NEW DUTCH HABITS LIVING IN THE NETHERLANDS AS AN AMERICAN // Expat Life

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  • @aWanderlustForLife
    @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    To answer the questions I always get from people:
    I know a little Dutch, and I continue to learn each day, but no, I'm not fluent.
    Yes, I'm an immigrant. I use expat and immigrant interchangeably but on TH-cam people search for expat. I do my SEO research.

  • @lxlvr
    @lxlvr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Great video! Thanks for sharing. We just moved to Amsterdam last week from the states and were really surprised by how chill people are in a lot of ways but mainly in how they dress! It seems like people are more casual than in other parts of Europe, which is nice. Athletic clothes and shorts are common here which I was not expecting!

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Welcome! I hope your move went well! Yeah, the style here is quite different than most of Europe which I really love. No pressure, just be you! :) I have playlists for my expat videos and for Amsterdam, so I hope you find them helpful.

    • @lxlvr
      @lxlvr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aWanderlustForLife Thank you! Have been watching your videos for a few months now to prepare for moving to Amsterdam and found them super helpful, so thank you! Keep up the great work!

    • @lindaraterink6451
      @lindaraterink6451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Only the president goes biking in his 2000 dollar armani suit, the rest just wears jeans because that's practical. We love practicality ;) can you emagine 10 inch heels with three kids on a bike? lol.

    • @JanJaapZwaag
      @JanJaapZwaag 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome in the Netherlands 🙂👍🏻

    • @framegote5152
      @framegote5152 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lindaraterink6451 we don't have a president, but I don't know about his suit. To me every suit looks like the other..... boring.

  • @LeesaYu
    @LeesaYu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Great video, and it's nice to see that these habits have changed your life for the better! I've only been here for half a year but already feel so liberated while living in the Netherlands!

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks and that's so great to know :) I wish everyone could live where they feel best. I know that's not the case for many people, so I feel incredibly privledged.

  • @PukosPorch
    @PukosPorch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    At 5:30 I literally was saying "Bless their heart" in my head before you said it! I always think fireworks! These are all true! The dressing comfortable and what they wear! HAHA!! That is the one I LOVE the best! 💖 Brilliant video! I have learned the habit of relaxing in the park on a sunny day and leaving the electronics behind! PLaying some kubb!

  • @robertvaneersel3741
    @robertvaneersel3741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another piece of advice: keep using fresh food only. It is more healthy. Don't ever compare yourself to anyone else. You have your own value in your personality, don't try to keep up with the Joneses.

  • @antiqueinsider
    @antiqueinsider 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a Brit who was in A'dam for 35 years and now 3 years in Belgium. At this point I think the government and authorities in NL are quite high on the international scale. I.e. most departments seem to get their computers to find you and you usually get the form or call back (etc.) that you need. The rules are clearer (stricter?) and more equally applied than in most countries. Yes, of course there are many exceptions and contradictions ('kinderbijslag') but on the whole I'd rather deal with Dutch admin than any others I've known! ( Belgium/UK/Spain)

  • @Pittigpiertje
    @Pittigpiertje 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I guess you could see directness vs passive agressiveness as such; being passive agressive creates a toxic atmosphere, while being direct can be like thunder, it might give you a scare or shock you but then the air is cleared.

  • @rolandboerhof9391
    @rolandboerhof9391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really appreciate the lack of noise pollution from traffic in Amsterdam. Birds can hear each other.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a lovely reminder!

    • @lucasrem
      @lucasrem 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Roland Boerhof
      they just ignored all the traffic needs, big roids in the 1980 ish years, so they never did anything.
      They only do Arabic and Russian Mafia energy in Amsterdam, pollution.
      Only the Weesperstraat, Ytunnel, rest is local roads, so traffic is a hell, just no access or hardly any access, bikes only. If you think that's good, then you understand the system.
      If you have this many bikes, kick the mopads out, and keep the streets for local cars only, you can work this out.
      We need to do this ourselves, fix all energy needs here, be more independent from Germany and Thehauque.

    • @RalfNieuwenhuijsen
      @RalfNieuwenhuijsen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lucasrem if half the people moving about in amsterdam were in a car, the cars would have to be stacked 10 stories high. These old historic towns are bikes and public transport. There are roads for deliveries and old or disabled people, or when you want to go on a holiday (like skying in Switzerland or the beach in France). They are not there for you to do grocery shoppings or go to work. It doesn't fit, because of population density. The other 99% of the netherlands is not old historic towns, but suburbia.
      I do agree that non local cars should be banned altogether. But we still can't afford for healthy people to use a car instead of a bike for a 10 minute supermarket trip. Its just too many people. And the more cars, the worse the air and the general atmosphere, so less people will want to be outside, driving even more people into a car.

  • @johnveerkamp1501
    @johnveerkamp1501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Goed om te horen ,dat je zo positief bent

  • @aWanderlustForLife
    @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for watching! Subscribe now for more Amsterdam, expat list, and travel videos. If you like these expat list video, please let me know what other videos on the topic you'd like to see. Thanks!

  • @gerdpapenburg7050
    @gerdpapenburg7050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    In Germany we have a saying: °alles kann, nichts muss"
    In the Netherlands it is the same: *alles is mogelijk, niets is nodig"
    I really appreciate your video.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love that! Thank you for sharing!

    • @suzannedevries6393
      @suzannedevries6393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Alles mag, niets moet 😉

    • @lucasrem
      @lucasrem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Funny,
      We all did jobs in germany, working there, pünktlich und gründlich, we all call German offices concentration Camps!
      Amsterdam: 'Scheit aan alles!' nobody lives there, so everybody is trashing it.
      If you go outside the center, it's the Westbank, 'Wir schaffen das nicht'

    • @metalvideos1961
      @metalvideos1961 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      to be completely honest with you i have never EVER heard that saying. and i am 100 percent dutch lol

    • @mariadebake5483
      @mariadebake5483 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@metalvideos1961 Alles kan, niets moet? Toch heel wijd verbreid volgens mij

  • @passais
    @passais 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Taking a vacation is not just expected, it is required. Most companies require you take 2 consecutive weeks of vacation at least once per year.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had heard that in other countries, but not here. None of the companies that my husband or I have worked at had required this. That's so interesting to know and thanks you for sharing!

    • @Erik250591
      @Erik250591 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True. I believe it has to do with the company health insurance. This is nothing like a health plan, but rather similar to your own health insurance in NL. If you get sick or ill, you are insured for that. Similarly, a company will insure itself against medical issues (including mental ones) which are a direct result of work or an accident that happend as a result of your work. If a person gets overworked and they haven't taken at least 2 weeks off, I believe the company can't use their insurance. I believe it's something like that.

  • @RealConstructor
    @RealConstructor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Vacation days are for working people to stay healthy. That’s why the law states that you get a minimum of 20 days a year and your collective labor agreement (CAO) can add days to that amount. A healthy employee is a more productive employee. A collective labor agreement is a contract between (employee) unions and employers in your respective profession. I work in construction and it has a different CAO than other professions. And I like it that in our country every employer needs to have a sound pension plan for their employees. Those funds are often also limited to your own profession, so I pay my pension premiums to a pension fund of the construction profession. Almost all construction companies are connected to that pension fund. And the good part is that employers don’t own that pension fund, they only pay premiums to it for their employees. Those amount of premiums, that employers and employees pay, are also negotiated as part of the CAO.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing all of that! Yes the pension plans are very nice as well. Can't believe I forgot about it! And since the company I worked for and who my husband works for now all gave over the minimum, I still expect 25 days 🤣. Then I would buy 5 more! But even to know you'll get 20 is huge to me. I agree about being healthy and being a better employee. My colleagues and I understood that mental health days are needed to. And when you needed a sick day, you took it. In the US, sometime you had sick days given to you per year (I think I had 3) and sometimes you didn't and you just didn't get paid. I don't know the general law in NL, but at least my company had a nice policy for that.

    • @RealConstructor
      @RealConstructor 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aWanderlustForLife I have 20 vacation days, 5 extra vacation days*, 10 schedule free days, 5 extra schedule free days*, 3 short absence days* and 8 senior days. A total of 51 days. The 13 days with the asterix/star are paid out in extra salary (1 1/13th every month) which you can buy back if you want to take a day off. The days/hours you bought back will be settled every month in your salary after you took the days/hours off. It is obvious that those days/hours are the last you use, because if you don’t use them, you have a higher salary. The short absence days are for doctor, dentist, physiotherapist or hospital visits/appointments or sick leave. The senior days I got when I reached the age of 58, last year.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RealConstructor That's amazing! I hope you enjoy your time off 😊

    • @RealConstructor
      @RealConstructor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aWanderlustForLife Oh I will try. Last year I couldn’t use them all. I had to bring 6 days to this year. I had to plan them in the first half of the year, otherwise I would loose them. I have one day to go from next year. And that are only the days I won’t have to buy back. So I didn’t buy a day last year, the higher salary was a definite benefit. It was a very very busy year in construction last year. Because so many businesses and shops were forced to close, because of covid, they use the time to rebuild, remodel and rearrange their buildings. Also the infrastructure companies, like roads, airports, railways used the slow times to catch up to deferred maintenance and scheduled expansions and maintenance to an earlier time. All to minimize the disruption for users and travellers. And there was already a shortage of personnel in construction. Allow me to advertise for my profession. So if you have technical skills, please come and work in construction, on the building site itself or in the office, like me. Look at the benefits, a very good CAO Bouw & Infra (collective labor agreement) and a very good BPF Bouw (pension fund). I’m not working in housing construction, but they are also very very busy. And they also have the same CAO and pension fund.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RealConstructor Agreed! Sean and I were just talking about this and how we need more people in these types of jobs...even a "handyman" type job! Thanks for the work you do!

  • @robertvaneersel3741
    @robertvaneersel3741 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good to see that you enjoyed the borrel so much. It is a form of productivity. You will be more willing to help a co-worker whom you had a drink with.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is such a great point! Thank you for sharing your perspective.

  • @ispamalot
    @ispamalot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Booking rents out the entire bar 😮!?.. That's a really good vrijdagmiddagborrel, I should probably apply 😅.

    • @crashmatrix
      @crashmatrix 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But it's booking... as a software developer, no. nonononono.

  • @jimmymiata
    @jimmymiata 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you said traveling is part of our culture, its stimulated not only by the amount of days that you get, but you also get vakantie geld (vacation money its about 8% of your annual income its a bit higher taxed than normally but it boils down to more or less an extra month of income

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh yes. I miss the 13th month payment now that I work for myself! 🤣

    • @ronaldderooij1774
      @ronaldderooij1774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aWanderlustForLife Vacation money is not a 13th month. Vacation money is in May, 13th month in November/December.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ah! Sorry! It's been a while since I've gotten either and I'm getting my terms mixed up.

  • @blu0065
    @blu0065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ultra-distance cyclist here. I'm pretty sure that riding on the sidewalk is illegal by default in the USA.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Perhaps now that's the case. But 10 years ago there was a specific area you couldn't cycle on, and I think it had something to do with the courthouse and jail being there. But it was a smallish city of 40,000 and not many people used the sidewalk in most of the town, so i guess it wasn't an issue is most places.

    • @blu0065
      @blu0065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aWanderlustForLife or maybe it could be California (I haven't ridden outside of CA, NV) 🤔

    • @rebeccaalbrecht771
      @rebeccaalbrecht771 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Outside of the shopping area it is not illegal to ride on the sidewalk in the US.

  • @SideWalkAstronomyNetherlands
    @SideWalkAstronomyNetherlands 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    They do not do 3 kisses in all parts of the Netherlands, and Amsterdam is hardly the Netherlands anyways..

    • @michellezevenaar
      @michellezevenaar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really! what parts don't because i haven't found them yet. I've enjoyed corona because people no longer expect tge 3 kisses.

    • @on-the-pitch-p3w
      @on-the-pitch-p3w 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wim V the well known Mokum basher. You will meet this ultra negative person in every Amsterdam (expat) topic. Sour man get a life!

    • @nlbergsma
      @nlbergsma 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Three kisses? It depends a bit on with whom you are and where you are. Where I live it's done only between (mostly young) people who know each other very well. Don't expect all people to appreciate it.

  • @regritchin9888
    @regritchin9888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the insight in to your life after America : )

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My pleasure!

    • @lucasrem
      @lucasrem 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      In America this will never happen, over 60% non refugees refugees,
      Can you imagine Dearborn all over the US?

  • @margreetanceaux3906
    @margreetanceaux3906 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    25 days off, and add to that January 1st, Christmas (2 days), ‘2nd day’ of Easter and of Pentecost, Ascension Day, King’s Day.

    • @michellezevenaar
      @michellezevenaar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kings day isn't automatic unfortunately. Some companies do every year and others it's only 1 in 5 years.

    • @fredbrull136
      @fredbrull136 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@michellezevenaar sorry You’re wrong Kingsday is every Year, liberationday (2WW) is a official day off once every 5 years

    • @michellezevenaar
      @michellezevenaar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fredbrull136 depends on the company and the CAO. There is no law stating that holidays must be free paid days off. Check www.rijksoverheid.nl/onderwerpen/arbeidsovereenkomst-en-cao/vraag-en-antwoord/koningsdag-27-april-vrije-dag

  • @willemh3319
    @willemh3319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the ceo and boardmembers by first name👍👍

  • @kubrabenelli9117
    @kubrabenelli9117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    on the directness: Maak van je hart geen moordkuil

    • @Snaakie83
      @Snaakie83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That'll translate well into English...
      Don't turn your hearth into a murder pitt. (?)

  • @SByoutube123
    @SByoutube123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, We were told people dressed casual when we arrived in Amsterdam, but don't think some international locals appreciate it if you dress in shorts as we were yelled at (not in dutch) and also a nephew had same when he took his shirt off (it was a hot day). So be careful you don't upset more conservative people from other cultures. We also did notice heavily armed vehicle with armed police when we were there driving past Amsterdam square. We noticed this a few times...similar to what we saw in Paris, France. Police or army are more armed.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We rarely wear shorts but also, it rarely gets hot enough to do so. I'll stick with dresses and shorts underneath, instead. I wouldn't want worry about offending people by how you dress, though. It's a very liberal and tolerate city and we are used to people being dressed in the craziest things you can imagine...or nothing at all. The city "celebrates" naked bike day 😂
      I believe I know the police vehicle you mean, but it doesn't come out too often. Something specific may have been happening when you were here, ir the king may have been in town. Relationships here with police are VERY different than in the US ( i don't know where you're from, but just using that as a reference point). We have police in vans, cars, scooters, bikes, and horses. I think we even have a Ferrari for the highways. They go to school for ages and are usually in pairs. People aren't scared of them in the way like you see police and you get nervous that they are after you.

    • @simdal3088
      @simdal3088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ah yes the joys of diversity, the price of the endless influx of regressive cultures. I would not go to Amsterdam and Rotterdam, those cities are not dutch.

  • @scottman895
    @scottman895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Those are definitely good habits to have in the Netherlands! It's interesting how the Dutch seem to be less judgmental when it comes to what people wear compared to people here in the US. Anytime I've either been to gatherings or have hosted them, I always feel that the host usually isn't the one who asks everyone to leave even in an indirect way. It seems that it is when the guests feel like that they should start heading out. I enjoyed this one!

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! I'm trying to do better at giving insight into living abroad and what that means in a practical sense. I always appreciate your feedback!

    • @lindaraterink6451
      @lindaraterink6451 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well honestly, we tend to have a little gigle aswell. When we see 'what people wear at walmart' videos. We would never directly tell them, but secretly gigle about it yes!

  • @mcopaal5926
    @mcopaal5926 ปีที่แล้ว

    in the netherlands, working people need rest from time to time. so it is law that people have a right to x amount of hours of vacation. for overal health reasons. your boss/work can't touch those vacation days and they have to "by law" deliver and pay for those day's is salary.
    you also like the yearly vacation money? :)

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, it's so nice for employees to be treated as people! And I don't get the vacation money anymore since I work for myself 😭 But I used to! My employer started putting it in each month's paycheck which made me a bit sad, though.

  • @CasGroenigen
    @CasGroenigen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can see you are turning dutch😀

  • @lowie267
    @lowie267 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your do it great keep going 👍

  • @magsmargevlogs6273
    @magsmargevlogs6273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well the Dutch people are very direct/ The culture are extremely different.

  • @joannarutkowska9990
    @joannarutkowska9990 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I see the picture from Krakow. 🤗

  • @jpzhang8290
    @jpzhang8290 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think US have a decent healthcare system if you have very good insurance plan. But obviously this doesn't work for everyone.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd go as far to say that it doesn't work for most. But even when I had good insurance compared to most, I was paying a lot for the ER or a specialist visit.

  • @hendman4083
    @hendman4083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Eating too much cheese as an example of a bad habit? There is no such thing as eating "too much" cheese. 🤗

  • @sdv8554
    @sdv8554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for your video, very funny to see as a dutch guy living near Spain for 12 years now.
    Happy you realised the cage the american people are in,... its money what counts tooooo much overthere. The social system in europe was mainly created after the devastating wars last century, and I see this as a blessing. Something you explained nicely in your video. When Obama care came up I was so surprised so many american citizins where against it,... crazy. Anyway, the clown got rid of it after anyhow,...
    Unforunately since more then 20 years now,.. the 'americanisation' (hardcore kapitalism) is kicking in harder and harder in europe. What started by the privatisation of Tatcher and her buddy Reagan. Now Rutte, the president of Holland, pushed sneakely through more and more of this system. In a free market only the rich are winners. So what was free before is now 200 euro a month,.. and no prostests! So sneaky. And of course most people are just satisfied enough with their smartphone,.. for now.
    Sorry for drifting of,.
    One more thing, the directness,.. that is a fenomen of the cold areas,. this stops in italy and half way france, nobody know why :-) Here in Montpllier its the same. When I am too direct here people get scared or something. So I learned how to turn around the question for hours before coming to the point. Except for with true friends of cours.
    Anyway, bedankt voor je video,. ik vroeg me af of je al wat nederlands spreekt. If not, begin er ook maar niet aan :-) Mazzel!

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dank je voor jouw woorden! Mijn Nederlands is niet zo goed nu, maat ik ben leren.

  • @michellezevenaar
    @michellezevenaar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh they definitely judge you based on what you wear but don't make a big deal about it!

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ohhhh! I wish I didn't know that 😂

    • @michellezevenaar
      @michellezevenaar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aWanderlustForLife it's only a problem if you care about what they think.

  • @SideWalkAstronomyNetherlands
    @SideWalkAstronomyNetherlands 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why would you go into debt because of sickness????? Don't you have Insurance in the USA???

    • @tommyprins2072
      @tommyprins2072 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      sick people in the netherlands are usually buried in debt,especially with chronic sickness!

    • @rebeccaalbrecht771
      @rebeccaalbrecht771 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL! No many people have no insurance. The US government couldn't even give people health insurance during a frigging pandemic.

    • @sannej
      @sannej 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not just about insurance. Many a time you will not get paid sick leave.

  • @edwinvenema1017
    @edwinvenema1017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The three kisses...are a complete social disaster... Covid got rid of this exteremely awkward habit.....hope this will stay post-Covid!

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha! I'm sure a lot of people will agree with you!

    • @Dutchbelg3
      @Dutchbelg3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aWanderlustForLife : And a lot of people will disagree !

    • @MrBasinator
      @MrBasinator 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's only as awkward as you make it... You also don't have to participate in it. I just give people hugs or a handshake :D

    • @metalvideos1961
      @metalvideos1961 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dutchbelg3 more will disagree. its a dutch habit.

    • @michellezevenaar
      @michellezevenaar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope it stays gone! So wierd to kiss someone you just met.

  • @SideWalkAstronomyNetherlands
    @SideWalkAstronomyNetherlands 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The directness is culture in the west of the country, don't be that direct when you are in the more civilized parts of the country...we here in the east are way more subtile, and the south is different again.. Friesland is yet an other story..

    • @PkPvre
      @PkPvre 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's funny that you think of us as the uncilvized and we think the same of you in the east and south. Everything is in balance as it should be :)

    • @erwinmulder1338
      @erwinmulder1338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was born in Amsterdam, but mostly raised in Friesland. There are differences, yes, but they are not as big as they are made out to be.

  • @GDixon-ch3yl
    @GDixon-ch3yl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a Southern girl here. The female passive aggressiveness came from getting what you needed because being direct would come with aggressive behavior because we didn't have any rights to earn a living unless it was inherited. I could go on but I'll stop. I'm direct so life in the South has always been a struggle. 😂😂😂I don't care.
    Amsterdam sounds lovely. The biking would be hard but you have mass transport so that is great.
    Regarding the mass transit, how do tourist get a card? Is it different for them?

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's so interesting and I have no idea! Regarding the public transportation question, yes, it's super easy to buy tickets.
      Here's a video I did last year th-cam.com/video/TZKW-gMCC5o/w-d-xo.html
      AND the GVB has a new app where you can buy tickets now. I'm not sure if you can download it outside NL, but just search GVB and pick the new one.

    • @GDixon-ch3yl
      @GDixon-ch3yl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aWanderlustForLife Thank you.

  • @SG-hc3ru
    @SG-hc3ru 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have 40days for vacation ;P

  • @SideWalkAstronomyNetherlands
    @SideWalkAstronomyNetherlands 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't do the kissing, and I'm very Dutch...

    • @mariadebake5483
      @mariadebake5483 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't do it either and I am dutch too!

    • @on-the-pitch-p3w
      @on-the-pitch-p3w 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank God! Wim doesn’t like kissing! Look at his pic… would anyone kiss this guy? Don’t think so.

    • @PetraStaal
      @PetraStaal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@on-the-pitch-p3w I don't like Wim V either but there's no need to get personal.

  • @pjweiner8700
    @pjweiner8700 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honestly I wouldn’t tell people I’m tired I need you to leave and it’s a problem…

  • @scrappedlives
    @scrappedlives 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Due to Covid the kissing stopped. Finally. And I am not doing it ever again! It’s transferring germs!

  • @mdsign001
    @mdsign001 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Expat ... that's the same as an immigrant right?

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. But people search expat on TH-cam, so I usually use that term here. I do explain this in another video.

    • @passais
      @passais 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No, it is not. You are an expat when you have been send out by the company you are working for to do your job in another country.

    • @PkPvre
      @PkPvre 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not at all. Look up the definition...

  • @nishamkp124
    @nishamkp124 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi

  • @SideWalkAstronomyNetherlands
    @SideWalkAstronomyNetherlands 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Only highpaid people have this borrel thing, factory workers don't..

    • @metalvideos1961
      @metalvideos1961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They can though. nothing that is stopping them for doing so. they still can do it.

    • @on-the-pitch-p3w
      @on-the-pitch-p3w 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Among factory workers in Amsterdam it is just normal to have a Friday night drink.

  • @magsmargevlogs6273
    @magsmargevlogs6273 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't like how the great you, almost they kiss you hahah.

  • @corneliusantonius3108
    @corneliusantonius3108 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍

  • @Pittigpiertje
    @Pittigpiertje 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The three kisses is one thing I hope dies out due to covid

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Based on comments, this is a popular hope!

    • @mariadebake5483
      @mariadebake5483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aWanderlustForLife I share that hope!

  • @murphyebass7837
    @murphyebass7837 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    No

  • @philsarkol6443
    @philsarkol6443 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can I kiss you?...three times? I can come to Amsterdam..and deliver them to you ..on friday? just to start the weekend? LOL...I like you, telling your experiences in the Netherlands..keep it up!!

  • @Roel_Scoot
    @Roel_Scoot 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The many vacation days you get in the Netherlands is a product of the social attitude of former generations and is, like your earning one day a month in the US, part of the salary of the workers. In a time with high unemployment especially of young people, the Worker Unions traded money for free days in the yearly negotiations with the Employers. This is part of the Dutch tradition of "polderen": we do some things collective if needed, like with the "Waterschappen"en the polders. So the free days are payed for by a lower salary.

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's really interesting! A lot of work related things are done differently. More of which I appreciate here. In the US, contracts aren't the norm and I lived in a "right to work" state. While I don't understand the specifics, most of the time you can be fired for almost anything and without notice (please, someone correct me if I'm wrong). And the fact that the NL requires vacation days as part of work is huge because that's not a thing in the US at all. Not all is mandatory holidays a thing, it's looked down upon many times if you take days you earn. I know it's all cultural, I just like the way it is here 😊 Although I work for myself now and don't give many vacation days 🤣

  • @benigro12
    @benigro12 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Expat…. That’s another word for immigrant!

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They are actually different words with different meanings. But I am both.

    • @benigro12
      @benigro12 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Expatriates are work/company related and mostly, short term with either dates for return and in possession of a home address.
      Come to a country of your own accord not company related your a work immigrant. Come here to live, immigrant!
      I am Australian by the way, and lived in Amsterdam for 32 years. Recently moved to the Limburg area.
      I have seen the demise of Amsterdam from a mainly Amsterdam/Dutch society to its current foreign infested International society!
      Amsterdam stopped being Amsterdam 20 years ago!

    • @aWanderlustForLife
      @aWanderlustForLife  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Expat is someone who leaves: expatriate
      Immigrant is someone who intends to stay. While we assume other definitions, these are actually in the dictionary when I looked them up.

    • @nimkati5627
      @nimkati5627 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@benigro12 Even back in the 17th century foreigners made up at least 50% of the population of Amsterdam

    • @benigro12
      @benigro12 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nimkati5627 Very true, they also had gay brothels, al walks of religion and immigrants from every corner of the then known world. I fail to see your point.

  • @TheRtm68
    @TheRtm68 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry but Youre question on the mainpage this video of you are Dutch now…..no you never Will,but u maybe u are a person from the netherlands yes then,the language is not a problem as long as u try,,like i try to write in english,don’t worry 75% Will never be dutch eventough the are Born here.

  • @GDixon-ch3yl
    @GDixon-ch3yl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Russian's do the three kisses.

  • @aldrixalkemadus
    @aldrixalkemadus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Since nobody has done it it is Time to do the traditional G E K O L O N I S E E R D

    • @GabberPinda
      @GabberPinda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hoe bedoel je?

    • @aldrixalkemadus
      @aldrixalkemadus 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GabberPinda het was nog niet in de comments

  • @tjkrijgsman
    @tjkrijgsman 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    you worked at booking.com?