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You are literally saving my marriage right now... those beta, alpha male videos backfired on me... You taught me the importance of emotional safety and I'm truly grateful 🙏 for you. 💯👏
Bryant, this is amazing and I am so fortunate to do what I do. It brings me such joy to help men & women learn to become the best versions of themselves and to achieve things beyond their wildest dreams.
That stuff might work in the dating world or while the relationship is still young, but when it comes to long term relationships those techniques just won’t cut it
@@GeoffreySetiawan After giving my wife space and concentrating on positive interactions with her, when I had the chances to do so, while concentrating on improving myself separate from her feelings and actions, I was finally able to have a non-forced and safe interaction with her. Because I knew about her plans to start seeking legal advice (presumably for a divorce) I wanted to get out ahead of that big reveal and take the wind out of its sails,
I told her that although I didn’t want to, that I would let her go because I don’t want to trap her in this marriage. I told her that I am concentrated on working on myself and that all I would ask for his time. Time so that she can examine her self and wear her new perspective really is leading her. For the first time since all this started, I was able to hug her and have her reciprocate at least just a little. The criticism I would have for myself, is that I don’t think I did enough exploring and asking questions. But I know that I’ve built some emotional safety and planted that seed. I’m sure this will open up future dialogs in which I can concentrate more on discovery and exploration.
Geoffrey, I been watching other videos about infidelity. Im sure you recognize my comments, watching other videos from other youtubers and reading comment sections make me worry that my girlfriend will always be in rage and insecurity for my toxic behavior. I talked to another girl behind her back and i confessed to her She keeps going back and fourth on finding more details, yet i have told her that nothing went further and I even insisted that her and I watch your youtube channel. Instead of checking and looking too deep into the past but to look at the root cause to prevent this from happening again I see other people comments that have been cheated on saying they are still in rage and saddness, i don't want that for my girlfriend and myself.
Hey Simplicity, Worrying about what she is saying or doing will not help your situation… You only have control over what you will do. Shift your focus to making the genuine & permanent changes… You mentioned that you already had a conversation with her about what happened. So just do the work! Show her that you will & can change.
@@GeoffreySetiawan okay awesome will do, ill focus on my part. We been talking a lot obviously its still a process and grief involved which is fine. She insisted that we write a list of all the bad things in our relationship and not to hold back on how we feel about each other. Is this a good way of clearing out emotional baggage between the both of us?
Hey Seanbombae, Thank you for the suggestion… Will definitely consider making a specific video like you mentioned. The principles still remain the same regardless of the situation, if you have zero contact or long distance. Once you shift your focus on building your value and make the massive internal changes your partner will notice the difference in the way you communicate & interact. We have had many clients in our Relationship Revival program that have achieved massive results from doing the work to transform themselves regardless of the situation… Have a look at our Relationships Revival reviews… th-cam.com/video/uIo9TC4CGwg/w-d-xo.html. th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
@@GeoffreySetiawan thanks for the reply I’ll check out the program rn but just one question..how will she know I’m making a change if we’re not communicating at the moment. She doesn’t even view my snaps on story
@seanbombae, your main goal is to work on your changes so that when she does reach out or make contact, you can show case the changes that you have made... It's crucial that you use this "break" as the opportunity to re-attract her when she starts communicating with you.
okay one last question if u don’t mind. I’ve been checking out most of ur videos regarding the situation as well as your program but when I send the text, should I mention what I was doing wrong? Here’s the text so far “hey so I sent u a surprise a few days before our break and I just got an email that the delivery was delayed for some reason, prob bc it’s from spain so it should be arriving in the next few days. aside from that I really do care a lot about you so I just wanted to let u know I’ll give you all the time and space that you need and the doors are open whenever you feel like talking to me again. I know you’re observant and I know you know what you want and I’m gonna try my best to work on myself to become the better person for you and I trust that you will see the changes when it comes”
@@GeoffreySetiawan I had sent her flowers before she asked for the break..that’s what the first sentence related to but should I add that I am looking forward to talking about what I did wrong and how I will change it when I FaceTime her? Or something along that lines? Or is this good enough until she texts back
Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts?
Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)
💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions
🗣 Join the FB Group! -> facebook.com/groups/1032426806961329/
🎉 To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
You are literally saving my marriage right now... those beta, alpha male videos backfired on me... You taught me the importance of emotional safety and I'm truly grateful 🙏 for you. 💯👏
Bryant, this is amazing and I am so fortunate to do what I do. It brings me such joy to help men & women learn to become the best versions of themselves and to achieve things beyond their wildest dreams.
That stuff might work in the dating world or while the relationship is still young, but when it comes to long term relationships those techniques just won’t cut it
@@MrJameswund oh yes they will his specialty is exclusive marriage and long-term relationships
I aggree!
This deserves way more likes. Profound, very profound.
Your videos have been helping me so much, I can’t even tell you. Thank you for all you’re doing
Hi Max, you are welcome brother! Really appreciate your feedback.🙂
@@GeoffreySetiawan After giving my wife space and concentrating on positive interactions with her, when I had the chances to do so, while concentrating on improving myself separate from her feelings and actions, I was finally able to have a non-forced and safe interaction with her. Because I knew about her plans to start seeking legal advice (presumably for a divorce) I wanted to get out ahead of that big reveal and take the wind out of its sails,
I told her that although I didn’t want to, that I would let her go because I don’t want to trap her in this marriage. I told her that I am concentrated on working on myself and that all I would ask for his time. Time so that she can examine her self and wear her new perspective really is leading her. For the first time since all this started, I was able to hug her and have her reciprocate at least just a little. The criticism I would have for myself, is that I don’t think I did enough exploring and asking questions. But I know that I’ve built some emotional safety and planted that seed. I’m sure this will open up future dialogs in which I can concentrate more on discovery and exploration.
Thank you for your suggestion. I also enjoyed learning about the rythm principle...mind blown, cannot thank you enough.
Awesome Tyson,
This has been one of my favorite topics to talk about.
This man just indirectly uncovered the mystery behind shopping behavior 🤣 jokes aside, bookmarked and saved, I needed this more than anything 🔼
Dude more topics on this. This is great
Yes, It is on my content calendar!
Geoffrey, I been watching other videos about infidelity. Im sure you recognize my comments, watching other videos from other youtubers and reading comment sections make me worry that my girlfriend will always be in rage and insecurity for my toxic behavior. I talked to another girl behind her back and i confessed to her
She keeps going back and fourth on finding more details, yet i have told her that nothing went further and I even insisted that her and I watch your youtube channel. Instead of checking and looking too deep into the past but to look at the root cause to prevent this from happening again
I see other people comments that have been cheated on saying they are still in rage and saddness, i don't want that for my girlfriend and myself.
Hey Simplicity,
Worrying about what she is saying or doing will not help your situation… You only have control over what you will do.
Shift your focus to making the genuine & permanent changes… You mentioned that you already had a conversation with her about what happened.
So just do the work!
Show her that you will & can change.
@@GeoffreySetiawan okay awesome will do, ill focus on my part. We been talking a lot obviously its still a process and grief involved which is fine. She insisted that we write a list of all the bad things in our relationship and not to hold back on how we feel about each other. Is this a good way of clearing out emotional baggage between the both of us?
Hey geoffrey whenever you get the chance can you please make a video on solutions to dealing with a “break” when it’s long distance
Hey Seanbombae,
Thank you for the suggestion… Will definitely consider making a specific video like you mentioned.
The principles still remain the same regardless of the situation, if you have zero contact or long distance.
Once you shift your focus on building your value and make the massive internal changes your partner will notice the difference in the way you communicate & interact.
We have had many clients in our Relationship Revival program that have achieved massive results from doing the work to transform themselves regardless of the situation…
Have a look at our Relationships Revival reviews…
th-cam.com/video/uIo9TC4CGwg/w-d-xo.html. th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
@@GeoffreySetiawan thanks for the reply I’ll check out the program rn but just one question..how will she know I’m making a change if we’re not communicating at the moment. She doesn’t even view my snaps on story
@seanbombae, your main goal is to work on your changes so that when she does reach out or make contact, you can show case the changes that you have made... It's crucial that you use this "break" as the opportunity to re-attract her when she starts communicating with you.
okay one last question if u don’t mind. I’ve been checking out most of ur videos regarding the situation as well as your program but when I send the text, should I mention what I was doing wrong? Here’s the text so far “hey so I sent u a surprise a few days before our break and I just got an email that the delivery was delayed for some reason, prob bc it’s from spain so it should be arriving in the next few days. aside from that I really do care a lot about you so I just wanted to let u know I’ll give you all the time and space that you need and the doors are open whenever you feel like talking to me again. I know you’re observant and I know you know what you want and I’m gonna try my best to work on myself to become the better person for you and I trust that you will see the changes when it comes”
@@GeoffreySetiawan I had sent her flowers before she asked for the break..that’s what the first sentence related to but should I add that I am looking forward to talking about what I did wrong and how I will change it when I FaceTime her? Or something along that lines? Or is this good enough until she texts back