I had cysts on my ovaries and endometriosis horribly when I was young. I had a cyst the size of a grapefruit rupture and destroy my fallopian tube and had to have emergency surgery. After that they told me I probably would never have a baby. Thankfully we now have 4 boys since. Sending you prayers and good luck ❤ take care of each other!
Dear for my experience here in Italy I can say the doctors are not qualified please try to consult to other doctors according to my experience I’m saying that I moved to Italy 2 years ago and had a miscarriage once and it’s been six years I was struggling to get pregnant again when I went to doctor here in Italy but they didn’t give me much treatment to help me get pregnant so after struggling a lot without any medication I get pregnant in May of 2024 and had again severe bleeding when I was six weeks pregnant I went to doctor in emergency the didn’t do much to stop the bleeding and perform ultrasound and tell me it’s normal don’t take stress go home take complete bed rest it’s gonna b fine on last Friday of 9 of August I went to doctor again and she was like all the thing are perfect baby is moving even though i was still spotting and had yellow vaginal discharge and in so much bad condition they didn’t even allow me to admit in hospital said that you don’t need it okay after my visit on 9 I went for another ultrasound on 13 of August and the doctor told me to do abortion because their is no heart beat of baby from last 3 weeks I was shocked that a week ago the doctor told me all the things are perfect and now this doctor tells me another thing I take me and my husband one day to decide what to do we didn’t think of this and decided to do abortion as doctor prescribed in the morning we went to to dnc procedure and they give us the appointment of 25 August I told if the baby is dead inside of me what if I get some infection or something else and they told me again it’s normal nothing gonna happen now I’m waiting for my appointment first when they didn’t give me any treatment and tell me it’s normal I lost my baby and now what is going to happen to me again
I have endometriosis stage 4 and cyst in my ovaries and fibroids in my uterus. At 37 I was diagnosed and had mayor surgery to remove my fibroids and reconstruct my uterus to try to have a baby. That’s when the doctor found I have a severe case of endo, I even have endometriosis in my bladder and intestines. At this point I was 38 and the clock was ticking to get pregnant. I had a miscarriage 5 months after my surgery, and the doctor told me I had no chances to get pregnant. A month later I went back with a positive pregnancy test. My son is 5 now and is my miracle baby. Don’t give up, our bodies are amazing and miracles do happen!! ❤❤❤ sending love and good vibes!
I love your end quote in italian. "The sun still shines even when it is cloudy." Something I never realized until flying at 36,000 feet to Russia to adopt our son. It is always sunny and beautiful above the clouds. After 6 years trying to get pregnant, we knew it was time to switch our focus. You will know when its time to stop IVF. And God will reveal to you if he wants you to create a family through another way. Keep your hope and faith alive, and love each other well. Your family will come to you when the time is right. ❤
I had 5 IVF attempts. None of them worked. I have a wonderful son through adoption. That is his story to tell, not mine. But he is my joy, and meant to be our son.
I'm a fellow endo warrior with severe endo. I was told I was infertile and got pregnant with a 7cm cyst that is attached to both my ovary and uterus. I just wanted to give you both a bit of hope. I'm sending you all the love and wishes for health and no more pain. I'm so sorry you're going through this, just know you have a bunch of people all over the world rooting for you and holding you up for however long you need us.
I was deformed, stage four endometriosis, most ovary tissue removed, low hormones. Took five years. Got pregnant a week after I was told I was sterile on a vacation. Have faith. There is special baby waiting for you at the right time. Sending positive vibes.
I love how Alessio always says “we” . He is 100% invested and supportive and I admire him for that. Is surrogacy an option? You have each other and that’s wonderful in itself!
Surrogacy is evil. Especially for hire. It puts the birth mother at greater risk for cancers, it’s damaging a human body so you can maybe have a biological baby, it’s bad and cruel to the baby. It should not be tolerated. It’s sad that Jessi is suffering, but surrogacy is anti-woman.
Never seen two people with such a high degree of RESILIENCE - that is really amazing and we can all learn a lesson from them! Thank you so much, i keep my fingers crossed for you and sending best wishes from Austria!!
Infertility is so, so hard. I’m now parenting my 11-year old IVF son and 8-year old donor egg IVF daughter. It was a nine year journey and it was soul crushing…and has had lasting impacts on me as a human and mom. Sending you all the best wishes.
You guys are sunshine, I am currently facing relationship issues, and seeing how lovely you are, gives me hope it still possible in this world to find peace, love, and support in a relationship… I truly wish you guys happiness and I hope God answers your prayers 💕
I have PCOS. Ive been exercising and being in a calorie deficit for the past 8 weeks.... I just found out last Saturday after 5 years trying to have a baby that we're expecting. Praying for you guys! I understand the hope and prayer and knowing things happen and the let down and tears. Praying for your body and healing
I am a dietitian and it is amazing what good nutrition can do! Specially with PCOS! I have had many patients gotten pregnant after losing a little bit of weight and getting their insulin levels under control
@@babuyadav2336 what worked for me was excluding sugar (except fruit and little honey), no bread, switching coffee with black and green tea. I ate more or less only protein, lots of fresh fruit and vegetables. And as a bonus I lost some weight 😊 only temporarily unfortunately 😅
I had a 3 % chance of having kids. I had horrible endometriosis. Later in years...at 27 had a son, had another in 32 and a daughter in 34. My daughter had a baby at 25 and at 34, she had removal of all the cysts. Now, she is pregnant . There is always hope. Hang in there.
Jessie it sounds like you have the spiritual gift of faith. I have it too! Sometimes I wonder how I can use that to help others. You are using it this way and that’s such a great thing! Keep speaking about it. 🙏🏻❤️ Praying for this baby.
But please Jessi, wait after the IVF, don't jump on an airplane. Change the ticket, or let it be lost, stay in Italy at least two weeks, before you go to travel again on an airplane. As a matter of a fact I think you should not travel at all for months even after you will find out the IVF was successful. Let Alessio go to the US and bring the cat to Italy, and Jessi you just chill out in Italy.
@@bobbyboo1478 actually it is. Depends if you already have some complications or problems with health. See their last video what happend. The thing is, when you already experience problems with conceiving and fly round the world to do IVF, why then to risk it with additional stress for the body with a long flight (US - Italy, its not like one hour flight within Europe) especially during the few days of nidation. Thats the time where you can significally increase the chances of success of the treatment by taking care of yourself and resting, being relaxed etc. My experience shows that it is better to be safe then sorry..
Just be sure that you know that it is never "game over". I had three surgeries before my hysterectomy. I took a few years break after that and then adopted two beautiful daughters The oldest just graduated with her Masters in family therapy and the second is in college to be a journalist. I now look back on the fact that I was meant to be their mother. Life has mysterious ways of making your true destiny happen.❤❤
As an adoptee, I appreciate your saying this. My adoptive parents were the best, and how that they're both gone, I miss them tremendously. They were salt of the earth, and I feel that I could not have chosen better for myself.
Always listen to those gut reactions when they are that strong. Those promptings come from your faith and the Spirit as you know. You feel peace, you feel right about this, you have the support - you got this, and God has you!
Not my body, not my life, not my place to comment on any of your decisions. BUT because my life is so different, and these are experiences I won't have, I appreciate you sharing your perspective so that I can learn. Thank you!
I hardly comment but I just wanted to say that both of you seem securely attached which is rare in this day and age. The world needs more parents who are like you. Keep going, it’s going to work out ❤
Your positive spirit and perspective is awesome. Continue to follow your heart and your gut. Whatever happens, I think you both will make the best parents ever - stay strong! Prayers for the transfer and thereafter!!
We are currently on our break but due to my age, we aren't able to do it for long. Infertility and miscarriages take such a toll mentally. Thank you for sharing your story. It helps me hear others stories and talking about it is very cathartic as well.
Still praying and HOPING for both of you. Thank you for sharing your positivity and faith. I am homebound and watching your videos brighten my day and shows me that God is good. Blessings for you!😇
I have PCOS and endometriosis. We tried for 4 years to have kids. It was a long, horrible road. It was some of the absolute worst years of my life. We spent our life savings on fertility treatments. There were so many times I felt like giving up but in my heart I just couldn't. Thank God I didn't. My IVF twins are now 11 weeks old.
Jessi and Alessio, I just want to THANK you for your positivity, your faith and your attitudes. You have dealt with so much and as Alessio says, “the sun still shines.” I continue to pray for a miracle for you both.
I am praying for you, and you have opened my eyes to trying to see the positive, your example of how you saw the positive of what happened on the plane. I suffer with anxiety and I am going to try to look for the positive in things like you said. Thank you❤️
I love your positivity and resilience in the midst of difficulties. Well done, guys. And I think you're so right not to go by the advice of strangers, even though folks are so kind, concerned and well meaning. Instead, listening to the advice of specialist doctors who know you, and Jessi listening to what your own body is telling you, seems such a wise way to go. xx
Oh Jesse. I’m so so sorry you are going through this. I suffered for over 20 years with it and was brushed off and had 2 horrific surgeries. I know that pain you describe on the plane. Oh my 😢. I pray for you and Alessio for peace and love. Thank you for sharing. Watching you now brought tears to my eyes knowing what you have suffered. 🙏🏼🌹🥰
Hi, I went to a natural health store because of my heavy cycles. I spent an hour with her. She said I needed to eat for my blood type. I am a type o. Caffeine and the food I was eating helps the cysts grow. So far I have had great luck with fasting and reading the book on eating for your blood type. I’ve lost weight and my cycles have improved. Good luck to all you guys. God is with us.
Go for it girl! Trust in your intuition! 💌*HUGS* I was thinking the same thing, maybe this cyst rupturing now will clear things up enough for a healthy transfer/ implantation to happen!🤞🏼🙏🏼
Oh my gosh you guys are the sweetest people. Keep the faith. Don’t pay attention to statistics, and just keep moving forward. My pregnancies had so many twists and turns and statistical anomolies and so many things to be terrified by and in the end everything worked out. The struggle was just a part of the story. Doctors know so much, but they also know so very little about pregnancy. I think it will happen for you guys and I’ll be praying.
This is absolutely going to work. Y’all are about to become parents, and I am so excited for you! Sending all the positive vibes and love. Can’t wait for the good news!
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Praying for y’all in this rough time. Just know there is hope. I’ve had a cyst on each ovary and the one on my right side is still growing. It took us 4 transfers (8 losses) and we’re finally expecting. And at each ultrasound they measure the cyst and it’s still growing but they say we’re still good! There’s hope!!
Praying for us both on our transfers to be fruitful!!! Yall are doing amazing and your faith shining thru all the darkness. It gives me so much hope. I really pray God hears all our voices and answers! ❤
My doctor took out all of my cysts. I went and got acupuncture before IVF for infertility for increased blood flow. My doctor helped me and my 2 friends successfully and 2 coworkers that had failed attempts with other doctors all have babies. I am PRAYING so hard for you guys. If you ever want to come to Dallas you might want to give him a try. If not we are on this journey with you whatever it may take you. Good luck!
I went through fertility troubles and know what that can do to a couple mentally and emotionally. I’m so sorry you’re going through all of this, but I have to say, sharing your experiences and how you flip the script and make a negative medical experience into something to find gratitude in has really helped me with my health anxiety. It’s showing me that even medical things can be faced and dealt with one thing at a time while knowing that people are there to care for you. So, thanks.
I have tried everything short of IVF for 14 years ( I don't have enough money and my health insurance sucks) and I have endo, PCOS, and fibroids that just grow at an astronomical rate. I've had 2 ablations (that was supposed to stop my fibroids, nope). Now they finally figured out that I have been in perimenopause since I was 30. I wish you so much luck. It is heartwrenching.
I don’t even have words to express how much I admire you! To see how you’re going through this process and facing adversity with such grace and positivity is truly inspirational. I will keep you in my prayers. Sending lots of love ❤
Sending you guys tons of love and thoughts. Ironically, your videos give me solace; to know we’re not alone in this long and arduous infertility journey. ❤
I’m sorry for your struggle. My niece has endometriosis and has been through hell, but in the end..she got her beautiful baby miracle boy. Miracles do happen. Keep the faith❤
Hi! I am so sorry for what you’re going through. I have endometriosis, too and I know how much it hurts and the anger, grief, confusion, frustration, and all of the emotions. Just know that everyone is behind you and no matter what, you will be okay. I think going with your gut and always have hope.
we don't know if is possible! the plan was that but now the dr they need to understand what happened since it is a case that had never happened in their career ciao Alessio
I hope you see this post. I know someone who have endo (I also have polyps and painful periods) and since starting bouldering we both got pregnant for the first time in years. It’s not a coincidence. Something about climbing reduces the strain on the uterus and helps reduce inflammation and endo growth. Fingers cross for you x
I still stand firm in my belief that you 2 will be blessed beyond your wildest imagination. Lord knows what he is doing. You 2 stand strong in hope and faith. These trials gives your bond with each other it's glue to withstand the pressures. Never mind the naysayers, even if it is with good intentions they serve. Prayers up for you all as always!🙇♀️❤🤗
We are with you and we are here to support you. You keep smiling as much as you can during this hard time to make it easier, but we know that inside it is more difficult and it is allowed to cry. Take your time to rest and don't stop. We pray for you.
Hopefully all the bad signs everyone has told you about leads to something amazing. I love how positive you both are in this journey and refuse to be anything less. Sending you both lots of prayers
You sound like a couple determined to handle anything life throws at you. What amazing courage to share your vulnerabilities in the midst of the uncertainties. Your positivity is both infectious and inspiring. Coraggio!!
Hi, me and my husband have been ttcing for 6 month with no luck (adenemiosys and cysts so it should take a while). In the meantime, 3 of my friends got pregnant on the first try, so pretty isolating. Thank you so much for sharing your journey, it makes me feel less alone. I’m hoping you’ll be able to add a new member to your family, whatever the way it takes. Love from Belgium ❤
We tried for over a decade and 14 trials, also first issues with endometriosis, the last years with adenomiosys. I was pregnant 3x, lost them all in the first trimester. During this decade everyone around me became parents, even those who didn’t want/try to become. We gave up and we are trying surrogacy.
God bless you both - the emotional and physical toll on you is so sad, but you’re helping others understand a lot of medical ‘things’ that we didn’t know about. You are very strong! Thank you for sharing your journey! ❤
You guys are such an inspiration!!!! It's nice to be able to relate and know that you're not alone.... But I still hope of the best outcome for you guys!!!!
❤🙏this is a heartache that we are all feeling for you, but never give up on your dream! The two of you are already blessed as you know! Wishing you hope and the joy you are seeking!!❤🙏🫂
Im so very sorry for how this journey is going for you both! But i do applaud your attitude in being so realistic and full of faith! All the best wishes from Amsterdam ❤
Go for it! I am so happy you are trusting your gut. Only you know what’s best for you. I am praying that doing so will get you your baby. I also want to say that your miscarriage video helped me so much last year when I suffered one. Thank you for putting out such honest, real, and hopeful energy into the world. ❤️❤️❤️
I will totally affirm you both in going forward in hope, faith and positivity, despite the way everything else may look like absolute darkness and tragedy. Without struggle and insurmountable odds, miracles wouldn't exist.
Big hugs from another in the thick of an IVF journey. I have scarring on the inside of my uterus from IUD and miscarriage/retained placenta and found out I’ll probably need a 3rd surgery before we can transfer. Some days it feels like the only guarantee is more complications when on paper things are supposed to work a certain way. ❤
Man you speak so much truth about that last part. Wishing you only the best and lots of success. If you end up needing another surgery, wishing speedy recovery! 🙏
I absolutely love how you both find the platinum silver lining on every single annoying cloud that tries to derail your journey. Sending positive thoughts and prayers for a 100% successful outcome.
You are such a gift to everyone who follows you. Your faith, the way you trust your intuition, the way you support each other & your non-judgmental acceptance of what life brings you are inspirational.
I wish you the best. My niece and her husband tried the ivf process. It was not until the 10th time that it was successful. God bless you both. I wish only success for you to complete your family.❤
As always keeping you both in my prayers 🙏🏻 I think the sign to see is how hopeful and resilient you are. Things happen and we cannot just give up. Praying all goes well on Monday 💕🥰🌸
Hope is the most important thing....they told me that the chance that I will ever be pregnant is at around: 2%...I have two children now...never lose hope....
You are going to be fine, and ready for the transfer Monday. The diet will help reduce inflammation from the ruptured cyst and you will heal over the weekend. I also have a good feeling about this one. But I do think it's time to stay in Italy and let that become home, at least for a while. You do know what is best for you both.
Your persistence in the face of every roadblock thrown your way is inspirational. I went through a different kind of infertility (recurrent unexplained miscarriages) but the heartbreak/hope cycle is very much the same! Hugs
You both are so connected and strong for each other. I know that this is such an emotional roller coaster but you have each other to lean on. You will find a way to grow your family. Stay strong together 💕💕
Praying for you both. For mental, spiritual and physical strength. For peace in your journey and for acceptance of whatever may come for you both. Hold onto you hope and faith, it will take you far. ❤❤
I am so sorry to hear that. Please make sure you know when to stop and let go. Sometimes it needs exactly that to make things happen all of a sudden.. And sometimes its just not meant to be. There are many children who desperately wish for parents. There is always a way ❤
I was adopted and it was the best thing that could have happened for me at the beginning of life. You'd make fine parents, regardless of how the baby arrives.
Yes yes guys, keep your faith through the rough times!! That is God giving you that peace of mind and the strength to push through and keep moving forward! That beautiful attitude you both have and the gratefulness is truly amazing to see!! I pray that you continue to have peace and joy going thru this journey and that you never lose that beautiful light and joy that shines through even through a recording! Lots of Love and Prayers for you!! ❤️❤️❤️
I just love this couple. I love Jessi’s determination and positivity. I live Allessio’s dedication and loyalty and being right there wIth support at every step. Just love each other!
Thank you for your faith and positivity. I am going through my own medical trials and it helps to be reminded of the benefits of having a good mindset. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I’m so sorry you are both going through this, hearing you talk breaks my heart ❤ Someone who has gone through IVF, I know how difficult this road is building your family. Sending prayers and hugs your way! ❤
People who haven’t been through awful things experiences don’t understand the power and importance hope. As someone who is in a place that feels hopeless, who has lost hope in general in life, I can’t tell you how important it’s been for me to see your hope through adversity. I’m in a very different situation of what’s making me hopeless, but still your hope is helping me to try and find my own. Since watching your videos, I’ve found myself wanting to pray the rosary. I started just a few weeks ago and I’ve found comfort and peace. Even though I’m only one person, you’ve had such an important impact on my life. I am thinking and praying for you 💜
Pray directly to Jesus. He is the intercessor. Romans 8:34b-39 Christ Jesus is the one who died-more than that, who was raised-who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? As it is written, “For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
You speak my thoughts. I am also struggling with feelings of hopelessness, and although I am in an entirely different situation, Jessi and Alessio's positivity and hope are inspiring. May we find strength and hope again. I'm wishing Jessi and Alessio the very best on their journey and many thanks for sharing it with us! 🙌🏻
I had cysts on my ovaries and endometriosis horribly when I was young. I had a cyst the size of a grapefruit rupture and destroy my fallopian tube and had to have emergency surgery. After that they told me I probably would never have a baby. Thankfully we now have 4 boys since. Sending you prayers and good luck ❤ take care of each other!
So happy that it all worked out for you after a difficult road! ♥️
@@ThePasinis thank you! Prayers your hard road lead into all of your dreams coming true 💗
Many prayers and stay strong. You two are wonderful. ❤
You have both shown so much resilience and love for each other. Miracles happen, keep the faith❤
Dear for my experience here in Italy I can say the doctors are not qualified please try to consult to other doctors according to my experience I’m saying that I moved to Italy 2 years ago and had a miscarriage once and it’s been six years I was struggling to get pregnant again when I went to doctor here in Italy but they didn’t give me much treatment to help me get pregnant so after struggling a lot without any medication I get pregnant in May of 2024 and had again severe bleeding when I was six weeks pregnant I went to doctor in emergency the didn’t do much to stop the bleeding and perform ultrasound and tell me it’s normal don’t take stress go home take complete bed rest it’s gonna b fine on last Friday of 9 of August I went to doctor again and she was like all the thing are perfect baby is moving even though i was still spotting and had yellow vaginal discharge and in so much bad condition they didn’t even allow me to admit in hospital said that you don’t need it okay after my visit on 9 I went for another ultrasound on 13 of August and the doctor told me to do abortion because their is no heart beat of baby from last 3 weeks I was shocked that a week ago the doctor told me all the things are perfect and now this doctor tells me another thing I take me and my husband one day to decide what to do we didn’t think of this and decided to do abortion as doctor prescribed in the morning we went to to dnc procedure and they give us the appointment of 25 August I told if the baby is dead inside of me what if I get some infection or something else and they told me again it’s normal nothing gonna happen now I’m waiting for my appointment first when they didn’t give me any treatment and tell me it’s normal I lost my baby and now what is going to happen to me again
I have endometriosis stage 4 and cyst in my ovaries and fibroids in my uterus. At 37 I was diagnosed and had mayor surgery to remove my fibroids and reconstruct my uterus to try to have a baby. That’s when the doctor found I have a severe case of endo, I even have endometriosis in my bladder and intestines. At this point I was 38 and the clock was ticking to get pregnant. I had a miscarriage 5 months after my surgery, and the doctor told me I had no chances to get pregnant. A month later I went back with a positive pregnancy test. My son is 5 now and is my miracle baby. Don’t give up, our bodies are amazing and miracles do happen!! ❤❤❤ sending love and good vibes!
I love your end quote in italian. "The sun still shines even when it is cloudy." Something I never realized until flying at 36,000 feet to Russia to adopt our son. It is always sunny and beautiful above the clouds. After 6 years trying to get pregnant, we knew it was time to switch our focus.
You will know when its time to stop IVF. And God will reveal to you if he wants you to create a family through another way. Keep your hope and faith alive, and love each other well. Your family will come to you when the time is right. ❤
I had 5 IVF attempts. None of them worked. I have a wonderful son through adoption. That is his story to tell, not mine. But he is my joy, and meant to be our son.
I'm a fellow endo warrior with severe endo. I was told I was infertile and got pregnant with a 7cm cyst that is attached to both my ovary and uterus. I just wanted to give you both a bit of hope. I'm sending you all the love and wishes for health and no more pain. I'm so sorry you're going through this, just know you have a bunch of people all over the world rooting for you and holding you up for however long you need us.
im a bit ignorant on this topic... can't you remove the uterus or ovary cyst?
I was deformed, stage four endometriosis, most ovary tissue removed, low hormones. Took five years. Got pregnant a week after I was told I was sterile on a vacation. Have faith. There is special baby waiting for you at the right time. Sending positive vibes.
I love how Alessio always says “we” . He is 100% invested and supportive and I admire him for that. Is surrogacy an option? You have each other and that’s wonderful in itself!
Isn't that what a partner is supposed to do?
They are, despite all, lucky that in the US surrogacy is allowed. It could well be an option.
@@cocomelon1396 yes but not all are as supportive unfortunately
Surrogacy is evil. Especially for hire. It puts the birth mother at greater risk for cancers, it’s damaging a human body so you can maybe have a biological baby, it’s bad and cruel to the baby. It should not be tolerated.
It’s sad that Jessi is suffering, but surrogacy is anti-woman.
They have done a video in the past about why they don't feel surrogacy is an option right now. You might be able to search and find that.
Never seen two people with such a high degree of RESILIENCE - that is really amazing and we can all learn a lesson from them! Thank you so much, i keep my fingers crossed for you and sending best wishes from Austria!!
That's the word I was looking for, resilience! Yes, they're very inspiring!
Infertility is so, so hard. I’m now parenting my 11-year old IVF son and 8-year old donor egg IVF daughter. It was a nine year journey and it was soul crushing…and has had lasting impacts on me as a human and mom. Sending you all the best wishes.
You are Barron, god doesn't want you to have a child.
You guys are sunshine, I am currently facing relationship issues, and seeing how lovely you are, gives me hope it still possible in this world to find peace, love, and support in a relationship… I truly wish you guys happiness and I hope God answers your prayers 💕
I have PCOS. Ive been exercising and being in a calorie deficit for the past 8 weeks.... I just found out last Saturday after 5 years trying to have a baby that we're expecting. Praying for you guys! I understand the hope and prayer and knowing things happen and the let down and tears. Praying for your body and healing
Firstly, congratulations!!!
Can you tell me what helped you conceive. PCOS can be so tricky, I never know what works for me.
I am a dietitian and it is amazing what good nutrition can do! Specially with PCOS! I have had many patients gotten pregnant after losing a little bit of weight and getting their insulin levels under control
@@babuyadav2336 what worked for me was excluding sugar (except fruit and little honey), no bread, switching coffee with black and green tea. I ate more or less only protein, lots of fresh fruit and vegetables. And as a bonus I lost some weight 😊 only temporarily unfortunately 😅
Congrats! Diet is super important with pcos! I'm so glad you were able to conceive.
I have PCOS and also got pregnant due to diet and working out
I had a 3 % chance of having kids. I had horrible endometriosis.
Later in years...at 27 had a son, had another in 32 and a daughter in 34.
My daughter had a baby at 25 and at 34, she had removal of all the cysts. Now, she is pregnant .
There is always hope. Hang in there.
Jessie it sounds like you have the spiritual gift of faith. I have it too! Sometimes I wonder how I can use that to help others. You are using it this way and that’s such a great thing! Keep speaking about it. 🙏🏻❤️ Praying for this baby.
You are Barron, god doesn't want you to have a child.
But please Jessi, wait after the IVF, don't jump on an airplane. Change the ticket, or let it be lost, stay in Italy at least two weeks, before you go to travel again on an airplane. As a matter of a fact I think you should not travel at all for months even after you will find out the IVF was successful. Let Alessio go to the US and bring the cat to Italy, and Jessi you just chill out in Italy.
I agree with you. I was the last time already suprised that she traveled. On my opinion it is always better not to risk it.
Just stay in Italy!!!!!! Way better than TN. In TN if something bad happens they will let the woman die.
But it's not related...
@@bobbyboo1478 actually it is. Depends if you already have some complications or problems with health. See their last video what happend. The thing is, when you already experience problems with conceiving and fly round the world to do IVF, why then to risk it with additional stress for the body with a long flight (US - Italy, its not like one hour flight within Europe) especially during the few days of nidation. Thats the time where you can significally increase the chances of success of the treatment by taking care of yourself and resting, being relaxed etc. My experience shows that it is better to be safe then sorry..
Just be sure that you know that it is never "game over". I had three surgeries before my hysterectomy. I took a few years break after that and then adopted two beautiful daughters The oldest just graduated with her Masters in family therapy and the second is in college to be a journalist. I now look back on the fact that I was meant to be their mother. Life has mysterious ways of making your true destiny happen.❤❤
As an adoptee, I appreciate your saying this. My adoptive parents were the best, and how that they're both gone, I miss them tremendously. They were salt of the earth, and I feel that I could not have chosen better for myself.
@@lisacorcoran7327maybe your soul somehow did choose them and it just took you a while to reach them via this longer and winding road. ❤
So beautiful words.
@@lisacorcoran7327that’s lovely 💕
another adopted child who had amazing parents. family is family.
Always listen to those gut reactions when they are that strong. Those promptings come from your faith and the Spirit as you know. You feel peace, you feel right about this, you have the support - you got this, and God has you!
Not my body, not my life, not my place to comment on any of your decisions.
BUT because my life is so different, and these are experiences I won't have, I appreciate you sharing your perspective so that I can learn. Thank you!
I hardly comment but I just wanted to say that both of you seem securely attached which is rare in this day and age. The world needs more parents who are like you. Keep going, it’s going to work out ❤
Your positive spirit and perspective is awesome. Continue to follow your heart and your gut. Whatever happens, I think you both will make the best parents ever - stay strong! Prayers for the transfer and thereafter!!
We are currently on our break but due to my age, we aren't able to do it for long. Infertility and miscarriages take such a toll mentally. Thank you for sharing your story. It helps me hear others stories and talking about it is very cathartic as well.
when baby jessio finally gets here she's going to be such a miracle baby! I love you guys. Thanks for sharing. We are rooting for you! God bless you!
Amen 🙏
Your faith and optimism is inspiring. Prayers for you both.
Still praying and HOPING for both of you. Thank you for sharing your positivity and faith. I am homebound and watching your videos brighten my day and shows me that God is good. Blessings for you!😇
I have PCOS and endometriosis. We tried for 4 years to have kids. It was a long, horrible road. It was some of the absolute worst years of my life. We spent our life savings on fertility treatments. There were so many times I felt like giving up but in my heart I just couldn't. Thank God I didn't. My IVF twins are now 11 weeks old.
Jessi and Alessio, I just want to THANK you for your positivity, your faith and your attitudes. You have dealt with so much and as Alessio says, “the sun still shines.” I continue to pray for a miracle for you both.
I am praying for you, and you have opened my eyes to trying to see the positive, your example of how you saw the positive of what happened on the plane. I suffer with anxiety and I am going to try to look for the positive in things like you said. Thank you❤️
I have been amazed at your positivity. Praying for yall
I love your positivity and resilience in the midst of difficulties. Well done, guys. And I think you're so right not to go by the advice of strangers, even though folks are so kind, concerned and well meaning. Instead, listening to the advice of specialist doctors who know you, and Jessi listening to what your own body is telling you, seems such a wise way to go. xx
Oh Jesse. I’m so so sorry you are going through this. I suffered for over 20 years with it and was brushed off and had 2 horrific surgeries. I know that pain you describe on the plane. Oh my 😢. I pray for you and Alessio for peace and love. Thank you for sharing. Watching you now brought tears to my eyes knowing what you have suffered. 🙏🏼🌹🥰
Hi, I went to a natural health store because of my heavy cycles. I spent an hour with her. She said I needed to eat for my blood type. I am a type o. Caffeine and the food I was eating helps the cysts grow. So far I have had great luck with fasting and reading the book on eating for your blood type. I’ve lost weight and my cycles have improved. Good luck to all you guys. God is with us.
I just love you guys. 🤗 Your joyful attitudes are such a bright light for everyone who watches you. I pray for blessing upon blessing for you both.
You’re displaying true strength & courage. You’re going through all this, yet you are comforting your audience. We are with you. ❤
You help so many people by telling your story. You are both amazing ❤️
Go for it girl! Trust in your intuition! 💌*HUGS*
I was thinking the same thing, maybe this cyst rupturing now will clear things up enough for a healthy transfer/ implantation to happen!🤞🏼🙏🏼
I am so sorry 😞 😢for you both 😢. Prayers 🙏🏼 and Blessings to you both.
Praying for you both
Thank you so much!
Same..been praying so much for months! I want you to experience one of the most beautiful blessings in the world. 😢
Oh my gosh you guys are the sweetest people. Keep the faith. Don’t pay attention to statistics, and just keep moving forward. My pregnancies had so many twists and turns and statistical anomolies and so many things to be terrified by and in the end everything worked out. The struggle was just a part of the story. Doctors know so much, but they also know so very little about pregnancy. I think it will happen for you guys and I’ll be praying.
This is absolutely going to work. Y’all are about to become parents, and I am so excited for you! Sending all the positive vibes and love. Can’t wait for the good news!
Questa signora ha ragione. Forza ragazzi non arrendetevi! Sono sicura che Jessi rimarrà incinta.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is dr.porassss.
You two are giving God glory through all this and it's amazing to witness💓 You both are a blessing. Praying for you two!!
Praying for y’all in this rough time. Just know there is hope. I’ve had a cyst on each ovary and the one on my right side is still growing. It took us 4 transfers (8 losses) and we’re finally expecting. And at each ultrasound they measure the cyst and it’s still growing but they say we’re still good! There’s hope!!
Praying for us both on our transfers to be fruitful!!! Yall are doing amazing and your faith shining thru all the darkness. It gives me so much hope. I really pray God hears all our voices and answers! ❤
My doctor took out all of my cysts. I went and got acupuncture before IVF for infertility for increased blood flow. My doctor helped me and my 2 friends successfully and 2 coworkers that had failed attempts with other doctors all have babies. I am PRAYING so hard for you guys. If you ever want to come to Dallas you might want to give him a try. If not we are on this journey with you whatever it may take you. Good luck!
Praying for you all You all have stayed so strong and positive.
I went through fertility troubles and know what that can do to a couple mentally and emotionally. I’m so sorry you’re going through all of this, but I have to say, sharing your experiences and how you flip the script and make a negative medical experience into something to find gratitude in has really helped me with my health anxiety. It’s showing me that even medical things can be faced and dealt with one thing at a time while knowing that people are there to care for you. So, thanks.
I have tried everything short of IVF for 14 years ( I don't have enough money and my health insurance sucks) and I have endo, PCOS, and fibroids that just grow at an astronomical rate. I've had 2 ablations (that was supposed to stop my fibroids, nope). Now they finally figured out that I have been in perimenopause since I was 30. I wish you so much luck. It is heartwrenching.
I don’t even have words to express how much I admire you! To see how you’re going through this process and facing adversity with such grace and positivity is truly inspirational. I will keep you in my prayers. Sending lots of love ❤
Sending you guys tons of love and thoughts. Ironically, your videos give me solace; to know we’re not alone in this long and arduous infertility journey. ❤
I’m sorry for your struggle. My niece has endometriosis and has been through hell, but in the end..she got her beautiful baby miracle boy. Miracles do happen. Keep the faith❤
Such a wonderful attitude! Hoping and praying with you ....
Hi! I am so sorry for what you’re going through. I have endometriosis, too and I know how much it hurts and the anger, grief, confusion, frustration, and all of the emotions. Just know that everyone is behind you and no matter what, you will be okay. I think going with your gut and always have hope.
Sweetie hold on to your faith and go for it! Love and prayers go to both of you. Keep the positive vibe guys xo
Thank you so much!!
@@ThePasinisWill you go for another round of embryos creation if this transfer won't work?
we don't know if is possible! the plan was that but now the dr they need to understand what happened since it is a case that had never happened in their career
ciao
Alessio
I hope you see this post. I know someone who have endo (I also have polyps and painful periods) and since starting bouldering we both got pregnant for the first time in years. It’s not a coincidence. Something about climbing reduces the strain on the uterus and helps reduce inflammation and endo growth. Fingers cross for you x
I still stand firm in my belief that you 2 will be blessed beyond your wildest imagination.
Lord knows what he is doing.
You 2 stand strong in hope and faith. These trials gives your bond with each other it's glue to withstand the pressures. Never mind the naysayers, even if it is with good intentions they serve.
Prayers up for you all as always!🙇♀️❤🤗
We are with you and we are here to support you. You keep smiling as much as you can during this hard time to make it easier, but we know that inside it is more difficult and it is allowed to cry. Take your time to rest and don't stop. We pray for you.
Go forward it J & A! Your hope is 10%, love, support and God’s grace ❤
Hopefully all the bad signs everyone has told you about leads to something amazing. I love how positive you both are in this journey and refuse to be anything less. Sending you both lots of prayers
You are such troopers for discussing all of this publicly.
It cannot be easy.
But you are glass half full people, so It'll be alright I guess.
Thank you 🙏
May the Lord continue guiding both of you, darlings!!
Praying for you& your dr.s!
You sound like a couple determined to handle anything life throws at you. What amazing courage to share your vulnerabilities in the midst of the uncertainties. Your positivity is both infectious and inspiring. Coraggio!!
Hi, me and my husband have been ttcing for 6 month with no luck (adenemiosys and cysts so it should take a while). In the meantime, 3 of my friends got pregnant on the first try, so pretty isolating. Thank you so much for sharing your journey, it makes me feel less alone. I’m hoping you’ll be able to add a new member to your family, whatever the way it takes. Love from Belgium ❤
We tried for over a decade and 14 trials, also first issues with endometriosis, the last years with adenomiosys. I was pregnant 3x, lost them all in the first trimester. During this decade everyone around me became parents, even those who didn’t want/try to become. We gave up and we are trying surrogacy.
God bless you both - the emotional and physical toll on you is so sad, but you’re helping others understand a lot of medical ‘things’ that we didn’t know about. You are very strong! Thank you for sharing your journey! ❤
You guys are such an inspiration!!!! It's nice to be able to relate and know that you're not alone....
But I still hope of the best outcome for you guys!!!!
❤🙏this is a heartache that we are all feeling for you, but never give up on your dream! The two of you are already blessed as you know! Wishing you hope and the joy you are seeking!!❤🙏🫂
Sending prayers. You do you, Sweetie. You know your own body. As a retired nurse I've seen 10% turn out to be 100% successful.
Im so very sorry for how this journey is going for you both! But i do applaud your attitude in being so realistic and full of faith! All the best wishes from Amsterdam ❤
Go for it! I am so happy you are trusting your gut. Only you know what’s best for you. I am praying that doing so will get you your baby.
I also want to say that your miscarriage video helped me so much last year when I suffered one. Thank you for putting out such honest, real, and hopeful energy into the world. ❤️❤️❤️
You guys are so amazing. I pray for
You all the time and hope that you get the miracle that you deserve. So many people praying for you.
Sending prayers up for your miracle to come down❤
You two are incredible. Your strength as individuals and as a team, your faith and life philosophy... you are beautiful people and you shine.
Love you both! Fight on little soldiers! Smiles are the best medicine. Praying for you both... keep positive ❤ stay strong 💪😇
I will totally affirm you both in going forward in hope, faith and positivity, despite the way everything else may look like absolute darkness and tragedy. Without struggle and insurmountable odds, miracles wouldn't exist.
Big hugs from another in the thick of an IVF journey. I have scarring on the inside of my uterus from IUD and miscarriage/retained placenta and found out I’ll probably need a 3rd surgery before we can transfer. Some days it feels like the only guarantee is more complications when on paper things are supposed to work a certain way. ❤
Man you speak so much truth about that last part. Wishing you only the best and lots of success. If you end up needing another surgery, wishing speedy recovery! 🙏
You guys are a joy. You inspire so many people with your positivity. Thank you for sharing this journey with us. May God bless you both. ❤
I absolutely love how you both find the platinum silver lining on every single annoying cloud that tries to derail your journey. Sending positive thoughts and prayers for a 100% successful outcome.
You are such a gift to everyone who follows you. Your faith, the way you trust your intuition, the way you support each other & your non-judgmental acceptance of what life brings you are inspirational.
I wish you the best. My niece and her husband tried the ivf process. It was not until the 10th time that it was successful. God bless you both. I wish only success for you to complete your family.❤
As always keeping you both in my prayers 🙏🏻 I think the sign to see is how hopeful and resilient you are. Things happen and we cannot just give up. Praying all goes well on Monday 💕🥰🌸
Hope is the most important thing....they told me that the chance that I will ever be pregnant is at around: 2%...I have two children now...never lose hope....
I so love you both , I've never seen 2 people more dedicated and loving than the two of you ! I am praying for you both !
You are going to be fine, and ready for the transfer Monday. The diet will help reduce inflammation from the ruptured cyst and you will heal over the weekend. I also have a good feeling about this one. But I do think it's time to stay in Italy and let that become home, at least for a while. You do know what is best for you both.
Your persistence in the face of every roadblock thrown your way is inspirational. I went through a different kind of infertility (recurrent unexplained miscarriages) but the heartbreak/hope cycle is very much the same! Hugs
My heart is breaking for you two.
You both are so connected and strong for each other. I know that this is such an emotional roller coaster but you have each other to lean on. You will find a way to grow your family. Stay strong together 💕💕
I am so sorry for you. My🙏and best wishes to you.
Praying for you both. For mental, spiritual and physical strength. For peace in your journey and for acceptance of whatever may come for you both. Hold onto you hope and faith, it will take you far. ❤❤
I am so sorry to hear that. Please make sure you know when to stop and let go. Sometimes it needs exactly that to make things happen all of a sudden.. And sometimes its just not meant to be.
There are many children who desperately wish for parents.
There is always a way ❤
hope is so valuable and I'm so so glad you guys have kept hope and optimism during such a difficult season in your life ❣️❣️❣️
Everyone is holding you in their hearts.
Hi Alessio and Jessie! I am praying for a successful transfer for you guys! Don’t give up hope and trust your instincts! Much love, Juliet
I was adopted and it was the best thing that could have happened for me at the beginning of life. You'd make fine parents, regardless of how the baby arrives.
I'm so glad that worked for you. My husband and I don't want children but if (BIG IF) we changed our minds we would adopt
Yes yes guys, keep your faith through the rough times!! That is God giving you that peace of mind and the strength to push through and keep moving forward! That beautiful attitude you both have and the gratefulness is truly amazing to see!! I pray that you continue to have peace and joy going thru this journey and that you never lose that beautiful light and joy that shines through even through a recording! Lots of Love and Prayers for you!! ❤️❤️❤️
Never say Never. You are in God’s hands. Hold your vision of a beautiful healthy baby. Blessings ❤
I just love this couple. I love Jessi’s determination and positivity. I live Allessio’s dedication and loyalty and being right there wIth support at every step. Just love each other!
Sending virtual hugs.
Adoption is an option?
So many beautiful children looking for loving homes.
Thank you for your faith and positivity. I am going through my own medical trials and it helps to be reminded of the benefits of having a good mindset. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I’m so sorry. Continued prayers for y’all. ❤🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
I’m so sorry you are both going through this, hearing you talk breaks my heart ❤ Someone who has gone through IVF, I know how difficult this road is building your family. Sending prayers and hugs your way! ❤
People who haven’t been through awful things experiences don’t understand the power and importance hope. As someone who is in a place that feels hopeless, who has lost hope in general in life, I can’t tell you how important it’s been for me to see your hope through adversity. I’m in a very different situation of what’s making me hopeless, but still your hope is helping me to try and find my own. Since watching your videos, I’ve found myself wanting to pray the rosary. I started just a few weeks ago and I’ve found comfort and peace. Even though I’m only one person, you’ve had such an important impact on my life. I am thinking and praying for you 💜
Pray directly to Jesus. He is the intercessor.
Romans 8:34b-39 Christ Jesus is the one who died-more than that, who was raised-who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? As it is written, “For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
You speak my thoughts. I am also struggling with feelings of hopelessness, and although I am in an entirely different situation, Jessi and Alessio's positivity and hope are inspiring. May we find strength and hope again. I'm wishing Jessi and Alessio the very best on their journey and many thanks for sharing it with us! 🙌🏻
@@andreadilorenzo_ I do not desire praying directly to Jesus. I find more comfort in mother Mary.
It's obvious the two of you love each other. God bless you both. Maybe it's time to adopt.
Sending prayers and sending positive vibes!!
you guys are so incredibly brave! if somehow, someway you become parents, you will be incredible parents, an amazing team and a true blessing to all!