Zach is great, Zach is good, Let us thank him for his tunes, Amen. I made this joke already on twitter, but here I am typing it again, because I think I'm funny.
For anyone wondering Ash posted on Instagram six days ago: they are doing fine, they've spent the past few months training to run a marathon in late October and are planning to post either pictures or a video soon!!
Ash’s journey has helped me come out and understand my own journey. I will be forever grateful. I’m only two years younger than Ash, but look up to them so damn much.
I have 2 moms and I’m 13. My parents thought about having kids for years but they struggled with a lot of the ideas that you struggle with. They ultimately decided to do IVF and they had 1 Miscarriage which broke my moms hearts. They kept on trying but the IVF didn’t take. They decided to try one more time and weeks later they found out they were pregnant with twins (my brother and I). They had spent hundreds of hours administering medicine and shots but it was all worth it. My brother and I have never gotten bullied for our parents and I haven’t felt like I have missed out on anything. You guys would make great parents and I any kid would be lucky to have you.
Kovu Kingsrod It’s really an amazing feeling when you have someone to share everything with. All the good days, and even all the bad. I feel like when you find you’re soulmate it like an extension to the family, or that’s how it should feel anyway. Like you’ve know them forever, like they were always a part of you before you even met them. I feel like lot of young adults in our generation get the feelings of the different types of love confused. Like how lust, a sexual attraction for someone can be mistaken for love so easily. A great example is how the Greeks believed in 7 types of love. 1. Eros: Love of the body 2. Philia: Love of the mind 3. Ludus: Playful love 4. Pragma: Longstanding love 5. Agape: Love of the soul 6. Philautia: Love of the self 7. Storge: Love of the child There are other versions and the definitions of what those loves types mean. And more lists of types of love also, but I always found the Greek the most interesting. You should look it up if you’re into knowing more about types of love and that stuff. It’s pretty cool. Ps, dude I watch your videos all the time!! I can relate soooooo much to you when you talk about some of the deeper stuff you get into about on your channel. I appreciate your videos a lot! You’ve helped me with some of my darkest thoughts at times. And I wanted to thank you for that! 🙌🏻💚
for anyone like me reading the comments later, I want to add I've found updates on twitter about writing this very long script for a video, so they will post again, someday, but it's still in the works.
@@namowadriver If you are capable of abstract thought and the other deep things that edgelords do, then you are surely capable of imagining that I meant something a bit more sophisticated than that. If you really believe that humans are not sexually dimorphic and if you really do believe that the power of our thoughts is enough to overwhelm the genetic code in every single cell in our bodies, and if you really can't contemplate that there is a malignant self-hatred involved in mutilating your own body to temporarily appease a dysmorphia, then you are, at some time or other, going to have a very rough reckoning. Why don't you tell me now why an anorexic shouldn't be affirmed in their desire to starve themselves to death, and then explain to me why that is different from treating gender confusion and dysphoria and dysmorphia with body mutilation?
This is the epitome of planned parenthood. Every parent should be THIS sure and THIS excited to have children before they make the decision to actually do it. You're going to be the best parents ever.
I miss the two of you so much. I don't know if you will ever come back. I hope you both are staying safe are happy and healthy. But, I miss seeing videos from you. Nearing 9 months of no videos. I don't know what that means. I just know, I miss the two of you. Miss the love, miss the great videos. You helped me to come out as transgender. I couldn't have figured this out about me without you. I hope you both know, you have done good in this world. You are loved and missed a lot. I hope someday soon, you will make it back on to this channel.
@@WellPreparedTreeFrog They made a post on Twitter, they possibly will be back in the new year. But I heard it wasn't just that issue, but also that Ariel Scarcella was threatening them as well. I don't know if there is truth to it, but I do miss seeing them.
The face Grayson made when after they said "Key lime pie??" was so full of happiness and it was so sweet and so beautiful. This video cured my depression oh my god.
Me too! I've wanted to have a child before I even came out as non-binary. I'm just worried about finding a suitable partner to help take care of the baby.
When my dad died I was only 3 or 4, the only thing I remember about him is what he looked like, and it’s sad, but I was raised by my beautiful mother and older sister who I love so much, I don’t have a dad, I don’t feel the need to have one. I don’t think you should be scared to have children because of the fact that they wouldn’t have a dad. I think you should be caring and confident and loving throughout this journey.
XXXDomtacion McBean I didn’t say my dad beat me or anything if the sort, I personally find it annoying when women who call themselves femenist’s belittle men and say toxic masculinity isn’t a thing. My dad died of cancer. Sorry, maybe you responded to the wrong comment or I read it wrong, in just very confused where you got that.
@@XXXDomtacion I agree with you that, that notion has made it's way to modern feminist doctrine but I don't see where you got that from the comment. I do think children need a male figure as much as they need a female but it isn't a make or break thing. I'd rather have children adopted than not, although I know they aren't necessarily talking about adoption.
I grew up without my dad he past when I was 2 and i had a wee girl before o got into a same sex relationship with my now partner and I personally think my daughter has the best family in the world. We love her we give her time she is our life and my partner treats her as her own. She also attends a catholic school and we have had no troubles with parents judging us it has been amazing. But in saying that we live at the bottom of New Zealand and people are pretty understanding here. I wish you guys all the best because we are about to start the same process to bring another little human into this world. So much love xxxx
@@scaryspaghet6518 well, technically speaking, babies are born without kneecaps and don't develop them until they're about 4 years old. ⭐The more you know⭐
happy llama i mean.... i get your confusion! they said “they’ll have needs” which makes sense, but then they also said “- and WANTS” which is not a thing so your brain is like... “ok i’ll scrample something up that kinda makes sense??🤯😥🤡” “That’ll be” KNEES AND WANDS
Lj Spike Spoiler alert! It is biologically impossible for these two women to have babies together. Sperm will be needed… It can only come from a man. One of these girls is going to be the mother, the other is going to be nothing, less than nothing... biologically speaking. Maybe the other one can be the babies friend, but that’s about it 👍🏼
@@robert_costello yes, because caring, loving, providing for and taking care of a child for all their life does not constitute parenthood, only who the child pops out of, even if you legally adopt them you can only be their friend, that’s about it 👍🏼
OMG when Grayson said "Key Lime Pie?!" Like that I started crying, and then they started crying and 😭😭😭😍😍😍 I'm so excited for you guys you will make the BEST parents ever!!!
So sweet how you can see the minute Gray's eyes start watering when they understand the message. I'm so happy for both of you! I'm sure you two will be great parents! Wishing you luck and tons of love ❤️
To all the people that desperately want them to come back I totally get it! I miss Ash too but they might just want to get away from social media or just focus on their life with Grayson and possibly even kids if they have them by now. We should support them no matter what and when their ready they’ll come back if they want to :)
A friend of my sister is lesbian in an extremely homophobic family & city, but she's currently very happy, married and 1 baby (so far!) It wasn't easy but I know she's loving happily now. I know I'm just a stranger, but I hope this can give a liill more hope. There's plenty of hope, for everyone including you ♡
Ash... oh gosh buddy. Didja have to post while I’m on my period? I’m sitting here like a lunatic, hysterically laugh crying. What a romantic, ingenious riddle. What a beautiful relationship you and Grey have... I’m forever jealous, even in my happy home. Im so excited for the two of you, and I cannot wait to see what happens next!! Good luck, god bless, and this random internet stranger is so proud of the person you have become.
So happy to see an upload from you! I just got top surgery 3 days ago! 🎉 I don’t have a ton of people to share that with, so I’m mentioning it here. lol
I literally started crying when they did the montage Also can we just appreciate how well these videos are made? Like everything just fits together so nicely!!!
Slightly off topic, but I just want you to know how much of an impact you have had in my life. In recent months, I successfully came out to my family and created a safe space for us, have finally gone to therapy, and grown in my gender identity and happiness. If you can have this Impact in a random person on the internet, just imagine how great of a parent you will be. Much love ❤️❤️❤️
Hi Ash, i just want to tell you that, speaking as a child therapist, your parenting values and your priorities are exactly what will make you (and Grayson!) great parents. Im so excited for you! :)
I absolutely adore the parallel of Grayson proposing to you and your response being "no, no,no wait no-- i mean yes, of course but noooooo" and then you telling them that you wanna have kids and them saying nearly the exact same thing. Hope y'all are doing well!
different cultures use different words. there are cultures that don’t even use words like mom or dad. i’m sure they will find the right word that feels just right for them.
@@geko9214 I think those titles are ones you can choose yourself, Gray can take the title of any parent they so want, if they want to take the title of mom and wife that is all their choice.
Speaking from a non-binary point of view with two moms, I am fine without having a dad. Personally, I love having two moms who both understand LGBT issues and are not homophobic. I sometimes was teased because I had two moms, but I would take the teasing ANYDAY to have the perfect two moms. ❤️
Speaking as someone whose dad has been in jail for the majority of my life, one doesn't need a father. All I was lacking from having just one parent was the income and the ability to go places, which can be filled by any gender.
@Dope Cat Ahah as a person with a “normal” family, I’m pretty sure I’m gonna have to deal with trauma later from my parents. Healthy relationships with ur parents dont depend on the genders of the parents.
Maybe you got lucky but most kids need the balance that’s why for years and years most kids turned out better with a mom and dad it’s the way it’s supposed to be and no trans can replace a real man just because she wears socks In her pants
@@Schnort not true you just happened to get a bad dad I know a lot of kids with wonderful fathers and they are daddy’s girls also plenty of women have been abusive killing their kids but can’t deny the balance of a great dad and mom is way more effective
I was just wondering if there's a video where y'all talk about using other gendered language while using they/them pronouns. Maybe I missed it or maybe it hasn't been made, but either way it is something that I'd like to watch because it's something that I am still conflicted about personally.
@@willowstream646skye I found a term I fell in love with for that. Auncle/Auntcle. If only my siblings were supportive enough I could get them to have their kids call me that. *cries in nonbinary*
4:22 made me cry. As a single mom, one of my biggest fears is that my child will resent not having a father. You and Greyson are gonna be great parents, and I'm so happy for you! ❤
Yall give me hope for a second chance at starting a family. I don’t usually leave sob story youtube comments that overshare like this lol, but yall r an inspiration. Super happy for u!
"I feel the weight of being responsible for another human" - this. I'm on the fence re having kids and that is a significant part of it. I adore my sisters kids - I'm "cuncle" (the eldest couldn't say uncle properly and it has stuck, hopefully it stays as I prefer it - I'm enby) - and feel so comfortable in that role. But could I do it full time? I don't know.
C M something to remember is it’s the greatest and worst journey of your life, but I doubt you’ll ever regret it. Also, parents get breaks and family love to help as well!
Dw. I bet you'll be fine. If you have any, I bet they'll love you just as much as you love them, and I also bet that you'll do great! But it's definitely good that your thinking about it, and it's obviously your decision. I hope your good my dude. Happy easter
Gray's excitement is so pure and lovely it made ME tear up 😭😍 Good luck to you and your future baby/ies on this journey! I wish you all the love, support, and fulfillment. And I hope you had a wonderful honeymoon as well!
I just wanted to say that this channel helped me when I was trying to figure out my gender and sexuality. I recently told my parent that I'm genderqueer and pansexual after a lifetime of questioning it. You guys helped a 14 year old become sure of themselves in their gender. I probably would have taken a couple more years before I was sure if I hadn't discovered this channel. I just wanted to say I appreciate this channel. You guys will be amazing parents!
Omg just seeing Grayson's expression in regards to the cute hints like I started to feel emotional too. I wish you two the best of luck in this next step in your lives!!
So I dont know if anyone will see this but I know alot of peace are wondering where Ash is I checked there Instagram and they said their going to take it slow and focus on school you should check out the full post if you want to here all of it just search Ash Hardell and you should find it
I remember you first telling us about this new person you had met and were falling in love with. Look how far y'all have come. I hope you are blessed with a family!
all of you guys in the comments saying that they havent posted in a while, and hoping they're okay, just check their twitter. They post pretty frequently and so does Gray. They're fine and if not, stop trying to pressure them into posting and let them enjoy their time off even if it has been over a year, just let them be happy. I miss them too, but it isn't a big deal. TH-camrs take breaks all the time. This is just a really long one.
ash, thank you again for letting me do the music for this video!!!!!! you and gray are the sweetest ever. now go make a freakin baby omg
Zach is great, Zach is good, Let us thank him for his tunes, Amen.
I made this joke already on twitter, but here I am typing it again, because I think I'm funny.
@@HeyThere005 i giggled both times i'll admit it
Zach Benson i love the Beatles, especially this song🥰you did a good job ☺️
@@HarleyQuinn-ib9yl thank you pal!!!
I loved every single one of your covers ❤️
The fact that you can speak while crying is honestly really impressive to me.
Olivia Rhyne Thanks, I think? I definitely didn’t pick it. Google decided I should be a brown m&m.
I can do it, but not that well.
it's called rehearsing and acting
atrollinbemo Doesn’t mean it’s not impressive.
Same
Anyone else burst into tears when Grayson cried? 😭
Me. I did.
@@HeyThere005 So did I! BABY TIME 💜 Love you both! So proud of you both.
i did
Guilty. My heart melted
I their happiness cures my depression
“Before you’re ready, you’re not ready”
*every sixty seconds in Africa, a minute passes*
I are good at explain the things.
Ash Hardell you is very goodest at explain the things.
@@HeyThere005 yes you is bestest
*studies show that breathing is linked to staying alive*
wow i didn't know we were all homeschooled :)
(i am actually homeschooled. homeschool jokes do not offend me. in fact, i make them quite often)
For anyone wondering Ash posted on Instagram six days ago: they are doing fine, they've spent the past few months training to run a marathon in late October and are planning to post either pictures or a video soon!!
Oh okay thank you! I was getting a little worried.
Thank you !
This is two months ago ;-;
@@sweetenlemons8659 :(
Oh thank goodness, I was so worried
I mean you’ve already raised hundreds of trans kids so I think you’ll be fine
So true ❤ the internet can't thank them enough for everything they've done for the community
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Ash’s journey has helped me come out and understand my own journey. I will be forever grateful. I’m only two years younger than Ash, but look up to them so damn much.
Yep and I’m one of them🖤
I have 2 moms and I’m 13. My parents thought about having kids for years but they struggled with a lot of the ideas that you struggle with. They ultimately decided to do IVF and they had 1 Miscarriage which broke my moms hearts. They kept on trying but the IVF didn’t take. They decided to try one more time and weeks later they found out they were pregnant with twins (my brother and I). They had spent hundreds of hours administering medicine and shots but it was all worth it. My brother and I have never gotten bullied for our parents and I haven’t felt like I have missed out on anything. You guys would make great parents and I any kid would be lucky to have you.
For a 13 year old you sound incredibly intelligent and absolutely lovely, thanks for sharing your story!
@@haileyshaven1084 TRUE ❤ I think the same way
Mia Aronsohn IVF is totally unnatural and is eugenics
Wow - love you for sharing this, stranger ❤
I hope our world can carry on celebrating progress at this horribly divisive far-right time to be alive... because omg I want to be a mum soon too 😪
Imagine loving someone as much a they do each other
Kovu Kingsrod It’s really an amazing feeling when you have someone to share everything with. All the good days, and even all the bad. I feel like when you find you’re soulmate it like an extension to the family, or that’s how it should feel anyway. Like you’ve know them forever, like they were always a part of you before you even met them. I feel like lot of young adults in our generation get the feelings of the different types of love confused. Like how lust, a sexual attraction for someone can be mistaken for love so easily. A great example is how the Greeks believed in 7 types of love.
1. Eros: Love of the body
2. Philia: Love of the mind
3. Ludus: Playful love
4. Pragma: Longstanding love
5. Agape: Love of the soul
6. Philautia: Love of the self
7. Storge: Love of the child
There are other versions and the definitions of what those loves types mean. And more lists of types of love also, but I always found the Greek the most interesting. You should look it up if you’re into knowing more about types of love and that stuff. It’s pretty cool.
Ps, dude I watch your videos all the time!!
I can relate soooooo much to you when you talk about some of the deeper stuff you get into about on your channel. I appreciate your videos a lot! You’ve helped me with some of my darkest thoughts at times. And I wanted to thank you for that! 🙌🏻💚
Kovu Kingsrod Kovu 💙
Only in my dreams
I know it's so cute I can hardly imagine it ^U^
Omg I wish
Its been a year is everything ok
if you check their instagram they post regularly, hope that helps
for anyone like me reading the comments later, I want to add I've found updates on twitter about writing this very long script for a video, so they will post again, someday, but it's still in the works.
Ok
I think she’s pulling one of those surprise “here’s my kid at one years old” with a bunch of videos of their journey. And finding a doner.
@@kitsinoel they*
This is the most wholesome thing I've ever seen
This is some of the most revolting sick garbage I have ever encountered.
"We'll see if Greyson figures it out" Or we'll see if you just accidentally let it slip within the first five minutes of leaving the house
🤣🤣🤣
Um how does grayson identify
@@nabzz7026 I would think non binary given the context. I'm new to the channel though
@@nabzz7026 They/them I think
@nabiha needs Jesus
Greygender
I believe
guess that means... cause ur trans... and gonna be a parent...
TRANSPARENT :D
Jelly Beanie dad
Keandra Suwardhono they arent boys
Are they FTM
@@ek2211 non binary
Nice pun
I’d never seen a baby proposal before, but this is the best baby proposal ever. 💜💜
wtf is baby proposal
juliazwei this video lol
@@Chierushi oh wow geniuos xd
Mica Boni! Agreed
Kind of a terrible time to have a baby though, yeah?
* screeeee * them babies are gonna grow up in such an accepting house.
Joey Hammero
ok boomer
@@renarizaki Very original! How clever of you!
@@joeyhammero831 biological reality is that in this day and age, these two people can have children who are loved and accepted no matter what.
@@jessefox322 That's just hot air. Do you really believe that positive thoughts simply overwhelm all other considerations?
@@namowadriver If you are capable of abstract thought and the other deep things that edgelords do, then you are surely capable of imagining that I meant something a bit more sophisticated than that. If you really believe that humans are not sexually dimorphic and if you really do believe that the power of our thoughts is enough to overwhelm the genetic code in every single cell in our bodies, and if you really can't contemplate that there is a malignant self-hatred involved in mutilating your own body to temporarily appease a dysmorphia, then you are, at some time or other, going to have a very rough reckoning. Why don't you tell me now why an anorexic shouldn't be affirmed in their desire to starve themselves to death, and then explain to me why that is different from treating gender confusion and dysphoria and dysmorphia with body mutilation?
I’m currently crying tears of joy...any kid would be SO lucky to you have you two as parents
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So true oh my god
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so true
This is the epitome of planned parenthood. Every parent should be THIS sure and THIS excited to have children before they make the decision to actually do it. You're going to be the best parents ever.
It feels like just yesterday that I watched the proposal.
Gumdrop Gůmmi when was it? It feels like last month
Gumdrop Gůmmi ....it was 4 years ago lol. We just celebrated our 3 year wedding anniversary:)
Gumdrop Gůmmi I did art for their proposal video back then, I was 17 then and 21 now, it’s insane how much has changed since
Gumdrop Gůmmi same. But i LITTERALLY watched the proposal for the first time yesterday.
You probably did
A parents mind:
- am I enough?
- am I raising them right?
- can I do it all?
- we can't afford it all.
Childs mind:
- I love you ❤️
Nah the child's mind is: I think I'll have waffles today
-with chocolate chips
@@morgolig6095 yes
-Mom where’s my Pokémon stuffed animal
Tegan McIntosh .... or if ur a baby its” GIVE ME BABA”
Me: I’m not gonna cry
Me: still not crying
Me: still not cryi-
*sobs*
Lol same
Yeah i did that too
hibernating turtle I feel that
im not crying youre crying
Literally me
I miss the two of you so much. I don't know if you will ever come back. I hope you both are staying safe are happy and healthy.
But, I miss seeing videos from you.
Nearing 9 months of no videos.
I don't know what that means.
I just know, I miss the two of you. Miss the love, miss the great videos.
You helped me to come out as transgender. I couldn't have figured this out about me without you.
I hope you both know, you have done good in this world. You are loved and missed a lot.
I hope someday soon, you will make it back on to this channel.
Ellen Bitzegaio I heard multiple times that they probably quit because of when their job was leaked and so they didn’t feel safe.
@@WellPreparedTreeFrog They made a post on Twitter, they possibly will be back in the new year.
But I heard it wasn't just that issue, but also that Ariel Scarcella was threatening them as well. I don't know if there is truth to it, but I do miss seeing them.
Idk who is threatening them but i already hate them, why can’t ash come bacckkkkk, I loved their videos and now they r gone 😢
ASH IS BACKKK
@@yumstudios1753 What? How do you know this and when?
your relationship looks so healthy and honest, I hope everyone here finds someone they can be so open with, whether platonic or romantic
I like how Grayson didnt fully accept the hint until the card was given and my heart, aaaaa
This is the single most Ash-dorable thing that has ever Grayson-ed my eyeballs
thank you. your puns are much appreciated. :)
Thank you for the bad puns
You are most welcome 💜💜💜
Anyone else wonder where these two went
me
@A S lmaaaaoooo no
The face Grayson made when after they said "Key lime pie??" was so full of happiness and it was so sweet and so beautiful. This video cured my depression oh my god.
I was literally just thinking “where did Ash and Grayson go, I need to check I didn’t miss a video”, minutes later .... THIS! ❤️❤️❤️
same!!!!!! I literally just checked the channel about an hour ago.
Me too! Was this some telepathy going on???
OMG SAMEEE
this made my little nobinary heart soar. i want to be a parent so badly. this gives me hope.
me too!! I want to be a parent someday so bad and I don't think I've ever seen any content like this before and it makes me so happy
I too am a non-binary that wants babies. I cried when Grayson figured it out
Omg my nonbinary friends agree
Safeface you are not non binary. i’m sorry to tell you are either a man or woman
Me too! I've wanted to have a child before I even came out as non-binary. I'm just worried about finding a suitable partner to help take care of the baby.
When my dad died I was only 3 or 4, the only thing I remember about him is what he looked like, and it’s sad, but I was raised by my beautiful mother and older sister who I love so much, I don’t have a dad, I don’t feel the need to have one. I don’t think you should be scared to have children because of the fact that they wouldn’t have a dad. I think you should be caring and confident and loving throughout this journey.
I feel like this comment seems to be in the spirit of feminists notion that all men are potential wife beaters and child abusers, which isn't true.
XXXDomtacion McBean I didn’t say my dad beat me or anything if the sort, I personally find it annoying when women who call themselves femenist’s belittle men and say toxic masculinity isn’t a thing. My dad died of cancer. Sorry, maybe you responded to the wrong comment or I read it wrong, in just very confused where you got that.
@@XXXDomtacion I agree with you that, that notion has made it's way to modern feminist doctrine but I don't see where you got that from the comment.
I do think children need a male figure as much as they need a female but it isn't a make or break thing. I'd rather have children adopted than not, although I know they aren't necessarily talking about adoption.
You guys are the most perfect human beans for eachother
The child would have amazing parents
100%
how is this not named "cute gays makin' babes"
Its now
You got your wish
@LeahHodge HODG0005 no, it's just people are misunderstanding, the thing is change babies to babes so it rhymes
Lol woww this is the most powerful comment in this entire comment section
@@ranika3995 XD
I love how Grayson's reaction to this was the same as Ash's reaction to the proposal ('No! No, no, no, no, no!')
I cant imagine feeling so many feels about kids and then bam, you get 2 kids at once.
I grew up without my dad he past when I was 2 and i had a wee girl before o got into a same sex relationship with my now partner and I personally think my daughter has the best family in the world. We love her we give her time she is our life and my partner treats her as her own. She also attends a catholic school and we have had no troubles with parents judging us it has been amazing. But in saying that we live at the bottom of New Zealand and people are pretty understanding here. I wish you guys all the best because we are about to start the same process to bring another little human into this world. So much love xxxx
6:00
Ash: they will have needs, and wants..
My dumb brain: "they will have KNEES and WANDS"
Like wat
I mean they will have knees
Hopefully-
@@scaryspaghet6518 well, technically speaking, babies are born without kneecaps and don't develop them until they're about 4 years old.
⭐The more you know⭐
happy llama i mean.... i get your confusion! they said “they’ll have needs” which makes sense, but then they also said “- and WANTS” which is not a thing so your brain is like... “ok i’ll scrample something up that kinda makes sense??🤯😥🤡”
“That’ll be”
KNEES AND WANDS
@@happyllama6794 🌟im terrified know🌟
Just because my child was born non-wizard and kneecapless doesn't mean-
"Pie means babies"
Is it bad I really want to know what the pie story is?
Yes
No, I’m intrigued too.
I do too. Hey, Ash, when you have time and are ready, can we have the pie story, please?
Lj Spike Spoiler alert! It is biologically impossible for these two women to have babies together. Sperm will be needed… It can only come from a man. One of these girls is going to be the mother, the other is going to be nothing, less than nothing... biologically speaking. Maybe the other one can be the babies friend, but that’s about it 👍🏼
@@robert_costello yes, because caring, loving, providing for and taking care of a child for all their life does not constitute parenthood, only who the child pops out of, even if you legally adopt them you can only be their friend, that’s about it 👍🏼
Anybody else here after the big announcement today? ❤🎉
You two are the gay parents that the LGBT+ community needs
OMG when Grayson said "Key Lime Pie?!" Like that I started crying, and then they started crying and 😭😭😭😍😍😍 I'm so excited for you guys you will make the BEST parents ever!!!
So sweet how you can see the minute Gray's eyes start watering when they understand the message. I'm so happy for both of you! I'm sure you two will be great parents! Wishing you luck and tons of love ❤️
To all the people that desperately want them to come back I totally get it! I miss Ash too but they might just want to get away from social media or just focus on their life with Grayson and possibly even kids if they have them by now. We should support them no matter what and when their ready they’ll come back if they want to :)
Incredible Ash. Wishing you both the very best in this journey.
im crying so much , coming from a homophobic family and seeing that there’s still hope for this world, means so much to me
My life means nothing to me o_o until bts came up.
A friend of my sister is lesbian in an extremely homophobic family & city, but she's currently very happy, married and 1 baby (so far!) It wasn't easy but I know she's loving happily now. I know I'm just a stranger, but I hope this can give a liill more hope. There's plenty of hope, for everyone including you ♡
Vié thank you , this truly means a lot ❤️
Haku Tea I relate to that so hard, but learn from our boys. Loving yourself is a process, “you’ve shown me, I have reasons, I should love myself”
Do not let them trick you these are not people they are the human embodiment of kittens snuggling
I was ready to get angry at your comment, then I finished it lol
This comment gives me SEROTONIN
haha i thought this was gonna be transphobic
"They had us in the first half not gonna lie"
If you would’ve finished that I really wouldn’t have cared
Anyone else worried about them it’s been 4 months I hope all is okay
I'm getting kinda impatient, but I know I should give them some time.
I just commented about this.
Then I saw yours
I believe they're on hiatus from TH-cam. They'll make content when they're ready.
StarfallGalaxy I hope so
Definitely been thinking about them!
Ash... oh gosh buddy. Didja have to post while I’m on my period? I’m sitting here like a lunatic, hysterically laugh crying. What a romantic, ingenious riddle. What a beautiful relationship you and Grey have... I’m forever jealous, even in my happy home. Im so excited for the two of you, and I cannot wait to see what happens next!! Good luck, god bless, and this random internet stranger is so proud of the person you have become.
Same 😭
AW. I can be your mom in spirit
Same omg!
Me too
Same, I think I would have cried even if I wasn't on my period though.
So happy to see an upload from you! I just got top surgery 3 days ago! 🎉 I don’t have a ton of people to share that with, so I’m mentioning it here. lol
Congrats!! ✨
Congrats!
Congrats, friend!
Congrats!❤
Congratulations
i haven’t watched in a while and Grayson is such a cool fucking name
your kids are going to be top tier. no doubt.
i came out today!! my mom was so supportive
Congratulations! I'm so happy for you!
Yo that's awesome congrats
Congratulations.
❤️❤️❤️
I don’t understand how you can speak properly and articulate your feelings when your crying I just mumble and say random words
Same!!! I get so choked up from tears!
I literally started crying when they did the montage
Also can we just appreciate how well these videos are made? Like everything just fits together so nicely!!!
I thought I could handle this but then I almost cried so that’s cool.
Guys they quit, Someone leaked their job, so they quit bc they felt unsafe so 🥺
really?!
Mia Aronsohn mhm
Woah how did you know?
Slush I think they tweeted it some time ago, I cannot find the tweets but that’s why they haven’t been posting
LMAO IT WAS ME AND MY FRIENDS HAHA
im like % 500 sure you two will be the best parents EVER
Slightly off topic, but I just want you to know how much of an impact you have had in my life. In recent months, I successfully came out to my family and created a safe space for us, have finally gone to therapy, and grown in my gender identity and happiness.
If you can have this Impact in a random person on the internet, just imagine how great of a parent you will be. Much love ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you.
im so proud of you. and i 1000000% agree they'll be great parents. im already jealous of their kids. :)
Wow, y’all are the most wholesome, adorable human beings on all of the Internet. You win the whole entire internet for being so presh.
Hi Ash, i just want to tell you that, speaking as a child therapist, your parenting values and your priorities are exactly what will make you (and Grayson!) great parents. Im so excited for you! :)
"I already know we can love, and we're gonna love." 😭😭😭 BLESS
hi. I cried at every happy part. I'm going to go cuddle my girlfriend now.
Me too 😊
I'm gonna go do that too!
Wait....
I don't have a girlfriend
My cat is just sitting here watching me cry.
Me: “Bro...bro...they so cute and brooo 🥺🥺”
My cat: yo human you good. I give you kisses now
That’s so cute
Pasta Revolution With Zoë awwwww!
My cat would just stare at me being like, "what is dis strange thing coming from hoomans eyes, I don't really care I is cat" and then just walk away
I absolutely adore the parallel of Grayson proposing to you and your response being "no, no,no wait no-- i mean yes, of course but noooooo" and then you telling them that you wanna have kids and them saying nearly the exact same thing.
Hope y'all are doing well!
GOOD LUCK!!
Honestly that child is going to be so incredibly lucky to have parents as incredible as you both!
Do labels like “mum” or sorry “mom” make you feel disphoric in anyway as it’s a term related to women? X
I think if it made them feel dysphoric, they wouldn't use it
Sophie Smith wait omg do you say mum too? Every time I write mum people always say “do you mean mom?”
different cultures use different words. there are cultures that don’t even use words like mom or dad. i’m sure they will find the right word that feels just right for them.
Disco DeaCy I’m from New Zealand I say “mum” too 😄
Katrina I’m from New Zealand too!
*here comes the sun plays*
Me: here comes the son (possibly)
Doodn doo doo
Nope
Excellent pun
It's Help. Not here comes the sun
@@kaedetried3952 no the back ground music
I’m non-binary and I want kids so my heart was like :
LET THE TEARS COMMENCE
im confused why they say their wife would be a great mom but also their wife is a trans man but not a husband what
@@geko9214 I think those titles are ones you can choose yourself, Gray can take the title of any parent they so want, if they want to take the title of mom and wife that is all their choice.
You two are going to be the greatest parents ever. I’m not just saying that to make you happy, I truly mean it. ❤️
Ash: and I’ve learned Grayson is perfect
Me: awwww
Ash: or atleast pretty close
Me: dies laughing not expecting that twist 😂😂😂
I wish all parents-to-be thought about and approached the decision to have kids with half as much care, consideration, and self-reflection!
Speaking from a non-binary point of view with two moms, I am fine without having a dad. Personally, I love having two moms who both understand LGBT issues and are not homophobic. I sometimes was teased because I had two moms, but I would take the teasing ANYDAY to have the perfect two moms. ❤️
Speaking as someone whose dad has been in jail for the majority of my life, one doesn't need a father. All I was lacking from having just one parent was the income and the ability to go places, which can be filled by any gender.
@Dope Cat Ahah as a person with a “normal” family, I’m pretty sure I’m gonna have to deal with trauma later from my parents. Healthy relationships with ur parents dont depend on the genders of the parents.
Maybe you got lucky but most kids need the balance that’s why for years and years most kids turned out better with a mom and dad it’s the way it’s supposed to be and no trans can replace a real man just because she wears socks
In her pants
@@Schnort not true you just happened to get a bad dad I know a lot of kids with wonderful fathers and they are daddy’s girls also plenty of women have been abusive killing their kids but can’t deny the balance of a great dad and mom is way more effective
@@jeffhandley3224 that's not what I was saying at all
I love how despite the relevence of key lime pie when Grayson put the clues together they still didn't get it until the card came out 😂
This was too cute i'm literally in tears 😭
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I was just wondering if there's a video where y'all talk about using other gendered language while using they/them pronouns. Maybe I missed it or maybe it hasn't been made, but either way it is something that I'd like to watch because it's something that I am still conflicted about personally.
sure! maybe if I have time one day!
Oo! I saw something last week about using Aummer/Ommer instead of Aunt/Uncle~
@@willowstream646skye I found a term I fell in love with for that. Auncle/Auntcle. If only my siblings were supportive enough I could get them to have their kids call me that. *cries in nonbinary*
Ash? We all need a nonbinary inspiration in life what happened to ya? Are you alright?
THIS KEEPS GETTING ME. Congratulations :D!!! Happy for you two!
These kids are gonna be so lucky, I'm so happy you two are so happy! You're gonna be wonderful parents :)
4:22 made me cry. As a single mom, one of my biggest fears is that my child will resent not having a father. You and Greyson are gonna be great parents, and I'm so happy for you! ❤
Yall give me hope for a second chance at starting a family. I don’t usually leave sob story youtube comments that overshare like this lol, but yall r an inspiration. Super happy for u!
Never been more ready for anything in ma life
This was great, but the Beatles made it better, ur gonna make a great parent 🙂 (づ｡◕‿‿◕｡)づ
I so thought this video was going to end with “and one of us is pregnant!” LMAO. I’m so happy for you guys though, good luck!
guys they're gonna dissapear, they're gonna be a TRANS-PARENT
I read your comment, and for three seconds I thought like: "what- wha- what?", And then I finally got the joke and started laughing 😂😂😂
i like this joke a lot but i believe ash goes by they/them pronouns :) just keepin ya posted
@@rue_cifer I go by Tsar Eminem the Fifth and Weimar Republic
"I feel the weight of being responsible for another human" - this. I'm on the fence re having kids and that is a significant part of it. I adore my sisters kids - I'm "cuncle" (the eldest couldn't say uncle properly and it has stuck, hopefully it stays as I prefer it - I'm enby) - and feel so comfortable in that role. But could I do it full time? I don't know.
C M something to remember is it’s the greatest and worst journey of your life, but I doubt you’ll ever regret it. Also, parents get breaks and family love to help as well!
Dw. I bet you'll be fine. If you have any, I bet they'll love you just as much as you love them, and I also bet that you'll do great! But it's definitely good that your thinking about it, and it's obviously your decision. I hope your good my dude. Happy easter
Gray's excitement is so pure and lovely it made ME tear up 😭😍
Good luck to you and your future baby/ies on this journey! I wish you all the love, support, and fulfillment.
And I hope you had a wonderful honeymoon as well!
I really need to know the history of the "key lime pie"
maybe this was the end of their public story and now they want to live a non TH-cam life.
Boy: Leon
Girl: Leah
Both: Alex
leti_isme 547 or neither!
11037
Dude my name es Alex......I am now , your child
leti_isme 547 you won’t know if they’re nonbinary when they’re born tho lol
@@glitterghost834 I think they were meaning both to suggest a gender neutral name in case they wanted to go more gender neutral with the name. 😊
This is already so adorable
i'm literally crying cause i'm so happy for you both and for that desicion!!!! good luck, lovelies!!!
I wonder how things are goin in the life of Ash Hardell nowen days
Hopefully good. I’m assuming they are.
ye i hope both of them are ok and doing well
They are still active on Instagram :)
I'm a little kid and I have no idea how there gonna have children because idk there trans I think they cut of there things so somthing
@@talaniireagan1344 i asume adoption
I hope that there child see this when their are older, because this is so beautiful and lovely! 💕💕😍😍
Hoom *their
Soleil Stewart oh thanks! English is not my first language.
If Ash cries we all cry.
I just wanted to say that this channel helped me when I was trying to figure out my gender and sexuality. I recently told my parent that I'm genderqueer and pansexual after a lifetime of questioning it. You guys helped a 14 year old become sure of themselves in their gender. I probably would have taken a couple more years before I was sure if I hadn't discovered this channel. I just wanted to say I appreciate this channel. You guys will be amazing parents!
its been over a year, why are people still hating? Honestly, it's none of their buisness
Omg just seeing Grayson's expression in regards to the cute hints like I started to feel emotional too. I wish you two the best of luck in this next step in your lives!!
i bet the baby will be beautiful just like their parents!
So I dont know if anyone will see this but I know alot of peace are wondering where Ash is I checked there Instagram and they said their going to take it slow and focus on school you should check out the full post if you want to here all of it just search Ash Hardell and you should find it
That was the most beautiful thing I ever seen. When Grayson started crying, I cried too I’m so happy for them cuz this is the best thing ever.
Now _I'm_ crying! You two will be the most loving and devoted parents any kid could wish for ❤️
I remember you first telling us about this new person you had met and were falling in love with. Look how far y'all have come. I hope you are blessed with a family!
Who ever disliked your mean and rude and selfish
You’re
Avacados & Pirates thank you
W-what? This comment doesn't make any sense. You said that you like them but that they are mean. I am confused lol
Alex Quins it makes sense. Just missing a comma. “Whoever disliked (this video), you’re mean and rude and selfish.”
@@jillypepper_ ohh thanks I didn't get it
all of you guys in the comments saying that they havent posted in a while, and hoping they're okay, just check their twitter. They post pretty frequently and so does Gray. They're fine and if not, stop trying to pressure them into posting and let them enjoy their time off even if it has been over a year, just let them be happy. I miss them too, but it isn't a big deal. TH-camrs take breaks all the time. This is just a really long one.