Complaining about Matt not talking enough but then complaining about how he’s taking too long to make his point or talking about how "miserable" and “negative” he is for I don’t even know how long is just suffocating to hear and no matter how much I enjoy your guy’s content and each of you three as individuals, hearing Matt peacefully state his point without getting made fun of, interrupted or getting complains seems like a holy gift when it really should be an usual and normal thing. I appreciate you guys a lot and especially Matt’s patience.
Their silly bickering is funny but good for Matt pointing out how when he tries to talk, Nick and Chris would then complain that he mumbles or takes forever to make a point. Kudos to Matt’s patience! Anyways good podcast as always!
@@Jordan-sq1oohe does not seem disinterested or dismissive. He only does that when they gang up on him for being soft spoken, as anyone would with any self respect
as someone with social anxiety who is constantly told that they can’t talk or don’t know how to talk, this episode triggered me so bad. hats off to matt for taking it all. i would have cried on the spot. like i know the whole “they’re siblings, that’s what siblings do” or wtv but oh my gosh this was insufferable and very belittling.
Yessss it was hard to watch. I can relate to Matt with his anxiety and I would have had a full blown anxiety attack if I was there. I think they are not being mean they just don't know how to communicate with him.
this is literally bullying. The fact that they've lived their whole lives together changes nothing of it. It's belligerent, intolerant, borderline hateful behaviour. Cannot imagine saying something like that to someone I love.
@@strawberrysweetgirlnot even the fact that he’s wrong but it’s just like his brothers are telling him they can’t hear him and he gets mad.. when that’s rlly not something to get mad at.. now i know they interrupt him all the time and i understand that pisses him off but this episode is so much
@@Tc123. it’s so frustrating when someone tells you to stop complaining when you’re just trying to communicate how you feel about something. matt looks so over it.
he wasn't even irritable at any point throughout the video in a manner that is characteristic of anxiety disorder. They relentlessly instigated rash and uncalculated reactions out of him because it simply gives them a laugh or something to base a joke on.
facts. I have anxiety and people always tell me to stop being moody when they just don’t get that being “negative” is actually a way out to be happier later, because I’m just expressing what I’m feeling.
i really think that matt should be the host one time. that could be super unexpected and fun, like when he narrated "day two on tour" tiktok. His talkativeness and humor are so underrated, i feel like we don't see enough of this.
I would like that too but maybe it wouldn't be in his comfort zone or maybe it would make him excited more about topics so I'd like it too if he was willing to do it
@@jussbe678 i totally agree. i just suggested that cause there's a lot of times when matt tries to grab the laptop and start reading but always hears things like "you can't read shit". so maybe if he is willing to try to be the host just for one episode it could be a great and different experience for him to speak and participate more
@tayloralexis4086 @@Aymeric2000 i don't see like that. nick takes the control of almost every video or content probably cause matt and chris agreed that it's better this way since it's so easy for him to talk, read, explain things, moving forward on topics, express himself, be entertainment. I'm pretty sure that if matt and chris were willing to do nick's job they could've changed it a while ago.
Right! They were on attack mode for half the episode and then they would repeatedly say things like "It's crazy how we are jokingly arguing 🤪"... But like...It did not seem "jokingly" at all. It felt tense, passive aggressive, and uncomfortable to watch. And then Nick asking Matt to tell the audience that he is not angry, when he actually is, felt crazy. Like... If you are going to be insufferable, at least own up to it. @@clarisag7313
it’s so inane because they’re like “matt speak” or “matt speak up i can’t hear you!” or “your so negative” but then as soon as he speaks they interrupt him or insult him for literally saying one singular word😭😭 like they’ll be like “oh like what makes you happy?” and if matt says “the opposite of what’s going on right now” they’re like “oh matt shut the fuck up” or “that’s such a stupid answer” 😭😭🙏🙏
This is the first pod episode I physically couldn’t finish. It isn’t about ‘oh poor Matt they’re so mean’ or whatever, it’s about how me and so many people relate to Matt so much and the teasing of certain things he does is not just about Matt, it’s about every other person watching who does those things that are now being made fun of.
it's literally an hour and a quarter long extension of a fight I had with my sister last night because she was using the same instigating tactics to pull on my strings, just to belittle and humiliate me for my reaction. Bordering sadistic behaviour. Made me physically writhe to a degree I never have before while watching a video.
I agree but my opinion is we need to understand we dont know them. Its not just "awwww theyre being mean to himm" we have no idea whats happening behind the scenes, why those two were acting like that, why matt was being so defensive from the start, we dont know anything. So its not fair to put the blame on any of them because quite frankly just because we're looking through a window into their lives doesn't mean we're in the rooms they're in. I feel bad for matt but its not that big of a deal because they're family and they will work it out. Some people are making a thing out if a thing that probably isnt a thing 💀 siblings will get heated sometimes and thats ok. These aren't cute little boys they're grown men and i wish people would treat matt like a man with emotions, not a fragile little boy. He'll be fine and probably is now, they always talk shit over
@@syca5094 'they're family and they'll work it out' you are disgustingly detached from all of the reality that surrounds you to even allow yourself to think something so asinine. Men hurt and mistreat each other. What is your convoluted self bringing up their age or relationship nature to prove? If they're grown men and not little boys then they should practice creating a divide between what happens off record and what they decide to display of their interactions to the viewers. But you'll indefinitely make excuses for them as if they haven't been this way towards him since the beginning of their career. We weren't born yesterday, it's very easy to interpret people's behaviour without withheld context.
@@Meirins thats actually an insane response to someones opinion as i said it was just my thoughts. I also said i agree with the original comment. Literally no need to be so rude jesus christ. They will work it out im being positive. This isn't the end of their relationship they love eachother and im sure they'll work whatever issues they have with eachother out. I still stand by my opinion regardless.
Matt has the perfect podcast tone. A podcast is supposed to be calm and relaxing and he has the calming energy. Also the patience Matt has amazing as someone who’s patient I would’ve had to walk out. The podcast tends to be a hard watch but this one is by far the hardest and I had to stop watching after 10 minutes. Y’all filmed this February 1st, watched it, and thought ‘this is great let’s post it.’
I see so many comments saying that this episode was hard to watch. I’m glad to get the confirmation that I’m not overreacting. This truly was aggravating to watch. I almost close the TH-cam tab myself.
I’ve felt triggered by them for a while. “You’re so quiet” has got to be one of the most insensitive things you can say to an introvert with social anxiety. Why the hell would anyone WANT to talk after being nitpicked and talked over constantly.
I LOVE that matt is finally speaking up and calling them out 4:30 cause it’s obvious their dynamic is in a way that when matt is talking and someone tries to cut in, matt will just shut up cause there is no point in fighting it anymore cause nick and chris are not used to listening to matt. I hope they will consciously start paying attention to matt and practice listening to him. And it’s understandable that matt struggles with speaking or getting his thoughts out when he hasn’t had a chance to talk like nick or chris do, probably since childhood
Also “miserable matt” is also understandable and them constantly putting labels on matt is just rude. Nick and chris completely discard anything matt is saying and invalidate his feelings. It hurts to watch tbh. All this is coming from someone who has had mental health issues and has a degree in psychology.
agree! i know they all love each other no question but in this episode i fell really sorry for him for being made fun of and getting picked on. Some little jokes here and there is normal but he seems exhausted (in this video)
and the fact the topic is happiness and they were excited for matt to talk and then make him mad by not letting him speak about what hes passionate about
it’s not that Matt mumbles or speaks slowly it’s that nick and chris like to hear themselves talk too much😂 like more times than not chris makes zero sense when he is speaking but still won’t shut up, he just keeps rambling, it’s like TAKE A BREATHER DAMN figure out what your saying buddy
Nailed it on the head. Because if that was me and they said I was “Miserable Matt” I too would have been pissed off the rest of the video. That’s the equivalent to telling someone to calm down
Honestly in most these arguments that happen Matt almost always has the most reasonable opinion and always has reasonable feelings about it so I’m usually on his side😭
I saw this TikTok of a girl saying that Nick and Chris should get their ears checked because everyone can hear Matt clearly, and I think about that often. 😭
THANK YOU. That comment from Chris sent me through the roof. Like, you’ve been getting on Matt’s last nerve for the past 20 minutes and you are going to go out of your way to say that you’re upset about Matt clapping back? Be for real my guy
@@iil0ve0livia 100% agreed! Like I usually love Chris’ personality but in this episode him and Nick were really getting to me. It’s also crazy that they triggered me the most in a video about Happiness 🥴
As a quiet kid who grew up in a loud household, the absolute GASLIGHTING from Nick and Chris in this episode was so triggering. I can't wait for another one of Matt's personal videos so that he can actually speak.
Matt does such a good job of not escalating, there is so much he could say but he holds it back, I really think his current defensiveness and negativity toward them was learned, they nag him so much on camera I can’t imagine how it is off camera, they should work on this stuff off camera, take a break from being with each other or something, because this is hard to watch (opinion based on the content they willingly put out, idk these people)
i rmb matt saying he could say something that would end nic and chris careers but then he didnt and passed it off as a joke to move on but i fully believe that he did have something to say. Nic and chris should be so lucky that matt takes the high road every time with them since there is no getting through to them and its like arguing with 2 walls that don't absorb anything said to them. Matts reserved demeanor is literally coping mechanism from the toxic environment they create every week - heck maybe even everyday who really knows. If they're bold enough to do this on camera who knows how hes treated when the cameras are off.
@@MimsyMi also to publicly post this and not expect viewers to notice and comment about it is crazy. they even blame Matt and nag him about our acknowledgment which is even crazier. bro needs to take a solo vacation, they all do atp
@@joserose2803yeah it’s totally crazy they like blame Matt for the viewers noticing they treat him like shit? Like damn. And like you said tbis is how they act ON CAMERA. Like Jesus Christ. Laura needs to intervene with them stat bc jt is getting BAD BAD. like I might unsubscribe bad. I couldn’t even finish T is video
Being more soft-spoken or just more calm/quiet doesn’t mean that you’re not worthy being listened to. ❤ taking your time to collect your thoughts about a certain topic doesn’t make you slow ❤️. Love you all ☺️ (I’m introverted myself and enjoy silence once in a while so I get what Matt is saying 100%) also being quiet doesn’t make you “weird”. I hate when people say that
@@джем-к4л they don’t it’s crazy. At one point Chris called Matt a “fucking piece of shit.” It’s just so wild. Idk what they think they’re doing tbis shits unwatchable
@@Gkwilson1487 (srry English is my second language) but omfg was it like a joke or did Chris actually was serious? Cause this is so crazy, I actually feel bad for Matt. He is so understanding and he tries to comfort everyone but like I often see how their jokes are becoming a bullying and while Matt is speaking no one is actually willing to listen
@user-zt3wy8zw8k It was a joke it's just siblings' love Trust me I live with 2 younger siblings and this is how we would act when us 3 are together or just me and one other sibling
@@brennajames25 I know I have a younger brother so we tease each other a lot but I know that they love each other, and probably they love each other equally, it just seems like nick and Chris better shut down at least every 10 minutes so that Matt speak. It is a heartbreaking thing to watch :( I believe they didn’t want to be like this (at least I hope so) with him, but this whole picture looks like Matt is being that one quite kid since childhood just because they really enjoying listening to themselves and that’s the end, they just don’t even know how to listen sometimes. Anyway I am watching them not for so long so maybe I am being wrong now
My emotions in this pod 📈📉📈📉 I would get annoyed on Matt’s behalf & then laugh at Chris’s silliness & again & again. overall, this episode felt like a damn rollercoaster.
yeah same, the title made me so excited cuz i thought with Matt’s background with what’s he’s said about mental health that this episode would be so good. honestly was the most uncomfortable one to sit all the way through
this episode gave me middle school ptsd and i can’t tell if they were actually like being annoying towards matt or if im just too sensitive cause i relate so much like that whole passive aggressive collectively piling on one person situation is so frustrating to experience
you are the part of the problem by enabling this behaviour, calling us who call them out 'sensitive' and 'dramatic'. if they were friends instead they would get so much more criticism
@@roses_are_rosies345that's the point girl??it would be different if they were friends (not really if they knew each other from elementary school) but they're siblings that are literal triplets and that spent every moment of their life tg.
i’m a sibling, i fight with them, but i would never treat them like this, especially knowing what matt’s been through, with his anxiety and mental health journey over all. even despite that it doesn’t feel good to be ganged up on by everyone else in the room. matt’s reaction was normal, he wasn’t overreacting, his emotions were normal yet they were completely invalidated. i think people always talk about how we should advocate for mental health and treating people with kindness until it affects you. matt needed support, if he had gotten that support maybe he would’ve been in a better mood, maybe he would’ve had a brighter outlook. but you’re not going to feel amazing and excited when your being treated like shit by the people you love most.
they're both so worried about the fans calling them out for how poorly they consistently treat matt, but both of them egged on the whole ridiculous "tuff guy" thing for SO long. i saw so much hate directed at matt by "fans" on tiktok for that, there's no way they didn't see it. it turned into a way for chris and nick to weaponize the fanbase and dismiss matt every time he stood up for himself or gave the same energy back to them. i've been watching their videos for over a year and a half, matt is so incredibly patient; if he seemed aggravated or disengaged or "tuff" in those videos, there was FOR SURE a good reason, as is demonstrated in this disgrace of a video.
Really sad to say that this will be the first video I don’t watch on this channel. Seeing all of the comments on both here and Reddit, plus all of the clips on TikTok have made me have zero interest in watching Matt get bullied for over an hour. We love the way he talks. He is not “boring” or a “tough guy”. Please let him get a sentence in without attacking him. We want to hear his thoughts on different topics!
@@Joesahejdhf hun, I’m the youngest of 3 girls. No amount of “this is how siblings act” makes what happened in this podcast okay. My sisters and I would never treat each other this way.
@@1996diamondgirlnot even just that but just because something is a joke between siblings and is considered normal doesn’t mean it cannot be hurtful and it does not make it okay. My siblings have treated me like this over and over, yes we’re still siblings and YES we still love each other, but that does not mean it didn’t make me feel like shit in the moment.
you guys always use the 'it's because they're silbings' excuse as if it's literally impossible that sibling's can be rude and disrespectful to each other. i have a sibling and this is just bullying tbh
exactly, also nick decided to post this while him and chris just publicly degrade matt. they arent clueless either, everything theyre saying is gaslighting him or trying to set him up to look like he's sensitive or acting up. this is ridiculous and i wish matt would just do his own thing bc they suck and it's getting worse all the time
As a mother who frequently watches your videos. NEVER have I ever felt more uncomfortable watching. Chris and Nick need to seriously look at their bullying behaviour towards Matt. Yes they are siblings but this went beyond simple banter. Matt was attacked for his character , for the way he spoke (or didn’t!), to the way he ‘sighed!’. He was constantly being interrupted. Nothing he said was met with any validation! I know Matt has suffered with mental health issues in the past and calling someone ‘negative!’, ‘miserable!’, ‘ mumbling!’ Is disgraceful! The more a person hears something, the more they believe it! Nick and Chris! You need to back off with this behaviour. I’m sure you wouldn’t want Matt to walk away. But he won’t put up with this forever.
You worded that perfectly! I’ve been a viewer for 3 years and I haven’t been able to watch most of their podcast bc they make me so comfortable with how much they argue and pick at Matt. Then Nick says things like “oh I know people are gonna get mad at me for yelling at Matt” YEAH they are bc you know you’re in the wrong saying that!!
THANK YOU, this one’s gonna need more likes so they can see it, and not in the way of like “y’all are getting called out” but more in like an introspective way and realizing that you need to start thinking that you wouldn’t simply treat or tell those things to a normal person or friend. Cut the camera if you need to and get it together, so much nonsense on this episode and honestly a little hard to watch and hear.
'unconditional love' thats the complete opposite of what they have for him i feel so sorry for matt at their age this shouldn't be a normal brush over the shoulder thing but i have a feeling chris and nick still feel like they have to prove to people their cool or above others its sad i hope they grow up and realize thats not how you treat someone you 'love'
“I know people are gonna clip this” honestly good I am one of three siblings and I could never imagine at my grown age speaking to one of them like this. Let him speak like obviously he’s quiet because everything that he says is being replied with “shut up” the podcast is genuinely just infuriating to watch because I don’t want to see 1hr of degrading your brother for fun.
it's absurd to me how he realises that he is errant, and that people will see that his actions and behaviour towards his brother are out of line, so he preemptively asks matt to 'clarify' that what he's doing isn't truly bothering him just so that he can clear out the way for himself to keep the obnoxious behaviour going, after having alienated viewers by communicating to them that they're ridiculous for feeling upset by the way matt is being treated.
right & everyone pulling the sibling card is so annoying IM a triplet and if my brothers treated me this way I would be so upset LMFAO. Of course I don't speak for them everyone has a different relationship with their siblings but the way people are acting like just because they r siblings everything they say is just "how all siblings are" is just weird like idk omg
@@08fkaOMG LITERALLY everyone keeps saying “oh they’re siblings this always happen” it’s like ummm no if my brother said that to me i would be really upset and i have guy friends with brothers that also would be upset so i don’t think pulling the sibling card will work ALL the time. yes sometimes they jokingly play around with each other but you can see it in matt’s face the entire time that he clearly is upset
This podcast feels different and it’s honestly hard to watch. I could listen to Matt talk all day, and I’m never confused when he’s speaking. He’s truly a comfort person 💙
@@JulietteDupont-up1giliterally i hate it whenever chris or nick just start yelling. nobody wants to watch a podcast where they don’t even get to the point and are just yelling at each other the entire time
Love you guys but please know that we DO HEAR MATT PERFECTLY FINE and DO want to hear him speak without being interrupted. Hope to see another collab with Colby and Sam soon, could definitely tell you guys really enjoyed yourselves with them as we did being the viewer's. Excited for the rest of this week. Congrats again on being over 6 million!!!!
@@iamandreasilvayea but the microphone only picks up audio close to them so it’s hard to hear while they’re having a convo plus they live together and will obviously have fights this is normal sibling w just being meaner to Matt
@@luvusm111 ig its different to everyone then cuz i havent had a problem hearing him tbh and well, this is actually the first comment i see of someone who says they cant hear him and yes i know, i also have two sisters and we bicker and get mat at each other a lot which is only adds more to it because i wouldnt let them treat me like that ever lmao and he literally said nick was pissing him off so im just basing it on that
The Nick and Chris ganging up on Matt to berate him for not talking, then to interrupt him or yell at him for talking too slow or being boring, then yelling at him for being “miserable” when he understandably gets fed up with them constantly picking on everything he does (seriously, what is the need to complain about how he’s sitting or breathing for god’s sake) is getting SO OLD. It obviously does both Matt, and when he said so Nick was just laughing and not taking it seriously. But even if it didn’t bother Matt, it’s just not enjoyable content. They should just cut it out of the video if they literally can’t stop shitting on Matt for an hour. Joking or making fun of each other once in a while is funny but EVERY podcast episode being 50% Nick and Chris telling Matt he’s sitting wrong, speaking wrong, boring, and then - shocker - in a bad mood after all that is really not enjoyable content.
THANK YOU. Your comment is so similar to mine. It’s triggering to watch. No audience enjoys the constant teaming up against one person. I almost close the TH-cam tab all together
real like i love their car vids and pods and vlogs but it feels like the pod is when chris and nick just are constantly being rude to matt, i hope he doesn’t internalize the stuff they say to him, especially cause there’s literally no reason to shit on someone for literally sitting like a normal human being, like if i was sitting in a chair like that for an hour and a half i’d want to be comfortable too
@@LuckyPoolBallno because there is actually no reason to do this on camera and think it’s entertaining cuz there’s a point where it stops being funny and that started in the very beginning. you can tell Matt isn’t finding this funny.
And it's so blatantly obvious that the video editor, Nick, right?, keeps making each of the infrequent clips of Matt, we do get to see, a few seconds short. Really? We all know he did that on purpose to keep adding to the fire of making Matt the outcast and bully him. So f**** cruel man. Why are Nick and Chris the only ones allowed to speak? Mainly Nick. Why would they be okay with posting this insufferable behavior towards Matt so publicly in a video? And to think the audience wouldn't react to this.
Not to add with these Matt comments but I relate to how he feels in this podcast so much. I’ve heard that I drag down moods by my siblings and it also pisses me off because I don’t wanna feel so negative but I just mentally and physically can’t uplift my mood, it makes me mad at myself and others because of it.
absolutely! it's an annoying situation to be in specially when others start to point it out too and you feel attacked then you try to have a more positive attitude but they keep being annoying lol like nick and Chris were so you get even more frustrated or when you weren't even in that low mood but the constant comments about it pisses you off and makes it more serious than it is so i absolutely understand Matt felt the way he did but it's crazy also because unfortunately I've been on the other end too, when someone around you seem upset or negative and you feel like they seem uninterested in anything you say so you start getting annoyed too because they remain like that so I understand Chris and nick too but i think the problem is that they just pushed it a lot of they stopped commenting about it mostly Chris, Matt would've been fine, lol it was just crazy episode but i have been in the same exact arguments with my siblings many times where i was the one hurting or getting hurt, it's a sibling thing you can't avoid but luckily i get over t, they get over it, it's like the stronger of a relationship you have with your sibling the easier you can get over these arguments and i know theirs is a solid one so they are fine
If someone keeps telling you you’re so negative and complain all the time you’re gonna get annoyed 😭 like do they expect you to laugh and smile when they constantly frame you as a negative person? It’s a lose lose situation
i relate soo much! but honestly matt wasn’t being negative or down when chris said “matt just brings down my mood” matt was just asking a question, no sarcasm or anything just asking a simple question and chris just snapped at him and called him a piece of sh*t
“tell them ur not upset” “you guys are pissing me off” then nick rolls his eyes… im not sure how much clearer matt can make it that hes upset yet the other two continue to push it and brush it off.
They had fun and they gave tips out to the people who had anxiety and struggles with mental health and illness some people don’t care about “how messy the vid was” some are taking notes and trying to learn from this
Ima be honest watching this really hurt my heart. And Ik people are saying “oh they’re siblings, siblings act like that”. But the way they were acting with Matt is something else. I would have cried and honestly left in the middle of that. They went to far with how they were acting with him. And some of y’all are probably going to be bothered or mad or react someway with what I said. But it’s my opinion the same way everyone gave theirs too. But yeah this episode broke my heart.
If you see the beginning of the video, Matt starts the video smiling until at 3:30 the conversation goes like this: Nick: "Today we are going to talk about the science of happiness" Matt: "Aaaww" *cheerful and with a genuine smile on his face* Nick : "And I am so eager to hear what Matt has to say about what we talk about today" Chris: "Me too. Negative Matt" Nick: "Negative Matt" From that moment on, you can literally see Matt's face completely change and take a deep breath at 3:41 because he realizes that they are ganging up to mess with him for being "Negative Matt". And at that moment Chris and Nick get even more annoying. They start calling him "Miserable Matt", "Mumble Matt", they get passive aggressive with the mockery and start saying stuff like: - "I'm super happy today. How about you Matt?" - "I would love Matt to answer this question first" - "I can't understand you Matt, all you do is mumble" (**This is particularly irritating because we can ALWAYS hear Matt perfectly thanks to the microphone. So this is not a "Matt" issue. This is a "Christopher and Nick" issue because they should be using their headphones. That's why people who do podcasts wear their headphones when they are recording an episode. To check the volume of their voices, hear each other better, etc**) - "You are an annoying piece of s*it. Stop being negative" They started this episode with uncalled for attacks towards Matt. They didn't even give him the chance to be negative on the pod, before they were already being aggressive towards him. So OF COURSE Matt is gonna get annoyed and be negative. Also, when Chris says that Matt was hurtful towards him, all Matt really said to him at 13:42 was literally "In order to be happy I just need Chris to get away from me", but he obviously was saying it because he was addressing how Chris was being so passive aggressive in that very moment. And after they "laughed it off", Matt said at 14:25 "Now I'll give my real answer" and gave his real response to the question I am not a Matt girl at all. But I thought their behavior on this podcast was way too unfair
i literally cried watching this episode because of how matt was being treated. i have social anxiety and i like to remain quiet sometimes and this was hurting me 😭😭😭
I never knew people on the internet have to defend Matt against his own brothers. I love Nick and Chris too but I feel they are too harsh on Matt. We hear you Matt and we love you so much ❤
Yesss! This should be the top comment bc I literally didn’t see the comments until now people talking about how Nick and Chris don’t let him speak.. (I feel bad bc it’s like people are hating on Nick and chris)
For God’s sake. No audience wants to see two people teaming up against one person. If the audience is perfectly fine with Matt’s personality, and with the tone of his voice or his posture, then what’s all the attacking for. We can hear him just fine. Nick and Chris were actually pushing it so much today that even the viewers felt it and got annoyed. It’s getting old and even triggering to watch. Just drop it
Hey just want to say that these fights happen with sibling clearly you don’t have sibling leave no one cares how u feel leave no need to attack any one of you don’t know that these things happen to every human being grow up
@@Joesahejdhfthe triplets make a living out of these videos. When you are a TH-camr you need to be in tune with your audience and understand what your audience likes. It’s better to give them feedback for improvement while continuing to support them, than to not say anything and unsubscribe. That’s what I’m doing, because I still consume their content, but I’m letting them know of something that they need to improve on because it’s taking away from the experience. Also, I have 3 siblings and the reason why we have a great relationship is that we know when to stop pushing each other’s buttons, and when to be respectful.
I like how they said matt is the one to drag it out and be miserable put constantly reminding someone that they are miserable gives them no room to act differently especially when matt does start to talk they interrupt and say well whatever you were saying wasn't good enough
Bro the audacity of Nick and Chris asking Matt not to be negative, while insulting him and mocking his personality constantly is just sending me through the roof. Are you serious? I would just leave the podcast for good. This episode was a nightmare
surprisingly Matt and Chris used to have unspoken understanding of each other but recently not that it's gone but I'd say when Matts energy is low or his mood is off Nick is the most understanding of it and he notices that Matt is getting seriously annoyed while Chris keeps pushing it more like Chris just gets more frustrated about Matts frustration or attitude which leads to making the situation worse, and I'm not even attacking Chris or anything i just think it's interesting how the dynamic changed cause Matt and Nick used to be always the ones arguing most with each other
that is ABSOLUTELY true and I couldn't agree more. the dynamic matt and chris had in the beggining of everything changed drastically if you think about it. it's almost as if they were the "best friends" of the group once, and NOW nick and chris are the besties o something.
the thing that really catches my attention is how nick and chris complain that matt never speaks or they can’t hear him but it’s bc they always talk over him!! they almost always cut him off and honestly i couldn’t do it. i love watching these but couldn’t even watch 20 min bc it made me uncomfortable. if i was matt i would have left crying 😭
When matt posts on his personal channel talking slow and low people still love to listen him give him great engaging even sometimes when I'm sad I watch Matt's videos. So chris and nick has to understand people will still find them entertaining and interesting even when matt talks like that so stop worrying about matt making content uninteresting. Love matt as he is. stop telling him to change and please please be more patient with him
Yeah I get that but it's a podcast you don't want to wait 10 minutes for a full sentence and if you have a conversation with other people it is I think not as fun if you talk really slow and w low energie (no hate)
@@tessa1869 and low energy thing I won't agree with you. Matt on personal channel gets great love for his nature being calm low or slow whatever you say . It's part of his nature that everyone has to accept instead of complaining about it bc that makes matt his unique self so please
@@uwu_M (I'm sorry I didn't say it properly English isn't my first language) I agree with you matt is a really good story teller and fun to listen to but what I meant is that this podcast is something different than his own channel and that on a podcast you tell storys usually different than if you tell a story normally (I don't know if that makes sens but I don't want to hate on matt cus I love them all 3)
@@uwu_M that part was sarcastic I didn't mean literally 10 min. I partly agree with you cause matt is really interesting but I don't think Chris and nick always mean it when they say that matt makes the video uninteresting cause they are brothers and that is the stuff that siblings say to each other
I wish Nick and Chris would stop criticizing every little thing about Matt’s way of talking. He does not talk too slow or too quiet. He is talks perfectly fine for a podcast. It’s more them being loud and arguing a lot that makes Matt seem quiet. Don’t get me wrong, Nick and Chris being loud is entertaining yes, but more fitting for a TH-cam video than the Podcast.
Honestly they are sliblings you have to stop hating on Nick and Chris because they are making fun of them i do the same things with my siblings and theu are just messing around. Let them live there lives
I have a twin sister and people always tried to normalize our awful behaviors to eachother when we grew up. That is GASLIGHTNIN. This was a horrible watch, I don't care if Matt's feelings wasn't hurt. This behavior is not okay in any way
Not nobody is "always right" such as matt. I do agree with you sometimes but it's not always true. Yes, they are taking it WAY to far (in my opinion!) But people aren't always "never wrong!" (Also, I'm not trying to be mean! I'm just stating my opinion ❤) I also think out of all of the triplets, matt is probabl my favorite, so I'm not trying to be mean to him either :)
Stop normalize a awful behavior. I have a twin sister and we fight, especially growing up, and people always said " it's normal, they are twins" and shit like that. Both me and my sister HATES that. I don't get how they was feeling comfortable uploading this, because Nick and Chris behavior is crazy.
asking matt why hes upset and then interrupting him and shtting all over him saying he takes too long talking like .... ok dont ask then??? im not even watching this episode anymore, that sht puts me in a bad mood.
after thinking about everything i just saw for a bit i wanted to come back and say it reminded me of emotional abuse i received while growing up. asking him questions they didnt even want answered just to sht all over him, and then blaming HIM for the mood being sour during a podcast that was supposed to be about "happiness?" it was nick and chris that ruined the mood for me. it was genuinely upsetting and i hope nick and chris watch this back and are embarrassed. i hope they apologize to him in private.
@@mtnyas Yea but idk if You have any siblings or not but most of siblings are being annoyying to each other i do prob the same sht to my brother but i would never do that to my friends its different
as someone who used to struggle with anxiety since I was literally 5 and having siblings like this who always teased and having to overlook it as "sibling being siblings" this made me so mad. I hate how people being inconsiderate is normalized just because they're your siblings. matt youre not alone and im impressed on how well you were able to handle this because I know in these situations I would've definitely had a full out panic attack because of the overwhelming emotions. siblings pushing your buttons as a "joke" is so sickening because with anxiety you already get annoyed easier and them taking advantage of this and test your limits is awful. we love you matt, you're not alone and im sorry and understand you and your so strong and u better than me fr because i would've just totally lost it
The podcast started out fine and then Nick and Chris started with the “Today we’ll talk about happiness and I want to know what Negative Matt/ Miserable Matt has to say about that” and I could literally see Matt’s demeanor change because that annoyed him. Obviously he is sick of being publicly portrayed as negative, or not talkative enough or not loud enough (which has NEVER been an issue because we can clearly understand him. That’s what the microphone is for). And they kept pushing it with the “I’m very happy Matt, how about you?”, “I’d love Matt to answer this question first”. Even if it’s “jokingly”, when they team up to give Matt sh*t about his personality, to then give him sh*t for getting kinda annoyed at the jokes, it’s triggering to watch. The podcast got a lot better when they stopped that, but I almost just close the TH-cam tab at the beginning of the podcast. And It’s not about Matt. They could be doing that to anyone and it would still be cringy to watch. Pushing people’s buttons is not funny 🤷🏻♀️
LMAO yall are crazy. no hate but like this is the sibling experience. your siblings are going to piss you off sometimes. these three argue over the most unimportant petty things and that’s what all siblings do. you can see that by the middle of the pod they are getting along JUST fine because they have probably forgotten what they were even mad about. they have said time and time again that none of there arguments last for more than like an hour. maybe you don’t have siblings or just don’t have a relationship like this with anyone but i promise it’s not actually an issue to them. Siblings push each others buttons that’s what they do. just saying 😭 you guys don’t need to be there “problem solver” they have grown up together and im sure they can work out there problems if something really does bother them. they have also said if there’s a time when a video just isn’t feeling good and people are in a bad mood and just not feeling the video they will quit recording and do it another time. 🤷🏼♀️ they just keep it real. they are three 20 year old siblings living together, they are going to have little arguments
@@user-8535 I absolutely understand the siblings experience, I have two sisters and a brother. And we 100% mess with each other and annoy each other often, but I feel like knowing when to stop is also important. Otherwise we would be at each other’s throats constantly. You can literally tell in this episode that Matt has had enough. Even Nick realized half way through the podcast that they were getting way too annoying. Even if they talk it out off camera and are able to move past it, I wish they would either tone it down or cut those bits off of the video, because it gets sometimes so uncomfortable to watch, which is a shame because I like their content a lot. It just throws me off when they push it so far. It takes away from the experience in my opinion (and in the opinion of lots of other people, as I can tell by the comments)
@@LuckyPoolBall knowing when to stop is different for all siblings, it really depends on the relationship between each other. they are obviously very very close and i’m sure that if Matt really was truly upset he would have said something and they would have cut it out. they have said before that they really are just themselves on camera and that’s what makes it so easy to film so much. if they were constantly being fake and not being petty and bickering with each other in videos it would be so much harder for them to post as much as they do because them bickering is like 80% if there content. This video is just real life, fights happen, people piss each other off, if they cut this all out there content, it wouldn’t have the same feel, like we are there with them and it wouldn’t feel relatable. i’m honestly glad they don’t post picture perfect content and set unrealistic expectations that you are always going to get along. if stuff like this really bothers you that much, you don’t have to finish the video. you can simply turn off your phone or watch something else. people in these comments are too sensitive, especially about a relationship they aren’t even apart of. about half way through the pod the bickering dialed down a lot bc they moved past it that quickly. again not hating on you or anyone else who feels this way i’m just saying that if it impacts you so much, you really don’t have to finish watching. idk im just almost sure that if Matt or any of them saw comments like these they would laugh because of how serious the fans make there little disagreements
Lol to be completely fair, I'm on Matts side in this episode, his annoyance and frustration was absolutely valid and he was getting attacked for nothing so I love you Matt ❤️ but also i love you Chris and Nick let's not spread unnecessary hate they are siblings and we can share our opinions on what happens without being hateful and dramatic
Nick and Chris really owe Matt an actual apology. He couldn’t get a whole thought out the entire video without being interrupted and scrutinized. This wasn’t them picking on him, this was disrespectful bullying. Those two were so rude to him.
I commented before, but I watched again and feel there is more to say, and I want to be encouraging. There were some interesting points made about the topic. But again, it was difficult to listen. I think most of us expect a little sibling bantering. I, for one, like the “realness” of the videos. But what many of us are reacting to is that this went over the line of sibling bickering. Even if Matt said something hurtful off camera before the video, the adult thing to do is say something like, “Wow, that hurt me,” not to hit back, especially criticizing things that are just part of who Matt is. And you guys are now 20. I am actually old enough to be your grandfather, and I have been watching your videos because I am genuinely interested in how younger people feel and think about some of these topics. I’m curious to see where the world is heading. And I think these podcasts, especially, have lots of potential. I am also old enough to know that there is no such thing as black and white, good and bad when it comes to people. Everyone has good and bad qualities, and I find each of you likable in different ways. You seem to care about one another very deeply. But it’s an important lesson to learn about family and future relationships-love can never be taken for granted. Part of growing up is learning to be patient and treating the ones closest to you with the most respect of all, though often people treat them with LESS respect than others. And that leads to broken families and broken relationships. I think many of us are rooting for you, and we do not want to see that happen. It would be nice to even see this addressed and see some healing on camera, but it’s not going to happen by blaming everything on Matt. There’s plenty of blame to go around, and I say that as an older person who finds each of you likable. Don’t fake getting along either . . . Do the work and learn how to really love and treat one another with respect as adults. We like seeing the realness. Lots of hugs to each of you.
I actually understand what Matt is saying whether he is quiet or not before you interrupt him although english is not my first language. give that man a chance to speak
exactly! I'm not a native English speaker and I understood his 'mumbling' just fine. They're definitely just looking for reasons to call him names or point fingers at him.
I haven’t even got past 6:21 cause of what they’re saying to Matt. I literally get him so much and I hope they read some of these comments. I LOVE them so much and obviously not hating, just making an observation and relate to Matt a lot.
this was a PAINFUL watch. genuinely couldn’t make it through because it gave me a headache. as a person with siblings this got on my nerves like CRAZY, props to matt for not getting up and leaving. the patience he has is insane
honestly when Nick asked Matt to let the fans know that he's not seriously upsetting him and Matt still saying they were pissing him off was so real for both of them! like why would he lie about being annoyed by them when he really is but then again Nick wanting to clarify that is valid because literally fans think that nick and chris are causing Matt to be upset forever and that they hate him when in reality it's all a moment in time so people need to relax and realize that, like Matt can't even show his real feelings because fans either baby him or attack and be hateful towards his brothers and nick and chris can't say anything without worrying about how fans gonna make a big deal out of it
If they worry so much about how the fans are going to view them maybe they should start acting nicely. They worry about what the fans will think more than their brother's feelings what a shame
yes just matt solo channel or matt streaming on twitch with just him, i dont want either of his brothers in the background of his streams yappin either, just good'ol matt and the chat@@Moms7328
the way I'm ready to just stand beside a kid I don't know and fight with his siblings because I have been on the same side of things with my big family.😂😂😂
Matt’s legit a saint for how much patience he has. I would have left the room crying
fr i hope he doesn’t internalize what they say
@@adet5114I’m sure it’s not as deep as everyone is making it seem tho
especially when they started calling him names lol. i wouldve got up and left
no literally chris and nick were so annoying to him this ep
no same😭
“science behind happiness” while presenting us with the most tension filled display of bickering i’ve ever seen
Complaining about Matt not talking enough but then complaining about how he’s taking too long to make his point or talking about how "miserable" and “negative” he is for I don’t even know how long is just suffocating to hear and no matter how much I enjoy your guy’s content and each of you three as individuals, hearing Matt peacefully state his point without getting made fun of, interrupted or getting complains seems like a holy gift when it really should be an usual and normal thing.
I appreciate you guys a lot and especially Matt’s patience.
WORD.
I agree
Correct
are you an only child or something bc its not as bad as it seems
@@addisonevans2622 i have three siblings dear
Their silly bickering is funny but good for Matt pointing out how when he tries to talk, Nick and Chris would then complain that he mumbles or takes forever to make a point. Kudos to Matt’s patience! Anyways good podcast as always!
@@Jordan-sq1oohe does not seem disinterested or dismissive. He only does that when they gang up on him for being soft spoken, as anyone would with any self respect
@@Jordan-sq1oohe literally does not?☠️
Not good. Not funny.
Just wrong to Matt.
they’re just speaking facts… he can speak louder yall need to not baby him
he doesn’t have patience this episode he’s literally been negative
as someone with social anxiety who is constantly told that they can’t talk or don’t know how to talk, this episode triggered me so bad. hats off to matt for taking it all. i would have cried on the spot. like i know the whole “they’re siblings, that’s what siblings do” or wtv but oh my gosh this was insufferable and very belittling.
omg yes!
No literally I got the same things told to me my whole life and it gets to you fr 😭
For real, this episode was cringy to watch
Perfectly worded! It was awful
Yessss it was hard to watch. I can relate to Matt with his anxiety and I would have had a full blown anxiety attack if I was there. I think they are not being mean they just don't know how to communicate with him.
“If you’re gonna talk make it something worth listening to” is a crazy thing to say!
anything is worth listening to if you care enough !!
that was a another level of rude
just after matt saying he doesnt talk enough?!?!?!
this is literally bullying. The fact that they've lived their whole lives together changes nothing of it. It's belligerent, intolerant, borderline hateful behaviour. Cannot imagine saying something like that to someone I love.
@@Meirinsfr and there are still people trying to say that this is normal sibling banter?? Umm idk abt that
matt’s so patient bc sibling or not i would’ve gotten up and left fr😭😭
x2
RIGHTT
Or punched one of em
he’s the one in the wrong so that’s an insane thing to say
@@strawberrysweetgirlnot even the fact that he’s wrong but it’s just like his brothers are telling him they can’t hear him and he gets mad.. when that’s rlly not something to get mad at.. now i know they interrupt him all the time and i understand that pisses him off but this episode is so much
Chris reminds me of those kids in school who constantly ask the quiet kids why they don’t talk and making them uncomfortable 😭😭
Same😭
YEAH ME TOO II HATED THAT PERSON HE WAS DOING IT ON PURPOSE
HELPP UR SO RIGHT AINT NO WAYYYY
@@pao70100 so true man
I feel like he just does it to Matt, which is equally annoying lmao
A lot of people don’t realize that irritability is a big symptom of anxiety, that might be why Matt is so “negative” or “moody”
Also if you’re consistently being labeled as a negative person you literally can’t argue against it cause they’ll say you’re being negative for it
@@Tc123. it’s so frustrating when someone tells you to stop complaining when you’re just trying to communicate how you feel about something. matt looks so over it.
he wasn't even irritable at any point throughout the video in a manner that is characteristic of anxiety disorder. They relentlessly instigated rash and uncalculated reactions out of him because it simply gives them a laugh or something to base a joke on.
Yep.
facts. I have anxiety and people always tell me to stop being moody when they just don’t get that being “negative” is actually a way out to be happier later, because I’m just expressing what I’m feeling.
i really think that matt should be the host one time. that could be super unexpected and fun, like when he narrated "day two on tour" tiktok. His talkativeness and humor are so underrated, i feel like we don't see enough of this.
I would like that too but maybe it wouldn't be in his comfort zone or maybe it would make him excited more about topics so I'd like it too if he was willing to do it
@@jussbe678 i totally agree. i just suggested that cause there's a lot of times when matt tries to grab the laptop and start reading but always hears things like "you can't read shit". so maybe if he is willing to try to be the host just for one episode it could be a great and different experience for him to speak and participate more
@@taliahhemphill1420 Thank you for saying that. It doesn’t get said enough.
He's not entertaining at all tho
@tayloralexis4086 @@Aymeric2000
i don't see like that. nick takes the control of almost every video or content probably cause matt and chris agreed that it's better this way since it's so easy for him to talk, read, explain things, moving forward on topics, express himself, be entertainment. I'm pretty sure that if matt and chris were willing to do nick's job they could've changed it a while ago.
Matt slayed sticking up for himself
Love him
i hope to god they read this comment section
I was thinking the same thing right now.
Frl
did they really tho?
we love u guys ! pls realize that a lot of us want to hear Matt speak in peace
fr
Yes. Less of the big one and more Matt! ❤
@@HeyAstorTHE BIG ONE???
@@HeyAstorGOODBYE LESS OF THE WHAT
@@HeyAstorAyo 🤨
this episode should've been titled "matt receiving insults but every time he speaks up we say he's overreacting"
THIS.
Right! They were on attack mode for half the episode and then they would repeatedly say things like "It's crazy how we are jokingly arguing 🤪"... But like...It did not seem "jokingly" at all. It felt tense, passive aggressive, and uncomfortable to watch. And then Nick asking Matt to tell the audience that he is not angry, when he actually is, felt crazy. Like... If you are going to be insufferable, at least own up to it. @@clarisag7313
literally I would’ve gone crazy on my siblings I’m also the oldest sibling and have no patience but they were so damn mean it was hard to watch
@@LuckyPoolBall fr i was so irritated😂😂
@@Ariannaroseee dont watch it or dont complain
it’s so inane because they’re like “matt speak” or “matt speak up i can’t hear you!” or “your so negative” but then as soon as he speaks they interrupt him or insult him for literally saying one singular word😭😭 like they’ll be like “oh like what makes you happy?” and if matt says “the opposite of what’s going on right now” they’re like “oh matt shut the fuck up” or “that’s such a stupid answer” 😭😭🙏🙏
And when he finally was saying his opinion while Nick tried to interrupt him but couldn’t, Nick got upset like this is what u asked for
yes frl like do you want him to talk or not
This is the first pod episode I physically couldn’t finish. It isn’t about ‘oh poor Matt they’re so mean’ or whatever, it’s about how me and so many people relate to Matt so much and the teasing of certain things he does is not just about Matt, it’s about every other person watching who does those things that are now being made fun of.
it's literally an hour and a quarter long extension of a fight I had with my sister last night because she was using the same instigating tactics to pull on my strings, just to belittle and humiliate me for my reaction. Bordering sadistic behaviour. Made me physically writhe to a degree I never have before while watching a video.
@@Meirinsexactlyyy
I agree but my opinion is we need to understand we dont know them. Its not just "awwww theyre being mean to himm" we have no idea whats happening behind the scenes, why those two were acting like that, why matt was being so defensive from the start, we dont know anything. So its not fair to put the blame on any of them because quite frankly just because we're looking through a window into their lives doesn't mean we're in the rooms they're in. I feel bad for matt but its not that big of a deal because they're family and they will work it out. Some people are making a thing out if a thing that probably isnt a thing 💀 siblings will get heated sometimes and thats ok. These aren't cute little boys they're grown men and i wish people would treat matt like a man with emotions, not a fragile little boy. He'll be fine and probably is now, they always talk shit over
@@syca5094 'they're family and they'll work it out' you are disgustingly detached from all of the reality that surrounds you to even allow yourself to think something so asinine. Men hurt and mistreat each other. What is your convoluted self bringing up their age or relationship nature to prove? If they're grown men and not little boys then they should practice creating a divide between what happens off record and what they decide to display of their interactions to the viewers. But you'll indefinitely make excuses for them as if they haven't been this way towards him since the beginning of their career. We weren't born yesterday, it's very easy to interpret people's behaviour without withheld context.
@@Meirins thats actually an insane response to someones opinion as i said it was just my thoughts. I also said i agree with the original comment. Literally no need to be so rude jesus christ. They will work it out im being positive. This isn't the end of their relationship they love eachother and im sure they'll work whatever issues they have with eachother out. I still stand by my opinion regardless.
“Yall are really fucking pushing it today” I literally thought the same exact thing
girl..
@@77sturniolo what?
fr me too bro
me everyday:
same
Matt has the perfect podcast tone. A podcast is supposed to be calm and relaxing and he has the calming energy. Also the patience Matt has amazing as someone who’s patient I would’ve had to walk out.
The podcast tends to be a hard watch but this one is by far the hardest and I had to stop watching after 10 minutes. Y’all filmed this February 1st, watched it, and thought ‘this is great let’s post it.’
I see so many comments saying that this episode was hard to watch. I’m glad to get the confirmation that I’m not overreacting. This truly was aggravating to watch. I almost close the TH-cam tab myself.
I couldn´t agree more. this pod made me feel sick to my stomach in the first 15 minutes. I couldn´t watch till the end.
Lately every podcast they act this way. Like it’s genuinely un enjoyable to watch. Chris and his immaturity really shined this episode🤡
I agree with you 👍🏻
I’ve felt triggered by them for a while. “You’re so quiet” has got to be one of the most insensitive things you can say to an introvert with social anxiety. Why the hell would anyone WANT to talk after being nitpicked and talked over constantly.
let my man matt BREATHE
literally like wait DAMN
he’s the one being negative
our man** 🙌🏻🙌🏻
Preach 🙌🏼 sis
he will survive x
I LOVE that matt is finally speaking up and calling them out 4:30 cause it’s obvious their dynamic is in a way that when matt is talking and someone tries to cut in, matt will just shut up cause there is no point in fighting it anymore cause nick and chris are not used to listening to matt. I hope they will consciously start paying attention to matt and practice listening to him. And it’s understandable that matt struggles with speaking or getting his thoughts out when he hasn’t had a chance to talk like nick or chris do, probably since childhood
Also “miserable matt” is also understandable and them constantly putting labels on matt is just rude. Nick and chris completely discard anything matt is saying and invalidate his feelings. It hurts to watch tbh. All this is coming from someone who has had mental health issues and has a degree in psychology.
agree! i know they all love each other no question but in this episode i fell really sorry for him for being made fun of and getting picked on. Some little jokes here and there is normal but he seems exhausted (in this video)
and the fact the topic is happiness and they were excited for matt to talk and then make him mad by not letting him speak about what hes passionate about
We have to admit tho when Matt’s in a mood he’s not nice
@@4k_chase576 that's fair, I just think that they get him in that mood though
MATT FINALLY SPEAKING UP BC HE IS ACTUALLY ANNOYED IS SO SATISFYING BRUV
real tho !! the "no you're pissing me off" actually made me happy
it’s not that Matt mumbles or speaks slowly it’s that nick and chris like to hear themselves talk too much😂 like more times than not chris makes zero sense when he is speaking but still won’t shut up, he just keeps rambling, it’s like TAKE A BREATHER DAMN figure out what your saying buddy
Nailed it on the head. Because if that was me and they said I was “Miserable Matt” I too would have been pissed off the rest of the video. That’s the equivalent to telling someone to calm down
be fr
I fully agree with you.
This
no lmao you’re literally wrong i can barely hear him
i’ll forever be on matts side when they argue 😂😂
lol same like I understand him more 😭
same lmfaooo 😂😂😂😂
Honestly in most these arguments that happen Matt almost always has the most reasonable opinion and always has reasonable feelings about it so I’m usually on his side😭
i knowww i love them sooo much but sometimes they go too far and i feel bad for matt
no literally
lmao i would’ve walked out so many times if i were matt💀my patience could never
Same
REALL💀
If it was me instead of Matt.. I would’ve bawled my eyes out by the end of this episode. Love his patience
one of these days we're gonna witness matt fully snap 💀 it's always the quiet ones you gotta watch out for
He gonna get up and just walk out the podcast
@@solangeknightI wanna see that happen, could’ve been this episode lol I’d be out at the 6 min mark
@@EL-de7sk I would have been out a few months ago this has been happen a long time now
reall omfg
if he does that its kinda childish, just saying@@solangeknight
I saw this TikTok of a girl saying that Nick and Chris should get their ears checked because everyone can hear Matt clearly, and I think about that often. 😭
Me too lmao
i saw it too, and i hard agree. Loved it. shes so brave LOL
she ate
And then when they keep saying that so much that it pisses him off, they’re like “Matt’s being tuff again.” 😭???
as she should
Why do you get mad at Matt for not talking just to turn around and cut him off whenever he does?
real
honestly
fr tho
so true
They’re embarrassing themselves
19:49 This after immediately belittling, making Matt feel like crap, and then being surprised/upset when he says something is absolutely crazy.
THANK YOU. That comment from Chris sent me through the roof. Like, you’ve been getting on Matt’s last nerve for the past 20 minutes and you are going to go out of your way to say that you’re upset about Matt clapping back? Be for real my guy
The gaslighting is so real!!
right ?? i love them but this episode was just not it
@@iil0ve0livia 100% agreed! Like I usually love Chris’ personality but in this episode him and Nick were really getting to me. It’s also crazy that they triggered me the most in a video about Happiness 🥴
As a quiet kid who grew up in a loud household, the absolute GASLIGHTING from Nick and Chris in this episode was so triggering. I can't wait for another one of Matt's personal videos so that he can actually speak.
Matt is so used to getting cut off, that’s probably why hes so patient
Matt does such a good job of not escalating, there is so much he could say but he holds it back, I really think his current defensiveness and negativity toward them was learned, they nag him so much on camera I can’t imagine how it is off camera, they should work on this stuff off camera, take a break from being with each other or something, because this is hard to watch (opinion based on the content they willingly put out, idk these people)
i rmb matt saying he could say something that would end nic and chris careers but then he didnt and passed it off as a joke to move on but i fully believe that he did have something to say. Nic and chris should be so lucky that matt takes the high road every time with them since there is no getting through to them and its like arguing with 2 walls that don't absorb anything said to them. Matts reserved demeanor is literally coping mechanism from the toxic environment they create every week - heck maybe even everyday who really knows. If they're bold enough to do this on camera who knows how hes treated when the cameras are off.
@@MimsyMi also to publicly post this and not expect viewers to notice and comment about it is crazy. they even blame Matt and nag him about our acknowledgment which is even crazier. bro needs to take a solo vacation, they all do atp
@@joserose2803yeah it’s totally crazy they like blame Matt for the viewers noticing they treat him like shit? Like damn. And like you said tbis is how they act ON CAMERA. Like Jesus Christ. Laura needs to intervene with them stat bc jt is getting BAD BAD. like I might unsubscribe bad. I couldn’t even finish T is video
Being more soft-spoken or just more calm/quiet doesn’t mean that you’re not worthy being listened to. ❤ taking your time to collect your thoughts about a certain topic doesn’t make you slow ❤️. Love you all ☺️
(I’m introverted myself and enjoy silence once in a while so I get what Matt is saying 100%) also being quiet doesn’t make you “weird”. I hate when people say that
Isn’t it crazy that Matt’s channel is the most subscribed and his videos are the most watched ?
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facts💙
he's more understandable that's why
@@lana.delray And no one finds him boring or unentertaining, besides people relate to him more than his brothers
Frrrr he deserves more
THE FACT THAT IM SO DEDICATED TO WATCH THEM EVREY MONDAY IS CRAZY
Fr 😭
saaame
I get so exiced seeing that they posted literaly anything 😅
Ditto
Ya girl
I swear if I was Matt I would’ve left the room crying if Matt and Chris said that to me
What did they say? I Didn’t wach yet and honestly don’t want to, from the first minutes I feel like they don’t deserve him.
@@джем-к4л they don’t it’s crazy. At one point Chris called Matt a “fucking piece of shit.” It’s just so wild. Idk what they think they’re doing tbis shits unwatchable
@@Gkwilson1487 (srry English is my second language) but omfg was it like a joke or did Chris actually was serious? Cause this is so crazy, I actually feel bad for Matt. He is so understanding and he tries to comfort everyone but like I often see how their jokes are becoming a bullying and while Matt is speaking no one is actually willing to listen
@user-zt3wy8zw8k It was a joke it's just siblings' love Trust me I live with 2 younger siblings and this is how we would act when us 3 are together or just me and one other sibling
@@brennajames25 I know I have a younger brother so we tease each other a lot but I know that they love each other, and probably they love each other equally, it just seems like nick and Chris better shut down at least every 10 minutes so that Matt speak. It is a heartbreaking thing to watch :( I believe they didn’t want to be like this (at least I hope so) with him, but this whole picture looks like Matt is being that one quite kid since childhood just because they really enjoying listening to themselves and that’s the end, they just don’t even know how to listen sometimes. Anyway I am watching them not for so long so maybe I am being wrong now
WE LOVE YOU MATT, we hear you, and understand you ❤️❤️
My emotions in this pod 📈📉📈📉
I would get annoyed on Matt’s behalf & then laugh at Chris’s silliness & again & again. overall, this episode felt like a damn rollercoaster.
me frr
yeah same, the title made me so excited cuz i thought with Matt’s background with what’s he’s said about mental health that this episode would be so good. honestly was the most uncomfortable one to sit all the way through
this episode gave me middle school ptsd and i can’t tell if they were actually like being annoying towards matt or if im just too sensitive cause i relate so much like that whole passive aggressive collectively piling on one person situation is so frustrating to experience
@@user1399-v6rLMAO NO it’s not that serious i just worded it weird
istg these comments are so dramatic,u definitely are too sensitive ml
you are the part of the problem by enabling this behaviour, calling us who call them out 'sensitive' and 'dramatic'. if they were friends instead they would get so much more criticism
@@roses_are_rosies345that's the point girl??it would be different if they were friends (not really if they knew each other from elementary school) but they're siblings that are literal triplets and that spent every moment of their life tg.
@@kb5430being siblings doesn’t mean it’s okay to be rude. but to each their own
i’m a sibling, i fight with them, but i would never treat them like this, especially knowing what matt’s been through, with his anxiety and mental health journey over all. even despite that it doesn’t feel good to be ganged up on by everyone else in the room. matt’s reaction was normal, he wasn’t overreacting, his emotions were normal yet they were completely invalidated. i think people always talk about how we should advocate for mental health and treating people with kindness until it affects you. matt needed support, if he had gotten that support maybe he would’ve been in a better mood, maybe he would’ve had a brighter outlook. but you’re not going to feel amazing and excited when your being treated like shit by the people you love most.
Omgosh perfectly said 👏🏽
they're both so worried about the fans calling them out for how poorly they consistently treat matt, but both of them egged on the whole ridiculous "tuff guy" thing for SO long. i saw so much hate directed at matt by "fans" on tiktok for that, there's no way they didn't see it. it turned into a way for chris and nick to weaponize the fanbase and dismiss matt every time he stood up for himself or gave the same energy back to them. i've been watching their videos for over a year and a half, matt is so incredibly patient; if he seemed aggravated or disengaged or "tuff" in those videos, there was FOR SURE a good reason, as is demonstrated in this disgrace of a video.
so well said
I completely agree
Really sad to say that this will be the first video I don’t watch on this channel.
Seeing all of the comments on both here and Reddit, plus all of the clips on TikTok have made me have zero interest in watching Matt get bullied for over an hour.
We love the way he talks. He is not “boring” or a “tough guy”.
Please let him get a sentence in without attacking him. We want to hear his thoughts on different topics!
Y’all siriouly are only child’s and it shows go away
@@Joesahejdhf hun, I’m the youngest of 3 girls. No amount of “this is how siblings act” makes what happened in this podcast okay.
My sisters and I would never treat each other this way.
@@1996diamondgirlnot even just that but just because something is a joke between siblings and is considered normal doesn’t mean it cannot be hurtful and it does not make it okay. My siblings have treated me like this over and over, yes we’re still siblings and YES we still love each other, but that does not mean it didn’t make me feel like shit in the moment.
you guys always use the 'it's because they're silbings' excuse as if it's literally impossible that sibling's can be rude and disrespectful to each other. i have a sibling and this is just bullying tbh
exactly, also nick decided to post this while him and chris just publicly degrade matt. they arent clueless either, everything theyre saying is gaslighting him or trying to set him up to look like he's sensitive or acting up. this is ridiculous and i wish matt would just do his own thing bc they suck and it's getting worse all the time
I'm so proud for the amount of patience and maturity matt has
3:23 chris is doing anything to bring up potatos💀
*potatoes*
Literally what I thought 😭
As a mother who frequently watches your videos. NEVER have I ever felt more uncomfortable watching. Chris and Nick need to seriously look at their bullying behaviour towards Matt. Yes they are siblings but this went beyond simple banter. Matt was attacked for his character , for the way he spoke (or didn’t!), to the way he ‘sighed!’. He was constantly being interrupted. Nothing he said was met with any validation! I know Matt has suffered with mental health issues in the past and calling someone ‘negative!’, ‘miserable!’, ‘ mumbling!’ Is disgraceful! The more a person hears something, the more they believe it! Nick and Chris! You need to back off with this behaviour. I’m sure you wouldn’t want Matt to walk away. But he won’t put up with this forever.
You worded that perfectly! I’ve been a viewer for 3 years and I haven’t been able to watch most of their podcast bc they make me so comfortable with how much they argue and pick at Matt. Then Nick says things like “oh I know people are gonna get mad at me for yelling at Matt” YEAH they are bc you know you’re in the wrong saying that!!
THANK YOU, this one’s gonna need more likes so they can see it, and not in the way of like “y’all are getting called out” but more in like an introspective way and realizing that you need to start thinking that you wouldn’t simply treat or tell those things to a normal person or friend.
Cut the camera if you need to and get it together, so much nonsense on this episode and honestly a little hard to watch and hear.
'unconditional love' thats the complete opposite of what they have for him i feel so sorry for matt at their age this shouldn't be a normal brush over the shoulder thing but i have a feeling chris and nick still feel like they have to prove to people their cool or above others its sad i hope they grow up and realize thats not how you treat someone you 'love'
YES THANK U MA’AM YOU COULD HAVE NOT SAID THIS ANY BETTER
get a grip 😂
“I know people are gonna clip this” honestly good I am one of three siblings and I could never imagine at my grown age speaking to one of them like this. Let him speak like obviously he’s quiet because everything that he says is being replied with “shut up” the podcast is genuinely just infuriating to watch because I don’t want to see 1hr of degrading your brother for fun.
it's absurd to me how he realises that he is errant, and that people will see that his actions and behaviour towards his brother are out of line, so he preemptively asks matt to 'clarify' that what he's doing isn't truly bothering him just so that he can clear out the way for himself to keep the obnoxious behaviour going, after having alienated viewers by communicating to them that they're ridiculous for feeling upset by the way matt is being treated.
right & everyone pulling the sibling card is so annoying IM a triplet and if my brothers treated me this way I would be so upset LMFAO. Of course I don't speak for them everyone has a different relationship with their siblings but the way people are acting like just because they r siblings everything they say is just "how all siblings are" is just weird like idk omg
@@08fkaOMG LITERALLY everyone keeps saying “oh they’re siblings this always happen” it’s like ummm no if my brother said that to me i would be really upset and i have guy friends with brothers that also would be upset so i don’t think pulling the sibling card will work ALL the time. yes sometimes they jokingly play around with each other but you can see it in matt’s face the entire time that he clearly is upset
This podcast feels different and it’s honestly hard to watch. I could listen to Matt talk all day, and I’m never confused when he’s speaking. He’s truly a comfort person 💙
yeah everytime during podcasts when they say Matt is mumbling and being too quiet and can always hear him
always feels like the chris and nick podcast rather than the sturniolo triplets podcast. would love to be able to hear matt's comments for once
It's crazy cause out of the three Matt is by far the one with the best voice for a podcast, he's the most comfortable to listen to...
@@JulietteDupont-up1giliterally i hate it whenever chris or nick just start yelling. nobody wants to watch a podcast where they don’t even get to the point and are just yelling at each other the entire time
Love you guys but please know that we DO HEAR MATT PERFECTLY FINE and DO want to hear him speak without being interrupted. Hope to see another collab with Colby and Sam soon, could definitely tell you guys really enjoyed yourselves with them as we did being the viewer's. Excited for the rest of this week. Congrats again on being over 6 million!!!!
THISS like we can hear him and understand him very well
@@iamandreasilvayea but the microphone only picks up audio close to them so it’s hard to hear while they’re having a convo plus they live together and will obviously have fights this is normal sibling w just being meaner to Matt
pls he mumbles most of the time, as if there were a bug flying around the mic
@@ilovehs617 respectfully disagree but thats okay. Have a great Wednesday!
@@luvusm111 ig its different to everyone then cuz i havent had a problem hearing him tbh and well, this is actually the first comment i see of someone who says they cant hear him and yes i know, i also have two sisters and we bicker and get mat at each other a lot which is only adds more to it because i wouldnt let them treat me like that ever lmao and he literally said nick was pissing him off so im just basing it on that
The Nick and Chris ganging up on Matt to berate him for not talking, then to interrupt him or yell at him for talking too slow or being boring, then yelling at him for being “miserable” when he understandably gets fed up with them constantly picking on everything he does (seriously, what is the need to complain about how he’s sitting or breathing for god’s sake) is getting SO OLD. It obviously does both Matt, and when he said so Nick was just laughing and not taking it seriously. But even if it didn’t bother Matt, it’s just not enjoyable content. They should just cut it out of the video if they literally can’t stop shitting on Matt for an hour. Joking or making fun of each other once in a while is funny but EVERY podcast episode being 50% Nick and Chris telling Matt he’s sitting wrong, speaking wrong, boring, and then - shocker - in a bad mood after all that is really not enjoyable content.
THANK YOU. Your comment is so similar to mine. It’s triggering to watch. No audience enjoys the constant teaming up against one person. I almost close the TH-cam tab all together
real like i love their car vids and pods and vlogs but it feels like the pod is when chris and nick just are constantly being rude to matt, i hope he doesn’t internalize the stuff they say to him, especially cause there’s literally no reason to shit on someone for literally sitting like a normal human being, like if i was sitting in a chair like that for an hour and a half i’d want to be comfortable too
i completely agree
@@LuckyPoolBallno because there is actually no reason to do this on camera and think it’s entertaining cuz there’s a point where it stops being funny and that started in the very beginning. you can tell Matt isn’t finding this funny.
And it's so blatantly obvious that the video editor, Nick, right?, keeps making each of the infrequent clips of Matt, we do get to see, a few seconds short. Really? We all know he did that on purpose to keep adding to the fire of making Matt the outcast and bully him. So f**** cruel man.
Why are Nick and Chris the only ones allowed to speak? Mainly Nick. Why would they be okay with posting this insufferable behavior towards Matt so publicly in a video? And to think the audience wouldn't react to this.
Not to add with these Matt comments but I relate to how he feels in this podcast so much. I’ve heard that I drag down moods by my siblings and it also pisses me off because I don’t wanna feel so negative but I just mentally and physically can’t uplift my mood, it makes me mad at myself and others because of it.
absolutely! it's an annoying situation to be in specially when others start to point it out too and you feel attacked then you try to have a more positive attitude but they keep being annoying lol like nick and Chris were so you get even more frustrated or when you weren't even in that low mood but the constant comments about it pisses you off and makes it more serious than it is so i absolutely understand Matt felt the way he did but it's crazy also because unfortunately I've been on the other end too, when someone around you seem upset or negative and you feel like they seem uninterested in anything you say so you start getting annoyed too because they remain like that so I understand Chris and nick too but i think the problem is that they just pushed it a lot of they stopped commenting about it mostly Chris, Matt would've been fine, lol it was just crazy episode but i have been in the same exact arguments with my siblings many times where i was the one hurting or getting hurt, it's a sibling thing you can't avoid but luckily i get over t, they get over it, it's like the stronger of a relationship you have with your sibling the easier you can get over these arguments and i know theirs is a solid one so they are fine
I relate to this sooo much
I agree with this. Its not something that anybody is choosing so it really makes me feel like I chose this for myself
If someone keeps telling you you’re so negative and complain all the time you’re gonna get annoyed 😭 like do they expect you to laugh and smile when they constantly frame you as a negative person? It’s a lose lose situation
i relate soo much! but honestly matt wasn’t being negative or down when chris said “matt just brings down my mood” matt was just asking a question, no sarcasm or anything just asking a simple question and chris just snapped at him and called him a piece of sh*t
“tell them ur not upset” “you guys are pissing me off” then nick rolls his eyes… im not sure how much clearer matt can make it that hes upset yet the other two continue to push it and brush it off.
timestamp?!
@@NickAndChrisNumber1HaterI love your user
4:30 I LOVE MATT STANDING UP FOR HIMSELF YESSS
Just for nick to cut it off
matt just gets better looking every video 😭😭
he’s so cuteeee
realll
there’s no way you guys filmed this and thought “yeah this is good lets post it”
Right?! This was so messy.
the fact that Nick kept saying “I know I’m gonna get 💩 on for yelling at Matt”.. like at least he knew
They had fun and they gave tips out to the people who had anxiety and struggles with mental health and illness some people don’t care about “how messy the vid was” some are taking notes and trying to learn from this
The way they were all attacking Matt 😭😭😭
yea but they matt does that to them sometimes 😭😭
you mean like how it is usually? like how can anyone sit and watch what they are doing and not be on his side like whattt
@@spinninsturns truee
@@spinninsturns2 loud outspoken people ganging up on 1 person is not the same as 1 soft spoken person saying something
“all”?? and no they weren’t they’re triplets they’re gonna fight. matt is negative in this that’s his fault
“good morning campers” MY FAVORITE THING
FRRRRR
sameee its 6am🥹💗
Real
Yea always helps :)
okay buddy we get it
Ima be honest watching this really hurt my heart. And Ik people are saying “oh they’re siblings, siblings act like that”. But the way they were acting with Matt is something else. I would have cried and honestly left in the middle of that. They went to far with how they were acting with him. And some of y’all are probably going to be bothered or mad or react someway with what I said. But it’s my opinion the same way everyone gave theirs too. But yeah this episode broke my heart.
I would yell and leave the room the second i feel that attitude towards me 😂matt has a lot of patience
fr! i would literally cry
If you see the beginning of the video, Matt starts the video smiling until at 3:30 the conversation goes like this:
Nick: "Today we are going to talk about the science of happiness"
Matt: "Aaaww" *cheerful and with a genuine smile on his face*
Nick : "And I am so eager to hear what Matt has to say about what we talk about today"
Chris: "Me too. Negative Matt"
Nick: "Negative Matt"
From that moment on, you can literally see Matt's face completely change and take a deep breath at 3:41 because he realizes that they are ganging up to mess with him for being "Negative Matt". And at that moment Chris and Nick get even more annoying. They start calling him "Miserable Matt", "Mumble Matt", they get passive aggressive with the mockery and start saying stuff like:
- "I'm super happy today. How about you Matt?"
- "I would love Matt to answer this question first"
- "I can't understand you Matt, all you do is mumble" (**This is particularly irritating because we can ALWAYS hear Matt perfectly thanks to the microphone. So this is not a "Matt" issue. This is a "Christopher and Nick" issue because they should be using their headphones. That's why people who do podcasts wear their headphones when they are recording an episode. To check the volume of their voices, hear each other better, etc**)
- "You are an annoying piece of s*it. Stop being negative"
They started this episode with uncalled for attacks towards Matt. They didn't even give him the chance to be negative on the pod, before they were already being aggressive towards him. So OF COURSE Matt is gonna get annoyed and be negative.
Also, when Chris says that Matt was hurtful towards him, all Matt really said to him at 13:42 was literally "In order to be happy I just need Chris to get away from me", but he obviously was saying it because he was addressing how Chris was being so passive aggressive in that very moment. And after they "laughed it off", Matt said at 14:25 "Now I'll give my real answer" and gave his real response to the question
I am not a Matt girl at all. But I thought their behavior on this podcast was way too unfair
nailed every point.
Litterally took the words out of my mouth don't matter if people are your family being disrespectful is didisrespectful period.
THIS!!! Nick is the one that suddenly bringing up thing Matt did OFF CAMERA when Matt is all ready being ok on camera?? Nick crave for the conflict fr
its depressing i couldn't imagine being in that environment he needs out asap he's growing mentally faster then them
Your too right!
i literally cried watching this episode because of how matt was being treated. i have social anxiety and i like to remain quiet sometimes and this was hurting me 😭😭😭
the way matt gets ripped on for just existing every podcast💀
I never knew people on the internet have to defend Matt against his own brothers. I love Nick and Chris too but I feel they are too harsh on Matt. We hear you Matt and we love you so much ❤
yes, We love you Matt
Yesss! This should be the top comment bc I literally didn’t see the comments until now people talking about how Nick and Chris don’t let him speak..
(I feel bad bc it’s like people are hating on Nick and chris)
Matt needs to make his own podcast I wanna hear his thoughts on stuff too not just his brothers thoughts😭
For God’s sake. No audience wants to see two people teaming up against one person. If the audience is perfectly fine with Matt’s personality, and with the tone of his voice or his posture, then what’s all the attacking for. We can hear him just fine. Nick and Chris were actually pushing it so much today that even the viewers felt it and got annoyed. It’s getting old and even triggering to watch. Just drop it
Hey just want to say that these fights happen with sibling clearly you don’t have sibling leave no one cares how u feel leave no need to attack any one of you don’t know that these things happen to every human being grow up
agree
Is this supposed to be fun and happy? It made me feel the complete opposite. out. I would have preferred there to be no podcast. I feel bad.
@@Joesahejdhfthe triplets make a living out of these videos. When you are a TH-camr you need to be in tune with your audience and understand what your audience likes. It’s better to give them feedback for improvement while continuing to support them, than to not say anything and unsubscribe. That’s what I’m doing, because I still consume their content, but I’m letting them know of something that they need to improve on because it’s taking away from the experience. Also, I have 3 siblings and the reason why we have a great relationship is that we know when to stop pushing each other’s buttons, and when to be respectful.
@@SerenaT534It gets better towards the end but the first part was honestly triggering to watch
I like how they said matt is the one to drag it out and be miserable put constantly reminding someone that they are miserable gives them no room to act differently especially when matt does start to talk they interrupt and say well whatever you were saying wasn't good enough
Bro the audacity of Nick and Chris asking Matt not to be negative, while insulting him and mocking his personality constantly is just sending me through the roof. Are you serious? I would just leave the podcast for good. This episode was a nightmare
Sighing, even on purpose, is actually a coping mechanism that my therapist has given me. It helps release stress in the body. It’s helpful.
I feel like typically I always relate to Chris’ personality & this pod I really felt what Matt was saying
it’s the differences in your energy and personalities that make you so fun to watch. let those differences thrive!! love you guys
surprisingly Matt and Chris used to have unspoken understanding of each other but recently not that it's gone but I'd say when Matts energy is low or his mood is off Nick is the most understanding of it and he notices that Matt is getting seriously annoyed while Chris keeps pushing it more like Chris just gets more frustrated about Matts frustration or attitude which leads to making the situation worse, and I'm not even attacking Chris or anything i just think it's interesting how the dynamic changed cause Matt and Nick used to be always the ones arguing most with each other
i fully agree!!
that is ABSOLUTELY true and I couldn't agree more. the dynamic matt and chris had in the beggining of everything changed drastically if you think about it. it's almost as if they were the "best friends" of the group once, and NOW nick and chris are the besties o something.
this couldn't be better worded
Exactly, what happened to the Chratt dynamic? I loved that😭???
@@knightofthedarknessRIGHT
the thing that really catches my attention is how nick and chris complain that matt never speaks or they can’t hear him but it’s bc they always talk over him!! they almost always cut him off and honestly i couldn’t do it. i love watching these but couldn’t even watch 20 min bc it made me uncomfortable. if i was matt i would have left crying 😭
right!!
When matt posts on his personal channel talking slow and low people still love to listen him give him great engaging even sometimes when I'm sad I watch Matt's videos. So chris and nick has to understand people will still find them entertaining and interesting even when matt talks like that so stop worrying about matt making content uninteresting. Love matt as he is. stop telling him to change and please please be more patient with him
Yeah I get that but it's a podcast you don't want to wait 10 minutes for a full sentence and if you have a conversation with other people it is I think not as fun if you talk really slow and w low energie (no hate)
@@tessa1869 I promise it's not like 10 mins long ever
@@tessa1869 and low energy thing I won't agree with you. Matt on personal channel gets great love for his nature being calm low or slow whatever you say . It's part of his nature that everyone has to accept instead of complaining about it bc that makes matt his unique self so please
@@uwu_M (I'm sorry I didn't say it properly English isn't my first language)
I agree with you matt is a really good story teller and fun to listen to but what I meant is that this podcast is something different than his own channel and that on a podcast you tell storys usually different than if you tell a story normally (I don't know if that makes sens but I don't want to hate on matt cus I love them all 3)
@@uwu_M that part was sarcastic I didn't mean literally 10 min. I partly agree with you cause matt is really interesting but I don't think Chris and nick always mean it when they say that matt makes the video uninteresting cause they are brothers and that is the stuff that siblings say to each other
I wish Nick and Chris would stop criticizing every little thing about Matt’s way of talking. He does not talk too slow or too quiet. He is talks perfectly fine for a podcast. It’s more them being loud and arguing a lot that makes Matt seem quiet. Don’t get me wrong, Nick and Chris being loud is entertaining yes, but more fitting for a TH-cam video than the Podcast.
Honestly they are sliblings you have to stop hating on Nick and Chris because they are making fun of them i do the same things with my siblings and theu are just messing around. Let them live there lives
I have a twin sister and people always tried to normalize our awful behaviors to eachother when we grew up. That is GASLIGHTNIN. This was a horrible watch, I don't care if Matt's feelings wasn't hurt. This behavior is not okay in any way
@@daisymay1963 „they are siblings“ does not justify harmful behavior
love you matt, you are never ever ever wrong. period.
u know that aint the truth
@@ilovehs617 i know it is
Not nobody is "always right" such as matt. I do agree with you sometimes but it's not always true. Yes, they are taking it WAY to far (in my opinion!) But people aren't always "never wrong!" (Also, I'm not trying to be mean! I'm just stating my opinion ❤) I also think out of all of the triplets, matt is probabl my favorite, so I'm not trying to be mean to him either :)
The attack on Matt is crazy lol, Matt has a lot of patience
The arguing and disagreements are killing me lmao . Matt has so much patience 😭
Chris and Matt needs to hug and talk whatever it is out bc the tension is real with Chris rn
honestly they are brothers I get ur point but I think it’s just them being brothers if that makes sense
@@aramania7889i don’t think so
Stop normalize a awful behavior. I have a twin sister and we fight, especially growing up, and people always said " it's normal, they are twins" and shit like that. Both me and my sister HATES that. I don't get how they was feeling comfortable uploading this, because Nick and Chris behavior is crazy.
@@aramania7889nope
It's real with Nick too. Nick and Matt are always at it.
Matt, love you so much. We always want to hear from you. We hear you. Don’t listen to all of the negativity. Even family.
I watch the sturniolo triplets constantly but this epsiode was way beyond my expectations, this episode triggers me sm
asking matt why hes upset and then interrupting him and shtting all over him saying he takes too long talking like .... ok dont ask then??? im not even watching this episode anymore, that sht puts me in a bad mood.
after thinking about everything i just saw for a bit i wanted to come back and say it reminded me of emotional abuse i received while growing up. asking him questions they didnt even want answered just to sht all over him, and then blaming HIM for the mood being sour during a podcast that was supposed to be about "happiness?" it was nick and chris that ruined the mood for me.
it was genuinely upsetting and i hope nick and chris watch this back and are embarrassed. i hope they apologize to him in private.
Okay I totally get what you mean but we have to remember that their not only friends but also siblings and those 2 things are totally different
@@blankaadorbz ??? i didnt say they werent, read my comments again
@@mtnyas Yea but idk if You have any siblings or not but most of siblings are being annoyying to each other i do prob the same sht to my brother but i would never do that to my friends its different
@@blankaadorbz i do have a sibling, and i meant what i said
as someone who used to struggle with anxiety since I was literally 5 and having siblings like this who always teased and having to overlook it as "sibling being siblings" this made me so mad. I hate how people being inconsiderate is normalized just because they're your siblings. matt youre not alone and im impressed on how well you were able to handle this because I know in these situations I would've definitely had a full out panic attack because of the overwhelming emotions. siblings pushing your buttons as a "joke" is so sickening because with anxiety you already get annoyed easier and them taking advantage of this and test your limits is awful. we love you matt, you're not alone and im sorry and understand you and your so strong and u better than me fr because i would've just totally lost it
The podcast started out fine and then Nick and Chris started with the “Today we’ll talk about happiness and I want to know what Negative Matt/ Miserable Matt has to say about that” and I could literally see Matt’s demeanor change because that annoyed him. Obviously he is sick of being publicly portrayed as negative, or not talkative enough or not loud enough (which has NEVER been an issue because we can clearly understand him. That’s what the microphone is for). And they kept pushing it with the “I’m very happy Matt, how about you?”, “I’d love Matt to answer this question first”. Even if it’s “jokingly”, when they team up to give Matt sh*t about his personality, to then give him sh*t for getting kinda annoyed at the jokes, it’s triggering to watch. The podcast got a lot better when they stopped that, but I almost just close the TH-cam tab at the beginning of the podcast. And It’s not about Matt. They could be doing that to anyone and it would still be cringy to watch. Pushing people’s buttons is not funny 🤷🏻♀️
THANK YOUUU
right and they say that they know they’ll get attacked for being rude to him like… yeah 😀 for good reason
LMAO yall are crazy. no hate but like this is the sibling experience. your siblings are going to piss you off sometimes. these three argue over the most unimportant petty things and that’s what all siblings do. you can see that by the middle of the pod they are getting along JUST fine because they have probably forgotten what they were even mad about. they have said time and time again that none of there arguments last for more than like an hour. maybe you don’t have siblings or just don’t have a relationship like this with anyone but i promise it’s not actually an issue to them. Siblings push each others buttons that’s what they do. just saying 😭 you guys don’t need to be there “problem solver” they have grown up together and im sure they can work out there problems if something really does bother them. they have also said if there’s a time when a video just isn’t feeling good and people are in a bad mood and just not feeling the video they will quit recording and do it another time. 🤷🏼♀️ they just keep it real. they are three 20 year old siblings living together, they are going to have little arguments
@@user-8535 I absolutely understand the siblings experience, I have two sisters and a brother. And we 100% mess with each other and annoy each other often, but I feel like knowing when to stop is also important. Otherwise we would be at each other’s throats constantly. You can literally tell in this episode that Matt has had enough. Even Nick realized half way through the podcast that they were getting way too annoying. Even if they talk it out off camera and are able to move past it, I wish they would either tone it down or cut those bits off of the video, because it gets sometimes so uncomfortable to watch, which is a shame because I like their content a lot. It just throws me off when they push it so far. It takes away from the experience in my opinion (and in the opinion of lots of other people, as I can tell by the comments)
@@LuckyPoolBall knowing when to stop is different for all siblings, it really depends on the relationship between each other. they are obviously very very close and i’m sure that if Matt really was truly upset he would have said something and they would have cut it out. they have said before that they really are just themselves on camera and that’s what makes it so easy to film so much. if they were constantly being fake and not being petty and bickering with each other in videos it would be so much harder for them to post as much as they do because them bickering is like 80% if there content. This video is just real life, fights happen, people piss each other off, if they cut this all out there content, it wouldn’t have the same feel, like we are there with them and it wouldn’t feel relatable. i’m honestly glad they don’t post picture perfect content and set unrealistic expectations that you are always going to get along. if stuff like this really bothers you that much, you don’t have to finish the video. you can simply turn off your phone or watch something else. people in these comments are too sensitive, especially about a relationship they aren’t even apart of. about half way through the pod the bickering dialed down a lot bc they moved past it that quickly. again not hating on you or anyone else who feels this way i’m just saying that if it impacts you so much, you really don’t have to finish watching. idk im just almost sure that if Matt or any of them saw comments like these they would laugh because of how serious the fans make there little disagreements
Lol to be completely fair, I'm on Matts side in this episode, his annoyance and frustration was absolutely valid and he was getting attacked for nothing so I love you Matt ❤️ but also i love you Chris and Nick let's not spread unnecessary hate they are siblings and we can share our opinions on what happens without being hateful and dramatic
I agree!!
For real, no hate to Nick or Chris but sometimes they have to give Matt a chance without cutting him off and then getting mad when he doesn’t talk
Nick and Chris really owe Matt an actual apology. He couldn’t get a whole thought out the entire video without being interrupted and scrutinized. This wasn’t them picking on him, this was disrespectful bullying. Those two were so rude to him.
THANK GOD!! Hearing the three words “good morning campers” literally makes my day and brightens my mood. I love you guys so much
RIGHTT
Nick is not even that good of a person when he acted childish and mocked Matt…
@@quill__2005 girl u are not real💀
@@quill__2005 what is wrong with you
Love you guys and also we can hear Matt just fine always 😭
I commented before, but I watched again and feel there is more to say, and I want to be encouraging. There were some interesting points made about the topic. But again, it was difficult to listen. I think most of us expect a little sibling bantering. I, for one, like the “realness” of the videos. But what many of us are reacting to is that this went over the line of sibling bickering. Even if Matt said something hurtful off camera before the video, the adult thing to do is say something like, “Wow, that hurt me,” not to hit back, especially criticizing things that are just part of who Matt is. And you guys are now 20. I am actually old enough to be your grandfather, and I have been watching your videos because I am genuinely interested in how younger people feel and think about some of these topics. I’m curious to see where the world is heading. And I think these podcasts, especially, have lots of potential. I am also old enough to know that there is no such thing as black and white, good and bad when it comes to people. Everyone has good and bad qualities, and I find each of you likable in different ways. You seem to care about one another very deeply. But it’s an important lesson to learn about family and future relationships-love can never be taken for granted. Part of growing up is learning to be patient and treating the ones closest to you with the most respect of all, though often people treat them with LESS respect than others. And that leads to broken families and broken relationships. I think many of us are rooting for you, and we do not want to see that happen. It would be nice to even see this addressed and see some healing on camera, but it’s not going to happen by blaming everything on Matt. There’s plenty of blame to go around, and I say that as an older person who finds each of you likable. Don’t fake getting along either . . . Do the work and learn how to really love and treat one another with respect as adults. We like seeing the realness. Lots of hugs to each of you.
NICK SAYING THE VINE CRACKED ME UP😭 “I don’t care that you broke your elbow”😭
oooh LMFAOO that was what that was about sdjsh
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kudos to matt ❤ as someone who is ambivalent with crippling anxiety i respectfully would’ve left and cried in my room 🥺
I actually understand what Matt is saying whether he is quiet or not before you interrupt him although english is not my first language. give that man a chance to speak
exactly! I'm not a native English speaker and I understood his 'mumbling' just fine. They're definitely just looking for reasons to call him names or point fingers at him.
Matt we don’t care if you take a long time to talk, we’ll wait cause we wanna hear what you have to say🥺🩷
poor matt😭 i felt bad for him this entire episode
lmao I skipped the video forward like 10 times and they were still coming for Matt :( I thought it would've ended after the first 5 mins.
calm down
we need a separate matt video since you guys keep interrupting him 🙃
I wonder a lot about his personal project
This.
I haven’t even got past 6:21 cause of what they’re saying to Matt. I literally get him so much and I hope they read some of these comments. I LOVE them so much and obviously not hating, just making an observation and relate to Matt a lot.
they are literaly just joking, i loved that part
honestly nick gets better after like 20mins so
this was a PAINFUL watch. genuinely couldn’t make it through because it gave me a headache. as a person with siblings this got on my nerves like CRAZY, props to matt for not getting up and leaving. the patience he has is insane
Matts patience bro, something I'll strive for
honestly when Nick asked Matt to let the fans know that he's not seriously upsetting him and Matt still saying they were pissing him off was so real for both of them!
like why would he lie about being annoyed by them when he really is but then again Nick wanting to clarify that is valid because literally fans think that nick and chris are causing Matt to be upset forever and that they hate him when in reality it's all a moment in time so people need to relax and realize that, like Matt can't even show his real feelings because fans either baby him or attack and be hateful towards his brothers
and nick and chris can't say anything without worrying about how fans gonna make a big deal out of it
If they worry so much about how the fans are going to view them maybe they should start acting nicely. They worry about what the fans will think more than their brother's feelings what a shame
Matt should make his own podcast so he can get a chance to speak.
And we would all watch 🙌🏼
this!!!!!!! he needs to start twitch streaming id rather watch his content alone
yes just matt solo channel or matt streaming on twitch with just him, i dont want either of his brothers in the background of his streams yappin either, just good'ol matt and the chat@@Moms7328
Maybe he should move away from Nick and Chris so he can speak all the time. I get this hunch that Nick never lets him speak on a daily.
matt’s patience is unmatched.
the way I'm ready to just stand beside a kid I don't know and fight with his siblings because I have been on the same side of things with my big family.😂😂😂