Yog kawg lub neej ua koj mus yuav tau ib tug txiv tsi txiv thaiv yus ces luag yeej ua tsi tseg yus nawb kuv los yeej raug ib pab dev vwm tom kuv ib yam li thiab os.
I feel you. I was a divorcee marrying a single man too. My in-laws did not accept me either. I'm just glad that my husband protected me from his parents and siblings. They talk crap about me being a divorcee too. Now our lives are better than theirs and they always assume or expect us to give more just because they think we rich. We not rich just enough to not worry about bills. They look down upon us, but later expect you to do more and give more. I do not deal with his side, he does. Its a sad life. Everyone wishes to have a good life and marriage. Sometimes it fails, but women takes the fault for everything.
Yog lus tshaj li mi Viv ncaus kuv twb rau li ko kuv twb taug kiag koj coj kuv xyov muaj ib cov niag cov niamhlob cov niamntxawm lub sij yuav phem ua luaj peb twb y0g pojniam ib yam tos txivneej saib tsi tau peb cov pojniam los yog muaj cov pojniam limhiam npaum no os mi Viv ncaus..
Back then, if you are divorce once it's a bad name but in today life it doesn't matter who are or what you are it's all about loving each other no matter what people said about you....
Cov niamtij Niamntxawm & muam txhob ntxub2 pojnrauj. Nws twb tsis los txeeb nej cov txiv ne...cem nws ntau ces npam nej tau ua pojnrauj nawb. Nej cov txiv pom pojnrauj muaj peevxwm khwv muaj nyiaj heev ces muab nej nrauj povtseg hos ...
At first you got mad too easy, that's how they get into your head. Your husband still stick with you even though he didn't say much to defend. We love haters, we live rent free in thier head and our names well never dissappear. Actions speak louder words. Haters = Motivation.
i dont care about anybody explanation about how good or bad a person they are...we all know that if we do good we get good if we do bad we get bad...no one gets away with anything...we all should jus continue to do good for ourselves and anyone that dont want to be part of that is welcome to leave at anytime.
Koj ib co lus yeej tseem ceeb thiab zoo rau tibneeg kawm kom txawj xav, hais lus paub siab paub qis tabsis, tej zaum koj kawm ntawv siab zog ces koj ho muab cuab ntse zog pos los ho cib nyeej lus. Xws li koj niam pog hu koj 2 tug mi nyuam ua 2 niag kas no es ho muab tshab txhais phem dhau lawm. Kuv pog kuag twb yug kuv txiv, kuv txiv peb kiag los thaum ib tug txhoj puab ces kuv pog yeej cem ua kas txhoj puab no los kuj tsis muaj teebmeem rau kuv niam lawv cov nyab nas?!!
Yog kawg kuv pom 1 feem neeg uas nyiam2 thuam lws tus ces yeej yog neeg pluag es nws tsis muaj li lawv muaj ces nws npav lub thuam lwm tus nkaus xwb, pom tsis tau luag tej ua q qho zoo los yog tau 1 yam zoo mas thuam kiag.
Peb cov poj niam hmoob ces yeej ntxim ntxub li no os.....hais lus mas hais cuag nkaus li lawv twb pom tom ntej lawm es lawv yeej tsis muaj hnub ua poj nrauj li. Poj niam hmoob feem coob ces yeej ntxim2 ntxub li no.
There is a saying that if 9 out of 10 ppl dislike/hate you, then is probably you. You say u don't want to waste time with them but you'll here wasting time telling your side of the story. Everytime ppl tell their stories they are always this perfect angel and don't know y ppl just hate them a no reason. Lol but hey it's your story so I guess you can be the hero.
Those ppl cannot change, they have such ugly hearts that its gonna be hard for them to admit it and change. Let them keep hating while you’re striving. It’s their loss so you just do you and don’t worry about those ugly hateful ppl.
Very true, it's doesn't matter if your a niam nkauj txhav qaib or poj nrauj/niam txais tog...someone who works hard is all about their life choices, sacrifices, discplines, finding independence and financial freedom, etc. They're all some jealous females putting it on your title as a poj nrauj but let them walk the talk while you're already running for other life's goals. No woman would ever work harder in her life if she doesn't go thru life struggles, esp single moms.
Hais rau Niampog, cov muam, niamtij, Niamntxawm pojnrauj yuav nej tus tub xwb es pheej khib nej lub qho quav dabtsi? Tsuav yog nej tus tub muaj pojniam puag pw, muaj neej tsis thov nej tsev nyob, tsis thov qiv txais nej nyiaj xwb. Nej thuam2 nws pojniam nkawd sib nrauj kiag tsis muaj pojniam lawm, nej co ko puas nrhab ceg rau nws daws nqhis hmo ntuj? Nej coob npaum ko kuj mus coj kiag 1 tug pojniam nej nyiam2 rau nws seb nws puas kam yuav. Yog nej khib npaum ko ces kavtsij nrauj nej cov txiv mus ua pojnrauj kom tag. Tim nej tus tub nyiam raug thiab yuav nws los. Pojnrauj yeej tsis tau cia li los thawj nej tus tub. Twb nyob USA lawm hloov nej tus cwjpwm limhiam saib tsis taus lwm tus.
Hmmm… you say you don’t care about what they think and that they’re wasting time hating you. But actually you’re taking time to think about how much they hate you and taking time to tell your story here. Kinda contradicting yourself.
Do they not know any other divorcees? There are so many divorcees this generation that it’s not even a big deal. Better to be a divorcee than a miserable married woman in my opinion. I have sisters, muam, and 2 niam Ntxawm that are divorced but they don’t bother me. They are still humans. 💁🏻♀️ your in-laws need to get a life.
Actually, if you really think about it, maggots are not all bad. Hospitals use maggots to eat dead flesh so new ones can grow. 😊 Some ppl have too much time on their hands. I don't understand all the hatred at poj nraujs at all. Not all of them are bad. Some divorce bc their husband's are cheaters, some bc their husband's no longer want them, some bc they fell out of love with each other. As long as she wasn't the one doing the cheating, I feel is alright.
Lady, you went into this marriage with your eyes open. I don’t understand why you are bashing them. Put yourself in their shoes…Accept lit or leave it.
Sis ...u knew that his family never welcome u in the first place but u still want to be with him. U shuld suck it up. It best that u stay away from them cuz their hatred are disease that u cant stop.
Poj nrauj lub siab ces yeej phem li no ntag lau toś tham luag tej txiv hos thaum yuav tau luag tej tub lawm lawm los ua CAs jo tsis ua neej ntsiag to es pheej yuav xav ntsoov lwm tus txoj kev ntxub xwb
Do you really need to add the part that your husband goes down on you??? 🙄🙄 you go down on him too 😂 don’t need to share that part…eww! Leave some stuff private!
Sooo proud of you sis! Love your attitude and your motto in life! Keep it up! We can’t always be #1. But we keep climbing and winning!
Yog kawg lub neej ua koj mus yuav tau ib tug txiv tsi txiv thaiv yus ces luag yeej ua tsi tseg yus nawb kuv los yeej raug ib pab dev vwm tom kuv ib yam li thiab os.
Tus neeg xav ua lub neej zoo ces yog coj vwj pwm li no thiaj yog neeg xav ua neej moog me ntxhais thov qhua koj txoj kev zoo
Yog lawm muaj neej ib zaug lo lawm lo yeeb cuab2 li rau2 siab khwv kom txhob khoob lawv qhov tswg xwb
Meviv ncauskoj zaj dabneeg. Raug siab 100% peb cov poj rauj lam lub npe peb siab zoo1% thov koj ua neej kaj siab lug os
I feel you. I was a divorcee marrying a single man too. My in-laws did not accept me either. I'm just glad that my husband protected me from his parents and siblings. They talk crap about me being a divorcee too. Now our lives are better than theirs and they always assume or expect us to give more just because they think we rich. We not rich just enough to not worry about bills. They look down upon us, but later expect you to do more and give more. I do not deal with his side, he does. Its a sad life. Everyone wishes to have a good life and marriage. Sometimes it fails, but women takes the fault for everything.
Love your attitude and your businesses mind. Good for you💙
Yog lus tshaj li mi Viv ncaus kuv twb rau li ko kuv twb taug kiag koj coj kuv xyov muaj ib cov niag cov niamhlob cov niamntxawm lub sij yuav phem ua luaj peb twb y0g pojniam ib yam tos txivneej saib tsi tau peb cov pojniam los yog muaj cov pojniam limhiam npaum no os mi Viv ncaus..
Back then, if you are divorce once it's a bad name but in today life it doesn't matter who are or what you are it's all about loving each other no matter what people said about you....
Proud of you sister! I wish I had a sister in law like you.❤
Hais yog kawg li lawm 👍🌹🌹
Thov qhuas koj tus me neeg muaj peev aw❤
Yus yog neeg zoo, tus liam yog tus yus hlub yuam kev thiaj tau ua pojnrauj. Txawm yog pojnrauj los tsis tos leej twg khwv pab yus. Ib txhia pojnrauj thiaj liam xwb feel cool yog cov zoo tau niag txiv tsis zoo thiaj tau ua pojnrauj xwb.
Cov niamtij Niamntxawm & muam txhob ntxub2 pojnrauj. Nws twb tsis los txeeb nej cov txiv ne...cem nws ntau ces npam nej tau ua pojnrauj nawb. Nej cov txiv pom pojnrauj muaj peevxwm khwv muaj nyiaj heev ces muab nej nrauj povtseg hos ...
This is why my sister and I say, taking time to hate someone is too much work. Just be happy and be kind, it's easier. 😅
This is the type of stories I needed right now. I am burned out and over drained. 😢 thank you. ❤
Niam pog tus tub ntxim2 hlub niam pog kuj yuav ua txiv yau los poj...
❤❤❤❤koj niam aw.koj haig yog kawg.nub no koj yeej lawm tsw tas quav nrej cov niag suab aub kom os.koj kuj xav2. ua neeg zoo thiab as.
Keep shining and climbing ..let them talk all they want. They are just jealous. I’m proud of you hope there see more women like you! Keep on going!!
Yog lus tshaj plaws peb cov nkauj nrab siab ntsws paj hlwb yuav tsum ntse li no nawb..lawv cov lus phem lus thuam mas yeej mob siab chim siab kawg tabsis muab txoj kev zoo los tsa koj lub neej kom zoo tshaj lawv cov lus xwb..
Txoj kev ua poj nrauj yawg nrauj tsis yog Tim poj nrauj phem los yawg nrauj phem nws yog kev tsis sib fwm ntawm kev Txij nkawm thiaj sib nrauj es yeej muaj tus zoo2 thiab mog
You gotta stand up for yourself, people don't have to like you, but they better respect you.
👌👌👌👌
At first you got mad too easy, that's how they get into your head. Your husband still stick with you even though he didn't say much to defend. We love haters, we live rent free in thier head and our names well never dissappear. Actions speak louder words.
Haters = Motivation.
i dont care about anybody explanation about how good or bad a person they are...we all know that if we do good we get good if we do bad we get bad...no one gets away with anything...we all should jus continue to do good for ourselves and anyone that dont want to be part of that is welcome to leave at anytime.
Keep on shinning so they can be more jealous of u sister.
Don’t feel bad I’m on your shoe too
Cov neeg ntxub yus ces cia rau vaj tswv mam txiav txim thaum kawg xwb os tus me viv ncaus
So exhausting… this story. This family and daughter in law. 🤦🏻♀️
Those evil mean people need to clean their ugly hearts!! What if one day they become a divorcee??
Niam ntsuab teev aw zaj neej neeg ko ma yog kiag kuv lub thiab os
You tell them girl! I’d say move far away from those people they’re just jealous.. karma will get them
Koj ib co lus yeej tseem ceeb thiab zoo rau tibneeg kawm kom txawj xav, hais lus paub siab paub qis tabsis, tej zaum koj kawm ntawv siab zog ces koj ho muab cuab ntse zog pos los ho cib nyeej lus. Xws li koj niam pog hu koj 2 tug mi nyuam ua 2 niag kas no es ho muab tshab txhais phem dhau lawm. Kuv pog kuag twb yug kuv txiv, kuv txiv peb kiag los thaum ib tug txhoj puab ces kuv pog yeej cem ua kas txhoj puab no los kuj tsis muaj teebmeem rau kuv niam lawv cov nyab nas?!!
Koj yog neeg zoo tiag tiag li kuv thov qhuas koj. Koj yuav vam meej mus ib txhis
Yog kawg kuv pom 1 feem neeg uas nyiam2 thuam lws tus ces yeej yog neeg pluag es nws tsis muaj li lawv muaj ces nws npav lub thuam lwm tus nkaus xwb, pom tsis tau luag tej ua q qho zoo los yog tau 1 yam zoo mas thuam kiag.
Keep strong sister
Peb cov poj niam hmoob ces yeej ntxim ntxub li no os.....hais lus mas hais cuag nkaus li lawv twb pom tom ntej lawm es lawv yeej tsis muaj hnub ua poj nrauj li. Poj niam hmoob feem coob ces yeej ntxim2 ntxub li no.
For those people who label their grand kids magots should not be bless with kids or grandkids.
Yg tsaj li os kuv lub neej cas kv niam pog thb tej niam tij niam ntxawm lawv pheej khib yus ua dab g yom yus twb g koom lawv tu txiv ne yom
There is a saying that if 9 out of 10 ppl dislike/hate you, then is probably you. You say u don't want to waste time with them but you'll here wasting time telling your side of the story. Everytime ppl tell their stories they are always this perfect angel and don't know y ppl just hate them a no reason. Lol but hey it's your story so I guess you can be the hero.
Cov muag zoo li kj cov no ce g ntev xwb yuav ua poj nrauj ntag ho
Those ppl cannot change, they have such ugly hearts that its gonna be hard for them to admit it and change. Let them keep hating while you’re striving. It’s their loss so you just do you and don’t worry about those ugly hateful ppl.
Txob seev suab ntev22 mas hais li qub tas los xwb pob 🤣🤣
Nobody wants to be a divorcee, some days your sister in laws will follow your footsteps of being divorced.
Niam tij niam Txawm yeej yuav cov poj ruam,npwb lwb tsis zoo
Very true, it's doesn't matter if your a niam nkauj txhav qaib or poj nrauj/niam txais tog...someone who works hard is all about their life choices, sacrifices, discplines, finding independence and financial freedom, etc. They're all some jealous females putting it on your title as a poj nrauj but let them walk the talk while you're already running for other life's goals. No woman would ever work harder in her life if she doesn't go thru life struggles, esp single moms.
Already told this story
Hais rau Niampog, cov muam, niamtij, Niamntxawm pojnrauj yuav nej tus tub xwb es pheej khib nej lub qho quav dabtsi? Tsuav yog nej tus tub muaj pojniam puag pw, muaj neej tsis thov nej tsev nyob, tsis thov qiv txais nej nyiaj xwb. Nej thuam2 nws pojniam nkawd sib nrauj kiag tsis muaj pojniam lawm, nej co ko puas nrhab ceg rau nws daws nqhis hmo ntuj? Nej coob npaum ko kuj mus coj kiag 1 tug pojniam nej nyiam2 rau nws seb nws puas kam yuav. Yog nej khib npaum ko ces kavtsij nrauj nej cov txiv mus ua pojnrauj kom tag. Tim nej tus tub nyiam raug thiab yuav nws los. Pojnrauj yeej tsis tau cia li los thawj nej tus tub. Twb nyob USA lawm hloov nej tus cwjpwm limhiam saib tsis taus lwm tus.
Cas yuav khav theeb ua luaj nas yog koj tsis muaj kev khib ces ua twj ywm xwb los mas .
Hmmm… you say you don’t care about what they think and that they’re wasting time hating you. But actually you’re taking time to think about how much they hate you and taking time to tell your story here. Kinda contradicting yourself.
Do they not know any other divorcees? There are so many divorcees this generation that it’s not even a big deal. Better to be a divorcee than a miserable married woman in my opinion. I have sisters, muam, and 2 niam Ntxawm that are divorced but they don’t bother me. They are still humans. 💁🏻♀️ your in-laws need to get a life.
Actually, if you really think about it, maggots are not all bad. Hospitals use maggots to eat dead flesh so new ones can grow. 😊 Some ppl have too much time on their hands. I don't understand all the hatred at poj nraujs at all. Not all of them are bad. Some divorce bc their husband's are cheaters, some bc their husband's no longer want them, some bc they fell out of love with each other. As long as she wasn't the one doing the cheating, I feel is alright.
Lady, you went into this marriage with your eyes open. I don’t understand why you are bashing them. Put yourself in their shoes…Accept lit or leave it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Waisted story
Sis ...u knew that his family never welcome u in the first place but u still want to be with him. U shuld suck it up. It best that u stay away from them cuz their hatred are disease that u cant stop.
Poj nrauj lub siab ces yeej phem li no ntag lau toś tham luag tej txiv hos thaum yuav tau luag tej tub lawm lawm los ua CAs jo tsis ua neej ntsiag to es pheej yuav xav ntsoov lwm tus txoj kev ntxub xwb
I don't really believe the whole story, we want to hear from the other side , sound a little controlling.
May Vang, koj txhob hais tias tus poj nrauj no tsis muaj kev txhaum. Nws txhaum ho, nws tuaj cem nws niam pog thiab txhua tus hauv TH-cam. Nws khav khav tias nws tsis txhaum, hos txhua tus txhaum. Koj tsis paub, peb tsis paub tus poj laib no zoo. Nws khav nws tus kheej xwb.
Omg May, your stories are becoming so preachy. I understand it’s what the person sends you but you could cut the preachy stuff shorter.
Seriously! I stop listening to her story due to too much preachy stuff. Just tell the dam story.
Boring ..
Do you really need to add the part that your husband goes down on you??? 🙄🙄 you go down on him too 😂 don’t need to share that part…eww! Leave some stuff private!