Girl Next Door Energy 101
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It happened me recently that a guy asked me out, but before the date, he ghosted. I didn't complain, I didn't send him messages, I did nothing. of course, one of the things that matter the most for me in dating is seeing a guy's interest and consistency with me, so therefore, i didn't do anything with this guy. after a few days, he showed again and the fact that I didn't say or do anything, drove him insane, he was pursuing me even more intensely, but I was no longer interested.
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You applied the contact/no contact rule! I’ve learned to do that, too, thanks to this channel. Now I only have to wait for an opportunity to use it haha.
@@annaclement9858 it’s actually very empowering 😅 But the most important thing is the message you send to yourself: You deserve better 🙏❤️
You did it girl!
👏. To me it is actually a turn off when men don’t honor their word. If they look at other women or I get a player vibe. Or if I get confused by their behaviors.
“Purity” : “Being pure means staying largely unaffected by the hurt you go through, to the point of not letting it pollute your heart with bitterness.” Beautiful, and wise. Thank you.
Purity can refer to that, and a woman, even a man _should_ follow suit with that quote, _but_ sexual purity *still* matters for women. Many women aren't physically pure in accordance with what a man wants which is why most women vouch for that definition of purity rather than having both definitions being part of their person; who they are.
@@rastheheadshut up
@@vemn545 Or what?
That's so true. Why do i have to let the traumas and injustice that I've experienced to polute and damage me? No! I'm not gonna let the traumas turned me into the thing that i hate and disgusted and then being bitter that the traumas turned me into something despicable
I'll let go of the traumas and i have the power to be the person that I'm meant to be and love
And I'll always be the person that I'm meant to be, true to myself and love
Seulki became one of my favorites in the show as time went on. I love how majority of the time she remained unbothered and was pretty chill lol. She was kind, supportive, and as said in this video, seemed good natured. She never chased anyone and always let them chase her. She allowed things to play out as they were and never forced anything. What made Seulki attractive was that even though she gave "girl next door" vibes she was also alluring and mysterious.
So in summary:
•Embodies the core feminine mindset.
-Be feminine not just in appearance but also in your behavior.
-Be in your recieving energy and letting go of control.
-Do not chase but attract and remain in your feminine energy. Chasing and stepping up is for the masculine energy to do.
-Be receptive but not passive. Being in your recieving energy, doesn't meant to be snob or allof, make attemps to be friendly or inviting but never let it cross your boundaries.
-Be pure. Do not let the negative or hurtful things you go through, makes you bitter. Do not let it pollute your heart.
-Be willing to walk away. Do quite descerning and judging. This makes you have an abundance mindset because you know you will get what you deserve no matter what. And this show self-worth, self-respect and high standards.
In summary, do not want something so badly that you appear desperate and easily hurt.
I love these commenters who draws conclusion, thank you.
She is a pretty girl with a gentle spirit. That, as a woman is even admirable to me. It’s no wonder many men are attracted to her. Men want to take care of her, and she lets them. But she is also open, but exudes a quiet confidence. Many women want to be loud and confident, too independent, and that is fine, but it won’t attract all the men who want a feminine woman. It’s why all the westerners watching the show are always hating on the quiet and soft girl. But she’s the one that’s getting all the attention and for good reason.
I genuinely don’t think it has anything to do with her behavior but instead her looks and then the competitiveness of knowing other guys like her too.
i would usually agree with this and this is applicable irl but in the show everyone is extremely attractive
yeah, others are beautiful but Seulki is the ideal korean beauty standard so that already gives her a leverage
I agree too. Korean men love the fair, innocent, cute, pure girl who is not dominative
@Mihaela We as weasterns think of all of them as beautiful equally but there is a beauty standard in Korea and Seulki is a complete spot on representation of what Korean society love in women, small, innocent, fair skinned, girly and rich (she wears a lot of expensive items but unlike Jia you could say she has a quiet luxury type of style). So she is treated the way she is not just because of her behavior.
@@beatrizcardoso2335 So-eun also fit the Korean beauty standards perfectly (she was miss korea for crying out loud) but the difference between So-eun and Seulki is that Seulki has a younger, naive vibe whereas So-eun seems to have been around the block and some men may find it intimidating because they know she can sniff through their BS.
What you are not mentioning here is that Seul-ki still cried and felt awful because Jin-young was going on other dates and wasn't giving her any reassurance, he was even saying he liked more women. She played it cool around him, but she was clearly not detached from the outcome. He was actually not really putting much effort with anyone and in the end his line "I think I like you" shows that he can still change his mind any time. Jong-woo was the only guy who truly cared about Seul-ki and was there to comfort her and truly got to know her. He even liked her at her lowest point. This might make him seem a bit too attached and that can lead to issues later on. And the other guy didn't put much effort to get to know other women or make up after his mistake with Seul-ki. So it actually seems like none of the guys that chose her in the end were that good, the other women didn't miss out on anything by not being chosen. And in the end it really wasn't about Seul-ki, it was about the men and how they decided to show interest. Seul-ki has all the wonderful traits you mentioned, but those are really not the main reason she was chosen.
Then why do you feel all the three (the three!) of them despise everything ended “subconsciously” choosing her instead of “just” picking anyone else cause it the end it didn’t really matter. I do believe that her dynamic definitely played role, even if she cried about jin young at the beginning.. it might indicate her sensitivity rather than her low self-esteem. I do believe they are not related.
lmfao its al an act, she didnt end up with the guy she chose after the show anyways
@@user5c33fvjfua Then she shouldnt pick him or anyone?
no I actually agree with this 100%, at the end of the show when they were picking the men I was wondering if she would just leave and not go with any of them 😂 tbh they were all giving me iffy vibes. AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO THOUGHT THAT ONCE SEUL-KI SWAM WITH JIN YOUNG HE PURSUED HER MORE BECAUSE OF HER BODY… because think abt it. he said she was his type appearance wise, but he didn’t even pursue or put emotion to her. A FEMININE WOMAN NEEDS BOTH 👏 but tbh I felt like Seul-ki would just use the other guy for the coffee and as a good friend 😭 it was kinda scary in that dug out game when he actually won I was like “😧 oh nah… he actually..-“
All of them choose Seulki first only because she fits Korean standards which is “innocent, big eyes, naive, white skin”.
Idk why but she got the vibes “I wanna be Jia” vibes.
If you analyze her behavior manners some even phrases.
I like Jia because of her confidence.
Also Seulki is confident, but her confidence is very repulsive. Idk why. Just the aura and vibes about her is very repulsive.
Ppl say “you don’t like her cuz many guys chose her”
Many guys also chose Jia but why she’s not repulsing?
Many girls wanna be like Jia. She’s confident and sincere. And Seulki is confident but feels like if there’s no cameras she would do something mean. She has these vibes. Somehow like Jiyeong, feels like she can stab you behind your back while you think she’s innocent and pure.
They both have same style
Not all innocent and pure are like that in heart.
What I liked about her femininity how she stays firm, subconsciously, in the seat of receiving. Like she KNOWS the other person should do the effort. And that is so beautiful about the dynamic between the masculine and feminine energy. Makes me love being a woman.
Should a man do all the effort or is it wrong for a man to expect the same amount of effort reciprocated back after showing interest? I'm a guy that's why I'm asking this
@@mountainkid417 The women does make a move, but it's translated differently. It's by how she opens a lot of different oppurtunties to hang around her by saying YES to you. however, if we didn't see the man coming to us, starting a convo, going or looking for us, we would assume he's not interested! Jinyoung didn't make things clear AT ALL that he wants seulki (which made seulki so confused, so did I with him), it gave him the impression of a (playboy) by keeping things "open" when he didn't decide what girl he would go after. At oppose of jongwoo which was more direct with his actions, and way more comfortable to handle from a my prospective.
@@mountainkid417 As a woman in a relationship, I'll give you my perspective. I think it should be the latter of your question, as a relationship is work and is built by BOTH of the individuals, not just an effort/initiative from one. To be in a relationship is to be equals with each other and work with each other, therefore both putting in the work to be both receptive and initiative for each other. I mean sure, some people may like and stay in the dynamic of the receptive and the initiative but I think that it just takes away the equality of the relationship. Atleast that's my point of view 😅
@@ccesca8540 it does take away the “equality” but I don’t think that’s what they are striving for in a relationship. Focusing on fem/masc dynamics emphasizes EQUITY in a relationship, which is what creates harmony and balance imo. Western people seem to focus more on equality vs. equity in relationships.
You should explain Seoeun . She left me in awe man . Shes soooo pretty yet classy nd w a fndly bubbly personality
Indeed! She was my ultimate crush.
Seoeun was an absolute queen! So beautiful inside out.
I’m actually curious about sejeong, I thought she was the perfect combo of sexy and flirty but none of the men were interested
Sameee
I want to be more like Jia but I’ve actually been compared to Seulki and I need to accept that and work with it. Men always interpret me as “pure hearted” so I should use this to my advantage rather than wishing I was more of a siren. Even my name, Kayla, literally means “pure” 😂😂😂 it was my fate!
Another amazing video. At the beginning, I found Seulki bland but quickly got my heart, she's so sweet and feminine, I would be into her as well if I were a man! I would love to see an analysis from you of Choi Soeun, many international viewers didn't get her appeal but I was in love since the first moment I saw her lol
Yes pls!!!
This is so insightful! I find myself gravitating towards Seulki’s personality not knowing why. Now I know it’s because I’m living more from my masculine… so much to learn from her on embracing femininity. Thanks for this video ❤
I love your approach on explaining the meaning of pure and innocent. Guys I meet and people in general have been calling me that all the time and while it usually creeps me out when men stare in awe as they say that and add that I "look like an angel", I now came with therms that it comes from a sentiment of admiration and just means you look kind hearted with no intentions of deceiving and hurting others. A few girls also said I look like a fairy and while those comparisons seemed odd to me at first, I'm starting to love them. You can't control how people perceive you so having such a cute impression must be a good thing. Despite that, it does have a bad side, men don't know how to act around me and end becoming over protective like I'm a fragile thing that needs protection and adoration at all cost. It's like it makes their masculine energy go obsessed, idk if this is a real thing or even makes sense but it's really weird
Well i can understand that. I get that too. People say i have this innocent vibe, and guys treat me like i’m a little baby. I actually doesn’t like to be treated like that so sometimes i show my masculine side
i also experience the exact same thing! even if i try to act different ways contrary to my personality or experiment with a style, my whole life i have also received this same sentiment from guys and girls. though i don't really pay special attention to how others perceive me those such comments of being pure or innocent have been consistent. this has resulted in what you also mentioned too, certain guys have an urge to exercise their masculinity or protect. ofc nothing about that is bad and i believe this happens because of the natural "yin" we embody that incites the counterpart of that energy.
True, many guys in my high school hit on me said I had an innocent look like a child so they wanna protect😂 seems weird
Lucky! I love fairies and I wanted to be a fairy when I was little 🥺 I would have loved to be seen as a fairy
Awww that’s cute I also got called innocent and didn’t know how to react
Yeah but I really liked Jia more. I feel I am more on the siren-like side more effortlessly lol. Also, I practiced leaning back and rotational dating a la Jia and the guy I really liked stepped up and claimed exclusivity with me after 1 month. My ex is also still trying to connect with me but at this point I can see how my new boyfriend stepped up in ways my ex didn't
same! I come across as more challenging than cute. I am pretty assertive but then the moment the conversation ends, it's now up to the guy what he's gonna do, I no longer care. it's either he starts working or I start walking away.
there's this guy I liked and we had strong chemistry but as soon as he left my message on read, I stopped talking to him since. no need to chase lol!
that guy is into girls that are more like seulki, really soft, cute, and shy girls. I love and respect that. I understand that I'm just not his type. I guess he realized that I'm the total opposite and just not the right fit. but oh well, I no longer like him too anyway. we don't share the same goals and values. chemistry doesn't last, at the end of the day, it's really compatibility that matters.
not every masculine man prefers the same kind of feminine woman. I'd also find the one that prefers my kind of woman. I will be loved and wanted for who I am and what I want to be. What's truly important is our character and mindset, right? As for personality, there's always different feminine archetypes and then, there's always our match 😉😌
Exactly 💯
seulki gave me kinda pick me vibes 😭😭 so yeah i like jia better
@@stupidheadband exactly same bruhh🥹🙎🏻🤣
@@stupidheadband in what way 😭 it’s very ironic bc seulki looks a bit like itzy yuna to me and you’re an itzy fan who would know how yuna’s been accused of that
I attract I don’t chase mentality is so powerful and just going with the flow
Looks play a big part in this. Seulki's attractiveness is non-intimidating which naturally disarms Men. If you are very attractive then most Men will not approach you despite how nice and friendly or how much recieving energy you give off. Even if they do approach you, they are very unlikely to have a romantic relationship with you. They will either hang around you to boost their chances if gettingnsomeone more on their level or they will try to put you down in some way shape or form. This is just something i noticed so the Men you choose to exude this tyoe of energy to is key for this amazing advice to work.
Both Jia And Seulki are very sexy and cute at the same time. So dream girls for every (most?) Korean men.
But there is one thing that no one talk about. Men want what OTHER MEN WANT. 😅
So if one man is going after a girl, the other man start to see her more disireable, then after two guys are after her, third and fourth look at her as rely dream girl and also become interested in her.
This is trick some female love/date coaches are talking about.
You want to be chase after by one specific guy or many?
Ask few good looking, rich (or looking rich) men to pretend to like you and try to date you. You can pay them like you pay actors to do their job.
You will see result. Many men will look totally different at you and your beauty. From avarage girl you will level up to sexy, beautiful and sought after woman.
Also among other women your value will be much higher. :))
Seoeun was my fav from the show. She has a charm that makes both guys AND girls love her. Beautiful, classy, elegant yet bubbly and fun at the same time.
Yeah, love her as a friend.
As a women raised by single mother, I have always been in my masculine energy and it has let me to embody it in my body and mind which resulted in a huge weight gain during my teens and becoming rash with my mannerisms. I thought that it would make me a person who is in control. But sadly, what I have found that no matter how much you try to be in your masculine energy and try to be like a girl boss, it would eventually make you unhappy as a female you have the inner urge to be relaxed, soft and welcoming. I am learning now in my 20s how much time I have wasted in my teens and some of it in my 20s trying to be in masculine energy to protect myself.
I'm glad you are reconnecting with your feminine energy and seeing its value. Never too late to activate what's always been your birthright 😊
I’m very curious how having masculine energy results in weight gain? Not trying to be rude, just curious
I love the first principles focus of the Yin and Yang but I’d also love some emphasis on immediately actionable advice on how to embody Yin but not be too passive / complacent in real life (rather than a time bound dating show with high chance of encounters).
yes please
This sounds a bit stereotypical, doesn't it? What was not mentioned in the video was that Seulki still felt very hurt by JinYoung's behaviour cos he made her feel powerless, but she tried to play it cool and still be friendly.
seulki appreciation post 🥰 i was fighting for my life defending my girl with the senseless hate she’s getting
Wait why did you say jinyoung as “yin yang” lmao
There’s another channel called feminine guidance that copies some of your videos practically word for word. Wasn’t sure if you minded or not?
I know! I was. I haven't decided yet if I should file a copyright claim yet or not. I sent them an e-mail and they basically told me to go F myself. But imitation is the sincerest form of flattery I suppose :)
I’ll always watch your ads and support your channel because learning about feminine and masculine energy is important!!! 💟✨
Love 💗
when i was watching the show her behaviours came to me so cringy😭But unlike song jia has her own charm.
they both have their own charms, they're attractive in their own way.
Frr
I’m one of the viewer that never thought Seulki as a “pick me girl”. I actually really related/understand her thoughts and behaviors . I’m telling this because I’ve read so many comments (after SF2 end) saying “what a pick me girl she is” or “attention whore” or “she desperately want to be freezia 2”….. jeezzzz RUDE!. She’s not my fav but I really like her.
Do you feel the entire show MAY be scripted? I see cast members hanging out with one another and not chasing her anymore after the show.
of course it is scripted. they have similar patterns in the 1st and the 2nd seasons.
Exactly 💯
Even Jia admitted that everything there was scripted.
Seulki was bond to be the most chased one along with Jia because they were the prettiest so the guys had to chase them to get the screen time and give a thrill and plot twists to get the viewers hooked but after the show ended none of them seem to be attracted to the other 😂
@@sunflowersandroses2521 there was no scripted duh.. every cast said that.. It just Netflix that edit it so it would suit their story line..
In one of the youtube video, Jinyoung implied that he still think of seulki even after 8 months of filming but he couldn't talk about his feeling to her. Anyway during SI2 filming, the cast have a lot of time to chase for love, but in real life they must be busy with their work and personal life. Some of them didn't even live in the same city.
@@TheCheqiu that jinyoung guy is manipulative af he is using her name to feed the dumb shippers but thankfully my seulki is smart and is not falling for his mind games.
To all singles here, just be you. You can't be another person for a long time, your real personality will still go out after some time of the relationship. PLUS it is so exhausting to pretend like you are someone when you are actually not. Just be you and you will attract a person that suits your personality and someone who can compromise anything you do. FR
Body language also speaks volume. Although attracted to Seulki, when Jinyoung sits next to her, his leg is crossed in a different direction from her. I know it’s not the only thing but it also speaks volume. Just my opinion.
Well spotted! I think he has some unhealed attachment wounds for sure
I noticed that too
I do not understand body language, can someone explain what the meaning of crossing leg the other diẻction?
@@Freetimeofyuni If you are interested in someone then you cross your legs in his direction when sitting next to him and talking to him. Seulki did that but he didnt do that. I think he had real feelings about Seulki but it made him nervous to show that.
@@rosiefriend4725 it's a surprise for me because i used to put the right leg on the left one, cant do the left on right.
So this reading body method never work for me.
Maybe it is correct on him, maybe he is like me
I think a big part of her "abundance mindset" is that her father is a millionaire 😁I mean don't get me wrong but it's easy to be detached when you've always had everything. The other part is that she embodies korean beauty standards. Listen to their men when they talk about their ideal types - they talk about the same woman. As for her character I found her annoyingly passive. Also when she realised that The Guy she liked wasn't all over her, she started to pay attention to the one that had been chasing her since the beginning (safe option or maybe she just hoped to make The Guy jealous or whatever). It didn't worked out between them two because both were more into themselves than each other. That guy was on several tv-shows, clearly not looking for love.
Saying that, the show is scripted anyway 😁
Abundance mindset is not really because of someone rich. You can find many rich people that if they want something, they need to get it no matter what.
Her father being a millionaire have nothing to do with it
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For some reason I don't like her in the show but I like your take on it.. thank u for bringing new perspective always
Same
I think you've missed out the most important factor in seulki's popularity is her beauty....seulki knew she was the most beautiful girl along with Jia she was praised by the whole country for her visuals so with that beauty comes self assurance and confidence. She didn't chase because she knew she's a catch. Her beauty and kind loving nature will attract anyone effortlessly.
Let's imagine a different situation here "an average looking girl who doesn't chase anyone stays in her feminine energy and has the same behaviors as seulki" is still not going to get the same treatment seulki got from the guys in the show.
I know personality plays a huge part on attractions but in shows like these the prettiest girl is bond to be the main character who gets all the screen time & has all the boys simping for her.
Yeah for sure, sitting back only works if you are attractive and have options. Look at Japan where men and women are leaning back and almost half of young people are virgins.
I think so too it doesn't work for everyone
But seulki and seo eun are the only ones receiving attention they both are the closest to kbs yeah I agree she got the charm it's the confidence she gets as she fit kbs better
@@user5c33fvjfua To us and to western beauty is subjective and it comes in different body shapes and skin tones and facial features so obviously we see all of them as beautiful but to korean ppl they are narrow minded and only consider you beautiful if you fit certain type.
yes but everyone is attractive to someone, even if they're not conventionally pretty. So even if you aren't considered attractive to people surrounding you, what are you going to do exactly? Chase them? If beauty is the most important component, and if you think you don't have that, for example, would chasing men and putting un unbalanced amount of effort help? I don't think so. It all kinda leads to the same principle: "just be chill, don't really chase people"
I used to think I was lazy or uninterested if I didn't do or say anything, now I know it's not even my place, and makes it so much easier.
Both girls were very loved. Your conclusion of what you saw isn’t that correct. It’s also not about giving girl next door vibes. Believe me girl next door, that’s not always considered good. I think this part can’t be forced it is about being genuine honest to yourself and having pure intention’s
In addition to being a feminine , she is also a mastermind
lol, that's give swiftie vibe 😂
How?
@@thelowlyant6990 none of this comes naturally she built them within
@@striveforexcellence7673 i hate this mtf
I would like to see a drama show with a FL like Seulki's character, pure, feminine, but not dumb. Any recommendation?
"Because this is my first life" or "My liberation notes"
The Master's Sun
I’m glad you watch and analyse these dating shows and then give a good summary on them 😊 personally I couldn’t sit through and watch these boring interactions but you have an excellent perspective and insight regarding matters of the heart ❤️
Thanks for this video. Great analysis… I never thought of JinYoung as being in his feminine energy, given how masculine he appeared, but you’re absolutely right, he was. I also appreciate Seulki and find her energy worlds more attractive than Jia’s… Seulki is a woman of substance, she is a pianist and enjoys literature and art, you can tell by her carriage that she knows her worth in a quiet understated way. Jia’s appeal is superficial and appears a bit silly and childlike to me; she is trying to attract by selling an image and saying ‘sexy’ things. I have learned over time that if you are looking for a lasting, loving relationship, not just having power over men, you have to look deeper and past the initial rush of men swarming over you. Life is long, and finding and creating a love that endures is actually more difficult than just getting men to be obsessed with you. I have had this come to me more naturally (including many marriage proposals and one marriage that ended), but it only left me empty in the end. And… more options actually doesn’t make life easier! 🤪 Can you make a video on how to use feminine energy to make choices? Because that’s what I struggle with… and watching Seulki make her final choice was actually one of the most striking moments in all of Singles Inferno to me.
I like your take on things. There are certain types of men with feminine energy that are quite intriguing, but ultimately, I feel much more satisfied with men with a gentlemanly type of masculine energy, not the macho kind.
Jia was wise in choosing men, she knows how attraction works and there's nothing wrong with it. I think Jia was authentically alluring and sexy, she studied traditional Korean dance in a prestigious university and lives in a posh apartment and her neighbors are mostly Kpop stars, so I don't know why how you are seeing her as fake. If you are uncomfortable with 'having power over men' then I'm afraid you truly don't understand feminine energy. At the end of the day you cannot force men to choose you, but that doesn't mean you can't put in effort attracting men or embodying what appeals to men and exercise your options. Even Fascinating Womanhood (particularly Fascinting Girl book) encourages practicing strategy with attracting men especially in the dating phase.
@@blancheb3533 she literally chose a person who stopped being friends with her after scandal.. not at all a good choice.. even as a friend
I disagree with you regarding Jia, and that Seulki being more of substance. Key differenc between J and S is that J has a domineering femininity while S has more innocent and submissive one. J is more naturally sexy while S is more naturally innocent. J is a boss lady while S is a flower child. Being a pianist and reading a lot doesn’t make someone more of substance compared to someone who runs a business and deals with people and all their intricacies on a daily basis.
Jia has just as much appeal as S but she appeals to different men. Men who are attracted to Jia can be puppies but can also be men who are comfortable being partners in a relationship. Men like Dong-woo, who are intimidated by women with aspirations like Nadine, would be more drawn to S because they have more sense of control and power in the relationship.
Jia’s type appeals to me much more because, although I appreciate women who are kind and innocent like S, I respect and admire women who exercise more control and take charge.
@@riddhidutta5601don’t recall she claimed to be a psychic. I love it when people make statements after the fact, as if they themselves never made a choice that wasn’t best in hindsight. That has nothing to do with anything that was said about Jia.
The key point in seduction is knowing yourself and being yourself without the mindset of pleasing anothers.
Pleasing another is anti seductive because we won't give a chance for our inner soul to express ourselves. We become extremely attractive when we are being ourselves. That's why seulki is attractive. She didn't try to chance herself to fit in the seductive stereotype like Jia.
Jia however is naturally siren like seductress so she didn't need to change herself since she is already the stereotypical seductress.
seulki however is a new type of seductress but she is just as mesmerizing as Jia. she excludes her natural feminine energy and she evoked many masculine feelings from many men. that's why men are addicted to her because she's the only one who can evoke the masculine feelings in them.
remember ladies, know yourself and excludes the highest essence of feminine energy in your own way.
Please make a video on soeun
Because i really adored her and want to kinda be like her
I don’t understand this obsession with feminine and masculine labels. You’re a woman then you are feminine! We all have our own type of femininity. I just can’t wrap myself around the need to compare what is more feminine than the other. Why is it that it’s considered masculine to know what you want and go after what you want? I just don’t get that. Is being feminine and “womanly” sitting still and looking pretty with no real dreams and character? Being “feminine” is just about being the damsel in distress ? I’m really confused on how that is masculine? If someone can enlighten me. Because I’m one to try to make the best out of my life and chase my dreams.. apparently I’m masculine and had no idea I was lol
Same here! I really don’t understand all these “feminine” and “masculine” nonsense
Seulki is my favourite
I would love to see a video on feminine/masculine dynamics in a relationship rather than early stages of dating !
Your point that having an abundance mindset attracts someone is really true. After my ex broke up with me, I moved on because I knew I deserved better and that there's an abundance of guys for me out there. And what would you know - for the next few months, he repeatedly tried to get back to being friends, being more, etc. His behaviour continued for so long - I think up to 1.5 years - until I just blocked him on everything for his sake as well so he couldn't contact me and would have an opportunity to move on. If anyone out there wants to have an abundance mindset, I would say to just fake it because you WILL eventually make it and have that mindset 💪🏼 Have the courage to believe that there is more than enough to go around 🎉
Yeah same with me here. I hope it does not reach that point, but I can see why I could potentially block my ex because he still keeps on contacting me, trying to get our relationship back, even if I already told him and he knows I'm already dating someone new who wanted exclusivity with me. My ex just didn't think I'd find someone new so quickly because I remained in my abundance mindset and practiced feminine dating.
I love the overall feminine renaissance going on after years of women trying to turn women into men.
I’d be the Athena and the Aphrodite. Let Zeus be Zeus.
If a man is always in his feminine energy when he's around you, it means everything is wrong. You are not the woman who evoked the masculine feelings in him.
Ladies, remember, when you meet the right man, you will unintentionally evoke that masculine feelings that men love the most. Therefore he is addicted to seeing you because you're the only person who can give him that masculine roles.
Remember ladies, if he's feminine, never step into the masculine energy or if he ghosted you, simply walk away. This is the power of the feminine energy. Feminine energy thrives in abundance.
we don't explain why our boundaries are crossed. We just simply walk away. Let the silence do the talking.
That way you can stay out of the bitterness energy and remains unscathed for the future romantic relationships. Remember ladies, never give away your power. there are thousands of handsome man out there who will show you a better pursuit and will be a better match for you.
Could you explain why the model didn’t get any guy?
I would also like to see a video on that
Also it's okay to say Jinyoung with a J sound. The J isn't pronounced like a Y.
Love your videos! If possible, please make one analyzing Seo-eun from the same season of Single's Inferno. I absolutely love her energy and confidence, and it would be great to hear your take on her.
Sejung was being inviting, recieving, waiting role, how come she was not successful???
for me, this guy wasn’t meeting my expectations so I kept pursuing him. (mhm) he broke things off with me, isn’t that so ironic? when the feminine man wants you to pursue, you do but he pulls away. this is why I truly believe in feminine and masculine energy. we never stray away from our natural biological instincts 💜 love this
Trueee! I was also at the same situation and honestly it wasn't worth dropping my feminine energy for a guy that can't step up on his masculine energy. I'd rather lean back and relax than do all the chasing and then get my heart broken after
Oh, thank you so much for this video, very helpful! I watched the one about Jia many times, and even though I can totally see why she is so attractive to men and admire her feminity I also understand that she is something I could never become, it's just not my type of behavior and not my style. But now I realize that I'm an absolutely Seulki type! Everything you said, all your comments on Seulki sound so clear and familiar to me. I feel very inspired now because I can do those things naturally, just need to pay more attention to some minor details in my communication.
It's just good life advice for anyone, here, I think. And I'm not an effeminate man.
Does anyone know that she grew up sda ? 🤣 that explains a lot about her upbringing
😭😭i can't thank you much cuz i addored suelki the most and needed a video on her
I was waiting for this! I was curious how would you explain what happened with Seulgi & Jinyoung. They were soo clearly attracted to each-other but were separated many times by chance (when they clearly wanted to talk to each-other but othe people would choose them) and still..when finally were together, the words lacked! It seemed to me like those couples destined to love but never be together. Now as i deppen my knowledge on psychology, i understood that there isn't such thing as destiny. If something didn't work, than some underlying reason was present. I want to understand these reasons more so i can understand better my life and the correct decisions to make. That would lead to a funfilling life.
plz do a video on how to be inviting without giving off the chasing energy
I loved seulki she's so kind and cute
the biggest problem here is that a lot of men are in their feminine energy, which makes it hard for us to stay in it ourselves.
Hey can you do a video on sejeong please?? Because many guys were interested in her too but she never got chosen....and also many of the viewers thought that she might be the most popular one in this season.....so really curious on how you feel❤
That video is totally amazing,,I loved it alott,,would love to see more videos analysing gorgeous women like Monica bellucci and Angelina Jolie and what makes them so attractive and desirable ❤❤❤
Also Alexa Demie! She's so attractive without even trying!
Looks
Ehm, I mean, looks. Sure they're charming, but their appeal stems majorly from perfect proportions and beauty. Alexa Demie, on the other hand, is also beautiful, but in a slightly more down to earth way (her face is mesmerizing but she's short and petite, so pretty but now in the "standard" barbie proportions). So, her demeanor (should we say demieanor? ) Elevates her.
This girl must have watched the first season and saw Jia's way of attracting everyone in the show. Idk there are times she comes of her shell and there's fakeness on how she behave and when she realizes it, she comes back to her "demure aura" lol.
I definitely have a lack mentality, well I’ve have a lack of positive relationships in my life romantically. From my teens I was rworded by 3 different men and between 16-26 SA by another 3 men. Most men that have fawned over me I have sensed red flags and friend zoned them. Most still became verbally abusive towards me. Which made me feel like I wasn’t like able accept the way I look. I guess I’m above average looking I attract many followers sometimes. However being black in the UK guys automatically don’t see me as gf material on apps. I feel like I’ve been jaded and want to have confidence and feel trust and connection to men. I don’t hate men but at 29 I feel like I missed out already. Never having a relationship. I should mention I’m autistic which is usually why I’m a target for evil men. But I want to feel free and excited and positive about the future and relationships and have this abundance mindset.I’m in therapy have been for so many years. I don’t know how to get to be the person I should’ve been
Could u please do an example with woman that are not asian, as far as i know western woman are more receptive, open and active while what you saying feminity is leanning back. In my opinion, asian people are more closed off than western pp by nature so i haven’t quite figure out the essence of feminity by your examples with asian pp
@Mihaela lana del rey ✨
And thar beautiful actress who acted in princess diary she gives off feminine energy ❤
Its pronounced as Jinyoung not Yinyoung
Man, as long as people stop playing stupid games with each other as if love is some game, things probably will improve if that's the case.
I felt like the most important idea of this video was to stick to your beliefs (feminine & masculine energy) and to always stay aware as a woman. know your worth, definitely, set standards & never ever ever bow down to a man
İ think that seoeun has the best personality on season 2
Lack mentality very well explained!
She's a cutie! She also has an approachable beauty.
That point about purity needs a book because I for sure have been polluted by bitterness
Don’t put anyone on a pedestal. Men chase .
I love that you put Zanab when talking about the victimisation mentality. For me, she’s manipulative. Even Western people don’t want this kind of woman to be in their life 😄 But yes, she’s a perfect example. Don’t be like Zanab.
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😂 that really painted the picture
I struggle to walk away bc men cling once I’ve given them attention. Idk how to be detached from the situation bc I know I would be hurt if my romantic interest didn’t like me back. I don’t even want to engage w men bc I worry about how to disengage if he doesn’t meet my standards
You need to work on how not to be a people pleaser. The fact that you don't want to hurt others but you hurt yourself that way means being a people pleaser. There's tons of videos on youtube about the topic.
Also, it could be worth to ask yourself if you stop liking them because they are way too clingy or because they are simply into you. If you wanted to distance yourself to people who like you, well, this is a second issue (this doesn't apply if you aren't into them for other reasons or if their clinginess is just way too much).
@@lauragoreni3020 idk maybe I get scared that they’re into me. I wonder “Does he like me, or does he just like how I looks when he is beside me?” “Why does he like me so much? He must not have any other options. He must be a bad choice.” “He must just be looking for a girlfriend. I don’t like desperate people.”
@Mihaela generally, the guys I like are more sensitive than the ones you are describing so I still feel badly. I’m sorry for the hurt you went through. Thank you for sharing your experience.
@@marciavox8105I don't want to be rude but your words giving trust issue vibe, maybe ace energy vibe too but I don't know you personally so I'm not too sure. It's also giving me low self-esteem as well but reading all of it again it's more of trust issue rather than it.
Sorry if I sound like rude or ridiculing, I don't mean it at all. I just personally fascinated at how different we are to each other because I personally love desperate man, I find them serious and romantic or maybe it's because I consume way too much romance media hahaha😂
Not yingyon 😭
I couldn’t stand her on the show, honestly. I didn’t like her visuals that much and I am not a fan of an innocent and submissive type femininity. When she didn’t know how to cut an onion and to dry out her hands before putting gloves on I wanted to scream at my phone. This damsel in distress shtick is so alien to me. I admire women who are completely opposite and hold their own with a man. If a man is intimidated by this type of woman (like Dong-Woo was intimidated by Nadine after finding out her aspirations and the fact that she’s a Harvard student) such man would hold no interest for me.
Bottom line, I understand why most men were attracted to her. She evoked natural and masculine feelings of being a protector in them. Such reaction was a very normal outcome given the fact they only had a handful of days on the island.
And yes, Jia had a very feminine personality but she didn’t have that innocent, submissive energy about her so I really loved Jia. Jia’s sexiness was not superficial, it was natural just like Seulki has natural innocence to her. Jia has a more dominating femininity while S has more submissive.
I honestly haven’t come across many women like Seulki in real life. Maybe if I did and got to know a person like that well I would really appreciate them.
What if we had an opportunity to ask for his socials first and what should we do next?
please make more videos like this
oh my god this makes so much sense?! 😮😮😮
I like guys in their femminit6 energy. But how do you know when they're being in ther fem energy and when is just your average masc man that's waiting before making a move?
i just want to know where she shops .. those dresses are beautiful
If you get the chance I would love a video on Choi So-eun from season 2 !
Don't try to influence the outcome. I like that
A man has to conquer and win me over
My heart is like a city that needed to be conquered. My heart is needed to be won over
If a man manipulate instead of doing some strategy to win me over, he failed to win my heart. He didn't get me
So i don't want him anymore. I'll take my time to heal and move on
hi, I hope you also do an episode on Bora from Bora Deborah. She started off very feminine and understands detachment and embodies the abundance mindset. But as soon as she started taking control, and then finding out her boyfriend's cheating on her... she loses it. She starts becoming possesive and overly emotional. She crossed her own boundaries and acted against her own beliefs.
I love this video and can relate with her values and principles when it comes to femininity and dating. But I do, however, cannot really relate with her personality. I am not in any way a Natural or the innocent/cute type. I am more challenging and enigmatic (not Siren either). I tested Coquette-Dandy-Star. But I think I really am a Charismatic-Star. I'm looking forward to your future videos on other feminine personalities. I hope you also do other archetypes and western examples. Thank you for yet again another amazing video 🤍
OMG OMG OMG while reading comments I was thinking about that drama because I'm on episode 7 and i thought that the drama had same concept in the starting and then I came across your comment 😂❤❤
@@purpleheart5837 lol what a coincidence!
Very good analysis
Yes! Another video! Thank you
This is an amazing video btw!!!!
Can you do this kind of analysis to Seo Eun, because I think that she is also really attractive too
Yes, finally! I'm watching this tonight!
I love your vids! Makes me so confident
Tutorial on how to get an abundance mindset please 🙏 ❤😊
I personally related with Jia more. Ive been told I look cold and intimidating, and even though Im attractive, people are nervous to approach me.
Is it possible for both sides to give neutral energy?
Very good video 👌👍
Comentario en español.
Estoy viendo la temporada 3 y aún no sé quien puede ser la chica popular como lo fueron Jia y Seulki en sus respectivas temporadas, quizás Gyu-ri (?
I've been focusing on myself this past year & I've over heard some guys talk about me.
But I like going with the flow and I'm picky
so I was shocked 😲