Thanks for the shout out, Steph! Yes, you've come such a long way! 👏🤩 Great round-up and I love that you mentioned "planning" for Play which was actually my addition to the Daily Focus! 😁 So many people focus on paying bills, etc and forget what this whole system is about: looking after our homes AND ourselves! The original Flylady Plan and Play was to plan and then go play afterwards (Marla chose Tuesday because it was her day off). But I know that, like most of us, if I don't plan Play, it won't happen. So I added planning for Play, activities for me or for the family. Nothing major: meeting up with a friend for a walk, brunch with family, a movie with the kids. We all need something to look forward to and it keeps my friends on my radar. Love to you, speak again soon! 💖👋😃
How could I ever not mention you! That’s so funny about Plan and Play - I didn’t realize that wasn’t even original, it’s such a natural addition. Lol we all add our own little something 😊😊💕💕 I hope a lot of people use your baby steps, my original inspiration! 💕 lots of love, talk soon!
I found the flylady around 20 years ago...while it WAS helpful for getting me into some sort of routine, I found it overwhelming, confusing and waaaaaay too many emails! I believe you have taken the important points and simplified them to where everyone can understand how it works. Your 21 Day challenge here on TH-cam, coupled with your free printables makes it SO much easier for anyone starting out! Wish you were around back then, but it's never too late to be inspired to start again! "FLYLADY, BUT EASY!" Thanks, Steph!
I too tried Flylady early on and could not deal with so many emails. The website is overwhelming as well, so I quit. I happened to come across the app, and IT IS A GAME CHANGER. I am thriving using the app. It is so well done and I think it would be great for those like me , who were overwhelmed by the system.
I'm currently re reading sink reflections(fly lady's first book) and she says in the beginning if your house is really out of hand, you start with decluttering instead of the zone cleaning. Her quote is 'You can't organize clutter' chapter 3 and there are instructions on how to tackle the clutter
Your bubbly energy and positive outlook are so refreshing. You make this seem so doable! I have really learned a lot from your videos and am slowly incorporating these routines. My house is getting better! You are the only person that has made FlyLady comprehensible to me.
Your Zone Looping method has been a game changer for me! I’m really struggling with implementing zone cleaning as a habit (I’ll keep up on it a week or two and lose motivation). With your way, I can acknowledge that I fell off the wagon again and pick up right where I left off. I love it!
I love the flexibility and adaptability of this system. I stated this past year and I like the structure which keeps me on track. Yes, there have been weeks where no zone cleaning happens, but that's ok. It's important to give yourself grace and let the system work for you instead of being a slave to the system.
I couldn't ever do zone cleaning, because I had too much clutter- you can't clean if there is clutter! Now I've started to declutter... I'm on the road to house and mind clearance.
Me too , I had so much stuff a couldn’t look after it , so I gave a lot of plants away and oil paints and garden things , I’m keeping going till my house looks like a holiday rental
Steph, you deserve an award🏅🏆 for taking the Flylady system and making it fun, easy, and...normal!! Honesty, I decluttered my control journal and printed out your modern, streamed, simple, fun, and easy sheets!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart from MO!!!
I downloaded the fly lady app a month ago. It's really helpful and customizable. I highly recommend it. I don't like having paper checklists around. My phone is usually with me so I have music, timers, and the checklists all in one place. This is a great video to go over how it works! Thank you!
I've been following the flylady system for 3 years now but I just love love love hearing about it still so much that I watched your whole video! I think you did a great job explaining it ❤️
Great video! Fly lady has been a game changer for me. I’ve definitely been a “secret slob” forever and it’s so amazing to feel like I have control over my house
This really helped me. When I’ve researched fly lady before I was so overwhelmed by the different layers of the system. Your video really broke it down! Thank you! I started a power hour yesterday. It got interrupted but I got SO much done! So thankful I made progress♥️
Thank you, Steph, for all you haave done to simplify the Flylady system. I especially love your Weekly Schedule and Detailed Cleaning List, which I have laminated and put into my Control Journal. Some other useful things I have in my Control Journal are lists of addresses, phone numbers and email addresses for friends, relatives and tradesmen, health providers, etc; bus timetable; emergency plan for bushfires/storms; list of birthdays in date order; Christmas card list. 🙋♀️💐🇦🇺
Did you laminate them so you can reuse (write with dry erase and wipe off) instead of wastefully having to reprint new ones? If so that's a great idea.
@@TheSecretSlob I like the ideas of fly lady, but your sweet and fun personality, combined with your encouraging and break it down style is just great. I love your videos. Thank you
I really appreciate you and your helpful videos. Simplifying the FlyLady system was a game changer for me. I had tried the original and got quickly overwhelmed and dropped it. Then I discovered your TH-cam channel and now I’m on a regular cleaning schedule that fits my life and lifestyle.
I discovered Fly Lady because I kept seeing people mention her in comments on Pinterest. So I read her book, Sink Reflections, and really loved it! However, I learned to use her system by watching your channel! So I appreciate you so much, thank you for sharing and breaking things down
Thank you Steph for going over this again. I always enjoy watching your videos, because it’s like you stopped by for a cup of coffee/tea. You are always so enthusiastic and sweet. You help me stay motivated. I’m a 67 year old Grandma with a very bad back. So, I’ve zoned cleaned for years. I am usually able to keep my main living areas clean and decluttered; living room, den/kitchen, master bedroom and 1/2 bath, laundry room and small front bath. It’s the 3 front bedroom that are stacked up right now. (We are waiting for May to have a garage sale. It snowed last week and it’s been cold and windy in Amarillo TX). Thanks again. Be safe and watch out for those bears. ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
I've been doing the fly lady system for years. Steph your weekly planning sheet is my favorite! Everything in one place. Love the color of your top and the way you explain things to make it simple.
I found the Flylady system years and years ago. Honestly, it confused me so much that after trying it numerous times I always gave up. It wasn't until I found your channel, hearing you explain it so simply, that I finally was able to make the system work for MY needs. I can't thank you enough for that. My house used to be so messy that it was causing tension in myself as well as my marriage. Using your tools has transformed me as a person. I love having a neat & tidy (but lived in) home and hubby likes it too. Some weeks I "fall of the wagon" but thanks to you, I realize we all do at times and I just start at the beginning and get right back on. Thank you so much for all your tools, support and your positive attitude. Thanks to you I'm now a reformed slob - lol.
I have adjusted FLS to work for me. M-Home Reset, T-Bed n Bath, W-Plan n Pay, Th-Errands n Car, F-Home Blessing. Weekends are busy. I agree the daily routines are the KEY!! Papers are still a problem though!! Maybe that could be a video....Hint.
Thank you Steph. I’ve really been struggling. Being older with some health issues, I struggle with energy. Your encouraging words are inspiring me to try again.❤️🌹
Energy and health challenges can make it challenging!! For me, setting a timer for 15-45 minutes - then taking a 15 minute break gives me a nice window for my tidying/ cleaning. I aim for doing daily basics, and at least one 20/10 (set the ⏲️ and clean/ declutter/ tidy ...) ❤
I seriously have been following you since you started and NEVER get tire of seeing you remake these videos from time to time.....it's a great reminder and motivation to stay on or get back on track! ❤️
I love how you break down the flylady system to make it feel doable . Your 21 day babysteps and weekly printable helped me get started and now I've been able to make it work for my life ❤
I have just started watching your videos today, and have really enjoyed them! Your technique reminds me of Mark Twain’s famous quote: “The secret of getting started is breaking your complex, overwhelming tasks into small manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one.”
I have been doing flylady for a bit less than 2 years. In that time i did a huge amount of decluttering. It took me nearly that entire time to make a control journal, but my favourite thing is your weekly printable. It makes it so easy. When you said you write all over the back of it, my heart did a little happy dance. I thought it was only me who needed to do that! Thank you again for everything!
Fly Lady is the best system I have ever found and you are the best at explaining it I have ever found. I enjoy your videos so much! Thanks for your help!
I'm a flylady newbie. I like to choose one weekly focus daily. Kinda like you choose your dinner. My weeks never look the same. I find it easier that way.
Thank you for these videos. I tried fly lady in the past but only did the daily routines up to 21 days. I still make my bed. That’s the only habit it stayed with me. You explain the system so easily.
This is a wonderful video...soooo well explained.. I finally got the zone looping and that is what I will now do as the short weeks do throw me off. Thanks so much Steph! Your lists are the best, simple, very useful and manageable and not overwhelming!
I'm a not so secret slob, but I'm trying to change that. I have lupus, fibromyalgia, and several other auto immune illnesses, so I stay so tired and I hurt all the time. I must admit I've let my house go, but I'm retaking it. I've been working on my kitchen for a week or so and I've decluttered most of the cabinets, wiped down the microwave and the stove, swept and mopped, and today I started on my pantry. I'm feeling accomplished, but I can only work for about 30 minutes to an hour at a time.
Same here just finished two years Cancer treatments. Still on cancer medicine I'm 70 with fibromyalgia too. I'm so far behind in house. Trying to declutter and start doing things again. 30 minutes to hour is my limit on cleaning. I hope to get some money saved for window cleaners and carpet cleaners this year. It's overdue
@@carolnolan9439 congrats on finishing your treatments! I'm sorry you went through cancer. As long as we make steps to fix things baby steps are ok. They're still steps in the right direction.
This may sound silly but I found that your zone names were a big help and inspiration for me. I also found zone "looping" instead of partial/full week numbers was a game changer for me. Oh, and the 1 page "journal" is BRILLIANT!
You make it so easy to "do" Fly Lady! Her website is overwhelming. I don't have a daily Control Journal, but I do have one for Thanksgiving. Everything is there, so the prep, cooking, etc. is on autopilot. I don't bat an eye about getting the huge dinner done....by myself. Haha.
I have one for Thanksgiving and Christmas, including a baking sheet -everyone's favorite cookies and treats. I do my holiday baking the 1st weekend in Dec and freeze so I have them done and can pull them out for gatherings and get togethers.
@@lyndacolvin642 do you make the dough in the first week of December and freeze that or do you actually bake them all and freeze? Do they turn out ok? Would you share what kinds of cookies you do that with because that's my goal, to make them ahead in the first week of December so I can relax a bit the week before Xmas. It's usually a sleepless frantic time the week before and I'm too tired to enjoy myself and need a week to recuperate afterward.
I’m 3 days new to this Fly Lady… and taking baby steps, using the app. I will eventually will print out the Zones & Daily Routines. I am probably going to Laminate them. I also use the Jordan Page Cleaning Schedule, I’m probably going to mesh the 2. Honestly, I have ALREADY IN 3 days, see a HUGE difference. I’m cleaning, Decluttering and Purging.
I've watched this video almost every day for a week now. Having started FlyLady and then let parts of it lapse a couple times... I just want to get the basics firmly implanted in my brain.
So glad I found you a couple years ago now, you've helped me totally get a handle on my home! Thank you for making the fly lady approach so do-able and fun to go thru it with you! Loving everything you share!
Im sure you'll never see this ( as this is 2 years old) but you are absolutely gorgeous- such a beautiful spirit and energy to compliment a beautiful face. Makes me feel better because I am a secret slob as well and it makes me isolate and have no one over because I keep up with my appearance meticulously and then my home and car is an utter FEMA disaster- helps me not feel so alone in it. I guess I judge myself so much that I don't let anyone else. Anyways- thank you for this great breakdown of the flylady ( which can seem overwhelming when you're at the starting line). Thank you for sharing. :) hopefully I can make it to where youre at eventually.
Thank you for a captivating, clear and concise video. I have really bad ADD and this kept me focused for the entire video…which is no easy feat 🙂 just thank you Steph
Stephanie you are the reason I do fly lady my way! I use your zone sheets every wee and do the loop as well. I already had a menu system so meal planning didnt need its own box. I customized it for FROG stuff sonce i am such a procrastinator! (The frig came from. The Minimal Mom). I have customized other things as well including mirning routine to include devotions and prayer journal along with excercise since i had a knee replacement this summer! Thanks so much for this updated video. I plan to share it with family and friends. 💜
Frog stuff, though minimal mom definitely discusses it, is originally a Mark Twain reference to his quote, “If the first thing you do in the morning is eat a live frog, you can go through the rest of the day knowing the worst is behind you.” Brian Tracy adapted it to a productivity system called Eat That Frog. Your frog is your worst task, and you should do it first thing in the morning. The rest of the day is a breeze. It’s worth checking out on its own. :)
The best thing that I got our of the fly lady system is the control jurnal. It is just a clean point that I can bring myself back to if I get flustered or overwhelmed. I also keep in it ideas for projects I want to do. And all my self improving information I print out for myself.
Thank you for making this system doable! I started the Flylady system years ago, but eventually fizzled out because the website and so many emails just overwhelmed and exhausted me. A friend and I wanted to start again and help hold each other accountable. Your videos have been a tremendous help! You make it so much easier to understand, and you allowed me to give myself permission to make the system fit me and my home. Thanks!!
it's thanks to this channel of the secret slob I started working with the fly lady system, on the website of the fly lady itself I felt totally lost in all the details. I am still finding my way around it. It's not that I lived before in a total mess but more an idea of finding ways to make it easier. I love the morning and evening routines. One big win for me is, doing my dishes every evening (by hand, don't have a dishwasher) and putting them away in morning, and every morning a quick bathroom clean. And another game changer for me was buying a cordless stick vacuum cleaner and one of those floor mops with a build-in water-soap reservoir. Where I could postpone this task forever vacuuming and mopping, I now almost enjoy doing it.
Thanks Steph. You are fun and make things doable and easy to understand. Flylady is very overwhelming. I tried to follow before I found you and they send way to many emails..glad I found you.
Thank you for your videos, you are so motivating. I live in a 2 bedroom apt, I have broke my zones into 4 and this means no ugly half weeks. I also did a 4 week meal plan so that I don't have to think about "what's for dinner" it also makes grocery shopping so much easier.
Thank you! I recently watch one of your overview videos of the flylady system, and decided I had to try it out, but all the terms and charts was overwhelming! This makes so much sense. Very helpful.
Steph! You've made the Fly Lady SO easy to understand! I had heard of it years ago but never could navigate her site. I really like your explanations of things. Thanks!
Thank you as always!!! I've been following the flylady for 10 years now and I've been following you for about the same as well now ❤! I get what you mean, when you first start it can be overwhelming for you, with zones, dailys and everything. I've got a new job so I need to rearrange my routines now!!! 🙏👌🏼👍🏻 And like you said, you have too make it work for you! I like to lamanate the to do lists and get a dry-wipe pen to mark with then when done you can wipe clean for the next day/month. 😉😍🥳❤🙌🏼 Lots of love from the UK. ❤❤❤ xxx
I love the flylady system , I have flown on and off for years ! Really appreciate you breaking it down ! I love to turn on your channel and declutter while you talk!
Devotions are part of my morning routine. I can’t do the whb on one day. It doesn’t work for me. I do one room a day for 10 minutes, Mondays to Friday. Just a note to let ppl know they can adapt to what works.
I do zones the same as you. Full weeks. I write down what I get done in a cheap planner. That way, when I come back to it, I have a list of what got done.
The FlyLadyPlus app was a game changer for me. I’m able to check things off and keep track of what I still need to do. It’s basically the “control journal.” Best thing is it’s free
I am having a tough time in February and feel like I am sliding in to a depressive state. I just found the FLY LADY SYSTEM and I am hanging in there. Thank you 😊 💓
I use the flylady system, but do rooms as I feel they need it. Some rooms in my house don’t get used a lot so it’s not always necessary to clean them each time that particular zone comes around.
**** great job.. One additional hint: It is much easier to do zone work after de-cluttering that particular room. The biggest reason reported to FlyLady for not being able to keep their house clean was that they didn’t “de-clutter” first. As FlyLady says you can’t organize clutter. (23 year FlyCrew member.)
I love that you took the Flylady system and made it work for you and your family! I did the same for many years, working shifts and being on call made for really strange hours but I took the core message and made it work. Fast forward a bit, my life went off the rails (again) and I'm now ready to jump back on, with changes to suit my life. My whole house needs a really deep clean, it's a bit overwhelming but I know that I'll get there week after week.
Love you Steph! You are amazing! Thank you for offering all these free! You have changed my life by making the FLYLady system easy in my home! I found you when my twins were 4m old and my oldest was 2… took me about a year to really comprehend kinda like your year of flylady fails! But you have mastered it and made it attainable plus your encouraging AND entertaining! I know we’d be friends if I lived in Canada! Next on my list is to up my activity goals! If you can do 30k steps in a day while nursing an infant I can achieve my goals too! Thanks again! All the love!
I have been watching your videos for a while now and this one is just perfect!!! It is the most complete and it breaks down the system so well. Also, I love the fact that you just rotate the zone cleaning week after week because I have been postponing this and telling myself that I will start at the beginning of the month and keep forgetting and postponing again. The way you do it, there is just no excuse😅 Thank you so much
Extremely well explained...❤ u r the one who inspired me as I was trying to Declutter with ur video “1 year after flylady” also the video in which u had dedicated & divided the work in 15 min to ur entryway ... that really got me thinking as I was used to 4-5 hours clean -all or nothing perfectionist attitude. Which was not suitable in my current season
Love your channel. You are so positive and happy about the whole system . I really need to try it. The pne question I have is that with the basic jobs, then the daily jobs, the Zone cleaning and the power hour, are you not just cleaning all the time. That's how I feel now and the house still isn't right!
Thanks for the refresher! I love your channel! I’m a new mom and I’m struggling to keep up with all the fly lady tasks. How long did it take you to get back into your cleaning routines after your last baby? I’d love to see a video with advice for new moms like myself.
Hi! Here is the video series I made about getting back into it after my 3rd! Day 1 - Top 3 Habits | Flylady Routine Refresh | Clean with Me 2020 th-cam.com/video/vGvaddADp70/w-d-xo.html
Wow! That's so good!It's one of my favorite channels on TH-cam!,I want you to know you're doing really well!, I always support your wonderful channel.I hope you're always lucky
Thank you for being a breath of fresh air! 🥰 I greatly appreciate how you simplify things, cut through the extra, and get to the heart and point! Congratulations on all the progress you have made! 🎉 And truly thank you for being a cheerful, kind guide... Gently reminding us to be patient with ourselves, to forgive ourselves, and jump in where we are! 😊 I am so grateful for you!!! 🥰🤟
Thank you so much!! I absolutely adore the Fly Lady system but have been so overwhelmed by its components that I can’t seem to fully implement it. Seeing it broken down this way just clicked on a light in my head that put it all in perspective! I appreciate you and your channel so very much!!
Steph, PLEASE READ. Just finished watching your 22 goals for 2022. The calm app for meditation makes meditation easy, easy to fit in a morning routine and there is a lot there for kids as well. You can do a family plan so your sis and mom can join in too. Just wanted to share, my husband and I really enjoy it. Thanks for the video I needed a refresher. Wishing you the best!
Great video and printable! Thank you for making all of this video very simple and putting it all together as you did. Wow, to be so organized. I’m going to give it try!
I love this whole system and all the helpful posts. I wonder why none of these tasks are shared with others in the household. Not talking about you specifically but talking about the system. I have made my husband in charge of his own morning and night schedules and combined some of the tasks for example I’m in charge of unpacking the dishwasher in the morning and he’s in charge of “polishing the sink” and packing/ turning on the dishwasher each night. Kids are each in charge of their own launch pads and as I keep using this system I will also delegate decluttering tasks to each of them. No way I can do all of this by myself when the mess is created by all of us.
I love using the FlyladyPlus app. I’ve customized my lists and I like checking them off. Also now I don’t have to keep track of my control journal. Lol
I'm brand new to your channel and I was wondering if you have a video on how to organize a kid's room and tips on decluttering it. I have three sons and two of them share a very small room. It can get very overwhelming because there isn't much room for storage and they are "not so secret slobs"! hahaha, It's one of those spaces that is in desperate need of a revamp, but just walking in to wake them up each morning overwhelms me. Thank you so much for all the videos you do, they are so informative and have really helped me a lot!
Watch The Minimal Mom. She has 4 kids and they're happy with less stuff. Sounds like the key for you. Maybe each boy only needs 10 outfits, only 10 toys, etc. How many can they wear or play with at once? Teaching them young about contentment is important and less stuff is the key to being tidy. Teach them now so they're never overwhelmed like you are. Get them involved with the process of donating their clothes when they outgrow them so there's less to wash, fold, store, etc. Teach family to not give toys as gifts so you're intentional about how much they have and when toys come in that they love, they can donate toys they're too old for or don't love. Separate emotions from things. It can be hard to live without the first "this" or something you remember from baby-hood, but you, and they, need to separate the emotion from it for a healthier life or they'll be 30 and overwhelmed with a garage or basement full of boxes of "crap" they've been moving every time they relocate. Less stuff should be taught early. It comes from parents. It will solve your overwhelm as well as prevent it from them getting there. Incorporate a "giving" 15 minutes once a week into your routine where you sit on the floor with a kid and decide on what you can bless someone else with because they enjoyed it, but it's time to go live in someone else's house. This might be clothes they don't wear or a toy they don't love or don't play with anymore. Keep them involved and after you've done it weekly with each kid for a while, then you can start recognizing and acknowledging with them how there's more space to play and easier to get dressed in the morning and being tidy is easier. You can connect the act and existence of less stuff to the feelings of less overwhelm and the benefits. Don't skip this step, where you praise their ongoing work of blessing others with the positive feeling and life change it has on them (and you). This is where they learn less stuff is so good and they carry it with them. If you don't connect the dots, the light bulb moment won't happen. But I stress, wait for weeks to make them stop and observe the benefits of less stuff in their room. They need to see a big change. This is where it makes sense to take a couple pictures now, when you go in their room to wake them and feel overwhelmed. Then weeks later, when there's really a difference that less stuff makes on their room, you can sit quietly with them and reflect on the difference and they will actually feel it. Don't do this step too soon. The Minimal Mom stresses the importance of "managing less inventory" in every room of your house. It doesn't mean you have nothing but it means your kitchen drawers aren't overflowing and you don't dread folding laundry and putting it away because it all fits. Sorry to carry on and on but I had to learn this as an adult and I think teaching kids this is valuable. You shouldn't look at it as being an overwhelming project you have to do, but instead, a loving project you can teach your kids that they can take with them for life (like math class!) and they'll never experience this overwhelm you have right now. To them it's normal, so change their normal over the next few months.
This is great! I get stuck with keeping on top of all the different focus areas. Would love to see your schedule for a week in cal. format where u allocate time for each task (morning and evening routine, daily focus, zone cleaning, decluttering, and most importantly where do u fit in meal planning, tidying up after your kids and doing the actual cooking). I find the last three really hard to juggle with a 2 and 3 year old who need a lot of attention especially as the day draws to a close.
I personally don’t use the “daily focus” portion of the system. I just do those types of things as needed - the extra daily focuses on top of all the routines really seemed overwhelming to me. I just focus on a morning and evening routine as priority, and the weekly home blessing. Zone cleaning I’m not so strict with, and I don’t do it daily, but I do try to do it at least a couple times a week. It’s not set in stone you just make it work for you❤️
She did do a series not long before she moved where every Sunday she did a quick live and filled out her weekly thing including her meal plan! It all only took about ten mins
I have a 3 BR, 2 bath apartment with laundry and balcony. We’re retired and have minimalized our furnishings. Daily routines keep the apt. in shape and tidy. My husband vacuums 3-5 times a week.
This is THE best intro to fly lady on the internet. Straight and to the point. Thank you!!!!!
Thanks for the shout out, Steph! Yes, you've come such a long way! 👏🤩 Great round-up and I love that you mentioned "planning" for Play which was actually my addition to the Daily Focus! 😁 So many people focus on paying bills, etc and forget what this whole system is about: looking after our homes AND ourselves! The original Flylady Plan and Play was to plan and then go play afterwards (Marla chose Tuesday because it was her day off). But I know that, like most of us, if I don't plan Play, it won't happen. So I added planning for Play, activities for me or for the family. Nothing major: meeting up with a friend for a walk, brunch with family, a movie with the kids. We all need something to look forward to and it keeps my friends on my radar. Love to you, speak again soon! 💖👋😃
How could I ever not mention you! That’s so funny about Plan and Play - I didn’t realize that wasn’t even original, it’s such a natural addition. Lol we all add our own little something 😊😊💕💕 I hope a lot of people use your baby steps, my original inspiration! 💕 lots of love, talk soon!
I found the flylady around 20 years ago...while it WAS helpful for getting me into some sort of routine, I found it overwhelming, confusing and waaaaaay too many emails! I believe you have taken the important points and simplified them to where everyone can understand how it works. Your 21 Day challenge here on TH-cam, coupled with your free printables makes it SO much easier for anyone starting out! Wish you were around back then, but it's never too late to be inspired to start again! "FLYLADY, BUT EASY!" Thanks, Steph!
Flylady but easy 😂 love that!
I picked the FlyLady system again but didn't last too long before I unsubscribed to the emails...... too many "sales pitches" for me = junk mail!
I too tried Flylady early on and could not deal with so many emails. The website is overwhelming as well, so I quit. I happened to come across the app, and IT IS A GAME CHANGER. I am thriving using the app. It is so well done and I think it would be great for those like me , who were overwhelmed by the system.
I'm currently re reading sink reflections(fly lady's first book) and she says in the beginning if your house is really out of hand, you start with decluttering instead of the zone cleaning. Her quote is 'You can't organize clutter' chapter 3 and there are instructions on how to tackle the clutter
Your bubbly energy and positive outlook are so refreshing. You make this seem so doable! I have really learned a lot from your videos and am slowly incorporating these routines. My house is getting better! You are the only person that has made FlyLady comprehensible to me.
Your Zone Looping method has been a game changer for me! I’m really struggling with implementing zone cleaning as a habit (I’ll keep up on it a week or two and lose motivation). With your way, I can acknowledge that I fell off the wagon again and pick up right where I left off. I love it!
I love the flexibility and adaptability of this system. I stated this past year and I like the structure which keeps me on track. Yes, there have been weeks where no zone cleaning happens, but that's ok. It's important to give yourself grace and let the system work for you instead of being a slave to the system.
I love how you break this all down. I am happy I completed the 21 days PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION 😆
I couldn't ever do zone cleaning, because I had too much clutter- you can't clean if there is clutter!
Now I've started to declutter... I'm on the road to house and mind clearance.
Awesome! It will be so much easier after it’s been declutter Ed, you are right!
Me too , I had so much stuff a couldn’t look after it , so I gave a lot of plants away and oil paints and garden things , I’m keeping going till my house looks like a holiday rental
Get in the Fly Lady habit by decluttering in the zone for each week.
Steph, you deserve an award🏅🏆 for taking the Flylady system and making it fun, easy, and...normal!! Honesty, I decluttered my control journal and printed out your modern, streamed, simple, fun, and easy sheets!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart from MO!!!
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Juliab, that's a wonderful idea! 🎉 Thank you for sharing it! Something so simple and logical, but I completely overlooked it! Thanks!!! 🥰
I downloaded the fly lady app a month ago. It's really helpful and customizable. I highly recommend it. I don't like having paper checklists around. My phone is usually with me so I have music, timers, and the checklists all in one place.
This is a great video to go over how it works!
Thank you!
I've been following the flylady system for 3 years now but I just love love love hearing about it still so much that I watched your whole video! I think you did a great job explaining it ❤️
Great video! Fly lady has been a game changer for me. I’ve definitely been a “secret slob” forever and it’s so amazing to feel like I have control over my house
This really helped me. When I’ve researched fly lady before I was so overwhelmed by the different layers of the system. Your video really broke it down!
Thank you!
I started a power hour yesterday. It got interrupted but I got SO much done! So thankful I made progress♥️
Thank you, Steph, for all you haave done to simplify the Flylady system. I especially love your Weekly Schedule and Detailed Cleaning List, which I have laminated and put into my Control Journal.
Some other useful things I have in my Control Journal are lists of addresses, phone numbers and email addresses for friends, relatives and tradesmen, health providers, etc; bus timetable; emergency plan for bushfires/storms; list of birthdays in date order; Christmas card list. 🙋♀️💐🇦🇺
Did you laminate them so you can reuse (write with dry erase and wipe off) instead of wastefully having to reprint new ones? If so that's a great idea.
@@KatarinaS. Thank you. Yes, that's why I laminated them.
You give the best and clearest explanation of this system! Thanks Steph 😊
I've started to declutter! Spring really makes me feel better and now I feel like cleaning
Me too! Bring on the summer!
@@TheSecretSlob I like the ideas of fly lady, but your sweet and fun personality, combined with your encouraging and break it down style is just great. I love your videos. Thank you
I really appreciate you and your helpful videos. Simplifying the FlyLady system was a game changer for me. I had tried the original and got quickly overwhelmed and dropped it. Then I discovered your TH-cam channel and now I’m on a regular cleaning schedule that fits my life and lifestyle.
I discovered Fly Lady because I kept seeing people mention her in comments on Pinterest. So I read her book, Sink Reflections, and really loved it! However, I learned to use her system by watching your channel! So I appreciate you so much, thank you for sharing and breaking things down
Thank you Steph for going over this again. I always enjoy watching your videos, because it’s like you stopped by for a cup of coffee/tea. You are always so enthusiastic and sweet. You help me stay motivated.
I’m a 67 year old Grandma with a very bad back. So, I’ve zoned cleaned for years. I am usually able to keep my main living areas clean and decluttered; living room, den/kitchen, master bedroom and 1/2 bath, laundry room and small front bath. It’s the 3 front bedroom that are stacked up right now. (We are waiting for May to have a garage sale. It snowed last week and it’s been cold and windy in Amarillo TX).
Thanks again. Be safe and watch out for those bears. ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
I've been doing the fly lady system for years. Steph your weekly planning sheet is my favorite! Everything in one place. Love the color of your top and the way you explain things to make it simple.
How do I get weekly planning sheet?
I found the Flylady system years and years ago. Honestly, it confused me so much that after trying it numerous times I always gave up. It wasn't until I found your channel, hearing you explain it so simply, that I finally was able to make the system work for MY needs. I can't thank you enough for that. My house used to be so messy that it was causing tension in myself as well as my marriage. Using your tools has transformed me as a person. I love having a neat & tidy (but lived in) home and hubby likes it too. Some weeks I "fall of the wagon" but thanks to you, I realize we all do at times and I just start at the beginning and get right back on. Thank you so much for all your tools, support and your positive attitude. Thanks to you I'm now a reformed slob - lol.
I have adjusted FLS to work for me. M-Home Reset, T-Bed n Bath, W-Plan n Pay, Th-Errands n Car, F-Home Blessing. Weekends are busy. I agree the daily routines are the KEY!! Papers are still a problem though!! Maybe that could be a video....Hint.
Thank you Steph. I’ve really been struggling. Being older with some health issues, I struggle with energy. Your encouraging words are inspiring me to try again.❤️🌹
Energy and health challenges can make it challenging!!
For me, setting a timer for 15-45 minutes - then taking a 15 minute break gives me a nice window for my tidying/ cleaning.
I aim for doing daily basics, and at least one 20/10 (set the ⏲️ and clean/ declutter/ tidy ...)
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I seriously have been following you since you started and NEVER get tire of seeing you remake these videos from time to time.....it's a great reminder and motivation to stay on or get back on track! ❤️
I love how you break down the flylady system to make it feel doable . Your 21 day babysteps and weekly printable helped me get started and now I've been able to make it work for my life ❤
I have just started watching your videos today, and have really enjoyed them! Your technique reminds me of Mark Twain’s famous quote: “The secret of getting started is breaking your complex, overwhelming tasks into small manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one.”
Great timing! It feels like a madhouse in my home right now. Someone been sick every week in my house for months now. Thanks for motivation !
I have been doing flylady for a bit less than 2 years. In that time i did a huge amount of decluttering. It took me nearly that entire time to make a control journal, but my favourite thing is your weekly printable. It makes it so easy. When you said you write all over the back of it, my heart did a little happy dance. I thought it was only me who needed to do that! Thank you again for everything!
Fly Lady is the best system I have ever found and you are the best at explaining it I have ever found. I enjoy your videos so much! Thanks for your help!
I'm a flylady newbie. I like to choose one weekly focus daily. Kinda like you choose your dinner. My weeks never look the same. I find it easier that way.
Thank you for these videos. I tried fly lady in the past but only did the daily routines up to 21 days. I still make my bed. That’s the only habit it stayed with me. You explain the system so easily.
This is a wonderful video...soooo well explained.. I finally got the zone looping and that is what I will now do as the short weeks do throw me off. Thanks so much Steph! Your lists are the best, simple, very useful and manageable and not overwhelming!
I'm a not so secret slob, but I'm trying to change that. I have lupus, fibromyalgia, and several other auto immune illnesses, so I stay so tired and I hurt all the time. I must admit I've let my house go, but I'm retaking it. I've been working on my kitchen for a week or so and I've decluttered most of the cabinets, wiped down the microwave and the stove, swept and mopped, and today I started on my pantry. I'm feeling accomplished, but I can only work for about 30 minutes to an hour at a time.
Same here just finished two years Cancer treatments. Still on cancer medicine I'm 70 with fibromyalgia too. I'm so far behind in house. Trying to declutter and start doing things again. 30 minutes to hour is my limit on cleaning. I hope to get some money saved for window cleaners and carpet cleaners this year. It's overdue
@@carolnolan9439 congrats on finishing your treatments! I'm sorry you went through cancer. As long as we make steps to fix things baby steps are ok. They're still steps in the right direction.
Gentle hugs to you, I get it. I've had MS now for almost 20 years.
@@glitterrrgirlll5299 hugs to you as well.
It all just overwhelms me. I tried to do this years ago and never stick to it. I’m trying to find motivation again through your videos!
Did you see the one right before this one? Master your morning routine? Have a look, it’s only 6 minutes or so and it might give you the answer!
This may sound silly but I found that your zone names were a big help and inspiration for me. I also found zone "looping" instead of partial/full week numbers was a game changer for me. Oh, and the 1 page "journal" is BRILLIANT!
You make it so easy to "do" Fly Lady! Her website is overwhelming. I don't have a daily Control Journal, but I do have one for Thanksgiving. Everything is there, so the prep, cooking, etc. is on autopilot. I don't bat an eye about getting the huge dinner done....by myself. Haha.
I have one for Thanksgiving and Christmas, including a baking sheet -everyone's favorite cookies and treats. I do my holiday baking the 1st weekend in Dec and freeze so I have them done and can pull them out for gatherings and get togethers.
@@lyndacolvin642 that's brilliant!! I'm going to apply this this Christmas so that I'm not baking for days before Christmas! Thank you!!
@@lyndacolvin642 do you make the dough in the first week of December and freeze that or do you actually bake them all and freeze? Do they turn out ok? Would you share what kinds of cookies you do that with because that's my goal, to make them ahead in the first week of December so I can relax a bit the week before Xmas. It's usually a sleepless frantic time the week before and I'm too tired to enjoy myself and need a week to recuperate afterward.
@Lynda Colvin Would you be willing to share your Thanksgiving sheet- I really need that. 🥰❤️🥰
Would you be willing to share your Thanksgiving sheet? 🥰❤️🥰
I’m 3 days new to this Fly Lady… and taking baby steps, using the app. I will eventually will print out the Zones & Daily Routines. I am probably going to Laminate them. I also use the Jordan Page Cleaning Schedule, I’m probably going to mesh the 2.
Honestly, I have ALREADY IN 3 days, see a HUGE difference.
I’m cleaning, Decluttering and Purging.
I've watched this video almost every day for a week now. Having started FlyLady and then let parts of it lapse a couple times... I just want to get the basics firmly implanted in my brain.
So glad I found you a couple years ago now, you've helped me totally get a handle on my home! Thank you for making the fly lady approach so do-able and fun to go thru it with you! Loving everything you share!
I love your happy spirit. It touches people more than you know💜
Im sure you'll never see this ( as this is 2 years old) but you are absolutely gorgeous- such a beautiful spirit and energy to compliment a beautiful face. Makes me feel better because I am a secret slob as well and it makes me isolate and have no one over because I keep up with my appearance meticulously and then my home and car is an utter FEMA disaster- helps me not feel so alone in it. I guess I judge myself so much that I don't let anyone else. Anyways- thank you for this great breakdown of the flylady ( which can seem overwhelming when you're at the starting line). Thank you for sharing. :) hopefully I can make it to where youre at eventually.
Thank you for a captivating, clear and concise video. I have really bad ADD and this kept me focused for the entire video…which is no easy feat 🙂 just thank you Steph
Stephanie you are the reason I do fly lady my way! I use your zone sheets every wee and do the loop as well. I already had a menu system so meal planning didnt need its own box. I customized it for FROG stuff sonce i am such a procrastinator! (The frig came from. The Minimal Mom). I have customized other things as well including mirning routine to include devotions and prayer journal along with excercise since i had a knee replacement this summer! Thanks so much for this updated video. I plan to share it with family and friends. 💜
Frog stuff, though minimal mom definitely discusses it, is originally a Mark Twain reference to his quote, “If the first thing you do in the morning is eat a live frog, you can go through the rest of the day knowing the worst is behind you.” Brian Tracy adapted it to a productivity system called Eat That Frog. Your frog is your worst task, and you should do it first thing in the morning. The rest of the day is a breeze.
It’s worth checking out on its own. :)
@@azlizzie Dawn gave credit to Brian Tracy AND his book for the "eat that frog". I absolutely love Dawn!
I was very overwhelmed by fly lady, so glad I found you! ❤
Your video was respectful to the system and well explained.
Thank you Steph. I have followed fly lady off and on for years. But I was confused with several things and this has helped a lot.
The best thing that I got our of the fly lady system is the control jurnal.
It is just a clean point that I can bring myself back to if I get flustered or overwhelmed.
I also keep in it ideas for projects I want to do.
And all my self improving information I print out for myself.
Thank you for making this system doable! I started the Flylady system years ago, but eventually fizzled out because the website and so many emails just overwhelmed and exhausted me.
A friend and I wanted to start again and help hold each other accountable. Your videos have been a tremendous help! You make it so much easier to understand, and you allowed me to give myself permission to make the system fit me and my home.
Thanks!!
it's thanks to this channel of the secret slob I started working with the fly lady system, on the website of the fly lady itself I felt totally lost in all the details. I am still finding my way around it. It's not that I lived before in a total mess but more an idea of finding ways to make it easier. I love the morning and evening routines. One big win for me is, doing my dishes every evening (by hand, don't have a dishwasher) and putting them away in morning, and every morning a quick bathroom clean. And another game changer for me was buying a cordless stick vacuum cleaner and one of those floor mops with a build-in water-soap reservoir. Where I could postpone this task forever vacuuming and mopping, I now almost enjoy doing it.
Thanks Steph. You are fun and make things doable and easy to understand. Flylady is very overwhelming. I tried to follow before I found you and they send way to many emails..glad I found you.
I found you a year ago. I love the system! Zone cleaning has made a huge difference in my home!
Thank you for your videos, you are so motivating. I live in a 2 bedroom apt, I have broke my zones into 4 and this means no ugly half weeks. I also did a 4 week meal plan so that I don't have to think about "what's for dinner" it also makes grocery shopping so much easier.
Thank you! I recently watch one of your overview videos of the flylady system, and decided I had to try it out, but all the terms and charts was overwhelming! This makes so much sense. Very helpful.
Very nice, friendly and modern approach to Fly Lady System. It is always a joy,when you create a content.
Started the app as my control journal! Starting out, I will be decluttering my Zones.🎉
Amazing explanation Steph. You and Diane in Denmark are the best. Well done on your subcriber number and thanks for your encouraging videos
Thank you Margaret! You have been there for me from the start and I never forget it 💕💕💕
Your timing was perfect-I needed to be inspired and I needed to be encouraged to overcome dread of FlyLady complexity.
Steph! You've made the Fly Lady SO easy to understand! I had heard of it years ago but never could navigate her site. I really like your explanations of things. Thanks!
Thank you as always!!! I've been following the flylady for 10 years now and I've been following you for about the same as well now ❤!
I get what you mean, when you first start it can be overwhelming for you, with zones, dailys and everything.
I've got a new job so I need to rearrange my routines now!!! 🙏👌🏼👍🏻
And like you said, you have too make it work for you!
I like to lamanate the to do lists and get a dry-wipe pen to mark with then when done you can wipe clean for the next day/month. 😉😍🥳❤🙌🏼
Lots of love from the UK. ❤❤❤ xxx
Thank you so much for this breakdown! You make the Fly Lady system so much simpler!
Hope you’re keeping well Steph. We’re definitely missing you!!
I love the flylady system , I have flown on and off for years ! Really appreciate you breaking it down ! I love to turn on your channel and declutter while you talk!
Thanks for making Flylady a working system :)
Devotions are part of my morning routine. I can’t do the whb on one day. It doesn’t work for me. I do one room a day for 10 minutes, Mondays to Friday. Just a note to let ppl know they can adapt to what works.
Thank you! Everyone’s life will need a different system, I’m sure this will help a few people!
I do zones the same as you. Full weeks. I write down what I get done in a cheap planner. That way, when I come back to it, I have a list of what got done.
Thanks for breaking down the system. I want to get started with my own version. ❤
This was/ is PERFECT TIMING. Thank you, Steph
The FlyLadyPlus app was a game changer for me. I’m able to check things off and keep track of what I still need to do. It’s basically the “control journal.” Best thing is it’s free
How fun to revisit the Flylady system! I used it when the kids were little but have gotten away from it. Thank you for an awesome reminder!
I am having a tough time in February and feel like I am sliding in to a depressive state. I just found the FLY LADY SYSTEM and I am hanging in there. Thank you 😊 💓
Keep going, you can do this 😊😊🥰
I use the flylady system, but do rooms as I feel they need it. Some rooms in my house don’t get used a lot so it’s not always necessary to clean them each time that particular zone comes around.
**** great job.. One additional hint: It is much easier to do zone work after de-cluttering that particular room. The biggest reason reported to FlyLady for not being able to keep their house clean was that they didn’t “de-clutter” first. As FlyLady says you can’t organize clutter. (23 year FlyCrew member.)
I’m here because OPERATION NIKI said she uses the Flylady method but change it to fit her family like You suggested in this video!!! Thank you 🎉❤
I love that you took the Flylady system and made it work for you and your family! I did the same for many years, working shifts and being on call made for really strange hours but I took the core message and made it work.
Fast forward a bit, my life went off the rails (again) and I'm now ready to jump back on, with changes to suit my life.
My whole house needs a really deep clean, it's a bit overwhelming but I know that I'll get there week after week.
You somehow miraculously made this sound fun? Great video- I have been curious and really think I need to adopt some of this! Ty
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Love you Steph! You are amazing! Thank you for offering all these free! You have changed my life by making the FLYLady system easy in my home! I found you when my twins were 4m old and my oldest was 2… took me about a year to really comprehend kinda like your year of flylady fails! But you have mastered it and made it attainable plus your encouraging AND entertaining! I know we’d be friends if I lived in Canada! Next on my list is to up my activity goals! If you can do 30k steps in a day while nursing an infant I can achieve my goals too! Thanks again! All the love!
You really set it out so simply. A good reference video for people starting out and trying to wrap their head around this system!
I have been watching your videos for a while now and this one is just perfect!!! It is the most complete and it breaks down the system so well. Also, I love the fact that you just rotate the zone cleaning week after week because I have been postponing this and telling myself that I will start at the beginning of the month and keep forgetting and postponing again. The way you do it, there is just no excuse😅 Thank you so much
You changed my cleaning life Steph by introducing me to flylady and I even read the book... life changing. Thanks so much hey
Extremely well explained...❤ u r the one who inspired me as I was trying to Declutter with ur video “1 year after flylady” also the video in which u had dedicated & divided the work in 15 min to ur entryway ... that really got me thinking as I was used to 4-5 hours clean -all or nothing perfectionist attitude. Which was not suitable in my current season
Love your channel. You are so positive and happy about the whole system . I really need to try it. The pne question I have is that with the basic jobs, then the daily jobs, the Zone cleaning and the power hour, are you not just cleaning all the time. That's how I feel now and the house still isn't right!
I condensed my control journal too! It feels more relaxed for me.
Thanks for the refresher! I love your channel! I’m a new mom and I’m struggling to keep up with all the fly lady tasks. How long did it take you to get back into your cleaning routines after your last baby? I’d love to see a video with advice for new moms like myself.
Hi! Here is the video series I made about getting back into it after my 3rd!
Day 1 - Top 3 Habits | Flylady Routine Refresh | Clean with Me 2020
th-cam.com/video/vGvaddADp70/w-d-xo.html
@@TheSecretSlob awesome thanks!
Timely reminder of the principles of Flylady, great video thank you x
thank you for making it so clear!!! Inspired and started today!
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Wow! That's so good!It's one of my favorite channels on TH-cam!,I want you to know you're doing really well!, I always support your wonderful channel.I hope you're always lucky
Thank you!
Hey! Always a pleasure !!! Have a great day! I
Another great video Steph! I have friends who are just starting out - this will really help them ... along with your "21 Days" of course! :-)
Miss U...love yr thoughts and ideas...
Thank you for being a breath of fresh air! 🥰 I greatly appreciate how you simplify things, cut through the extra, and get to the heart and point!
Congratulations on all the progress you have made! 🎉 And truly thank you for being a cheerful, kind guide... Gently reminding us to be patient with ourselves, to forgive ourselves, and jump in where we are! 😊 I am so grateful for you!!! 🥰🤟
Thank you so much!! I absolutely adore the Fly Lady system but have been so overwhelmed by its components that I can’t seem to fully implement it. Seeing it broken down this way just clicked on a light in my head that put it all in perspective! I appreciate you and your channel so very much!!
Steph, PLEASE READ. Just finished watching your 22 goals for 2022. The calm app for meditation makes meditation easy, easy to fit in a morning routine and there is a lot there for kids as well. You can do a family plan so your sis and mom can join in too. Just wanted to share, my husband and I really enjoy it. Thanks for the video I needed a refresher. Wishing you the best!
Oh thank you!! I have t started yet but I will check it out!
Great video and printable!
Thank you for making all of this video very simple and putting it all together as you did. Wow, to be so organized. I’m going to give it try!
I love this whole system and all the helpful posts. I wonder why none of these tasks are shared with others in the household. Not talking about you specifically but talking about the system. I have made my husband in charge of his own morning and night schedules and combined some of the tasks for example I’m in charge of unpacking the dishwasher in the morning and he’s in charge of “polishing the sink” and packing/ turning on the dishwasher each night. Kids are each in charge of their own launch pads and as I keep using this system I will also delegate decluttering tasks to each of them. No way I can do all of this by myself when the mess is created by all of us.
I love your tips and approach to this system. Thanks for the inspiration.
I’m going to start my coffee while unloading the dishwasher RIGHT NOW!
Does Fly Lady have a working mom schedule?
I love using the FlyladyPlus app. I’ve customized my lists and I like checking them off. Also now I don’t have to keep track of my control journal. Lol
I'm brand new to your channel and I was wondering if you have a video on how to organize a kid's room and tips on decluttering it. I have three sons and two of them share a very small room. It can get very overwhelming because there isn't much room for storage and they are "not so secret slobs"! hahaha, It's one of those spaces that is in desperate need of a revamp, but just walking in to wake them up each morning overwhelms me. Thank you so much for all the videos you do, they are so informative and have really helped me a lot!
I don’t.. yet! Thank you for the suggestion. I do not keep toys in their rooms almost at all (just stuffies) and that helps a lot!
Watch The Minimal Mom. She has 4 kids and they're happy with less stuff. Sounds like the key for you. Maybe each boy only needs 10 outfits, only 10 toys, etc. How many can they wear or play with at once? Teaching them young about contentment is important and less stuff is the key to being tidy. Teach them now so they're never overwhelmed like you are. Get them involved with the process of donating their clothes when they outgrow them so there's less to wash, fold, store, etc. Teach family to not give toys as gifts so you're intentional about how much they have and when toys come in that they love, they can donate toys they're too old for or don't love. Separate emotions from things. It can be hard to live without the first "this" or something you remember from baby-hood, but you, and they, need to separate the emotion from it for a healthier life or they'll be 30 and overwhelmed with a garage or basement full of boxes of "crap" they've been moving every time they relocate. Less stuff should be taught early. It comes from parents. It will solve your overwhelm as well as prevent it from them getting there. Incorporate a "giving" 15 minutes once a week into your routine where you sit on the floor with a kid and decide on what you can bless someone else with because they enjoyed it, but it's time to go live in someone else's house. This might be clothes they don't wear or a toy they don't love or don't play with anymore. Keep them involved and after you've done it weekly with each kid for a while, then you can start recognizing and acknowledging with them how there's more space to play and easier to get dressed in the morning and being tidy is easier. You can connect the act and existence of less stuff to the feelings of less overwhelm and the benefits. Don't skip this step, where you praise their ongoing work of blessing others with the positive feeling and life change it has on them (and you). This is where they learn less stuff is so good and they carry it with them. If you don't connect the dots, the light bulb moment won't happen. But I stress, wait for weeks to make them stop and observe the benefits of less stuff in their room. They need to see a big change. This is where it makes sense to take a couple pictures now, when you go in their room to wake them and feel overwhelmed. Then weeks later, when there's really a difference that less stuff makes on their room, you can sit quietly with them and reflect on the difference and they will actually feel it. Don't do this step too soon. The Minimal Mom stresses the importance of "managing less inventory" in every room of your house. It doesn't mean you have nothing but it means your kitchen drawers aren't overflowing and you don't dread folding laundry and putting it away because it all fits. Sorry to carry on and on but I had to learn this as an adult and I think teaching kids this is valuable. You shouldn't look at it as being an overwhelming project you have to do, but instead, a loving project you can teach your kids that they can take with them for life (like math class!) and they'll never experience this overwhelm you have right now. To them it's normal, so change their normal over the next few months.
This is great! I get stuck with keeping on top of all the different focus areas. Would love to see your schedule for a week in cal. format where u allocate time for each task (morning and evening routine, daily focus, zone cleaning, decluttering, and most importantly where do u fit in meal planning, tidying up after your kids and doing the actual cooking). I find the last three really hard to juggle with a 2 and 3 year old who need a lot of attention especially as the day draws to a close.
I personally don’t use the “daily focus” portion of the system. I just do those types of things as needed - the extra daily focuses on top of all the routines really seemed overwhelming to me. I just focus on a morning and evening routine as priority, and the weekly home blessing. Zone cleaning I’m not so strict with, and I don’t do it daily, but I do try to do it at least a couple times a week. It’s not set in stone you just make it work for you❤️
She did do a series not long before she moved where every Sunday she did a quick live and filled out her weekly thing including her meal plan! It all only took about ten mins
I have a 3 BR, 2 bath apartment with laundry and balcony. We’re retired and have minimalized our furnishings. Daily routines keep the apt. in shape and tidy. My husband vacuums 3-5 times a week.
@@yolandapagan5656 same. I have a big house though, but our daily routines has kept our home the cleanest and tidiest it has ever been.