Full video Raymond Suitcase Fork and Spoon
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- I used this video in a talk to young moms to show them how they can damage not only their marriages but their own inner peace by holding a grudge. And the ending tells the whole moral of the story-I won't spoil it!
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My sister and I quote this line often:
“Don’t let a suitcase filled with cheese be your big fork and spoon.”
Classic!
I love that lol
I don't get it...
@@TermlessHGW Watch the video.
Its so good lol.
Or Marie could have taught her son to bring the suitcase up rather than get Deborah to back down.
Frank and Marie rest in peace. You made us laugh. You two were the most funny on "Everybody Loves Raymond". You will never be forgotten🙏
Jose Robles, thank you for saying this. 💕
So true
They died??
😢
Absolute legends. RIP
This episode won an Emmy for writing.
I can tell!
Well deserved!
Oh wow
Rightfully so
This was a real fight with a writer and his wife. Apparently this all started when a writer asked the group before a meeting started...."so I think I'm in a fight" explained the suitcase, and the episode was written.
What I loved about this show was the unpredictable humor. Debra saying she thought the big fork and spoon were Robert's baby utensils was so unexpected. One of the many reasons this show is a classic.
Loved that part 😂
And when she told Marie that she and Frank seemed happy😂😂😂with such a straight face
for a guy who had no experience in acting...ray made this show as well as the whole cast!! One of best sitcoms ever.
mastermind, you're incorrect. Ray was easily the best part of the show. Though I will admit Marie sometimes gave him a good run for his money. But they were all great. The show would have been worse off if any of them had decided to leave.
@Sauron Merciful pete boyle
they all got along so their collective chemistry made the show. the writing as well. i'm not a believer that one or two individuals makes a show successful.
I think the cast really started to “gel” after a few episodes. I think they were really good. I did feel bad about the one twins passing sad it was suicide.
He was horrible in the begining, you could really tell he had no acting experience, but got rrally good as the show progressed, Jerry Seinfeld on the hand...
Brilliant writing!
You are mad at someone your whole life and think you are holding them hostage when the truth is, they don't even know what they did or remember it. You were the hostage all along. Let it go!
You just opened my eyes a bit. Thank you, Tim. 💡
Great show
Lol so true. That’s why I don’t care much what people do.
Damn that's deep.......mind if I borrow it
@ConsMan21 Which phrase? Ray asks, what do you think? Robert responds, this is insane (insane as in crazy, stupid, ridiculous).
This show was so well-written.
The scene with Debra and Marie in the latter’s kitchen will ALWAYS be one of my favorites from this show. For once, Marie isn’t pushing an agenda or being manipulative. Her story is clearly coming from a place of love, and her advice, instead of the passive-aggressive things she usually says, is genuinely helpful and well thought out. It shows that Marie really does care about Debra, and that Debra respects Marie and her wisdom, too. Plus Doris Roberts knocks the monologue out of the park-what an actress. :)
You have a true and deep understanding of this brilliant series!
I felt her agenda was to make sure her precious baby son doesn't have to do the work his wife ought to have done because she spoke to Debra instead of Ray or to the both of them since this lesson should apply to both not just to the wife. So yes, even in goodness she is subconsciously asserting an agenda.
Yes, but she spoke with Debra because the 2 of them discovered the cheese together and Marie felt inspired to reveal something personal to Debra. It's true that Marie usually has an agenda but her agenda comes from a place of caring for her family which is what distinguishes her from being conniving. And by the way, there are plenty of instances when Marie sees right through Ray's BS and she calls him on it, as most Italian mothers do. She just can't allow anyone else to do so!
@@AH-le3rw That is definitely possible, but I tend to agree with tenisfin. In Marie's story, she's clearly comparing herself to Debra and Frank to Ray (wife and husband); the same story also paints Frank as being in the wrong, so she's implicitly suggesting that Ray is too. Plus unlike other times, when she insinuates that Debra is being unreasonable, here she's essentially accusing Ray of being too stubborn and prideful to move the luggage, especially since she realizes he put the cheese in the suitcase to begin with. And like tenisfin said, the fact that Marie reveals a deep secret JUST to Debra is kind of moving--the fact that she doesn't want Ray in on this story suggests that it's a special moment just for herself and Debra, woman to woman and wife to wife. :)
@@christiankrenek7689 Marie could have said I want to see you and Ray later tonight and talked to them both about give and take in marriage. Instead she placed the onus on Debra to "be the bigger person" when for 45 yrs she would rather hold a grudge and think about the fight in silence than to "be the bigger person." She didn't bring it up with Frank to the point he had even forgotten about it. And it didn't seem like she ever gave the same speech about marriage to Ray, her spoiled brat. So it is double standard and hypocrisy all rolled into one.
"Debra, you can't keep cheese in a suitcase." 😂😂😂
Honestly one of my favorite lines in this episode.
Hilarious!
I absolutely lost it when she said that 😂😂
I swear Frank is my spirit animal. It was because of him I got hooked with this show. R.I.P Mr. Pete Boyle, thanks for making my childhood!
Angeli Rodriguez wats ya fb
Angeli Rodriguez the only role Peter played that I hated was in monsters ball, he played a abusive racist, I just didn’t watch him after that, great actor though.
I've always wanted Cardigans because he always wore them on the show
Patti Burton Salmonsen who cares how the fuck you feel 😑 it’s called acting and they play people called characters so take your biased sensitivity and keep it wedged up your ass FYI the world will never be like you want it to be fuck face 😵
@@pattiburtonsalmonsen3202 three years too late but that is the dumbest thing I have ever read. You stop watching somebody because of a character you don't like? Are you that dense?
Robert's face when Ray finished his story 😂
my guts are hurting from laughing 🤣.then after You are a baby lmao
Everybody Loves Raymond was the best family therapy we had ever!!! Miss it so much
This amazing episode proves why this show is a classic.
This episode is based on an actual situation with one of the writers and his wife.
Fuck that! Shit!😅
it's true
Who said?
10/10 if it’s true ( we need proof), he probably got couch treatment after.
🤣🤣🤣🤣Frank
The thing I love about this show is how realistic it was. I can totally see this argument happening and also being the one to take the shirt out and wear it. So perfect
I still have all 9 seasons on dvd, watched front to back over 10 times. This episode is definately top 10.
I swear this scene is so legendary. After watching it, you'll never keep your eye off from looking for the fork and spoon in other episodes lol.
They both have passed away, great actors
Ghulam Abbas I prefer Frank way over Maria
@@Mrvwcc11
How can you not adore the sweetest Frankenstein ever!
Sad
One of the twins committed suicide.
"Debra, you can't keep cheese in a suitcase!!!"
Left out the best part; wrestling with the suitcase at the end.
@@josuemillan4290 Plus when he packs his clothes in a plastic bag instead of the suitcase haha
It's not hard to imagine couples to have a silent war over just such things. This episode can and has happened to many of us. lol
Lol
It's actually based on something that happened to the writer of this episode
And for many it's forgotten that
Greed due to
Anger due to
Possessiveness due to
Desire due to
Attachment due to
Dwell on things stopped by
(Dwell on items)
Realising the uncontrolled mind
Rise above it. You can reach for peace if you're no longer wallowing in the mud.
"I always look for the good raymond"..... That's because you already got the bad and the ugly. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
samar arya Hahahaha! This episode was hilarious! 😂😂😂 Real life! LOL!
Marie's reaction when she sees what the big fork and spoon are hiding is priceless
“Don’t let a suitcase filled with cheese be your big fork and spoon”
- Classic!
I cant even breath 😂😂😂 "this is all your fault" " when did we get those?" IM DYING 😂😂😂😂😂
As the old saying goes a woman has a memory span of 50 years we forget nothing. Men however forfet pretty quickly 🤣🤣 in other words Frank has already risen above 45 years of pettiness and passive-aggressive behaviour 🤣
one sided cold war
@@wickedwitchoftheeast88frank: “I used to be a Gentleman!!”
@@shadowsonicsilver6 my favourite Frank moment 🤣🤣
God, Marie was so good at this role!!!!
I loved this show because of old lady Marie. She was helarious. her voice and acting skills are beyond description.
“Don’t let a suitcase filled with cheese, be your big fork and spoon.”
OMG hilarious. I’m Italian and my grandparents had the same big fork and spoon on the wall in their kitchen with the matching giant wooden salad bowl on the table ….
“Sure, Raymond. I remember every one of your comings and goings. You’re my whole life!” 🤣🤣🤣
So many comments miss the whole point about this episode. Ray and Debra are both wrong - either one could easily have carried the suitcase. Marie’s advice was don’t let a stupid issue like this become a thorn in your whole relationship.
@ Dave Glo I agree with you to an extent that they were both wrong and being petty over a suitcase but Ray behaved far worst here. Just because he "wanted to win" he put cheese in the suitcase went away on a work trip knowing full well the cheese would rot and stink forcing Debra to have to clean the case and take it upstairs thereby making more work for Debra! And he was one the who left there it in the first place.
This was honestly the most stupid fight they had its a dam suitcase who cares who moves it i mean really i think they finally lost their sanity
I believe the word is "fork and spoon" in the whole relationship :D
@@wickedwitchoftheeast88 Yeah, and it's usually the man's job to carry luggage, he should have pulled it up the stairs in the beginning.
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I'm shocked, you two seemed so happy!
Don't you just love the sarcasm lol?!
I’ve been married 44 years and whenever someone asks me my advice on a long marriage I always say, “Don’t let a suitcase full of cheese be your big fork and spoon.” Works every time.
Thanks a lot for the advice! It’s better to learn how to share life with each other, rather than avoiding the apposite genders 😄 #Princella #TheQueenMaker
Nice
❤😂
Thanks for advice lad
@@Cadorkisget th
Frank: "When did we get those"??
In other words, Frank had already risen passed 45 years of pettiness...
Or he is oblivious and forgot them or Marie made the whole story up she told Debra LOL
Frank forgot about that 45 years ago.
jtrobins1 my father used to say that a woman had a steel trap memory of 50 yrs and forgot nothing and a man had a memory span of a year tops!!!
Frank clearly forgot they existed
No that just goes to show that us men don't worry about petty stuff or we are just clueless LOL
“You better be the only ugly thing in this house when I get back”
Lmao
That's the best way they could have possibly ended that, with Frank saying, "When did we get those?"
"So why didn't you just move it yourself?" "Because I'm at work all day" "Oh and what Debra's doing isn't work?"
LOOOOOOVE Robert!
It'd be funnier if Robert was being sarcastic but we all know how sincere he is. What Debra does all day is her job, just like Raymond working is his job.
@@Harry-bn5mp your the stuiped one u itiot!🙄😅
That's why he's still single
@@itsnotatoober Robert was engaged to Amy at this point, he mentions his upcoming honeymoon in the first line.
@@ifeelpretty5790 single at 40 thats his whole character watch the show
Love the ending when Frank said "When did we get those"? LOL!
The best writers and the best actors. And we have a winner!
This whole show is totally relateable, my grandparents are Frank and Marie times 10000
It bugs me when some people tell me that they don’t find this show funny. I could watch these episodes over and over and crack up every time 😆
Every book I’ve read on television comedy and writing has always used this show as a top example. This episode proves why.
Well some episodes are offensive. “Super Bowl” and the “Date for Peter” episodes can’t be rewatched because of how rude they come across
The thing with this show is that, in some cases including my own, is that one gets tired of the yelling and the screaming. The drama gets tiresome. It's the disfunction that gets annoying. Yeah, couples fight, but not as frequently as say Frank and Marie or Ray and Deborah. Yeah the love within the family is there, but some people just get tired of the drama. It also falls into a predictable rut of "Ray does X and starts drama over it."
3:03 Robert's face is priceless 😂
Lol
Lol
@@mikechialastri7777 lol
@@dannyrichards6233 I agree Dan his face is so hilarious!
@@mikechialastri7777 lol
I laughed so hard when it came on! "Debra, you can't keep cheese in a suitcase."
So glad you put in the scene when Marie removes the fork and spoon. That part is still funny.
Robert face when he say ‘this is insane’ is incredible
Frank had no idea of WHAT Marie was talking about😂
I swear the ending when Frank says : " when did we get those ? " Is literally EVERY MAN 😂
Women overthink stuff 😂
The Normal One I love the way Marie says " This is all your fault".
Aaaaa
😩🤣
I agree because I can relate. I'm moving in the future and I found a lot things and I'm like when did we buy this stuff that my parents haven't seen or used in years.
Raymond was literally aware of the situation, though.
Petty as it was this was one of the best episodes. I just laughed when Ray was telling the story especially the part when he said Debra is wearing a sweater she packed in the suitcase and Ray came downstairs with a wrinkled shirt from the suitcase.
That part had me crying 😂😂😭
The fact that they were petty to each other is exactly why this episode is one of the best as Marie explains she and Frank had the same fight, but instead of moving past it, they held it against each other for 45 years. The point of the episode is to show it’s better to let go and move on than to hold a grudge until you prove your right.
So petty! 😂
Marie's words of wisdom live on. I often advise people who bring me into their relationship nightmares to "not let the suitcase full of cheese be your fork and spoon."
Frank's "When did we get those" at the very end is just genius. Really wish tv nowadays had great writing like this.
RIP Doris Roberts 1925-2016
That was actually solid advice Marie gave Debra.
"When I get back, you better be the only ugly thing that is left in this house" was just a beginning of 45 years of... joy and happiness. Certain shows must part of a curriculum.
RIP Marie. May you always criticize Debra's cooking in the great beyond.
Considering the great beyond involves cooking, I'd say that was a given. Sausage Party joke ftw.
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Yes
When I was a kid I absolutely hated this show we had to watch it before our show would come on afterwards but now I love it 😻
Lol Why You Used To Hate It
the ending when the big fork and spoon were faded into the wall permanently was the icing on the cake !
I loved the audience’s reaction when Debra pulled out the cheese.
As somebody who grew up with a far bigger fork and spoon set on the kitchen wall, this is hilarious.
6:26 the groom's side of the church was like a Gypsy camp😂🤣😭 I love Marie lol she reminds me of my grandma. This show is a classic! I still watch it everyday🖤
Brad Garrett one of great comic actors. If you appeared in Seinfeld you have made it . A great actor indeed.
I love the story lines - they are so realistic
This is the BEST ELR episode, and it’s GENIUS. Why “genius”? Because it addresses such a common “couples” issue, and yet heretofore - after YEARS of “couples” sitcoms - it had never been done before. ELR was there first, on a theme that should’ve been already done a million times.
"Im going to my mothers and when I get back, you better be the only ugly thing left in this house!" cracks me up every single time.
One of the best episodes ever!
The dynamics between Deb and Marie was awesome.
3:00 Robert's face was priceless. 🤣
My wife and I argued over whether toilet paper should roll off the front or the back. We did not fight, but we both felt strongly. I had a dozen solid reasons why rolling off the front was better. She was clearly wrong, emotional, not logical. She did not have a reason. It just felt right to her. Every time either one of us visited the throne we each changed it to the way we liked it -- for years. Then, one day I noticed it had stayed the way I wanted it for several days, maybe a week. I couldn't stand it. I changed it to her way. We both laughed. A month later, I gave her a Christmas card "From now on it will roll off the back. It is a gift I give you. Merry Christmas." That line from Marie is one of the best sayings I have ever heard: "Don't let a suitcase full of cheese be your fork and spoon."
This is my favorite episode...still makes me laugh like the first time I saw it
Lol
Seriously, why didn't Ray finish carrying the case upstairs; he had his hand wrapped around the frigging handle!!
There are some very rare moments where Marie Can be a good Mother-in-law
I gotta watch this show again, this was part of my childhood
This goes to show that their marriage isn't going anywhere. Even if she takes the fork and spoon down, they'll STILL be there on the wall!
This was one of the best scenes of the series
Brad's face at 3:01 is priceless! Cracks me up every time!
I personally LOOOOOVED Debra's intense reaction to Frank broaching the subject of the suitcase. She handled it beeeeeeeautifully and practically threw him out of the house 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 love them both!!!
She is an idiot who believes that everyone owes her. Was it that hard to just ask Ray to put the suitcase away?
Forgot about this show.. sure beats today’s comedy 👏👏🔥🔥🔥
It's amazing how this show revolves around the littlest things and it just comes out so funny. How the hell do you do it?
Many of the scenarios were based on real life. The events in this episode happened with Monica Horan (Amy) and her husband
Took some notes from Seinfeld
It resonates because it's real life. 😂
"When did we get those?" Yep, that's just about right.
Marie on the Big Fork & Spoon: “they’re completely without nuance.” LOL! As if she’s ever been the arbiter of what constitutes art or high class!
After waiting 5 days, I just unpacked the last suitcase. I didn't want it to become our fork and spoon.
Marie has always claimed she’s immaculate in her “cleanliness,” I wish Debra could of seen underneath the spoon and fork just for laughs haha!! 😂😂
Lol. 😂
Maybe the best line in all of Everybody Loves Raymond:
"When did we get those?"
Wow... Fork and spoon scene is one solid advice to new couples.
the writers took a prop (big fork and spoon) that's been a part of the set decoration from the beginning and created an amazing story from it
Always made me wonder if it was pre-planned so from the very start of the show because since the very first episode until this one the wall paper around the fork and spoon never suddenly became darker.
For all Marie's insistence she is a meticulous housekeeper, she somehow has failed to notice the big fork and spoon revealing 45 years of kitchen grime, never, apparently, wiped down that wall sufficiently.
I think it was the wallpaper just aged around them.
@@12Blueace It is just the age. Color of wallpaper and paint get destroyed by sunlight over time. Cleaning isn't going to do anything, only covering it from sunlight.
I love women, but y'all sure can keep a grudge 😂😂
Yep
@Mario1611 Whilst I agree with you I have to say Ray was the pettiest here. He left it there in the first place and expected Debra to take it up empty and put it away and when she refused he put the cheese inside then left for his work trip knowing full well the cheese would go rotten, stink the house out forcing Debra to empty, clean and then take the suitcase upstairs all because he was too lazy and that its considered "wife work"
Ray couldn't even remember what Debra wore on their wedding day, how could he remember a particular jumper she wore on their crappy vacation? Haha
Thank you! That was totally contrary to his character. 👍🏼
Believe it or not, men CHOOSES to forget when they know that it's something they can't use as a weapon against you🤷🏻♀️..
“How’s the suitcase thing going?” 🤣🤣🤣
I will always remember this episode it was hysterical I never laughed so much in my life too bad they didn’t show that little final scenes of the episode with Deborah and Ray fighting over who’s going to be move the suitcase and be the bigger person .. that was truly funny 😄 😅
"Don't let a suitcase full of cheese be your fork and spoon"
Marie Barone
I remember this episode specifically because of the fork and spoon. I LOVE the fork and spoon! I'd hang'em in _my_ kitchen!
YES!!! So long I have looked for a clip of this and you put it all together very nicely. Thanks.
I loved Marie. It takes a genius talent to insult Debra and/or her family for so many years while “being nice”.
Doris Roberts was such an amazing actress, stealing every scene before she opened her mouth because you were waiting for IT.
But, being a “not skinny woman” myself I coveted her ‘over blouses’. So many were beautiful. Same black slacks, same black short sleeved top. But the most of the long sleeved open blouses were wonderful.
I wish I had a costume department. When that show ended Doris should have wheeled a trunk in there and packed them all up.
i want a big fork and spoon for my own place because of this show
Lol! yeah me too! I'm a newlywed and the story is perfect! 😂
@@cariannette1 Me Too So I Can Think of The Ending of This Episode!
Robert: I always look for the good Raymond
Ray: yeah it's because you already got the bad and the ugly
Remember when we went to Connecticut for wknd???
Sure Raymond....I remember each + every one of your comings + goings !
The material on this show is so realistic. Brilliant show on many levels.
You better be the only ugly thing when i get back
That was a funny line
I wish frank and marie had their own spin off show...hilarious...rip to both
I always liked the way Frank ate his meal. He showed so much passion and love to the food that would make me go and make a sandwich to enjoy it!