I think some of these ladies need to have a reality check. Most of the guys who do these tours are over 60. Like me. However, what I have found from my own experience is that post 40 many Filipinas let themselves go and gain a lot of weight. A foreigner will most likely want younger but also someone who has looked after herself. The last lady has a good chance of success I think. There is a ‘life stage’ sweet spot, less so age. A 50 year old woman who has looked after herself well, will be more attractive to me than a 30 year old who hasn’t. I’m 62, my Filipina ex is 46, but struggled to keep up with my outdoor oriented lifestyle. Know what you want, know what you have to offer and then look for someone to match with. Above all, be realistic. A foreigner is not going to solve problems in life that you have not managed to solve yourself.
6:56 "Not more than 60." Just a tip to her. It's a mistake to set any limits unless you are 100% it really is a limit. Then she says "Unless it's God's will, then OK." Problem is that then every 60+ guy knows you'd be settling for him. Some guys don't really like being a woman's last choice. I once chatted with an American woman on a dating site who contacted me. We had a fun chat and she asked me out. I said no because I'm 5' 9' and her profile said she only wanted men 5'10" and taller. She said "Oh, that's just a general thing." But you see for me it wasn't very smart. It told me she didn't understand men at all and didn't think about her actions. Not traits I wanted. And also, I didn't like being settled for. I want a woman who wants me rather than settles for me. She also wasn't very attractive so no need even for a date. Plus the kind of obvious thing about what kind of foreign men are going to PH. Not exactly plane loads of 40-59 year-old foreign men landing. And how many of them are looking for 45+ women? You're looking for unicorns. Sure, could happen. Maybe God's will is going to kick in. But maybe it was God's will you be realistic. Maybe God is thinking "I'm sending you plane loads of 60+ year-old men to PH and you're wanting 40-59?"
You'll be surprised to know that it's not new for us to encounter men who prioritize maturity over anything else. If God destined something to happen then let's just let that thread flow naturally. Que sera, sera 🥰
Great Filipinas over 40. But there's a rub which is the same for all women in the world over 40. Good ones have their act together. Many earning a good living, running a business they started. Grown kids, own their house. Sounds great The rub is they are not not budging. They have their life, have worked hard to get there and sure aren't giving that up to get on your plan. So if you're willing to move into her house, hand over your income, give her a kiss as she goes off to work while you watch TV at home and have dinner ready for her when she gets home then you're all set. Also expect to get a list of errands to do each day. Many retired guys might like a young Filipina because she's likely to not have a job or a crap job she's happy to quit and do whatever you want to do. They're a PITA to deal with, always on their phones, so imo that fun. Kind of Catch-22. I would certainly marry a 40+ Filipina but only if she agreed to move with me to Malaysia. Kind of sh*t test.
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I think some of these ladies need to have a reality check. Most of the guys who do these tours are over 60. Like me. However, what I have found from my own experience is that post 40 many Filipinas let themselves go and gain a lot of weight. A foreigner will most likely want younger but also someone who has looked after herself. The last lady has a good chance of success I think. There is a ‘life stage’ sweet spot, less so age. A 50 year old woman who has looked after herself well, will be more attractive to me than a 30 year old who hasn’t. I’m 62, my Filipina ex is 46, but struggled to keep up with my outdoor oriented lifestyle. Know what you want, know what you have to offer and then look for someone to match with. Above all, be realistic. A foreigner is not going to solve problems in life that you have not managed to solve yourself.
Age is the number you feel. Maturity is a blessing.
6:56 "Not more than 60." Just a tip to her. It's a mistake to set any limits unless you are 100% it really is a limit. Then she says "Unless it's God's will, then OK." Problem is that then every 60+ guy knows you'd be settling for him. Some guys don't really like being a woman's last choice.
I once chatted with an American woman on a dating site who contacted me. We had a fun chat and she asked me out. I said no because I'm 5' 9' and her profile said she only wanted men 5'10" and taller. She said "Oh, that's just a general thing." But you see for me it wasn't very smart. It told me she didn't understand men at all and didn't think about her actions. Not traits I wanted. And also, I didn't like being settled for. I want a woman who wants me rather than settles for me. She also wasn't very attractive so no need even for a date.
Plus the kind of obvious thing about what kind of foreign men are going to PH. Not exactly plane loads of 40-59 year-old foreign men landing. And how many of them are looking for 45+ women? You're looking for unicorns. Sure, could happen. Maybe God's will is going to kick in. But maybe it was God's will you be realistic. Maybe God is thinking "I'm sending you plane loads of 60+ year-old men to PH and you're wanting 40-59?"
You'll be surprised to know that it's not new for us to encounter men who prioritize maturity over anything else. If God destined something to happen then let's just let that thread flow naturally. Que sera, sera 🥰
I'm 69, a 40 year old woman is like a teeager to me. Not interested in 20 somethings.
I feel 35 but iam 60 that woman is so beautiful with the brown dress
It’s better when they are mature and know what they want as opposed to body hot and clueless.
Great Filipinas over 40. But there's a rub which is the same for all women in the world over 40. Good ones have their act together. Many earning a good living, running a business they started. Grown kids, own their house. Sounds great The rub is they are not not budging. They have their life, have worked hard to get there and sure aren't giving that up to get on your plan. So if you're willing to move into her house, hand over your income, give her a kiss as she goes off to work while you watch TV at home and have dinner ready for her when she gets home then you're all set. Also expect to get a list of errands to do each day.
Many retired guys might like a young Filipina because she's likely to not have a job or a crap job she's happy to quit and do whatever you want to do. They're a PITA to deal with, always on their phones, so imo that fun.
Kind of Catch-22. I would certainly marry a 40+ Filipina but only if she agreed to move with me to Malaysia. Kind of sh*t test.
Only if they are over 60.
Or they don’t want kids.
I’m 41, so I’d only date 20-31.
40yr old woman with kids can't compete with younger women. A younger woman has less miles and less baggage.
Everybody has a unique experience no matter the age preference. It's just making the right choice and that's the challenging part 🤭