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@@thomass07.cool advice but it’s better to be more patient the lower BF you get. If it takes someone 2 months to go from 17-15%, it should take them 3 months to go from 15-13% and then from the 13-11% it should take 4-5 months. The lower you get the harder it gets to pack on muscle and fill you out. Better to be more patient then rush and be low BF with no muscle.
@@thomass07.I’m not denying that 11-13 is more aesthetic but being at a slighter body fat 15-20 will make you look a lot more jacked especially in clothes. As someone who had stick for arms being at a higher body fat has made my physique especially my arms fill out t shirts more
A lot of this is great information, but humor has always been a huge part of who I am, and it's what had gotten me girls in the past. Cutting out the devices used to convey humor through text isn't feasible for me, but reducing it to a minimum is definitely ideal. Kevin Hart was married with 2 kids back when he was scrawny and bouncing checks.
OMG Fit on point with #6. Lots of times you'll offer a date to a girl and those times don't work for her, but she won't respond with a follow up alternative. BIG sign of not actually interested.
I just saw your page today and watched two or three videos in my man is hilarious. I fuck with you, my dude… I was on season four of love is blind, so I do pretty good with the women, but something that I had to cut down was stopping the lol’s the LMAO’s and the smiley faces after every text
When I first started using Tinder, I communicated like with normal people and received monosyllabic answers in return. And I realized that they were not uninterested, but simply stupid.
It's simpler. Girls that find You attractive will actually talk to You normally. Any others one word answers or playing games are just not interested. Playing the waiting game is most stupid toxic dating advice that could exist.
1:50 I say they ALWAYS try to keep harmony, this way to think explains much of their behavior. Without harmony they must fear confrontation, which they are not built for.
Props for evolving, Fit. I was telling someone today that it's pointless to fake availability with girls that don't like you; because they won't notice! Same goes for mirroring long response times. Just move on 👏🏾👏🏾
Yea get rid of so many emojis, be direct and don’t sugarcoat nothing, don’t tell her everything but be more mysterious, don’t text her first all the time, send her video messages besides texting all day
@@wop2784 just responding back to her text message but besides texting it just say what you gotta say in a recorded message or FaceTime her so she can see you looking crispy or etc
It's funny because almost all the others use emojis (Todd V especially) but I think he's right, the others just make it work despite the childish emojis thru sheer force of will rather than it being a sound strategy.
Yea, I kinda chuckled when he said to block them cas ik women actually find it funny when they realized they got blocked by men. I'd block somebody for being offensive or annoying, not nonexistent.
Y’all men need to learn how to conquer life instead of learning how to conquer women. When ur winning championships in life, the less u have to say to women and they will thirst over u. Trust me, u don’t need all this bullshit strategies. When she sees ur winning u can tell her to jump and she will say how high. Conquer life!
Everybody's not talented or smart. If you are not that then the strategy is different. 3 steps: #1 - get in shape. #2: get money (work 2 or 3 jobs if necessary). #3: get a fat chick.
Regarding the Set Up... I've had it a few times after cold approaching the girl agree to meet and exchange contact details, for them to ignore my message. It's fine, i dont take it to heart and i understand its their way of avoiding an awkward rejection. But my point is getting a Set Up in person can be a false positive
Yo FitX what barbershop you used to go to while you were out here in Medellin. I’m a Digital Nomad 💻 I’ll be down here for the next couple months in Poblado area. Thanks in advance
He's right about the number. But I have gotten a girl's number after the first date. But you don't want to waste too much time texting a woman on a dating app. I have also gotten the number before meeting up and the women left me on red. Your damned if you do and damned if you don't!
Confused by what you're saying- how do you go on the date without her number? I need to confirm she's actually gonna show, I won't go on no damn date with the app the only way to get in touch with her!
@@brentandrew2419 I have gone on a date just through Bumble and got the number after the date. I have also gotten a number of a women through Hinge and she left me on red with no date. Like I said your damned if you do and your damned if you don't.
Right on most counts. Only totally off base with the delayed texts. In my experience she can do that to just to gain the upper hand (whatever the f that means) and even high interest gals can pull that shi*. Totally counter to male thinking and they sometimes lose something they want cos the guy assumes she isn't interested.
My boy just got a girl number he was supposed to go out with her Friday, but she told him that she has something to do with her mother but I think she agreed to go Tuesday night the 9 of April I believe she will flake again on him
He said government your number like a child 😆 bruh I give my number and never take their number down. They normally hit me back fellas don’t take numbers let them call you
LOL LOL LOL xDDDDDDDDD bro, yesterday I just missed a very good match because I spammed the emoji and I didn't know how cringe I actually was until I FUCKING went through my messages, and she was really invested in the conversation, isnane.
To sum up this video in short and simple term. Use text to set up a meet up. Don't text back and forth and be her text buddy cause she has a lot of those already. Get to know her in person so you can read body language and get a feel if she likes you or is just wasting your time.
I need help I keep getting woman that only wants to sleep with me and I’m tired of it I want a wife but it seems like I keep doing this to myself how do I stop this
Had a wild night yesterday. Got a girls number while we’re waiting at the bus stop. Bus was taking long so we walked to the next stop. She had a drink in her hand so I said let’s get some proper drink. We got some from the store sat at the park. We snuck into the cinema. Then we went home. It’s the next day now but she ain’t messaged me - what’s that about
So after you set up the date and she picks a day and it’s all said and done, is the last text before y’all hang out are you supposed to text early the day of the hangout the address of the place??
LISTEN TO POINT 7 I had a date set with a bombshell at the end of the week but i thought i had too keep messaging her all week to keep her interested. We eventually started talking about past relationships and i told id never had a girlfriend before, a few days afterward she said she wanted to cancel the date. Women are very fickle and selective and will look for every reason to prune you. Just shut your mouth until the first date.
Why block though why not just delete and move on it’s better when they can see your life lit . I think blocking people so weak man but everyone has their own opinion . We all do what works for us
This is all well and good but us average guys hardly get any likes or matches, if we block them straight off the bat it could be a month+ before we get another girl..
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6:15 the ability to go against something you said in the past and acknowledge it, is the very reason I watch your channel.
I also respect that a lot
"room temperature IQ" lmfaooooooo i'm stealing that. thanks, brother.
It's kinda a deal breaker for me though. Can't talk to a wall...
@@marcotroster8247 😂😂😂😂
Got my beard lined up for the first time, I'm at 16% body fat and almost ready for my 7 month transformation photo in May
Try go down to 11-13% body fat that's the most aesthetic
@@thomass07. that's my goal
@@thomass07. gOAL is 10 % BF. Just finished military diet. Went from 19% to 18.1%. Lets keep it going fellas!
@@thomass07.cool advice but it’s better to be more patient the lower BF you get. If it takes someone 2 months to go from 17-15%, it should take them 3 months to go from 15-13% and then from the 13-11% it should take 4-5 months. The lower you get the harder it gets to pack on muscle and fill you out. Better to be more patient then rush and be low BF with no muscle.
@@thomass07.I’m not denying that 11-13 is more aesthetic but being at a slighter body fat 15-20 will make you look a lot more jacked especially in clothes. As someone who had stick for arms being at a higher body fat has made my physique especially my arms fill out t shirts more
Been Rocking with FitX for years and I’m still a subscriber proud of my boy and how far he has come!!!
"Focus on raising you bro, the less B.s you tolerate the less B.s is given to you" Fitx, good video again.
A lot of this is great information, but humor has always been a huge part of who I am, and it's what had gotten me girls in the past. Cutting out the devices used to convey humor through text isn't feasible for me, but reducing it to a minimum is definitely ideal.
Kevin Hart was married with 2 kids back when he was scrawny and bouncing checks.
Directly ask her out in first 5 texts or get used like 99% men
Fact! Don’t be a buddy texting.
@@vince5417 sadly 99% men are all simps betas
All facts bro! Either they in or out
Facts and then want to go to sleep on the phone. Gtfoh with that weak ahh sh*.
Why ask through text ….
OMG Fit on point with #6. Lots of times you'll offer a date to a girl and those times don't work for her, but she won't respond with a follow up alternative. BIG sign of not actually interested.
Don't sleep on the acronym or the emoji tip. This was a game changer for me. Felt like everything became purposeful after that.
This is quality advice! Great video bro 💯💪🏿
Keep up the quality content.
Make a fashion guide next that be my biggest struggle
Bro I can help you with that for free
Trust me, you dont want fashion advice from fit, with all due respect to him 😂
I just saw your page today and watched two or three videos in my man is hilarious. I fuck with you, my dude… I was on season four of love is blind, so I do pretty good with the women, but something that I had to cut down was stopping the lol’s the LMAO’s and the smiley faces after every text
When I first started using Tinder, I communicated like with normal people and received monosyllabic answers in return. And I realized that they were not uninterested, but simply stupid.
Some might be both uninterested and stupid and lazy
It's simpler.
Girls that find You attractive will actually talk to You normally.
Any others one word answers or playing games are just not interested.
Playing the waiting game is most stupid toxic dating advice that could exist.
You’re the best coach out there bro
I'm not gonna disagree but I'm also big on Ty X Worldwide.
1:50 I say they ALWAYS try to keep harmony, this way to think explains much of their behavior. Without harmony they must fear confrontation, which they are not built for.
A very efficient and simplified guide props to you
I cringe because you said facts, thanks for helping us improve! Uve helped me alot so far👍
What a G video my boii💯 didn’t expect anything less from you, always coming thru.
Props for evolving, Fit. I was telling someone today that it's pointless to fake availability with girls that don't like you; because they won't notice! Same goes for mirroring long response times. Just move on 👏🏾👏🏾
9:58 that potential follow-up from her is gold. If she is not offering that she is just fulm of bs and wasting your time.
Yea get rid of so many emojis, be direct and don’t sugarcoat nothing, don’t tell her everything but be more mysterious, don’t text her first all the time, send her video messages besides texting all day
@@wop2784 just responding back to her text message but besides texting it just say what you gotta say in a recorded message or FaceTime her so she can see you looking crispy or etc
@@wop2784 of you talking etc, something you're doing outside etc
It's funny because almost all the others use emojis (Todd V especially) but I think he's right, the others just make it work despite the childish emojis thru sheer force of will rather than it being a sound strategy.
@ yea indeed 😎💯
Fitxfearless 🐐🐐🐐
Needed this.🥶
Solid advice brother, I was total inkwell these past few months.
Trying your advice out and will report back if it worked
Very helpful
Thanks Fit
“Funny how that works!” So true!
This was excellent
SNIPER! This is a quality factual content. Respect
Since I cut out to being witty she blocked me because she thought that I was soo bored!!! Damnt!!
Thank you Fit !
God loves yall..
thanks FIT!
Brotha was on a Mission and explained how it is. You can’t mess how he explains it.
Great video bro👍👍💯
I know somr people who ll wait for the next 364 days preparing gifts waiting for the 365th day 😂😂
great video man!
Would love to see a colab with How to Beast
This💯🤝🏾
Quality advice
Bruh is your place haunted. I see the chair in the back move on its own @ 10:32
I saw it too.
lol I just noticed too I think someone moved it
Don't block her if she comes back in the future just don't entertain her. Leave her texts on seen.
Yea, I kinda chuckled when he said to block them cas ik women actually find it funny when they realized they got blocked by men. I'd block somebody for being offensive or annoying, not nonexistent.
SET UP THE DATE OR LINK UP SHE NOT WITH IT ON TO THE NEXT
FitX, the problem is, even your wife will play those games. Women will always do this to you, not even commitment makes them change 😂
Teach the game
Y’all men need to learn how to conquer life instead of learning how to conquer women. When ur winning championships in life, the less u have to say to women and they will thirst over u. Trust me, u don’t need all this bullshit strategies. When she sees ur winning u can tell her to jump and she will say how high. Conquer life!
Tell that to the simps bro.
Everybody's not talented or smart. If you are not that then the strategy is different. 3 steps: #1 - get in shape. #2: get money (work 2 or 3 jobs if necessary). #3: get a fat chick.
Regarding the Set Up... I've had it a few times after cold approaching the girl agree to meet and exchange contact details, for them to ignore my message.
It's fine, i dont take it to heart and i understand its their way of avoiding an awkward rejection.
But my point is getting a Set Up in person can be a false positive
He literally said in the video that her agreeing doesn't mean that she's guaranteed to go out with you. See 2:18
this why you give them YOUR # so that way the ball is in their court if they hit you up then there was interest
Thank you!
I just set a date for next Saturday with a girl. My question is, should I text her on Saturday itself, or should I reach out a few days before?
Yo FitX what barbershop you used to go to while you were out here in Medellin. I’m a Digital Nomad 💻 I’ll be down here for the next couple months in Poblado area. Thanks in advance
The part that Fix said em bitches saying can i talk to you NEXT YEAR, deffo got me laughing hard.Lol
Thx i needed this
Very interesting 👌 👍 🤔
He's right about the number. But I have gotten a girl's number after the first date. But you don't want to waste too much time texting a woman on a dating app. I have also gotten the number before meeting up and the women left me on red. Your damned if you do and damned if you don't!
Confused by what you're saying- how do you go on the date without her number? I need to confirm she's actually gonna show, I won't go on no damn date with the app the only way to get in touch with her!
@@brentandrew2419 I have gone on a date just through Bumble and got the number after the date. I have also gotten a number of a women through Hinge and she left me on red with no date. Like I said your damned if you do and your damned if you don't.
Nice advices
Literally just blocked that girl who played that exact game with me 💀
Right on most counts. Only totally off base with the delayed texts. In my experience she can do that to just to gain the upper hand (whatever the f that means) and even high interest gals can pull that shi*. Totally counter to male thinking and they sometimes lose something they want cos the guy assumes she isn't interested.
My boy just got a girl number he was supposed to go out with her Friday, but she told him that she has something to do with her mother but I think she agreed to go Tuesday night the 9 of April I believe she will flake again on him
She did
@@gokutvraw2236 Lol
I agree but I don’t, some girls take long to respond to see if you are needy, so sometimes u have to give her space to help her realise your not needy
Shi* I commented too early
@@elliboy69 Hahaaaaa
need this shit man, lifesaver
Thanks FITX
Ur welcome
I love that you keep it real, thx bro
I dont think telling her the address the same day is a good idea bro but i agree with the rest💯💯💪 solid as always
Explain
@@chief8079 ?
I love Top Golf
Now make a pt 2 what to actually do at the date and escalate
Go watch Ams ! There is a video on this topic
He said government your number like a child 😆 bruh I give my number and never take their number down. They normally hit me back fellas don’t take numbers let them call you
Love you for this FitXfearless (no Diddy). Real game. Straight with no chaser.
I heard a study that found the guys who use emojis get more attention than those who don’t.
It really depends on the emojis in my experience just don’t use the corny ones
Whats the corny ones?@ThehollyJesus041
WHAT😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bro I have to say it so, I used this technique and I got hooked up with a girl in my first try. Listen to him guys
LOL LOL LOL xDDDDDDDDD
bro, yesterday I just missed a very good match because I spammed the emoji and I didn't know how cringe I actually was until I FUCKING went through my messages, and she was really invested in the conversation, isnane.
the amount of meaningless conversation I have made
Great video my G as always there's is no time for BS No time for game No time for drama.
To sum up this video in short and simple term. Use text to set up a meet up. Don't text back and forth and be her text buddy cause she has a lot of those already. Get to know her in person so you can read body language and get a feel if she likes you or is just wasting your time.
BOOBOO the fool, this man you are something else LOL
havin a laugh
I need help I keep getting woman that only wants to sleep with me and I’m tired of it I want a wife but it seems like I keep doing this to myself how do I stop this
man who cares just text them,they all the same and will ghost eventually anyway
😂
😂😂
Had a wild night yesterday. Got a girls number while we’re waiting at the bus stop. Bus was taking long so we walked to the next stop. She had a drink in her hand so I said let’s get some proper drink. We got some from the store sat at the park. We snuck into the cinema. Then we went home. It’s the next day now but she ain’t messaged me - what’s that about
those two dates dont work for me can i talk to you next year 🤣🤣
3:47 "are you a teenage boy" yep- maybe its time to make the switch tho
Where was this video a month ago😭
So after you set up the date and she picks a day and it’s all said and done, is the last text before y’all hang out are you supposed to text early the day of the hangout the address of the place??
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Damn this video came late , just experienced all of this . I just cut off the girl today but another day to do better
Block after 5 hr reply is a bit too strict as people have lives
10:36 who moved that chair
LISTEN TO POINT 7 I had a date set with a bombshell at the end of the week but i thought i had too keep messaging her all week to keep her interested. We eventually started talking about past relationships and i told id never had a girlfriend before, a few days afterward she said she wanted to cancel the date. Women are very fickle and selective and will look for every reason to prune you. Just shut your mouth until the first date.
Doesn't this contradict of having women's chasing you if you block them?
Why block though why not just delete and move on it’s better when they can see your life lit . I think blocking people so weak man but everyone has their own opinion . We all do what works for us
I dont think blocking people is weak cus uu gotta block out the bs bruhh.
I think blocking people who have no interest is better than thinking you would entertain them at a “later” time fuck that simp shit
does this work if she's already my gf?
💯💯💯
"Havin a laugh" at what, your results? People are goofy.
But anyways, I find it amazing how similar women and sales are. Pretty convenient for me
What if shes. Busy tho or had stuff to do or was to involved in her day and accidently went hours without texting this aint fair at all bruh
You can take 3 years to respond. She never like you and she never will 😂 the truth hurt but it’s the truth just focus on you
Nice
If im tryna laugh with a girl i go “thats to funny or your to funny” hilarious instead of funny as well no emojis no lols none of that.
Naw this fire
Do I flirt with girls in same neighborhood?
No
@@Rase-iwnl- why not?
This is all well and good but us average guys hardly get any likes or matches, if we block them straight off the bat it could be a month+ before we get another girl..
Room temperature IQ 😂