Vivica expressed how we all feel and I’m so happy that Regina is surrounded by her sister queens holding her up and down through this horrible tragedy. So much of what’s happening is our community is a mental breakdown resulting in high crime/murders, drug abuse and just out right acting out in such painful/disrespectful ways. We truly don’t know how to love our way through the hurt. We can all slow it down and stop reacting and start listening and showing empathy.
Speaking as a mother who lost her oldest son December 11, 2019 at the age of 30, this is a horror that NO WORDS CAN SOOTHE! It doesn’t necessarily get better but you learn to cope.
My daughter is 15 and she had planned to kill herself!!! It wasn’t about her not having what she wanted or needed!! She was battling with Anxiety!! But she said that if she didn’t get better by a certain date she was going to kill herself… I had no idea she had this struggle until the police knocked on my door.. telling me My daughter was at the hospital because she tried to kill herself by cutting her wrist and jumping in a lake !!! Someone saw her and called the police … You just never know!!! I told a family member what happened and they had the nerve to say why would did she do this when she has everything!! I was so mad because it’s not having material things .. it’s about her thoughts and Mental!!! I was able to get her help and she is doing good now with medication.. I told her she should never be ashamed about anything this is her testimony… Kids are suffering!!! People are suffering!!!
You and your daughter are in my prayers, I was just reading your story, my heart goes out to both of you, my granddaughter is 14 she will b 15 in April. She has been cutting herself, and this has been going on awhile she told me last night she has therapy today. My prayers are with Regena and her family . We have to pay attention to our young peoples because we just don’t know what they could be going through. It’s so much as a grand parent I can say on this topic, because I went through the same thing wanting to escape life, because I felt like I couldn’t handle life anymore . Which at that time I was 22 years old. I can relate to the feelings panicky and anxiety, and I would use the word escape instead of suicide because that word suicide seeded so like final, and the word escape felt like ok when I get better I can come back from feeling that empty way I felt on the inside… 🙏 🙏 for all that’s going through.
Pray for all our children and Family members that are suffering in silence!!! No matter how much you try to ease there pains there mind is telling them something different!!! My daughter wen into inpatient treatment for 3 weeks and then it continued with out patient were she went to school a half a day and group counseling for the rest of the day… She see a psychiatrist once a month… she know s what triggers her anxiety and now she understands what she need to do when she is feeling a certain way… there is some anxiety coloring books I bought her that helped keep her mind occupied!! I have her praying!!! She is doing really good now …
@@pamelashipman2005and before this happens I’m a really strong person so I never understood why people have those thoughts… I was speaking with my cousin who also suffers from anxiety and depression she told me because you are strong and can handle certain situations everyone handles things differently… so do understand that!! But I dealt with depression and I worked so hard changing my way of thinking and making sure I align myself with Positivity… it wasn’t easy and I Don understand that people handle things differently but I guess I had to make sure that I don’t expect people to just get over things like I was able to do.. we all need prayers because the devil is so busy and ready to seek and destroy!!
I've never commented before but I feel the need to. My mom put me in counseling as a child because with me being Black, Female, darker skinned, an only child and having a physical disability, she knew I was going to need additional support. Because of that I was diagnosed with a variety the mental health issues, including ADHD and a mood disorder. I chose not to start meds until college. I've been dealing with Mental health for so long, I never understood the stigma surrounding it. I'm a suicide survivor and have loss friends to such. It's not anything to be ashamed of. No one is perfect. I beg all of you to seek help or assist those closest to you. I went to greif counseling when one of my dogs died and then years later I sought greif counseling before my mother passed away from Pancreatic Cancer. To say it helped is an understatement. Black people especially we have to help and care for ourselves 1st. Stop listening or worrying about what others may say or think. No one is going to take care of you but YOU! 💖💜
This pandemic has risen all of these feelings that the fast life has forced us to suppress. As an introvert, I thrive in being alone and at home but even I experienced hills and mountains of unfamiliar emotions. It can be overwhelming to many especially those already dealing with depression/anxiety etc. Death is surrounding us and it’s feels as if the whole world is in gloom. Plus seasonal depression is kicking my ass. Tryna keep up with my Vitamin D and healthy habits, exercising etc. sending healing and positive energy to everyone 😊❤️❤️❤️
What's the difference when you're calling him out his name do you know for sure if he's gay? Or does it make it okay for you to say because you said allegedly speaking
Vivica A. Fox has been and always will be the SHIT! I just love her energy, and how she holds her people down. I am so glad that she could be there for Regina King. God bless that woman and all that she is going through right now. Again, Vivica your message was not lost on me. I appreciate you being such a light! We really do need to check on each other.
My brother committed suicide 26 years ago and it still hurts so bad. I will always wonder what his life could have been like if he had lived. It hurts even more, in my opinion, that he tool his own life because he must've been in so much sorrow and so much pain and no one noticed, until his life was gone. The LOVE NEVER DIES.
An additional problem with the Tasha K situation is that in other situations she has grown her fan base to a place where her voice carries legitimate weight. Tasha K has been cited as a credible source for the current R. Kelly case. By doing this to Cardio B, Tasha compromised her own credibility.
She has never been considered a credible source and it don't take a rocket scientist to know she tells lies all the time. She told some horrible lies about Lisa Raye and The Brat but I do not go to her TH-cam channel because I know that all she does is lie. Congratulation Cardi B.
From experience, sometimes just being there with the person means so much. When the people stop calling and coming over, that’s when she’ll need her friends. Don’t worry about saying the right thing. Just give her a hug, hold her if she cries and be a listening ear. Also, respect her grieving process. Everyone grieves in their own way and in their own time.
This had me in 😢 🥺😭. I had a very traumatic childhood and remember also feeling suicidal. I remember thinking death would be my only escape from this hell, attempted the deed. I was so angry when I woke up the next morning. Thankfully God new better. I was placed in a foster home at 13. My foster mother was the most caring, loving woman. she always showed me affection and genuine love with no strings attached. that woman literally saved my life. Thanks Cherie.💞
Ladies, this is something that you never get over as a mother. You never get over losing yr child, grown, a baby, it doesn't matter. My son was murdered June 11th last year and I am experiencing waves of emotion like it happened today. God go with Regina carry her always.
The beginning of this show was so heart felt & personal... Mental health awareness is definitely needed in our communities.. Bless Regina it's going to be hard but the memories will make u live on..💜💜💜
my son was cutting himself during pandemic he is 17 being out of school , with no social life , stuck at home for 18 months was hard and i did not see it , i got him help as soon as i did , took a 3rd job to pay the medical bills, so much can be in our face and we do not see it .
Prayers for you and your son…This has been a tough time…Kudos to you for getting him help…You too deserve Grace and praise because it’s not easy raising a son during this time especially 🙏🏿
I’m angry that you were forced to take yet another job to pay medical bills. We need universal health care immediately. Prayers going up to your son. I hope he is getting better. Much ❤️
This has been absolutely gut wrenching! My family and I have been left to navigate life after my 25-year-old nephew committed suicide this past summer. I/We have been devastated, so I am fervently praying for Regina and her entire family from a raw space of understanding. It blesses me to know that she is surrounded by so much love. I pray that continues.
I spoke with my Therapist during my Therapy session on January 24th about the trigger of the recent suicides of Black Men. It has triggered memories of my suicide attempts. I'm ok and in recovery. I'm healing one day at a time and starting to like myself. Please check in on Friends and Loved Ones.
Fighting with my own suicidal thoughts. People tell me how handsome I am yet I feel ugly inside. Fears of failure overwhelmed me all the time. My therapist thinks I am entertaining and I don’t think a privileged older white man can truly understand the pain of a young black man. I am starting with my new therapist soon. It’s a lot of work trying to heal.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Life can truly bring to the consideration of just ending it all, but I encourage you to seek out your life’s purpose and trust me that will help you understand you have a purpose and reason for being here. Stay strong and live your BEST LIFE!!!🙏🏽
I love this show, and I love Fox Soul. Just great hosts, and great content and programming. Claudia, I am so glad I started watching you to see what you are really like. I had a lot of misconceptions, and I am glad you were given an opportunity to show the world what you are really about. Sending prayers for Regina as well.
Losing a child and your only child hurts to the core. I know because I have lost mine. It' leaves a whole in your heart that never heals but you manage to live with it.
My best friend checked out days ago. I am still in shock... I refuse to see him inside a coffin, I refuse to see him getting buried, all I want is to remember how his smile brightened up my days. I will love him for the rest of my life.
I have an only son as well and as a mother the pain and hurt is unbearable, but one thing I learned from a father who lost his son to suicide is when you come in someone's presence that lost a child DONT SAY A WORD just reach out your arms to them and give them support and do nothing else just Being their is sometimes enough
You ladies are so positive. I enjoy tuning in and listening to what each of you have to say. Mental illness is real and so is the struggle. Ladies thank you for covering topics, concerns and issues that are happening in our community and in our world. I missed you last Monday but understood it was Dr. Martin L King Holiday.
I can honestly say this is the first time I’ve cried while watching this show. 😢 Very heartbreaking and emotional start. My heart goes out to Regina and her loved ones.
The ignorance of Mental Illness is so hurtful and to see this as a sign of weakness. The trauma that our young black youth are going through I believe more in our race than others. Constantly on the news we see the killings of innocent young black men and the murderers walking away without any recourse.
NICCOLE MAY I BECAUSE BLACK YOUTH DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHO THEY TRULY ARE AND WHO TRULY BELONG TOO.... There are dark days ahead...But the Light is getting brighter and brighter.. jb.ok
@@niccolethompson4538 They are not being taught in school in home in church etc etc They are of the seed of Abraham Isaac and Jacob the children of Israel DEUTERONOMY CHAP 7 VS 6, 7, 8, 9 THEY ARE OF THE ROYAL BLOODLINE not the ROYAL FAMILY as in UK..... then they would see A BIG DIFFERENCE IN THEIR CHARACTER BEHAVIOR OUTLOOK ON LIFE.... go to U tube put in MIC MALISS GOOD TEACHER Esau & Jacob Does God Love Everybody etc.. etc...they need to be taught Their true heritage..... jb.ok
@@marnasquires155 WHEN U COME INTO THIS TRUTH THIS WISDOM THIS KNOWLEDGE THIS REVELATION OF YAH... THEN U ARE SET FREE...DOES NOT MATTER WHAT THE WORLD/SOCIETY THINKS OF YOU ABOUT YOU.....U ARE FREE KNOWING THAT YOU ARE CHOSEN BY YAH AWAITING YAH'S RETURN OUT OF CAPTIVITY.. ONLY YAH CAN DO THIS JUST LIKE EYGPT.. ZECHARIAH CHAP 13 VS 8 AND 9 O HAPPY DAYS AHEAD!! jb.shalom
YESSS SYLEENA...GIVE DAT "GREAT EXPLANATION" OF DAT "PROFESSIONAL, SMOOTH, DETAIL SHADE" BREAKDOWN OF DA DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TALK SHOW & BLOG SIS. 👏🏾😍😄👍🏾
Syleena the person you were talking about was Joy Leary who was doing a presentation on Post Traumatic Slavery Disorder in London in 2008. When I saw this I thought this should be taught to everybody. I have watched it twice and it helps you see the pathology of black people of how they think and react in this world.
Super great show ladies. Queens. Lisa Raye, nodding my head in agreement with you. Yasssssss "if you don't like; turn away, turn around, turn the channel, turn your a**. Turn your back." Not in said order of Miss Raye. I get it though. Miss Fox, you had me in tears discussing how quickly you set things aside to be there for Miss King; Regina. A real friend being available and supportive without being judgemental . ❤
I think we need to have a larger discussion about the culture of black women selling their bodies because there are thousands of black girls getting sex trafficed, going missing after meeting men for sex, these sugar daddy situations, etc. I blame this on a combination of the sexual comodity of black women 's bodies that has been ongoing for centuries and the black community's continued exploitation of black women through music, media, and this toxic stripper culture.
I lost a friend to suicide in 2010. How I understood PTSD then, isn't how I understand it now. I wish we had the resources then that we have now in 2022. Praying for everyone... especially if you're suffering with mental illness. We hear you. We're here for you ❤️
As someone who’s wanted to take my life numerous times. People think it’s funny when you mention you’re in a dark place and have mental health issues. People put off as “we’re all dealing with something” and I feel that’s why a lot of ppl suffer in silence. We really should be there for each other with no judgement
@Certified Chef Pamela I get that but when you learn that your family whom you considered your safe place isn’t so safe, who do you talk to when a therapist isn’t available at that moment
Kevin doesn't consider women "high value" due to education and career. Also, his statement is nothing new and based on the average man expecting a reward for his presence and payment for dinner and/or drinks.
Vivica thank you for sharing that you were there for Regina. As a person not connected to Regina or her circle I felt helpless to a degree… My strong prayer life is what I resorted to. Knowing black woman in these positions can hv true and lasting friendships was a blessing for me. Be kind!
I feel you Claudia, with your traumatic experience, I get that you would have had alot to say especially on the other show TEA-GIF, but had to bite your tongue due to conflict of interests with the other guys especially Funky Dineva. But yeah, what's wrong is wrong. Hopefully everyone can heal and growth positively from this if lessons are learnt 💞 . Lisa Raye made alot of sense. Stop promoting the negativity... It's not about bringing a black woman down, it's about stopping the mess 💞
Yea I was wondering why Claudia had a whole different energy on the Cardi B topic on this show but said she can see everything from both sides on Tea GIF.
@@Nayahpooh012 I think Claudia is a victim of severe jealousy and bullying. She has refuted so many lies over the years and is still moving on a positive vibe. Pray for her protection. Sometimes people just hate because you are special and beautiful. LIFT THIS DIVA UP NOW.
@@ladywhistlerclarke7862 THIS!!!! Its like Im constantly trying to avoid land mines and stress. So much that I have to deal with in my position that I have to keep to myself! Its CRAZY so I appreciate u noticing! 💜
I agree. I felt uncomfortable for Al and Claudia thinking about all of the BS that the media put them through. I cant say for sure but it seems that people in the industry have tried to ruin Claudia which I’m sure hurts like hell. What happened to Al, I vividly remember all of the BS that people talked about that man making even me who was super young assume it was real and just write him off as a goldiggin low life. Both of them sat on TGIF and gave Funky grace by not going in on bloggers who make up sh** ruining lives but Claudia was around 3 other women who know just what it feels like from watching friends go through defamation or having it happen to them. What Tasha K did used to get the inquirer magazine sued all the time.
The pain of losing a child is devastating; I lost my son to suicide, the pain never goes away, and as a mother who loves her child is always there, you blame yourself. You said I should have seen the signs. My heart is here, and maybe in a few years, we'll get a little peace. We try to live our lives the best way we can. I find it hard on his birthday every holiday And his anniversary this year. I had helped people around me to love and comfort me, and this year, I accepted their love and comfortIt'll take her a moment, but we're all the prayers from all her family, friends, and fans will help.
I suffer in silence every day (with a smile on my face). And no one understands or care. And this is the experience of a lot of ppl suffering from depression. 👏🏾
My heart and prayers goes out to her and everyone affected. There's no words because the feelings are numb, the world is not the same when you lose a child so unexpectedly. It's a struggle 24/7 to move forward.🤗❤🙏🏾
One of my hardest battles was with depression and people around me poking at me and making it worse. You never know what a person is going through. Sometimes your comment is the one that pushes them over the edge. Praying for everyone’s mental health.
I uplift all you ladies...especially CLAUDIA. You are amazing, beautiful, smart, my kind of women. Very straight forward. I support all your endeavors.
I know two of the ladies and overall they are all fabulous and versatile in their perspectives. I especially like V she’s been the same person true to herself and others around her. LisaRaye was a bright light first time I saw her and she’s been the same. The other ladies since watching the show are equally fantastic. Like Syleena said they were chosen to fit the these style of crop of four women with strength that embodies each other to give integrity and purpose. Thank you ladies for all you put up with and continue doing your best🙏
🙋🏽 PTSD As a people, we do live in a heightened state of awareness. Like on 5, and propelled to a 10, on the daily. Worse yet, it is never addressed by physicians unless the individual has escalated to acting out
Thanks Vivica for those beautiful words of support for your friend/sister Regina. You are so right that our community is getting hit hard. Just two weeks ago a friend of mine daughter took her own life. It's becoming a serious matter in our community. We love you Regina King. ❤
I love Lisa Raye! She is from My hometown Chicago and we are 100% truthful about how we feel in a situation we do tell it like it is and some people don't like us for that but that's why I love her !
Regarding Lauren Smith Fields, she was not missing. She met a man on Bumble and they were at her apartment on a date. They took shots of Tequilla and he said they laid in her bed fully clothed. He said he woke up and she was bleeding from her nose and was dead. They did not question him because he seemed nice. She was never missing. She had only known the man 3 days.
Claudia, you are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!! We Do Need To Do Better With Each Other...😥😢😭 💔It makes me so sad to hear of Regina son's passing. Mental Health is so real and prominent in our community. Family, keep an eye on each other and check on your friends and family!!!🕊❤🙏🏿
She's totally right about fostering a community of just uplifting each other. It definitely starts with healing from within, but we can all use encouragement.
Regina is very much in my prayers, these ladies handled this subject with care and grace, Lisa Rae and Vivica had me in tears
Yes indeed. This was done so well and I too was in tears up here in the Charlotte airport.
I am praying that GOD'S LOVE AND COMPASSION SURROUNDS AND ENGULFS EACH AND EVERY FAMILY MEMBER IN THE NAME OF YESHUA AMEN.
Me too, I could not stop
People be full blown depressed with a smile on their face. Don’t ever think you know someone is ok.
I know this too well. 💔💝
So true🙏
Me too
I know you too well myself I’m fighting and struggling right now
@@cherylcrosby3377 Things do get better just keep the faith. I have been there myself years ago. Blessings 🙏
@@poodle3927 🙏
Vivica expressed how we all feel and I’m so happy that Regina is surrounded by her sister queens holding her up and down through this horrible tragedy. So much of what’s happening is our community is a mental breakdown resulting in high crime/murders, drug abuse and just out right acting out in such painful/disrespectful ways. We truly don’t know how to love our way through the hurt. We can all slow it down and stop reacting and start listening and showing empathy.
ABSOLUTLY!
Speaking as a mother who lost her oldest son December 11, 2019 at the age of 30, this is a horror that NO WORDS CAN SOOTHE! It doesn’t necessarily get better but you learn to cope.
Sorry for your loss. Prayers for peace in your life.
So sorry for your loss, Sherita.
I’m so sorry 🙏🏾💞
Yes u learn to cope. Doesn't get better but easier as time go on
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My daughter is 15 and she had planned to kill herself!!! It wasn’t about her not having what she wanted or needed!!
She was battling with Anxiety!! But she said that if she didn’t get better by a certain date she was going to kill herself… I had no idea she had this struggle until the police knocked on my door.. telling me My daughter was at the hospital because she tried to kill herself by cutting her wrist and jumping in a lake !!! Someone saw her and called the police …
You just never know!!! I told a family member what happened and they had the nerve to say why would did she do this when she has everything!! I was so mad because it’s not having material things .. it’s about her thoughts and Mental!!! I was able to get her help and she is doing good now with medication.. I told her she should never be ashamed about anything this is her testimony… Kids are suffering!!! People are suffering!!!
Thank you for sharing… you just don’t know who you’re helping by way of your testimony.🙏🏾 ❤️
You and your daughter are in my prayers, I was just reading your story, my heart goes out to both of you, my granddaughter is 14 she will b 15 in April. She has been cutting herself, and this has been going on awhile she told me last night she has therapy today. My prayers are with Regena and her family . We have to pay attention to our young peoples because we just don’t know what they could be going through. It’s so much as a grand parent I can say on this topic, because I went through the same thing wanting to escape life, because I felt like I couldn’t handle life anymore . Which at that time I was 22 years old. I can relate to the feelings panicky and anxiety, and I would use the word escape instead of suicide because that word suicide seeded so like final, and the word escape felt like ok when I get better I can come back from feeling that empty way I felt on the inside… 🙏 🙏 for all that’s going through.
Pray for all our children and Family members that are suffering in silence!!! No matter how much you try to ease there pains there mind is telling them something different!!!
My daughter wen into inpatient treatment for 3 weeks and then it continued with out patient were she went to school a half a day and group counseling for the rest of the day…
She see a psychiatrist once a month… she know s what triggers her anxiety and now she understands what she need to do when she is feeling a certain way… there is some anxiety coloring books I bought her that helped keep her mind occupied!! I have her praying!!! She is doing really good now …
@@pamelashipman2005and before this happens I’m a really strong person so I never understood why people have those thoughts… I was speaking with my cousin who also suffers from anxiety and depression she told me because you are strong and can handle certain situations everyone handles things differently… so do understand that!! But I dealt with depression and I worked so hard changing my way of thinking and making sure I align myself with Positivity… it wasn’t easy and I Don understand that people handle things differently but I guess I had to make sure that I don’t expect people to just get over things like I was able to do.. we all need prayers because the devil is so busy and ready to seek and destroy!!
@@cochrancochran66 I pray that I have!!! Thank you
I've never commented before but I feel the need to. My mom put me in counseling as a child because with me being Black, Female, darker skinned, an only child and having a physical disability, she knew I was going to need additional support. Because of that I was diagnosed with a variety the mental health issues, including ADHD and a mood disorder. I chose not to start meds until college. I've been dealing with Mental health for so long, I never understood the stigma surrounding it. I'm a suicide survivor and have loss friends to such. It's not anything to be ashamed of. No one is perfect. I beg all of you to seek help or assist those closest to you. I went to greif counseling when one of my dogs died and then years later I sought greif counseling before my mother passed away from Pancreatic Cancer. To say it helped is an understatement. Black people especially we have to help and care for ourselves 1st. Stop listening or worrying about what others may say or think. No one is going to take care of you but YOU! 💖💜
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God bless you love. Thank you for sharing your story. 💕
You stay strong! Blessings for good mental health & life.
💯 Hugs to you for taking care of YOU! 🤗
My heart just goes out to Ms. Regina King
I send her Peace... Blessings...Strength and Love at a time like this....Stay Up Sis....✊🏾
@BOSS LADY. I agree with you 💯. 🙏❤️ My deepest condolences for Regina King. ❤️🙏
This pandemic has risen all of these feelings that the fast life has forced us to suppress. As an introvert, I thrive in being alone and at home but even I experienced hills and mountains of unfamiliar emotions. It can be overwhelming to many especially those already dealing with depression/anxiety etc. Death is surrounding us and it’s feels as if the whole world is in gloom. Plus seasonal depression is kicking my ass. Tryna keep up with my Vitamin D and healthy habits, exercising etc.
sending healing and positive energy to everyone 😊❤️❤️❤️
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As an introvert myself I definitely understand how you feel ❤️
Please be safe ladies ….
Same here and peace and blessings to you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Nicely said. Prayers up 4 all of us suffering from depression 👏🏾
Sending lots of prayers to Regina and everyone that are or has been going through things 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💕💕💕💕
Yes Ladies . Let's be lady like again Please. You ladies are preaching now.!!!!
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What's the difference when you're calling him out his name do you know for sure if he's gay? Or does it make it okay for you to say because you said allegedly speaking
@@ramonabridgett9058 I agree with you 💯.❤️🙏
@@ramonabridgett9058 I agree with you 💯.❤️🙏
Vivica A. Fox has been and always will be the SHIT! I just love her energy, and how she holds her people down. I am so glad that she could be there for Regina King. God bless that woman and all that she is going through right now. Again, Vivica your message was not lost on me. I appreciate you being such a light! We really do need to check on each other.
These are my Aunties for real! I love how positive they are and how they can stick it to you at the same time.
My brother committed suicide 26 years ago and it still hurts so bad. I will always wonder what his life could have been like if he had lived. It hurts even more, in my opinion, that he tool his own life because he must've been in so much sorrow and so much pain and no one noticed, until his life was gone. The LOVE NEVER DIES.
@ Sleep Relax Rest with Tess !! I’m so sorry 😢 for your loss
@@stephenchristian3636 thank you.
Billy will live in our hearts and memories, forever.
@@TessieMaria you’re welcome
Sending prayers for Regina. My heart is heavy over this. Ladies, you do a great job. Love your commentary!
An additional problem with the Tasha K situation is that in other situations she has grown her fan base to a place where her voice carries legitimate weight. Tasha K has been cited as a credible source for the current R. Kelly case. By doing this to Cardio B, Tasha compromised her own credibility.
She has never been considered a credible source and it don't take a rocket scientist to know she tells lies all the time. She told some horrible lies about Lisa Raye and The Brat but I do not go to her TH-cam channel because I know that all she does is lie. Congratulation Cardi B.
From experience, sometimes just being there with the person means so much. When the people stop calling and coming over, that’s when she’ll need her friends. Don’t worry about saying the right thing. Just give her a hug, hold her if she cries and be a listening ear. Also, respect her grieving process. Everyone grieves in their own way and in their own time.
I agree
This had me in 😢 🥺😭.
I had a very traumatic childhood and remember also feeling suicidal. I remember thinking death would be my only escape from this hell, attempted the deed. I was so angry when I woke up the next morning.
Thankfully God new better. I was placed in a foster home at 13. My foster mother was the most caring, loving woman. she always showed me affection and genuine love with no strings attached.
that woman literally saved my life.
Thanks Cherie.💞
Moral of this cocktail session : BE KIND. BE NICE. AND MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
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Prayers for Regina King and her Family. We must be Kinder than Necessary to each other.
Ladies, this is something that you never get over as a mother. You never get over losing yr child, grown, a baby, it doesn't matter. My son was murdered June 11th last year and I am experiencing waves of emotion like it happened today. God go with Regina carry her always.
The beginning of this show was so heart felt & personal... Mental health awareness is definitely needed in our communities.. Bless Regina it's going to be hard but the memories will make u live on..💜💜💜
my son was cutting himself during pandemic he is 17 being out of school , with no social life , stuck at home for 18 months was hard and i did not see it , i got him help as soon as i did , took a 3rd job to pay the medical bills, so much can be in our face and we do not see it .
Prayers for you and your son…This has been a tough time…Kudos to you for getting him help…You too deserve Grace and praise because it’s not easy raising a son during this time especially 🙏🏿
I’m angry that you were forced to take yet another job to pay medical bills. We need universal health care immediately. Prayers going up to your son. I hope he is getting better. Much ❤️
Sending prayers
Hope he’s doing better 🙏🏾
Ladies, I like it. Y’all keeping it real. My condolences to Regina and family.
Lisa Raye TRULY evolving! After her talk with OUR Auntie Iyanla, Lisa bringing IT as never before!
This has been absolutely gut wrenching! My family and I have been left to navigate life after my 25-year-old nephew committed suicide this past summer. I/We have been devastated, so I am fervently praying for Regina and her entire family from a raw space of understanding.
It blesses me to know that she is surrounded by so much love. I pray that continues.
I spoke with my Therapist during my Therapy session on January 24th about the trigger of the recent suicides of Black Men. It has triggered memories of my suicide attempts. I'm ok and in recovery. I'm healing one day at a time and starting to like myself. Please check in on Friends and Loved Ones.
Fighting with my own suicidal thoughts. People tell me how handsome I am yet I feel ugly inside. Fears of failure overwhelmed me all the time. My therapist thinks I am entertaining and I don’t think a privileged older white man can truly understand the pain of a young black man. I am starting with my new therapist soon. It’s a lot of work trying to heal.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Life can truly bring to the consideration of just ending it all, but I encourage you to seek out your life’s purpose and trust me that will help you understand you have a purpose and reason for being here. Stay strong and live your BEST LIFE!!!🙏🏽
@@preciousone9377 Thank you 🙏🏽 Appreciate your heart and kindness!!
Depression and mentally illness is shamed and we aren't allowed to Express are selves
Prayers for strength for Regina and Her Family .Condolences from My Family to Hers.
Donis absolutely 💯 percent true. Shamed by family, friends EVERYONE.
@@laraoneal7284 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I love this show, and I love Fox Soul. Just great hosts, and great content and programming. Claudia, I am so glad I started watching you to see what you are really like. I had a lot of misconceptions, and I am glad you were given an opportunity to show the world what you are really about. Sending prayers for Regina as well.
Losing a child and your only child hurts to the core. I know because I have lost mine. It' leaves a whole in your heart that never heals but you manage to live with it.
My best friend checked out days ago. I am still in shock... I refuse to see him inside a coffin, I refuse to see him getting buried, all I want is to remember how his smile brightened up my days. I will love him for the rest of my life.
I’m so sorry. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@preciousone9377 🙏
Wow! Makes me so sad. Keep the faith.
@@nananess8269, thank you😪
We all need a friend like Vivica
Vivica made we weep like a baby .....Regina I send as much love and healing as my heart can bear .... 💖
Thank you ladies. This is the best show. You showed love, grace, respect, and professionalism. Love you all!! ❤❤❤
I have an only son as well and as a mother the pain and hurt is unbearable, but one thing I learned from a father who lost his son to suicide is when you come in someone's presence that lost a child DONT SAY A WORD just reach out your arms to them and give them support and do nothing else just Being their is sometimes enough
Thank you, Queens! There's a certain class and poise that is lacking these days. It's here and I love it! I honor you❤
You ladies are so positive. I enjoy tuning in and listening to what each of you have to say. Mental illness is real and so is the struggle.
Ladies thank you for covering topics, concerns and issues that are happening in our community and in our world. I missed you last Monday but understood it was Dr. Martin L King Holiday.
I luv the Queens I'm 59 and enjoy watching with my cup and talking to the TV like ya'll in my house lol 💞
Omg, when Syleena literally said what I commented, I immediately got goosebumps. 😭
All the ladies are on point today 😍😍😍😍
I can honestly say this is the first time I’ve cried while watching this show. 😢 Very heartbreaking and emotional start. My heart goes out to Regina and her loved ones.
Lisa Raye is glowing. Loving her growth in full display this episode.
Syleena's hair is so beautiful and suits her to the tee.
Even though the emotions were very heavy this was one the Queens BEST EPISODES EVER!
The ignorance of Mental Illness is so hurtful and to see this as a sign of weakness. The trauma that our young black youth are going through I believe more in our race than others. Constantly on the news we see the killings of innocent young black men and the murderers walking away without any recourse.
NICCOLE MAY I
BECAUSE BLACK YOUTH DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHO THEY TRULY ARE
AND WHO TRULY BELONG TOO....
There are dark days ahead...But the
Light is getting brighter and brighter..
jb.ok
@@johnbenjamin2703 Agree
@@niccolethompson4538
They are not being taught in
school in home in church etc etc
They are of the seed of Abraham Isaac and Jacob the children of Israel
DEUTERONOMY CHAP 7 VS 6, 7, 8, 9
THEY ARE OF THE ROYAL BLOODLINE
not the ROYAL FAMILY as in UK.....
then they would see A BIG DIFFERENCE
IN THEIR CHARACTER BEHAVIOR OUTLOOK ON LIFE....
go to U tube put in
MIC MALISS GOOD TEACHER
Esau & Jacob
Does God Love Everybody
etc.. etc...they need to be taught
Their true heritage.....
jb.ok
@@johnbenjamin2703 Thanks for reminding me
@@marnasquires155
WHEN U COME INTO THIS TRUTH
THIS WISDOM THIS KNOWLEDGE
THIS REVELATION OF YAH... THEN U
ARE SET FREE...DOES NOT MATTER WHAT THE WORLD/SOCIETY THINKS OF YOU ABOUT YOU.....U ARE FREE
KNOWING THAT YOU ARE CHOSEN
BY YAH AWAITING YAH'S RETURN
OUT OF CAPTIVITY..
ONLY YAH CAN DO THIS JUST LIKE EYGPT..
ZECHARIAH CHAP 13 VS 8 AND 9
O HAPPY DAYS AHEAD!!
jb.shalom
YESSS SYLEENA...GIVE DAT "GREAT EXPLANATION" OF DAT "PROFESSIONAL, SMOOTH, DETAIL SHADE" BREAKDOWN OF DA DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TALK SHOW & BLOG SIS. 👏🏾😍😄👍🏾
"Just turn"🤣🤣🤣I agree
Syleena the person you were talking about was Joy Leary who was doing a presentation on Post Traumatic Slavery Disorder in London in 2008. When I saw this I thought this should be taught to everybody. I have watched it twice and it helps you see the pathology of black people of how they think and react in this world.
Super great show ladies. Queens.
Lisa Raye, nodding my head in agreement with you. Yasssssss "if you don't like; turn away, turn around, turn the channel, turn your a**. Turn your back." Not in said order of Miss Raye. I get it though. Miss Fox, you had me in tears discussing how quickly you set things aside to be there for Miss King; Regina. A real friend being available and supportive without being judgemental . ❤
This show has quality content. Claudia Jordan I really appreciate it.
Thank you!!!!!!!!
I agree
I think we need to have a larger discussion about the culture of black women selling their bodies because there are thousands of black girls getting sex trafficed, going missing after meeting men for sex, these sugar daddy situations, etc. I blame this on a combination of the sexual comodity of black women 's bodies that has been ongoing for centuries and the black community's continued exploitation of black women through music, media, and this toxic stripper culture.
Wait. We as black women has to take responsibility for our own actions.
Claudia I like your podcast.your show brings all individual together around the same table . keep it like this lady.peace and be smart.
I lost a friend to suicide in 2010. How I understood PTSD then, isn't how I understand it now. I wish we had the resources then that we have now in 2022. Praying for everyone... especially if you're suffering with mental illness. We hear you. We're here for you ❤️
Thank you Claudia for calling out the black community for doing & saying shady shit to each other!
we are so hard on each other and we're all guilty of it. Not sure why we do it but we do!
This
I'm at work in tears. Hugs to everyone
As someone who’s wanted to take my life numerous times. People think it’s funny when you mention you’re in a dark place and have mental health issues. People put off as “we’re all dealing with something” and I feel that’s why a lot of ppl suffer in silence. We really should be there for each other with no judgement
@Certified Chef Pamela I get that but when you learn that your family whom you considered your safe place isn’t so safe, who do you talk to when a therapist isn’t available at that moment
@Certified Chef Pamela thank you, I appreciate it
Kevin doesn't consider women "high value" due to education and career. Also, his statement is nothing new and based on the average man expecting a reward for his presence and payment for dinner and/or drinks.
Vivica thank you for sharing that you were there for Regina. As a person not connected to Regina or her circle I felt helpless to a degree… My strong prayer life is what I resorted to. Knowing black woman in these positions can hv true and lasting friendships was a blessing for me. Be kind!
Love Syleena... she is a breath of fresh air... Get'em Lady.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This is so sad. You can tell Vivica really cares about Regina.
I feel you Claudia, with your traumatic experience, I get that you would have had alot to say especially on the other show TEA-GIF, but had to bite your tongue due to conflict of interests with the other guys especially Funky Dineva. But yeah, what's wrong is wrong. Hopefully everyone can heal and growth positively from this if lessons are learnt 💞 .
Lisa Raye made alot of sense. Stop promoting the negativity... It's not about bringing a black woman down, it's about stopping the mess 💞
Yea I was wondering why Claudia had a whole different energy on the Cardi B topic on this show but said she can see everything from both sides on Tea GIF.
@@Nayahpooh012 I think Claudia is a victim of severe jealousy and bullying. She has refuted so many lies over the years and is still moving on a positive vibe. Pray for her protection. Sometimes people just hate because you are special and beautiful. LIFT THIS DIVA UP NOW.
@@ladywhistlerclarke7862 THIS!!!! Its like Im constantly trying to avoid land mines and stress. So much that I have to deal with in my position that I have to keep to myself! Its CRAZY so I appreciate u noticing! 💜
I agree. I felt uncomfortable for Al and Claudia thinking about all of the BS that the media put them through. I cant say for sure but it seems that people in the industry have tried to ruin Claudia which I’m sure hurts like hell.
What happened to Al, I vividly remember all of the BS that people talked about that man making even me who was super young assume it was real and just write him off as a goldiggin low life. Both of them sat on TGIF and gave Funky grace by not going in on bloggers who make up sh** ruining lives but Claudia was around 3 other women who know just what it feels like from watching friends go through defamation or having it happen to them. What Tasha K did used to get the inquirer magazine sued all the time.
Both is true for Claudia, she a victim and also a fan of Tasha K....that came out her own mouth as a lot of celebrities
Syleena is always looking so beautiful! Vivica is almost looking back like herself & her hair is beautiful!
The emotions in this video were so real. Thank you!
Great show ladies. You handled all the topics very well. You are all appreciated.
Deep, heavy topics at the beginning but I appreciate the opinions expressed! Thanks ladies!
The pain of losing a child is devastating; I lost my son to suicide, the pain never goes away, and as a mother who loves her child is always there, you blame yourself. You said I should have seen the signs. My heart is here, and maybe in a few years, we'll get a little peace. We try to live our lives the best way we can. I find it hard on his birthday every holiday And his anniversary this year. I had helped people around me to love and comfort me, and this year, I accepted their love and comfortIt'll take her a moment, but we're all the prayers from all her family, friends, and fans will help.
May God continue to heal your heart and may his soul Rest In Peace. I am so sorry for your loss, as a mother myself I can feel your pain.
Excellent Show Queens 👑!
I suffer in silence every day (with a smile on my face). And no one understands or care. And this is the experience of a lot of ppl suffering from depression. 👏🏾
you aren't alone.
@@BriaBarrows 👏🏾👏🏾.. & thank you.
@@mimiactivities8536 you are do welcome. You are not alone. I’ve been through too. If you can contact a therapist, that could help. There is no shame!
It’s still stigmatized in the black community
@@BriaBarrows . This is true. My gf & I was talking about this, the other day. Especially, with the older generation.
Claudia!! Your face is Beat!!! ❤️❤️❤️
My heart and prayers goes out to her and everyone affected. There's no words because the feelings are numb, the world is not the same when you lose a child so unexpectedly. It's a struggle 24/7 to move forward.🤗❤🙏🏾
One of my hardest battles was with depression and people around me poking at me and making it worse. You never know what a person is going through. Sometimes your comment is the one that pushes them over the edge. Praying for everyone’s mental health.
It’s so true.
I uplift all you ladies...especially CLAUDIA. You are amazing, beautiful, smart, my kind of women. Very straight forward. I support all your endeavors.
thank u!!!!
@@claudiajordanreal you are welcome lady.
I’m not even a cryer & this episode has me balling soooo hard rn!!!! Thank you ladies you’re saving lives truly.
My condolences to Regina King and family. 🙏
I know two of the ladies and overall they are all fabulous and versatile in their perspectives. I especially like V she’s been the same person true to herself and others around her. LisaRaye was a bright light first time I saw her and she’s been the same. The other ladies since watching the show are equally fantastic. Like Syleena said they were chosen to fit the these style of crop of four women with strength that embodies each other to give integrity and purpose. Thank you ladies for all you put up with and continue doing your best🙏
Appreciate you ladies and your body of work. There have been times your art has made me laugh, cry, & or feel empowered! Thanks!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽💕💎🌻
This is one of the best segments Queens 👑 thanks for sharing.
This show was so good! Love the Queens and sending love to Regina and her entire family. 🙏🏾
Number one rule with these online dating sites is do not invite them to your home initially. Feel them out at a public venue first. Periodt!
This was awesome! GOD Bless everyone!!
Prayers up for Ian, and Miss King. Out of respect for their wishes that's all I'll say.
This was a GREAT episode. Glad I watched this at work today.
You are right, Lisa, we ALL need to shed more love and light. We need to change and grow!
🙋🏽 PTSD As a people, we do live in a heightened state of awareness. Like on 5, and propelled to a 10, on the daily. Worse yet, it is never addressed by physicians unless the individual has escalated to acting out
Y’all are soo great, I love y’all. Great show!
Thanks Vivica for those beautiful words of support for your friend/sister Regina. You are so right that our community is getting hit hard. Just two weeks ago a friend of mine daughter took her own life. It's becoming a serious matter in our community. We love you Regina King. ❤
I love Lisa Raye! She is from My hometown Chicago and we are 100% truthful about how we feel in a situation we do tell it like it is and some people don't like us for that but that's why I love her !
I would love to know what color and brand of lipstick Vivica is rocking today. Any suggestions?
Regarding Lauren Smith Fields, she was not missing. She met a man on Bumble and they were at her apartment on a date. They took shots of Tequilla and he said they laid in her bed fully clothed. He said he woke up and she was bleeding from her nose and was dead. They did not question him because he seemed nice. She was never missing. She had only known the man 3 days.
Krystal this is correct. I wonder if he drugged her.?
I see nothing fake about these beautiful Queens. Speaking their Opinions, while keeping it real. Nothing But Love.
Hey Lisa Ray, Vivica A. Fox, & Selena Johnson!! I luv you guys! You all have SUCH GREAT TALENT! & are definitely QUEENS!!!
Ladies some things aren’t even worth addressing. Think you so much for your sincerity in your conversations🥰
My deepest prayers and condolences for health and daily strength for Regina King.💜😢
Good show! Enjoyed.💜
Claudia, you are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!! We Do Need To Do Better With Each Other...😥😢😭 💔It makes me so sad to hear of Regina son's passing. Mental Health is so real and prominent in our community. Family, keep an eye on each other and check on your friends and family!!!🕊❤🙏🏿
I so love this show. Keep doing what you all do.
Thank you Vivica …we love Regina
Great job Queens. Tough topic and you handled it well.
Claudia you have the most gorgeous panel of women. Gorgeous intelligent melanated queens. 👑👑👑👑👑👑
OMG 🤣🤣🤣49:00 this segment is funny as HELL!!!🤣🤣🤣
great show, thank you ladies!
She's totally right about fostering a community of just uplifting each other. It definitely starts with healing from within, but we can all use encouragement.
Amen! Cuz you can't give nothin you don't got!
@@StrongnBeautiful this