When You Decide to Change
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ธ.ค. 2015
- An illustrated video discussing in detail the Commonly encountered reactions of friends and family when someone decides to change themselves for Good and guidelines for dealing with them.
Audio of Brother Nouman Ali Khan | illustrated by Darul Arqam Studios
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0:25 Thats funny, i found Islam through some youtube video about 4 years ago and i haven't looked back. God guides whom he wills.
+beeps Ameen to that!
+beeps Alhumdullilah :) [post by Volunteers at NAKcollection/FreeQuranEducation]
Alhamdulillah
Luck you Masha Allah
mashallah 💕
It's the end of dunya I see a lot of non-believers converting to Islam and our own Muslim turning away from Islam. Yah Allah guide the misguided once.
Newid Faizi You can’t say that.
God only knows when it will be the end and we were already in the end when The Quran came at first place.
@@Dianthuschinensis it was a metaphor
Orxan Aliyev Do you know what’s a metaphor ? Are you serious ? 😂
@@Dianthuschinensis lol sorry im very bad at english u know but i think u got it?
Orxan Aliyev I speak French only, but the meaning of a metaphor is the same in every language.
I am a Christian but I really love the messages of this man. I really had a very negative view of Islam, but these messages have opened my eyes. thanks.
May Allah swt guides you to the straight path ameen
Quran: A Book of Signs
Besides logic, there exists scientific evidence that God exists. He explained the beginning of the universe over 1400 years ago in the Quran, which was revealed to Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him); long before modern science discovered them. Scientists have now observed new stars forming out of the remnants of smoke, suggesting the galaxies, stars, planets and other celestial bodies were nothing but a cloud of smoke or a highly dense gaseous mass.
“Then He directed Himself to the Heaven while it was smoke and said to it and to the earth ‘Come [into being] willingly or by compulsion.” [Noble Quran 41:11]
Today, we know, just like a satellite, the moon orbits around the earth and the sun revolves around the center of the galaxy, taking approximately 225 million years to complete one circular orbit. God mentioned orbits of the sun and the moon and the fact each travels with its own motion.
“It is not allowable for the sun to reach the moon, nor does the night overtake the day, but each, in an orbit, is swimming.” [Noble Quran 36:40]
We may not be able to see and hear God, however, His signs are all over the earth for us to see. Mountains have large underlying roots and only a small part of it shows above the surface. What remains of the structure is buried deep underground.
“Have we not made the earth a resting place, and the mountains as stakes?” [Noble Quran 78:6-7]
The scientific theory of plate tectonics, which was discovered in the late 1960s, tells us mountains act as a balance for the earth, without which the earth will not be firm. This means mountains prevent the earth from shaking.
“He has cast into the earth firmly set mountains, lest it shift with you.” [Noble Quran 16:15]
Likewise, consider how thunderstorm clouds are formed and produce rain, hail and lightning. This has been summarized in the Quran:
“Do you not see that Allah drives clouds? Then He brings them together, then He makes them into a mass, and you see the rain emerge from within it.” [Noble Quran 24:43]
One of the most interesting discoveries of modern science is in the places where two seas meet. There is a barrier between them, dividing them so each sea has its own salinity, density and temperature. This can be seen in Egypt between the Nile River and Mediterranean Sea, as well as in Canada between the Fraser River and the Georgia Strait, which is an arm of the Pacific Ocean. God mentioned the existence of this barrier:
“And it is He who has released [simultaneously] the two seas, one fresh and sweet and one salty and bitter. And He placed between them a barrier and a forbidden partition.” [Noble Quran 25:53]
No component of this earth is too small to be significant. Little creatures like bees are signs of the existence of God for us to reflect. Science has revealed bees collects nectar from flowers of different kinds to form honey within its body. God had earlier stated this fact, also highlighting the healing properties of honey.
“And your Lord inspired to the bee, ‘Take for yourself among the mountains, houses, and among the trees and [in] that which they construct. Then eat from all the fruits and follow the ways of your Lord laid down [for you].’ There emerges from their bellies a drink, varying in colours, in which there is a healing for people. Indeed in that is a sign for a people who give thought.” [Noble Quran 16:68-69]
Even modern scientists cannot successfully imitate any of these creations. Why then do we doubt the existence of God?
“DO THEY NOT CONTEMPLATE WITHIN THEMSELVES?” [NOBLE QURAN 30:8]
You got so good and kind comments even you r christian...do you now look islam as a religion of peace...
@cammandoookhalsha skyblue nephew captain hind this is why people think of Muslims as bad people أستغفر الله
@cammandoookhalsha skyblue nephew captain hind okay captain whatever you say 💁
my dad actually encourages me to be a good muslim and pray 5 times a day and keep a beard and go to the masjid and all of that. And im happy to do it.
This is so true it's sickening. Anytime there's a silly argument in the house, my past behavior/negligence to Islam is brought up like a weapon. It hurts so much but I place my trust and soul in Allah's hands. May he guide us all the way to Jannah.
Ameen
Hasbun ALLAH
SAME😷
Ameen
Ameen
I started changing this year, one day suddenly something triggered me to read Qur'an. My family is happier than ever, I just wish Allah would give them Iman too.
ellipsis r u nonmuslim dear😐
goodluck🙏😂
Inshallah
Did they get Iman?
I can't thank Allah enough for I was born in a religious family.
PS: My grand father taught Ustaad Nouman's teacher.
Alhamdulillah Subhanallah Shukr Allah
Hasbunallaha wa ne'mal wakeel
I'm surprised during listening to this I think he is talking about me...
my whole family and cousins criticised me a lot on wearing hijab...😢
May Allah SWT forgive all of us... and make our faith strong to stronger...
assalamualaikum
Amna Kamran keep it up and Insha'Allah they will understand and pray that Allah guide them too.
Have patiance Islam is the Truth Selam
Assalamu alai kum ! Can you read urdu ?
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A K ameen
I was a Muslim from the beginning but I wasn't practising....
It's only after I got inspired by one of my friends and TH-cam videos that I started. Its been a month now.
By the next two days ,InshaAllah I will be starting with hijab. And just with the decision of mine I've started getting sarcasms and bad comments. Its really hurting. I wonder what will the reactions be after I actually start in the next two days. Brothers and sisters, please pray for me, so that I get the strength to ignore all those and stay firm in my decision.
JazakAllah!
Evelyne Matthew How's it going sister?
Zaynah Janan... Alhamdullilah!!! Its almost 3 months now..and I'm totally comfortable with hijab...❤❤
@@evelynematthew7994 Alhumdulillah MashaAllah
Great! Keep going!
So how is it going sister? Hope it would be going awesome.
My family didn't say anything to me when I started to change (alhamdulillah) 3-4 years ago, I was far away from Islam. Then I started to change myself. I pray 5 times alhamdulillah 💖
I never dreamed that parents like this existed 😰 wallahi that’s really sad, may Allah protect those of you around the world who are faced with family who behave like this. May He strengthen your iman despite their hurtful words. Aameen ya Rabi
Me too.
Total opposite for me .. my mother became really religious a few years ago and I was the one mad at her for spending too much time praying namaz .. i can't believe i thought she was doing something wrong . I've changed now
Assalamualaikum. I HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH THIS FOR ABOUT 3 YEARS NOW. My family are are born Muslims, but me wearing a hijab makes me look "Older, fatter and unwelcoming. Under qualified for hiring. Men will not find you attractive enough to ask you out or marriage". these are just a few of the things my family have said to me. Alhamdulillah I am still wearing it, and while the temptations are coming my way, i pray that Allah keeps making me stronger to withstand them. I love my family, but right now in my life, if anyone of them is too uncomfortable to be near me, or be in public with me, it is their problem, not mind.
Amin
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatuLLAH wabarakatuHU dear sister,
Comments from your family brought smile to my face (I don't get angry at ignorant people). You should take them shopping to "help" you choose something slimming ;) Have they seen modest fashion these days? Take them there or online shopping :) About the hiring: As we all perfectly know Rizq with ALLAH which means if I don't get the job it's not meant for me to have ;) I wear a hijab and let me tell you in a work place dominated by non Muslims I got hired right away and they seemed to love me (I also pray at work and very obvious about me being practicing Muslim). Be proud of who you are. Always smile. Everything will fall in place InshaALLAH. All the love to you my sister in Islam. Hang in there it gets better :*
Same for me
@@kaybia3795 Sister How is it going?
The one who likes you because of your body, will not stay with you after few years if your beauty changes and infact as we age it will. Staying real with the way you look , will clear all the wrong people who don't deserve you out of the way. The one who you inspires you to abandon your Hijab, will not stay with you when you enter your grave.
Not agreeing with ALLAH's rulings is like Saying i don't wanna put petrol inside of the cars tank but instead i wanna put it in the battery. Your car will not operate if you put the acid in the tank and petrol in the battery. correct? So not doing what ALLAH ordered is the same. ALLAH knows what's better for you and doesn't look at the body but instead looks what's inside the heart. So put ALLAH and his orders first sister. May ALLAH give your the power to withstand this. Aamiin
@@Zen-vz8dj Read my reply above this one sist.
i used to live like my parents until i turned to islam through youtube cuz i was interested. My mum said i was becoming an extremist and you should stop praying for week. Then my farther was like why r u praying too much are u praying taraweeh. and more comments. Alhamduliah now they excepted the fact that im praying five times a day and learning more about the deen
Sabrina, welcome to Islam; but could i ask u to change ur pic; as suicide is haram
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.I'm a convert too and so fare only Muslim in my biological family. Alhamdulilla I'm a Sabrina too! May Allah bless you for being an ambassador of Islam to your family. In Sha Allah I'll make Dua for you.
Mashallah sis 😊 I hope you getting closer and closer to Allah since now
Hinata is my fav but anyways
Pray for your parents for ALLAH to guide them like he did to you
Couro Athie yes
i got religious after i listened to some islamic speeches that really hit me hard......... now i started wearing niqab at 13 alhamdulillah my family supports me very much and theyre religious so its easy for me but` i know there are people whose families doesnt allow them to become religious may allah make our deen stronger aameen
Alhamdullilah my family encourages extra acts of worship and improvement
Exactly this happened with me when i started wearing hijab 😔😔. My family members told me (kimd of forced me to take it off). People Bullied me in University 😔😔. They used call me i look like an aged woman 😔😔. I look ugly 😔. But i never lost strength.I knew that Allah is with me ❤
You're an inspiration.
The beauty of your emaan and soul will triumph over any hatred so don’t worry ✨
MashaAllah
I'm so so proud of you
May Allah strengthen you in this path
To Allah, you are better than anything in the heavens and earth for doing that.
Allah Made You And You Are Masha Allah ❣️
My parents just keep telling me to shave my beard! My sister treats me of a gorilla...My mother keeps saying bad comments about my beard.But,I will never give up in Allah.
Ma Sha Allah....Ya Allah Subhanawata'Allah help you, Ameen
MashaAllah stay strong 💪🏻
Mashallah!!! ✨✨✨
But you should give up on Ariana 🤣
The beard has always been a problem for my mom. La Hawla Wala Quwwata Illa Billah !
I was blessed. I only got the negative comments from my wife. My mother was a little disappointed but was not shocked at all as anyone that knew me personally already knew of my leaning towards Islam at an early age even though I grew up in a Christian family. My Christian parents and extended family are now my best supporters and are the first to proudly share all of the changes I have made in my life. I still run into people from time to time that remember me from my bar days. LOL The look on their faces is priceless.
+Dwight Hayes May Allah give you the strength youll need brotha
Aiman Kamarudin Thank you brother.
+Dwight Hayes May Allah help you in what you need
& approch you from his Messenger and perfect creature Muhammad the prayer & the peace on him, ameen
wa asselemu aleykum
Amenallah
و عليكم السلام والرحمة الله وبركاته
+Dwight Hayes May Allah helps us in this dunya and akhirah. May Allah give Hidaya to all of your family insyaallah. Always pray for them and may Allah make us with our family in the jannah. Aminn :)
As a teenager, sometimes you just want to be with your friends, but as soon as you change towards Islam. Indeed your used-to-be good friends will go and never come back. Yes, you will feel sad and lonely, but never lose hope and change your faith because of that. It's okey to just have Allah and Quran as your best buddy. Let Allah alone be your decent listener, influencer, adviser, and planner because no one will ever be able to keep track of your life. As Allah will never neglect you even in seconds.
I'm returning to Islam Insh'Allah and my family are Christians. When I first brought it up then yes ago, aw man they went in on me hard and it hurt me so bad but I still believed in Islam and Allah. I wasn't angry, just crying, sad. So I never stopped believing in what Allah has chosen for me. Now that I'm much older, I have been blessed with a son, I must show him and teach him that this is the Right Way. I love Allah, I am nothing and have nothing without Him. Please pray for me and my journey back to the Straight Path. This Ramadan is the time I have been granted and blessed to see and observe. May Allah (SWT) continue to guide us and protect us all in these days and trying times. Ameen.
“You’re gonna wear that to the wedding” my mom has certainly said this way too much when I started wearing full hijab 😂
Juwairia Sadik noooo😃
If u wear hijab then why do u have your photo in your profile picture for everyone to see
@@techdude9815 Maybe you should lower your gaze first?
@@techdude9815 akhii or ukhtii, if you give advice to the other people, give it in good and polite way.. do you think they would accept your advice if you said so? No.. they would feel angry and uncomfortable.. and a bit remind to myself and other muslimin, none of us are perfect, but Allah tell us to remind each other with other muslimin in the good way, insyaa Allah our heart would be "softened" and accepted..😊 salaam
@@techdude9815 hijab is worn outside so it fine If she worn in profile pic
As a revert, all I can say is, subhanAllah, 😢 , so beautiful and so true.
At this point of time after wasting so many years of my life when I have finally decided to change my ways and become a proper practicing muslim...this video shows up...u can't deny allah's miracles....
had been led astray but allah had guided me back to the proper islam. i had started hijab too or atlest trying to. my mom did say i looked better without it. and im not letting her get in my way. As much as i love her im not letting her influence me.
subhanallah I feel like this video was sent to me by Allah. its going to be one year of me practicing and let me tell you, EVERYTHING about me changed! for the better alhumdulilah....my family thought it was a faze and everytime I call to Islam they look down at me. my mom actually told me she'll make a duh by herself when I offered to make one as a family....i don't have anymore friends because supposedly im too boring now....but alhumdulilah I've met amazing people at the misjid. my true family in Islam and we have a much more greater bond than my old family and friends
We realate a lot brother may Allah help us and keep us stay-put on our Deen insha'Allah 😊
Blazing Knight are you single? I am reverted muslima ...
I am in love with your illustration videos guys, I can't stop watching them..
Alhumdullilah :))
assalamualaikum dear
@@FreeQuranEducation Same exact thing happened to me from this beautiful video. I change through muslin videos Allahu akbar 🙏🏿
Same, i watch them in my free time
You should be in love with Allah more than khutbas
This video popped up just for me, I'm 21 years old and I said shahada when I'm 19, and whenever I pray, I listen to Islamic lectures than watching tv and listening to music, my parents says you're lost , and I wake-up for my Fajr everyday and never woke up at 5:00 am until I've become a muslim, and my moms says things, and that destroys my whole Mrng, I pray everyday for my mom to become a muslim insha allah watala one day💛 ,was a hindu before unfortunately!
This literally relates to me so well. I can't even believe how spot on this was.
+sehrish h Please do share with friends and family if you benefit from it to help spread the message. [post by Volunteers at NAKcollection/FreeQuranEducation]
Sameeee
me to
Wallahi this really hits home ! Too much ! I am from Iran, Allah guided me to the Sunnah after I was misguided ! My dad dislikes my Islam and my mom forces me to be Shia. Wallahi it can be annoying !
May Allah guide us all !
@@mobinmirshekari4884 maasyaa Allah.. may Allah always protect and strengthen us.. may I know how is the growth of sunnah in Iran?😊
remember my old times, i used to be a rebel teen kid who hate my life and didn't care at all. long story short, i was a kid with a disgrace on my face. it happens when i was a senior student, my teacher kind of telling us all muslim student how important it is to wear a hijab and be a positive person. i'm a depressed kid with a suicidal mind but when my teacher talks about akhirah and the end of the day i start crying and begging for forgiveness to Allah. and here i am, not completely perfect and try to wear hijab even everybody was shock and despise me first.
I can totally relate it.
Even my brother roasts me,saying what happened to you overnight, saying you gonna folllow it only 2 days sometimes he also says it is nothing just a show off infront of our parents so that you get some sort of attention😂🙂
Just saw a quote, " you can see people's sins, not their repentance"
May Allah bless us to hold on tight in islam
Aameen
For me.. changing is almost impossible.. but I won’t give up
“We are muslim but we are not muslim muslim”. Masha Allah 😅
I got my answer 'dont obey them, accompany them in the most dignified fashion' ... Jajakallah
Yeah
0:25 TH-cam video really cracks me! Ahaha bcoz that is my situation ! I still remeber I cried so much after watching that video . Such a wake up video for muslim
So recently I tried becoming a better Muslim for myself and started watching videos, stories of prophets and other stuff. Then I saw a book named “The secrets divine of Love” which brings us close to Islam. I ordered that online and I got a message that it will arrive soon. My mother saw that message and she was like you have this studies more and you want to read that book. I feel so disappointed and discouraged.
Because instead of supporting me my mother and brother are telling to concentrate on studies. But I am concentrating on studies as well as Islam.
Don't give up Allah is watching over you. Your mother will understand soon In Sha Allah
Religious partner is a blessing.. may ALLAH help us all
Ameen suma ameen
when I started growing my beard my mother was telling me for a year to shave it,but when she saw she is not successful in convincing me to shave it she finally quit convincing me
Decide hijrah because Al i'tirof song touch my heart
I accepted Islam few years back and i was shocked to know that muslims also need to revert as badly as non muslims do...
Alhamdulillah i am blessed ...may Allah guide everyone to the straight path..
😊
Hello brother! Congratulations! I’m so happy for you! May I suggest something? 😊I have been following an account on Tumblr called Reverthelp, and their Instagram is @revert_help. Their website is:reverthelp.com/
I have made a couple of revert friends and they mentioned that the admin is a professional life coach who helps them with their questions and supports them through their process. They are really happy with the support they get. They have a really nice community too. Seeing your comment I thought they can be of good use for you as well if you need any information or resources. Do send them a message 😊 best ✌🏻
Yes, it hurts very much, if your parents doesn't want you to wear hijab or a beard... But I think they aren't against it in their hearts, they are just against it because they have fear, that their children will not be successfull in this word. They don't think about it, that a muslim is successfull if you practice islam and so on...I think when they are alive they are against it, but when they die they will be happy that their children are good muslims. It's my opinion. But of course all parents are different.
+Dina Chan That's basically it. It's usually a more convoluted case, especially so because everyone today has gotten a negative view of people practicing Islam (or religion in general) passionately and sincerely. It's easy to fall under the idea that too much zeal and enthusiasm can blind you from the true deen and give malicious people the ability to control you through your good intentions. That's the biggest fear of a muslim fatherand mother, that the greatest thing in this world, your Islam, leads you to destruction by e.g. suicide bombing. It's the same concerns I've had to tackle, and the best way to do so is as this video states to be pacient, appreciative and understanding albeit firm in your belief as well as aware of anything that might use your good intentions wrongly. I've learned to appreciate my parents apprehensiveness, first of al because they aren't sarcastic nor hurtful about the way they show their concern (which isn't the case for everyone sadly), but secondly and most importantly because they give me a check and make me question everything I do. Is this for Allah swt? Am I doing this because a Sheikh said so? What makes sense and what doesn't? With the help of what I've learned from mister Nouman as well as other Islamic speakers, what does the holy Quran ACTUALLY say about things compared to the general understanding muslims have? My parents good-hearted criticisms lead me further through the path more safely, and although they and I make mistakes, we ask forgiveness from Allah swt for whatever we may be wrong in doing ourselves.
Dina Chan, I agree with you there. My parents feared the same thing but alhamdulillah things got better.
Dina Chan agreed not all the parents are same.... But, This is the time when Allah tests your faith and wheb you fear Allah you don't need to fear the world.... As the narrator mentioned the Ibrahim A.S please read about him and Imam_E_Hussain as well peace be upon him....
Very well said! 👏🏻
You're right. I believe what you said is true, but I also believe narcissism lies in the hearts of some parents. I know one thing for sure, and that is that hypocrites occupy a majority of these parents. May Allah guide them before it's too late.
I can totally relate to this video. But Alhumdulillah my parents are very supporting. May Allah give them highest reward. Amen. May Allah guide everyone of us.
بارك الله فيكم ووفقكم الله لما يحبه ويرضاه آمين من فلسطين
Ooo Alllah!! This is so true, as a reverted Muslim I know it’s so much we have to change. And struggle and deal thing with and be nice same time.
Alhamdullilah my family have been very supportive of my change and new commitment to Islam. To those who are going through this slander, I am so sorry, keep pushing forward, though, In Sha Allah things will get better for you.
Alhamdulillah i had got the perfect path of allah under his desire bcz of my elder sister.may allah guide us the straight path...aameen
My uncle showed me this khutbah by nouman ali khan about common misconceptions muslims have on islam ( the basics we forget easily ).It was relatble, from there i started watching nouman ali khan lectures and these videos are helping me follow my religion properly.Also english is not my first language so there might be grammatical mistakes here so ignore.
To be Honest..... I think i am very lucky to have such good friends.... My friends motivate me every single day... And for them now im trying my best to practice Islam.......pray for me🌸🌸🌸
iam muslim girl so Iam very glad this vidoe so is very powerful topic i wish all muslims allah guides swt every where us stay and allh guid straght path
I decided to Change myself. Alhamdulillah, i am trying my best.
I swear to Allah this is so so true...it always happens to me...But I won't change...Allah Hu Akbar
Alhamdulliah Allah gave me a religious family , i learnt from them . Alhamdulliah . But for those who didnt come from religious back ground i pray and hope they can be on the path islam and their parents and who every criticized becomes true muslim who practices .Amen
Eye opening regarding born muslims. May Allah swt guide us to the right path. Ameen
Exactly the happened with me.... Alhamdulilah
"Oh YEAH? THIS IS THE SUNNAH!" .. hihi That was funny, but i can relate to that
4 months before I said that I am done with sinner life and Allah helped me to throw away that awful embarrassed life
I sometimes feel ashamed of be one such parent... But after watching your series I feel like sending my 13 year old boy into islamic studies who really wants to follow in the footsteps of young islamic scholars Mashallah... May Allah guide and protect us all from fitna
I and my whole family were born Muslim ,but no one really prayed etc. Then Alhamdulillah like few months ago my heart came back to Islam and soon enough I started wearing a hijab,didn't have much of a support at first but now they're getting used to it💛 although things I do,like giving up music they find extreme... And they always tell me "please just don't become extreme with the religion,live your life..." -.-
So relevant in my life, I'm so glad Alhamudlilah that I've seen this video!
+smil3yperson Alhumdullilah.
জানি না কিভাবে! আমার মনের ভেতর যে জিনিসটা বার বার আঁচড় কাটতে থাকে সেই আঁচড়কে প্রশমিত করতে বা একটা সঠিক পথ বাতলে দিতে কিভাবে জানি অই জিনিস সম্পর্কিত কিছুই সামনে চলে আসে।
সুবহানাল্লাহ। 🥺
Omg subhan Allah this video was recommended to me in TH-cam exactly at the right timing when I needed something to calm me down and show me how to react when I’m having sabr and I feel like it’s just not working and maybe enough is enough 😔 Alhamdulellah I’m so blessed I find this video and now I will change my self to the better 💪🏻😇
May Allaah make us among those who practice their deen...
i was going on this path until society and internet affected me . i am feeling guilty beacause i went too far.. hopefully allah forgives me :((( and hopefully i can get back
Inshaallah you wl. Don't let anything affect you. Just trust Allah SWT and keep trying
yes, keep trying. Don't go complete sinner, just try your best not to do more sins, and if you can change that's even better
Ma sha Allah! May Allah swt give this ustadh and everyone who is contributing to spread knowledge of Islam highest place in Jannah!
May Allah give us the best of this dunya and the best of akhirah. Ameen
It is hard for me because I converted to Islam and my friends and family got extremely upset, which I still don’t understand... but I don’t worry about it, I have Allah, he takes away my worries and helps me. Subhan Allah
I didn't lose friends bc I cut off those who were bad to me in the beginning.
My last friend I made, she was the one to push me to pray and be a better Muslim.
Al hamdoulillah
I decided to change and masha allah this is because of da’wah on TH-cam videos. It is very helpful. Raised as a Muslim but years and years I am not that much into salah. But alhamdulillah TH-cam is a great platform just use it in a good way.
At the age of 16 i myself started offering prayers by reading books and viewing videos.. I believe in allah❤
Mashallah 😊
Happened to me what's Nouman Ali khan is narrating though my family is very happy and supportive. Al humdulillah!
I start practicing Islam two years ago. And I had gone through all of this. My uncle used to advice me that you are wasting your youth. What with this Kurta you wear all the time. Act like a young man, get a life. (I am 19 now). My father used to say very bitter words about me all the time so I had a break down couple of months ago. I start skipping my prayers. And I have had completely lost the way😭. Now I am trying again to become a Muslim I am supposed to be. Plz pray for me.
Brother my Father criticises me too.. I don't want to get lost..from faith
I became muslim at the age of 17; even though I was born into a Muslim family; I never really believed in Islam, I would consider myself a revert to islam
Masha Allah
By Allah's grace I have best parents🧕👳♂️
Wow this video scared me even more of telling my family that I have reverted 😳🙊 if even Muslim families have problems accepting that, how will my atheist family react? 😳
May Allah swt make it easy for you respected sister :)
Stini's World Allah will be with you beautiful 🙌🏽 I’ll make dua for you and that everything goes easy for you ❤️
very good illustration . even better than before . and anyway nouman ali khan is my favourite speaker 👍
honestly same with me may Allah show us and our family truth as truth.
My family is non-muslim and none of my family has ever been Muslim. But I converted and I wear my hijab around my Christian family. My mom and dad don’t judge me ever and we go out together with my hijab on.
This is true I become ah Muslim I lose friends and I am ok with that onces my Allah and I are close to each other that's what matter
All praises to allah swt ...any member of my family will not act like this..they will be more proud..... subhanallah
Born and raised in a Muslim family but my parents never stopped me from practicing in Islam in any manner. But somewhere I wasn't a good believer. Recently, I started wearing a hijab and listening to Quran on daily basis. It gives me peace and guidance. Islam is the most beautiful religion in the world. 🌼❤️
I started changing this year alhamdulillah I had very wrong friends and didn’t pray. One day I just lay in my bed and wanted to get closer to my religion I watched lots of Videos in TH-cam how to be forgiven by Allah (swt) and started praying seriously and learning new Surahs and Dua‘s. I want to get better, be forgiven and be a good Muslima (started wearing the hijab at 24th of May (Eid Mubarak)) I feel very happy now!!
Am a 17 year old girl i lost alot friends nd i used to talk to alot of boys calling them my brother... but now i slowly drifted away i lost my best friend who was a guy too i turned to Allah i started praying ... am cutting of as much i can from social media i started to recite Quran everday and i am feeling better
MashAllah dear.
EVERY word said by him is SO true... May Allah Guide Us All..
The Guidance through TH-cam is my story
That is happening with me. Though my family is a muslim family, when I started to change my life and lead my life in an Islamic way, they are treating me in a very bad way and they are forcing me to lead a so called normal life. Looks like, I am fighting with the whole world alone. May Allah gives His blessings to me and give me strength to fight back and forgive me.
Please pray to Allah for me.
Ameen may Allah help you and your family
Very true, in my case my mother is not very religious she don't pray Salah but she did not argue or try to prevent me from being religious instead she supported me more than my father who is more religious than her, in past my father encouraged me to do Perdah according to the Shariah and because of him I started to do Perdah from all of my Non-Mehrems and I like that very much but now he is changed, now he try to convince me to change myself for Duniyah😢I wish for my father to be Strong in Deen like he was used to in the past
this is really like they are talking about mai real life.....I also found mai Islam on u tube..subhanallah....may ALLAH guide every one...
well this happened to me, I am born in a Muslim family and my family follows it really well but I was okay okay, recently same I came across a youtube video and suddenly I felt something very strong in my heart like my faith is calling out for me. before I saw the video, I was kinda addicted to tv shows, I was praying but not with my full attention, my heart often becomes empty as if emptiness is killing me from inside, I thought maybe watching shows might get rid of these feelings but didn't, now I am trying my best to build a good relationship with Allah and I seriously feel inner peace as if nothing can make me sad as long as I pray. my family is really good like they really support me, I told them that I want to wear a burka and they were happy with my decision. Allah always guides us when we are lost in our ways. I hope all people find their way which will lead them to Allah.
so relatable 😓may allah az zawajjal help all young generation
I can relate to this video.. This give me strength 🙏🏻 thank you so much
Ever since I've changed my life Alhamdullilah my family has supported me fully and they're learning from me too Alhamdullilah
Alhamdulillah, may Allah (SWT) bless you and your family.
exactly happened in my family. tough time and still survive on myself. may Allah guide us all always.
Astaghfirullah.... The way to the Right Path is not easy....
Alhamdoulilah i found this video, this is in the exact situation I'm in subhanallah
Your words are very realistic and 100% true! We Muslims are most of the times hostile to each other . The words of Muslims are even worse than the words of non-Muslims on the enthusiastic souls seeking to advance !! I hope we will stop making fun of anyone who is better than us, and that on the contrary we learn from him.
What really hurts me is the attack of some girls who are not able wear hijab on hijabis with words such as the hijab is not obligatory!!
just started wearing the proper dressing as a Muslimah (I'm Alhumdulillah born in Muslim family still it doesn't matter the mindsets are so badly disturbed because of lack of knowledge) and here ppl telling me to wear whatever u want but after marriage.
Wallah I don't know whether I'll b alive till my marriage? or then my husband will allow me or not? then how could his family react as my own family is apposing me!
May Allah guide us!
assalamualaikum
ameen!!!!
So glad my family specifically my parents was amazed to see me change this ramadhan... when i started praying 5 times a day without missing one salah followed by completing the 12 sunnah prayers, and when i started reading the Quran.. i also started to disconnect with my bad habits and startsd to repent for my past sins....
Assalam Waalaikum my brothers and sisters I belong from a non-muslim family and since 3 years i have been following Islam so whenever I wear hijab in front uncle,aunty cousin brothers,cousin sisters even my friends they start laughing they taunt me .But by the will of Allah my mother and my elder sister have accepted me without saying anything against it they have always supported me .But the family keeps doing this but I never loose patience I feel bad its hurting at times but I know that someday or the other Inshallah even they will accept it and will respect my decision .So my brothers and sisters who are facing same behaviour from family you are not alone and so many of us are out there we dont have to loose patience or feel bad about it Inshallah we will get reward for our patience Inshallah
Hello there! Congratulations on your conversion! I’m so happy for you! May I suggest something? 😊
I have been following an account on Tumblr called Reverthelp, and their Instagram is @revert_help. Their website is:reverthelp.com/
I have made a couple of revert friends and they mentioned that the admin is a professional life coach who helps them with their questions and supports them through their process. They are really happy with the support they get. They have a really nice community too. Seeing your comment I thought they can be of good use for you as well if you need any information or resources. Do send them a message 😊 best ✌🏻
Subhaana Allah! Before I went through the comments I was saying to myself that "these examples Sheikh Nouman is giving is unrealistic; a muslim parent?"
However, many people relate to this in the comments session. Forgive my myopia Sheikh. May Allah increase you in wisdom and knowledge, & grant you long life so we continue to benefit from you. Jazaakallah!
Mine happened after watching Mufti Menk's video about "feeling sad".