It's sad to see so many comments of people hurt unloved left alone. I was just left this Christmas day and I was fully committed and I unconditionally loved her considered her my best friend. This isn't my first rodeo in heart break. I know holding on is poisonous to me and only me. I just don't understand why we can't get along why people can't work it out be good to each other and stay loyal. I'm 44 years old and I am afraid love isn't a option for me. Stay strong my brothers and sisters and I love you all.
My wife of 9 years and partner for 15 is filing in the coming days. Been with her since we were 25, have 3 kids. I'm heartbroken. I've hurt her so many times. I'm afraid I will never love again.
My partner of 6 years and two kids took the kids just before christmas and won’t let me see them. She also is with someone else and told me to move on. I can’t even comprehend. Im numb and looking for answers that i cant find. We had a fairytale relationship and it was ripped away i. The blink of any eye. I an slowly getting worse everyday…
My partner of 10 years and we have a daughter walked out just before Thanksgiving. No physical abuse, no infidelity. She just woke up one day and didn't love me anymore. It took her all year to gather the guts to leave. It's every man's worst nightmare
I have lost people to find out much later that I didn't lose anyone because they were mine and what's more, they were never who I thought they were so, I lost an illusion, something that never existed except in my mind. Those are the relationships that are harder to release because when you lose someone who really loved you because either life or death grew you apart, the sweet memories stay with you and remembering them draws a smile on your face because you are grateful that person shared their lives with yours but when the relationship was based on a traumatic bond, not love, even when you give up the illusion of what it could have been but never was you are still carrying many nasty feelings you need to release because they come from trauma and manipulation. It's a wound not a loss.
It's not easy , when you have been left after 26 years. It's not easy when your phone stop to rings, is not easy when that person called you just because she need to hear your voice, and suddenly , she doesn't needed anymore. Is not easy when after 26 years , she found someone else after 1 month, is not easy when she disrespected you after she left you , is not easy when she disappeared from your life like you're never existed, is not easy when you face yourself for more than 11 months, is not easy when you face the silence for months , is not easy to let go. But you know what? The time that I am taking to see my true self , and what I really want from my life ,it is so valuable, that all this suffering , it doesn't matter anymore, and actually , is gonna make me stronger. The real last step , is to be able to truly forgive her , from the bottom of my heart. To stop thinking about her in a bad way , is the mother of my son after all. Forgive , truly forgive , is the only way to let go. When there is still resentment , there is not forgiveness. To let go , you must forgive. Love you all.
Usually cut bonds with past relationships and see what happens next, usually when you aren't looking for someone, one finds someone seeks yourself to chat in person. It's a partnership of 100 100 not 50 50 like most people believe in the casual relationships of not being a true bond together
Forgiveness leads to true freedom Free mind And Open heart I’m letting go of the past The power is in the now Pain leads to purpose and power I will trust and surrender to my higher self the Almighty and the process of transformation 777✨🔥❤️💚🌹👁️
The problem about letting go is that it's not only an act of will because you might want to release the grief but that emotion gets stuck like a sticky substance you can't find a way to dissolve.
The thing to realize is the person (object) you're projection those beautiful qualities onto is not the source of those qualities - they are from within you. That sense of wholeness is within and the outer projections are a substitute for that inner connection with the Self; with God. The other person is also a part of that conscious wholeness, never actually separated but by illusion due to the ego's isolation from the whole you.
You're doing a fantastic job! Could you help me with something unrelated: My OKX wallet holds some USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). How should I go about transferring them to Binance?
I've learned to let go of my past, my dreams and who I was, and the only thing I feel is dead inside. Life is nothing but empty and lacking any semblance of joy.
It's sad to see so many comments of people hurt unloved left alone. I was just left this Christmas day and I was fully committed and I unconditionally loved her considered her my best friend. This isn't my first rodeo in heart break. I know holding on is poisonous to me and only me. I just don't understand why we can't get along why people can't work it out be good to each other and stay loyal. I'm 44 years old and I am afraid love isn't a option for me. Stay strong my brothers and sisters and I love you all.
I no what you mean love her fot 60plus years 😥
My wife of 9 years and partner for 15 is filing in the coming days. Been with her since we were 25, have 3 kids. I'm heartbroken. I've hurt her so many times. I'm afraid I will never love again.
My partner of 6 years and two kids took the kids just before christmas and won’t let me see them. She also is with someone else and told me to move on. I can’t even comprehend. Im numb and looking for answers that i cant find. We had a fairytale relationship and it was ripped away i. The blink of any eye. I an slowly getting worse everyday…
My partner of 10 years and we have a daughter walked out just before Thanksgiving. No physical abuse, no infidelity. She just woke up one day and didn't love me anymore. It took her all year to gather the guts to leave.
It's every man's worst nightmare
Yes, I lost myself trying to hold on to someone and in the end he left me anyway.
I have lost people to find out much later that I didn't lose anyone because they were mine and what's more, they were never who I thought they were so, I lost an illusion, something that never existed except in my mind. Those are the relationships that are harder to release because when you lose someone who really loved you because either life or death grew you apart, the sweet memories stay with you and remembering them draws a smile on your face because you are grateful that person shared their lives with yours but when the relationship was based on a traumatic bond, not love, even when you give up the illusion of what it could have been but never was you are still carrying many nasty feelings you need to release because they come from trauma and manipulation. It's a wound not a loss.
Damn
@@Lyrielonwindwow your absolutely what it was narcville the emotional & mental torture I endured is unforgettable
You know yourself worth and believe that your future will bring you everything that you deserve.
It's not easy , when you have been left after 26 years. It's not easy when your phone stop to rings, is not easy when that person called you just because she need to hear your voice, and suddenly , she doesn't needed anymore. Is not easy when after 26 years , she found someone else after 1 month, is not easy when she disrespected you after she left you , is not easy when she disappeared from your life like you're never existed, is not easy when you face yourself for more than 11 months, is not easy when you face the silence for months , is not easy to let go. But you know what? The time that I am taking to see my true self , and what I really want from my life ,it is so valuable, that all this suffering , it doesn't matter anymore, and actually , is gonna make me stronger. The real last step , is to be able to truly forgive her , from the bottom of my heart. To stop thinking about her in a bad way , is the mother of my son after all. Forgive , truly forgive , is the only way to let go. When there is still resentment , there is not forgiveness. To let go , you must forgive. Love you all.
This resonates with me on so many levels
Usually cut bonds with past relationships and see what happens next, usually when you aren't looking for someone, one finds someone seeks yourself to chat in person.
It's a partnership of 100 100 not 50 50 like most people believe in the casual relationships of not being a true bond together
Am doing letting go practice now - it’s helping. - you’re right - thanks
Forgiveness leads to true freedom
Free mind
And
Open heart
I’m letting go of the past
The power is in the now
Pain leads to purpose and power
I will trust and surrender to my higher self the Almighty and the process of transformation 777✨🔥❤️💚🌹👁️
Never let go. It's what helps me realize that I'm best forever single.
The problem about letting go is that it's not only an act of will because you might want to release the grief but that emotion gets stuck like a sticky substance you can't find a way to dissolve.
The thing to realize is the person (object) you're projection those beautiful qualities onto is not the source of those qualities - they are from within you. That sense of wholeness is within and the outer projections are a substitute for that inner connection with the Self; with God. The other person is also a part of that conscious wholeness, never actually separated but by illusion due to the ego's isolation from the whole you.
Good read.
Idk how to "let go". What does letting go of something i dont even have look like
You're doing a fantastic job! Could you help me with something unrelated: My OKX wallet holds some USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). How should I go about transferring them to Binance?
😮 Don’t share your seed phrase bro. It’s like opening your wallet up to anyone to take your USDT
I've learned to let go of my past, my dreams and who I was, and the only thing I feel is dead inside. Life is nothing but empty and lacking any semblance of joy.
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