I work 50 hrs per, cook my food, wash my own cloth, pay all the bills & mortgage, provide for my teen kids, fix anything broken, maintain the house. My wife has never worked more than 29hrs per week and she tells my kids that I'm useless & they should marry a rich man. After 20yrs, I'm filling for divorce and it's not because of another women.
I know a good lawyer!!!!! And it's one thibg for her to feel that way about u but to bring the kids in on it is condescending and plain fucked up. Women dont realize he easy they have it when they have a good man. They want a cheat. A liar. An abuser. And guys like us who bust our added and die early to support our families get shit! I feel for u bro.
@@theInsighteryt lol this shit dont apply to under 18 kids, your mom and dad still pay your food, get the hell out of here boi, you’ll get his message when youre working and youre wondering if you can provide your girlfriend a good life when you get married, then you suddenly get depressed cause you cant get her the life she wanted, and in the end you gotta let her go so that she can live a good life with another men. I dont experience this but that’s what most people do, so yeah you dont know this stuff
When I found out unconditional love was not real, I valued my parents a lot more. They are the closest things you will ever get to unconditional love. The condition being is that you're their kid. XD
You know, I'm 35 years old now. I have 1 beautiful daughter. She's the world to me. The love my parents have is truly UNCONDITIONAL. Didn't realize it as a child, but now that I'm a man, it means the world.
@@JJKA360I disagree many youjgn boys are not loved by they mothers a Man will only experience True Love when he gets a Girlfriend or Wife and they create a family
I visited my girlfriend every week while she was in Uni, visited her whenever I could after she got a job, helped with her anxiety and panic attacks, was there for her when she travelled, stayed on the phone with her for hours just to keep her company when she felt lonely, gave her all of my time and attention... Then she dumped me when i couldn't find a job... I'm just here crying while the audience laugh and applaud as he says these things.
Similar shit bro! I dated a girl for almost 4 years. During three of those four years she had panic attacks and had a precarious job. When she started to earn good money I finished college and I was trying to get a good job and ended up in a supermarket. Suddenly I was the wrong guy for her! She wanted to travel, have nice dinners and nice hotels and I was just strunglin with myself and my life... She dump me when my struggle stared! I leaned a good lesson. Treat people right no matter how they treat you after! Do was you think is right, even if she treats bad after. And most important: treat myself righ. It's with me that I sleep all nights during the rest of my life
Wtf Man Screw her You've Been There For her and Took care Of her Dont Blame yourself for it she Is the One to Blame For not being there For you S***'s tough man but LOOK IT HAPPENED ALRIGHT JUST SAY F IT AND LOOK TO IMPROVE YOURSELF AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF YOUR MORE THAN THAT JUST CAUSE SHE WASNT THERE FOR YOU Your HOMIES ARE THERE FOR YOU SO PLSS BE TOUGH MAN For Yourself and take care of yourself Man the world's tough out there so Do your best and hey even if things don't Work out just know that I'll Pray For You and Other Homies that are Struggling out there and I Hope all's gonna Be well Man.
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer? Men would pick a broke 20 year old woman over a rich 30 year old woman.
@@maryjack3830 *Men would pick a broke 20 year old woman who treats them better than a rich 30 year old woman who would act as if she didn't need him and devalued him. Fixed that for you, passive misandrist. You ain't slick. It tells you a man values more than just someone's money. And of course a man chooses a younger woman...you know, for the same reason y'all claim you want a tall man. Procreation. A woman's peak fertility range is basically somewhere between 16 and 25 years old. It's always a preference when women exercise their superficiality, but toxic and misogyny and chauvinism when a man does. Get outta here.
@@manuginobilisbaldspot424 I said that men vaule women's youth and beauty and women value men's resources. Never said it was a problem, I'm saying what happens.
My father loved and supported me unconditionally, and he's gone. I can still hear him from time to time, telling me to be strong, to believe in myself and do what I think is right. When I'm about to make a decision on sth important, I've paused and wondered what would my father have done; so many times that I can't even count. May he rest in peace. It's a lonely world for us men.
Coming to the comment section and realizing that am not the only male going through depression. I have no job no real savings no respect but hopefully things will get better
Brother I can understand your pain because I've also gone through this kind of situation few years ago. Saty strong god will help you bro 👍 You're not alone we are brothers we are with you
U dont have to look into philosophy and research moral origin to know that ths is very very true wether women like to admit it or not. Hell the saying "women and children first" exists for a reason. U can find countless comedians, stories and history research that really hammers down this point. The whole process of wedding rings is basically about men showing their ability to provide to women. Not to mention the most dangerous and gross jobs are handled 99% by men with no women talking about this issue. Frankly as a man it terrifies me that there really isnt any help for us out there. Especially in my family. Hell i was pretty much thrown out the house when i turned 23 while my 30+ year old sisters still live there. If i ever go broke im screwed. Theres only 1 homeless shelter for men where i live and 50 mins away from my work and i can barely pay rent these days sooo...greaaaat.
I was married for 20 years. I paid the mortgage payment and all of the utility bills. I paid her car payment. I let her work part time. I let her use her income to put away if we ever fell on hard times. We fell on hard times. She left.
Here's the deal. The only time a man will experience unconditional love is from his mother. Nobody else shows us unconditional love. I'm not afraid to admit that I love my mother more than my wife. My wife treats me well, but I know there's conditions placed on that love. If I go broke and lose everything, she won't stick around. But my mother wouldn't abandon me if I was broke. I also know that I wouldn't have married my wife if she didn't get along with my mother. I would have dropped her like a hot potato. So ladies, if you're reading this no man will love you more than he will his own mother. We have one person in our lives that gives us unconditional love, and it's not you.
You say that but it isn't true, my mother's done worse things to me then anybody in the world. I'm only telling you because what your saying isn't true
@@themightyme2330 I'm not saying it's true for everybody. There are some horrible mothers out there who treat their son's horribly. I'm just talking about men who have nice mother's.
If your mother treats you bad it's because she didn't wanted you. But if a mother ask for a child I'm sure she will give him unconditional love that's a law.
I understand the intended feeling of this quote, but I am a man and I do not want flowers. Flowers are a waste of money and I have no use for them, so the fact that I have never received flowers does not make me sad at all. I also do not yearn for complements. I accept myself with my faults and limitations and do not seek outside validation, and trust me, this is a much better way to live.
As a woman myself, this is true. Society treats men poorly if they are poor or if they are suffering from mental or physical health. But everyone has sympathy for women, children and dogs. How about we all have sympathy for everyone. Mens mental and physical health is just as important as a woman's or a childs or an animals.
When this came out I would have disagreed with him. Years later lost my job, and now I see just how freaking true this is. It even transcends cultures and generations. It's funny no one even bats an eye when everything is going well. No one is thankful or anything. After all, you are just doing your obligation. But lose the ability to do that and your days are counted. If you don't hurry you will lose everything. Even family. Funny part is a man has no problem providing for his wife, he probably loves her so much he would die for her. Never heard a woman be happy to provide for anyone but herself or her kids, nevermind her dying for you.
@@amankishore3512 Guess our society fucked it up in its attempt for equality. The devil is in the details in how you define equality. Men used to have a proper place in society and in relationship dynamics. We are primarily providers and protectors, and we are taught to treat women who are weaker than us with care and respect. Because of our hard work, we deserved respect and women look to serve and be our aid, as should be by their design. Today's society of feminism and equality has killed that. Women took our jobs as we forcefully give it to them under the guise of equality. Positions of power strive for the 50-50 ratio throwing capability and equality of opportunity out of the window. Women are taught that they don't need men, and that everything a man can do a woman can do or even better. Then comes in the makeup and how consumerism and social media targets primarily women to give them a false sense of value and self worth. Women today think their piss don't stink. It's a man's world because we built it. But make no mistake, it's a woman's system because it is designed for them.
@@robbstark4084 well, I continued my education and have been working on different part-time jobs. Hope I will get a better job after I'm done. I also found a good woman thats kind but had a rough time through life because she decided to take care of her parents. They came to my country in hopes of getting better life prospects. She doesn't change my overall opinion of women, but she understands me a lot. Things have definitely been going better. Hope you are doing good as well sir. Thank you for asking.
I didn’t laugh not even once but I appreciate that Christ brought that reality up because nobody talks about how hard we have it as men. just because we are men it does not mean we are automatically rich, just like all woman doesn’t get to be pretty only a few it’s the same thing with us only a few gets have deep pockets.
Then reframe it: Chris is saying only men have agency and power. Women are just passive, reactive objects. And it's women saying this, not men. I don't know about you, but that's the most positive thing I could possibly hear - and it's true
I see you point, but I think it’s funny because it’s true. Comedy ALWAYS has an element of tragedy and (unless absurdist humour) always has an element of truth
@@artemis01 thank you, that is a great way to look at it. Men have the masculine burden of performance but the benefit of not having a ticking time clock on their desire ability (because a man doesn’t have to be sexually attractive to be sexually desirable), women have the universal eternal privilege of choice (on a philosophical and actual sense) but do (well should) have the BURDEN of choice, not only that but her SMV is time limited
Every time I see public display of affection of a couple , my mind reminds me of this video and his words replays . It snaps me back to reality of why i don't want a woman in my life because a woman will only love me under the conditions I provide something
That's how nature is. That's how mating works. The difference is that we have the ability to put abstract thoughts into reality... now it's a matter of adapting. You can choose to participate and continue your lineage or opt out
See I don't know. Now I have to wonder if baby boys are looked at like potential future workers/providers. Even in this 'woke' society of ours, where girls are more encouraged than ever before, are boys still set aside like financial accessories for women and the system?
Lets face it, when a man dies, people stand around and say; "He was a good man, worked hard to provide for his family" Thats the only metric of success.
Parents love are conditional. U can be 40+, dead ass broke & your dog wouldn't give a damn its like God arrived everytime they see u. Your parents wouldn't treat u the same, understandable but still.
The worst part is that feminist and LGBT weirdos are pushing narratives against us and masculinity, they say we are oppressive, we are toxic, and all that bullshit. We built society, yet we are hated.
I get annoyed when feminist say it’s patriarchy that impose the traditional provider role on men. When clearly the average woman wants the choice to be able to go part time or to be a stay at home mum
In 2021, 81.2 percent of employed mothers with children ages 6 to 17 worked full time. 77.2 percent of mothers with children under age 6 worked full time. 86% of working mothers say they handle all family and household responsibilities.
All you blue pill dudes who are ready to take her down the aisle, remember this. If you EVER lose your footing she is out the door. Listen to wise counsel brethren
@@fahds2583 I escaped, but 20 years too late. Don't be me. Think for yourself and live for yourself, even if they say they need you. They are adults and should take care of themselves. You are not responsible for them. I am speaking from my life experience. 👍
My pets are the only reason I haven't blown my head off already. I figured if I did go through with it, I should be sure to lock myself in another room so they wouldn't desecrate my corpse. Funny to think I would care about such a thing at a time like this but I do
Loving people unconditionally is my biggest requirement for a partner. Looks don't matter to me, being sane does. Fortunately, i found myself a woman who gives me just that. I'm currently stuck at home with a broken leg and she's always there for me. Lesson learned, always go for the quiet, shy adorable woman.
I moved to a new country, broke my leg and month and half after getting here. I still was able to find a place to live that was pet friendly so my gf and dog could come out. When I asked my gf to come out for a couple to help me out as I couldn't stand to make food, could barely get out of bed without excruciating pain she said "no" when I asked why not she said "because I don't want to". We broke up just before Xmas because she said she didn't feel fulfilled 🤦🏿♂️.
I believe that once men go past superficial things in a woman and only judge them by their experience, behaviors, thinking.. actual inner self.. that’s when you find the right one. I mean, hello, that’s how you find the right anybody. Whether you like men, or women. This isn’t rocket science. Women (and men) who put so much attention on the external is always a bad thing. Come on.
He’s RIGHT! Women put conditions on men: he needs to be tall, i like a guy in uniform, i like a guy with a beard, clean cut, a thug, a corporate guy, a bad boy, a guy with tattoos, a guy with dreads, a guy that rides a motorcycle, a guy that drives a truck etc. There’s ALWAYS conditions on the type of men they like but let a guy put conditions on the girl?? 😮
Quite often the only time a man experiences unconditional love is from his mother. That's if his mother is decent of course. Hence why a lot of men love their Mamma's. And why a lot of times women get super jealous if a man loves his mother.
I'm 33 and I've never had a woman love me unconditionally. Once I thought I found one but she eventually left me. Just shows how depressing the world can be especially if you're a black man. It can really have you depressed.
@@nelsondendomo6687 True, women practice something called "Hypergamy", which means they want a man with more money and higher social status than them. This leaves working class men out in the cold, and even poor women expect to marry a rich guy eventually. This has always been this way of course, but has really been aggravated since the past 40-50 years.
I feel where he's coming from 100%. I know he's a comedian but this so true. We as men are treated worst by the justice system, misjudged by others, and are only loved most of the time what we have or can give. Why?
Add into that, we are expected to step up and defend the country in times of war while women run the other way. Fuck that, why should I defend a country that despises me?
I once heard a wise man say to never tell yourself you're broke, you just having a cash flow problem willing to resolve.. I'm reminded by a story of that same man playing a board game with his young son and beating him a couple times before he told him it was time for bed when his son responded "it's not over until I win.." as we get older its important to rekindle with that childhood tenacity we all seem to have
After growing up I gave my dad so much more respect knowing that he was trashed talked for not having a great job or fancy things. He however supported and loved his kids with all his heart but knowing the truth after growing up that men do have it much harder then women do and seeing how unfair it really is. This is why men would rather hang out with their friends more cause men understand how hard it can be in life.
And yet no one seems to care about men and their mental health. Why aren’t we talking about this? I’m a man and I’m really appalled by this harsh truth.
Unless a man is/was legitimately mentally handicapped and has been since early childhood/childhood or suffered a traumatic brain injury later in life or suffers from PTSD because of some horrific life event, men are normally not deemed or seen as that much of a priority to the world. They’re sort of on the back burner. Add to that, many men think & feel that if they actively seek out help/assistance for anything regarding their own mental health, they’re somehow a lesser man because of it, and are also weak because they couldn’t just tough it out and get on with their lives.
There are people that do. Roma army is a good channel to watch once in a while. Sometimes they just complain about human nature. All in all people including women, depending on age child also need to get thicker skin and mind their own business.
cause literally nobody cares about what men go through, all they have to provide is a snake oil (in the form of bullshit therapy and anti depressants.)
@@aidanbrad1709 Aidan that’s exactly what’s happening to me right now man. As long as I’m not making her feel good it’s dead. She’s doesn’t want anything to do with me even if I’m hurt. If the relationship goes into the opposite end of the spectrum like things do (since life is always dual) - the dark is for you and the light part is hers. When things are going great and she’s feeling good about herself in the relationship you get all the care you need. When things go south like they’ll always do you’re on your own. Sucks bro. I’m feeling the sting right now man.
Men out there, take care of yourselves, save for liquidity in your after mid life and old age, because that is when reality hits hardest, when you get treated as scrap if you were not financially stable. The woman would even try to quarantine you away from the children because of your obsolescence
This is factual. When a man tells his family he’s in love, they ask about her. “What’s she like, where’s she from, how does she treat you” etc. When a woman tells her family shes in love with a man, it’s “what does he do for work, where does he live, what car does he drive, where did he go to school, how much does he make”
Always carried a natural apprehension with love and commitment. My caution was well founded! As a man, I'm not even sad. Proves what can clearly be felt and seen.
I actually stopped talking to a girl last week. I tried talking to her about it, but it went one ear out the next. Women want you to do everything. Ask them out, make them feel special, try to impress and cater to them, make their life easier... but what have you proven you can do for me? Not a damn thing, can't even listen when I'm dealing with stuff without being judgemental.
Dont give up my dude, with this knoledge you *can* and will make a change You know, i know and more and more men are starting to realize society dont really care about men, but thats how you start making some changes "first you have to acknowlege there is a problem in order to work with it" You can make a change, your child can make a change and i can make a change, we know there is a problem, if we give up actual evil people are wining
Don't ever complain about your problems and express your feelings to a girl you are interested in romantically, it is a huge turn off for them. Girls want a man who makes them feel safe and secure. They want to look up to their man and feel safe in his arms thats partly why they typically go for taller guy. When you start expressing your feelings and acting emotional they will start to be less interested in you, its not in their control either so dont blame the girl.
They expect to give u the same 🐈 every other man before u has gotten. Only good thing that can come out of MOST women at the end of the day are children
Men don't have the luxury of living in a world that coddles them. We're not safeguarded from any consequences. As a man, I wouldn't have it any other way. I never have to feel as I'm lacking a real life experience.
It'd be interesting to see a world where women are treated the same way men do. If they were treated the same then it would help put a perspective on everything for them but at the end of the day that will never happen because men are designed to fuck most women and that often means coddling them and letting them get what they want even if they're wrong because men will often do and say what women want if it gets them laid and keeps them happy.
My mother married my dad for money when the money faded away the love went out of the box now they are seperated. Men are on their own from beginning to the end. We are just atm machines for women, children. Any women that says it ain't true she lying.
Men would pick a broke 20 year old over a rich 30 year old woman. And men would use their money to get the most attractive yoing woman they can get while career women with their oen money are left on the shelf.
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer? Women are loved short term men are loved lomg term.
As an almost 40 yr old man who's been married a few years and has 2 children I had to come into this comment section and see if anyone else has had the same experiences as I've had with this particular subject, I have yet to find one... My wife, the world, my children, my parents, friends, teachers, etc, etc have never made me feel like the love I received from them was contingent on providing, never happened. And it's my POV that unconditional love doesn't mean we just allow ppl to do whatever they want and for us to just keep on loving them and trying to "make it work", I can love you more than life itself but still be able to walk away from you at the drop of a hat for certain things. Infidelity is that for me, I know myself and I know I wouldn't be able to ever put that away and move on, I can still love you but have enough self worth to walk away.
I have some health issues, lost my job. I thought my wife will support me, encourage me, I felt I need just some time. She said ok, just do some work at the house, renovate it, but I was to slow for her wishes... So now I'm at my parrents, deppressed with suicidal thoughts. Yeah, this joke is on point. I dunno for what to live anymore except for my mother. 31yo with some clothes and nothing more... I just wish to stop exist, becouse Im coward to end it myself...
Feels bad man… You alright? It’s painful knowing/thinking you are on your own. In this society there is no unconditional love for men. However, there is no shame in asking for help. There have been people who have gone through similar experiences. It helps to find a place/person you can talk to. Whether it’s an old friend, elderly people, church (where they don’t only judge but also love), etc. Good luck!
Dont do it bro You now know there is a problem with society, i dont have the answer but its not that Work on yourself, donate to a men's organization better the world with your emotional knoledge I know its looking grim and im really sorry about what happen, you deserved better Your are not alone
I know your comment was 2 years ago, but I hope you're okay now. Sorry to hear about your situation and I hope things got better. You're not worthless.
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer? Women are loved short term men are loved long term.
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer? Women are loved short term men are loved lomg term.
My father and me didn’t get along for most of my life. I was a disappointment to him and rightfully so, I was a fuck up for a long time. I used to think he hated me and it broke my heart. In my 30s now and having a much better relationship with him, looking back I realize that wasn’t true. Even when I was broke, early 20s and living with him, at the peak of his dislike for me, he never asked me for a dime, he never told me to leave, and he always asked me what I wanted to eat when I came to the kitchen. He’s getting older and weaker now, I take care of him now from time to time. We haven’t spoken much at all in the time we’ve spent together and I still wouldn’t consider him and me to be close, but I love him and I’m going to miss him when he’s gone. He showed me what unconditional love is.
I used to work in an office, and there were dozens of young women, I'm talking under 25 years old, and almost all of them were going out with a guy 4 or 5 years older who earned at least twice what they do. I refuse to accept they were attracted to their looks (most of their boyfriends were pretty ugly), or their personality. These women were the type to obsess over their Instagram pictures of them holding a cocktail, while discussing Love Island or TOWIE. So don't tell me men are shallow and women are opressed; I see way too many women specifically dating a man for his money, and they then get all the sympathy and law on their side in divorce.
This is so sad yet 100% true. I often wonder, my worth is measured by how much I can provide. Other than that, if I don't have that minimum salary bracket, I don't matter. Even what job I do, how established I am and the assets I have.
Not true. Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer? Women are loved short term men are loved lomg term.
It's funny how people say that mothers are the only ones who will love you unconditionally when some people don't even have that (myself included). Really highlights how shit a hand I've been dealt in this life.
Painfully true. I actually met a girl who is not like that, I didn't know they existed. That was the first time I experienced that legendary female empathy I kept hearing about. She should be cherished, right ?
Meet one too. We're lucky man. Though to be fair some cultures are just very very sick. Anglo cultures are THE WORST in the developed western world. When humanity and empathy are the exception and not the rule, you know your country is headed for annihilation (check my channel). Western Europe is much better and more human!
It's just a matter of time... You'll be surprised when that time comes. Never trust something that bleeds for 3 days every month but still never dies. By the time they cheat death, who do you think you are. Give her time, you'll understand what Chris Rock is talking about.
This hits hard. Recently broke up with my girlfriend. She cheated, lied, manipulated, did everything she could to bring me down. She only loved me when I had something to offer. When we split everyone was so quick to take her out and find her a new man and shower her with affection and gifts for being the toxic one in the relationship. She gets to go on about her day doing dates and getting attention from all over. It sucks. All in all though i have learnt some valuable lessons and I know now that us men walk alone. Sometimes you have to tell yourself that this was the hand you were dealt and you have to make the best of a bad situation, its a man’s life story.
@@slapzk5355 similar ish happened to me, (ex fiance) she left same day she said she loved me, a week later she was pregnant w/a tinder randos kid.. had me wishing I wasn't here..
@@theironson1043 Damn man. Sorry to hear that. I feel we live in such a toxic time now aday’s when it comes to dating. There seems to be no depth in it whatsoever. Best thing to do is learn and move on I find. If not it will just rip your heart out.
Like I said it’s sad but true, if a woman is asked what can she bring to the table, some gets offended. Man are not see for the sacrifices that we make but instead only seen as a provider & when we fall and make our mistakes who is there to back us, yes there are some women out there who are supportive of their man. but when a woman provides she is praised and empowered and given credit due.Beautiful is but skin deep but inner beauty, personality, attitude & being humble last longer !
@@JayP7676 Men will pick a broke 20 year old over a rich 30 year old. What men want from women is their youth abd beauty, not their resources. Plenty of older career women resources to bring to the table but men dont want them.
Let me add... Women, Children, dogs, and drugs are loved unconditionally. A woman who is an alcoholic or prescription/illegal drug addict will always choose her drug of choice over her dog, her children, or her man.
He's right to put so much emphasis on dogs. I'm a dog lover as well, yet it's sad to realize that nine times out of ten the dog will get more love than me if I fall on hard times.
I could honestly testify that this is absolutely 100% true!! I was working under the one of the most sexiest bosses I have ever known in my life. The day that I had met her, she started asking me questions like if I had lived on my own and do I have my own vehicle. It's sad but it's true. It's just the reality that we all need to accept as 100% men! I hate to say it, but it's true. God bless all us men! ❤️
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer? Women are loved short term men are loved lomg term.
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer? Women are loved short term men are loved lomg term.
Because they don't. But this is a double-edged sword... It's the reason why it's a mans world. A man has to make something of his self... a women doesn’t... in-fact no one cares what she does.. all we care about is she pretty and agreeable; now that doesn’t sound fair either and you want to know why? Because life isn’t fair.
@@b3at2 you're right, it is a double edged sword. When a woman is successful she doesn't make the same money her male counterparts do, to do the exact same job. It's a Man's world, and has been since the beginning of time.
@@missmew3499 Wait, women are 60 plus percent college students now. Don't pick high paying jobs. Men generally work more overtime bringing home bigger paycheck if hourly. Reason a lot of women aren't entrepreneurs (not including OnlyFans) is because a lot CEO's will initially have work 70-80 hours per week. Most men don't even want to work that many hours. Listen Elon Musk interview for example of how many times failed, living at work, etc. That's a special kind of dedication. You want some good paying jobs? Line men working off helicopters, lumber workers, oil rigs. You wanted equality now get responsibility come with it. Holy crap. That got dark quickly but that's the truth. Men 3 times suicides as women. Much higher and longer incarceration rates for men. Just being 100 with you.
@@trexme1256 the reason women can't work long hours or do lumberjack type jobs is because we have children at home. Men can't handle being full time parents, women don't have physical strength. That's not rocket science to figure out. Same goes for the long hours. Lots of women would be CEOs, in fact it would be a better world if more women ran things, but again, responsibilities at home dictate. It's a man's world, and until men can give birth and raise kids, that won't change.
Sucks this is the harsh reality for us men, but at the end of the day I’d rather just use that pain and suffering to fuel it into my career choices for me and me only so when I get old o could thank my younger self for not having to rely on anybody for anything
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Meant to be funny but as men we know this is one of the saddest parts of reality.
I agree with you
Ya man you are absolutely right 😅
Exactly
I didn’t laugh at this.
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I work 50 hrs per, cook my food, wash my own cloth, pay all the bills & mortgage, provide for my teen kids, fix anything broken, maintain the house. My wife has never worked more than 29hrs per week and she tells my kids that I'm useless & they should marry a rich man. After 20yrs, I'm filling for divorce and it's not because of another women.
You done the right thing man, idk what to say but stay strong.
Stay strong bud. God bless you wherever you are.
I know a good lawyer!!!!!
And it's one thibg for her to feel that way about u but to bring the kids in on it is condescending and plain fucked up. Women dont realize he easy they have it when they have a good man. They want a cheat. A liar. An abuser. And guys like us who bust our added and die early to support our families get shit! I feel for u bro.
where do you leave?
can'task for more
I thought comedians are supposed to make you laugh? Not cry.
Fax
Lawd help! Peace!
Comedy and Tragedy are two sides of the same coin
Dan. LOL
Hahahahaaa! Now THAT made me laugh!! #LOL
100% facts
I'm 16 and have always noticed it
@@kmk900___ same... I'm 15 but 🙂
I’m 14 and I see it quite well😔
@@kmk900___ learn from example man.
@@theInsighteryt lol this shit dont apply to under 18 kids, your mom and dad still pay your food, get the hell out of here boi, you’ll get his message when youre working and youre wondering if you can provide your girlfriend a good life when you get married, then you suddenly get depressed cause you cant get her the life she wanted, and in the end you gotta let her go so that she can live a good life with another men. I dont experience this but that’s what most people do, so yeah you dont know this stuff
When I found out unconditional love was not real, I valued my parents a lot more. They are the closest things you will ever get to unconditional love. The condition being is that you're their kid. XD
Real talk
You know, I'm 35 years old now. I have 1 beautiful daughter. She's the world to me. The love my parents have is truly UNCONDITIONAL. Didn't realize it as a child, but now that I'm a man, it means the world.
Yeah. This is about as real as it gets. Women come and go, no matter how much they’re loved. Parental love is truly unconditional.
Not everyone gets parental love
One of the hardest lessons of my mid 20's is even parental love is conditional.
A boy/man will only ever receive unconditional love from their mothers, and some don’t even get that
Also from their daughters.
@@JJKA360I disagree many youjgn boys are not loved by they mothers a Man will only experience True Love when he gets a Girlfriend or Wife and they create a family
No woman will love you without terms.
I definitely didn’t
I visited my girlfriend every week while she was in Uni, visited her whenever I could after she got a job, helped with her anxiety and panic attacks, was there for her when she travelled, stayed on the phone with her for hours just to keep her company when she felt lonely, gave her all of my time and attention... Then she dumped me when i couldn't find a job... I'm just here crying while the audience laugh and applaud as he says these things.
Similar shit bro!
I dated a girl for almost 4 years. During three of those four years she had panic attacks and had a precarious job. When she started to earn good money I finished college and I was trying to get a good job and ended up in a supermarket.
Suddenly I was the wrong guy for her! She wanted to travel, have nice dinners and nice hotels and I was just strunglin with myself and my life... She dump me when my struggle stared!
I leaned a good lesson. Treat people right no matter how they treat you after! Do was you think is right, even if she treats bad after. And most important: treat myself righ. It's with me that I sleep all nights during the rest of my life
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Wtf Man Screw her You've Been There For her and Took care Of her Dont Blame yourself for it she Is the One to Blame For not being there For you S***'s tough man but LOOK IT HAPPENED ALRIGHT JUST SAY F IT AND LOOK TO IMPROVE YOURSELF AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF YOUR MORE THAN THAT JUST CAUSE SHE WASNT THERE FOR YOU Your HOMIES ARE THERE FOR YOU SO PLSS BE TOUGH MAN For Yourself and take care of yourself Man the world's tough out there so Do your best and hey even if things don't Work out just know that I'll Pray For You and Other Homies that are Struggling out there and I Hope all's gonna Be well Man.
And i bet that same woman moved on and met someone that treats her like a mug. The real winner is u. She done you a favour
Shouldn't have put her on a pedestal like that
Many men are not loved even after they provide. That shit hits even harder than what Chris is highlighting.
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer?
Men would pick a broke 20 year old woman over a rich 30 year old woman.
Exactly. If you can provide everything. She still won't respect you
@@maryjack3830 *Men would pick a broke 20 year old woman who treats them better than a rich 30 year old woman who would act as if she didn't need him and devalued him.
Fixed that for you, passive misandrist. You ain't slick. It tells you a man values more than just someone's money. And of course a man chooses a younger woman...you know, for the same reason y'all claim you want a tall man. Procreation. A woman's peak fertility range is basically somewhere between 16 and 25 years old. It's always a preference when women exercise their superficiality, but toxic and misogyny and chauvinism when a man does. Get outta here.
@@manuginobilisbaldspot424 What did i say that was misandristic ? Lol
@@manuginobilisbaldspot424 I said that men vaule women's youth and beauty and women value men's resources. Never said it was a problem, I'm saying what happens.
My father loved and supported me unconditionally, and he's gone. I can still hear him from time to time, telling me to be strong, to believe in myself and do what I think is right. When I'm about to make a decision on sth important, I've paused and wondered what would my father have done; so many times that I can't even count.
May he rest in peace.
It's a lonely world for us men.
You’re his kid, that’s the condition
Your father is in you, my friend.
Sadly my father also died before I "made it." Would have been extremely special if that unconditional love was reciprocated somehow.
Only sons understand their dads
Cause he is also a man he want you to do your best he has only one expectation" you do your best ".
Never be lose
(Offff so emotional to write)
The only time a men gets flower in his life is
At his funeral😭😭
so true
why do men need flowers in the first place? 🤦🏻♀️
@@imatabb3646 to make them feel better
Like we give flowers to women
Then why not to men??
@@imatabb3646 why do women need flowers tf?
God forbid. that's deep.
Coming to the comment section and realizing that am not the only male going through depression. I have no job no real savings no respect but hopefully things will get better
Keep your head up bro, times will get better. The rain doesn’t last forever 🙏🏽
things will get better bro 🙏🏾
Bro you are loved by all other guys who feel for you. Stay strong brother.
Brother I can understand your pain because I've also gone through this kind of situation few years ago.
Saty strong god will help you bro 👍
You're not alone we are brothers we are with you
we're all working on ourselves. As long as you're not hurting others, you ought to realize that you deserve respect no matter your lot in life.
This hit me deep I always knew I was correct this just gave me an ironclad.
U dont have to look into philosophy and research moral origin to know that ths is very very true wether women like to admit it or not. Hell the saying "women and children first" exists for a reason.
U can find countless comedians, stories and history research that really hammers down this point. The whole process of wedding rings is basically about men showing their ability to provide to women. Not to mention the most dangerous and gross jobs are handled 99% by men with no women talking about this issue.
Frankly as a man it terrifies me that there really isnt any help for us out there. Especially in my family. Hell i was pretty much thrown out the house when i turned 23 while my 30+ year old sisters still live there. If i ever go broke im screwed. Theres only 1 homeless shelter for men where i live and 50 mins away from my work and i can barely pay rent these days sooo...greaaaat.
@@flamingmanure Bro I need an update. You good?
@@iwanthisokatofuckmesilly5222 I need an update too
@@flamingmanure bruh are you there. Just reply one time
Yup! Me too. Deep down inside you know this is true but Chris confirmed it.
I was married for 20 years. I paid the mortgage payment and all of the utility bills. I paid her car payment. I let her work part time. I let her use her income to put away if we ever fell on hard times. We fell on hard times. She left.
Daaaaaam. Cold blooded
@@firstscorpio No worries. Got a nice girl now.
@@richardburchett much respect. The failure always sets up the COMEBACK!!
@@richardburchett you id*ot will never learn from your mistake.....
@@richardburchett
Still lost a lot of cash dummy, how dumb are you, lesson here for all men
Here's the deal. The only time a man will experience unconditional love is from his mother. Nobody else shows us unconditional love. I'm not afraid to admit that I love my mother more than my wife. My wife treats me well, but I know there's conditions placed on that love. If I go broke and lose everything, she won't stick around. But my mother wouldn't abandon me if I was broke. I also know that I wouldn't have married my wife if she didn't get along with my mother. I would have dropped her like a hot potato. So ladies, if you're reading this no man will love you more than he will his own mother. We have one person in our lives that gives us unconditional love, and it's not you.
This can’t be true because it’s plenty of women I’ve seen and known that are taking care of their man and raising grown ass men today ! Sad
You say that but it isn't true, my mother's done worse things to me then anybody in the world. I'm only telling you because what your saying isn't true
@@themightyme2330 I'm not saying it's true for everybody. There are some horrible mothers out there who treat their son's horribly. I'm just talking about men who have nice mother's.
@@akiaragoode9681 Most women will drop a man if he goes broke, even if it's through no fault of his own that it happens.
If your mother treats you bad it's because she didn't wanted you. But if a mother ask for a child I'm sure she will give him unconditional love that's a law.
That's why you, as a man, have to love yourself unconditionally. Fuck all else.
I read a saying once about the tragedy of man and love “most men will receive their first flowers at their funeral” men are severely under appreciated
I am lucky that I have received flowers from my female cousin years ago now, after she found out what I had been going through with my mental health.
That's a gut punch for sure
I understand the intended feeling of this quote, but I am a man and I do not want flowers. Flowers are a waste of money and I have no use for them, so the fact that I have never received flowers does not make me sad at all. I also do not yearn for complements. I accept myself with my faults and limitations and do not seek outside validation, and trust me, this is a much better way to live.
@@thebestforthemost ur a miserable soul my dear if I knew you personally I’d buy you flowers give you a hug and get you some coffee
As a woman myself, this is true. Society treats men poorly if they are poor or if they are suffering from mental or physical health. But everyone has sympathy for women, children and dogs. How about we all have sympathy for everyone. Mens mental and physical health is just as important as a woman's or a childs or an animals.
You're truly rare and special. I hope whoever you are with or you meet down the road realizes this.
@Beluga well it's more credible coming from a woman. It doesn't come across as men complaining about their issues within society
@Beluga I know, I'm answering your question about why they mentioned their gender. It's more helpful when the other gender can see our point of view
@Beluga why
@Beluga my name is Lorenzo so what do you think lol
This is why fathers are NEEDED in the household.
"Only Women, Children, and Dogs are Loved Unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he proves something."
-Chris rock
Let a woman put on 100 pounds or get terminally ill and then see what happens
Chris Rock is the king of Red Pill comedy.
Patrice O'Neal was b4 he died but yeah....Chris has the crown now
@@firstscorpio I just learned about him a couple of months ago.. I'll do my research.
But the fish bit was astonishing.
He is divorced and prolly paying tons in child support and alimony.
@@decembersveryown5935 And?
@@iggytheincubus which is why he prolly has a red pill outlook you moron.
When this came out I would have disagreed with him. Years later lost my job, and now I see just how freaking true this is. It even transcends cultures and generations.
It's funny no one even bats an eye when everything is going well. No one is thankful or anything. After all, you are just doing your obligation. But lose the ability to do that and your days are counted. If you don't hurry you will lose everything. Even family.
Funny part is a man has no problem providing for his wife, he probably loves her so much he would die for her. Never heard a woman be happy to provide for anyone but herself or her kids, nevermind her dying for you.
But i think thats how nature intended it to be. Women are suppose to love kids more. And we are supposed to love women.
@@amankishore3512 Guess our society fucked it up in its attempt for equality. The devil is in the details in how you define equality.
Men used to have a proper place in society and in relationship dynamics. We are primarily providers and protectors, and we are taught to treat women who are weaker than us with care and respect. Because of our hard work, we deserved respect and women look to serve and be our aid, as should be by their design.
Today's society of feminism and equality has killed that. Women took our jobs as we forcefully give it to them under the guise of equality. Positions of power strive for the 50-50 ratio throwing capability and equality of opportunity out of the window. Women are taught that they don't need men, and that everything a man can do a woman can do or even better. Then comes in the makeup and how consumerism and social media targets primarily women to give them a false sense of value and self worth. Women today think their piss don't stink.
It's a man's world because we built it. But make no mistake, it's a woman's system because it is designed for them.
@@christ5805 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
I hope you are doing better now sir
@@robbstark4084 well, I continued my education and have been working on different part-time jobs. Hope I will get a better job after I'm done. I also found a good woman thats kind but had a rough time through life because she decided to take care of her parents. They came to my country in hopes of getting better life prospects. She doesn't change my overall opinion of women, but she understands me a lot. Things have definitely been going better.
Hope you are doing good as well sir. Thank you for asking.
Thats the reality of life u explained there , the difference between a rider and a provider
I didn’t laugh not even once but I appreciate that Christ brought that reality up because nobody talks about how hard we have it as men. just because we are men it does not mean we are automatically rich, just like all woman doesn’t get to be pretty only a few it’s the same thing with us only a few gets have deep pockets.
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Same bro
Brotha! Hugs! So true
This is not funny.
It’s true as hell. And it is not funny
That's why it's funny, because there is truth in it. Albeit a sad truth.
Then reframe it: Chris is saying only men have agency and power. Women are just passive, reactive objects. And it's women saying this, not men.
I don't know about you, but that's the most positive thing I could possibly hear - and it's true
I see you point, but I think it’s funny because it’s true. Comedy ALWAYS has an element of tragedy and (unless absurdist humour) always has an element of truth
@@artemis01 thank you, that is a great way to look at it. Men have the masculine burden of performance but the benefit of not having a ticking time clock on their desire ability (because a man doesn’t have to be sexually attractive to be sexually desirable), women have the universal eternal privilege of choice (on a philosophical and actual sense) but do (well should) have the BURDEN of choice, not only that but her SMV is time limited
exactly 33yo virgin robot here!
Every time I see public display of affection of a couple , my mind reminds me of this video and his words replays . It snaps me back to reality of why i don't want a woman in my life because a woman will only love me under the conditions I provide something
That's how nature is. That's how mating works. The difference is that we have the ability to put abstract thoughts into reality... now it's a matter of adapting. You can choose to participate and continue your lineage or opt out
I feel you. I rather remain single forever than be with a species that will leave you right away if you stop providing something😐
At least we were loved unconditionally when we were younger
Yeah, and then you reach that akward stage where woman start clutching their purses or walking fast ahead of you, maybe it's only men of color idk 😅
See I don't know. Now I have to wonder if baby boys are looked at like potential future workers/providers. Even in this 'woke' society of ours, where girls are more encouraged than ever before, are boys still set aside like financial accessories for women and the system?
@@TheTsar1918 we are man we are 😔
@@BernieSanders-bn5dk It's not men of color, it's black men.
@@BernieSanders-bn5dk Nah I'm white and it's happened to me too.
Lets face it, when a man dies, people stand around and say;
"He was a good man, worked hard to provide for his family"
Thats the only metric of success.
That's why dogs are man's best friend, it's the only thing other than our parents that loves us unconditionally.
Parents love are conditional. U can be 40+, dead ass broke & your dog wouldn't give a damn its like God arrived everytime they see u. Your parents wouldn't treat u the same, understandable but still.
This one hits so hard. I have watched this around 20 times now.
Just to remind myself where our real world values are.
All the best gentlemen!
20 times now from who?
The worst part is that feminist and LGBT weirdos are pushing narratives against us and masculinity, they say we are oppressive, we are toxic, and all that bullshit. We built society, yet we are hated.
All the best gentlemen!
Exactly. Funny how the comment session is empty of women….
I get annoyed when feminist say it’s patriarchy that impose the traditional provider role on men. When clearly the average woman wants the choice to be able to go part time or to be a stay at home mum
In 2021, 81.2 percent of employed mothers with children ages 6 to 17 worked full time. 77.2 percent of mothers with children under age 6 worked full time. 86% of working mothers say they handle all family and household responsibilities.
@@smcjohnson how many were single and how many married?
All you blue pill dudes who are ready to take her down the aisle, remember this. If you EVER lose your footing she is out the door. Listen to wise counsel brethren
Even mothers can be this way with their sons.
i feel u bro !!! been thru (and still going thru) this shit .... feels horrible
I'm lucky my mother is great and truly does love me unconditionally
100% I'm still there
@@sizack4809 I escaped, but 20 years too late.
@@fahds2583 I escaped, but 20 years too late. Don't be me. Think for yourself and live for yourself, even if they say they need you. They are adults and should take care of themselves. You are not responsible for them. I am speaking from my life experience. 👍
Sad and true. At least a dogs unconditional love is reciprocated.
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dog's don't love tho
My pets are the only reason I haven't blown my head off already. I figured if I did go through with it, I should be sure to lock myself in another room so they wouldn't desecrate my corpse. Funny to think I would care about such a thing at a time like this but I do
His theory was proved at Oscars !
Congrats bro
Loving people unconditionally is my biggest requirement for a partner. Looks don't matter to me, being sane does. Fortunately, i found myself a woman who gives me just that. I'm currently stuck at home with a broken leg and she's always there for me. Lesson learned, always go for the quiet, shy adorable woman.
Advice taken sir
Aint that the truth brotha 👍
Well said
I moved to a new country, broke my leg and month and half after getting here. I still was able to find a place to live that was pet friendly so my gf and dog could come out. When I asked my gf to come out for a couple to help me out as I couldn't stand to make food, could barely get out of bed without excruciating pain she said "no" when I asked why not she said "because I don't want to". We broke up just before Xmas because she said she didn't feel fulfilled 🤦🏿♂️.
I believe that once men go past superficial things in a woman and only judge them by their experience, behaviors, thinking.. actual inner self.. that’s when you find the right one.
I mean, hello, that’s how you find the right anybody. Whether you like men, or women.
This isn’t rocket science. Women (and men) who put so much attention on the external is always a bad thing. Come on.
He’s RIGHT! Women put conditions on men: he needs to be tall, i like a guy in uniform, i like a guy with a beard, clean cut, a thug, a corporate guy, a bad boy, a guy with tattoos, a guy with dreads, a guy that rides a motorcycle, a guy that drives a truck etc. There’s ALWAYS conditions on the type of men they like but let a guy put conditions on the girl?? 😮
Quite often the only time a man experiences unconditional love is from his mother. That's if his mother is decent of course. Hence why a lot of men love their Mamma's. And why a lot of times women get super jealous if a man loves his mother.
Agreed, but that makes me wonder: "Why the Hell would the woman care about his feelings if she don''t love him?" 🤔
And even then it’s a dice roll of who u get as a mom
I’m jealous of you man . My mother was a horrible Abusive piece of human grange
Dogs are the only thing that love u Unconditionally. You end up being a "Bum" and see how much most mothers love are very conditional.
I'm 33 and I've never had a woman love me unconditionally. Once I thought I found one but she eventually left me. Just shows how depressing the world can be especially if you're a black man. It can really have you depressed.
Much respect good brotha. Don't let this world get you down. Life is 2 precious.
I may not be a black man but I truly hope you get through your hardships
@@firstscorpio thanks I appreciate it
@@Thomson07 thank you. I really appreciate it
@@Manofhonor1 you are welcome. Stay positive good brotha
This quote changed and saved my life
That's just reality. You have nothing you're nothing to a woman.
Women have so many options for a partner that they see a man as yet another number. And so-called simps are reinforcing this behavior.
@Thanos Prostitution can even the playing field a bit, but in the U.S. it's completely illegal.
@@Nutty151 exactly because women have it easier than us. Way easier for a girl to get a guy than a guy to get a girl
@@nelsondendomo6687 True, women practice something called "Hypergamy", which means they want a man with more money and higher social status than them. This leaves working class men out in the cold, and even poor women expect to marry a rich guy eventually. This has always been this way of course, but has really been aggravated since the past 40-50 years.
Damm Straight Homie!
I feel where he's coming from 100%. I know he's a comedian but this so true. We as men are treated worst by the justice system, misjudged by others, and are only loved most of the time what we have or can give. Why?
Add into that, we are expected to step up and defend the country in times of war while women run the other way. Fuck that, why should I defend a country that despises me?
@Ryan Jones looks like you have really accepted the unfair sad reality
But the fact is that it's double standard
@Chris Jones I hope you get through whatever youre goin through man seriously, it must suck to think like this. It gets better man trust me
No one in the audience laughs at the beginning because they all know its the damn truth.
There is nothing more true than this.....hurts on a deeper level.
Only 20 and this made me cry it's people that understands me
I once heard a wise man say to never tell yourself you're broke, you just having a cash flow problem willing to resolve.. I'm reminded by a story of that same man playing a board game with his young son and beating him a couple times before he told him it was time for bed when his son responded "it's not over until I win.." as we get older its important to rekindle with that childhood tenacity we all seem to have
After growing up I gave my dad so much more respect knowing that he was trashed talked for not having a great job or fancy things. He however supported and loved his kids with all his heart but knowing the truth after growing up that men do have it much harder then women do and seeing how unfair it really is. This is why men would rather hang out with their friends more cause men understand how hard it can be in life.
Honestly it's one of the saddest part of society. Women are lifted and their condition has gotten so much better but men, it's getting worse and worse
I think the top males have it very good as well, and they create a coalition with females to turn the bottom males into slaves...
And yet no one seems to care about men and their mental health. Why aren’t we talking about this?
I’m a man and I’m really appalled by this harsh truth.
We don’t have room for feelings in modern society my man
Unless a man is/was legitimately mentally handicapped and has been since early childhood/childhood or suffered a traumatic brain injury later in life or suffers from PTSD because of some horrific life event, men are normally not deemed or seen as that much of a priority to the world. They’re sort of on the back burner. Add to that, many men think & feel that if they actively seek out help/assistance for anything regarding their own mental health, they’re somehow a lesser man because of it, and are also weak because they couldn’t just tough it out and get on with their lives.
There are people that do. Roma army is a good channel to watch once in a while. Sometimes they just complain about human nature. All in all people including women, depending on age child also need to get thicker skin and mind their own business.
cause literally nobody cares about what men go through, all they have to provide is a snake oil (in the form of bullshit therapy and anti depressants.)
We can't Say S*** Cause People are like oh MAN UP man Wt huh you don't have any feelings cause your a Man...
Although i always knew this, thinking about it just makes me sad
@@aidanbrad1709 Aidan that’s exactly what’s happening to me right now man. As long as I’m not making her feel good it’s dead. She’s doesn’t want anything to do with me even if I’m hurt. If the relationship goes into the opposite end of the spectrum like things do (since life is always dual) - the dark is for you and the light part is hers. When things are going great and she’s feeling good about herself in the relationship you get all the care you need. When things go south like they’ll always do you’re on your own. Sucks bro. I’m feeling the sting right now man.
When I say that people around me think I'm the only woman who think that way. Thank you Chris for saying it aloud
Men out there, take care of yourselves, save for liquidity in your after mid life and old age, because that is when reality hits hardest, when you get treated as scrap if you were not financially stable.
The woman would even try to quarantine you away from the children because of your obsolescence
This is factual. When a man tells his family he’s in love, they ask about her. “What’s she like, where’s she from, how does she treat you” etc. When a woman tells her family shes in love with a man, it’s “what does he do for work, where does he live, what car does he drive, where did he go to school, how much does he make”
6 years ago, this made me laugh. Today. It made me cry.
His grandmas quote literally made me tear up. Life is tough for us men.
Always carried a natural apprehension with love and commitment. My caution was well founded! As a man, I'm not even sad. Proves what can clearly be felt and seen.
It's toooo bitter to digest ... let's live with this truth .....
I actually stopped talking to a girl last week. I tried talking to her about it, but it went one ear out the next. Women want you to do everything. Ask them out, make them feel special, try to impress and cater to them, make their life easier... but what have you proven you can do for me? Not a damn thing, can't even listen when I'm dealing with stuff without being judgemental.
Dont give up my dude, with this knoledge you *can* and will make a change
You know, i know and more and more men are starting to realize society dont really care about men, but thats how you start making some changes
"first you have to acknowlege there is a problem in order to work with it"
You can make a change, your child can make a change and i can make a change, we know there is a problem, if we give up actual evil people are wining
Don't ever complain about your problems and express your feelings to a girl you are interested in romantically, it is a huge turn off for them. Girls want a man who makes them feel safe and secure. They want to look up to their man and feel safe in his arms thats partly why they typically go for taller guy. When you start expressing your feelings and acting emotional they will start to be less interested in you, its not in their control either so dont blame the girl.
They expect to give u the same
🐈 every other man before u has gotten. Only good thing that can come out of MOST women at the end of the day are children
So true as a man husband and father this is 100% true
As a Men, I'm crying with this statement. This reality is no joke.
Men don't have the luxury of living in a world that coddles them. We're not safeguarded from any consequences. As a man, I wouldn't have it any other way. I never have to feel as I'm lacking a real life experience.
It'd be interesting to see a world where women are treated the same way men do. If they were treated the same then it would help put a perspective on everything for them but at the end of the day that will never happen because men are designed to fuck most women and that often means coddling them and letting them get what they want even if they're wrong because men will often do and say what women want if it gets them laid and keeps them happy.
My mother married my dad for money when the money faded away the love went out of the box now they are seperated. Men are on their own from beginning to the end. We are just atm machines for women, children. Any women that says it ain't true she lying.
Men would pick a broke 20 year old over a rich 30 year old woman. And men would use their money to get the most attractive yoing woman they can get while career women with their oen money are left on the shelf.
@@maryjack3830 Some men will date an older woman with money.
So true. If I knew this before getting into a relationship/marriage, I would have stayed single.
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer?
Women are loved short term men are loved lomg term.
As an almost 40 yr old man who's been married a few years and has 2 children I had to come into this comment section and see if anyone else has had the same experiences as I've had with this particular subject, I have yet to find one...
My wife, the world, my children, my parents, friends, teachers, etc, etc have never made me feel like the love I received from them was contingent on providing, never happened. And it's my POV that unconditional love doesn't mean we just allow ppl to do whatever they want and for us to just keep on loving them and trying to "make it work", I can love you more than life itself but still be able to walk away from you at the drop of a hat for certain things. Infidelity is that for me, I know myself and I know I wouldn't be able to ever put that away and move on, I can still love you but have enough self worth to walk away.
I have some health issues, lost my job. I thought my wife will support me, encourage me, I felt I need just some time. She said ok, just do some work at the house, renovate it, but I was to slow for her wishes...
So now I'm at my parrents, deppressed with suicidal thoughts. Yeah, this joke is on point. I dunno for what to live anymore except for my mother. 31yo with some clothes and nothing more... I just wish to stop exist, becouse Im coward to end it myself...
Feels bad man… You alright? It’s painful knowing/thinking you are on your own. In this society there is no unconditional love for men. However, there is no shame in asking for help. There have been people who have gone through similar experiences. It helps to find a place/person you can talk to. Whether it’s an old friend, elderly people, church (where they don’t only judge but also love), etc.
Good luck!
Dont do it bro
You now know there is a problem with society, i dont have the answer but its not that
Work on yourself, donate to a men's organization better the world with your emotional knoledge
I know its looking grim and im really sorry about what happen, you deserved better
Your are not alone
Live ur life
I know your comment was 2 years ago, but I hope you're okay now. Sorry to hear about your situation and I hope things got better. You're not worthless.
Grandma "A broke man is like a broke man-Can't do nothing with it." Thanks Grandma!!
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer?
Women are loved short term men are loved long term.
Every men in that arena felt it, The vibe felt it
It’s all the women laughing fr
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer?
Women are loved short term men are loved lomg term.
Of all the languages, my man chose to speak facts...
My father and me didn’t get along for most of my life. I was a disappointment to him and rightfully so, I was a fuck up for a long time. I used to think he hated me and it broke my heart. In my 30s now and having a much better relationship with him, looking back I realize that wasn’t true. Even when I was broke, early 20s and living with him, at the peak of his dislike for me, he never asked me for a dime, he never told me to leave, and he always asked me what I wanted to eat when I came to the kitchen. He’s getting older and weaker now, I take care of him now from time to time. We haven’t spoken much at all in the time we’ve spent together and I still wouldn’t consider him and me to be close, but I love him and I’m going to miss him when he’s gone. He showed me what unconditional love is.
This is sadly SO true and WAY more relaxant today than when he first said it.
This is why a dog is mans best friend. Dog will love man unconditionally.
This made me cry, not out of laughter.
Something I’ve heard before: “Most men receive their first flowers at their funeral”. And that really makes you think.
Thats crazy how accurate that is.
Truer words have never been uttered
This actually gave me the chills it’s so true
I used to work in an office, and there were dozens of young women, I'm talking under 25 years old, and almost all of them were going out with a guy 4 or 5 years older who earned at least twice what they do. I refuse to accept they were attracted to their looks (most of their boyfriends were pretty ugly), or their personality. These women were the type to obsess over their Instagram pictures of them holding a cocktail, while discussing Love Island or TOWIE. So don't tell me men are shallow and women are opressed; I see way too many women specifically dating a man for his money, and they then get all the sympathy and law on their side in divorce.
It's even more sad that Netflix didn't upload the this clip in their channel.
This is so sad yet 100% true. I often wonder, my worth is measured by how much I can provide. Other than that, if I don't have that minimum salary bracket, I don't matter. Even what job I do, how established I am and the assets I have.
This isn't he realest words ever spoken. All facts! Once you hit manhood you realize this ten fold. It's life tho
He nailed it. They're laughing because it's true
Not true. Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer?
Women are loved short term men are loved lomg term.
It's funny how people say that mothers are the only ones who will love you unconditionally when some people don't even have that (myself included).
Really highlights how shit a hand I've been dealt in this life.
Painfully true. I actually met a girl who is not like that, I didn't know they existed. That was the first time I experienced that legendary female empathy I kept hearing about. She should be cherished, right ?
Meet one too. We're lucky man.
Though to be fair some cultures are just very very sick. Anglo cultures are THE WORST in the developed western world. When humanity and empathy are the exception and not the rule, you know your country is headed for annihilation (check my channel).
Western Europe is much better and more human!
just wait until the mask comes off, we all thought the same thing at one point. Unicorns do not exist sorry
I am sure she is under 29 years old
It's just a matter of time... You'll be surprised when that time comes.
Never trust something that bleeds for 3 days every month but still never dies. By the time they cheat death, who do you think you are.
Give her time, you'll understand what Chris Rock is talking about.
In coming max 9 years you will be divorced....
My bet 900$
any one interested in betting???
This hits hard. Recently broke up with my girlfriend. She cheated, lied, manipulated, did everything she could to bring me down. She only loved me when I had something to offer. When we split everyone was so quick to take her out and find her a new man and shower her with affection and gifts for being the toxic one in the relationship. She gets to go on about her day doing dates and getting attention from all over. It sucks.
All in all though i have learnt some valuable lessons and I know now that us men walk alone. Sometimes you have to tell yourself that this was the hand you were dealt and you have to make the best of a bad situation, its a man’s life story.
Damn dude, i wish you would meet the right woman
@@veniveni5802 One day, some day! Just gotta keep moving forward and becoming a better version of myself 😊
@@slapzk5355 similar ish happened to me, (ex fiance) she left same day she said she loved me, a week later she was pregnant w/a tinder randos kid.. had me wishing I wasn't here..
@@theironson1043 Damn man. Sorry to hear that. I feel we live in such a toxic time now aday’s when it comes to dating. There seems to be no depth in it whatsoever. Best thing to do is learn and move on I find. If not it will just rip your heart out.
it's true, but what can we do? just keep grinding and be proud of the value you bring to the world.
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer?
Man he hit that one straight on, from a comedic stand point he speaks the truth, it’s sad but it’s true!!! That’s why everybody Loves Chris!!!
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer?
Like I said it’s sad but true, if a woman is asked what can she bring to the table, some gets offended. Man are not see for the sacrifices that we make but instead only seen as a provider & when we fall and make our mistakes who is there to back us, yes there are some women out there who are supportive of their man. but when a woman provides she is praised and empowered and given credit due.Beautiful is but skin deep but inner beauty, personality, attitude & being humble last longer !
@@JayP7676 Men will pick a broke 20 year old over a rich 30 year old. What men want from women is their youth abd beauty, not their resources. Plenty of older career women resources to bring to the table but men dont want them.
@@maryjack3830; NOT ALL MEN!!! As you see in my comment, I never once said all Women! There are Good Women out there as well as GOOD MEN!!!
@@maryjack3830 You must be one ugly mother.
Even though that’s supposed to be a standup Chris knew damn well it wasn’t going to be funny, because he knows damn well it’s the sad truth.
The best comedians use reality as the building blocks of their humor.
100%. I hate comedians that cry about cancel culture. The culture has changed and you have to work with it.
Let me add... Women, Children, dogs, and drugs are loved unconditionally.
A woman who is an alcoholic or prescription/illegal drug addict will always choose her drug of choice over her dog, her children, or her man.
He's right to put so much emphasis on dogs. I'm a dog lover as well, yet it's sad to realize that nine times out of ten the dog will get more love than me if I fall on hard times.
This is so true and real.
I could honestly testify that this is absolutely 100% true!! I was working under the one of the most sexiest bosses I have ever known in my life. The day that I had met her, she started asking me questions like if I had lived on my own and do I have my own vehicle. It's sad but it's true. It's just the reality that we all need to accept as 100% men! I hate to say it, but it's true. God bless all us men! ❤️
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer?
Women are loved short term men are loved lomg term.
This is so true it’s sad.
The realist thing I ever heard any comedian say! Cause it’s true!
Mothers will still love their son unconditionally. But it’s still a lonely life out there for many men.
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer?
Women are loved short term men are loved lomg term.
WOMEN AND MONEY GO HAND IN HAND. NO MONEY, NO HONEY. PERIOD.
Men are loved for their resources. Women are loved for their youth and beauty. Which one lasts longer?
Well, no hymen, no diamond.
@@moshameem99 Non virgins still have hymens. It doesn't just fall off. Not to mention butt and mouth səx.
@@maryjack3830 lol. Not as common as it not falling off.
I got laid off this year after almost 27 years at the same company. I am finding Chris Rock's assessment to be true.
Bruh it feels like men’s rights don’t even exists in a women’s mind
Because they don't. But this is a double-edged sword... It's the reason why it's a mans world. A man has to make something of his self... a women doesn’t... in-fact no one cares what she does.. all we care about is she pretty and agreeable; now that doesn’t sound fair either and you want to know why? Because life isn’t fair.
@@b3at2 you're right, it is a double edged sword. When a woman is successful she doesn't make the same money her male counterparts do, to do the exact same job. It's a Man's world, and has been since the beginning of time.
@@missmew3499 Wait, women are 60 plus percent college students now. Don't pick high paying jobs. Men generally work more overtime bringing home bigger paycheck if hourly. Reason a lot of women aren't entrepreneurs (not including OnlyFans) is because a lot CEO's will initially have work 70-80 hours per week. Most men don't even want to work that many hours. Listen Elon Musk interview for example of how many times failed, living at work, etc. That's a special kind of dedication. You want some good paying jobs? Line men working off helicopters, lumber workers, oil rigs. You wanted equality now get responsibility come with it. Holy crap. That got dark quickly but that's the truth. Men 3 times suicides as women. Much higher and longer incarceration rates for men. Just being 100 with you.
Only in a modern society. In a tribal society, it's a whole different ball game.
@@trexme1256 the reason women can't work long hours or do lumberjack type jobs is because we have children at home. Men can't handle being full time parents, women don't have physical strength. That's not rocket science to figure out. Same goes for the long hours. Lots of women would be CEOs, in fact it would be a better world if more women ran things, but again, responsibilities at home dictate. It's a man's world, and until men can give birth and raise kids, that won't change.
When comedy gets serious...hit me in the chest like a kick from Bruce Lee!
Sucks this is the harsh reality for us men, but at the end of the day I’d rather just use that pain and suffering to fuel it into my career choices for me and me only so when I get old o could thank my younger self for not having to rely on anybody for anything
Can we end up alone then?
So men if they see us this way why would we not in return expect something of them 😊