Marriage is a relationship of extraordinary care... we are our beloved's agent for happiness, we must avoid hurting them, and we must make joint decisions for mutual care. (WWJD). We do not have a *right* to be loved by the one we love. Rather, we cultivate the love for us that we want by treating our beloved with extraordinary care. It's so true, that this EXTRA care is so inevitably romantic. How to make a great thing last.
It sounds like “hate” is more realistically resentment. Also, as hard as we may all try-no one can make ANYONE LOVE ANYONE. Behaviors can’t do that. This truly is a transactional type of relationship and if I give to my spouse XYZ, I can now expect XYZ because it’s pre-paid for. Thats scary and unsafe for many families-especially women.
Your comment about the wife being a complaining wife is sexist. Why didn't you say complaining husband too. It's not just wives who complain. You got this wrong sir and it needs to be corrected.
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Marriage is a relationship of extraordinary care... we are our beloved's agent for happiness, we must avoid hurting them, and we must make joint decisions for mutual care. (WWJD). We do not have a *right* to be loved by the one we love. Rather, we cultivate the love for us that we want by treating our beloved with extraordinary care.
It's so true, that this EXTRA care is so inevitably romantic. How to make a great thing last.
Great advice
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It sounds like “hate” is more realistically resentment.
Also, as hard as we may all try-no one can make ANYONE LOVE ANYONE. Behaviors can’t do that.
This truly is a transactional type of relationship and if I give to my spouse XYZ, I can now expect XYZ because it’s pre-paid for. Thats scary and unsafe for many families-especially women.
Your list of needs, are not right.
Your comment about the wife being a complaining
wife is sexist. Why didn't you say complaining husband too. It's not just wives who complain.
You got this wrong sir and it needs to be corrected.