Chatting with an Expert on Narcissism
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"Narcissism is the pursuit of gratification from vanity or egotistic admiration of one's own attributes. The term originated from Greek mythology, where the young Narcissus fell in love with his own image reflected in a pool of water. Narcissism is a concept in psychoanalytic theory, which was popularly introduced in Sigmund Freud's essay On Narcissism (1914). The American Psychiatric Association has listed the classification narcissistic personality disorder in its Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) since 1968, drawing on the historical concept of megalomania." - Wikipedia
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I LOVE how blunt she is. Straight talking, no BS. This is what you need to know.
It's a good feature to have in her field. Not showing any signs of softness or weakness is mandatory to succesfully get into a narcissists head.
For real!
"Self confident people can be self confident and still have empathy, and not be entitled, and not be superficial, and not constantly be seeking admiration."
Thank you for summing up healthy confidence so clearly!
This guys is using the interview to try and figure out if he has a personality disorder or not lol
Savvy Savage free therapy lol
YES wow
Exactly. He is seeking therapy for free
@@keishajoash Hahaha.
Hahaha I know right, I promise I was thinking the same and im like fuck that hell no he aint a narc he's ssooooo gooood. Like you can see and tell with your heart and eyes he is. Mmmmmmm he felt so humbling and goooooooooooooooooooooooood ahhh.
This lady needs her own podcast!
Yes she does...his attempts at joking towards the end was annoying and not the most respectful in my opinion
@@tashalang7465 She has one -- it's called "Sexual Disorientation."
She has one -- it's called "Sexual Disorientation."
Check Dr. Ramani on her own TH-cam channel! Ohh man you'll learn a thing or two ;)
Thomas Anderson and what’s wrong with that?
"There is no incentive to change." Hit the nail on the head with this.
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I lost my job for over 4 months and I had 2 children to care for including my wife and my mum I didn't have the sufficient funds to but while I was going through this post and praying in my mind I saw a post about a trade and I decided to invest on the trade I had about $1500 I invested $1000 and one week later I got $13000 I was so happy that I have to share the good news just in case you are interested in the trade contact mrs lisa Instagram:binary_manager8_
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Karen Peretei Dick 🛑
NitroAmi Bob : I am so sorry you are dealing with this. I am also. I hope you gave a good support system. Mine is limited. I left my violent and emotional abusive partner and had security with me when I did it (my ex is an MMA fighter and has broken my hand and ribs before) I’m ready to heal (he moves to SFO but is getting ready to come back to the city I live in, which won’t be fun. But I appreciate this forum deeply for the clarity it offers from all of you.
No because in their eyes they're never wrong
Simple description of narcissism-
1.) Narcissist: what they can ALWAYS loudly say, “See, I am RIGHT!”
2.) Narcissist: what they can NEVER sincerely say, “I am sorry, I was wrong.”’
Narcissists have no genuine insight and no empathy. They fake the quality of empathetic concern only if they want something, like sex. They seek to BE SERVED, but not TO serve others. In truth- narcissists have no idea how to passionately relate to another human being. They only engage with others because they WANT for THEMSELVES something from that person or group.
Why else would the narcissist arrogantly give away so much of themselves to people who, in their covert opinion, really don’t matter? Meanwhile, the narcissist mostly ignore the shy and pure souls right in front of their face. Often narcissists are merely manipulating the demure and shy person only to induce that poor soul to wait on them hand and foot until they are 85! “Sweetie- If you cook and clean my world, THEN I’ll buy you a BMW! (in the narcissist’s name, of course). They’re raised up to be entitled and spoiled brats!
They get angry very quickly And they are always right and you are wrong.
Yes it's true isn't it
Sounds Like Trump Supporters
Why do you feel the need to be right over someone else or tear down their personality?? Maybe you’re the POS here
Really
Truth
steve jobs? Abandoned his daughter refused to acknowledge her for many years until nearly the end of his life
just so he could feel good/look good to others.
Pure narcissist. This is sad.
Very typical of narcs & psychopaths. They abandon their own children.
S. Jobs, Zuckerburg....all trash human beings. Smart and dumb as hell. Doesn't zuckerburg look like an ax murdered? What a weird looking dude.
just like Donald Trump and Tiffany
he picked her brain but she figured him out extremely quick...Dr.Ramani is a genius
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shes thinks she does
Yeah, he tried to put her in an off place, but she's too smart for that
@@huda613 what "twisted shit"?
Everyone’s mad at the way Andrew is talking to her but I find it cool that he actually has an opinion and questions the stuff she says without blindly eating it up..
Yeah. He asked questions I was going to google and didn't have to.
the way Andrew talks is just hilarious though.
NytroNick agreed !
@@AdamThorton me to lol
Ye hes playin devils advocate to get information from her. Its a style of interview.
This one was by far my favorite. I was just talking to my friends the other day how social media is turning so many young beautiful ppl into narcissists.
CNelzz yep!!!
CNelzz Didn't she say that narcissism is build in the childhood when parents don't satisfy emotional needs of their kid? So it can't be social media right?
CNelzz you done fucked it up
CNelzz narcissists are born, it’s not social media
CNelzz It's part of the Jews' attempt to weaken us.
The woman is amazing! She handled the strangeness of the interviewer with patience and compassion ... I wouldn't have had that much patience. ..truely incredible lady!! thanks for her service .. I'm sure she's helped many due to her intelligence and insights
Why are you on his channel if you don't like him?
@@elshadow209 it sounds like you're insinuating that you have to like the person in the video you're watching, otherwise you shouldn't be watching it..
To watch Dr. Ramani who he does like, I assume.
@gefiltefish2000 Lol well according to the video, you must be a narcissist- you being dismissive in your comment and all ha
Selorm Amoako could be or maybe I've seen enough narcissism and dealt with narcissist in in my life to recognize it ..
Do Chatting with a Sociopath
Cynicals I wouldn't do it. Andrew will get mind fucked and shorten the interview.
True warrior content
No, not all sociopaths are like that smh.
Someone else suggested this, there's a sociopath on TH-cam named Isaiah Greene
A real sociopath wouldn't admit he's a sociopath.
Wow, she must be very, very busy being in L.A.!🤩
Bee Haven Hahahaha
prob not... narcissists prob have to be forced by their significant other to even go to therapy and what narcissist would want help without being made to go. interesting stuff.
NEVER stay with anyone that show narcissistic behavior, just run and stay away FOREVER !!!
this is great! lovely to hear an actual professional talk about narcissists instead of people on youtube who just hate their parents or something
That's actually the complete opposite from what I see. Instead of hating their parents, she hates her ex or something.
but either way they all would be considered survivors with experience behind the research, psychology, and awareness so bye
vickie that's very true... Unprofessional people mind fuck U
R D so?
takes one to know one.
Okay i am going to make this comment to respond to a few things that some people do not understand.
1. "She is a narcissist herself" - Short answer no she is not. People are confusing the narcissism that everyone has naturally in order to consider our ESSENTIAL needs first as the narcissism that lacks complete empathy that she is describing, e.g. i dont care if your mother is sick youre working today, type of narcissism.
2. "But she speaks about narcissists having a lack of empathy while insisting that narcissists shouldnt breed and live on an island" - That is not the same as having a complete lack of empathy for everyone besides yourself. She dislikes narcissists, okay big deal... anyone who lives with a narcissistic relativs would too. She made a silly comment and people are judging her as if she must be a saint to speak about narcissism.
3."But she judged him within minutes of meeting him? how is that not narcissistic?" - News flash, we all do... most people do it subconciously but she is a fucking psychologist it is her job to assess peoples psyche so ofcourse she is going to do it.
4."But she uses her friends?" - Not true. She only spoke about her NARCISSISTIC FRIENDS who use others to their advantage. She did not mention her close friends who she would actually care about and the fact that people dont understand that is ridiculous.
5. "How can you not be a narcissist and publish a book speaking from authority?" - well maybe because she is qualified to do exactly that. Do not confuse self-confidence gained from years of study, research, practice and teaching with the sense of entitlement that comes with narcissism. It would be narcissistic if she spoke about something that was not in her field with complete confidence, but she has every right to do so on her field of study. That is why andrew asked her on the show.
Bottom line: if you think she herself is a deep narcissist then you are most likely being defensive because she is describing your characteristics. It is scary that you cannot have an intellectual discussion on narcissism on youtuve without being attacked, this only proves that what she said about social media breeding narcissists is completely correct.
chem I had similar thoughts haha. Got a vibe that most comments are from kids that don't grasp the context of video. Context being that it's an interview setting where she's speaking passionately about her speciality while trying to promote her book.
Exactly. Its an intellectual discussion where you shouldn't have to censor your ideas and paint it in a certain way, she says it how it is.
This comment should be pinned to the top.
Exactly man, so many people in the comments getting angry at her and thinking they know more, but won't even provide any examples for their claims. Definitely narcissists or at the least just ignorant.
you're not wrong. At the same time she is unnecessarily inflammatory towards people she ought to know are sensitive to such remarks. Hurting the egos of others because 'she gets to because they shouldn't feel so entitled' is childish. Overall this sort of grudge she displays is not professional. I've never heard a therapist talk like this and don't see who it is meant to benefit.
But no she is not a narcissist or horrible person, there just clearly is room for improvement.
Two of my ex family members were severe narcissists. It’s a dangerous illness. Narcissists are extremely manipulative people who have mastered their art of deception. They always have to be right and show no mercy to anyone. They care only for themselves and are deeply broken people. It’s hard to see on the outside which is why they are so dangerous to be around. I adopted a narcissist and she manipulated me and lied to me everyday. It took me 8 months to realize what was happening and escape. She gaslighted everything to me and made me feel guilty when it was her who was in the wrong. When we said our last goodbyes I told her I loved her and hoped she got help. She told me she didn’t love me and that everything that had happened was my fault. It definitely tore down my self esteem but it also made me realize that you really don’t know people. For everyone reading this please do yourself a favor and stay away from narcissists. Even if it seems great they will get into your head and destroy you in the end
My brother is a total narcissist. He went on a date once and came back early because it was "an insult" to him how she had not put any makeup on for him. Only to give one example. Living with him is a nightmare, he is so full of himself and he twists everything around to make it out like nothing is ever his fault. He is arrogant and selfish, never gives back.
He is quite intelligent and knows how to talk for hours (without letting anyone else speak), but he is so oblivious on what people do and do not want to hear. He does not care how he makes people feel, he always plays the victim and he is incredibly judgmental and convinced that he is the best. To quote him "I don't make any mistakes, because I learn from other people's mistakes". He brags a lot, only wants his "friends" around when they can do something for him, but he never does anything for them. But worst of all he gets angry within a millisecond if you say something he doesn't want to hear, often smashing things and yelling his head off. Every criticism on him is a lie and he makes up lots of shit to make himself look better than he is.
He is the most awful person I know, I liked my school bullies more than I ever liked him. I really hope he never has a wife and kids, because I know 100% he would absolutely ruin their lives.
I used to hate him, but now I mostly just feel sorry for him. There is no way you could ever convince him to get help, because he is "perfectly normal" and just sees that kind of advice as an attack on him. I don't know what to do with him, other than keeping your distance.
Damn, it makes you wonder if there's a way. She said that if they themselves do not accept the truth, then there's no hope. What if they literally had no hope? What if they were starving and having nothing to do? Would that change their minds?
I still live with a narcissist, it invokes such rage inside me, it's like a literal fire in my chest. Hopefully, we will part ways soon...Oh, and that's one of my parents, so I totally agree on the part where she says to put them on an island...
Electrofensterheber ur describing me perfectly, feelsbadman
Sorry but there's never just one in a family. Recovery involves identifying the family control freak. Narcissistic brothers don't just magically appear out of nowhere. He has those defenses for a reason. Involving a sick family system. You seem like you think you are a healthy person. That's doubtful to me. If that's your brother believe me you've got character defects to work through.
Families Supporting Trauma Recovery Thank you for your valuable long distance evaluation of my character, based on my TH-cam comment. Unfortunately none of that is new to me. I never said I didn't have character "defects", believe me I've got plenty of those, but who the hell doesn't?
"We give the best energy to the worst people in our lives and the no energy to the best people in our lives." - POWERFUL
I'm here to share a testimony!
I lost my job for over 4 months and I had 2 children to care for including my wife and my mum I didn't have the sufficient funds to but while I was going through this post and praying in my mind I saw a post about a trade and I decided to invest on the trade I had about $1500 I invested $1000 and one week later I got $13000 I was so happy that I have to share the good news just in case you are interested in the trade contact mrs lisa Instagram:binary_manager8_
whatsapp: +1(551)333-3817 She is very reliable, trusted and tested I'm a beneficiary!!! You can go through her Instagram page too, her testimonies speaks for itself.
worst people dont have energy, best people allready got it , its like balancing things out iguess lol
Can all media be this deep and meaningful?
no. and thats good. its not bad to have a not so deep media as sometimes you just switch off your brain. however i agree that the overall quality is a bit too low
no
For real
These are narcissistic traits , not a true narcissist. Unless you have lived with one you will never really know the evil , soul strippers they are .
debra ….too true
FACT'S !!
Definitely. My soul goes out to you. I came from a narcissistic family, ended up staying married with a full blown overt narc and those people are true sucker vampires. They target, seek and try to destroy.
Right on point..dream killer is how I describe my mother. I'm trying to heal and don't know where or how
Rose, so true. My ex husband was diagnosed a NPD, the desire from them once they have you is to then destroy you and anything that brings you happiness.
Wait when did you start having actual guests like serious professionals and shit? that's crazy dawg and the interview was great
Empty discusssion
i could watch and listen for hours to her :O!! so brilliant, authentic and informative!
Not with the guy Hahahahahah, his focusing more on his own intention, finding out if he's narcissist... and he's kinda don't know what he's doing
These are really fun to watch, you should chat with an alcoholic
Andrew has already done a chatting with himself.
2:24 - Just listen...The most perfect bubble sound ever
CatchTheWave-X yes thx for this i love it
Highlight of the conversation " Nobody needs 13 billion dollars when so many people don't have clean water/electricity".
People with 13 billion dollars employ thousands of capable employees and fund their lives via salary. Think about that for a moment and reevaluate your position.
Cece Dawson Agree 100%
CeCe Many people with 13 billion dollars own companies that have created jobs for thousands of families. They typically also donate to charitable organizations of their own choice, (a tax break for them) and they also pay a boatload of tax dollars to their country because of how much they earn - even WITH tax breaks they still pay millions in taxes. Don't be sucked in by the rhetoric and chants from the far left (if you are an American). Think things through and think deeper. Jobs and salaries have to come from somewhere or we'd all be without water or electricity! Billionaires may not be perfect, but I'm betting they do a lot more for our country (economically) than you or I have or ever will.
always the same fake argument. its not that there wont be jobs etc. people want to work and people will work, they will organise and create jobs. you dont need to earn 13 billion to employ people. this is a huge fallacy.
also funding their lives via salary. first of all they fund themselves mostly just like he funds himself. they work together.
you basically take the fact that they earn so much as a validation to earn so much.
they have higher responsibility, yes, and its fine when some people earn more, but the idea of them giving jobs as a validation is flawed as mentioned and its also not about earning more. its about the gap
Cece Dawson this could also be extrapulated to the middle class. Who needs a big screen TV and a nice car, when we have so many homeless on the streets. People always want to look at those who have more than them and point fingers, rather than start looking at the dysfunction in their own lives.
4 minutes in, lmaoooooo this woman is a straight savage
preeeach sistaaa am i right? Oh yHHHAHAHAHA DONT YOU WISH YOU HAD A DISNEY PRINCE CHARMING LOL
WALT DISNEY FORMULATED EVER YOUNG GIRLS ADULT LIFE PATHETIC.
@@Andf-kc4xx wtf
I have struggled with My Mother and I's relationship for years! I have wondered if she was a narcissist and truly need to cut her off bc of the lack of empathy and her reactions to me being so angry, especially when I visit her home unexpectedly and drop in with my 6yr old daughter. After hearing this I have a much more clearer understanding of narcissism.
HAHAH SO TRUE. No words were minced, massaged or watered down in any way.
i see what you mean, not really reviewing or adding new material, but just stating memes to make a point!!! pseudo wisdom
My god what a wonderful woman. She is very fluent with her words and keeps my attention. I've rarely found this in anyone where I dont feel distracted by someone talking. I love how intelligent she is. Can she teach me everything in life please?
She's 100% on point. I was married to one for 5 years. The cake analogy was perfect!
I will never forget that cake analogy! so brilliant and apt.
My cake was soooo good at first...turned out there were metal shavings throughout the pie!
Healing has been a slow process. :(
too bad it wasn't her analogy
@@idyllic1973 Didn't have to be.
an island where they don't breed
dilbar14u2 I’m not sure how you perceived it but geez it almost sounds like she had a bad encounter with someone 😂hahaha
Guantanamo?
narcissists keep this world working, just with humble twats this would be a hell.
That had me dying! Lol oh my goodness...
Kahlil Garcia Shes so umempathetic for narcissists, youd almost thing she is one!
I know for a fact that I am a narcissist, as well as my father is also a narcissist. This explains a lot to me. Now that I recognize the traits a bit better, I hope to go seek treatment for it, with my local specialist.
Claire Huxtable! That's who she reminds me of! So lovely
now I cannot unsee it! :)
Wow that's the same thing I said and then I read your comment
Same lol
Toni Von J yes!!!
This was SUCH an insightful video, was hanging on every word she was saying. I wish I could have private sessions with her, so many questions I’d want to ask lol.
All therapists are versed in this issue, it's just her speciality. She expresses well and everything she says is right, but it's standard knowledge in the psychological helping professions.
rhiannonhill I disagree with you. Not many therapists are versed in personality disorders and narcissism is an alien for many. I know this from personal experience with narc family members who were never diagnosed, with an ex narc husband who wasn’t either and the worse: struggling to find a therapist who truly understood how deep devastating narcissistic abuse goes.
@@rhiannonhill not many therapist are this direct and blunt we need more people like this
It’d be awesome for these to be uploaded as podcasts as well to listen while driving and using navigation
Plot Twist: She's actually a super intelligent Narcissist who knows so much about them and studied normal behaviour so that she can act normal while manipulating everybody around her 0.0
lolz
Spot on!
😂 😂 😂 I suspect the same. The field of psychology is jam-packed w/ them. Or "them." Also, life coaches, gurus, preachers, rabbis, imams, nurses, doctors. A person should be very wary of anyone in the "human helping" industries. Such people are often abusers themselves. Not all of course, but many. God, or "god", is an abuser. Praise god. Words themselves are inherently "narcissistic" because words are images of reality, not the reality itself. Human beings are tricky....
Cap she cant do shit to a nigga
Dagger D I believe that your plot twist is a lot more realistic than you realise, unless you're not joking! 🤔
I had a "friend" who was a narcissist. Eventually I got tired of her self-indulgent antics and cut her off. Don't miss her one bit. In the past she had her moments for a time - even a bit entertaining - but enough is enough.
She kind of went crazy flustered when you asked her why she was late
"You really care how my day is going?" *chuckle*
Thank you for introducing her. What a stunning conversation occurred!!! I'm jealous of her students, she is great! Already found her channel here on TH-cam! You've done a great job! Thank you, Andrew!
I'm here to share a testimony!
I lost my job for over 4 months and I had 2 children to care for including my wife and my mum I didn't have the sufficient funds to but while I was going through this post and praying in my mind I saw a post about a trade and I decided to invest on the trade I had about $1500 I invested $1000 and one week later I got $13000 I was so happy that I have to share the good news just in case you are interested in the trade contact mrs lisa Instagram:binary_manager8_
whatsapp: +1(551)333-3817 She is very reliable, trusted and tested I'm a beneficiary!!! You can go through her Instagram page too, her testimonies speaks for itself.
What a beautiful, lively, clear, good energy woman :) :) :) loved the talk :)
I'm here to share a testimony!
I lost my job for over 4 months and I had 2 children to care for including my wife and my mum I didn't have the sufficient funds to but while I was going through this post and praying in my mind I saw a post about a trade and I decided to invest on the trade I had about $1500 I invested $1000 and one week later I got $13000 I was so happy that I have to share the good news just in case you are interested in the trade contact mrs lisa Instagram:binary_manager8_
whatsapp: +1(551)333-3817 She is very reliable, trusted and tested I'm a beneficiary!!! You can go through her Instagram page too, her testimonies speaks for itself.
she seems like marry poppins compared to andrew lol
Lol
@@haydhn1474 how
Are you a narcissist?
This woman is brilliant. The interviewer looks uncomfortable though lol.
he always does... kindof a weird guy.
You must not know Andrew:
bluecaster it’s clear he’s hearing stuff that scares him !
bluecaster like someone said before me is that you clearly have no idea who Andrew is. He’s an insanely awkward guy but that’s what makes him awesome in my opinion.
Yeah, I don't know Andrew but I do know a shrink and she says it's very common for people to be akward/ feel uncomfortable once they find out who she is/what she does because they start to feel like she's judging them or that she can see behind the mask majority of people wear.
This was absolutely amazing! Such an eloquent speaker! I definitely don't think Andrew is a narcissist, he is just dominating a platform (youtube) where he has to market inflated self importance and 'cool vibes' to succeed. Culture is the culprit here
I love her sooooo much...She is my role model❤ .......something very charming about her.. she is pretty inside and out ❤🌻🌷🌺🐕🧚🏻♀️🌲🌸❤
Anyone else hear the first 2 mins and thirty seconds and then instantly think of someone they know?
Bryan Cline yeah. My brother and dad
Yeah, you Bryan.
Yeah my brother and my dad
myself
dead meme me 2
My ex is a narcissts he would always shame me for expressing myself via singing, posting selfies, talking to a lot of people.
He would always call me a narcissist. I believe he was projecting. I
He love bombed me, started straying away then ghosted. He came back to me when I was finally healing and doing ok. As soon as he got back into my life again, he love bombed me and then pushed himself away slowly.
I wish I could move as a person with a shattered self-esteem and PTSD, I've become dependent on him. :(
What did she say about narcissists seeking reassurance from others? lol
Jimini Krickit My ex was emotionally abusive, a perfectionist, couldn't handle an ounce if criticism, would put himself on a huge pedestal, gaslight me, think he was better than everyone, make others feel small in a sutble way, insult me when I was at my worst, he lacked empathy, loved having power.
His parents were absent and abusive, I can see why he is the way he is.
Are you still obsessed? 🤔
A true narcissist would never ever admit they are . Truly.
I was raised by a histrionic mother and become a narc wit some ptsd trait. Is horrible. I just control it and try to respect people today.
hey man the doc said that self-reflection is a really good thing so you keep fighting the good fight friendo
You can get a "chatting with an expert *on* Narcissism"
But never a "chatting with a Narcissist" because they would never come to terms with being one
Having robot partners for sex, yeah she's so right, narcissists should remain single, stay strictly on their own lane
Thanks, Andrew for bringing her to us through this session.
The professor gave an excellent interview. Very informative. Thank you!
Great video, she is fantastic.
I LOVE YOU!!!!
I love watching LAHWF. Quickly becoming one of my favorite channels.
wait what are you doing here
Lmao
Wtf
Someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder would never admit to being a narc because they can't handle the narcissistic injury, they're sociopaths. You can have narcissistic tendencies without being a diagnosed narc.
They have brill qualities (no one mentions this) they make great sales people and managers
Clare Willmoth sales people yes. Not managers. The team never survives long without turnover
@@just1desi well yes but I know many managers who are too part of the sales team.Not good business turnover if he or she isn't involved within the team
Well, I am one. Diagnosed & everything.
Covert, not malingnant like the type described in the Video.
And yes, my world came crumbling down on me when i found out.
What about a narc who momentarily doesnt care about being a narc bc they see it as a strength.
She handled being trolled sooooo well lmao
My dad is a narcissist whenever I was younger he'd always never admit anything. It's an mental state of king mentality like they don't want to come off the throne to serve even for a good purpose. It's a really mental thing so I wouldn't make in front of anyone but I still love me father and I'm in my 20s now. I really wish that he would admit he has a problem and get help instead of denying it and never wanting to be wrong.
Js399 same! How do you deal with him?
Honestly being raised in a family of faith I keep forgiving because that's who I am. And really I realized it's no need to lose myself and drain myself because of a toxic person or family member. Really i just give myself space but I love my father so if he needs help I'll help but during his episodes I just slowly remove myself because eventually one day he'll realize that his behavior will make people not want to be around
I resonate so much. He would gaslight me as well to avoid admitting things. I tried to use logic, to use emotions, to ask for his help (to help me understand him/get along with him) and nothing works. I want him to be held accountable, but he is in such strong denial. When we argue, I feel like I hurt for myself and for him (because I feel bad for the both of us), but he remains oblivious. All my life it felt like talking to a wall, a wall that would only become a doting father once I could make him look good to people... At this point, I feel better off not interacting with him at all; I will always care about him, but I cannot deal with the constant hurt I have being around him. Do you have anything that has worked out for you? My brother always says to just "stay strong" and "don't expect anything from him," but it is hard because he is my father
@@airari24 No contact works beautifuly!
My dad is the same way
It would be rare for a true narcissist to admit publicly that they are a narcissist and they usually would not be inclined to contemplate the question.They are not usually self reflective nor motivated to gain insight into their condition because it wouldn't serve their insatiable need to see their false selves as perfect..
Not quite true
blissfulbaboon you don’t know shit bruh. It’s like saying an addict is incapable of recovering
Thank you for this interview with my favorite Dr. Ramani. I hope you learn about more empathy, compassion- you will go far;-)
Best to you.
My father is a narcissit...SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN A PARENT...
I have lived with narcissists. She is very on point. Truth!
This dude almost seems like he wants to be a narcissist
Solrac I think so too. I wonder why?
Solrac - He comes across as smug and a bit fake. In this video anyway, I’ve never seen any others.
+Rickie See it's a fake internet personality. He originally used this exaggerated personality for social experiment videos. He's basically a jester, using this fake smug personality as a means for content.
Unknownlimitz32 - Thanks for explaining. I see. That said social experiments suck. The man must really crave attention.
I agree. I'm not really a fan of the whole "social experiment" thing either.
Brutal...but true. Narcs shouldn't be married or have children.
His questions about himself and Dr's answers to them has been made a worthy result to be watched ..
Apparently morning coffee didn't do much for the host by the way he's talking.
lel. hes always like that
Umm that’s how he’s always like, that’s what he’s known for you genius
videoloops1 Morning coffee actually relaxes me to the point of drowsiness. Maybe he DID have his morning coffee.
He's half tarded
He’s actually normal, y’all just been groomed for looking at hype beasts on outube that hype everything up, if you meet and chat with someone in real life on a couch it’s usually a chill convo like with him lol
Excellent video! I have someone in my life who is a narcissist and it’s very difficult to deal with them.
How do you deal with them? (Honest question)
And now she a successful TH-cam channel ❤
I’ve always wondered how psychologists differentiate between disorders like Borderline Personality disorder/Bipolar disorder/Narcassistic Personality disorder/Antisocial Personality disorder/extreme anxiety/ etc. They share a lot of the same symptoms 🧐
Seth Base
Bipolar disorder isn’t a personality disorder but the others have behavioral criteria & origin criteria (specific types of childhood abuse or neglect)
They present differently
Excellent interview! Very impressed by your ability to bring this content to a young audience. Great job!
Oh, and also, if you contact Sam Vaknin, or HG Tudor they will gladly come on your show. Both have youtube channels and are diagnosed narcissists and open about it. Sam is more open than Tudor who uses a pseudonym and hides his face. Sam Vaknin wrote a pioneering book and developed most of the language commonly used by victims and therapists alike.
Why do you think she did a great job? Don't you find her smug blatant hypocrisy even a bit disturbing?
I noticed a lot people watching this video are unfamiliar with this series and Andrew. So much hate and unfounded criticism! LEAVE ANDREW ALONE!
@fredo Fred 😂
I love this women❤️ my ex was narcissistic sociopath with borderline personality disorder💀 I have healed a lot from encounter watching these take my anxiety away👏
this woman is awesome, so intelligent and for her age a beauty, understanding and foresighted. i dont know how this is cut, but still, shes great^^
Rosa Knuffel she’s a beauty for her age??
VixxenEyez yes.
I don't think the interviewer is a narcissist. Narcs come across with a phony pleasantness when their first meet people. I just get a bad vibe from them, which I don't get from the interviewer.
Does no one noticed Dr. Ramani's narcistic attributes? She loves to keep reminding us she is a DR she loved to point she teaches at a university; she keeps talking about all her accomplishments. The eerie part is when she was able to do that "dance of conversation" it was all put on she could careless about how his morning went she just wanted to show her power to manipulate a conversation.
Thank you!!
Dr. Ramani 's interview is so enlightening. I was just above average in looks in my culture when I was young. I acted in a film as a heroine. I realized I can only survive that profession if I become narcissistic, histrionic or borderline. I ran from that field and became a psychiatrist in India. But although my post graduation people only reinforced my looks. There was so much sexual harassment, I married a narcissist. Who is very successful. Yes, society does not let you be. They want to make you a narcissist, and blame you and shame you for it. Thank you so much for this wonderful interview. 👍
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to geniustracker701(via)GMAIL
Dr. Ramani is such an amazing woman, I love listening to her. You can learn so much from her, even if you have a great marriage. Wonderful interview, I like how straight and honest both speak
"put them on an island where they can't breed" (this is taken out of context!! but funny as hell)
Hahahhahha..
I think the fact that you do videos talking with other people about their life is a great step towards not being a narcissist lol I don't think narcissists like to hear other people talk about themselves lol
She's so well spoken and keen. Reminds me of watching Jordan Peterson's psych and bio lectures.
I could listen to her aaall day!
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to geniustracker701(via)GMAIL
I’m getting off vibes from him. He wants to be a sociopath 🤨 weird.
the look like successful people touch him to react that way, no strange, because most Gurus are Them
its a form of " special" some people need to be labeled to feel "special" .... actually a lot
Christina Jimenez I think he's just always thinking about his next question.
Yes.... I felt like sometimes he was being condescending towards the end as well as little spots throughout the video.
KellarJS no one is calling him a sociopath. What is your deal?
He couldn't believe that doctor Ramani actually cared when she asks how was his day.
The irony in this video is rich.
It wouldn't be ironic whether she is a narcissist or not
Berlin Wall It would be ironic if she didn't realize she was narcissistic despite being called an expert
@@andrewprahst2529 I just really feel like she is using that word "narcissist" to describe a group of people that she doesn't prefer. I guess that makes me a narcissist, and I should be put on an island.
I stan her. What a queen
I’m a narcissist but I’m not entitled. I don’t really have self confidence but I find the best me through what others say. Like they’re feeding an ego that’s not even there. I don’t make a mess and turn into a monster when things don’t go my way but it hits my self esteem hard. I have empathy for others, I truly care about others but I’ve done the opposite in the past. I want to right my wrongs but it seems like there’s no where to start.
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to geniustracker701(via)GMAIL
Have u been diagnosed?
She's kinda hot whoops
What the fuck lol
Fernando Rojas Pause what lol?
Gilf
she is pretty yo dont deny it!
Otay otay.
You could try interviewing HG Tudor. He's a self professed Narcissist. Has his own channel, Knowing the Narcissist. He never appears in person. But does do interviews....
Julia Meads
Julia Meads: Yes, I was thinking the same! That would be a good interview, however he has recently disabled his TH-cam channel, but check out his material very direct! He may still be on Facebook and he leaves his email for contact!
Arlena Greenwood-stevenson oh no! That explains why I haven’t seen any recent videos from him.
This woman is absolutely brilliant!! The more I listened ! The more I wanted to hear!! She needs to be on Joe Rogans show !!
I think she is not putting enough effort into portraying how serious narcissism really is! People who have been involved, smeared, abused, manipulated by narcissist will know how much deeper the problem goes other than them not participating in reciprocative communication an a slight lack of empathy.
A true narcissist might want to break you, destroy you, even physically attack you (low impulse control). They will try to find your weakest point and subtly play you out on it over often longer periods of time and enjoy your demise.
There is a reason they were described as 'demonically possessed' in the past (which describes them overall better than the preferred less harmless sounding and pc appeasing term of 'emotionally unstable').
The Eskimos apparently had a preferred way of dealing with the really malevolent ones: they would take them on a hunting trip in the ice and return without them! That's how cunning, dangerous, treacherous and destructive they were deemed by the whole clan! That's how serious they took that problem. No society would act like this if a person were just a bit of an uncaring a-hole.
Don't underestimate the destructive power a narcissist will have in your life. If you feel like something is just wrong - the chance is that it actually is wrong! Leave! No amount of love, patience, energy and money will be enough to make them change into a better and caring / loving person. Even friendship is just about what they can get from you.
Where they have walked you will find a trail of destruction and misery and broken hearts in the path. Do not fall for the 'normalisation' of the word 'narcissist'. There is a good reason therapists often refuse to treat narcissists/ borderline personality disordered people. Narcissism (and their more advanced colleagues like the 'greater narcissist, the sociopath and the psychopath'). It is the most severe and often shape shifting personally disorder there is. Be warned!
Reformed White Knight = Well put, friend ! I agree. They twist other's minds,
and never put other's 'before themselves' ......... in every circumstances, EXCEPT
to make a big impression (for their own benefit) - I almost married one... but I ran, terrified ......after many 'trying' years of hoping i was wrong ........ and then they proved true characteristic by quite a collection of brief ruined marriages! I love NOT being attached to that anger / demands / influence / manipulation /
control / insistence, and the artificial praise & adoration! It is a huge relief to remain free of that and know the ones i associate with live lives of TRUTH !
There are different kinds of narcissists, one being the malignant type that you are describing. She talks about the different types of narcissists on another video on TH-cam.
My boyfriend is one, so true he gets angry very fast and his anger is explosive...i definitely cant leave him tho, i love him even tho hes difficult, hes sweet sometimes and i know he doesn't always realize what he does, he does have a lack of empathy sometimes but usually towards other people not me. Tho if he ever does something bad to me he does try hard not to do it again, its definitely a reflex, he tries hard but i know his default is to lack empathy...I know in his childhood his parents left him with a babysitter a lot and that was probably damaging...i know hes very driven and could be successful, i dont believe hes evil but just someone who is damaged, i know i cant change him but i want to help him and keep loving him. Love Dr Ramani, shes so smart and an amazing psychologist!
I like how the guy interviewing admits hes a narcissist??? Great for your channel bro
That guy waa so off-putting. Seemed like I was watching a professional chatting with a high schooler. Not sure what this guy does but definitely not fitted to interview a person as rich of knowledge as her... She's a professional, handled the interview with a remarkable ease. May she be blessed.
Diego he didn’t bother me personally, but you have a right to an opinion. It was just obvious to everyone, including both of them, as to what he was doing. Fair enough it’s his interview. He can ask what he wants.
They can come off as amazing parents. They may be destroying their children in a very unobvious way. Being a narcissist doesn't always mean they are being mean to their child. They may be very empathetic with their children and only be cold when it comes to their partner. Therefore showing their children unhealthy relationships, allow the child to get away with things they shouldn't just to hurt the other parent. Every thing isn't black and white. Remember this when watching these type of interviews.
Andrew it was painful to listen to you speak.. thank god she was on. Thanks doc you're so intelligent
I feel no one deserves to be in a relationship with narcissist they are terrible people that feel entitled thank God for my friend who referred me to an hacker and i was able to hack my narcissist partner's phone and see all the proofs i needed for a divorce and even terrible things they had planned contact Mike to help he is a genius, you can text/call +1 (415) 323-6758 or reach him on WhatsApp +1 (724) 330-3252 and also write to geniustracker701(via)GMAIL
He feels discomfortable because he knows he is
the word discomfortable makes me uncomfortable ;)
You are right I speak 5 languages and I wrote it in FRENCH not English thank you for pointing that out with respect and empathy...
@@JF-vy5jz I was just trying to be cheeky. didn't mean to offend you. Here in America we are so self-centered, that in school we will maybe be taught 1 foreign language. It's extremely impressive that you speak 5 languages.
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I could listen to her talk for hours
Why is he so obsessed with trying to be a narcissist?????
Badge of honour for a TH-camr
Like she said, it’s an attractive trait in a work ethic. Also admirable for a TH-cam. Look at all the big ones. He’s probably never had any issue with relationships, or thinks he hasn’t
Every single TH-camr is a Narcissist
i didn’t take it as him trying to be a narcissist but to try to figure out if he is
he's just afraid of being one, duh
I love this woman, holy shit she is smart.
This woman is a master communicator---good video: she probably her students favorite professor.
@@staticshotaop561 and later your aass
@@staticshotaop561 why did you say that?
master manipulator i would say, but she is too dumb to be one. i only see a broken heart girl that has gone old.
Yup, the narcs are out to play.
@Joseph111 hello narcissit
Omg! When she said “we give our best to the least deserving and our worst to the most deserving” I am shook! 😱😭😓🥺
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@@karenpereteidick8750 you're trying to scam people on a video about narcissism? Bold
Jake Hammaker some would even say, very narcissistic 🤷🏻♀️
I'm trying to switch that. At work the Manager that always attacks me or makes fun of me I show no emotion or my good side. To those kind to me I try to remember to treat them well and to stop amd ask them how they are.
I need to also try this on my family though.
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My both parents were narcissists and they ruined my life. She is right, narcissists should not have children.
lady2342002 same here. If only they could be diagnosed and sterilized.
yes! sucks to say but no good comes out of it, I've seen it! but unfortunately, they are sneaky enough to fool a person who isn't good at reading people and lack self esteem
Both my parents were narcissists they messed me up but not as much as they wouldve liked though.
My mum was a narcci did she ruin my life no she didn't she made me strong she made me wiser she made me the beautiful empathetic passionate person I am today I believe everyone can be labeled narcasistic tbh I think so worse than others 👌
She was likely not a true full blown narc because those are the ones who really are chaotic and cause a lot of misery
Facebook and Instagram are a heaven for narcissists.
Megan Keagan disagree. TH-cam is a platform for teaching and creativity. It’s a way to connect intelligently. Facebook, Instashit, and Snapchat are all mindless social media that have no core value other than socializing.
actually the two narcissists i personally know arent very active on social media at all.
social media in general is a heaven for narcissists
- Hugheser Yeah but socializing is a legitimate and basic need of all humans.
I have a social media account just for narcissistic abuse, psychological abuse. And I have MANY more followers on that account than my personal ones. To me it's a sad reminder how many people are affected by this. I truly feel that narcissists use social media as a hunting ground for their egos. Its disgusting & if I had paid attention to it when I met someone recently, I probably wouldn't be feeling repulsed like I do. I'm embarrassed by his behavior & his need for followers on Instagram and Facebook. That is not a person I want to get close to or get to know better. That's my personal opinion.