He is indeed. I was with a man with not just narcissistic traits, but full blown NPD.... for 11 years. And jesse seems like he also has NPD. Hes very transparent. Total gaslighter
Holy hell, that English was so broken.. I've never seen a sentence that was as broken as that sentence was. Or I probably have actually, but not for a very long time.. it's okay though girl, keep on trying.
Jesse was honestly the worst out of all her tv relationships, the way he constantly gaslight her and overreacted on the littlest things was truly insane. Darcy has her faults/issues but Jesse is a flat out narcissistic and he must have hated darcy due to how he treated her.
Honestly, out of all the dudes Darcey has been with, Jesse was truly the worst. And that's REALLY saying something. It's probably one of the reasons Darcey is so insane. Lol And who gets this melodramatic over someone being slightly drunk, not knowing about buildings, riding a bike, and steak? I love your vids bud and how you logically point out all this nonsense.
Jesse was the most toxic, but Tom was my favorite. He was such an obvious fake and fraud, stealing people’s photos to look affluent and refined. Even better, was how insecure he was😂
@@sageisrage The obvious cultural differences between these two are so great,the guy can't even fake liking anything about this woman. She seems delusional to the fact. They are totally different people
@@wlhansen2068 yeah, he didn't like her from the jump. Her mentioning marriage every 2 minutes didn't help either. It only lasted as long as it did because he wanted to be on TV
I met Darcy in New York while working at Victoria Secret. I think she is a really sweet and adorable woman but she definitely gives too much of herself too quickly.
I met Sarah Jessica Parker and Heidi Klum while working at Victoria’s Secret on 5th avenue. SJP was filming a SATC scene and came in to warm up while they set up. I was soool star struck as I was addicted to the show at the time and I loved her. Heidi was just shopping with her boyfriend. She is strikingly gorgeous in person.
@@Boobalopbop I was waiting to get fired honestly lol. When people stole I just watched them walk out, but luckily the pandemic happened and we all got furloughed✨❤️
@@Certifiedhellfire That’s the right thing to do. Don’t approach people and potentially put yourself in danger. If you get hurt, they give no health insurance whatsoever (at least they didn’t back then). And the way they used to hire and fire people, they’d just hire a new person within hours. I’ve worked so many retail jobs when I was young and looking back it’s really sad how they exploit young people. That’s why at some point I started saying screw it. I may as well get a little extra out of this, lol
@@nothanksplease For real. I don’t know why people always make a joke about that. Maybe he is not used to being assaulted by his girlfriends. Throwing a high heeled shoe at someone’s head is seriously dangerous. And watching Darcey over these years with how emotional and crazy she gets (even getting arrested in a bar fight) I have no doubt she chucked it at his head. Why would he make that up?
Saying you love someone and getting a marriage proposal is not the same thing.. you can say you love someone for years before a marriage ever happens..
I never noticed the timing when Jesse tells her to stop interrupting him. He literally stops talking, she starts talking, he starts talking over her, and then he says "can I finish?" 💀
@@robinbrown2256 i have a child with Jesse. Well its not Jesse but once you've met one narcissist you've met them all. If they're not all possessed by the same entity then they're getting mailed a step by step playbook by someone behind our backs lol
The shoes she was wearing are called Louboutin sometimes nicknamed red bottoms and the designer of them has literally said he prioritized aesthetic over the shoe being wearable so you’re 100% right about them being very uncomfortable
@@nukhbaguloter there is a whole Reddit post/thread done by a woman who deals in these high end brands who reviewed all of her “high end” goods and determined she has one “vintage” purse that is real, but the rest are fake. She gives sources and explains why each one can be determined to be a fake. It was eye-opening.
The way Jesse just watches his parents and his friend insult Darcey without saying a word is just heartbreaking. You're right - she should have ended it right there but we all know she has lots of relationship trauma to unfold with a therapist before she can have this level of self esteem.
Idk how these 40/50/60 year old people be dating college age people and expect them to be on the same level of maturity as them… like dude c’mon your essentially still dating a pre-adult/late teenager
@@arwen_2.0 never said it was ok and i never specifically said anything about men and this video is about a woman… so whats the point your trying to make ? 🥱
THANK YOU Jesse's mother and stepfather are dressed like lunatics. The mother looks like a kook but the stepfather really takes the cake. The way he's dressed, the way he speaks...he comes off totally nuts. While Darcey is annoying and crazy, I wouldn't allow two people who looked like Jesse's parents to talk sht about me while I was sitting there like Darcey did. I would have told them about themselves. They need to hear it, since they obviously think they look avant garde and interesting but to the rest of the world they're more like...people you would avoid if you saw them on a train.
Jesse: Let's go have dinner with my parents. Producer: I don't know. Are they polite, considerate, mature, open, and accepting? Jesse: No. The opposite of that. Producer: Let's do this.
Did you see episode with Tom and her sister? Darcey is not a nice drunk. Tom was too classy for her... darcey always bouncing into wedding fever through all the guys.
Y’all realise if that was the case he could just dump her, right. Some of you try way too hard to “decode” these things when there’s nothing to decode, he acted like this because he’s an asshole, it’s that simple.
I really think a big reason Jesse freaked out about the steak as soon as he cut into it was because he saw that it was on the blue side of rare and he immediately knew he fucked up on the cooking of it and it embarrassed him, so he had to make it look like it was darcey's fault right away. He's a real POS.
Jesse's parents are a 1980's Dutch social experiment that went horribly wrong quarter way through. You can still hear the strains of Lena Lovich and Yello drifting out of the father's a*sh*le when he does that weird head shake of contempt at anyone who isn't 60 and Dutch. And you can definitely see how Jesse's turned out the way he did.
Haha. I thought the exact same thing. After being raised by the weirdo mom and obnoxious disrespectful stepfather, no wonder he turned out the way he is.
@@RubyBlueUwU lol TRUTH! I’ve had 5 surgeries and 2 procedures (fillers) and I finally gave up! Thank god I don’t look weird but I do look like I’ve had a face transplant 😂
I was in an abusive relationship where he did the interrupting thing and would tell me to wait a full 30 seconds before talking so he can be fully finished. Mental health issues or not, that's controlling and fucked me up
… Do you people know what abusive truly is? Asking someone not to cut you off in the middle of your sentence is not abusive. If anything it’s healthy to allow your partner to express themselves fully, listening to them attentively before replying. Especially if they pay you the same respect.
@@kara1782 there is a difference between asking someone to not cut you off b Vs demanding your partner always wait 30 seconds to talk….that’s not normal or healthy for your partner to dictate when you can and cannot talk.
Controlling/ abusive people like to try and control the way you speak. Criticize your voice. In an effort to just stop you from ever speaking against them.
Jesse is a classic narcissist . He reminds me so much of my ex. Every little thing you do is a slight to them. They can be romantic, loving and sweet but OMG it can be an emotional rollercoaster of constantly apologizing for stupid little things that nobody else would get upset about. Horrible.
In Darcy’s defense, the heels were because she was trying to look cute when she met him. That’s for HIM. She is a little crazy but his energy is super narcissistic and thoughtless, like the weird father.
Darcey triggers me a little bit because she acts verrrry similar to my mom. Jumping into relationships, falling in love over and over again, and ignoring all the red flags 😑
Looks more Darcey might have been slightly afraid of Jesse. Notice at 10:46 when he said "if you want a problem we can start a problem right now" and he adjusts the way he's sitting (I think he was sitting on his leg and moved to sit up straighter), but when he moves toward her, she quickly flinches away from him then moves back once she sees what he's doing.
Just a few cultural things from someone whose from the Netherlands: - We are blunt, but no way like Jesse. He's on another level. - It's not normal to shame people for not biking fast, especially when they're not born here and when they're older. Even if we all ride bikes here. - The "Not real" comment from the parents are a bit lost in translation, they mean to say Americans are not blunt like us and add a lot of fluff to the way they say things. Not saying the parents were kind, but it's just something people say here about Americans.
I mean, it depends on what region of the US we are from. In the New Jersey/New York area I am from everyone is blunt af. I likely would’ve called his dad Elton John and told him to shut up.
@@jernbek1 huh, you know the Netherlands is not in the US right? I just ment to say we here are generally not as blunt as Jesse. No comparison with the US or anything
Poor Darcy. He was so mean to her. So passive aggressive. Smiling while talking sh*t to her. He was absolutely disgusting. Just Like his vile parents. I hope Darcy finds true love, She seems like a sweet woman.
I honestly don’t see why Darcey felt the need to go after all these European narcissistic men and get plastic surgery when she was absolutely stunning and a lovely person. Sure she has her flaws but there is absolutely no reason why she can’t date an American guy near her.
just watch the psychiatrist that breaks her down clinically and it all makes sense...in many ways she is doing what her dad did, and also looking for the love her dad didn't give her
Haha so bloody true. I have been living in Holland for years now. I come from London UK we well i never cycled in London. I have had many accidents on the roads Sober & drunk also cycling on the wrong side of the road. 😂🙈 But the cycling paths are great in Holland.
I was listening to a story of a HS teacher who played 90df and had the class raise little flags every time they saw someone give a passive-aggressive, gaslighting, manipulative "red flag". I thought it was brilliant and I hope more HS teachers do this.
In Jesse’s defense, he definitely has issues with alcohol. He says he’s seen too many people’s lives destroyed by alcohol. I actually assumed that maybe his dad had an alcohol problem. Darcey has since proven that she has a drinking problem, even got arrested for a drunken bar fight with her sister. It actually came out that during her visit she got so drunk and ran out and fell in some bushes. The cameras weren’t there but apparently by the time they had the conversation where he asked her to not drink anymore, it was after a much crazier incident than her acting sassy at his apt.
I was in a relationship with someone like Jesse, nothing was ever right for him and it all was somehow my fault all the time. Super exhausting and toxic, thank god im out. Darcey is no prize herself but this dude is just on a whole another level of duchiness
It was a LOUBOUTIN shoe! The red bottoms validate Jesse’s trauma, trust. *scoffs* hahahahaha jkjk. LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!! Edit: those shoes are probably the ones he did get thrown at him, they were the Louboutin’s hahahaha
i always hated jesse so when that happened my first thought was “id be thanking darcey for throwing a loub at me and he should be too.” edit: i dont condone domestic violence or anything, jesse is just an asshole and if it was me a i probably wouldve thrown my whole ass suitcase at that poor excuse for a man
@@bongRIP69 he swears he's god's gift but he's not attractive to me. Jennifer's boy toy Cacua, on the the other hand, is very attractive, and she should stay effing him.
I was going to say this! This reminded me of when I worked as a waitress in Beverly Hills I told a customer (one of those rich old entitled white ladies with too much surgery, you know 99% of the time they are rude af) I liked her Louboutin wallet with the spikes and she looked at me like I was stupid and scoffed at me that it wasn’t a Louis Vuitton. I told her yes, I am aware, and I only noticed it because I have the same one 🙄
The way her shoe got stuck on the escalator is truly quite dangerous. That's how people get killed on escalators, when shoelaces get caught, and those gears just take you right under. She was lucky.
I cringed when she leant down with her hair dangling so close trying to save the shoe. It's like just leave it and wait. If that turned back on she would loose half her scalp! No Darcy!
I also love how Darcy wouldn't let her daughters stay in the house because her & Jesse weren't married. But currently she allows Georgie to move in with her & her daughters & they aren't married.
Jesse treated her terrible. He’s a narcissists. Darcy is lovely she just picks toxic men and it’s affected her loads. It’s sad as she keeps changing her looks. She needs to work on herself and forget men.
Darcey reminds me of moms who live vicariously through their daughters but shes her own daughter. She fantasizes about a healthy, dream relationship but shes somehow never in one.
Seeing your new video in my subscription feed made my day! Watching Darcey kneel down to try and get her shoe free and her hair dangling on the ground near the escalator feed where her shoe was stuck gave me mad anxiety - I was afraid it would get stuck next
Jesse is about as charismatic as a single square of 1-ply toilet paper. Those two together was a bigger fail than your finger breaking through aforementioned TP when wiping.
People: Age MATTERS. It absolutely matters. Dating a young person when you are 'mature, (I'm in that 50's age group,) is almost always a bad idea. It's terribly unfair to the younger partner and a total waste of time for the older partner. The older partner always feels very insecure and the younger one is always much aware of the age difference. It's NOT a good idea.
Honestly I personally really dislike Jesse. He's unlikeable to a nearly pathological level. Im positive he has something really wrong with him - and i dislike Darcey so its not a bias. They're two unlikeable people trying to date each other so unsurprisingly they're totally unsympathetic to watch and pretty nearly everyone rooted for them to break up. I wish they had not brought Jesse back on with Jenniffer. I know he was desperate for that sweet sweet TLC cash (he was practically BEGGING to be back on the show and I know he is THRILLED right now) but I just can't bear watching him. I skipped this season just so that I wouldn't have to hear him whine once a week.
Thanks for the shout out! I think rewatching those fight scenes gave me a trauma 😂
You’re welcome! 😂
best crossover ever!
I love both of your channels! Keep doing what you’re doing 🙌🏾
It is an illusion.
@@jasonlandrum326 What are we doing Jason? I'm lost.
Me: Why is Jesse so hostile, rude, and passive aggressive?
Me after seeing Jesse’s parents: Ah, there it is.
People need to stop confusing being direct and straightforward with hostile, rude or passive.
Are u f..kidding who in their right mind could sit and listen to that horrible voive along with ridiculous fairy tales.
@@nicolemonrue can you elaborate more ?
This is why people shouldn't do drugs during pregnancy. Then you end up with a Jesse.
We're not asking for much, just avoid it for 9 months.
@@nicolemonrueI have met people who try and do both and this Mofo seems like one of them
Those parents criticizing her while dressed like that is just hilarious
Truly poetic
At least we know why is Jesse such an a*hole :D
“They are not real” ma’am you’re in muppet cosplay
Remember: Hippies are mean people cosplaying as nice people, Metalheads are nice people cosplaying as mean people.
@@ivx8345 so true.
Jesse is so narcissistic, even when he see her into the eyes he just admiring himself in the reflect I swear
He is indeed. I was with a man with not just narcissistic traits, but full blown NPD.... for 11 years. And jesse seems like he also has NPD. Hes very transparent. Total gaslighter
Sure, he is. But Darcy is a mess who’s incredibly needy.
They were chalk and cheese. It’s not all him, she is incredibly annoying.
Holy hell, that English was so broken.. I've never seen a sentence that was as broken as that sentence was. Or I probably have actually, but not for a very long time.. it's okay though girl, keep on trying.
What are your credentials to be diagnosing someone as a narcissist?
on the nose
He's like the poster boy for emotional abuse. He could have the perfect woman and he'd still find something to be mad at her for every five minutes.
He is like that freaking psycho Memphis! They would make a perfect psycho couple ripping each other apart😂
truly. its so disturbing to watch
He is so much like my ex. It’s hard to watch him sometimes.
Jesse was honestly the worst out of all her tv relationships, the way he constantly gaslight her and overreacted on the littlest things was truly insane. Darcy has her faults/issues but Jesse is a flat out narcissistic and he must have hated darcy due to how he treated her.
I heard they're gonna name a whole brand of douche products after Jesse.
She is crazy. He is an egocentric turd. But its funny shit
Watch him with Jennifer now !
@@cennon I think that is an unfair punishment for a new product🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ofcourse a Woman would side with the woman
and ofcourse a black woman the worst of all haha
Honestly, out of all the dudes Darcey has been with, Jesse was truly the worst. And that's REALLY saying something. It's probably one of the reasons Darcey is so insane. Lol And who gets this melodramatic over someone being slightly drunk, not knowing about buildings, riding a bike, and steak? I love your vids bud and how you logically point out all this nonsense.
Jesse was the most toxic, but Tom was my favorite. He was such an obvious fake and fraud, stealing people’s photos to look affluent and refined. Even better, was how insecure he was😂
@@gabebarbieri194 I couldn’t stand Tom either. Both Tom and Jesse are awful. Darcy’s taste in men is so weird to me!
Y'all love blaming Jesse. Darcy was a desperate mess before she met Jesse.
@@sageisrage The obvious cultural differences between these two are so great,the guy can't even fake liking anything about this woman. She seems delusional to the fact. They are totally different people
@@wlhansen2068 yeah, he didn't like her from the jump. Her mentioning marriage every 2 minutes didn't help either. It only lasted as long as it did because he wanted to be on TV
I met Darcy in New York while working at Victoria Secret. I think she is a really sweet and adorable woman but she definitely gives too much of herself too quickly.
I met Sarah Jessica Parker and Heidi Klum while working at Victoria’s Secret on 5th avenue. SJP was filming a SATC scene and came in to warm up while they set up. I was soool star struck as I was addicted to the show at the time and I loved her. Heidi was just shopping with her boyfriend. She is strikingly gorgeous in person.
@@Boobalopbop That's the same one I worked at! Wish I had met some more celebs tho
@@Certifiedhellfire Omg! Small world! I got fired for stealing though, lol. Then I got hired at the J. Crew a block away… They paid a lot more.
@@Boobalopbop I was waiting to get fired honestly lol. When people stole I just watched them walk out, but luckily the pandemic happened and we all got furloughed✨❤️
@@Certifiedhellfire That’s the right thing to do. Don’t approach people and potentially put yourself in danger. If you get hurt, they give no health insurance whatsoever (at least they didn’t back then). And the way they used to hire and fire people, they’d just hire a new person within hours. I’ve worked so many retail jobs when I was young and looking back it’s really sad how they exploit young people. That’s why at some point I started saying screw it. I may as well get a little extra out of this, lol
If Jesse is going to get upset over steak and truama from a shoe, then you can just imagine how upset he will get over a real problem
high-heel could do a lot of damage my mom busted my tooth out of my face with a coaster you shouldn't throw things at people.
If I’m getting things thrown at me I’m gonna get pissed too. And wasn’t Darcy the one getting mad over how he was cutting it?
@@nothanksplease For real. I don’t know why people always make a joke about that. Maybe he is not used to being assaulted by his girlfriends. Throwing a high heeled shoe at someone’s head is seriously dangerous. And watching Darcey over these years with how emotional and crazy she gets (even getting arrested in a bar fight) I have no doubt she chucked it at his head. Why would he make that up?
@Lamou Lamou If you’ve never been physically attacked by someone you love/care about I would imagine thats traumatic
It is ironic seeing him with Jennifer now ! He acts like a puppy
It's funny hearing Jesse say he doesn't want to rush into anything when he literally told Jennifer he loves her on the third day after he met her.
Well that could’ve been scripted the Jennifer thing and we really don’t know how long they actually knew each other since the show makes up things
Someone made the comment that jennifer is his karma and that hes acting about her the exact way darcey acted about him and im here for it.
Omg! In the Tell-All Jesse and Jennifer looked like Bond villains
Saying you love someone and getting a marriage proposal is not the same thing.. you can say you love someone for years before a marriage ever happens..
He’s a weirdo.
I never noticed the timing when Jesse tells her to stop interrupting him. He literally stops talking, she starts talking, he starts talking over her, and then he says "can I finish?" 💀
Classic narcissist. They're pure evil.
@@ChristinaFromTH-cam that was right after that wonderful triangulation with Stacey
@@robinbrown2256 i have a child with Jesse. Well its not Jesse but once you've met one narcissist you've met them all. If they're not all possessed by the same entity then they're getting mailed a step by step playbook by someone behind our backs lol
@@ChristinaFromTH-cam ha! Jesse is a rolling stone then bc i have some of him in my family
Yes, he was about to sip his tea when she responded.
Jesse’s parents inflated his ego way too much.
His parents are absolutely horrendous!
Absolutely zero tact or politeness... 🤬
💯
Those parents were a red flag. Not only rude and childish just like Jesse but friggin bizarre!
typical dutch
I have encounters with people like this so many times. A lot of jerks in this world.
The shoes she was wearing are called Louboutin sometimes nicknamed red bottoms and the designer of them has literally said he prioritized aesthetic over the shoe being wearable so you’re 100% right about them being very uncomfortable
They’re not meant for trudging through the airport, lol. She likely lied to him about her height. She did send him 15-20 year old pics.
…and they aren’t real Louboutins either!
Do you get much wear out of yours kenny
@@Bigbaymonstermare they were knock offs?
@@nukhbaguloter there is a whole Reddit post/thread done by a woman who deals in these high end brands who reviewed all of her “high end” goods and determined she has one “vintage” purse that is real, but the rest are fake. She gives sources and explains why each one can be determined to be a fake. It was eye-opening.
The way Jesse just watches his parents and his friend insult Darcey without saying a word is just heartbreaking. You're right - she should have ended it right there but we all know she has lots of relationship trauma to unfold with a therapist before she can have this level of self esteem.
Idk how these 40/50/60 year old people be dating college age people and expect them to be on the same level of maturity as them… like dude c’mon your essentially still dating a pre-adult/late teenager
i know right 😑
But it is ok that a 40/50/60 year old man can date a girl in her twenties because the share the same arena... wtf..
Y do college kids Try for them goes both ways
@@arwen_2.0 never said it was ok and i never specifically said anything about men and this video is about a woman… so whats the point your trying to make ? 🥱
@@Holidaygirl7 again like i said they’re still immature and pre adults so they are as much as irresponsible and nonsensical as an elder
Imagine being called crazy by a man with feathers in his ears.
Thissssss LOL
THANK YOU
Jesse's mother and stepfather are dressed like lunatics. The mother looks like a kook but the stepfather really takes the cake. The way he's dressed, the way he speaks...he comes off totally nuts. While Darcey is annoying and crazy, I wouldn't allow two people who looked like Jesse's parents to talk sht about me while I was sitting there like Darcey did. I would have told them about themselves. They need to hear it, since they obviously think they look avant garde and interesting but to the rest of the world they're more like...people you would avoid if you saw them on a train.
And a stepdad who simps for his stepson saying women throw their panties at him was a weird thing to say
Jesse: Let's go have dinner with my parents.
Producer: I don't know. Are they polite, considerate, mature, open, and accepting?
Jesse: No. The opposite of that.
Producer: Let's do this.
My biggest fear is dating a guy like him. He seems unbearable
Imagine havin' a kid wit Him. Ewwww
If Jesse thinks Darcey has a drinking problem, he’d have a heart attack if he ever came to the U.K…
It’s funny thinking about how he’s from the Netherlands and people his age normally drink an awful lot.
Word 😝
Did you see episode with Tom and her sister? Darcey is not a nice drunk. Tom was too classy for her... darcey always bouncing into wedding fever through all the guys.
He’s trying to sabotage the relationship because he knows it won’t work out. The age difference, her kids, her personality, all of it
You may be correct Josh !! I agree 👍🏼
Y’all realise if that was the case he could just dump her, right. Some of you try way too hard to “decode” these things when there’s nothing to decode, he acted like this because he’s an asshole, it’s that simple.
As a partner, Darcey seems very exhausting; but Jesse is naturally insufferable, he is just too much.
Anyways, Happy New Year! 🎉
At least Darcey isn't a bad person. Jesse is a total douchnozzle.
@@cennon Darcey definitely isn’t innocent lol
They are both annoying people for sure
Desperation meets narcissism which equals a whole mess.
Her getting that weave near the escalator while she's messing with that shoe gave me MAJOR anxiety.
OMG me too!! I've been looking for this comment!
I really think a big reason Jesse freaked out about the steak as soon as he cut into it was because he saw that it was on the blue side of rare and he immediately knew he fucked up on the cooking of it and it embarrassed him, so he had to make it look like it was darcey's fault right away. He's a real POS.
Her crying before the elevator is probably because the Louboutin shoes cost an arm and a leg…
I’m glad someone said it ❤
Jesse's parents are a 1980's Dutch social experiment that went horribly wrong quarter way through. You can still hear the strains of Lena Lovich and Yello drifting out of the father's a*sh*le when he does that weird head shake of contempt at anyone who isn't 60 and Dutch.
And you can definitely see how Jesse's turned out the way he did.
Haha. I thought the exact same thing. After being raised by the weirdo mom and obnoxious disrespectful stepfather, no wonder he turned out the way he is.
Elton John as a Step-Dad
Can you provide more context?
This sounds absolutely fascinating. I’m going to look up those names!
I gotta look this up
“This guy is taking a picture like it’s a crime scene” … 🤣🤣 literally LOL 😂
I just went past that part and started laughing hysterically, I’m glad I’m not the only one LOLOL
Pictures were probably sent to whoever fixes stuff around there.
Darcey looked so beautiful here, she messed up herself.
There's photos on her insta of what she looked like way before 90 day fiance, she was 10x more beautiful before the plastic surgery.
@@IntrovertedOreo she was such a natural beauty, it’s really sad.
It’s sad how ppl seem to get addicted and convinced it’ll solve all of their problems or whatever when it’s definitely a “less is more” situation.
I literally was going to type the same thing!
@@RubyBlueUwU lol TRUTH! I’ve had 5 surgeries and 2 procedures (fillers) and I finally gave up! Thank god I don’t look weird but I do look like I’ve had a face transplant 😂
I was in an abusive relationship where he did the interrupting thing and would tell me to wait a full 30 seconds before talking so he can be fully finished. Mental health issues or not, that's controlling and fucked me up
… Do you people know what abusive truly is? Asking someone not to cut you off in the middle of your sentence is not abusive. If anything it’s healthy to allow your partner to express themselves fully, listening to them attentively before replying. Especially if they pay you the same respect.
@@kara1782 there is a difference between asking someone to not cut you off b
Vs demanding your partner always wait 30 seconds to talk….that’s not normal or healthy for your partner to dictate when you can and cannot talk.
@@kara1782 welp. I found the abuser 😂
I'm happy that you're not longer in that situation 🙏 Everyone deserves to feel safe, and respected ♥️
Controlling/ abusive people like to try and control the way you speak. Criticize your voice. In an effort to just stop you from ever speaking against them.
Jesse is a classic narcissist . He reminds me so much of my ex. Every little thing you do is a slight to them. They can be romantic, loving and sweet but OMG it can be an emotional rollercoaster of constantly apologizing for stupid little things that nobody else would get upset about. Horrible.
My ex was like that, too, and now he’s like that with our son. It’s extremely traumatizing. 😥
Aah same its so triggering also that he creates the Drama and procets it on her. Ruuun Darcy sweety ❤
Sounds like a living nightmare...
Jesse’s parents look like they’ve been raiding the dressing up box in the dark
yeah they look like a portlandia sketch
Hahaha. As a European i can confidently say that those two dress like everyone in central Amsterdam😅
Jessie’s parents are not what I expected. At All.
As a Dutch person I want to apologise for this horrible man. He is embarrassing.
Thats cute but its not your fault those types are everywhere, i love dutch people and the Netherlands😊
Ik wou precies hetzelfde schrijven...😅
Wat een debiel die gast.
@@Falconer22 😂😂😂
No, he isnt
He,s such a Baby, sook…can,t believe him? Diana
90 day never fails to make me feel better about myself
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Seriously
Boom!!
Super facts 🤣🤣🤣 I love being single after watching this show 🤣🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Why was Jesse dressed like dexter when he’s getting ready to kill someone .
Lmaooo too accurate
so glad to see a recap, extremely relevant since he's still just... being jesse on the single life
Traumatic
Yeah Darcey is no good over here I think she is also just about herself doing
I don't understand the appeal to Jesse. He's pretty horrible 😂
Off Topic but you‘re mad pretty!
@@xtraterrestriiial-love i was thinking the same !
I'd get sassy too if I was drunk having a good time and my partner absolutely killed my vibe by being a complete asshole for no reason😂
In Darcy’s defense, the heels were because she was trying to look cute when she met him. That’s for HIM. She is a little crazy but his energy is super narcissistic and thoughtless, like the weird father.
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I don't understand constantly getting cosmetic work done because they always end up looking worse and fake.
Moderation is important in general but my god is it literally the most important thing about Cosmetic Surgery
You don’t have to understand it. You just have to mind your business.
@@ShesMongolianASMR Like you do?
I think they might get an addiction from it?
@@ShesMongolianASMR shut up.
honestly, i only really feel bad for Darcey's kids...
I literally said this this sentence a few days ago 😭😭😂
Same 🤦♀️
Darcey triggers me a little bit because she acts verrrry similar to my mom. Jumping into relationships, falling in love over and over again, and ignoring all the red flags 😑
Some women are stupid and need to be sterilized . A lot of men shouldn't breed too..
Honestly it hurts to see one of the daughters get in the middle and try and rationalize with either of them. I hope the daughters are doing well.
Jesse has very strong narcissism traits and he only feels safe if he is one up.
Looks more Darcey might have been slightly afraid of Jesse. Notice at 10:46 when he said "if you want a problem we can start a problem right now" and he adjusts the way he's sitting (I think he was sitting on his leg and moved to sit up straighter), but when he moves toward her, she quickly flinches away from him then moves back once she sees what he's doing.
Just a few cultural things from someone whose from the Netherlands:
- We are blunt, but no way like Jesse. He's on another level.
- It's not normal to shame people for not biking fast, especially when they're not born here and when they're older. Even if we all ride bikes here.
- The "Not real" comment from the parents are a bit lost in translation, they mean to say Americans are not blunt like us and add a lot of fluff to the way they say things. Not saying the parents were kind, but it's just something people say here about Americans.
Precies wat ik dacht over deze gestoorde.Echt ik schaamde me rot toen ik hem zag. 😅
I mean, it depends on what region of the US we are from. In the New Jersey/New York area I am from everyone is blunt af. I likely would’ve called his dad Elton John and told him to shut up.
@@jernbek1 huh, you know the Netherlands is not in the US right? I just ment to say we here are generally not as blunt as Jesse. No comparison with the US or anything
No shit Sherlock, the dad called Americans fake because we don’t say what we mean, and I said it depends on what region we come from.
He's soooooo judgemental no wonder because his parents seemed OFF!! And Darcy's sooooooo insecure. Recipe for disaster.
Jesse is manipulative and toxic imo
Jesse is always looking for a broken women to boost his ego ,this has been his trade.
Dude got almost shell shocked when she threw that shoe. It will take years and hundreds of hours of therapy to recover from that kind of trauma.
Poor Darcy. He was so mean to her. So passive aggressive. Smiling while talking sh*t to her. He was absolutely disgusting. Just Like his vile parents. I hope Darcy finds true love, She seems like a sweet woman.
Your sarcasm, clever snide remarks, and wit matches mine.
I love this podcast, I laugh all the way through.
So glad you finally covered this whole chapter of Darcy's story. Jesse exhausted ME and I was never the one in a relationship with him.
I honestly don’t see why Darcey felt the need to go after all these European narcissistic men and get plastic surgery when she was absolutely stunning and a lovely person. Sure she has her flaws but there is absolutely no reason why she can’t date an American guy near her.
just watch the psychiatrist that breaks her down clinically and it all makes sense...in many ways she is doing what her dad did, and also looking for the love her dad didn't give her
Wish Darcey loved herself more. She has always been so fly and dope until she let these ppl make her insecure.
Darcy does not want a marriage she wants a wedding
The biggest issues with all these 90 day relationships is none of them communicate well with each other.
Dude you're hilarious. The "got a trauma" throwbacks throughout destroyed me
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Cycling in the Netherlands is shit scary when you're not Dutch. It's a crazy experience.
Haha so bloody true. I have been living in Holland for years now. I come from London UK we well i never cycled in London. I have had many accidents on the roads Sober & drunk also cycling on the wrong side of the road. 😂🙈 But the cycling paths are great in Holland.
“I have a feeling Darcy is gonna let this get her down”😂😂💀
Ladies and Gentlemen that's why you date someone your own age.
It's not about age, it's about being mentally mature, which none of those two are.
@@michirrus It's about age it's always is.
@@michirrus age is important too though. It’s important for people who are marrying to be in the same stage of life.
@@ZacharyDarkes would you say the same thing to an older man dating a young woman
@@victoriavivivolov7793 Yes i would actually and I do.
He clearly has had enough of her. He should have left after day one. When you’ve had enough of a person, every little thing they do is an annoyance.
Slice, it’s been a minute. Happy new year. I hope your channel blows up this year.
I was listening to a story of a HS teacher who played 90df and had the class raise little flags every time they saw someone give a passive-aggressive, gaslighting, manipulative "red flag". I thought it was brilliant and I hope more HS teachers do this.
I am DEAD at "Idk what age she's supposed to look like". I wish I were on my phone to flood this with cryin laughing emojis lol
If I saw my mom’s boyfriend talk to her like Jesse talks to Darcey, I’d fight him. Jesse is a manchild.
Facts
In Jesse’s defense, he definitely has issues with alcohol. He says he’s seen too many people’s lives destroyed by alcohol. I actually assumed that maybe his dad had an alcohol problem. Darcey has since proven that she has a drinking problem, even got arrested for a drunken bar fight with her sister. It actually came out that during her visit she got so drunk and ran out and fell in some bushes. The cameras weren’t there but apparently by the time they had the conversation where he asked her to not drink anymore, it was after a much crazier incident than her acting sassy at his apt.
Sources! Sources!! I wanna see em! 😂
@@Bigbaymonstermare
Mhm leaving us hanging
@@tikdoe7563 right?!?!?
@@Bigbaymonstermare
Lol happens too often on yt :(
@@tikdoe7563 I know 😢 BOOOOO!!!!
I was in a relationship with someone like Jesse, nothing was ever right for him and it all was somehow my fault all the time. Super exhausting and toxic, thank god im out. Darcey is no prize herself but this dude is just on a whole another level of duchiness
It was a LOUBOUTIN shoe! The red bottoms validate Jesse’s trauma, trust. *scoffs* hahahahaha jkjk.
LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!!
Edit: those shoes are probably the ones he did get thrown at him, they were the Louboutin’s hahahaha
I came to say the same lol
i always hated jesse so when that happened my first thought was “id be thanking darcey for throwing a loub at me and he should be too.”
edit: i dont condone domestic violence or anything, jesse is just an asshole and if it was me a i probably wouldve thrown my whole ass suitcase at that poor excuse for a man
@@bongRIP69 he swears he's god's gift but he's not attractive to me. Jennifer's boy toy Cacua, on the the other hand, is very attractive, and she should stay effing him.
I was going to say this! This reminded me of when I worked as a waitress in Beverly Hills I told a customer (one of those rich old entitled white ladies with too much surgery, you know 99% of the time they are rude af) I liked her Louboutin wallet with the spikes and she looked at me like I was stupid and scoffed at me that it wasn’t a Louis Vuitton. I told her yes, I am aware, and I only noticed it because I have the same one 🙄
A high end goods rep tore Darcey’s “collection” apart on Reddit. Those are not real Louboutins!
As a kid in a Asian brown household
The shoe thrown at you as a kid really traumatizes you
Darcey just crazy asf every day, bless her heart. She needs some shock therapy or something.
Omgggg🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmao shock therapy. I'm dead
Dana😭😭😭😂
Hey Jessi!! We know it's you
Sounds like you need some too!! 😂
The way her shoe got stuck on the escalator is truly quite dangerous. That's how people get killed on escalators, when shoelaces get caught, and those gears just take you right under. She was lucky.
Sounds like some 'Final Destination' shit
I cringed when she leant down with her hair dangling so close trying to save the shoe. It's like just leave it and wait. If that turned back on she would loose half her scalp! No Darcy!
You know something I always thought Darcy was the problem because she was so annoying. But Jessie was definitely problematic too
Both are
‘i got a trauma from that’ 🙃🥲
I literally can’t take either of these two seriously 😒
If you've ever wondered what a relationship between an oversized keebler elf and a goblin looks like
I also love how Darcy wouldn't let her daughters stay in the house because her & Jesse weren't married. But currently she allows Georgie to move in with her & her daughters & they aren't married.
1:49 the way he treats her….he hates her. A guy who loves you look after you, he does not compete with you
More Darcey videos, please! Your commentary is hilarious.
I can't tell if she is her 40s trying to look like she is in her 60s had me rolling in the floor off the bed with laughter 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤🎉 thanks
OMG. YOUR VIDEOS ARE THE ABSOLUTE BEST! Thank you for entertaining us all!
Jesse treated her terrible. He’s a narcissists. Darcy is lovely she just picks toxic men and it’s affected her loads. It’s sad as she keeps changing her looks. She needs to work on herself and forget men.
People that wear sky high heels in inappropriate places scream insecure, the fact this whole thing went on as long as it did is absurd.
"Or did she mean our faces aren't real" 😂😂 oh damn
He gaslighted her so much. Was so sad to see her in this toxicity.
Darcey reminds me of moms who live vicariously through their daughters but shes her own daughter. She fantasizes about a healthy, dream relationship but shes somehow never in one.
I just found your channel, I wanna see you review every single show out there. Your humor is right up my alley.
her shoes prob cost at least 1500 so I understand the reaction!
right??? lmao i'm over wondering if those shoes made it out okay and unscathed!! lmao
Seeing your new video in my subscription feed made my day!
Watching Darcey kneel down to try and get her shoe free and her hair dangling on the ground near the escalator feed where her shoe was stuck gave me mad anxiety - I was afraid it would get stuck next
You left out the best part. “You never lover me, you liar!!”
Older woman: " I'll date a guy who could be my son"❗☝️😃
Also older woman: "Why is he so immature"❓🤔
"Too immature" literally dating a dude old enough to be her son
Jesse is so mean to her. He seems so annoyed with her and always angry.
You're killing me. This channel is great.
Jesse got p.t.s.d from Darcey tossing a shoe? Then p.t.s.d must stand for post traumatic shoe 👠 disorder...😉😆lol
Darcey is an example of what NOT to do…
Jesse is about as charismatic as a single square of 1-ply toilet paper. Those two together was a bigger fail than your finger breaking through aforementioned TP when wiping.
People: Age MATTERS. It absolutely matters. Dating a young person when you are 'mature, (I'm in that 50's age group,) is almost always a bad idea. It's terribly unfair to the younger partner and a total waste of time for the older partner. The older partner always feels very insecure and the younger one is always much aware of the age difference. It's NOT a good idea.
Man I get so happy when you upload a new video!
“I’ve worked in restaurants so” okay but that’s so annoying hahahaha
Honestly I personally really dislike Jesse. He's unlikeable to a nearly pathological level. Im positive he has something really wrong with him - and i dislike Darcey so its not a bias. They're two unlikeable people trying to date each other so unsurprisingly they're totally unsympathetic to watch and pretty nearly everyone rooted for them to break up. I wish they had not brought Jesse back on with Jenniffer. I know he was desperate for that sweet sweet TLC cash (he was practically BEGGING to be back on the show and I know he is THRILLED right now) but I just can't bear watching him. I skipped this season just so that I wouldn't have to hear him whine once a week.
Trauma: injury term which refers to physical injuries of sudden onset and severity which require immediate medical attention
How bad was it 👀