for making me laugh along with you!! I really enjoyed it....
Empaths are used to being on the other side, where no one can lie. I had to accept that on this side was lies and darkness, that these things are part of people here. I haven't gotten over that yet because I see all the suffering in the world that humanity is unconsciously choosing. None of it had to be like this. Dr Ramani has taught me a lot about how to deal with selfish people. Selfish people are attracted to empaths, we are their meal ticket, emotionally. Anita, I would love to see you and Dr. Ramani talk sometime. It might take some conversations to figure out how to bring your different spheres together, but I think a lot of good would come out of it
Great dating app story!!! Loved it. Such a small world.
This explain everything to me
Thanks so much.
Greetings from.germany.❤
I love your ‘lives’ and what you share. It is sad but true that narcissists are drawn to empaths and know how to take advantage of us. And they start with love bombing us so our discernment is disabled.
I am HIGHLY Empathic, we have so much in common. Thank you for sharing, I can relate on so many levels. It feels good to knowthat I am not alone on this journey.
Thank you so much Anita for giving amazing pricless advices and guidance for empath souls ❤❤
I was feeling regret over repeatedly trusting too easily. Yep, it’s difficult when people don’t feel comfortable. I also don’t want to be the recipient of obligatory actions. I dated so many narcissists on dating apps. Ugh….I was just thinking it would be better to meet in person. I too, see beyond the person’s intentions.
Dearest Anita you are lovely, and your work and contribution for us is HUGE. Thank you sooo much. 🙏 😊❤
I'm an empath but I can be manipulative too when I'm feeling desperate. So appreciate your openness. 💜💜
Anita set the standard for dealing with healing crisis
Very enlightening ❤️
Thank you Anita for that very inspiring message about empathy. I am a very full blown empath I feel like you disarmament impaired. I have 2 daughters and they are both narcissistic which has made it very difficult as I don't have any relationship with them anymore due to me having no choice but to say no more as my health was falling as a result of stress. It's a tough one
Please do more talks about empathy on tube 🙏 I love you and read all your books and watched all your videos which all helped me so much ❤️ with heartfelt gratitude Angela ❤
Being empathetic...I can say i rely on my inner being or intuitive feelings more than external feelings. If i feel uneasy about someone or something that's being presented to me, I remove myself or say no.. I allow my frequency to be higher than a manipulator. They must match my frequency rather than i match theirs.
This video is so insightful and helpful to me in this stage of my life. Your wisdom always resonates and has truly made a difference in my life. Thank you for all you do and share, Anita!
Thank you so much. This was very helpful ❤
This is so helpful! Everyone has aspects that are underdeveloped, and this really helps explain my relationship history. I am an empath, and when I was younger, I got into a series of relationships that went bad. When we got together, I felt their pain from trauma and I rushed in, thinking I could love them out of it. I never had a truly healthy and mutually satisfying relationship until I met my husband. We were friends first and he did not fit the pattern. He loved my empathic nature and protected me, like Danny does! Sadly, I was widowed, and 7 years later I reverted to my old pattern and got together with a someone who had trauma and ended up gaslighting me, etc. Still, I wanted to help him and kept trying to fix things. We have now broken up and I hope I make better choices in the future. Thank you for these pointers, Anita!
Thank you Anita. This talk was so right on and helped me accept and understand my gifts and how they work, so I won't be judging myself now.
Thank you for showing us that even though you see so much you have limits in other areas. And that you ask for support in those areas.
using the ho'oponopono prayer has helped me immensely as an empath. Also learning to be your own best friend.❤
Thank you Anita for expressing this weakness which is so common in empaths. This has helped me very much to ackowledge my feelings better and I appreciate your frankness very much !!! ❤
Oh my God! Thank you so very much for this information ❤ . Exactly in perfect time. As always ❤❤❤❤❤
100% understandable!!!
Thank you🙏🏽
Love this ❤. I have been following you since 2014. Your videos helped me a lot as I am a “serious” empath and I could relate a lot to what you said in this video.
This is so very helpful! Have been learning these lessons via trial & error. 😊 Much love & gratitude 🙏 🧡
exactly. I think I was more discerning when I was younger.
Exactly!!! I have the exact same problem: not seeing the (intent of) manipulation but the desperation and insecurity behind it! And I always, always only see it afterwards - when it's kind of too late already. I've tried so hard to fix it but it just won't change and I've beaten myself up over it so badly. I always felt so blind, as if everybody naturally sees somenthing that I just don't.
Thank you so much, Anita. This is really helpful for me. I’ve been single many years but I’m very resistant to going on a dating site even though I think I should; I can’t seem to bring myself to do it. I understand a bit more why now. ❤️🙏⭐️❤️
Anita
So glad I found you
I have been so careful not looking at other empath videos- felt I might be led down a path with that particular persons agenda
Feel safe with you and yours
A million thanks for the discernment ideas
So grateful
Will watch and follow you
So grateful
Owning myself
Was going to shut the door on all
But I love and will be kind but not get taken advantage of
Will follow
You are great
Have subscribed!!
Best
Kerry
Great to see Anita's live a while after 🥰
Anita I never thought of empathy as being the reason for low discernment
You nailed my situation
Thankyou. ❤so helpful Yes me too.
Oh wow……thank you ❤
Hi Anitaji,
I'm Elliot Coutinho, Age now, 40
I got multiple sclerosis at 25 reason my own self destroyed myself I'm guilt but now on wheelchair but it's a blessing, i learnt pranic healing and cured 8 if i would have been fully fit i wouldn't have recognized my power.. So I'm grateful.. I want to know from other side if i would be fit so shall i cure more people.. Thank you🙏❤❤
Great points
I am Japanese.
My heart is saved.
🩷Thank you so much🩷
✨🙏✨
Thank you
I love you anita moorjani
Great share Anita. Question - what about an empath that also has narcissistic tendencies and other toxic behaviors. Hard to deal with. Any suggestion appreciated.😊
Let the universe hook you up. The universe is a perfect match maker. 👼
Hasn't worked for me yet and I'm almost 60
Hi, Anita.
I've been following you for a few years now, and it seems like I can feel the presence of my higher self only when I'm listening to you, which makes me feel very relieved and grateful.
I've always had a question.
I get almost full marks when I take your empath test, but I don't think I'm as good as you.
I recently watched this video about guide to finding a partner for empaths, and when I heard that partners who are with empaths are happy, and that empaths don't hurt others, I felt insecure.
Rather, I thought that the person who is with me will be unhappy.
I was raised by a narcissist mother, and I feel like my inner world is broken.
I can't find a counselor I can rely on, so I'm trying to heal myself by reading books,
but after searching, I thought I might be a "dark empath."
I want to believe in the existence of my higher self, which I've felt watching Anita's videos for the past few years, and the wisdom and kindness within myself, but
if I was a dark empath, not an empath, was that a lie to make myself feel better?
I think there is clearly a cold-hearted side to me. That's something I don't get from you.
I've felt guilty, thinking that I'm a bad person compared to Anita, and I've often struggled with this.
Ever since I was little, my mother would tell me many times that I have no heart, and it hurt me.
I thought that if I could heal that, the way would open up, so I worked hard to heal myself.
But now I'm doubting whether that was true.
I don't know what to believe.
And how should I live my life from now on?
Do you have any advice?
If you sense something dark in my messages, please don't respond.
I'm not confident. I suspect that maybe I'm a bad person.
I don't want to hurt you. You're a wonderful person,
and I love you.
Because I'm so grateful for you.
I want you to change the world even more.
Anyway, I'll keep following you.
Thank you always.
I'm sorry for making such a rash comment earlier.
I think I'm going to follow my higher self, heal myself, and move forward believing in myself.
I've been able to change my mind thanks to watching your videos.
Maybe one day I'll be able to solve the mystery of my doubts, but even if not, I should be able to choose the direction I want to go in regardless of my circumstances.
I was overwhelmed with anxiety and became upset, so I ended up consulting Anita, the person I trust the most.
I'm always grateful to you, so I'm sorry for suddenly venting my anxiety to you.
Thank you so much for everything💕🙏
Your message really touched my heart. You are not a dark empath - it's clear from your words you care deeply! You are extremely self aware, and someone who truly is dark or not a good person would not care as much as you do. You just believe that you are a dark empath, and you believe that you are not a good person because that's how you've been conditioned. Please know that it's not true! I can see that you are caring, and have a beautiful heart. Just from the words in your message, I can sense that strongly. Sending you so much love! ❤
@@anitamoorjani Thank you for your message, Anita.
I was so happy to hear you say that, I cried.
I grew up always being suspected of having some selfish motive whenever I did something, so when you said that so directly, it really struck me and helped me calm down.
Thank you so much.💕🙏
You're right.
I cried my eyes out many times while exchanging messages, but each time I felt all the emotions I had no outlet for, something was purified, I calmed down, and I finally realized what kind of condition I had been in.
I feel like I'm a little more aware now than I was yesterday.
So I'm really glad we were able to exchange messages like this.
Thank you so much for your reply.
I'm so happy and it's the best encouragement I can have.
I send you my love too.❤
Thank you as always.✨🙏
There are so many things I need to say to some about my own feeling that would grow my relationships but then I think I might sound hurtful and dont say it. I have been married 40 yrs to the perfect giy however he recently retired and seems lost , I want to help him and am trying in my own way but then feel resentful at times he is not getting my drift instead of just saying it. Then I am mad at myself for having those feelings. ❤
No clue how to love myself . I did read Anita’s book but still no idea how to like or live myself
Conflict is an energy that weakens our God given confidence 🩷
I felt in love with your book so much so that I gave my wife and my 2 daughters a copy. Now, I didn't know about your TH-cam channel until recently. Took me by surprise the things you have behind you. I just don't understand. What do they mean, if you don't mind me asking you?
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I need help I lost my husband 16months ago from consequence of bizarre sports accident playing football while kept innocent in prison, I can't find any comfort
It must be difficult in your circumstance. Please be assured that your deceased husband will be experiencing full joy and love in the other realm, as Anita has always assured us.
Yes, thank you! So much of everything you shared makes sense. Sending love.
I have a question. How can I as an older empath meet people or make friends? It is hard for me to meet others because I am very introverted and I am older, so it is not as easy for me to meet a partner or even make friends as for young people.
Anita talks about that in this video and really those six points she mentions are pinnacle to making the change that might lead you to find a super close friend or intimate relation if you are an empath. She says: Six points for Empaths who are having trouble finding a partner:
(1) get to know and love yourself
(2) be aware that you are an empath
(3) be cautious about online dating
(4) find people organically
(5) don't make physical appearance your highest priority
(6) don't rush into a relationship
@@michfromteamanita5495 where is age addressed? It is harder to meet people when you are older
Funny narcissist story. Ha, ha. Funny but not as you're going through it , a learning experience.
I'm not a empath after listening to this. Intuitive, hsp but not empath.