Elderly people become sturbon as they get older. It is not their mistake; it is something natural. We are meant to take care of them no matter how they try to keep us at a distance.
They don't get stubborn, it's that people don't understand them until the time they also get to that age when they realize what was happening with the aged ones. 😏
Not stubborn , their brain cells develop a problem either Alzheimer's or dementia. The two can take long to be detected even 15 yrs before showing the first signs that they are sick . Similar symptoms are depression, isolation, being suspicious, they can be aggressive, disorientation in both time n places etc . These can cause a lift in close family members n friends who don't understand her .
Children and grandchildren have a duty of care to their parents regardless. It's a God given role. Children would not have been whom they are without the love and care given to them by their parents. Even if you have a significant difference in the family, children still owe love and care to their parents.
It is clear that she did not have a good relationship with her neighbours, let alone her own children. If she called her own neighbours devil worshippers, refused a househelp to keep her company, and her children were distant, she must have been the problem.
Maybe she got mental health and it's hard in her age to cope with the disease, and for people including her family to understand what she was going through. Actually it's very sad for the aged when nobody cares for them or understands their needs.
People need to realize when one gets old their mental status change .they become paranoid and their personality changes .How do you send your mother money but you don’t bother to check on her ..
Why do we abandon our elderly relatives this way . Sending money alone is not enough , this is a shame to our society .how do you send money to a person without calling them to know if they are ok .
@@janendegwa5462How do you make assumptions as if you were there, as a family member? Do you even know that children can cut off narcissistic parents? The fact that her own neighbours took so long to realise, and they said that she is reserved, tells you that she is not so close with her neighbours.
9 months without talking to their mother. I hope they will not form committee for burial and hold a big burial ceromy while their mother died in such a manner . I've come to appreciate dogs , very loyal to the owner that it died next to her . children should take care of their ageing parents even if they probe difficult to handle.
@@HardlyTalkthe neighbors seem not to understand her didn't you here the neighbor woman bad mouthing her because she said that she worships God the neighbor said then what happened to the God she was worshipping it's better to die alone peacefully with your problems ,it's not a big deal I am sure that's how the cucu saw it and she was right after she died nothing matters kila mtu hio ndio njia
My frend kenyans back hime no care and them make self busy like lol aometimes busy for noting..them no value of human life.Tunataka kuwa wazungu wazazi wakizeeka hawana maana tena😢😢😢oooo.God of mercy!How nooooow????
Dementia and other medical conditions could have jerked the family members. Old age comes with too many complications and one can't ignore the need to give a care services 24/7.
Don't Judge someone who is not there to defend herself once in my house i almost died in my house thank God my daughter in-law was never far from me i took a wrong medicine immediately after few minute's i could not breath so called my daughter in-law who called a Doctor if it was for me i would died because i was unable to call even a doctor by myself so don't Judge anyone before your hear from them what might have happen the next person to blame the Son who never to bother to find a time for his Mother so sad
Doesn't matter ..mzazi ni mzazi....borrow a leaf from ophans who lost parents like us n lose meaning in life. Lost my elderly parents in 2022 and only the wearer. ... knows better.
There must be traumatic events in life that leads one to do this. There's evidence of gross neglect of physical contact with the family. A phone call every other day is enough to keep someone on check and visits by family members. That's our generation of children. She was better off in the village where people visit each other randomly. Very sad story indeed 😭😭🛐🙏🏾🙋🏽♀️
Beach 🏖️ pris. This is a very isolated case and only the owners know why. Rarely do children neglect their parents especially in afriga where you blackmail them with selective bible quotes 🗑️
God help us to love and take care of our parents and neighbours...fo nine months no bothered to know where she was...kwani she didn't have even a single friend....
I wish the family members were checking on her health since she was older and could have noticed if she got alzeimer or dementia sickness which could make her act that way and get isolated. Some gets very agitated and people may not understand them. So sad 😢
Very sad indeed i don't live with my family anymore but children and grandchildren they are all calling me all the time when i don't call back they sent messages those who are near and the one who are far away we are always in tuch
However bad your parents maybe we need to know their wellbeing. They catered for you when when you couldn't and now they need your help you live them on their own very unfortunate.
That's strange. How can you send money for months even without sayin hi or asking whether its well received. I tend to think there is bad connection in between. Again a pilot who is in nairobi and dont bother to know her mums condition and her well being??????????????
Mental health is real b 4 you judge she may have been hursh to those that came near her. If you want friends be friendly too. Pole sana kwa jamii na marafiki. Pride is bad🙏🙏
I work with old People in Europe and i can tell some of them are aggressive and have dementia and sometimes they don’t open the door or they open and send me away but good thing when they are at that stage,the government intervenes and they’re taken to old people’s home and they get 24hrs caregivers
Only the relatives know the reason why. This is a very isolated case and abnormal as most afrigan children can't neglect their parents especially with their selective bible quotes to guilt trip them and chilling curse threats 😂
Something fishy is going on.A whole pilot can not stay with her mother or make a visit???God help our parents..money can't buy peace nor healthy..so shameful
Believe you me the present generation do not care to find out about their parents. Most of the time, it is you the parents who call to find out how the children are. They are always tooo busy to visit or call.
Something not adding up ...when you send money your account show less balances after withdrawal......how come the son did not see no one withdrawal money?????????????and detect red flag for action
Those judging the family and the children,look yourselves in the mirror. No family is perfect, family dynamics are complicated, even your own family has issues, every one navigating a way to keep peace.
If you're old and do mot even want a live-in househelp yet she's paid for by your children, abd they also pay your monthly upkeep, then how do you expect to blame the same children when they walk away?
I suspect suspect this is a family issue surely nobody in the whole family even tried to call this mama even one time in nine month to say hello does she have a relatives it doesn't matter how she died m imekuwa Bora kuliko m
Dementia is real, families need to be educated about dementia in elderly people so to detect the early onset,some dementia patients come along as stubborn and rude,some isolate themselves and separate themselves completely from people and families. But above all, this story sounds very weird and fishy.
Huyo na yeye ni kutuma pesa na hapigi simu...imenikumbusha ile story ya elderly man mwenye alipeka simu kwa fundi on his mind imeharibika sababu hakuna mtu anampigia
@@carolmiano3242 she was diabetic ..and it was in the family..not neighbours it's these church people who are always boring they keep preaching to you by force...and even they come do your footsteps..
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Elderly people become sturbon as they get older. It is not their mistake; it is something natural. We are meant to take care of them no matter how they try to keep us at a distance.
They don't get stubborn, it's that people don't understand them until the time they also get to that age when they realize what was happening with the aged ones. 😏
Not stubborn , their brain cells develop a problem either Alzheimer's or dementia. The two can take long to be detected even 15 yrs before showing the first signs that they are sick . Similar symptoms are depression, isolation, being suspicious, they can be aggressive, disorientation in both time n places etc . These can cause a lift in close family members n friends who don't understand her .
It's true,they need love even though they don't understand it,it's only God who pays you for the good heart you show them
Children and grandchildren have a duty of care to their parents regardless. It's a God given role. Children would not have been whom they are without the love and care given to them by their parents. Even if you have a significant difference in the family, children still owe love and care to their parents.
Another reason to support granny wambui and mbugua's wedding.....companionship is essential
It is clear that she did not have a good relationship with her neighbours, let alone her own children. If she called her own neighbours devil worshippers, refused a househelp to keep her company, and her children were distant, she must have been the problem.
Maybe she got mental health and it's hard in her age to cope with the disease, and for people including her family to understand what she was going through. Actually it's very sad for the aged when nobody cares for them or understands their needs.
@@NellyNelly12 True, that could be the case. But also, we never know the real truth. Some parents are toxic.
She was probably depressed
Don't ever blame. All that are true signs of dementia which progress to Alhzimers. People confuses it to meanness
@@trendinggossip8692 LOL...where in my comment do you anything about anyone killing another? Take your assumptions where they make sense.
goes to show how effective nyumba kumi initiative is.
People need to realize when one gets old their mental status change .they become paranoid and their personality changes .How do you send your mother money but you don’t bother to check on her ..
i wish i would comment
Even just cal, seriously?
Its clear that this woman was not alright and needed help..Dementia, diabetic etc
Walikuwa hawapendani
Well said
True, very few people in society understand such people
Unatumia mama yako pesa bila hata kupiga simu na kumjulia hali..... beyond words ☹️☹️
THE COMMENT I WAS LOOKING FOR
Remember she told them not to be visited or called.
But when someone become old things changes. That woman brought kids with so many struggles. But the kids abdoned her.
Why aki. Even if my mum is the worst, u just say hae. And go back. But there more to this.
And he's in Nairobi.
Kwani how often does he visit her?
Did she have daughters in law???
This is very strange....
Reminds me of a case highlighted somewhere in Europe where the grandmother was discovered after two years😢
Funny
@@susankariuki449 it's normal in Europe and the TV is on and the bills are paid every month 🙄
@@susankariuki449how is that funny? You are hurtless
Why do we abandon our elderly relatives this way . Sending money alone is not enough , this is a shame to our society .how do you send money to a person without calling them to know if they are ok .
Its only the ones who were sending can answer that question .....
This happens because the sons wife does not want the responsibility and the man follows the wife decisions
Uliza watumaji
Walikuwa wamekosana, probably huyo mama alikuwa hana story na watu
@@janendegwa5462How do you make assumptions as if you were there, as a family member? Do you even know that children can cut off narcissistic parents? The fact that her own neighbours took so long to realise, and they said that she is reserved, tells you that she is not so close with her neighbours.
9 months without talking to their mother.
I hope they will not form committee for burial and hold a big burial ceromy while their mother died in such a manner
. I've come to appreciate dogs , very loyal to the owner that it died next to her . children should take care of their ageing parents even if they probe difficult to handle.
Dont you think it is also weird that none of her kids bothered? Even neighbours?
Definitely she was so toxic. There are such kind of people
Another video shows how her house was ransacked and gadgets damaged including the ceiling,foulplay.
@@boniboni4309Her day had come and if not,the killers will be known because inside the house everything was scattered .
@@HardlyTalkthe neighbors seem not to understand her didn't you here the neighbor woman bad mouthing her because she said that she worships God the neighbor said then what happened to the God she was worshipping it's better to die alone peacefully with your problems ,it's not a big deal I am sure that's how the cucu saw it and she was right after she died nothing matters kila mtu hio ndio njia
It took someone from oversees to know that she had died,yet she has relatives in Nairobi,
My frend kenyans back hime no care and them make self busy like lol aometimes busy for noting..them no value of human life.Tunataka kuwa wazungu wazazi wakizeeka hawana maana tena😢😢😢oooo.God of mercy!How nooooow????
Family know better
Dementia and other medical conditions could have jerked the family members. Old age comes with too many complications and one can't ignore the need to give a care services 24/7.
They're no better words to describe such a situation 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
Don't Judge someone who is not there to defend herself once in my house i almost died in my house thank God my daughter in-law was never far from me i took a wrong medicine immediately after few minute's i could not breath so called my daughter in-law who called a Doctor if it was for me i would died because i was unable to call even a doctor by myself so don't Judge anyone before your hear from them what might have happen the next person to blame the Son who never to bother to find a time for his Mother so sad
Lets not forget that we are living in a sick society n many families have similar cases unreported
If they are not reported then how do you know? You sadist
Very unfortunate indeed.
Every village has such family
Sooo true
Maybe she's been the toxic kinda parent/relative/neighbor
Exactly
That’s it
No matter how toxic she is at the end she is your mum
Doesn't matter ..mzazi ni mzazi....borrow a leaf from ophans who lost parents like us n lose meaning in life. Lost my elderly parents in 2022 and only the wearer. ... knows better.
Siblings rivalry becomes the norm
There's something wrong somewhere in that family
This is not new, many many families living like this. Some dont even provide any upkeep let alone calling or visit.
How busy was the Son that he never got time to call her after sending money?
Kama anakwambia usishugulike na yeye, ni simu yako atapokea
Surely 9months! You should be calling your parents daily
Na kama hataki kupigiwa unapiga ya nini
Maybe she got dementia sickness which many people don't understand the symptoms 🤔 especially in her old age. This is very sad 😢
9 months? how possible is this?
In my village, there is such a woman .... very rich and reserved....
They are usually devil worshippers If you dont know
There must be traumatic events in life that leads one to do this. There's evidence of gross neglect of physical contact with the family. A phone call every other day is enough to keep someone on check and visits by family members. That's our generation of children. She was better off in the village where people visit each other randomly. Very sad story indeed 😭😭🛐🙏🏾🙋🏽♀️
Beach 🏖️ pris. This is a very isolated case and only the owners know why. Rarely do children neglect their parents especially in afriga where you blackmail them with selective bible quotes 🗑️
It was her request not to be Disturbed
This beyond words
never know what you got till it's gone.take care
Ooh no this is very sad
How possible is this??
God help us to love and take care of our parents and neighbours...fo nine months no bothered to know where she was...kwani she didn't have even a single friend....
Kwani hakuwa hata na mama rafiki hata mmja....
She was very reserved 😮 ajizike
She was probably very toxic most of her life.
Why send money and not call her or visit her😢
If they have been sending money who was acknowledging it, even if it was sent on phone, definitely the phone was off.
9 months...relative 200 meters away senseless
There must be something that was wrong with her. There's no way her relatives and children couldn't go to visit her.
Some mothers are very toxic,you can stay even a year without calling 😢
True
I wish the family members were checking on her health since she was older and could have noticed if she got alzeimer or dementia sickness which could make her act that way and get isolated. Some gets very agitated and people may not understand them. So sad 😢
Very sad story,you take them to thogoto and they are mistreated 1
The smell that must have come from that compound must have been nerve-racking. The story doesn't add up.
This is strange
Very sad indeed i don't live with my family anymore but children and grandchildren they are all calling me all the time when i don't call back they sent messages those who are near and the one who are far away we are always in tuch
If I call my mum several times and she doesn't pick, I call my neighbor.
However bad your parents maybe we need to know their wellbeing. They catered for you when when you couldn't and now they need your help you live them on their own very unfortunate.
That's strange. How can you send money for months even without sayin hi or asking whether its well received. I tend to think there is bad connection in between. Again a pilot who is in nairobi and dont bother to know her mums condition and her well being??????????????
Mental health is real b 4 you judge she may have been hursh to those that came near her. If you want friends be friendly too. Pole sana kwa jamii na marafiki. Pride is bad🙏🙏
Her family members,,, neighbours,, maybe she was toxic
Dementia ni mbaya na wazee angepelekwa hospitali
Ama alikuwa wa kanisa ya Mackenzie 😢😢😢?????
🤔
I work with old People in Europe and i can tell some of them are aggressive and have dementia and sometimes they don’t open the door or they open and send me away but good thing when they are at that stage,the government intervenes and they’re taken to old people’s home and they get 24hrs caregivers
Only the relatives know the reason why. This is a very isolated case and abnormal as most afrigan children can't neglect their parents especially with their selective bible quotes to guilt trip them and chilling curse threats 😂
Sendung her money without even calling her???
Maybe she was a witch that did black magic and no one liked her!
Too many possibilities...
From the statement from the relatives, it shows she was a reserved and toxic granny who didn't want to relate with anyone.
This s painfull o one call her phone to check on her aiiiiiii Thad wields how cam did she has a family that s my question
What about the bad odour in that environment! Did not raise any alarm.
Huyu Mama ni mnoma aandikiwe mtu wa kazi akatae hakutaka kusumbuliwa na mtu
Kuna wazazi ka hao. Ukijaribu kila kitu kumfurahisha hataki.!
Some of them behave like that because of mental health as they grow up.
Kiburi ilikua juu hadi anafukuza watoto wake
Weeeuuu! Hapa tu naishi😢. Woooooooiiii,hata watoto wake hawakuwa wanapiga simu
Probably when she was alive they'd call and she wouldn't answer
Makongeni police station😂
Sad
So sad
She is dead what's the big deal, she didn't want to be disturbed, so she is dead, we move along, next!!
That the reason why some poeple opt not to have kids.
How can someone stay alone in a home ,with out talking to any one .
Something fishy is going on.A whole pilot can not stay with her mother or make a visit???God help our parents..money can't buy peace nor healthy..so shameful
The son should be investigated ⚖️⏰🇰🇪🚩🚩🚩
For what?
But how was he sending the money and not knowing?. Did he give someone?. If it was mpesa the network would show?.Its hard to understand.
Oh my goodness...the field reporter's command of the language is poor.
Believe you me the present generation do not care to find out about their parents. Most of the time, it is you the parents who call to find out how the children are. They are always tooo busy to visit or call.
9 months sending her money. Is money everything??
The devils is in the details,, ,maneno ya mpesa mingi ok.
😢😢😢😢😢hard one
Could very well be a misdiagnosed mental issue.
Must have been a mean woman mbona usitafutwe 8 months in
Something not adding up ...when you send money your account show less balances after withdrawal......how come the son did not see no one withdrawal money?????????????and detect red flag for action
They would have employed someone to stay with her. At that age living alone 😢😢😢. Rip granny.😢
Those judging the family and the children,look yourselves in the mirror. No family is perfect, family dynamics are complicated, even your own family has issues, every one navigating a way to keep peace.
Wueh hii story hai add up
This is shocked matter.....
Thats the reason developed countries have senior living setups.
😢😢😢😢
My question did she has a children ????
Huyo mama jirani mwenye amefichwa uso, aki ni mdaku waaaa 😂😂😂😂
But maybe ni relatives, nowadays, huwezi trust mtu ,alafu shida ya hawa watu wako na pesa hupenda kukaa, pekeayo , ata salamu ni shida ,
That woman must’ve been a narcissist and had chased everyone including her children away. Some humans are just toxic
So true..Narcissist like loneliness
Look for a better word don jus spit words to look like you smart
true...@@agathabritney
She lived 82-82 years. Not many people manage that.
Hio ni kuamini ya ujinga mliletewa ........people live over 100
@@decoloniz_afro normal people. Not abnormal, isolated, crazy people. Uliikuwa wapi akioza kwa Hao?
Symptom ya diabetic ni hasira they feel rejected is our duty to love them
Very true. I got diabetic parents too just so sad how she died
If you're old and do mot even want a live-in househelp yet she's paid for by your children, abd they also pay your monthly upkeep, then how do you expect to blame the same children when they walk away?
Woi my mum agemate aki😭😭
For kenta that is just ; Next!!. Value of life is zero
I suspect suspect this is a family issue surely nobody in the whole family even tried to call this mama even one time in nine month to say hello does she have a relatives it doesn't matter how she died m imekuwa Bora kuliko m
Lesson,call your aged parents daily
😢
Terrible
It's real that is a mysterious death
This lady must have had mental issues, very rarely understood by society.
There will be no mercy for the merciless 😢😢😢.
True
Dementia is real, families need to be educated about dementia in elderly people so to detect the early onset,some dementia patients come along as stubborn and rude,some isolate themselves and separate themselves completely from people and families. But above all, this story sounds very weird and fishy.
Huyo na yeye ni kutuma pesa na hapigi simu...imenikumbusha ile story ya elderly man mwenye alipeka simu kwa fundi on his mind imeharibika sababu hakuna mtu anampigia
Wee ya mungu ni mengi ya kuku ni mayai, urafiki ni muhimu lakini ata kama hauwezi ukachukiwa na Kila mtu
OMG..Not funny at all... Did I hear that the son also died in a similar situation??? 🤔🤔 ... Hapo ni kama kuna maneno.... 🤔🤔
Yaonyesha huko hakuna ujirani kabisa
You cant just be abandoned by your kids & neighbour's for nothing... Kuna watu toxic to everyone.
Kweli yaonyesha hata ndugu na jamaa zake walikuwa hawana usiano mzuri na huyu mama.
Mama alikua roho mbaya huyu
ujirani aje na kama mtu anafunga gate na hataki muingie
Huyu mama alikua mchoyo mbaya sana, angejizika tu
Ama alikuwa wa kanisa ya Mackenzie? 😢😢
It's diabetic ketoacidosis
Why do I think so too, especially from the manner she was accusing her neighbors of worshipping devil🤔
@@carolmiano3242 she was diabetic ..and it was in the family..not neighbours it's these church people who are always boring they keep preaching to you by force...and even they come do your footsteps..