I love how you guys involve the kids and make them feel like their opinion is valued instead of them just having to accept or tolerate what they are told just because they are a kid. You guys rock!
I love how open Miss A is to welcoming other fosters in, especially into her personal space area. It shows her beautiful spirit. Your family is a ray of sunshine. Your videos always brighten my day and always remind me to do more and be better. Sending love to you all.
I love how you allowed Miss A conditions!!! (This might sound terrible...)but she came FIRST and it's her room that'd be being shared!!! YES!!! Thank you for considering her and allowing her to put her foot down too! She's family and so often foster kids are kept in the dark or worse lumped in with other kids! Yay for you!!! Striving to be a foster mom like your family!!!
Ohhh respite. For those who do know, respite is for children who can be seen for certain amount of hours in the day or it can be for weekends or a certain day of the week. This gives bio parents or other foster parents to have a break from the child to care for self. Some respite care placements can also help children skill build. Great video like always!!
@@cassidyhadley8087 It depends. I think sometimes respite is also used right after a child is removed but the agency hasn't had a chance yet to find a foster home. Other times it would be for things like foster parents wanting to get away from home for a date night and their foster child would need a home to stay in for that night. The foster parents could have their biological children stay with relatives or friends, but the foster child would need to be in an approved home overnight.
You guys are the epitome of what fostering should be! I love that you consulted with Miss A before accepting the respite placement! I have a question that I mean in an absolutely non negative way so please don't be offended or take it the wrong way. Are you worried that the gifts Miss A is receiving will affect her in any way? Are you worried that she may get spoiled and expect these things? Are you worried that she may not want to go back to her family because she won't get gifts any longer? I'm just honestly curious about how you feel about it. I'm glad people are being so kind and supportive of her.
I can’t go into details in answering those because it would share too much about the situation. In general, you have to know the kid and know what their maturity level is and have conversations and give as it is fit for that kid. So we are spoiling her for a reason, she knows why, she understands it and it does not impact her relationship with her parents. With another foster kiddo we would not be able to spoil as much because they may need to learn some lessons about gratitude and hard work, etc. that is not the case with Miss A
I know you dont expect Miss A to help with your kids but she sure seems like a big help with them. Id say that alone is worth a little extra spoiling no matter what other circumstances exist.
I think maybe she has not been able to get any extras before she got placed here. Maybe they are poor and can't afford it or were homeless and list everything. But I think this is great. I'm sure she knows that if she goes back home this won't last because she has other siblings and it cost alot to spoil a few more kids than just 1 .I love that everyone send her stuff I think she realizes that she's very loved by alot of ppl she doesn't even know and I think she appreciates it !
That’s a cute outfit u had on. The one with the checked shorts. U can tell she loves Sawyer & the way he looks at her u can tell he feels the same. U can tell she’s an amazing little woman. Love following her. U r a wonderful little woman.
I love that you talk as a family and include Miss A as part of the family when making decisions. It's also so cute seeing people sending mail and gifts for her. I know we don't know much about her situation, but going into foster care is a lot to handle, especially when you are old enough to truly know what is happening. I hope she knows how loved she is not only by her family and your family, but also by those of watching.
Miss A, I loved seeing you with the little guy on the couch. He was flirting with his eyes and smiling at you so sweetly. Its really nice to see your bond with even the littlest family members.
Darcy is delightful. She is so gracious. She is so well behaved. So many virtues to be learned in your family’s journey. Your children are rising up to the occasion. I’m enamored with the chemistry each one shares with the other. Still can’t get over how much of he baby looks like John. You two are doing life right!!! Xxoo
Yay, for the 8 year old girl who will spend the week with your family. I love how appreciative you all are of the gifts you receive!!!! No doubt the week she spends with you guys will be a gift to the 8 year old girl you'll share your home with. ❤❤❤
Missay is so sweet! It my heart just was just over filled when she said "I'll share" without hesitation! How are you ever going to ever give her back! I'm disabled and don't make the money to foster/ nor extra bad. Miaasy such a gracious loving child! As hard as life has been, she's finally comfy home with you, hubby and your children! How could she be so SWEET TO JUST SAY OK "I'll SHARE"! Someone cut onions in here! I LOVE MISSAY! I'm not sure what respite care means but HOW COULD SHE BE SO GIVING?"
If all of the kiddos Miss A’s age exuded that much compassion and kindness as she showed in this video, this world would be so, so bright. I know we’re getting there; I just know it... and Miss A is in it! I’m sending you all my love from Canada 🇨🇦💖
It was very kind of you guys to include Miss A in the decision and really make sure she was okay with it. And WOW she must feel like a celebrity getting all that nice mail all the time. She deserves it and you guys are great 💕
I love this episode... very sweet of all these people to show Ms. A so much love and support... Her experience with you will be a life altering one, no matter how long she stays ♡ Y'all are amazing!
I absolutely love how quickly Miss A said yes! Without knowing, she will be making a huge difference with this little eight year old girls stay with you. Just knowing, that she is not the only "foster" (I don't like using that as a descriptive word, but that is how they feel when they first arrive) ((from a retired foster mom)) will make her feel comfortable much more quickly. For that I say "Thank you Miss A" because your opinion mattered too within this family decision. ✌🌷
You guys are so precious and giving and generous. I am praying that adding another does not diminish your ability to continue to emotionally and physically pour out all that your household is requiring of you. Miss A is at an age where kids need so much more support and attention than we think or than they will ask for. Blessings and loads of prayers for you guys and the children. Praying for Miss A's family also.
What a joy you bring. The fact you want everybody to agree to be a safe haven for the 8 year old ... it brought tears to my eyes. Also the enthusiasm to hear once unpacked a gift. I welled up again. I wish there would be many more couples like yours. 👍💋❣
you are amazing for doing what you are doing for these kids, my niece and nephew were placed with me 9 years ago trough the kinship program and eventually their parents chose to sign over their parental rights to me so I now have 2 wonderful kids that I raise as my own since ive had them since they were just toddlers. It hasn't been easy but so worth it.
As I watch your videos, I imagine being in everyone’s different roles. How you feel, intellectually and emotionally, how your husband sees the new placement fitting in, how Darcy imagines playing with a new friend, and how Miss A grows and molds. There is something very special about you all. Collectively your family turned what would obviously be a traumatic life event for MissA into, “while this gets all worked out, let’s be ok with it” my dad past away 1 year ago, after a two year battle with Lung Cancer. Each thing that came up that would devastate his wife, and myself was “nothing but a thang” to my dad. Life is never perfect, or “normal” like social media portrays, we all have lumps and bumps, it just makes it less of a THANG when understanding people are in your life to comfort you and lift you up. I pray your new placement has an easy time and is not too stressed. God bless your sweet village!
American academy of pediatrics recommends a minimum age of 6 to sleep in a top bunk. Of course, still be mindful that each kid is unique, but just something to keep in mind when thinking about placements, and how to best make sure kids in your care are safe and feel safe. But yes, 8 is a perfectly acceptable age to sleep in a bunk bed, as long as the kid is okay with it, and many may find the top bunk exciting!
Yeah I was just thinking what if the little girl has never slept in a bunk bed before and doesn't want to sleep on the top...plus it's a strange house shes coming into...idk in this case I really feel like since shes only 8, her respite providers (you guys) should put her needs first since it's just going to be for a week..even though Ms. A said she doesnt want to sleep on top..hopefully you guys can assess the situation to make sure 8 yr old is comfortable..for example when I was 8 I was i had never been in a bunk bed I'd be a little scared to sleep up top..every child is different of course😊 🤔
@@Star3marie304 I think they said they'd be letting the case worker know she'd be on a top bunk, so if that's not okay with the child, she could be placed in a different respite home that fits her needs better
Anastasia Romanov Given that Miss A is their full time foster placement, and will be sharing her room and her personal space, it is wonderful that they are respecting Miss A’s preferences before moving forward with accepting a temporary respite placement. If all Miss A is asking for is the bottom bunk (her bed), then I see no problem with that being a condition on accepting the respite placement. They said in the video that before accepting the placement, they will let the case worker know that they only have a top bunk available, and if the child is okay with that then they will accept her as a placement. If the respite child does not feel comfortable with that, then they will find a different respite home for them. If it was just a friend sleeping over that didn’t feel comfortable sleeping on top bunk, that would be different, and I’d bet that Miss A would be accommodating to that, but this is a complete stranger, whom they have never met, and this stranger will be staying and temporarily living in Miss A’s personal space for a week. Miss A’s bed, where she sleeps every night, is on the bottom bunk, and she shouldn’t have to give that up to a stranger if she doesn’t feel comfortable doing so. For that to be her only request, and for that to be respected, is pretty amazing in my opinion.
I was having a particularly bad day at work and came home and watched this vlog. It completely turned my night around and took my mind off the bad stuff. I love and respect your decision to involve the kids under your roof in the process!! Definitely the type of parent I want to be
You guys are an inspiration for me. I plan to foster as soon as I can when I get older, and your videos have really helped me to learn about being a foster parent!
I’ve raised 3 teenagers and just something to consider; you make the decisions in the house. Of course consult but ultimately the decision is the parents. Consult your husband first separate from the kids then come to the kids as one unit and ask for their thoughts, concerns etc. Let them know you will take what they said into consideration but make the final decision with your husband away from the kids. It just takes any responsibility off of them. It’s so easy to treat a teen like an adult but they arnt and they don’t think like us at all. I think you guys are amazing parents and people and I ( also a foster parent) hope that many more people see these positive experiences and decide to open their home.
Miss A, you have such a lovely personality. It's easy to tell you're grateful for the love and support you have and you're naturally very likable. I'm wishing you a positive outcome, whatever that should entail. ❤️❤️
God bless you and your family for opening your hearts and homes to these kids. Thank you also for sharing this journey with us, I just recently found this channel. You and your family are an inspiration.
I'm not sure if Miss A reads these comments. I have a feeling though that you let her or at least tell her. That Tree of Life bracelet not only looked really really good on her, but to me I could "feel" that is was right for her. That it "belongs" to/with her. That is a very special gift. Not saying the other gifts were not great, but the bracelet had a very special feeling when I saw it on her wrist
your place is a great landing pad for respite. Good job sharing and being kind, Miss A. You can always put the upper bunk mattress down on the floor if needed. Might get crowded but it's just a week. Sounds like tons to juggle. Good luck all of you and get the girls to help out as appropriate.
Dear Miss A and family. I have Cerebral Palsy so I can't physically write very well(holding a 🖊 is hard) I can type easier. I just really love watching your channel. I hope you're having fun using your new school supplies(I saw you shopping for them in a previous video) and having a fun school year. Lots of love from Southern California
I just found your channel recently and I love your attitude towards these kids and foster care in general. I've been watching several videos and I can't remember if I already commented so sorry if I've already said this lol but I want to foster kids one day and your channel is not only educational for how the system works but also how to provide a safe space for these children. I have never wanted my own kids. I was always made to feel "different" because of it (all the other girls at my school couldn't wait to have babies lol but it's something I have never wanted). I always knew I wanted to foster. I had a rough childhood and I could have easily ended up in the system if the things going on at home had been reported. So I know kind of what these kids might be struggling with. I don't have personal experience with foster care but I have experience with a struggling family. I would have loved for someone to be on my side and help me along, and that is what I want to provide for these kids one day. I have never looked at foster care as a way to adopt but as a way to show kids that someone is rooting for them while they are going through this difficult time. I want my home to be a safe place where they can be themselves without fear of judgment. I want them to know what it's like to be respected and treated like a capable person rather than being talked down to a lot (Which I unfortunately think happens a lot to foster kids). I am only 21 and in college right now, but being a foster parent is something I look forward to one day. Foster kids have it rough and they need to know that they are not alone in this and that someone has their back. I want them to feel loved while they are in my care. Sorry this comment is so long lol I have a tendency to ramble.
I love that you asked Miss A her thoughts on bringing in another kid, even temporarily, and include her in your family meetings. If there are any situations/behaviours that require disciplining with a foster child that you feel should result in more than a talking-to what are some things/ what can you give for consequences?
U guys and Miss A R such wonderful people. I think older placements like Miss A suit your family ( as would the new 8 Y.O.).....In our country the foster kid/s have to be younger than any of your own kids and at one time I had 4 kids under 5 and they were literally jumping off the walls. It was out of control. An older child like Miss A really gives balance to a family with younger biological kids like yours....... I am sure Miss 8 Y.O. respite care will be fine too and Miss A is very nice to offfer to share her bedroom with this other girl.
I loved it when miss A said " I keep everything that everyone got me upstairs in my drawer, well other than the chips. I ate those. 😂
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Miss A is such a sweetie!
Same here🤣🤣
MB K lmao that made me laugh so hard because that’s soo me 🤣
MB K same girl same
I like Miss A
“We May have to eat out more that week.”
Miss A: OOOOOOOOOHHHH!!
I love how you guys involve the kids and make them feel like their opinion is valued instead of them just having to accept or tolerate what they are told just because they are a kid. You guys rock!
Thank you for taking the request of keeping the bottom bunk serious. So many people would not respect that seriously.
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When and where on the video was the bottom bunk situation talked?
Macy Haddock minute 3 or so
Alex Jordan thanks :)
I love how open Miss A is to welcoming other fosters in, especially into her personal space area. It shows her beautiful spirit.
Your family is a ray of sunshine. Your videos always brighten my day and always remind me to do more and be better. Sending love to you all.
I also just saw the new family photos at the end in the subscribe bubble - absolutely stunning!! I love them!
Thank you!!! We will share more of those later when we reveal a new intro video!!
I love how you allowed Miss A conditions!!! (This might sound terrible...)but she came FIRST and it's her room that'd be being shared!!! YES!!! Thank you for considering her and allowing her to put her foot down too! She's family and so often foster kids are kept in the dark or worse lumped in with other kids! Yay for you!!! Striving to be a foster mom like your family!!!
Ohhh respite. For those who do know, respite is for children who can be seen for certain amount of hours in the day or it can be for weekends or a certain day of the week. This gives bio parents or other foster parents to have a break from the child to care for self. Some respite care placements can also help children skill build. Great video like always!!
The Gunters Adopt so is respite parent choice ? How does that work? Sorry to bother, I’m really curious:)
Thank you for the explanation!
@@cassidyhadley8087 It depends. I think sometimes respite is also used right after a child is removed but the agency hasn't had a chance yet to find a foster home. Other times it would be for things like foster parents wanting to get away from home for a date night and their foster child would need a home to stay in for that night. The foster parents could have their biological children stay with relatives or friends, but the foster child would need to be in an approved home overnight.
@@cassidyhadley8087 it is a choice. :) sorry for the late reply. Getting ready for my son to move in
@@joyfarmergal1222 I think you explained this well.
"I should've led with that" 😂😂
“We’re going to eat out all week?! Heck yes!”
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I was always scared to go to respite placements...theyre not always great...but I'd be SO happy if it was your home! Love you guys!!!
Also, baby Sawyer is giving me baby fever lol
Aw yeah he’s a cutie and we love him to death!
I'm glad she liked the pencils ❤❤❤
Maddy made
That "family tree" symbol on the bracelet is also called the "Tree of Life" :0) It's a beutiful bracelet!
That’s what it’s called!
You guys are the epitome of what fostering should be! I love that you consulted with Miss A before accepting the respite placement! I have a question that I mean in an absolutely non negative way so please don't be offended or take it the wrong way. Are you worried that the gifts Miss A is receiving will affect her in any way? Are you worried that she may get spoiled and expect these things? Are you worried that she may not want to go back to her family because she won't get gifts any longer? I'm just honestly curious about how you feel about it. I'm glad people are being so kind and supportive of her.
I can’t go into details in answering those because it would share too much about the situation. In general, you have to know the kid and know what their maturity level is and have conversations and give as it is fit for that kid. So we are spoiling her for a reason, she knows why, she understands it and it does not impact her relationship with her parents. With another foster kiddo we would not be able to spoil as much because they may need to learn some lessons about gratitude and hard work, etc. that is not the case with Miss A
Be The Village thanks for answering! I totally understand!
I know you dont expect Miss A to help with your kids but she sure seems like a big help with them. Id say that alone is worth a little extra spoiling no matter what other circumstances exist.
I think maybe she has not been able to get any extras before she got placed here. Maybe they are poor and can't afford it or were homeless and list everything. But I think this is great. I'm sure she knows that if she goes back home this won't last because she has other siblings and it cost alot to spoil a few more kids than just 1 .I love that everyone send her stuff I think she realizes that she's very loved by alot of ppl she doesn't even know and I think she appreciates it !
your foster daughter is the SWEETEST. she has such a big heart!
I feel like your family will have a long term relationship with Miss A, long after she returns home. Yall are so great for her
🤞🏼 we selfishly want her in our life forever and hopefully her parents support that!
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That’s a cute outfit u had on. The one with the checked shorts. U can tell she loves Sawyer & the way he looks at her u can tell he feels the same. U can tell she’s an amazing little woman. Love following her. U r a wonderful little woman.
You forgot to ask Sawyer if he's ok with the new placement! 😂😂
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I do believe Sawyer approves, long as he can cuddle more people🐶❤~:)
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Holly Sawyer is the baby, not the dog 😂
Sawyers not going to know what to do when miss A goes home💗💗💗
I know 😢
I love that you talk as a family and include Miss A as part of the family when making decisions. It's also so cute seeing people sending mail and gifts for her. I know we don't know much about her situation, but going into foster care is a lot to handle, especially when you are old enough to truly know what is happening. I hope she knows how loved she is not only by her family and your family, but also by those of watching.
Does Sawyer enjoy Miss A' s braids? 😂Miss A's so sweet to share your love for a week
Miss A, I loved seeing you with the little guy on the couch. He was flirting with his eyes and smiling at you so sweetly. Its really nice to see your bond with even the littlest family members.
I love the dark grey top Ms. A was wearing when she opened the bracelet. Those kinda slouchy comfy tops are my absolute favorite.
That was from Express! I picked it out for her, it’s actually army green :)
@@BeTheVillageCommunity awesome! Now I need to go shopping. 😂
So many carees I feel would not consult their children even more so their foster children. This is what makes you so special!
Darcy is delightful. She is so gracious. She is so well behaved. So many virtues to be learned in your family’s journey. Your children are rising up to the occasion. I’m enamored with the chemistry each one shares with the other.
Still can’t get over how much of he baby looks like John.
You two are doing life right!!!
Xxoo
Yay, for the 8 year old girl who will spend the week with your family. I love how appreciative you all are of the gifts you receive!!!! No doubt the week she spends with you guys will be a gift to the 8 year old girl you'll share your home with. ❤❤❤
Miss A is so sweet and caring, she's so kind ♡ We love Miss A here and I hope nothing but the best for her future!
As someone who dealt with placement growing up. It’s so beautiful to see someone actually care. Thank you!
The excitement about eating out, SO CUTE, the way you communicate with your family is BEAUTIFUL, thank you for educating us.
In the beginning I thought Miss A was blessed to have you guys, but watching her and the love she has for the entire family you ALL are blessed!!
Yes, she has been an amazing addition to our family even just for the time being.
I love that Miss A is so sympathetic and willing to help another kiddo.
I can honestly say that I am addicted to this channel ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.
We appreciate your addiction 😂
Missay is so sweet! It my heart just was just over filled when she said "I'll share" without hesitation! How are you ever going to ever give her back! I'm disabled and don't make the money to foster/ nor extra bad. Miaasy such a gracious loving child! As hard as life has been, she's finally comfy home with you, hubby and your children! How could she be so SWEET TO JUST SAY OK "I'll SHARE"! Someone cut onions in here! I LOVE MISSAY! I'm not sure what respite care means but HOW COULD SHE BE SO GIVING?"
Note to self, now spelling out Miss A as Missay. Love it.
Great job guys! Respecting your kids feelings and opinions really go a long way with building a solid relationship and their trust!
By far the best foster family I have ever witnessed 💜. Thank you for being amazing people!
If all of the kiddos Miss A’s age exuded that much compassion and kindness as she showed in this video, this world would be so, so bright. I know we’re getting there; I just know it... and Miss A is in it! I’m sending you all my love from Canada 🇨🇦💖
I love that Ms.A can get gifts and get the perks of sharing her life without having to tell her identity and make her uncomfortable
You know a person is awesome when they apreciate scented pencils
Yep
Miss A is so sweet! I love how she’s willing to share her room!!
when i went on a respite it was amazing. i had some horrible foster parents and case workers but this one family were truly amazing.
I think Miss A might be the coolest teenager ever. I would have never said yes to that as a teenager!!
I LOVE that you let Miss A be a part of these kinds of decisions. You treat her with so much respect ❤️
It was very kind of you guys to include Miss A in the decision and really make sure she was okay with it. And WOW she must feel like a celebrity getting all that nice mail all the time. She deserves it and you guys are great 💕
I love this episode... very sweet of all these people to show Ms. A so much love and support... Her experience with you will be a life altering one, no matter how long she stays ♡ Y'all are amazing!
It made me cry. I wanna send Miss A a present. I love y’all so much.
You are so attentive with Miss A it's heartwarming to watch.
I’ve been at work watching your videos from video 1 till here lol! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I could go on forever typing thank you!
Wow thank you for watching all those old videos!!!
I absolutely love how quickly Miss A said yes! Without knowing, she will be making a huge difference with this little eight year old girls stay with you. Just knowing, that she is not the only "foster" (I don't like using that as a descriptive word, but that is how they feel when they first arrive) ((from a retired foster mom)) will make her feel comfortable much more quickly. For that I say "Thank you Miss A" because your opinion mattered too within this family decision.
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I love how you guys handle getting calls. You really make sure everyone is aright with it and respect everyone’s opinion.
You guys are so precious and giving and generous. I am praying that adding another does not diminish your ability to continue to emotionally and physically pour out all that your household is requiring of you. Miss A is at an age where kids need so much more support and attention than we think or than they will ask for. Blessings and loads of prayers for you guys and the children. Praying for Miss A's family also.
It’s respite, it’s only for a week.
What a joy you bring. The fact you want everybody to agree to be a safe haven for the 8 year old ... it brought tears to my eyes. Also the enthusiasm to hear once unpacked a gift. I welled up again. I wish there would be many more couples like yours. 👍💋❣
I just love your channel!!
We have had 6 foster littles so far, newborn- 7yrs old.
Waiting on placements is so hard.. we are just waiting right now.
Love miss A's hair
your videos always make me smile. I dont know if i want kids of my own but i know i want to be a foster parent
you are amazing for doing what you are doing for these kids, my niece and nephew were placed with me 9 years ago trough the kinship program and eventually their parents chose to sign over their parental rights to me so I now have 2 wonderful kids that I raise as my own since ive had them since they were just toddlers. It hasn't been easy but so worth it.
I love how you consult miss a rather than just saying yes most people do not!
As I watch your videos, I imagine being in everyone’s different roles. How you feel, intellectually and emotionally, how your husband sees the new placement fitting in, how Darcy imagines playing with a new friend, and how Miss A grows and molds. There is something very special about you all. Collectively your family turned what would obviously be a traumatic life event for MissA into, “while this gets all worked out, let’s be ok with it” my dad past away 1 year ago, after a two year battle with Lung Cancer. Each thing that came up that would devastate his wife, and myself was “nothing but a thang” to my dad. Life is never perfect, or “normal” like social media portrays, we all have lumps and bumps, it just makes it less of a THANG when understanding people are in your life to comfort you and lift you up. I pray your new placement has an easy time and is not too stressed. God bless your sweet village!
This is so kind, thank you ❤️
American academy of pediatrics recommends a minimum age of 6 to sleep in a top bunk. Of course, still be mindful that each kid is unique, but just something to keep in mind when thinking about placements, and how to best make sure kids in your care are safe and feel safe. But yes, 8 is a perfectly acceptable age to sleep in a bunk bed, as long as the kid is okay with it, and many may find the top bunk exciting!
Yeah I was just thinking what if the little girl has never slept in a bunk bed before and doesn't want to sleep on the top...plus it's a strange house shes coming into...idk in this case I really feel like since shes only 8, her respite providers (you guys) should put her needs first since it's just going to be for a week..even though Ms. A said she doesnt want to sleep on top..hopefully you guys can assess the situation to make sure 8 yr old is comfortable..for example when I was 8 I was i had never been in a bunk bed I'd be a little scared to sleep up top..every child is different of course😊 🤔
@@Star3marie304 I think they said they'd be letting the case worker know she'd be on a top bunk, so if that's not okay with the child, she could be placed in a different respite home that fits her needs better
Anastasia Romanov Given that Miss A is their full time foster placement, and will be sharing her room and her personal space, it is wonderful that they are respecting Miss A’s preferences before moving forward with accepting a temporary respite placement. If all Miss A is asking for is the bottom bunk (her bed), then I see no problem with that being a condition on accepting the respite placement. They said in the video that before accepting the placement, they will let the case worker know that they only have a top bunk available, and if the child is okay with that then they will accept her as a placement. If the respite child does not feel comfortable with that, then they will find a different respite home for them. If it was just a friend sleeping over that didn’t feel comfortable sleeping on top bunk, that would be different, and I’d bet that Miss A would be accommodating to that, but this is a complete stranger, whom they have never met, and this stranger will be staying and temporarily living in Miss A’s personal space for a week. Miss A’s bed, where she sleeps every night, is on the bottom bunk, and she shouldn’t have to give that up to a stranger if she doesn’t feel comfortable doing so. For that to be her only request, and for that to be respected, is pretty amazing in my opinion.
@@BhappyD yes but it's not just a stranger as you say, it's a little girl. It's a foster child.
@@Star3marie304 too?
Your family is such an inspiration! I am loving how Miss A is open to other fosters and sharing her space 💜
Hello I’m a fellow foster child ❤️
Louisa Dodson 💕💕💕💕
Me too!!! Hii 🖐
Same here!!🤙
I was having a particularly bad day at work and came home and watched this vlog. It completely turned my night around and took my mind off the bad stuff. I love and respect your decision to involve the kids under your roof in the process!! Definitely the type of parent I want to be
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You guys are an inspiration for me. I plan to foster as soon as I can when I get older, and your videos have really helped me to learn about being a foster parent!
I am so impressed. You are amazing. You have big hearts and I feel good just knowing that such generous people exist.
I’ve raised 3 teenagers and just something to consider; you make the decisions in the house. Of course consult but ultimately the decision is the parents. Consult your husband first separate from the kids then come to the kids as one unit and ask for their thoughts, concerns etc. Let them know you will take what they said into consideration but make the final decision with your husband away from the kids. It just takes any responsibility off of them. It’s so easy to treat a teen like an adult but they arnt and they don’t think like us at all.
I think you guys are amazing parents and people and I ( also a foster parent) hope that many more people see these positive experiences and decide to open their home.
We typically do, this was a low risk decision so we use it as a way to build trust with Miss A and show how her opinion is truly valued in our home.
You have the best channel on TH-cam. Thank you for all you do! Hi Miss A!
Miss A, you have such a lovely personality. It's easy to tell you're grateful for the love and support you have and you're naturally very likable. I'm wishing you a positive outcome, whatever that should entail. ❤️❤️
God bless you and your family for opening your hearts and homes to these kids. Thank you also for sharing this journey with us, I just recently found this channel. You and your family are an inspiration.
Oh my gosh! Darcy's little face when she said yes looked just like the youngest kid from Beethoven! Lol
You guys are doing an amazing job. Love the way that you ask and LISTEN to Ms A.
Miss A seems very sweet and she sure loves your baby.
I'm not sure if Miss A reads these comments. I have a feeling though that you let her or at least tell her. That Tree of Life bracelet not only looked really really good on her, but to me I could "feel" that is was right for her. That it "belongs" to/with her. That is a very special gift. Not saying the other gifts were not great, but the bracelet had a very special feeling when I saw it on her wrist
You guys are great, all of you. Miss A, you are a wonderful young woman!
I love how u involve Miss A. in placement decisions. your a great family.
your place is a great landing pad for respite. Good job sharing and being kind, Miss A. You can always put the upper bunk mattress down on the floor if needed. Might get crowded but it's just a week. Sounds like tons to juggle. Good luck all of you and get the girls to help out as appropriate.
I seriously love you guys!!! Love that you let Miss A have an opinion! I seriously love how much she loves Sawyer!!
Miss A is seriously so sweet ♥️
She truly is.
Dear Miss A and family. I have Cerebral Palsy so I can't physically write very well(holding a 🖊 is hard) I can type easier. I just really love watching your channel. I hope you're having fun using your new school supplies(I saw you shopping for them in a previous video) and having a fun school year. Lots of love from Southern California
everything that y’all do inspires me so much
How lovely is Miss A!
You 5 make my heart so happy! 😊❤️
I like how you asked Miss A and how she was willing to share with another girl for a week.
Miss A appears to have taken ownership of Sawyer. That is so awesome
😂😂😂😂😂
I just found your channel recently and I love your attitude towards these kids and foster care in general. I've been watching several videos and I can't remember if I already commented so sorry if I've already said this lol but I want to foster kids one day and your channel is not only educational for how the system works but also how to provide a safe space for these children. I have never wanted my own kids. I was always made to feel "different" because of it (all the other girls at my school couldn't wait to have babies lol but it's something I have never wanted). I always knew I wanted to foster. I had a rough childhood and I could have easily ended up in the system if the things going on at home had been reported. So I know kind of what these kids might be struggling with. I don't have personal experience with foster care but I have experience with a struggling family. I would have loved for someone to be on my side and help me along, and that is what I want to provide for these kids one day. I have never looked at foster care as a way to adopt but as a way to show kids that someone is rooting for them while they are going through this difficult time. I want my home to be a safe place where they can be themselves without fear of judgment. I want them to know what it's like to be respected and treated like a capable person rather than being talked down to a lot (Which I unfortunately think happens a lot to foster kids). I am only 21 and in college right now, but being a foster parent is something I look forward to one day. Foster kids have it rough and they need to know that they are not alone in this and that someone has their back. I want them to feel loved while they are in my care. Sorry this comment is so long lol I have a tendency to ramble.
5:20 I have that exact bracelet in light gray, I love it SO MUCH. It's so pretty and comfortable.
You guys are amazing including miss A in everything I love watching you guys ❤️❤️❤️
I love that you asked Miss A her thoughts on bringing in another kid, even temporarily, and include her in your family meetings.
If there are any situations/behaviours that require disciplining with a foster child that you feel should result in more than a talking-to what are some things/ what can you give for consequences?
Good question, we can try answering this in a future video
WHAT ARE THOOOOSE? haha I love that people in your village have these huge hearts to send her gifts :)
Miss A's mail reminds me that I stil have to mail the mail I wrote for her! Will put it in the mail asap!
Darcy and John are TWINS
Oh my goodness I love how much Miss A loves Sawyer! They are so cute together!
I love this family so much
What a great family working together! Love it! :)
Your showing the world is still good!
Ms. A loves your baby.
Miss a is so sweet!😀
Her voice is so similar to one of my family friends, definitely not related, but definitely had me confused for a second
Love how Miss A opens the packages! No scissors needed! Lol
You're welcome! I love you!
U guys and Miss A R such wonderful people. I think older placements like Miss A suit your family ( as would the new 8 Y.O.).....In our country the foster kid/s have to be younger than any of your own kids and at one time I had 4 kids under 5 and they were literally jumping off the walls. It was out of control. An older child like Miss A really gives balance to a family with younger biological kids like yours....... I am sure Miss 8 Y.O. respite care will be fine too and Miss A is very nice to offfer to share her bedroom with this other girl.
You guys are just amazing!!!
lovely video glad u spread positivity I love your channel
Need to get Miss. A to start a keepsake book for the cards and letters