Here I sit, taking notes! My mama passed away and this is the first thanksgiving of me cooking alone for the family. It will be a Sam’s club to the rescue for me!
I think it's so important to recognize that doing the hosting and spending time with the friends for friendsgiving is what is important. Your friends dont want you to cry - they are thrilled to spend the time with you and dont care if Costco did the meal prep for some of the dishes on the table
Don't do everything yourself. Ask your fiends to bring something to share. They will be more than willing and it will take a lot of the pressure off. If your chicken is frozen make a ham. If you can't do ham make a ziti. It's not about the food it is about the friends.
When people commented on how good a dish was that was store bought, my grandmother would say, "It"s an old family recipe." She told me it wasn't lying because it's somebody's family recipe. Lol
You are doing soooo good Jameriill, on some many levels. First, if plan A doesn’t work out, food for Friendsgivings, go to plan B, or C, or D, as needed. It’s the fun and fellowship others want. Where the food cames from doesn’t determine that! Second, something important to us breaks, let it go, move on, it will be okay. Yes!! I’ve had to do that so many times myself! God provides all that we have. Third, you are buying really fun & cool things for yourself e.g. mixer, and Lego Table for the kids. Keeping yourself healthy mentally and physically is first priority. Out of that you can manage your businesses, parenting, schooling, etc…. Tears as needed are cleansing. I pray for you that this unexpected, unwanted, transition time has many moments of joy, His Peace, and Hope for you. You are loved!❤
I don't know what is weighing heavy on your heart but I pray that God gives you strength and knowledge to navigate your situation 🙏🏼❤ this to shall pass!!
Watching your most recent videos has been so healing for me as a mom recovering from my own traumatic event a year ago. My family and I were forced to evacuate our home due to volcanic activity, we thought it would only be for a short time but we likely will never return. Easy dinners, frozen dinner "meal prep" and birthday and event food from Costco have been our go to. I feel like I'm slowly finding my way back but it takes many many baby steps which I have been beating myself up for. Your videos have been a sort of permission to do what makes me less likely to cry like you say ❤ It has been good for my soul
Jamerill, adding a comment to help you pay for that huge Costco haul! 😊. Wishing I could transport myself there to help you prep for that party. Imparting the words to you that I said to myself over and over when I was experiencing my own trauma: just keep breathing in and out…you will make it through this, God be your helper.
I'm a mama that's not currently in active crisis and this is just something I do also from time to time! We need to give ourselves grace and sometimes supermarket ready made meals are just what we need. Your selection looks delicious and I bet it'll be a fantastic party around friends and family. The important bits are the ones around your table, not what's on it 🖤
I am a few days late to commenting, but you have no idea how much I needed this video. I cannot put myself in your shoes, nor am I trying to, or trying to relate to your own struggles. But as someone who lost my mom last year, and my dad this year, I am facing the reality of having no parents for the holidays for the first time this year. And yet also trying to create some type of new normal for my kids who were super close to them. So, after watching this, I am going to stress less about the food and Costco here I come! God Bless ❤
Grief comes in so many forms, I lost my 20 year old daughter 3 years ago and it’s so hard to move on. I have to ask the Holy Spirit to help me everyday in order for me to get up and get going. In 2022 I was diagnosed with cancer and again it was another form of grief but I never felt scared I was at total peace through it all. When you call on the Lord he will hear you and help you.
Sending my sincere condolences and prayers. I understand your grief and it is a journey. My oldest passed away at 23, his brother passed away at age 26 which was 3 years later. My husband and I went for a walk and I came home a widow. This was five years after our second son passed away. My baby boy was diagnosed with Lupus. He fought to live and the last year of his life he had eighteen operations to stop internal bleeding. He passed away November 10th. My birthday is November 20 and my baby boy's birthday is November 28th. He was my Thanksgiving blessing when he was born. I have anxiety attacks thinking about the holidays. I am not doing anything cooking or otherwise. I go walking a lot. I talk to my family and just try to not think. Grief is hard, so very hard. It doesn't get better with time and I have never got past it. Some days breathing is an effort and my heart aches. It's hard being alone and on my own. I always had my family. Now it's just me and to be perfectly honest the tears fall daily and I am so very angry. Maybe my anger will change but I know my heart will always ache. Sending you a big hug from Florida. I hope you are feeling better and getting stronger in your own personal health journey. ❤❤
@jwalt2021. I am so happy to hear that you have Our Lord and Savior in your heart and soul to maintain you in this life until you are reunited with your daughter in Heaven. In the meantime, Jesus gives us precious memories to sustain us here on Earth. I will remember you in my prayers.
You're providing a wonderful fellowship with friends and family. The important portion of that is in no way diminished by not cooking everything from scratch. You're giving yourself a break so you can enjoy the company of the people you love with much less stress. Everyone will be well fed and well loved and full of joy, yourself included.
My home was flooded from the storm surge in Helene (I live in Tampa), lost all my memories and belongings and after $20k in repairs my neighbors broken pipes reflooded my home… I so related to the “that’s great..like everything.” 😂 sometimes things are so bad you just gotta let a couple things go. Even when the thing is a couple thousand dollar camera breaking. Sending you love. ❤️
Yaay so proud of you getting the kitchen aid mixer, you deserve pretty things to make like easier. Just remember the folks coming to your friends giving just want to make memories with you and your children because they love and care about you all. Don't put pressure on yourself to do everything, we always bring sides or desserts when a friend hosts.
I had foot and ankle reconstruction surgery yesterday, as I watch this I just get exhausted yet excited for the holidays. I’m sad because I to am a runner it transformed my life and I haven’t been able to run since July. It helps me in so many ways I used to throw on my worship music and hit the pavement. I’m so amazed by you Jamerill for years you’ve done mega and lots. I’m happy that you are pushing through and yet being gentle on yourself. I’m keeping you and your family in my prayers. I’m asking for prayers for my recovery and soon I’ll be able to jog this time next year. Xo
Yes, sweetheart you made this older lady's day. I'm so happy that you told yourself it was ok to do your cooking at Costco. The beautiful things are you are enjoying it with very special people in your life.🙂💖
I’m really feelin’ the season of life you are in Ms.J, but you are so strong and you absolutely are… “doin’ it”! Just keep reminding yourself that seasons change, we grow, we learn something (good or bad) and at the end of digging out of the pile of steaming… lessons… you will overcome and be even stronger. Maybe not tomorrow, so until then keep “doin’ it” however it works. #improudofus ❤❤❤
Thank you for this…. This year I ordered my whole meal…. It took all of my energy just to be able to did that….. I hope you and your family have a Happy Thanksgiving!
Please be alert this time of year especially about leaving your purse in the cart. They don't need your whole bag, just slip their hand in and grab your wallet.
My mum passed away just two weeks before Christmas 2021 and it was a hard holiday we all cried and it was not this Christmas we were expecting but I was also special because we put together Christmas mum would have been proud of. The holidays are still not the same but we are trying.
Struggles happen and you do what you need to do, not what is expected of you and those in your life that love you, they know this and will respect you for what you are able to do. We love that you share your fight because that shows all of us, myself included, that the fight to go through every day leads to the end of the day. That mean you live to fight another day. Keep yourself in your prayers because so many of us forget that we need to add our own being into our thoughts.
I almost spit out my coffee… “I can’t handle a black stone and 57 children.” Girl you are priceless! Followed up with “Look I meal prepped.” Bahahahaha
Where I live, it is impolite to do everything from scratch and be super perfect, this sets standards for others which they may not be able to meet, hence they may feel like “not good enough” to host. We literally brag about how little effort it was and that all was store bought, just to make getting together a little more manageable. ❤
Jamerill I never normally post to you but 8 watch how you’ve evolved over the last year. Please don’t worry your friends will be just exceptionally happy to having a friends giving with you xxx
This is a great way to do friend’s giving. Costco will take back anything, so pie not liked, they will take it back. That crowd though someone sure to eat most of that food. I’m a small household so sometimes that’s my reality. Enjoy your holiday in whatever way you do.
A couple days late watching this but from this Virginia born single mama is impressed! Your Friendsgiving will be amazing with the variety of foods you have chosen. Also have to admit that every year for Thanksgiving and Christmas, I have a lot of hide in my bedroom meltdowns. But for one reason or another, by January, I feel refreshed and ready to tackle the new year. Sending many blessing and gratitude in this coming holiday season and may the new year bring you absolute peace and happiness. ❤
That looks like one fantastic party- your guests are SO lucky.The food all looks wonderful . There is no shame or issue with buying the food and not making it whether you have recipes or not. You are providing the venue and invitations and food to get everyone together. Your family will make some wonderful memories .I’ll bet they’ll think fondly on this wonderful “ Costco party “ for years to come
You are doing an amazing job Jamerrill. Sometimes we just need to give ourselves grace and if buying Costco helps it make life just a little bit easier, than Costco it is. Your friends are there to spend time with you and shouldn’t care where the food came from. I watch your videos for strength and encouragement. You are an amazing Momma and person and I’m glad I found your channel. May God Bless you and give you strength for any trauma/grief you are experiencing.
I'm so happy you made this video! There's just some times when we just can't and you show us that we can, just in a different way and it's ok. Thanks Jammeril!
I don't usually comment but I really enjoy watching how you be the best version of yourself with patience and self love you are good for me and I know I can learn a lot from you this is why I will continue to watch your content so Thank You from my family to yours. Happy Holidays ♥
Thank you for being real and raw. That’s truly why I watch your content. I’m sure thousands of people tell you what an inspiration you are and how well you seem to be holding it down. You are amazing and I pray you’ll emerge from the sad darkness/trauma and find the sparkle of joy in all things. Hang in there 🙏
I gave up all the extra heaviness this year and ordered Cracker Barrel family meals to pick up for our gathering. All I want is to spend less time in the kitchen and more time with my family. It’s exactly what I needed in this season. So grateful! Happy and Blessed Thanksgiving to you and yours!
Good job taking the pressure of yourself. Your family and friends are coming to spend time and make memories. You're doing a fabulous job as a single mum of 9, precious children and giving them a good life and memories to treasure. Never be afraid to ask for help. Happy friendsgiving, enjoy you deserve it. Love from Belfast, Ireland 💚
Sweet Lady, you are so much, like leaps and bounds over last years events. The time you share with us is very precious as we all know your finding your new normal. You did an amazing job and the end is a shared meal with loved ones and friends. So if costco, or walmart prepared it you chose it and in the end it was a wonderful time. Blessings and love ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I am so proud of you for putting yourself out there, and doing this dinner. I am proud of you for not cooking the meal like you usually do. I am proud of you moving forward , and you are doing it. I am proud of you for not crying, and just saving those cry’s at night so you can stay strong for everyone else. Just take care of you too ok? Sending big Donna hugs from NY!!
People don't care who did the cooking, they are just happy to be with you! Thank you for showing us that we can host things even if we can't do all the hard prep. I might change my stance on hosting Christmas this year! Thank you dear lady.
I want to give you a big hug and tell you that brighter days are coming, and everything you're going through now and for the past year and a half will make you stronger. You're putting out a beautiful spread for your party. I'm sure your friends are happy to see you doing things again and happy to spend a fun time with you and the kids. I'll be waiting to see the next video. Have fun and enjoy the party. ❤ I know it's going to be amazing and just what you need to brighten your spirits.
You crying during an occasional video shows us your compassionate soul and when I cry along with you it releases any hurt or pain. I lost a sister 2 months ago and this pass weekend a brother had a brain aneurysm and surgery which in turn caused a mini stroke so seeing your tears help me release mine trying to be brave/strong for my other family members when what I needed was to release my soul of the burden of the pain and see outward of the plans God has to why this is all happening. Love you sweet girl
@@JamerrillStewart thank you for your compassion and sympathy and through your years I was able to release my pain I know God has a purpose for all of us but being human is hard to rationalize why. Thank you for being your true self in a world in upheaval 🥰
Jamerrill you made my heart sing buying all the things!!🤣☺ Yay for you!! I'm going for a more family focused, less time in the kitchen Thanksgiving this year too.
I don’t usually comment much But right now I really feel led to ask Everyone to Please pray for my sister Heather She is only 49 years old & 4 weeks ago she had a stroke they had to perform emergency brain surgery to remove swelling & blood clots from her brain then from her arms & had a filter put in.. after a couple of weeks they found out that she has stage 4 colon cancer that has spread to her liver.. Yesterday she came home under the care of Hospice.. We are praying for a Miracle that Only God can provide.. She is a Wonderful Mother of 5 boys a Grandma of 1 and Her Husband & her are Pastors of their church..We know the power of prayer in numbers, Will you all Please pray for complete healing?
Praying for your sister Heather, may Jesus wrap her in healing and comfort. May God bless the hands of the Doctors and the medical team in charge of her care.
Hello, Heather is in my prayer book. I'm terminally ill and in no way can my specialists explain how I'm still alive 14 years after they gave me two at the most. I say it's God's miracles keeping me breathing. I hope that in some way my experience will help you and your family, especially your sister. I know it's two weeks later but I wanted to let you know that I saw your message and felt moved by it because I can relate to the struggle to stay alive and positive. I also have extensive blood clots so in some way I understand what a horrific thing your sister is coping with and I'm a similar age at 46. I lost my mum to stage four cancer nearly four years ago (on the day after Christmas) and 13 months later I found Dad after he unexpectedly but peacefully passed away in his sleep. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. God I pray as we go into this holiday season that a feeling of peace rests over this special family. God I know you hold us when we fall down and I pray you are holding Heather and by your grace please place your hand on her heart to heal her body. Lord please take away the evil cancer that has no place in anyone of your children. She along with her husband have been faithful soldiers of yours and only you know the number of people they has helped over their time as pastor's but I can imagine it being too many to count. She has brought up five boys one of which blessed her with a grandchild. She is wanted, needed and loved. She has future grandchildren to pass her knowledge on to. She needs to show the great love she has for each and every one of them. At this point from my experience I know she is in pain so I pray that you take that away. God I hope that countless people saw Heather's sister comment and felt like myself that they were meant to watch this video, read the comments section and also feel the strong need to pray for this family. God I believe in the power of prayer and it is a gift you gave us all, Amen. I don't normally pray out loud but all these thoughts came into my head as I read your comment. That happens often as I pray every day that God guides me to someone whether online or in person. I don't get out much these days and I spend a lot of time in bed or on the couch but with God's grace I can still be useful. I had to give up being a teacher and foster mum. I felt that I lostmy purpose in life but even though it's not as great a purpose I feel that prayer or a conversation with someone who needs a listening ear could be enough of a purpose to make it worth living. Please know thst I'll continue to pray for Heather and all of her loved ones.
Jamerrill I grew up cooking for large dinners when mom couldn't. People were always coming to dinner. After I got married I did most of the holiday cooking for yrs and had a full time job. I was so exhausted but did it because mom asked. Now that she's gone I always make it as easy on myself as possible. If she was still here I would make it easier. I also worked awhile in a deli. The food we made is to make it easier on families. Always think of yourself and not just the others for if you don't then what would happen to all those beautiful kids do without you. Have a great Friendsgiving. 🍁🧡🍁
Jamerrill, you are amazing! I know how hard it is to buy ready made food after doing all the things for so many years and I heard it in your voice over and over again on this video. I made our own butter, mayo, breads, dried our own spices, canned all the veggies- for YEARS! My children didn't know the store bought stuff was even edible. But then we went through a dark hard time. I bought butter, mayo, bread, spices and took a break from the garden and fields in order to survive. Last fall we did Friendsgiving and it was so healing... I do hope the tears can come after your party, and flow freely, and that they will be healing tears. Because it is okay to do what it takes to get through, and you are doing it!!! Love to you today!
Thank you so much for taking my guilt away. At 70 had to go back to work . Raising 3 teens not old enough to drive, so I also shoffer. I'm tired but want Thanksgiving dinner. God Bless
Friend, I miss the part where you shared the address and time of the party. I will catch a flight after watching all of the goodies you got at Costco omg omg omg🥰. GREAT JOB!!!
So glad you decided to go to Costco! It will be a great party! Enjoy! I’m having company and have been wondering how to handle everything, so I’m going to Sam’s. At 76 years old, I have a small home now, so I am feeding 10. I have always cooked huge dinners throughout the holidays. You are the inspiration for all things cooking. Happy Friends Giving! We are doing this!! Love❤
Honestly, if your home is warm and cozy and the company is good, premade food tastes delicious. I’ve learned that what makes food truly good is the sharing of it. I’m doing a pre-Christmas get-together, and it’s all store-bought quiches, cinnamon rolls, frozen cream puffs and eclairs, dips, chips, and nuts. And we’ll all be joyful!
Burned into my memory is a video of you starting your video eating from a vegan tub of cookie dough while pregnant. I thought it was the best mom moment ever. And today I was thinking "get that mama her cookie dough.". Your ability to pivot is inspiring. I love it.
Seeing you so excited for all the Christmas things again makes my heart smile. xo. Thank you Costco!! Love a Costco haul day myself haaa. Saving the day. And it's all yummmm. Love that charteuserie board and how Wonderful it has so many memories on it. All what you bought will be so so well loved and make everyone so happy. You will be the hit host for sure. hugs and love fun fun fun :)
WOW! What a spread! Now I want to come to your Friendsgiving! You treat your people well. AND THERE WAS THAT SMILE! LOVE IT! There is absolutely nothing wrong with tears but I love to see your smile. You light up a room. Blessings to you sweet Jamerrill and your beautiful babes. HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Love watching your video's you so realistic. You make me snile even simple things as you putting the lego piece back on. Many people get pre made items for holidays. Your friends are coming together to be thankful for your friendship, support etc nothing else the food is a bonus x
I love that you are providing yourself and your family the peace and harmony and cozy comfort you all need in this season. God bless y'all real good. ❤❤❤
Having a holiday or get together doesn’t mean you have your spend all your time cooking. It’s about enjoying your time and if easy or convenience foods are available you should use them. Have fun don’t let it be overwhelming.
In the past I’ve thrown many large Friendsgiving parties and the most important thing has always been the people. Everyone craves the community and love found in gathering. The food is just a bonus. I know you had a wonderful time!
This lady crack me up. I just started watching her and I have to say I don’t know if what she says sometimes is supposed to be a joke or she’s serious. In the beginning I was like she didn’t just say that? And then I realized she was only joking. That’s a good thing.
Here I sit, taking notes! My mama passed away and this is the first thanksgiving of me cooking alone for the family. It will be a Sam’s club to the rescue for me!
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom's passing.❤
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Prayers for your Mama
I'm so sorry about your mom. Sams does have amazing Thanksgiving options. You will be covered there. One less thing to worry about.
You can do it, take it easy on yourself and ask your village for help.
I think it's so important to recognize that doing the hosting and spending time with the friends for friendsgiving is what is important. Your friends dont want you to cry - they are thrilled to spend the time with you and dont care if Costco did the meal prep for some of the dishes on the table
Exactly this! Holdays are for everyone to enjoy- including the host!
Don't do everything yourself. Ask your fiends to bring something to share. They will be more than willing and it will take a lot of the pressure off. If your chicken is frozen make a ham. If you can't do ham make a ziti. It's not about the food it is about the friends.
When people commented on how good a dish was that was store bought, my grandmother would say, "It"s an old family recipe." She told me it wasn't lying because it's somebody's family recipe. Lol
@@kathrynturnbull3894 hahaha this made me laugh! Brilliance ! I'm going to start saying this 😅😂🩷
I love that ❤😂
Haha that’s hilarious!
My auntie would say let them think it's homemade. Who cares either way
I LOVE grandmother's wisdom!❤
There is no harm in making things easy for yourself when you aren't feeling the best. Retail therapy is also very good for thr soul. ❤
You are doing soooo good Jameriill, on some many levels.
First, if plan A doesn’t work out, food for Friendsgivings, go to plan B, or C, or D, as needed. It’s the fun and fellowship others want. Where the food cames from doesn’t determine that!
Second, something important to us breaks, let it go, move on, it will be okay. Yes!! I’ve had to do that so many times myself! God provides all that we have.
Third, you are buying really fun & cool things for yourself e.g. mixer, and Lego Table for the kids. Keeping yourself healthy mentally and physically is first priority. Out of that you can manage your businesses, parenting, schooling, etc…. Tears as needed are cleansing. I pray for you that this unexpected, unwanted, transition time has many moments of joy, His Peace, and Hope for you. You are loved!❤
"We're not going to cry at Costco." Oh, Sis. I feel this!! ❤
I don't know what is weighing heavy on your heart but I pray that God gives you strength and knowledge to navigate your situation 🙏🏼❤ this to shall pass!!
Watching your most recent videos has been so healing for me as a mom recovering from my own traumatic event a year ago. My family and I were forced to evacuate our home due to volcanic activity, we thought it would only be for a short time but we likely will never return. Easy dinners, frozen dinner "meal prep" and birthday and event food from Costco have been our go to. I feel like I'm slowly finding my way back but it takes many many baby steps which I have been beating myself up for. Your videos have been a sort of permission to do what makes me less likely to cry like you say ❤ It has been good for my soul
Jamerill, adding a comment to help you pay for that huge Costco haul! 😊. Wishing I could transport myself there to help you prep for that party. Imparting the words to you that I said to myself over and over when I was experiencing my own trauma: just keep breathing in and out…you will make it through this, God be your helper.
Wise words.
I'm so grateful for the prayers and support! 🙏
Whether you cook it from scratch or heat it up…people are being fed! Good job momma!! Like you say “give yourself some grace “.
That is so true! 💗
I'm a mama that's not currently in active crisis and this is just something I do also from time to time! We need to give ourselves grace and sometimes supermarket ready made meals are just what we need.
Your selection looks delicious and I bet it'll be a fantastic party around friends and family. The important bits are the ones around your table, not what's on it 🖤
You’re so right - it’s the people that make the party! 💖
When hosting sometimes the most important thing on the menu is sanity. Hope you have a wonderful friendsgiving!
I am a few days late to commenting, but you have no idea how much I needed this video. I cannot put myself in your shoes, nor am I trying to, or trying to relate to your own struggles. But as someone who lost my mom last year, and my dad this year, I am facing the reality of having no parents for the holidays for the first time this year. And yet also trying to create some type of new normal for my kids who were super close to them. So, after watching this, I am going to stress less about the food and Costco here I come! God Bless ❤
Jamerill, the narration is making me giggle in the best way. Yes, we're doing it!
Grief comes in so many forms, I lost my 20 year old daughter 3 years ago and it’s so hard to move on. I have to ask the Holy Spirit to help me everyday in order for me to get up and get going. In 2022 I was diagnosed with cancer and again it was another form of grief but I never felt scared I was at total peace through it all. When you call on the Lord he will hear you and help you.
Sending my sincere condolences and prayers. I understand your grief and it is a journey. My oldest passed away at 23, his brother passed away at age 26 which was 3 years later. My husband and I went for a walk and I came home a widow. This was five years after our second son passed away. My baby boy was diagnosed with Lupus. He fought to live and the last year of his life he had eighteen operations to stop internal bleeding. He passed away November 10th. My birthday is November 20 and my baby boy's birthday is November 28th. He was my Thanksgiving blessing when he was born. I have anxiety attacks thinking about the holidays. I am not doing anything cooking or otherwise. I go walking a lot. I talk to my family and just try to not think. Grief is hard, so very hard. It doesn't get better with time and I have never got past it. Some days breathing is an effort and my heart aches. It's hard being alone and on my own. I always had my family. Now it's just me and to be perfectly honest the tears fall daily and I am so very angry. Maybe my anger will change but I know my heart will always ache. Sending you a big hug from Florida. I hope you are feeling better and getting stronger in your own personal health journey. ❤❤
Praying for you and yes, He hears us when we call as a loving Father does!!
Thank you for sharing. I needed to hear this.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter! And you are right, the Lord is with us, and I feel him carrying burdens.
@jwalt2021. I am so happy to hear that you have Our Lord and Savior in your heart and soul to maintain you in this life until you are reunited with your daughter in Heaven. In the meantime, Jesus gives us precious memories to sustain us here on Earth. I will remember you in my prayers.
I don't know how you're pulling it together, but momma, you're doing it! I can't wait to see how it turns out!
We’ll be making it work for sure! 😁
You're providing a wonderful fellowship with friends and family. The important portion of that is in no way diminished by not cooking everything from scratch. You're giving yourself a break so you can enjoy the company of the people you love with much less stress. Everyone will be well fed and well loved and full of joy, yourself included.
Please don’t have guilt for NOT making everything! It’s better you live your best life, smile and enjoy yourself -- Let Costco do the work!
I am so happy that Costco came through for your Friendsgiving event. I hope you make special memories with family and friends. ❤
I am loving this video, because why should we cook? lol
My home was flooded from the storm surge in Helene (I live in Tampa), lost all my memories and belongings and after $20k in repairs my neighbors broken pipes reflooded my home… I so related to the “that’s great..like everything.” 😂 sometimes things are so bad you just gotta let a couple things go. Even when the thing is a couple thousand dollar camera breaking. Sending you love. ❤️
Yaay so proud of you getting the kitchen aid mixer, you deserve pretty things to make like easier.
Just remember the folks coming to your friends giving just want to make memories with you and your children because they love and care about you all. Don't put pressure on yourself to do everything, we always bring sides or desserts when a friend hosts.
I had foot and ankle reconstruction surgery yesterday, as I watch this I just get exhausted yet excited for the holidays. I’m sad because I to am a runner it transformed my life and I haven’t been able to run since July. It helps me in so many ways I used to throw on my worship music and hit the pavement. I’m so amazed by you Jamerill for years you’ve done mega and lots. I’m happy that you are pushing through and yet being gentle on yourself. I’m keeping you and your family in my prayers. I’m asking for prayers for my recovery and soon I’ll be able to jog this time next year. Xo
Those punkin pies at Costco are the bomb. You are NOT hurting or depriving any guests with those!
You know what’s up! 🦃🥰
Always a good day when there’s a new Jamerrill video ❤
Thanks for watching 🦃
I agree!
Amen!
Yes I had stuff to do but that can wait!😂
That's a fact. Just listening to her voice and her journey helps me.
You go, girl!! Make things happen!! Love n Prayers
Yes, sweetheart you made this older lady's day. I'm so happy that you told yourself it was ok to do your cooking at Costco. The beautiful things are you are enjoying it with very special people in your life.🙂💖
I’m really feelin’ the season of life you are in Ms.J, but you are so strong and you absolutely are… “doin’ it”! Just keep reminding yourself that seasons change, we grow, we learn something (good or bad) and at the end of digging out of the pile of steaming… lessons… you will overcome and be even stronger. Maybe not tomorrow, so until then keep “doin’ it” however it works. #improudofus ❤❤❤
By whatever means necessary, survive and thrive. I cancelled the holidays this year to focus on self-care. You are doing an excellent job, Lady!
Thank you for this…. This year I ordered my whole meal…. It took all of my energy just to be able to did that….. I hope you and your family have a Happy Thanksgiving!
Nothing wrong with that. Enjoy!
Good for you! We did that last year, when I could barely breathe, and it was such a blessing!
Will be an even better Friendsgiving. As you have taken the pressure off. Nothing left but to enjoy.
Please be alert this time of year especially about leaving your purse in the cart. They don't need your whole bag, just slip their hand in and grab your wallet.
My mum passed away just two weeks before Christmas 2021 and it was a hard holiday we all cried and it was not this Christmas we were expecting but I was also special because we put together Christmas mum would have been proud of. The holidays are still not the same but we are trying.
I can’t imagine how hard that was!! Christmas will never be the same! I’m glad you were able to put together a Christmas your mom would be proud of!
Don’t forget the rebate for the Kitchen Aid mixer.
Struggles happen and you do what you need to do, not what is expected of you and those in your life that love you, they know this and will respect you for what you are able to do. We love that you share your fight because that shows all of us, myself included, that the fight to go through every day leads to the end of the day. That mean you live to fight another day. Keep yourself in your prayers because so many of us forget that we need to add our own being into our thoughts.
I almost spit out my coffee… “I can’t handle a black stone and 57 children.” Girl you are priceless! Followed up with “Look I meal prepped.” Bahahahaha
I know, I am such a goofball. 😂
This is prob my fav video. Take it easy momma. This holidays are difficult for different reasons. Costco tells you what you’re gonna buy.
Where I live, it is impolite to do everything from scratch and be super perfect, this sets standards for others which they may not be able to meet, hence they may feel like “not good enough” to host. We literally brag about how little effort it was and that all was store bought, just to make getting together a little more manageable. ❤
Awesome job, Jamerrill . Definitely taking care of YOU. Proud of you sweetheart 😊
God blessed you with the grace of generosity. I'm so touched by your humanity. Bless you and your family with a joyous holiday season.
Jamerill I never normally post to you but 8 watch how you’ve evolved over the last year. Please don’t worry your friends will be just exceptionally happy to having a friends giving with you xxx
There is nothing wrong with treating yourself to a new mixer. I'm glad you got it. That's a great buy.
I'm so proud of you for doing what you need to do in your mama life.
Right decision on kitchen aid and yes Cosco will replace if something happens.
This is a great way to do friend’s giving.
Costco will take back anything, so pie not liked, they will take it back. That crowd though someone sure to eat most of that food. I’m a small household so sometimes that’s my reality.
Enjoy your holiday in whatever way you do.
A couple days late watching this but from this Virginia born single mama is impressed! Your Friendsgiving will be amazing with the variety of foods you have chosen. Also have to admit that every year for Thanksgiving and Christmas, I have a lot of hide in my bedroom meltdowns. But for one reason or another, by January, I feel refreshed and ready to tackle the new year. Sending many blessing and gratitude in this coming holiday season and may the new year bring you absolute peace and happiness. ❤
You did it sweet Mega Momma. Thanksgiving & Friendsgiving is going to be magnificent❤❤❤❤❤
That looks like one fantastic party- your guests are SO lucky.The food all looks wonderful .
There is no shame or issue with buying the food and not making it whether you have recipes or not. You are providing the venue and invitations and food to get everyone together. Your family will make some wonderful memories .I’ll bet they’ll think fondly on this wonderful “ Costco party “ for years to come
Man that Lego table looks great!
You are doing an amazing job Jamerrill. Sometimes we just need to give ourselves grace and if buying Costco helps it make life just a little bit easier, than Costco it is. Your friends are there to spend time with you and shouldn’t care where the food came from. I watch your videos for strength and encouragement. You are an amazing Momma and person and I’m glad I found your channel. May God Bless you and give you strength for any trauma/grief you are experiencing.
It's not about the food we eat it's about who we are chairing the food with that matters.
Happy nearly thanksgiving 🎉
happy 😊 happy!!
I'm so happy you made this video! There's just some times when we just can't and you show us that we can, just in a different way and it's ok. Thanks Jammeril!
Your get-together sounds so fun! It's always great to be able to buy ready-made food to make life a little easier.
I don't usually comment but I really enjoy watching how you be the best version of yourself with patience and self love you are good for me and I know I can learn a lot from you this is why I will continue to watch your content so Thank You from my family to yours. Happy Holidays ♥
Thank you for being real and raw. That’s truly why I watch your content. I’m sure thousands of people tell you what an inspiration you are and how well you seem to be holding it down. You are amazing and I pray you’ll emerge from the sad darkness/trauma and find the sparkle of joy in all things. Hang in there 🙏
Wow mega haul ! Have a wonderful party ! We do love you Jamerrill ! 🍁🛒🍁
I gave up all the extra heaviness this year and ordered Cracker Barrel family meals to pick up for our gathering. All I want is to spend less time in the kitchen and more time with my family. It’s exactly what I needed in this season. So grateful!
Happy and Blessed Thanksgiving to you and yours!
Good job taking the pressure of yourself. Your family and friends are coming to spend time and make memories. You're doing a fabulous job as a single mum of 9, precious children and giving them a good life and memories to treasure. Never be afraid to ask for help. Happy friendsgiving, enjoy you deserve it. Love from Belfast, Ireland 💚
Sweet Lady, you are so much, like leaps and bounds over last years events. The time you share with us is very precious as we all know your finding your new normal. You did an amazing job and the end is a shared meal with loved ones and friends. So if costco, or walmart prepared it you chose it and in the end it was a wonderful time. Blessings and love ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Holidays are stressful enough without all the cooking. Simplify if you can.
I am so proud of you for putting yourself out there, and doing this dinner. I am proud of you for not cooking the meal like you usually do. I am proud of you moving forward , and you are doing it. I am proud of you for not crying, and just saving those cry’s at night so you can stay strong for everyone else. Just take care of you too ok? Sending big Donna hugs from NY!!
I’m doing my first Friendsgiving on the 22nd.! I’m so excited. 🦋💗🙏Bless you and your beautiful family.
I hope you have a wonderful time !
That's so fun - hope you have a great time celebrating with your friends!
@ Thank you! Happy Thanksgiving for you and your family! 🦃🙏💗
People don't care who did the cooking, they are just happy to be with you! Thank you for showing us that we can host things even if we can't do all the hard prep. I might change my stance on hosting Christmas this year! Thank you dear lady.
I want to give you a big hug and tell you that brighter days are coming, and everything you're going through now and for the past year and a half will make you stronger. You're putting out a beautiful spread for your party. I'm sure your friends are happy to see you doing things again and happy to spend a fun time with you and the kids. I'll be waiting to see the next video. Have fun and enjoy the party. ❤ I know it's going to be amazing and just what you need to brighten your spirits.
Less stress, less mess, you've got this!!
You crying during an occasional video shows us your compassionate soul and when I cry along with you it releases any hurt or pain. I lost a sister 2 months ago and this pass weekend a brother had a brain aneurysm and surgery which in turn caused a mini stroke so seeing your tears help me release mine trying to be brave/strong for my other family members when what I needed was to release my soul of the burden of the pain and see outward of the plans God has to why this is all happening. Love you sweet girl
Oh honey, I’m so sorry for your losses. ❤️🩹
@@JamerrillStewart thank you for your compassion and sympathy and through your years I was able to release my pain I know God has a purpose for all of us but being human is hard to rationalize why. Thank you for being your true self in a world in upheaval 🥰
I love when you talk to the food!!!
Jamerrill you made my heart sing buying all the things!!🤣☺ Yay for you!! I'm going for a more family focused, less time in the kitchen Thanksgiving this year too.
You go girl ‼️👍🏻. I can totally relate to the holiday need for a Costco purchased meal. Yes I can 🥳👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I don’t usually comment much But right now I really feel led to ask Everyone to Please pray for my sister Heather She is only 49 years old & 4 weeks ago she had a stroke they had to perform emergency brain surgery to remove swelling & blood clots from her brain then from her arms & had a filter put in.. after a couple of weeks they found out that she has stage 4 colon cancer that has spread to her liver.. Yesterday she came home under the care of Hospice.. We are praying for a Miracle that Only God can provide.. She is a Wonderful Mother of 5 boys a Grandma of 1 and Her Husband & her are Pastors of their church..We know the power of prayer in numbers, Will you all Please pray for complete healing?
Prayers for Heather...Amen..
Praying for your sister Heather, may Jesus wrap her in healing and comfort. May God bless the hands of the Doctors and the medical team in charge of her care.
Continued prayers...
Thank-you to All who prayed for my lil sister, She went home to be with Jesus Tuesday morning..💔
Hello, Heather is in my prayer book. I'm terminally ill and in no way can my specialists explain how I'm still alive 14 years after they gave me two at the most. I say it's God's miracles keeping me breathing. I hope that in some way my experience will help you and your family, especially your sister. I know it's two weeks later but I wanted to let you know that I saw your message and felt moved by it because I can relate to the struggle to stay alive and positive. I also have extensive blood clots so in some way I understand what a horrific thing your sister is coping with and I'm a similar age at 46. I lost my mum to stage four cancer nearly four years ago (on the day after Christmas) and 13 months later I found Dad after he unexpectedly but peacefully passed away in his sleep. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
God I pray as we go into this holiday season that a feeling of peace rests over this special family. God I know you hold us when we fall down and I pray you are holding Heather and by your grace please place your hand on her heart to heal her body. Lord please take away the evil cancer that has no place in anyone of your children. She along with her husband have been faithful soldiers of yours and only you know the number of people they has helped over their time as pastor's but I can imagine it being too many to count. She has brought up five boys one of which blessed her with a grandchild. She is wanted, needed and loved. She has future grandchildren to pass her knowledge on to. She needs to show the great love she has for each and every one of them. At this point from my experience I know she is in pain so I pray that you take that away. God I hope that countless people saw Heather's sister comment and felt like myself that they were meant to watch this video, read the comments section and also feel the strong need to pray for this family. God I believe in the power of prayer and it is a gift you gave us all, Amen.
I don't normally pray out loud but all these thoughts came into my head as I read your comment. That happens often as I pray every day that God guides me to someone whether online or in person. I don't get out much these days and I spend a lot of time in bed or on the couch but with God's grace I can still be useful. I had to give up being a teacher and foster mum. I felt that I lostmy purpose in life but even though it's not as great a purpose I feel that prayer or a conversation with someone who needs a listening ear could be enough of a purpose to make it worth living. Please know thst I'll continue to pray for Heather and all of her loved ones.
I really enjoyed this video! Watching you go through Costco buying what will make your life easier brought me so much joy!
You look GORGEOUS Jamerrill! Keep up the great work!!
Jamerrill, you look awesome for having 57 kiddos 😂❤
I do what I can 🤣🤣🤣
Jamerrill I grew up cooking for large dinners when mom couldn't. People were always coming to dinner. After I got married I did most of the holiday cooking for yrs and had a full time job. I was so exhausted but did it because mom asked. Now that she's gone I always make it as easy on myself as possible. If she was still here I would make it easier. I also worked awhile in a deli. The food we made is to make it easier on families. Always think of yourself and not just the others for if you don't then what would happen to all those beautiful kids do without you. Have a great Friendsgiving. 🍁🧡🍁
Jamerrill, you are amazing! I know how hard it is to buy ready made food after doing all the things for so many years and I heard it in your voice over and over again on this video. I made our own butter, mayo, breads, dried our own spices, canned all the veggies- for YEARS! My children didn't know the store bought stuff was even edible. But then we went through a dark hard time. I bought butter, mayo, bread, spices and took a break from the garden and fields in order to survive. Last fall we did Friendsgiving and it was so healing... I do hope the tears can come after your party, and flow freely, and that they will be healing tears. Because it is okay to do what it takes to get through, and you are doing it!!! Love to you today!
You got some great meal items for your Friendsgiving. Good on you for not putting too much stress on yourself. You can relax and enjoy the day.
Thank you so much for taking my guilt away. At 70 had to go back to work . Raising 3 teens not old enough to drive, so I also shoffer. I'm tired but want Thanksgiving dinner. God Bless
Bless your heart. My sister is 72 and had to go back to work also. Your grandchildren are lucky to have you
Momma, you're handling it like a rockstar! HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Dearest Jamerril❤you were so hard on yourself in the last video....be proud your doing this party and it's all ok🙏you are amazing
Friend, I miss the part where you shared the address and time of the party. I will catch a flight after watching all of the goodies you got at Costco omg omg omg🥰. GREAT JOB!!!
I'm glad you are making this easy on yourself. Give yourself grace so you can enjoy your friends.
So glad you decided to go to Costco! It will be a great party! Enjoy! I’m having company and have been wondering how to handle everything, so I’m going to Sam’s. At 76 years old, I have a small home now, so I am feeding 10. I have always cooked huge dinners throughout the holidays. You are the inspiration for all things cooking. Happy Friends Giving! We are doing this!! Love❤
Honestly, if your home is warm and cozy and the company is good, premade food tastes delicious. I’ve learned that what makes food truly good is the sharing of it.
I’m doing a pre-Christmas get-together, and it’s all store-bought quiches, cinnamon rolls, frozen cream puffs and eclairs, dips, chips, and nuts. And we’ll all be joyful!
Burned into my memory is a video of you starting your video eating from a vegan tub of cookie dough while pregnant. I thought it was the best mom moment ever. And today I was thinking "get that mama her cookie dough.". Your ability to pivot is inspiring. I love it.
That’s so sweet of you to say - it’s been a crazy journey! 💕
Seeing you so excited for all the Christmas things again makes my heart smile. xo. Thank you Costco!! Love a Costco haul day myself haaa. Saving the day. And it's all yummmm. Love that charteuserie board and how Wonderful it has so many memories on it. All what you bought will be so so well loved and make everyone so happy. You will be the hit host for sure. hugs and love fun fun fun :)
“This is how life works. I am fine with this. This is good” 😂 you crack me up
What a wonderful spread you will offer! It’s about the companionship more than the “homemade” food. Enjoy your special day!
WOW! What a spread! Now I want to come to your Friendsgiving! You treat your people well. AND THERE WAS THAT SMILE! LOVE IT! There is absolutely nothing wrong with tears but I love to see your smile. You light up a room. Blessings to you sweet Jamerrill and your beautiful babes. HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Watching your videos and seeing you thrive makes me so happy for you. I don’t know you but I’m proud of you. I hope your friends giving has gone well!
Love watching your video's you so realistic. You make me snile even simple things as you putting the lego piece back on. Many people get pre made items for holidays. Your friends are coming together to be thankful for your friendship, support etc nothing else the food is a bonus x
Good friends, good food. A wonderful Thanksgiving to me. More time for each other. PRICELESS!
I love that you are providing yourself and your family the peace and harmony and cozy comfort you all need in this season. God bless y'all real good. ❤❤❤
HONEY, I AM PROUD OF YOU!! YOU ARE STILL GOING FORWARD. NOT COOKING FROM SCRATCH, BUT COOKING AND PREPAREING. THINK OF THE LEFTOVERS FROM COSTCO.
Just love your sense of humor...totally agree...great minds think alike....yes...yes...and yes!!!!!!!!😊😊
I love that you're getting all the things that make you happy ❤❤
Having a holiday or get together doesn’t mean you have your spend all your time cooking. It’s about enjoying your time and if easy or convenience foods are available you should use them. Have fun don’t let it be overwhelming.
Well done my love good to see your taking the easy option for thanks giving. Sending lots of love. X
In the past I’ve thrown many large Friendsgiving parties and the most important thing has always been the people. Everyone craves the community and love found in gathering. The food is just a bonus. I know you had a wonderful time!
This lady crack me up. I just started watching her and I have to say I don’t know if what she says sometimes is supposed to be a joke or she’s serious. In the beginning I was like she didn’t just say that? And then I realized she was only joking. That’s a good thing.
We have a Texas and Wyoming boards and we proudly display them on the kitchen wall. You can go on line and find the other states.