Mums always know what’s best for our children, and when it doesn’t feel right, you have to act. Sounds like you did the right thing!! Praying that God guides you in making the right choice for them xx
People will have their opinions, but you know what's best for your children. I'm glad you made the decision to explore other options. All the reasons you said are fair and valid. I went through a similar experience with my son a few months ago. My husband and I decided to home educate our son (and daughter) and its been one of the best decisions we've made. You are an amazing mum, keep advocating for your children.
The decision you made for the boys, especially Joel is why you are a fierce, protective, best advocate of a MOTHER to them! Your gut and observations will never steer you wrong in life. That setting was for a season, onwards and upwards now. Sorry but you can’t play around with your kids future, they have one precious life! I Salute you mama👌🏾🙏🏾👏🏾🫂
You did the right thing. Mother's always know when something doesn't feel right, always follow your instincts, your children are the utmost priority especially when they are small, most people do not care about their jobs it is only for money, and a lot of them are taking staff without any experience who doesn't have a clue about love, patience and care, that is why each day the child comes in the nursery, you do assessment thru ought the day because each day will be different,just adjust and work out how to let the child be comfortable and happy,wishing you all the best❤
I couldn’t agree with this more 💯❤️❤️ he is absolutely my everything and I will do all that I can do to make sure he’s always in a room of people that will treat him the way he deserves to be treated and cared for the way he should
You definitely did the right thing. I have a three year old daughter in nursery and it would break my heart to see her not welcomed suitably, it would make me feel intiutively that something is wrong, it’s all about energy. I’m taking my daughter out of her nursery next year because as much as I love it and the staff are amazing, they have no black or people of colour at staff and very few black children there, now she is becoming aware of hair and race and stuff I don’t want her to feel like she’s the odd one out or different
I took my son out of a setting, where I felt he wasn't seen in light. At collection, comments were always negative. I saw that as a sign. Sad thing is, it was a black owned nursery with multi cultural staff (I agree there has to be representation). I put so much faith in them and they had zero faith in my son and how capable he is. Within 2 weeks of a new nursery he started to flourish. His needs were met, he loves it there and we work in partnership with them for my baby. Mums just know (and dads). I am glad you took him out. 🙏🏿🙏🏾
You’re right. At my daughter’s nursery, they transition the kids for a month before the room change. And they only allocate a key person after they see who the kids are gravitating to. They should’ve also given you form for you to say where he’s at at home and they do the same for their current room which they give the new teachers. But saying that, the new room teachers see the kids all the time when they are in the other rooms! Odd. Hope you find a suitable nursery
Completely understand your concerns and points raised as I did the same thing with my son around the same age as Joel. I kept him home whilst I worked from home until we found a much better nursery / preschool for him. He is thriving so much more in his new setting and honestly you just can’t put a price on peace of mind.
3 days?? It sounds like they already made up their minds that they didn't want to even try. That's really disappointing and disheartening. Really good to hear that you're listening to your instincts, picking sense out of nonsense and making the right decision for your boys.
WOW!!! Hearing all this and being a mum and also a nursery practitioner, i would have done the same thing. They literally just gave up, didn't put any other plan in place for Joel to work with him, try a different strategy, or even plan activities that involve throwing things in the air like bean bags in the parachutes for the children to shake until it goes high in the hair, catching ballowns, knocking down plastic can or plastic bowling bottles. Jeeeez is too lazy to do research and plan something to actually help him Just sad.
@@miriamgumisiriza6442 sis literally just a few examples of what they could have done they don’t care! Terribly sad. And what’s worse is they will probably do this again
Mums always know what’s best for our children, and when it doesn’t feel right, you have to act. Sounds like you did the right thing!! Praying that God guides you in making the right choice for them xx
Thank you so much sis 🙏🏾❤️ you’re absolutely right.
People will have their opinions, but you know what's best for your children. I'm glad you made the decision to explore other options. All the reasons you said are fair and valid. I went through a similar experience with my son a few months ago. My husband and I decided to home educate our son (and daughter) and its been one of the best decisions we've made.
You are an amazing mum, keep advocating for your children.
Heavy on the ‘you know what’s best for your child’.
That’s sounds amazing. You’re family are blessed ❤
The decision you made for the boys, especially Joel is why you are a fierce, protective, best advocate of a MOTHER to them! Your gut and observations will never steer you wrong in life. That setting was for a season, onwards and upwards now. Sorry but you can’t play around with your kids future, they have one precious life! I Salute you mama👌🏾🙏🏾👏🏾🫂
Mums always knows best and it doesn’t matter what people say. Your life and your children is all that matters. Sending love to your family ❤
As parents our intuition never fails. You did the right thing ❤
@@gladab3599 I absolutely agree with you. So glad I made the best decision for him❤️
You're a Great mum. Always trust your instinct 🙏🏾 ❤️
You did the right thing. Mother's always know when something doesn't feel right, always follow your instincts, your children are the utmost priority especially when they are small, most people do not care about their jobs it is only for money, and a lot of them are taking staff without any experience who doesn't have a clue about love, patience and care, that is why each day the child comes in the nursery, you do assessment thru ought the day because each day will be different,just adjust and work out how to let the child be comfortable and happy,wishing you all the best❤
I couldn’t agree with this more 💯❤️❤️ he is absolutely my everything and I will do all that I can do to make sure he’s always in a room of people that will treat him the way he deserves to be treated and cared for the way he should
You definitely did the right thing. I have a three year old daughter in nursery and it would break my heart to see her not welcomed suitably, it would make me feel intiutively that something is wrong, it’s all about energy. I’m taking my daughter out of her nursery next year because as much as I love it and the staff are amazing, they have no black or people of colour at staff and very few black children there, now she is becoming aware of hair and race and stuff I don’t want her to feel like she’s the odd one out or different
I took my son out of a setting, where I felt he wasn't seen in light. At collection, comments were always negative. I saw that as a sign. Sad thing is, it was a black owned nursery with multi cultural staff (I agree there has to be representation). I put so much faith in them and they had zero faith in my son and how capable he is. Within 2 weeks of a new nursery he started to flourish. His needs were met, he loves it there and we work in partnership with them for my baby. Mums just know (and dads). I am glad you took him out. 🙏🏿🙏🏾
A Christian sports group? That is so awesome 🙌🏽 you always look so gorgeous and I love that brown jacket 🤎🤎🤎wise words were shared in the car 👌🏾🩷
Right! Des how did you find this group? I used to play netball and want to pick it up again.
You’re right. At my daughter’s nursery, they transition the kids for a month before the room change. And they only allocate a key person after they see who the kids are gravitating to. They should’ve also given you form for you to say where he’s at at home and they do the same for their current room which they give the new teachers. But saying that, the new room teachers see the kids all the time when they are in the other rooms! Odd. Hope you find a suitable nursery
Notification gang ❤
@@kikionyesoh woop woop ❤️❤️
You made the right choice
Completely understand your concerns and points raised as I did the same thing with my son around the same age as Joel. I kept him home whilst I worked from home until we found a much better nursery / preschool for him. He is thriving so much more in his new setting and honestly you just can’t put a price on peace of mind.
Absolutely! Peace of mind which I did not have. So glad I made the decision to take him out.
You definitely did the right thing taking Joel out. It’s a shame that you have to do that but mother knows best.
It is a shame, but exactly that mama knows best ❤
You definitely made the right decision. The nursery's attitude to Joel is unacceptable.
3 days?? It sounds like they already made up their minds that they didn't want to even try. That's really disappointing and disheartening. Really good to hear that you're listening to your instincts, picking sense out of nonsense and making the right decision for your boys.
WOW!!! Hearing all this and being a mum and also a nursery practitioner, i would have done the same thing. They literally just gave up, didn't put any other plan in place for Joel to work with him, try a different strategy, or even plan activities that involve throwing things in the air like bean bags in the parachutes for the children to shake until it goes high in the hair, catching ballowns, knocking down plastic can or plastic bowling bottles. Jeeeez is too lazy to do research and plan something to actually help him Just sad.
@@miriamgumisiriza6442 sis literally just a few examples of what they could have done they don’t care! Terribly sad. And what’s worse is they will probably do this again