Hey Ky! Try not to let the pressure of “Christian culture” pressure you to follow a specific family planning plan. I know you want to do natural planning but if you guys feel most at peace using condoms, then I think that’s okay! You just have to follow your own convictions. You can definitely still get pregnant using condoms, so it’s not like God couldn’t find a way to fulfill his plan either way (and condoms won’t hurt potential babies in any way) ☺️ I know soooo many people have opinions on this, and you didn’t ask for mine, but I just wanted to share some support that everyone’s path is different. God calls us to be sensible and smart. Like the way we wear a seatbelt in the car even though we trust God to protect us. As long as you are chasing His wisdom and following your personal convictions, I think you will be honoring God ❤️ (Also *viewers* I’m not here for a fight, just sharing some encouragement - discussion is great, but PLEASE be kind!)
I like that you mentioned wearing a seatbelt :) God’s “will be done” doesn’t mean we completely throw away measures to protect ourselves or prevent unwanted things (medicine to prevent a stroke etc). Everyone has their personal convictions so I hope she will pray for wisdom on it rather than relying on pressure from the Christian “culture” like you said.
@@meganmclelland4860 Yes! ❤️ I feel like a lot of Christians fall into the trap of wanting to be like other Christians (particularly Christian influencers) and follow their example rather than seeking the Lord’s wisdom. Myself included!
Amen!!! Kian stay true too you!!! I feel like every Christian TH-cam ihave loved quickly gets married and then has kids!!! Then they’re not so relatable any more I am still in finding a guy phase! Like relax people hold it together lol! Kian I feel you are most raw and relatable and honest and I love it this is such good points because then you guys will get to know each more have time to figure the ins and outs of all things marriage from kids to finances etc! to
Can you do a video on what submitting to a husband is like and if it’s been hard or not? What are some things you’re submitting to that you didn’t think was something you’d have to submit to?
I totally relate on the part when you mentioned you put too much hope in Kyle to lead the home towards Christ instead of taking personal responsibility for your relationship with Jesus
The whole leaning on your husband in the first few months of marriage is so relatable... you are not alone, definitely going through the same things, but 8 months in and it’s so awesome!!! Sisterhood! 🙌🏻🙌🏻💃🏼
I’m always so encouraged by your honesty in the realities of marriage, being a Christian and an individual!!! I am similar to you in the struggles of structure & routine, it’s so nice to hear someone else does it too. You’re not a bad friend, you took some time for yourself and that’s so worth it! 💗
Some thing that has helped me with working from home is sitting down Sunday night by myself with my planner and plan my week and then I go and sit with my husband and add in anything that he is doing throughout the week so that I can be prepared for whatever the week will hold that week. The weeks that I don’t do this are super unorganized and I feel super on accomplished. But give yourself Grace if you don’t get everything on your planner done if you can get even 70% of it done then that’s a good thing that’s an accomplishment!!
I hope u can get more Structure and Order. Don't be controlled by Kyle or your lack of confidence . You are a very worthy person but I see your Getting anxious & having others control take over. BE STRONG
Thank you for being so open and honest with everything are going through! I can see similarities in our personalities like working from home, wow I feel you. The Lord is using you girl! Keep going!
God's got us! That's true ❤ I also am in a slower-paced season and just taking each day as it comes and striving to be a better person (daughter, sister and friend). This was nice Kian!
hey, i love seeing your relationship with God and it’s such an inspiration. i continuously feel God’s presence when watching your videos. God bless! i love you ❤️
I really relate. I run on a super slow clock & my partner can't sit still. He always needs to be doing something. I've really come to a place of enjoying that because I use his drive as motivation to become more structured in different ways. I still love moving at my own pace and slow activities ( baking, sewing, reading) but I see how important it is for him to stay busy, so I adjust my pace a little. I think it really shows that both people have different things to offer. They really can create balance. Him to speed up-you to slow down. You'll get there! making adjustments in relationships is a never-ending process. I've been a fully remote student this year and he's been teaching so he still has work when he gets home. Instead of being sad that he does not have a ton of time, I just focus on my crafting projects and we work together in the same room. It actually works really well. It created this really cool respect for each other's time and allowing one another to focus on what they need to, while still being in the same room together.
Move to TX! Hehe my husband and I just moved from WA state and we’re loving it 🥰🙌🏼 praying for you guys. I know considering moving puts a lot of thoughts in our heads and hearts. You guys are a strong couple who shows Gods love everywhere! He will give you peace on the idea/ location of moving. 🙌🏼
I have been watching you since I got engaged, and wow am I so thankful I found your channel!! It can be hard to find real content about being a Christian in this generation, and in this season of engagement and marriage and I fee like I found the big sister I never had. Thank you for being you!!!!
The same thing happened with my husband and I as well! Newly weds as well and I just thought a lot of things that would be in our routine is not. But yet not a bad thing and like you said “not the time right now”. Totally feel you girl!
I am so thankful for your videos Kian! God has used you to encourage me in a hard season. Thank you for living out His Word and for being obedient to His call to share Him with others. Rooting for you! ❤️
I recently discovered your channel, and I love it! You make such amazing content about God and life in general. Such positive vibes and you have such a kind heart, I’d love to know you in real life. God bless 💙
I was wondering if you could do a video of things you would tell yourself when you were engaged. You mentioned a while back that engagement season was a spiritually dry; what things would you change if you went back? This because quite a number of people (I believe) have been finding your channel through the wedding series. We loved it btw.
Travel enjoy being a couple You don’t have to have children to be completely you don’t have to be married to be complete children change your lives for 18 years they put a lot of pressure on mom and dad’s and if dad’s busy working mom’s gonna have to do all the work with the child all day and that is life-changing maybe if you got a job you can double your income outside the home
Thank you so much for being so transparent and honest! Social media often places a belief on us that everyone has everything together but us and with people being more transparent the way you are helps us understand that every person is a regular person with regular problems ❤❤
The method is called the Fertility Awareness Method if you use barrier methods when you're fertile. A lot of women do this and I found it through the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility. I still think a lot of women would benefit from a video of this since you have a platform and so many ladies would love to get off of hormonal birth control. I don't ever plan to do NFP..
“Loving yourself” is seen as a worldly concept in my church and many others... can you speak to this?? I’ve never completely understood where both sides of this stem from. Love your videos! :-))
I get what you mean and I had to dig deep on this same topic a couple months ago bc I was confused. But there’s scriptural proof that “loving yourself” in a godly way is key to being able to love others. At Ephesians 5:28, 29, it says, “In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. A man who loves his wife loves himself, for no man ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cherishes it, just as the Christ does the congregation...” So for a man to love his wife, he first must love and cherish his own self. Not in a way that’s over exaggerated to the point where you’re obsessed with yourself, but enough to the point that you can give that love to your wife, or as Christ did the congregation. And it’s obviously interchangeable between man and woman. Both have to take care of themselves, aka love themselves, whether married or not! J W.ORG also has some really nice scriptural advice on this if you type in “loving yourself” in the search bar. Hope this helps! ❤️
The bible literally says to "love your neighbor as you love yourself" (Matthew 22:35-40 is a good passage to look at). So no matter what people say, the bible will always steer us on a path to clarity. Love yourself, and then love your neighbor just as much ❤️
The bible definitely doesn't teach us to love ourselves, that's because as humans we naturally love ourselves and put our own needs first. Just like you don't have to teach a child to be selfish, rather the opposite! So the Matthew 22 verse is teaching us to love others in the same way that we already love ourselves. I would really recommend the book "The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness" by Timothy Keller for a more in-depth look at this (it's a very quick read!).
I’ve learned that I shouldn’t love myself in a conceited way. Don’t put my needs before Jesus or others I love. Respect my needs and don’t let them consume my time. For me, I struggle with worldly things, items and views. I’ve learned not to let my flesh steer my life. I think Kian, in this situation, means don’t be hard on yourself if you don’t feel you need to workout to shape your body, love your body the way it is. 💛
Could you do a video on faithfulness in Christian dating and in marriage/ having a pure mindset? Great video btw! The life update was very encouraging ❤️
Things like compatibility in "paces" like waking up and things are really good to see before you get married! this is why i advocate for living together before you get married
white savourism... there’s many countries in africa yet she thinks she can start a whole orphanage with no knowledge on protection of vulnerable children. disappointing
I definitely feel that! It makes me so sad when my husband comes home tired and wants to nap and I’m ready to do something 😑 but thank you for the update ❤️
I love that you said friend! I will always say stuff like "my friend recommended this book" or "my friend was talking about this the other day and it got me thinking". Even though I've never met the people I follow on youtube I definitely consider them friends haha.
I pray for you Kian that our heavenly father YAHUAH keeps you and blesses you and calls you to a closer relationship with his son our messiah Yahushua!🙏🕊 I will be also praying for your future endeavors to be a blessing upon your marriage ! Halleluyah! Praise his name YAHUAH!
so I am not gonna rant about how wrong it is to ask women about when they are gonna have children, because I have done that every single time Kian has done a Q&A. but I will say that, apart from the fact that it is wrong, we don't need to ask her, because we already know the answer (and if you don't, then watch her other videos because she has answered the question like ten times). do you really think that she wouldn't tell us if anything changed? it's not like she doesn't understand that people are curious. if something changes, she will tell us, and if she doesn't want to tell us, she won't. either way, asking this question over and over is a waste of time. Asking women in general about when they are getting pregnant is a bad idea. asking kian specifically is, at this point, just annoying.
and I'm sorry if I sound rude. if you want to see my nicer side, read the comments I posted on her older q&as (before I got annoyed), because I have written about this literally every time someone has asked her about pregnancy, which is literally every time she has done a q&a since she got married
I feel like she’s more than capable of setting this boundary for herself if she felt it was needed. She continues to answer the questions regarding the topic. I personally haven’t submitted Q&A questions. But lots of youtubers get the same questions over and over especially as their subscribers grow. I don’t think you need to advocate against people asking her this question. But that’s just my perspective ☺️
@@kyler2339 yes, I agree that Kian seems to be okay with it. But the problem is that when this question is asked (and answered), it is normalized, and it shouldn't be. It can be extremely painful for some women (and probably men too) to get questions about pregnancy and children (for example if they aren't able to get pregnant), and that is something that a lot of people don't realise. I honestly didn't think about the fact that the people asking the question might be new subscribers XD (probably because I personally always binge watch all old q&as when I find a new channel) Next time, I'll write it in a nicer way
@@lovisabengtsson9200 I completely agree, I think it’s unfortunately something that comes with the territory of being a TH-cam and a social media influenced. And they just have to be very direct and blunt about what is off limits for them. I personally feel it should be something that we don’t ask but rather it is brought to us if she feels it is necessary or has that desire. But you’re totally fine, I’m glad you received my message in the way it was intended (so many people argue in TH-cam comments nowadays 🤦🏻♀️). Much love 🤗 have a wonderful day and be blessed
I made the same kind of assumption about faith first like three months of marriage too, waiting for my husband, neglecting my own discipline. I had a lot to learn haha
I got married in October as well (the 12th) and feel the same with kids 🤣. We’re just starting our military journey with lots of moves and huge life changes so adding a kid sounds scary right now lol. But all in Gods timing 💜
If you do not have any money saved because you spent it on your wedding, keep having protected sex.. It is not "in God's timing", it's you and your husband's responsibility to plan when you have children..
Non Christian here.. What is the difference to you between God and Jesus? Like your relationship I'm not religious but I very much believe in God and have always wondered what the difference is for Christians ✨❤️
They are all equal but play different roles, the way I like to look at it is: God is the principal, who is sovereign and in charge, everyone looks to him for approval, for correcting, and for love. He takes care of it all He's like the father, he provides, gives discipline, but also loves and cares about his children. Jesus is the teacher who teaches us how to be whole, at peace and please God the Holy Spirit is the guidance counselor who guides us through life.
Depends on the religion. We believe that heavenly father, Jesus christ and the holy ghost are separate people and have different roles. This is shown clearly in the Bible. Heavenly Father is our creator and we pray to him. Jesus christ atoned for our sins so that we can return to heavenly father. The holy ghost is a comforter and teacher. Hope that makes sense 😊
Lots of resources on hormone health on Instagram to help support you! Dr Jolene Brighten is amazing if you ever want a reputable source :) I love women’s health and used to struggle with awful periods so I feel your pain, sister!
Listening to some of that video I don't think it was for me. so I did pray for you and Kyle's finances and that you'd be able to save up a nice savings, being disciplined in that way with your finances. Whether you want to put it towards the house or debt.
I typically really enjoy your content. However, as a woc & an African woman at that, I'd like to mention that the statement regarding "moving to Africa to start an orphanage" rubbed me the wrong way. Although I know your intent was not to be ignorant or privileged... it did come off that way. You could start an orphanage in MANY places...not just Africa. Please be more mindful of these things when making "jokes" regarding topics like that. Thank you!
I’m sorry I didn’t mean to be incentive. Someone literally prophesied that we would start an orphanage in Africa specifically. That is the only reason the comment was made. 💛
@@GooVivi She has already spoken about her feeling like she compares herself alot to other influencers so there's no need to be mean about it. She asked us to pray for her so as a caring audience, let's do that. Additionally more than one person can have the same aesthetic. I find that Kian has a personality like no other person on this platform and its one of the things i love most about her. Their personalities are nothing alike.
We are all trying our best here... so no judgement here brothers and sisters... but I dont think condoms are suitable for a marriage that is open to life, they stand in the way of how our Lord meant sexuality, reproduction and spouse afection. And yes there are some extreme cases where there may be acceptable... but you know, those extreme cases that are related to diseases and health risks, not the majority of cases.
Hey Ky! Try not to let the pressure of “Christian culture” pressure you to follow a specific family planning plan. I know you want to do natural planning but if you guys feel most at peace using condoms, then I think that’s okay! You just have to follow your own convictions. You can definitely still get pregnant using condoms, so it’s not like God couldn’t find a way to fulfill his plan either way (and condoms won’t hurt potential babies in any way) ☺️ I know soooo many people have opinions on this, and you didn’t ask for mine, but I just wanted to share some support that everyone’s path is different. God calls us to be sensible and smart. Like the way we wear a seatbelt in the car even though we trust God to protect us. As long as you are chasing His wisdom and following your personal convictions, I think you will be honoring God ❤️ (Also *viewers* I’m not here for a fight, just sharing some encouragement - discussion is great, but PLEASE be kind!)
I like that you mentioned wearing a seatbelt :) God’s “will be done” doesn’t mean we completely throw away measures to protect ourselves or prevent unwanted things (medicine to prevent a stroke etc). Everyone has their personal convictions so I hope she will pray for wisdom on it rather than relying on pressure from the Christian “culture” like you said.
@@meganmclelland4860 Yes! ❤️ I feel like a lot of Christians fall into the trap of wanting to be like other Christians (particularly Christian influencers) and follow their example rather than seeking the Lord’s wisdom. Myself included!
Amen!!! Kian stay true too you!!! I feel like every Christian TH-cam ihave loved quickly gets married and then has kids!!! Then they’re not so relatable any more I am still in finding a guy phase! Like relax people hold it together lol! Kian I feel you are most raw and relatable and honest and I love it this is such good points because then you guys will get to know each more have time to figure the ins and outs of all things marriage from kids to finances etc! to
Can you do a video on what submitting to a husband is like and if it’s been hard or not? What are some things you’re submitting to that you didn’t think was something you’d have to submit to?
That’s a great question!
She actually has already done a video on that!
@@Zoe_Langa oh, what video!?
That would be a good video!
@@robyn905 I remember watching a video that she talks about finances I think was a hard transition but I’m down to watch a whole video of submission
I can totally see Kian rewatching this video when her business takes off and God completely blesses her and Kyle through it.
I totally relate on the part when you mentioned you put too much hope in Kyle to lead the home towards Christ instead of taking personal responsibility for your relationship with Jesus
Totally agree. God gave us our spouse to help each other. So where he's weak you can lift him up and vise versa.
The whole leaning on your husband in the first few months of marriage is so relatable... you are not alone, definitely going through the same things, but 8 months in and it’s so awesome!!! Sisterhood! 🙌🏻🙌🏻💃🏼
I’m always so encouraged by your honesty in the realities of marriage, being a Christian and an individual!!! I am similar to you in the struggles of structure & routine, it’s so nice to hear someone else does it too. You’re not a bad friend, you took some time for yourself and that’s so worth it! 💗
Some thing that has helped me with working from home is sitting down Sunday night by myself with my planner and plan my week and then I go and sit with my husband and add in anything that he is doing throughout the week so that I can be prepared for whatever the week will hold that week. The weeks that I don’t do this are super unorganized and I feel super on accomplished. But give yourself Grace if you don’t get everything on your planner done if you can get even 70% of it done then that’s a good thing that’s an accomplishment!!
I love how transparent u are. Its really comforting.
Having your own kids is completely different than seeing or watching friends kids. Just saying
1 million percent!!
Yeah. it's harder 😆
TRUTHHHH!!!
This is true
I think she knows tht lmbo 😂
Even though yall got married a few months ago, im still hyped to hear you say "Kian Wolfgang"
You’re so honest and it’s so refreshing 😭
I hope u can get more Structure and Order. Don't be controlled by Kyle or your lack of confidence .
You are a very worthy person but I see your Getting anxious & having others control take over.
BE STRONG
Thank you for being so open and honest with everything are going through! I can see similarities in our personalities like working from home, wow I feel you. The Lord is using you girl! Keep going!
God's got us! That's true ❤ I also am in a slower-paced season and just taking each day as it comes and striving to be a better person (daughter, sister and friend). This was nice Kian!
Congratulations 🎈
Yaay! You're almost at 100K.
Dave Ramsey gives great financial advice! I’ve heard awesome things about his Financial Peace University classes.:)
you inspire me so much! thank you for sharing the Word and inspiring many
hey, i love seeing your relationship with God and it’s such an inspiration. i continuously feel God’s presence when watching your videos. God bless! i love you ❤️
I really relate. I run on a super slow clock & my partner can't sit still. He always needs to be doing something. I've really come to a place of enjoying that because I use his drive as motivation to become more structured in different ways. I still love moving at my own pace and slow activities ( baking, sewing, reading) but I see how important it is for him to stay busy, so I adjust my pace a little. I think it really shows that both people have different things to offer. They really can create balance. Him to speed up-you to slow down. You'll get there! making adjustments in relationships is a never-ending process. I've been a fully remote student this year and he's been teaching so he still has work when he gets home. Instead of being sad that he does not have a ton of time, I just focus on my crafting projects and we work together in the same room. It actually works really well. It created this really cool respect for each other's time and allowing one another to focus on what they need to, while still being in the same room together.
Move to TX! Hehe my husband and I just moved from WA state and we’re loving it 🥰🙌🏼 praying for you guys. I know considering moving puts a lot of thoughts in our heads and hearts. You guys are a strong couple who shows Gods love everywhere! He will give you peace on the idea/ location of moving. 🙌🏼
I have been watching you since I got engaged, and wow am I so thankful I found your channel!! It can be hard to find real content about being a Christian in this generation, and in this season of engagement and marriage and I fee like I found the big sister I never had. Thank you for being you!!!!
The same thing happened with my husband and I as well! Newly weds as well and I just thought a lot of things that would be in our routine is not. But yet not a bad thing and like you said “not the time right now”. Totally feel you girl!
I am so thankful for your videos Kian! God has used you to encourage me in a hard season. Thank you for living out His Word and for being obedient to His call to share Him with others. Rooting for you! ❤️
I recently discovered your channel, and I love it! You make such amazing content about God and life in general. Such positive vibes and you have such a kind heart, I’d love to know you in real life. God bless 💙
Literally my go to TH-camr right here... love just listening to you while doing chores, or something. God bless this channel 🙌🏾
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Thanks for the update! I am pretty newly wed, we use natural birth planning and it works so well! Thanking God for that 😅.
I was wondering if you could do a video of things you would tell yourself when you were engaged.
You mentioned a while back that engagement season was a spiritually dry; what things would you change if you went back?
This because quite a number of people (I believe) have been finding your channel through the wedding series. We loved it btw.
Loving your content all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦
Travel enjoy being a couple You don’t have to have children to be completely you don’t have to be married to be complete children change your lives for 18 years they put a lot of pressure on mom and dad’s and if dad’s busy working mom’s gonna have to do all the work with the child all day and that is life-changing maybe if you got a job you can double your income outside the home
Thank you so much for being so transparent and honest! Social media often places a belief on us that everyone has everything together but us and with people being more transparent the way you are helps us understand that every person is a regular person with regular problems ❤❤
The method is called the Fertility Awareness Method if you use barrier methods when you're fertile. A lot of women do this and I found it through the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility. I still think a lot of women would benefit from a video of this since you have a platform and so many ladies would love to get off of hormonal birth control. I don't ever plan to do NFP..
Discovered your channel within the last week and I’ve been binge watching ever since. So refreshing. ❤️ Stay blessed.
Kian’s mom here and welcome ❤️
God is really working through you! I love you and this channel so much. ❤️❤️
ahh! you’re only a few thousand away from 100K! also loved this update!
So exciting 😍
I really appreciate your honesty Kian💕It’s Nice to see someone struggle with some of the things I struggle with too. Makes me feel not so alone😊
“Loving yourself” is seen as a worldly concept in my church and many others... can you speak to this?? I’ve never completely understood where both sides of this stem from. Love your videos! :-))
I get what you mean and I had to dig deep on this same topic a couple months ago bc I was confused. But there’s scriptural proof that “loving yourself” in a godly way is key to being able to love others. At Ephesians 5:28, 29, it says, “In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. A man who loves his wife loves himself, for no man ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cherishes it, just as the Christ does the congregation...” So for a man to love his wife, he first must love and cherish his own self. Not in a way that’s over exaggerated to the point where you’re obsessed with yourself, but enough to the point that you can give that love to your wife, or as Christ did the congregation. And it’s obviously interchangeable between man and woman. Both have to take care of themselves, aka love themselves, whether married or not! J W.ORG also has some really nice scriptural advice on this if you type in “loving yourself” in the search bar. Hope this helps! ❤️
The bible literally says to "love your neighbor as you love yourself" (Matthew 22:35-40 is a good passage to look at). So no matter what people say, the bible will always steer us on a path to clarity. Love yourself, and then love your neighbor just as much ❤️
The bible definitely doesn't teach us to love ourselves, that's because as humans we naturally love ourselves and put our own needs first. Just like you don't have to teach a child to be selfish, rather the opposite! So the Matthew 22 verse is teaching us to love others in the same way that we already love ourselves. I would really recommend the book "The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness" by Timothy Keller for a more in-depth look at this (it's a very quick read!).
If you’re looking for a book to read about this topic I’m currently reading “you’re not enough (and that’s okay)” by Allie Beth stuckey
I’ve learned that I shouldn’t love myself in a conceited way. Don’t put my needs before Jesus or others I love. Respect my needs and don’t let them consume my time. For me, I struggle with worldly things, items and views. I’ve learned not to let my flesh steer my life. I think Kian, in this situation, means don’t be hard on yourself if you don’t feel you need to workout to shape your body, love your body the way it is. 💛
Could you do a video on faithfulness in Christian dating and in marriage/ having a pure mindset? Great video btw! The life update was very encouraging ❤️
So happy to hear from you guys!! When you said y'all were moving to Africa to start an orphanage I got excited!! That would be so awesome 😍💟
Thank you so much for your real and genuine update!! Love you girl! ☺️
Proud of you for allowing yourself to take time away firm TH-cam and Instagram💗
I loved this video Kian, one of my favs!
Things like compatibility in "paces" like waking up and things are really good to see before you get married! this is why i advocate for living together before you get married
That comment of “opening an orphanage in Africa” is kinda off. Idk, but I loved the video! You are glowing✨
Agree
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Definitely
What do you mean? Lol
white savourism... there’s many countries in africa yet she thinks she can start a whole orphanage with no knowledge on protection of vulnerable children. disappointing
Thanks for always keeping it real Kian, it's so appreciated on this platform that is predominately and easy to remain superficial.
Kian you are the CUTEST with the ice skating- love it! 💕
love you Kian!!!
I definitely feel that! It makes me so sad when my husband comes home tired and wants to nap and I’m ready to do something 😑 but thank you for the update ❤️
I love that you said friend! I will always say stuff like "my friend recommended this book" or "my friend was talking about this the other day and it got me thinking". Even though I've never met the people I follow on youtube I definitely consider them friends haha.
You might love the coastal bend of south Texas, like rockport, Corpus Christi, & port aransas! 💛💛 small city feel and next to the beach 🥰
praying for your house miracle!!
I pray for you Kian that our heavenly father YAHUAH keeps you and blesses you and calls you to a closer relationship with his son our messiah Yahushua!🙏🕊 I will be also praying for your future endeavors to be a blessing upon your marriage ! Halleluyah! Praise his name YAHUAH!
More power to you for ice skating!! I feel like that would be the hardest thing I could ever try to accomplish😀
Love these Q & A's!!❤
so I am not gonna rant about how wrong it is to ask women about when they are gonna have children, because I have done that every single time Kian has done a Q&A. but I will say that, apart from the fact that it is wrong, we don't need to ask her, because we already know the answer (and if you don't, then watch her other videos because she has answered the question like ten times). do you really think that she wouldn't tell us if anything changed? it's not like she doesn't understand that people are curious. if something changes, she will tell us, and if she doesn't want to tell us, she won't. either way, asking this question over and over is a waste of time.
Asking women in general about when they are getting pregnant is a bad idea. asking kian specifically is, at this point, just annoying.
and I'm sorry if I sound rude. if you want to see my nicer side, read the comments I posted on her older q&as (before I got annoyed), because I have written about this literally every time someone has asked her about pregnancy, which is literally every time she has done a q&a since she got married
I feel like she’s more than capable of setting this boundary for herself if she felt it was needed. She continues to answer the questions regarding the topic. I personally haven’t submitted Q&A questions. But lots of youtubers get the same questions over and over especially as their subscribers grow. I don’t think you need to advocate against people asking her this question. But that’s just my perspective ☺️
@@kyler2339 yes, I agree that Kian seems to be okay with it. But the problem is that when this question is asked (and answered), it is normalized, and it shouldn't be. It can be extremely painful for some women (and probably men too) to get questions about pregnancy and children (for example if they aren't able to get pregnant), and that is something that a lot of people don't realise.
I honestly didn't think about the fact that the people asking the question might be new subscribers XD (probably because I personally always binge watch all old q&as when I find a new channel)
Next time, I'll write it in a nicer way
@@lovisabengtsson9200 I completely agree, I think it’s unfortunately something that comes with the territory of being a TH-cam and a social media influenced. And they just have to be very direct and blunt about what is off limits for them. I personally feel it should be something that we don’t ask but rather it is brought to us if she feels it is necessary or has that desire. But you’re totally fine, I’m glad you received my message in the way it was intended (so many people argue in TH-cam comments nowadays 🤦🏻♀️). Much love 🤗 have a wonderful day and be blessed
I made the same kind of assumption about faith first like three months of marriage too, waiting for my husband, neglecting my own discipline. I had a lot to learn haha
Interesting how you mentioned orphanage in Africa. Your mom is helping out one now. Perhaps you can visit it. ;)
Im taking a fast from IG right now also. Sometimes you need that.
You will thank yourself in 5 years if you start listening to Dave Ramsey now ❤️❤️ Love your videos!
I actually think they are following his program... they have mentioned him ❤️
Yay!! Love you Kian
I got married in October as well (the 12th) and feel the same with kids 🤣. We’re just starting our military journey with lots of moves and huge life changes so adding a kid sounds scary right now lol. But all in Gods timing 💜
Hallelujah Sunday for Australia please!! 😍😫
I also use the natural planning method but do not rely on it 100% it’s too scary for my husband and I lol
Hi, Kian! Love your content. Keep it up.
You should do a collaboration with Jaclyn Brooke !❤️❤️
Come to Colorado! And first time homebuyers programs require zero down payment
Airbnb is an option while in between places
If you do not have any money saved because you spent it on your wedding, keep having protected sex.. It is not "in God's timing", it's you and your husband's responsibility to plan when you have children..
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And having a pet is a huge finical cost.. idk if I would’ve gotten one if my husband and I were struggling with finances.
@@JLCARLSON1 I completely agree!
Non Christian here..
What is the difference to you between God and Jesus? Like your relationship
I'm not religious but I very much believe in God and have always wondered what the difference is for Christians
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Jesus is God’s son who came to earth in human form and died on the cross to save us and our sins 🤍
God is 1 being in 3 personas: The Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit 💛
They are all equal but play different roles, the way I like to look at it is:
God is the principal, who is sovereign and in charge, everyone looks to him for approval, for correcting, and for love. He takes care of it all He's like the father, he provides, gives discipline, but also loves and cares about his children.
Jesus is the teacher who teaches us how to be whole, at peace and please God
the Holy Spirit is the guidance counselor who guides us through life.
Depends on the religion. We believe that heavenly father, Jesus christ and the holy ghost are separate people and have different roles. This is shown clearly in the Bible. Heavenly Father is our creator and we pray to him. Jesus christ atoned for our sins so that we can return to heavenly father. The holy ghost is a comforter and teacher. Hope that makes sense 😊
I think the more interesting question is what is God for you?
wow let’s get to 100k!!!
Yes! I love how she is so chill about it😌.... just letting God bless her 😍
Love your hair!!!
Lots of resources on hormone health on Instagram to help support you! Dr Jolene Brighten is amazing if you ever want a reputable source :) I love women’s health and used to struggle with awful periods so I feel your pain, sister!
your hair looks so beautiful🥰 did you style it differently?
I love your videos! I’m just curious why you are planning to leave Arizona?
I love your hair!
If you do international shipping, dont use USPS, shipping a crew neck to canada costs just as much as the sweater, its so sad!
Listening to some of that video I don't think it was for me. so I did pray for you and Kyle's finances and that you'd be able to save up a nice savings, being disciplined in that way with your finances. Whether you want to put it towards the house or debt.
Love your videos ☺️
Wait what, coffee shops are open for sitting ?like not just take out only ?
Yes!! In some places. Texas is fully opened 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@HannahBirzes is everyone vaccinated or does government just not care?
@@crystaliclake not sure if vaccinated. I think it’s more of a if you’re worried about getting sick then stay home, don’t eat out etc
Kian where is your top and cardigan from?
I’m earlyyyyy ta-day😊💕
Hey Kian!
Love your channel Kian✨ if you don’t mind me asking how old are you and Kyle ?
Please do international shipping!!! 🥺
Remember, living for yourself is very selfish. We must live to help others because we can’t continue to please ourselves when the world is suffering.
I typically really enjoy your content. However, as a woc & an African woman at that, I'd like to mention that the statement regarding "moving to Africa to start an orphanage" rubbed me the wrong way. Although I know your intent was not to be ignorant or privileged... it did come off that way. You could start an orphanage in MANY places...not just Africa. Please be more mindful of these things when making "jokes" regarding topics like that. Thank you!
I’m sorry I didn’t mean to be incentive. Someone literally prophesied that we would start an orphanage in Africa specifically. That is the only reason the comment was made. 💛
I. Feel. You. Girl.
Not everyone white person who wants to open an orphanage is acting in white savourism. I hope Kian you do the works of the lord here on earth. ❤️❤️
love you :D
Kian do you know Milena Ciciotti? You two are super similar
Shes mentioned her in her videos before! :)
@@GooVivi She has already spoken about her feeling like she compares herself alot to other influencers so there's no need to be mean about it. She asked us to pray for her so as a caring audience, let's do that. Additionally more than one person can have the same aesthetic. I find that Kian has a personality like no other person on this platform and its one of the things i love most about her. Their personalities are nothing alike.
Africa... come to Zimbabwe 🥳🥳
Please Please ship to Australia xx
I would love to buy your merch, I m from france :) god bless you
move to oregon!!!
work at a library!
Jesus Christ is the only way to heaven!✝️
Please ship to Europa 😍😍
We are all trying our best here... so no judgement here brothers and sisters... but I dont think condoms are suitable for a marriage that is open to life, they stand in the way of how our Lord meant sexuality, reproduction and spouse afection. And yes there are some extreme cases where there may be acceptable... but you know, those extreme cases that are related to diseases and health risks, not the majority of cases.
Hola. Nena. Hermoss.
it was only naive of you if you didn’t communicate what the next steps would look like and if you just assumed all these nice things.
Condoms are so bad :( You can track your ovulation instead Kian. That’s not good