If you're looking to go deeper into each topic of the Dream Life Series, check out the Create Your Dream Life Course! 🌻 lavendaire.com/dreamlife It's the first ever Lavendaire course! - A six-week, interactive program to help you discover your true potential, release your fears & make your dream life a reality. Just like the Dream Life Series, it features the different aspects of creating your dream life (with worksheets, exercises, and journaling prompts), but the course is more structured and detailed, with a guided experience. Essentially, it's the next step up from the series! PLUS: It's been over a year since I created the Dream Life Series, so I've personally learned so much more about life and the artist of life journey. I'll be sharing those new exclusive insights in the course, so don't miss out!
What helps me when I find myself comparing myself to others is often times people's lives aren't exactly how they appear on the surface. Not to diminish their happiness & success, but behind every happy & successful person is bad days and struggles. We're all just trying to find our way through life. Most people only showcase the good things. So we can't read into that too much!
this is so special to me ❤️ I’ll be moving far from home soon, alone at sixteen, against my parents’ wishes. I know what I’m doing is best for me, and best for them too. I am afraid of failure and having to admit I was wrong, but I’m hopeful that I can do it. I envy success, happiness and freedom of those around me, and that is exactly what I’m about to chase.
I love everything coming out of your mouth. Thing with envy, its pointless because their life is that way because of choices they made and yours is the way it is because of choices you made. And you can choose to change, choose to do something, to make something of your own. Do your own thing and let everyone else keep theirs
This really resonated with me. So many times I get stuck doing the same thing, thinking things will change or fall in to place for me, but I have to make the change. I need to challenge myself. Thank you!
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This conscious steering part got me, real. I've always steemed my hability to try again, I even wrote on the journal prompt about my strenghts my ''perseverance'' as one of them, but I realized watching this video that most of the times I've been just doing the same things over and over again, expecting to get different results thinking I've got better at that with the experience. I really need to evaluate this behavior 😅😅 Thank you, Aileen, for these amazing reflections. This videos are just on point!
Constant re-evaluation and experimentation has helped me to keep going because without them I feel like I can’t see progress 😊 love all the advice as per usual Aileen!
Love the messages❤❤❤ It reminds me about my last problem. I lose my patient's document several days ago. It was my mistake, I realize I'm careless. I felt really stress out because that document is really important for my study. But life must go on. I decide to letting go, forgive my self, and treat another patient to make new patient's case report. I believe that there is a value we can learn from mistake we made in the past. Take a lesson and never do the same mistake twice.
I needed this. I failed a really big exam and I feel like my world is falling appart. I lost my passion for what I do. I lost any will to continue. I know inside me that this is a bad attitutde... I am working on myself and on my self love right now. Thank you for putting these pieces of advise right when I needed them the most.
This is Lavendaire gold! 💛 such good and helpful advice. I’m loving the worksheets as part of my mid year review. I would add with regards to comparison, that yes we feel bad about ourselves Or we feel proud if we think we’re doing better than others- so looking down on ourselves (condemnation) or others (pride), both are bad outcomes of the comparison trap. Looking forward to the next video! 🙌🏽🌻
You are spitting knowledge left and right! The tips you give are tips I myself know, but to hear it from someone else and from a different perspective gives me such a boost. Keep up the good work. I
As I am writing all the task u give I am really feeling the real me and my path and uniqueness of it! Thanks Aileen u have chose a great way of doing that and I'm grateful to u! love u💖
You are so inspiring....thank you very much..never stop even one small step for every day.....forgive yourself....let.self criticism out of the door....all of them just for me....
ive been so hard on myself lately, and i fell like im losing mysel a lil bit. but this video helps me a lot! thankyou!! loveu!!! sending u a huge hug from Indonesia!
Monica Ra'Chelle great!! Your young enough to make (& bounce back w/ time) mistakes but wise enough to learn from them, evolve and create magnificent work!! I'm proud of you, you have a great future
This is one of your best videos so far ☺ thank you, and very interesting the idea of keeping track in a notebook of my mistakes and what i learned from them . Hugs from italy
thank you thank you thank you! this is truly meaningful to me. something happened to me a couple of weeks ago, something small but it got me thinking about myself and how I wish to be seen by others. I had this deep unpleasant feeling of envy towards someone I didn't even know. at first it made me really sad because I started to think about all the things I don't have, but then I flipped it into something positive and I thought you know what? this just means that you want to grow and get better. you just know what you want and you're ready to work for it. I think your video is the way of the universe to tell me I was right. also, I've been thinking a lot about forgiving myself and finding a different and smarter way to get where I want to so it just feels like you knew what was in my mind. thank you💓
Omg you look very beautiful! Idk if it's the blouse or something else but you look very radiant! I had to mention it. Great video by the way! Thank you for the tips!
You are amazing Aileen, thank you so much for sharing this message. I definitely needed this and you gave me some awareness about my journey of doing the research and writing my thesis. 🌻💖
Thank you for the video. It was a really inspiring video with very helpful advices and tips. By the way you look really beautiful and bright today. Love you and love your channel.
Now I'm free about exams and I can watch all your videos 💚🙆 Thanks you so much for giving us a lof of you at this series I really appreciate all what you do and you always inspire me 💚🙆
This is my favorite video so far. Thanks a lot Aileen, for the very useful #DreamLife Series, and for sharing so much useful information from your own experience. God bless you, and keep doing the good work. :)
Just wanted to thank you for your videos.❤️ they are so inspiring and well-made!!! the series came in a time in my life where I needed it the most too:)
I Redid your Course, ~ The Dream Series Videos, ~ ♡{I first did them A few Years Ago}, ~ And You Really Helped Me Enlighten my Way Again, 💕💐 , Wishing you The Best in Your Day, 🤞💫🦄 N
Have you ever read "The Hero with A Thousand Faces" by Joseph Campbell? I just got back from a personal strategy retreat where we talk a LOT about the hero's journey, and I notice that your whole series has a lot of the information in both that book and the retreat! :) If you've never read joseph campbell, i think you'd like him!
Was excited for another video!!! I'm a little behind on everything in the emails because I am going back to get a Master's in Accounting , but I LOVE the videos and emails. I can't waitt to fill out everything you have in the emails!! Saving to my laptop STAT. I love you and your content is of the utmost quality. :) Just wanted to say I am participating, just a little slower. :)
dear aileen😍 ! i watched your last video also about your night routine.. i was very impressed by the notes you have on your phone.. 🌸 please please make a video about it! love you a lots my gorgeous lady💝
Oh god i love you sooo much lavendaire and i kiss u from morocco ❤ u know i'm trying to forgive myself cuz its a big obstacle for me.love uuuuuuu dear💕
Thanks Aileen....totally love this series.....I moved to Oz few years ago and still don’t have any friends but your videos always help me to stay positive and keep going.....could u plz make a video on how to not compare oneself to others and the feeling of being envious is so not kewl....how to deal with this kind of thoughts....TIA....🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻XoXO
There is no straight way toward our goals. We can be "on and off course" from time to time but what is important is that we know our path and sometimes detours made us realize things better. Just keep pedalling. Keep praying. Keep working. #OraEtLabora #DreamLifeSeries
If you're looking to go deeper into each topic of the Dream Life Series, check out the Create Your Dream Life Course!
🌻 lavendaire.com/dreamlife
It's the first ever Lavendaire course! - A six-week, interactive program to help you discover your true potential, release your fears & make your dream life a reality. Just like the Dream Life Series, it features the different aspects of creating your dream life (with worksheets, exercises, and journaling prompts), but the course is more structured and detailed, with a guided experience. Essentially, it's the next step up from the series!
PLUS: It's been over a year since I created the Dream Life Series, so I've personally learned so much more about life and the artist of life journey. I'll be sharing those new exclusive insights in the course, so don't miss out!
What helps me when I find myself comparing myself to others is often times people's lives aren't exactly how they appear on the surface. Not to diminish their happiness & success, but behind every happy & successful person is bad days and struggles. We're all just trying to find our way through life. Most people only showcase the good things. So we can't read into that too much!
this is so special to me ❤️ I’ll be moving far from home soon, alone at sixteen, against my parents’ wishes. I know what I’m doing is best for me, and best for them too. I am afraid of failure and having to admit I was wrong, but I’m hopeful that I can do it. I envy success, happiness and freedom of those around me, and that is exactly what I’m about to chase.
My goodness, you look SO GOOD. Very few people look this nice in yellow
I feel like I need this series to be a daily thing because it just brightens up my day! 💖
PassionFruit DIY 🤗✨
I love everything coming out of your mouth. Thing with envy, its pointless because their life is that way because of choices they made and yours is the way it is because of choices you made. And you can choose to change, choose to do something, to make something of your own. Do your own thing and let everyone else keep theirs
Consistently Christy yes, totally right ✨
This really resonated with me. So many times I get stuck doing the same thing, thinking things will change or fall in to place for me, but I have to make the change. I need to challenge myself. Thank you!
This conscious steering part got me, real. I've always steemed my hability to try again, I even wrote on the journal prompt about my strenghts my ''perseverance'' as one of them, but I realized watching this video that most of the times I've been just doing the same things over and over again, expecting to get different results thinking I've got better at that with the experience. I really need to evaluate this behavior 😅😅
Thank you, Aileen, for these amazing reflections. This videos are just on point!
This is a breakthrough! So proud of you ✨✨
Accepting failure is one of the hardest things for me even though I know it's part of the process...
Thank you for this powerful video! 🙌🏼
living breathing and dying for the aesthetic
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such a positive vibe i get from u, and u make me smile all the time, I love u too :)
Constant re-evaluation and experimentation has helped me to keep going because without them I feel like I can’t see progress 😊 love all the advice as per usual Aileen!
Piquetures by Nomi yes! ❤️❤️
Love the messages❤❤❤
It reminds me about my last problem. I lose my patient's document several days ago. It was my mistake, I realize I'm careless. I felt really stress out because that document is really important for my study. But life must go on. I decide to letting go, forgive my self, and treat another patient to make new patient's case report. I believe that there is a value we can learn from mistake we made in the past. Take a lesson and never do the same mistake twice.
I just wish this dream life series never ends... helping me learn new things about life everyday 🌻🌻❤❤
Thankyou Aileen for this🌻❤
I really liked how you said we should treat envy. Now I am going to create an 'envy' series in my journal ✌
This was really timely for me - most especially #5 "Comparison is the thief of Joy." Keep inspiring a lot of us out there, darling
That ones so important!!
your videos are helping me so much!
kind greetings from czech republic xx
This made me cry thank you
Life is a Marathon, not a sprint. Needed to hear that. ❤❤
Dear Aileen, everytime I feel down and unmotivated, I just have to watch your videos to get my groove back. I will always be grateful to you ❤
I needed this. I failed a really big exam and I feel like my world is falling appart. I lost my passion for what I do. I lost any will to continue. I know inside me that this is a bad attitutde... I am working on myself and on my self love right now. Thank you for putting these pieces of advise right when I needed them the most.
That color suits you so well. Gorgeous. Thanks for this type of content. IT'S PRICELESS
This is Lavendaire gold! 💛 such good and helpful advice. I’m loving the worksheets as part of my mid year review. I would add with regards to comparison, that yes we feel bad about ourselves Or we feel proud if we think we’re doing better than others- so looking down on ourselves (condemnation) or others (pride), both are bad outcomes of the comparison trap. Looking forward to the next video! 🙌🏽🌻
You are spitting knowledge left and right! The tips you give are tips I myself know, but to hear it from someone else and from a different perspective gives me such a boost. Keep up the good work. I
Yaqeen Snipes 💓💓
As I am writing all the task u give I am really feeling the real me and my path and uniqueness of it! Thanks Aileen u have chose a great way of doing that and I'm grateful to u! love u💖
Super positive soul... Your voice just trigger me always to do my best... Always listen your podcast for that reason
Thank you! You're always here with your tips when it's needed ♡
I love the way you talk and your inner beauty 💓
You are so inspiring....thank you very much..never stop even one small step for every day.....forgive yourself....let.self criticism out of the door....all of them just for me....
Just caught up with these videos! Loving this series! Thank you Aileen!!! You’re amazing! 💗
You're one of my favorite TH-camrs
Thank you Aileen. I’m having a hard time right now. During your video, each tip encouraged me so much.!
This is soo essential! Dream life series is getting to its best with every episode💜
Keep going,
Love you💕💕
ive been so hard on myself lately, and i fell like im losing mysel a lil bit. but this video helps me a lot! thankyou!! loveu!!! sending u a huge hug from Indonesia!
vanya fajria hugs 💕
Spanish subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings 💕
You are AWESOME Aileen. Thank you for this series!!
You inspire me so much! I’m only 14 (15 in two weeks) and I’m writing a book and designing clothes! Thank you so much!!!
Monica Ra'Chelle great!! Your young enough to make (& bounce back w/ time) mistakes but wise enough to learn from them, evolve and create magnificent work!! I'm proud of you, you have a great future
Ms. Green Thank you so much!! 💖
This is one of your best videos so far ☺ thank you, and very interesting the idea of keeping track in a notebook of my mistakes and what i learned from them . Hugs from italy
oh my gosh this video came just in time😂😂 I seriously needed these reminders
lots of love! 🌻
thank you thank you thank you! this is truly meaningful to me. something happened to me a couple of weeks ago, something small but it got me thinking about myself and how I wish to be seen by others. I had this deep unpleasant feeling of envy towards someone I didn't even know. at first it made me really sad because I started to think about all the things I don't have, but then I flipped it into something positive and I thought you know what? this just means that you want to grow and get better. you just know what you want and you're ready to work for it. I think your video is the way of the universe to tell me I was right. also, I've been thinking a lot about forgiving myself and finding a different and smarter way to get where I want to so it just feels like you knew what was in my mind. thank you💓
Isabel wow yes! So proud of your growth and realization ✨
Omg you look very beautiful! Idk if it's the blouse or something else but you look very radiant! I had to mention it. Great video by the way! Thank you for the tips!
You are amazing Aileen, thank you so much for sharing this message. I definitely needed this and you gave me some awareness about my journey of doing the research and writing my thesis. 🌻💖
This is so cool!
You're amazing! You've actually helped me so much
Thank you for the video. It was a really inspiring video with very helpful advices and tips. By the way you look really beautiful and bright today. Love you and love your channel.
About to take my first steps towards working as a nurse! Thank you for this Aileen! 💕💓 Your vids always come at the best times!
nightingale hey congratulations... Good luck girl...
trups corner 💓💓💓 Thank you so much! 😭😊
Hiii Aileen ! Thanks for making this valuable video , i really need it :)
I needed to hear that about self-forgiveness and moving one. Love your videos.
Now I'm free about exams and I can watch all your videos 💚🙆 Thanks you so much for giving us a lof of you at this series I really appreciate all what you do and you always inspire me 💚🙆
You always make me think positive no matter what the situation is. Thank you thank you so much!! 💜💜
I just joined the email list! This series has been so inspiring!! Thanks Aileen. 💖😘
Thanks for the inspiration I might need this in these days
My fav by far. Thank you.
Thankyou Aileen! Again thankyou for inspiring all of us. Keep doing great work!
OMG Aileen. You're absolutely gorgeous with this hair style. ❤❤
this video is sure to lead to some changes in my life
thank you so much
loves from turkey😊
Thank you for your tips, you're very helpful😊
you believe it or not ,I dreamed you yesterday..😀😀we are improving with your content Aileen. Thank you
I love your hairstyle and colour ❤️ I’m really into the videos you’re making so thank you. Love from New Brunswick 🇨🇦
Catherine ❤️❤️ thank you!
Thanks for the encouragement Aileen.
Love this series! Thank you for sharing! I love the yellow top - where is it from?
Aleen you bring me joy ..... love .... happiness ... thank you a lot for those videos 💕💕💕💕 i lov u
This is so timely for me. Thank you so much!! Great video!
I love this series!
This is my favorite video so far. Thanks a lot Aileen, for the very useful #DreamLife Series, and for sharing so much useful information from your own experience. God bless you, and keep doing the good work. :)
Ishwari Tank 💕💕
I NEEDED to hear this!! Thank you Aileen!!! 💕💕💕💕
This is one of favorite videos from you!!! I’m going to save this to a playlist!
Thank you so much!! I think, this was something I needed to hear!^^
Yellow looks so good on you!
Just wanted to thank you for your videos.❤️ they are so inspiring and well-made!!! the series came in a time in my life where I needed it the most too:)
I NEED THAT BLOUSE! I love it
Thankyou dear for always motivating us ! And goodluck t0o for your journey
Thank you. This is great. Sending you lots of love.♡♡♡♡♡
I Love this series
Thank you
Like always, i love your video so much💙
I Redid your Course, ~ The Dream Series Videos, ~ ♡{I first did them A few Years Ago}, ~ And You Really Helped Me Enlighten my Way Again, 💕💐 , Wishing you The Best in Your Day, 🤞💫🦄 N
Wowow very helpful and make me more refreshing and happy forever....sooo refreshing and energetic made my day colorfull...big fan from India💓💗💗
Awesome video! This can help me to change my mindset. That top is really cute btw 💕
Have you ever read "The Hero with A Thousand Faces" by Joseph Campbell? I just got back from a personal strategy retreat where we talk a LOT about the hero's journey, and I notice that your whole series has a lot of the information in both that book and the retreat! :) If you've never read joseph campbell, i think you'd like him!
Was excited for another video!!! I'm a little behind on everything in the emails because I am going back to get a Master's in Accounting , but I LOVE the videos and emails. I can't waitt to fill out everything you have in the emails!! Saving to my laptop STAT. I love you and your content is of the utmost quality. :) Just wanted to say I am participating, just a little slower. :)
Amazing 😍❤️❤️ you should make but link for yor clothes loved it so much 💛
Self-forgiveness is imp.thx for this.
U really inspire us.😊👍
Thank you once again 💕 I can't wait for more series 😘
My daily dose of motivation💜
I force myself to watch your series because ik this series is gonna help me 🐅🐅
Where do you get that top ☺️it looks amazing on you !
Thank you so much Aileen 💞
Now I know what to do this weekend! This series has helped me alot! I was wondering if you could do an adulting video...love your vids!🌻❤
dear aileen😍 ! i watched your last video also about your night routine.. i was very impressed by the notes you have on your phone.. 🌸 please please make a video about it! love you a lots my gorgeous lady💝
Love.. from mauritius🇲🇺
Thank you Aileen! This is so inspiring 😍
Thank~you Lavendaire, 💗
Oh god i love you sooo much lavendaire and i kiss u from morocco ❤ u know i'm trying to forgive myself cuz its a big obstacle for me.love uuuuuuu dear💕
This video was so good and so helpful, thank you so much :)
yellow is perfect on you ♥__♥ + inspiring video, thanks from france ♥
Omg you're almost at 600k! 💕
Thanks Aileen....totally love this series.....I moved to Oz few years ago and still don’t have any friends but your videos always help me to stay positive and keep going.....could u plz make a video on how to not compare oneself to others and the feeling of being envious is so not kewl....how to deal with this kind of thoughts....TIA....🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻XoXO
I have this video on self worth and comparison! I hope it helps! bit.ly/2KB8lq7
I really love your video :) Thank you :) From Italy
These series are love😙
There is no straight way toward our goals. We can be "on and off course" from time to time but what is important is that we know our path and sometimes detours made us realize things better. Just keep pedalling. Keep praying. Keep working. #OraEtLabora #DreamLifeSeries
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You are wonderful😍 Love from Romania💓💚