@Crebs Park.... her voice is indeed interesting, but one cannot tell the body just by the voice. I'm picky, I gotta see the whole package and take it for a spin around the city for a few weeks before jumping into bed. Boundaries and priority, my friend. Most likely it is I who doesn't measure up to her. So be it. In a previous Alux video it talked about how wrong relationship can break you. (raises hand) That's my life lesson, thankfully others were there to prevent further damage. I could go MGTOW, it's easy to do.... but there's still that small chance, I'm keeping eyes open and a guard dog (or cat) at the door.
1. Living the life you want to live, not the one that's expected of you 2. Having the courage to express your feelings 3. Standing up for yourself in your early years 4. Settling for less than what we really want 5. Not taking action when you know it's the right thing to do 6. Not taking more risks 7. Not taking better care of yourself 8. Get more done 9. Allowing old friendships to fade away 10. Not making peace with yourself and others 11. Not traveling more 12. Not following or making time for your passion 13. Working so much at the expense of family and friends 14. Taking yourself too seriously & worrying what other people think 15. Not living a more meaningful life 16. Not learning how to deal regrets early enough
Invest more at early age, exercise, invest in education, never co-sign, chase success & wealth not women, don't smoke, pay off debt asap, max out 401 K at work, live in the moment.
When you minimize the entire quantity of the video to its bullet points, you disregard the quality of what Alux actually put into making it. Watch the video, people!
My biggest regret is not being able to stop my abusers in my childhood. My mother abandoned me at 8 months old, then my father put me and my sister in care for 4 years. Then shipped to Jamaica where we were abused every single day, Morning, Noon and Night. By the time I was 12, I was broken and an empty shell. We all have our horror stories and all valid on every level. However, the experience gave me a deep desire to live life to the fullest. I read many books on how to build up my self-confidence and to pursue my career, even though I felt inadequate most of the time. I learned that people who abuse were abused themselves, so I had to find a way in my heart to forgive and heal. But I'm not totally healed, because as I write this, I feel my eyes welling up. It's not self pity: the little girl in me was so strong, she lived through the misery. I rarely tell her story to anyone, but she deserves a voice to let anyone out there going through a similar hell, that you can get through it. Just don't give up! You can ask or confide in someone to call child protective services. Don't run away because you are so vulnerable and easy prey. Peace and love to you all. I will leave behind my books and artwork. But don't wait to enjoy after I'm dead. See my work here: 2-denise-morgan.pixels.com.
I'm only about 24, but used to work a traditional 9-5. Best decision I ever made was too leave the lifestyle to go entrepreneurial and also to follow my passion working in the creative field. Think I might've been the only person in my friend group who did that, but it's been such an insane life changer. Think my logic at the time was while we had no clue where it'd go, at least if anything we'll be able to say we took a chance and risk doing what we enjoyed, and got to walk out some pretty cool memories doing what we love. There's no dollar value to those memories.
I hear you! I had an identical experience with one friend. When I eventually spoke up, I immediately got an apology. Then I became angry at myself for not speaking up earlier. I was angry at myself longer than with her. Another demanding friend died.....I.never confronted her.
My biggest regret is not searching for love from the opposite sex at an younger age. My story was that hated every aspect of my life, so any and every woman would be better off without me. I’m glad that’s no longer my truth. I finally love life but now I would love to find someone to share it with.
@@Battleganz This is a very good point that I think about all the time .. The importance of intentions! We are all humain so we are bound to make mistakes .. what matters is what our intentions were when we made the mistake .. forgeving ourselves is way easier when we no it was an innocent one!
It would be impossible to count all the ways that you've helped me in my career. Thank you so much for all that you've done - I only hope I can return the favor sometime in the future 🍻
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My regret is not starting out on the path of financial success earlier in life. It took most of my life to overcome some questionable values. I read a number of business and finance books and to my chagrin a lot of the content confirmed the ideas I’ve had about business success. I wish everyone well in their endeavors. Peace.
Biggest regret is not taking opportunities to explore and experience life in my teens and twenties. I'm now in my 30's and have led a completely sheltered life in my head. I have plenty of book smarts and lead a healthy lifestyle, and am all too aware now of the things I could have done (e.g. cultural immersion travel, dating, performing arts, driving, starting a business, to try something (socially) risky etc). Being a busy pregnant housewife - to be homeschooler, it may be a while until I have another opportunity to do the above (but will sneak it in where I can). For now, the plan is to explore motherhood to the fullest. It takes some serious planning (think Tony Robbins system) and discipline to 'have it all', and that is what I'm going for and I never give up on anything I really want! :D
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Great video. Here are my responses to the 15 Biggest Regrets in Life 1. Living the life you want to live, not the one that's expected of you- (Disagree, as most people care less about what their parents aspire for their lives) 2. Having the courage to express your feelings- (Agree. There are some people especially your parents you should have appreciated and loved more) 3. Standing up for yourself in your early years. (Disagree. Gang members always stand up for themselves. Are they better off? Turning the other check is okay then eliminating people from your lives) 4. Settling for less than what we really want- (Agree. Most people in life are lazy and would rather watch Netflix than try to be great) 5. Not taking action when you know it's the right thing to do (Agree. Same a #5) 6. Not taking more risks- (Disagree. The answer is really the same as #4 and #5. Most people do not have or create opportunities in life to even take risks. If you have a great business idea, do you consider this a risk to pursue it?) 7. Not taking better care of yourself- (Strongly Agree. The drinking, vaping, drugs, overeating and lack of exercise has sucked the energy from most people). 8. Get more done- (Agree. You need to plan out your days with a strong/realistic ToDo List) 9. Allowing old friendships to fade away- (Agree. Even family members and new friends you should stay in contact. With Facebook and texting, even the laziest people can achieve this.) 10. Not making peace with yourself and others- (Agree. This is more about controlling your thoughts) 11. Not traveling more- (Disagree. Unless you can share the experience with a person you like and who is fun, traveling is overrated) 12. Not following or making time for your passion- (Very true. So many people wished they played an instrument or continued a hobby) 13. Working so much at the expense of family and friends- (Agree. However spending quality time with people and do special things for them can minimize the time you feel you need to spend with them) 14. Taking yourself too seriously & worrying what other people think- (Disagree. Life is serious and people you care about are very sensitive. To not care what other people feel/think will damage relationships with important people in your life) 15. Not living a more meaningful life- (Disagree. Too general.) 16. Not learning how to deal regrets early enough- (Disagree, since the goal is to minimize regrets and not to learn to accept them.)
My big regret was (and still is) not saying others about my feelings, not saying clearly about my goals and expectations in relationships. I’ve been keeping it deeply inside for many many years. Even though I tell myself not to care of any judgment or rejection, it’s still very hard to do so. And my second big regret is taking myself (and life) too seriously. I still think that this is probably a big fight for the better.
#5 and #6 resonate with me. I had always been playing it safe and believed that I should always have a safety net. But having too good a safety net has lulled me into believing that it was okay to fall down seven, get up eight. In the long run, I ended up moving sideways and gradually backwards. Taking a chance at opportunities mean that I have a 1/3 chance achieving my dreams, 1/3 of ending up where I started, and 1/3 of ending up at the bottom. Definitely way better than a 90% chance of staying where I am and a 10% chance of ending up at the bottom. Never too late to have realised this.
That is better than never having a dream. Most people only have the vague nebulous ideas..."I want a good job", "I want a nice wife and family", "I want nice house", etc. Or they have the out of touch grandiose ideas..."I want to play in the NBA", "I want to be rock start", or simply "I want to be rich". If you have a dream that isn't reliant on some super talent or good luck, it's never too late to pursue it. You may not be the next Eric Clapton, but you can learn to play the guitar. You may not be the next Steven King, but you can write a book. You may not be the next Warren Buffet, but you can learn how to invest. You can become a lawyer, doctor, accountant, iron worker, potter, fireman, truck driver, or what ever else is your dream....provided you have a dream. Good luck!
Wasting Time doing nothing sitting idle and killing time and dreaming..... is what my regret ... regret of staying back due to fear.... i could have done better in life, not living life with full fledged, not giving 100%
My Biggest Regret is not having my final interaction with my father being positive. I was 11 and he was driving me to boarding school, our last conversation was an argument over a fucking Blazer, after he dropped me off, he smiled at me. I didn't give him a hug as per usual or acknowledge him, I just walked away. Next i heard of him, he was dead. its been 10 years, it still hurts.
Regret of my life is being a 20year old person who always relied on my single mum for money either it being going for parties or ordering branded shoes I've regretted asking her money always and this video by alux has showed me that there's no harm in taking the risk Thank you alux ❤️
I had to pause at #3, standing up for yourself is very very important, I did this the other day after years of letting people take advantage of my being humble and it ended up that I got a raise soon after. I'll continue the video now.
I know this is too late, but I just watch it. One regret I have is getting married just because I was in love with my partner, not realizing that he failed in any other past projects he had in his life, including a past relationship with the mother of his children.
There will be one regret that *everyone* will face, it's that they always stays on quotes instead of working, The biggest failures in life is *"Never Trying"*
This is my experience. Get a good pension scheme early on in your working life, and decide the year you want to retire. On more than one occasion you will be pressured by your family, and financial pressure to cut what you are putting into your pension pot. Keep up with the pension plan. Then you wake up one day next to your wife aged 53, and know you will never have to do a days work again ! Otherwise carry on working till you are 65.
This year, I pledged I'll make my life productive and "ALUX" has been spectacular in making my life this way. I started my own TH-cam channel, and I'm betting better and better at creating content. I know, one fine day I will be successful at it. Also, I started reading, meditation and this has helped me in my studies as well. Lots and lots of love Alux ❤
I regret 1. Not picking up a basketball earlier in my life 2. Not telling the girl I liked in high school or teacher how I felt about them / I had a crush on you
The permanent change / impact that we leave behind in this world it’s the most important part of anyone’s life. And that’s the reason why I am surprised this one wasn’t listed. Giving your kids everything, but time. If we all make sure our kids grow to be better than us in most ways by the time their life is over and they do the same to their kids and so on. It would only take about seven generations to live in an almost perfect world. I have heard many people that for years concentrate on the promotion, the tittle, the money, on the goal. And they think that by providing copious financial support to their offsprings will suffice. To only realice latter in life that they fail as a parent. Then, trying to make up in the attempt to educate a 28 or 30 year old full grown adult...To late buddy. It is this part of our society where the weal is broken, in my opinion. And to me that is one of the biggest regrets one can have.
I also liked your comment about helping other people and helping them change. I had a job where I felt the change in the lives of many more than I can ever counter. Remember God bless them all.
You know watching this channel in general does not make me happy. Now I am not saying this is a bad thing, because it speaks the the truth. There things in this Chanel that I must learn and at the same time I try to run away form my problems. And yes I am not proud of it and most of time I feel like shit about it. I am confused, angry, and sad because I have no answer for a cross road in my life. As a result of It i went form life a person filled with hope who thought anything was possible, but as time went I on I see the grim reality of my life. I don’t now when it started but I don’t think it really matters. However I am still alive. Maybe my life hasn’t become of what I dreamt and may never know what I truly want in my life, but Alux is right. As hard as it maybe I have to accept the mistakes in my life and leave it in my pass and move on. After all I am only human. I may not know if the path I choose is correct, but if I don’t choose I may never know. I know it will be hard and I probably will end up doing more mistakes. But at least I will die without a regret
I've been watching your Sunday motivational videos for almost a year now and it has become part of my life. Alux has changed my mindset and I love you guys for sharing so much valuable information. So far my favourite video. please never stop, because you are teaching baby billionaires how to walk in theses roads full of ups and downs!
I have so many regrets in life. I regret not standing up for who I am and what's right, I regret that I didn't get to defend my self from being bullied and criticized and remain quiet, shy, timid person.
My absolute biggest regret of my life was not leaving Chicago and moving to Las Vegas to further my boxing career as a professional boxer when I turned pro. I know in my heart,mind body and soul that I'm good enough to compete at the world class level. Not making that decision is something that has been tormenting me, especially the last few years. It's a regret that I have to live with for the rest of my life because I will always wonder what could've been, who I would've met and what my life could be like today. It feels like a special kind of Hell and there's only so much I can do to make up for that fatal mistake. I do what I can now and I'm focusing on building my real estate career but that regret has taken me to some pretty dark places.
I'm working on how to handle my regrets from the time when I were growing up, specially when I were in school. The best thing I'm doing right now is keeping my head up and having God on my mind.
I regret doing what was expected of me by going to college. Doing so gave me another regret: not spending enough time with someone close to me. They passed away halfway through the semester of my second year
Was asked to leave my job as not, to regret amt time to spend w my elderly mum B4 passing on,mum did say she knew I love 💘 care for her.If I had went on my hectic worklife schedule, wld I b able get that acknowledgement ?
I am only 32 years old, but I definitely have things from my past I regret like not going to rock-concerts more often especially now with the oldschool-ones I know are threatening to call it quits from the road like Kiss, Bob Seger, Slayer, Lynard Skynard among others. I also regret that I have had a TH-cam-Channel since 2008 but I did not start making videos myself until almost a decade later. As I could have been successful and financially-autonomous to the point I could have avoided the need to work a regular-job. I now cannot stop comparing myself either to people who have had a TH-cam-Channel since than or sooner but have been making videos since than and have been successful as such. I also regret I did not write a novel after I made one for my High-School senior-project in 2006. This is another-way I could have been successful too. It's because of these regrets I will still struggle every now and than with self-confidence and cannot even get myself to feel confident. I regret my laziness in the past but in-spite of this I can't get myself to write my novel.
My single greatest regret... My nephew was... 2 years old. I was watching him and he was playing while I enjoyed a game. A cutscene came on, I think it as at the end of the game, He got upset and wanted my attention and wouldn't stop whining, I wanted to enjoy that cutscene first... I yelled at him. I never had before, I never have sense (he's about to turn 9 now.) I screamed at him to shut up. Called him a "demon child" because he was upset... I hate myself for that. That I was in a dark place in my life was no excuse. I don't even remember what the game was, but I will forever remember my shame. He doesn't remember it, and I'm his favorite uncle, but... Still.
1) it's always safe Vs safe & fulfilled. I'm at a better place careerwise than last year Alux. Thankful to you. 2) Expressed my feelings to a very special girl. It is going great. 3) not settling. Still in my early years to build my empire. 4) going after better, then again for much better and so on. 5) calculated risk is something Alux , you have taught me.
Personally, I don't have any regret even not a nano one, Life is beautiful from very beginning and Now I am 19 and enjoying it the most preparing for one of the toughest exams in World and enjoying that jorney too!!!!
I no longer have any regrets either. I don't know why, but I don't regret anything that I've done. The biggest test for me is seeing whether I can achieve these goals I have laid out.
I have learned to forgive myself and it is been a lifelong process. I have also learned to expect failure, but never let it Define me as I never let other people to find me by what they think of me.
Actually we don't realise how small things can make a big difference just for example we aluxers get so much value from a video.. I really appreciate your efforts to make all of ours life better.. In Future too I will always look up to you to grow and learn... I really hope I will try to return the value to you guys..
أكبر ندم فى حياتى انى كنت فاكر الناس اللى أكبر منى غلط وانا صح حتى وانا سنى صغير وبدون خبرة وماسمعتش كلامهم. My biggest regret is that I never listened to the elders thinking that they were wrong even when I was so young with almost zero experience.
Regrets can be summed in 3 main areas. 1. FEAR....is BY FAR the biggest thing that stops people from a meaningful life in countless ways 2. Laziness/No concept of mortality...Always will get to things later while time is running out a lot sooner than you think 3. Short term thinking/Convenience...people almost always will choose to do what is easiest, most convenient or give in to impulse at the given moment and give little (or any) thought to future impacts
My biggest regret was allowing myself to become what my friends expected me to become. From this experience I have learned that life is much sweeter when you experience it as an individual. It is very easy to drive on a road that has already been paved, but driving in the outlines on unexplored territory gives one the best sense of accomplishment despite the difficulty.
I have to say this is a video that really helps. Add with it the music which deepens the effect of facts being told frank. Thank you Alux for the contents you provide.
#14, that's me. I forgot since when but I started worrying about what others think of me and arghh! I want to be able to ignore that and be indifferent about what they think of me or possibly think of me. I keep worrying and it gets me nowhere. Where did I lose my courage~!? I want it backkk! Where is it? *looking*
Till now, I can’t think of any regrets. I feel a lot of gratitude and I hope to be able to continue my journey till I’m 130 years old with sufficient health to do so.
My biggest regret, hands down, is getting married and wasting over 2 decades of my life on marriage. Second and third are not taking better care of my teeth and my finances. I love the 3 Passions concept presented here.
50% of marriages end in divorce, 70% of them initiated by women. They get most of everything following the divorce, including the kids. Women get sole custody of the kids around 80% of the time, and the father loses almost all his rights to those children, except for the financial connection. Yet you blame men for refusing to play this rigged game?
My biggest regrets: Getting married, co-signing on a credit card & car loan, not investing in education sooner, putting women on a pedestal and not myself, not paying off debt sooner, lending money, hanging around stupid people that were bad for me, dating bad women, not putting God first, marrying a foreign woman that just wanted the green card.
Hmmm.... #3 and #5. Learning to correct my mistakes seems to be toughest challenges. Now I'm older, I'm seeing the value of being not so uptight, it actually attracts people and they're more willing to help me. But then there's that one arse.... *sigh*
Not standing up to bullies. I had to deal with a bully in high school and later on, I had two bully bosses. In high school, I was very small. I didn't even weigh 100 pounds. I am a female, so some people thought I looked okay, but I was too thin for my height. There was a girl who was bigger than me and she had lots of "tough girl" friends. For about a year I was her target and occasionally, I ran home from school because she and her friends threatened me. Recently I saw her at a wedding. I changed and so did she. I had been hitting the gym most of my adult life and put on a few pounds of muscle and a bit of body fat. I now weigh 140. She recognized me, but I didn't recognize her. She now battles an eating disorder and she is very small and frail. She was trying to be nice to me, but all I wanted to do was punch her in the face. I didn't. I have too much integrity for that and it wouldn't have been a fair fight by any means. Why do I regret this? Because I didn't have the tools or mindset to stand up to those two bully bosses. The first boss was in the 90's and very few anti bullying resources were in place. I did use some of those anti bullying resources against the second bully boss, who later got fired (for bullying someone else). I heard heard about the incident as I had left the company.
You should have reminded her than told her off. Then you would no longer have that regret. The bullying bosses was probably a tougher situation because it had to do with your job but you probably would have felt better if you told them off too. You might have noticed, I'm a big fan of telling people off 🤣🤣
My greatest regret? Not believing in small beginnings. I will learn to maximize and build on this going forwards. Thank you Alux for keeping the Positivity. My hearty regards.
My biggest regret is spending an entire year of my life lying to my best friend at the time about something very simple. That would have been fixed had I not been afraid of the confrontation.
My regret is not being honest with myself as to what I was meant to be, professionally and to a degree, personally. When you're ignorant and ill-informed, you tend to make needlessly bad choices. I am guilty of that. Thanks for sharing the video. It was painful, but necessary.
Regret #1 is on point!
“Many people die at twenty five and aren't buried until they are seventy five.” - Benjamin Franklin
Woooeeeewww
@Crebs Park lmaoooooo 😂😂😂😂
@Crebs Park.... her voice is indeed interesting, but one cannot tell the body just by the voice. I'm picky, I gotta see the whole package and take it for a spin around the city for a few weeks before jumping into bed. Boundaries and priority, my friend. Most likely it is I who doesn't measure up to her. So be it.
In a previous Alux video it talked about how wrong relationship can break you. (raises hand) That's my life lesson, thankfully others were there to prevent further damage. I could go MGTOW, it's easy to do.... but there's still that small chance, I'm keeping eyes open and a guard dog (or cat) at the door.
I really want to understand this but i'm not there yet 😅😅😅
@crebs u just saved your self from regret number something up there congs 😅😅😅
1. Living the life you want to live, not the one that's expected of you
2. Having the courage to express your feelings
3. Standing up for yourself in your early years
4. Settling for less than what we really want
5. Not taking action when you know it's the right thing to do
6. Not taking more risks
7. Not taking better care of yourself
8. Get more done
9. Allowing old friendships to fade away
10. Not making peace with yourself and others
11. Not traveling more
12. Not following or making time for your passion
13. Working so much at the expense of family and friends
14. Taking yourself too seriously & worrying what other people think
15. Not living a more meaningful life
16. Not learning how to deal regrets early enough
Invest more at early age, exercise, invest in education, never co-sign, chase success & wealth not women, don't smoke, pay off debt asap, max out 401 K at work, live in the moment.
Here's a cookie!
@@alux 😂😂😂😂
When you minimize the entire quantity of the video to its bullet points, you disregard the quality of what Alux actually put into making it. Watch the video, people!
@@geocyo8835 no one forced u to read it
My biggest regret is not being able to stop my abusers in my childhood. My mother abandoned me at 8 months old, then my father put me and my sister in care for 4 years. Then shipped to Jamaica where we were abused every single day, Morning, Noon and Night. By the time I was 12, I was broken and an empty shell.
We all have our horror stories and all valid on every level. However, the experience gave me a deep desire to live life to the fullest. I read many books on how to build up my self-confidence and to pursue my career, even though I felt inadequate most of the time.
I learned that people who abuse were abused themselves, so I had to find a way in my heart to forgive and heal. But I'm not totally healed, because as I write this, I feel my eyes welling up. It's not self pity: the little girl in me was so strong, she lived through the misery. I rarely tell her story to anyone, but she deserves a voice to let anyone out there going through a similar hell, that you can get through it. Just don't give up! You can ask or confide in someone to call child protective services. Don't run away because you are so vulnerable and easy prey.
Peace and love to you all.
I will leave behind my books and artwork. But don't wait to enjoy after I'm dead. See my work here: 2-denise-morgan.pixels.com.
my biggest regret in life is , not moving on when we need to.. we all know when we should move on, but we don't!!
Oh, I agree
Who's "we". Speak for yourself, replace we with "I"
Calm down cupcake. The person is merely speaking in general.
I'm only about 24, but used to work a traditional 9-5. Best decision I ever made was too leave the lifestyle to go entrepreneurial and also to follow my passion working in the creative field. Think I might've been the only person in my friend group who did that, but it's been such an insane life changer. Think my logic at the time was while we had no clue where it'd go, at least if anything we'll be able to say we took a chance and risk doing what we enjoyed, and got to walk out some pretty cool memories doing what we love. There's no dollar value to those memories.
My biggest regret is letting my so called friends use me and not being able to stand up for myself 😟😒
I hear you! I had an identical experience with one friend. When I eventually spoke up, I immediately got an apology. Then I became angry at myself for not speaking up earlier. I was angry at myself longer than with her.
Another demanding friend died.....I.never confronted her.
you still have time to change make happy
That was never a problem for me. I always said that I'd rather walk alone than be someone else's slave.
@@Battleganz truth but all away find away make your happy time
@Evocati just say fresh start and fresh gold and clean your body and then wake happy .... You can do any think if you make happened
My biggest regret is not searching for love from the opposite sex at an younger age. My story was that hated every aspect of my life, so any and every woman would be better off without me. I’m glad that’s no longer my truth. I finally love life but now I would love to find someone to share it with.
Thank you, thats inspiration for all us young niggas out here commin up
There definitely was at least one good aspect of your life that could attract people, usually it’s more than one
I have no regrets. I'm thankful for all my experiences, good and bad, because of who they've made me become.
redhot663 Amen 🙏
Me too. Not for the same reason. For me it was intention. Even in my worst times, I intended to do the right thing.
@@Battleganz This is a very good point that I think about all the time .. The importance of intentions! We are all humain so we are bound to make mistakes .. what matters is what our intentions were when we made the mistake .. forgeving ourselves is way easier when we no it was an innocent one!
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Amen.
Worrying about other people's opinions and seeking validation in all I do because I didn't get much of it when I was younger.
My greatest regret is not knowing about alux earlier.
So true
Me too
Same
It would be impossible to count all the ways that you've helped me in my career. Thank you so much for all that you've done - I only hope I can return the favor sometime in the future 🍻
@101self_improvement 101self_improvement 🎩
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Hi Shivam! Always great to see you in the comments! Did you enroll in the course? We'd love to learn more about your journey in our private mastermind group!
Fuck the favor. Fuck the system.
I regret not living in the moment
Not giving myself that pat on the back when I deserved it
My regret is not starting out on the path of financial success earlier in life. It took most of my life to overcome some questionable values. I read a number of business and finance books and to my chagrin a lot of the content confirmed the ideas I’ve had about business success. I wish everyone well in their endeavors.
Peace.
I've learned to not regret, but to improve.
Robert Lee James Welch exactly
dont be sorry, be better
Biggest regret is not taking opportunities to explore and experience life in my teens and twenties. I'm now in my 30's and have led a completely sheltered life in my head. I have plenty of book smarts and lead a healthy lifestyle, and am all too aware now of the things I could have done (e.g. cultural immersion travel, dating, performing arts, driving, starting a business, to try something (socially) risky etc). Being a busy pregnant housewife - to be homeschooler, it may be a while until I have another opportunity to do the above (but will sneak it in where I can). For now, the plan is to explore motherhood to the fullest. It takes some serious planning (think Tony Robbins system) and discipline to 'have it all', and that is what I'm going for and I never give up on anything I really want! :D
Sometimes motivation is all you need to stand up and move forward. Love from a small youtuber :)
No worries Patrick, we were a small youtuber some time ago. Just keep hitting that upload button!
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Good Luck All 😃
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Single minded people can always find a way!
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Great video. Here are my responses to the 15 Biggest Regrets in Life
1. Living the life you want to live, not the one that's expected of you- (Disagree, as most people care less about what their parents aspire for their lives)
2. Having the courage to express your feelings- (Agree. There are some people especially your parents you should have appreciated and loved more)
3. Standing up for yourself in your early years. (Disagree. Gang members always stand up for themselves. Are they better off? Turning the other check is okay then eliminating people from your lives)
4. Settling for less than what we really want- (Agree. Most people in life are lazy and would rather watch Netflix than try to be great)
5. Not taking action when you know it's the right thing to do (Agree. Same a #5)
6. Not taking more risks- (Disagree. The answer is really the same as #4 and #5. Most people do not have or create opportunities in life to even take risks. If you have a great business idea, do you consider this a risk to pursue it?)
7. Not taking better care of yourself- (Strongly Agree. The drinking, vaping, drugs, overeating and lack of exercise has sucked the energy from most people).
8. Get more done- (Agree. You need to plan out your days with a strong/realistic ToDo List)
9. Allowing old friendships to fade away- (Agree. Even family members and new friends you should stay in contact. With Facebook and texting, even the laziest people can achieve this.)
10. Not making peace with yourself and others- (Agree. This is more about controlling your thoughts)
11. Not traveling more- (Disagree. Unless you can share the experience with a person you like and who is fun, traveling is overrated)
12. Not following or making time for your passion- (Very true. So many people wished they played an instrument or continued a hobby)
13. Working so much at the expense of family and friends- (Agree. However spending quality time with people and do special things for them can minimize the time you feel you need to spend with them)
14. Taking yourself too seriously & worrying what other people think- (Disagree. Life is serious and people you care about are very sensitive. To not care what other people feel/think will damage relationships with important people in your life)
15. Not living a more meaningful life- (Disagree. Too general.)
16. Not learning how to deal regrets early enough- (Disagree, since the goal is to minimize regrets and not to learn to accept them.)
My big regret was (and still is) not saying others about my feelings, not saying clearly about my goals and expectations in relationships. I’ve been keeping it deeply inside for many many years. Even though I tell myself not to care of any judgment or rejection, it’s still very hard to do so. And my second big regret is taking myself (and life) too seriously. I still think that this is probably a big fight for the better.
#5 and #6 resonate with me. I had always been playing it safe and believed that I should always have a safety net. But having too good a safety net has lulled me into believing that it was okay to fall down seven, get up eight. In the long run, I ended up moving sideways and gradually backwards. Taking a chance at opportunities mean that I have a 1/3 chance achieving my dreams, 1/3 of ending up where I started, and 1/3 of ending up at the bottom. Definitely way better than a 90% chance of staying where I am and a 10% chance of ending up at the bottom.
Never too late to have realised this.
I’m still in high school and I’m learning so much from people’s regrets. Thanks Alux!!
Biggest regret is not working harder on a good career in my 20s and wasting that time chasing girls.
#1 Regret: Not having the courage to pursue my dream earlier in life.
That is better than never having a dream. Most people only have the vague nebulous ideas..."I want a good job", "I want a nice wife and family", "I want nice house", etc. Or they have the out of touch grandiose ideas..."I want to play in the NBA", "I want to be rock start", or simply "I want to be rich".
If you have a dream that isn't reliant on some super talent or good luck, it's never too late to pursue it. You may not be the next Eric Clapton, but you can learn to play the guitar. You may not be the next Steven King, but you can write a book. You may not be the next Warren Buffet, but you can learn how to invest. You can become a lawyer, doctor, accountant, iron worker, potter, fireman, truck driver, or what ever else is your dream....provided you have a dream. Good luck!
Wasting Time doing nothing sitting idle and killing time and dreaming..... is what my regret ... regret of staying back due to fear.... i could have done better in life, not living life with full fledged, not giving 100%
me too
My Biggest Regret is not having my final interaction with my father being positive.
I was 11 and he was driving me to boarding school, our last conversation was an argument over a fucking Blazer, after he dropped me off, he smiled at me. I didn't give him a hug as per usual or acknowledge him, I just walked away. Next i heard of him, he was dead. its been 10 years, it still hurts.
didnot keep money for myself.
now at 46 still working as a maid and just started learning things.
but next year i must be a bos.
thank you
Regret of my life is being a 20year old person who always relied on my single mum for money either it being going for parties or ordering branded shoes I've regretted asking her money always and this video by alux has showed me that there's no harm in taking the risk
Thank you alux ❤️
I had to pause at #3, standing up for yourself is very very important, I did this the other day after years of letting people take advantage of my being humble and it ended up that I got a raise soon after. I'll continue the video now.
That's great new Mike! We're proud of you!
Thanks Alux, and I'm proud to be an Aluxer
I know this is too late, but I just watch it. One regret I have is getting married just because I was in love with my partner, not realizing that he failed in any other past projects he had in his life, including a past relationship with the mother of his children.
My biggest regrets are settling when it comes to relationships and not standing up for my self.
There will be one regret that *everyone* will face, it's that they always stays on quotes instead of working, The biggest failures in life is *"Never Trying"*
This is my experience.
Get a good pension scheme early on in your working life, and decide the year you want to retire.
On more than one occasion you will be pressured by your family, and financial pressure to cut what you are putting into your pension pot.
Keep up with the pension plan.
Then you wake up one day next to your wife aged 53, and know you will never have to do a days work again !
Otherwise carry on working till you are 65.
Live with memories not with regrets and Life is too short too regret!!!!!
have no regrets? Even if you are languishing in prison serving a lengthy sentence.
This year, I pledged I'll make my life productive and "ALUX" has been spectacular in making my life this way.
I started my own TH-cam channel, and I'm betting better and better at creating content.
I know, one fine day I will be successful at it.
Also, I started reading, meditation and this has helped me in my studies as well.
Lots and lots of love Alux ❤
I regret
1. Not picking up a basketball earlier in my life
2. Not telling the girl I liked in high school or teacher how I felt about them / I had a crush on you
I feel you
Beautiful ❤️❣️❣️❣️😍
My biggest regrets which haunt me till this day are not standing up to my bullies ...pretty much all of them but this one hits me the hardest ...
The permanent change / impact that we leave behind in this world it’s the most important part of anyone’s life.
And that’s the reason why I am surprised this one wasn’t listed.
Giving your kids everything, but time.
If we all make sure our kids grow to be better than us in most ways by the time their life is over and they do the same to their kids and so on. It would only take about seven generations to live in an almost perfect world.
I have heard many people that for years concentrate on the promotion, the tittle, the money, on the goal. And they think that by providing copious financial support to their offsprings will suffice.
To only realice latter in life that they fail as a parent.
Then, trying to make up in the attempt to educate a 28 or 30 year old full grown adult...To late buddy.
It is this part of our society where the weal is broken, in my opinion.
And to me that is one of the biggest regrets one can have.
My only regret was to not learn earlier about finances. I always thought it was going to be so complicated.
I also liked your comment about helping other people and helping them change. I had a job where I felt the change in the lives of many more than I can ever counter. Remember God bless them all.
I never regreted watching tom and jerry tho
Tom and Jerry is cartoon but tell you lost of think
true
@@johnsonschannel720 what did you learn on this video
@@poyummyyummy wow i was constant looking at the problem but not doing anything about it
@@poyummyyummy and letting the problem devour me
You know watching this channel in general does not make me happy. Now I am not saying this is a bad thing, because it speaks the the truth. There things in this Chanel that I must learn and at the same time I try to run away form my problems. And yes I am not proud of it and most of time I feel like shit about it. I am confused, angry, and sad because I have no answer for a cross road in my life. As a result of It i went form life a person filled with hope who thought anything was possible, but as time went I on I see the grim reality of my life. I don’t now when it started but I don’t think it really matters. However I am still alive. Maybe my life hasn’t become of what I dreamt and may never know what I truly want in my life, but Alux is right. As hard as it maybe I have to accept the mistakes in my life and leave it in my pass and move on. After all I am only human. I may not know if the path I choose is correct, but if I don’t choose I may never know. I know it will be hard and I probably will end up doing more mistakes. But at least I will die without a regret
Biggest Regret: Credit Card Debt.
Beamer B I know right. I’m paying mine off as we speak and never again. I just look at it as a past experience. I lived through it.
For me it wasn't the debt, it was what was put on and how quickly it was paid off.
Actually, Credit Card Debt can be discharged. It's student loan debt that's the real killer. If you don't have a lot of that, count yourself lucky.
Beamer B 🤣🤣🤣 biggest scam
Yes, but you've learned what NOT to continue...DEBT.
I've been watching your Sunday motivational videos for almost a year now and it has become part of my life. Alux has changed my mindset and I love you guys for sharing so much valuable information. So far my favourite video. please never stop, because you are teaching baby billionaires how to walk in theses roads full of ups and downs!
Yes same here,
I have so many regrets in life. I regret not standing up for who I am and what's right, I regret that I didn't get to defend my self from being bullied and criticized and remain quiet, shy, timid person.
My absolute biggest regret of my life was not leaving Chicago and moving to Las Vegas to further my boxing career as a professional boxer when I turned pro. I know in my heart,mind body and soul that I'm good enough to compete at the world class level. Not making that decision is something that has been tormenting me, especially the last few years. It's a regret that I have to live with for the rest of my life because I will always wonder what could've been, who I would've met and what my life could be like today. It feels like a special kind of Hell and there's only so much I can do to make up for that fatal mistake. I do what I can now and I'm focusing on building my real estate career but that regret has taken me to some pretty dark places.
Yes welcome to the Sunday Motivational Video !
Thanks Alux !😉
I'm working on how to handle my regrets from the time when I were growing up, specially when I were in school. The best thing I'm doing right now is keeping my head up and having God on my mind.
Just turned 23 today. This was a very informative video. Thanks.
Mitch Ruben Happy Birthday!
Use it for good Mitch
I regret doing what was expected of me by going to college. Doing so gave me another regret: not spending enough time with someone close to me. They passed away halfway through the semester of my second year
Was asked to leave my job as not, to regret amt time to spend w my elderly mum
B4 passing on,mum did say she knew I love 💘 care for her.If I had went on my hectic worklife schedule, wld I b able get that acknowledgement ?
I am only 32 years old, but I definitely have things from my past I regret like not going to rock-concerts more often especially now with the oldschool-ones I know are threatening to call it quits from the road like Kiss, Bob Seger, Slayer, Lynard Skynard among others.
I also regret that I have had a TH-cam-Channel since 2008 but I did not start making videos myself until almost a decade later. As I could have been successful and financially-autonomous to the point I could have avoided the need to work a regular-job. I now cannot stop comparing myself either to people who have had a TH-cam-Channel since than or sooner but have been making videos since than and have been successful as such.
I also regret I did not write a novel after I made one for my High-School senior-project in 2006. This is another-way I could have been successful too.
It's because of these regrets I will still struggle every now and than with self-confidence and cannot even get myself to feel confident.
I regret my laziness in the past but in-spite of this I can't get myself to write my novel.
My single greatest regret...
My nephew was... 2 years old.
I was watching him and he was playing while I enjoyed a game. A cutscene came on, I think it as at the end of the game,
He got upset and wanted my attention and wouldn't stop whining, I wanted to enjoy that cutscene first...
I yelled at him. I never had before, I never have sense (he's about to turn 9 now.)
I screamed at him to shut up.
Called him a "demon child" because he was upset...
I hate myself for that.
That I was in a dark place in my life was no excuse.
I don't even remember what the game was, but I will forever remember my shame.
He doesn't remember it, and I'm his favorite uncle, but... Still.
1) it's always safe Vs safe & fulfilled. I'm at a better place careerwise than last year Alux. Thankful to you.
2) Expressed my feelings to a very special girl. It is going great.
3) not settling. Still in my early years to build my empire.
4) going after better, then again for much better and so on.
5) calculated risk is something Alux , you have taught me.
Need more 6am post to start the day .right aluxer?
Might as well start the day right Benny
In india its 04:00 pm
It's always 6am somewhere in the world. Just ask anyone in the service.... regardless of country.
Personally, I don't have any regret even not a nano one, Life is beautiful from very beginning and Now I am 19 and enjoying it the most preparing for one of the toughest exams in World and enjoying that jorney too!!!!
an IAS aspirant spotted...
I no longer have any regrets either. I don't know why, but I don't regret anything that I've done. The biggest test for me is seeing whether I can achieve these goals I have laid out.
"Now I am 19"
Lol...talk to us at 40.
@@LAWSON08 if u remain alive then sure!!!!
I have learned to forgive myself and it is been a lifelong process. I have also learned to expect failure, but never let it Define me as I never let other people to find me by what they think of me.
I hope more people take a few minutes to really listen to this video and stop missing out on life
Regrets 1-16 are on point for me. I wish I would have stood up to bullies and applied myself in school. I wish I had moved to LA 25 years ago.
Not talking to her when she needed me most ... Resulted to lose her forever ..
Actually we don't realise how small things can make a big difference just for example we aluxers get so much value from a video..
I really appreciate your efforts to make all of ours life better..
In Future too I will always look up to you to grow and learn...
I really hope I will try to return the value to you guys..
One of my biggest regrets is not knowing how to deal with nasty people.
Mahinda Githaiga Same here!
@@enochfarage2429 I believe in Karma, so whatever they did to us, somebody else has done it to them.
You guys have added a great value in my life and for that I am whole heartedly thankful to u guys!!!!
We thank you for being here Krishna
Waiting for this since morning!!!
and baaaammm! here we are Hermant!
@@alux 😊😘😍
أكبر ندم فى حياتى انى كنت فاكر الناس اللى أكبر منى غلط وانا صح حتى وانا سنى صغير وبدون خبرة وماسمعتش كلامهم.
My biggest regret is that I never listened to the elders thinking that they were wrong even when I was so young with almost zero experience.
We made a great video about this: th-cam.com/video/KcCG_zdAu6Q/w-d-xo.html
Regrets can be summed in 3 main areas.
1. FEAR....is BY FAR the biggest thing that stops people from a meaningful life in countless ways
2. Laziness/No concept of mortality...Always will get to things later while time is running out a lot sooner than you think
3. Short term thinking/Convenience...people almost always will choose to do what is easiest, most convenient or give in to impulse at the given moment and give little (or any) thought to future impacts
500stoney yup. Pretty much.
Honestly the list goes on for me when it comes to regret. I regret so many things that sometimes I really wonder why I exist.
EALUX, i regret not having the money to enter into your course but i promise you that after 5 to 7 years i will purchase your company's shares...❤️
My biggest regret was allowing myself to become what my friends expected me to become. From this experience I have learned that life is much sweeter when you experience it as an individual. It is very easy to drive on a road that has already been paved, but driving in the outlines on unexplored territory gives one the best sense of accomplishment despite the difficulty.
I have to say this is a video that really helps. Add with it the music which deepens the effect of facts being told frank. Thank you Alux for the contents you provide.
Regret -- not working on myself from childhood
You're doing it now, so that's good!
*most of my regrets are regrets of omission rather than commission* i.e: i more regret things i didn't do rather than the things i did do💪
That's right Vito
There are so many things I didn't do because of one thing I did do.
@@GoddessBlessYou that's true, believe it or not i was thinking something oddly similar as i was typing this
That's what Jeff be is says
@@shinekshaji3140 That's true!
Truly taking #16 to heart is the most important item on video
I'm literally crying watching this video , it's so relatable ....
I teared up too : )
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My fitness comes before my family. If anything, it’s they who are losing out on extra years
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Fighting for someone when he’s not willing to fight for me too
Real beauty
#4. Settling for less than what we really want.
#14, that's me. I forgot since when but I started worrying about what others think of me and arghh! I want to be able to ignore that and be indifferent about what they think of me or possibly think of me. I keep worrying and it gets me nowhere. Where did I lose my courage~!? I want it backkk! Where is it? *looking*
Till now, I can’t think of any regrets. I feel a lot of gratitude and I hope to be able to continue my journey till I’m 130 years old with sufficient health to do so.
My biggest regret, hands down, is getting married and wasting over 2 decades of my life on marriage. Second and third are not taking better care of my teeth and my finances. I love the 3 Passions concept presented here.
Living the life - I really want to live
Can you make a 15 reasons why relationships fail list?
Getting married was my biggest regret. Go Mgtow!
Things happen... it's important how we move forward from them
Yes. Live & learn. #AWALT
Getting married was my biggest reget. That's why I divorced him.😂 Live the life that you are meant to live. #NAWALT
50% of marriages end in divorce, 70% of them initiated by women. They get most of everything following the divorce, including the kids. Women get sole custody of the kids around 80% of the time, and the father loses almost all his rights to those children, except for the financial connection. Yet you blame men for refusing to play this rigged game?
One can never act effectively against those regrets, unless one feels it first.
Thanks for uploading today's video this early from your usual time...
1h earlier to be precise.
@@alux It would be awesome if you publish your video at a particular , same time....We will appreciate that.
My biggest regret is wasting time on social media instead of learning something useful.
My biggest regrets: Getting married, co-signing on a credit card & car loan, not investing in education sooner, putting women on a pedestal and not myself, not paying off debt sooner, lending money, hanging around stupid people that were bad for me, dating bad women, not putting God first, marrying a foreign woman that just wanted the green card.
I regreat holding grudges, and not forgiving people sooner. Thanks for the awsome videos. They are full on insight, and are inspiring!
I just joined the Alux.com 21 day meditation 😁
I've learned to have no regrets. Plan, re-plan, execute decisions. All you can do is make better decisions in life, if you don't like your choices.
Hmmm.... #3 and #5. Learning to correct my mistakes seems to be toughest challenges. Now I'm older, I'm seeing the value of being not so uptight, it actually attracts people and they're more willing to help me. But then there's that one arse.... *sigh*
My biggest regret is too much helping for others.
Trust is the only regret I had. It's all good now.
I want to sign up for your meditation course but its expensive and I dont have the money for it!!!
Not standing up to bullies. I had to deal with a bully in high school and later on, I had two bully bosses. In high school, I was very small. I didn't even weigh 100 pounds. I am a female, so some people thought I looked okay, but I was too thin for my height. There was a girl who was bigger than me and she had lots of "tough girl" friends. For about a year I was her target and occasionally, I ran home from school because she and her friends threatened me.
Recently I saw her at a wedding. I changed and so did she. I had been hitting the gym most of my adult life and put on a few pounds of muscle and a bit of body fat. I now weigh 140. She recognized me, but I didn't recognize her. She now battles an eating disorder and she is very small and frail. She was trying to be nice to me, but all I wanted to do was punch her in the face. I didn't. I have too much integrity for that and it wouldn't have been a fair fight by any means.
Why do I regret this? Because I didn't have the tools or mindset to stand up to those two bully bosses. The first boss was in the 90's and very few anti bullying resources were in place. I did use some of those anti bullying resources against the second bully boss, who later got fired (for bullying someone else). I heard heard about the incident as I had left the company.
You should have reminded her than told her off. Then you would no longer have that regret. The bullying bosses was probably a tougher situation because it had to do with your job but you probably would have felt better if you told them off too. You might have noticed, I'm a big fan of telling people off 🤣🤣
Regret not feeding myself more information.... partying a lil too much miami problems smh !!! Love this channel
My greatest regret? Not believing in small beginnings. I will learn to maximize and build on this going forwards. Thank you Alux for keeping the Positivity. My hearty regards.
My biggest regret is spending an entire year of my life lying to my best friend at the time about something very simple. That would have been fixed had I not been afraid of the confrontation.
My regret is not being honest with myself as to what I was meant to be, professionally and to a degree, personally. When you're ignorant and ill-informed, you tend to make needlessly bad choices. I am guilty of that. Thanks for sharing the video. It was painful, but necessary.
My life is so much better since ALUX ❤️
We're glad to hear that Dev!
Thanks Aluxers! I need to learn from my past mistakes and shape a different future for myself. I will upgrade who I am, how think, and how I act...