How to Speak French Without Feeling Stupid

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  • @FrenchTwist
    @FrenchTwist 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Traveling through France, I found that everyone was so kind, friendly and appreciative of my attempts to speak French. A smile, and an attempt is so warmly welcome and received.

    • @bmr1295
      @bmr1295 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We travel to France two times each year just because the
      people are so kind. Love them!

    • @ivantellez9217
      @ivantellez9217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Linda weddle and bonnie Reeves, you two had very nice experienced travel to France. I never been in France but if I travel there I don't think I will have the same luck of you both it would be the other way around I guaranteed that.😊

    • @kirklurkpu4470
      @kirklurkpu4470 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Hugy Ugy
      He's saying the two people who shared their experience on their travels to France won't be as good as for him, if he were to go there.

  • @nataliekrauss6565
    @nataliekrauss6565 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’ve studied French for a long time and am finally living in France and this video brought tears to my eyes! I wish I watched this my first day off the plane. It’s so embarrassing when you don’t understand someone right away in French and it’s really hard to get your confidence back afterwards. J’aime vôtres vidéos!!

    • @armoricain
      @armoricain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Forgive me for correcting you, but it is "J'aime vos vidéos!!" "Votre"(singular, both masculine and feminine) and "vos"(plural, both masculine and feminine) mean "Your" and "Le vôtre"(singular masculine), "La vôtre"(singular feminine) and "Les vôtres"(plural, both masculine and feminine) mean "Yours".

    • @evan.5967
      @evan.5967 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i think natalie more experienced in spoken french than written

  • @martinlawrence1431
    @martinlawrence1431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    When I speak French and the person replies back in English I feel that they are trying to save me from making a bigger fool of myself.

  • @matthewhopkins8032
    @matthewhopkins8032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Merci Géraldine
    I lose my confidence when a French speaker switches immediately to English but what is worse is when I say a phrase or word perfectly and still get a blank stare

    • @chrisreid1644
      @chrisreid1644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Mois aussi

    • @christinescorey7406
      @christinescorey7406 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I've only ever experienced that once in my many years of visiting France. Most people are kind and understanding!

    • @da96103
      @da96103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Tell them: Parlez pas en anglais si vous ėtes à la France.

    • @slappy8941
      @slappy8941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@chrisreid1644 "Mois" means "month".

    • @rmacapobre
      @rmacapobre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      happened to me as well. when i was trying to impress the teacher by asking the time (que l'heure est-il). it was most likely my accent. and i had ot point to my watch before she was able to finally get it. and even then she seemed annoyed hahaha .. oh well ...

  • @SoyNelsonMiguel
    @SoyNelsonMiguel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Salut! C'est très normale d'oublie des mots en français. Je travaille dans une entreprise française en République Dominicaine, et aujourd'hui ma collègue oublie comment écrire "A tout a l'heure". Je ne connais pas beaucoup le français, mais avec les vidéos de Géraldine en Comme une Française, et "working in a french environment", mon français s'améliore chaque jour. :) Merciiiiiiiiii

    • @SoyNelsonMiguel
      @SoyNelsonMiguel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Ric O’shea De rien

    • @da96103
      @da96103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Understood your message except for the word ameliore

    • @LynnBabakr
      @LynnBabakr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @da96103 s’améliore means improves

    • @NewCastleIndiana
      @NewCastleIndiana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did the iOS app duolingo for one month, doing every lesson before travelling to Paris. I went from zero hours of learning and understanding to feeling like I at least know some basics. Have not really done much past that. But these videos are helpful. Nelson, I understood everything, but did not KNOW the word ameliore (except for english ameliorate), but totally understood it in context. But yea, I cannot SPEAK worth a darn. Fast French LISTENING>.. forget it... too.

    • @CorinneIsIn
      @CorinneIsIn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Vous vous êtes très bien exprimé, Nelson!

  • @suspendedfromthemoon
    @suspendedfromthemoon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A situation I often lose my confidence is when I am in the middle of a sentence and I can't think of a word I want to use. I have learned to say "comment dirais-je...." which allows me some time to think, or the other person to fill in my sentence.
    Thanks for the great video :) Je suis très reconnaissant.

  • @marina5d
    @marina5d 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Mon Dieu, I have all of those mental blocks 🤦‍♀️ I understand a lot when I read and listen, but I don’t have a habit to use all of those words in conversation. The other day I was telling a small story and I forgot words like “drive” and I’m already in the middle of B1. I admire people who don’t afraid to make mistakes and just talk, practice... I’m seriously thinking about moving to France for at least a year pour améliorer mon niveau de français

  • @carlyleroad
    @carlyleroad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was checking in at a hotel in Reims and managed a two sentence conversation with the man behind the counter about my reservation and the weather. He then spoke two or three sentences very quickly. I asked him "Vous me pouvez la repeter, s'il vous plait?" - he sighed deeply them said it again slowly in English but with an impatient tone! It turned out he was telling me the breakfast times, where my room was and how the parking worked but I felt so embarrassed and ashamed. I avoided him for the whole of my stay.

  • @Yellowblues3
    @Yellowblues3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I studied abroad for a semester in Aix-en-Provence. I remember that one day, when I visited the pharmacy, I couldn't find what I was looking for, which meant I'd have to ask. But I forgot the word for "toothpaste" and ended up asking for "the thing you use to brush your teeth." They understood after a while and we all chuckled about it.

  • @karoliinakaita
    @karoliinakaita 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When we had a French student - pretty small child like 10 years old - staying at our home because my children study French at school. We have had an exchange like that for several times now. Those children didn't speak English and I asked like million times for some very simple words and they patiently repeated but I felt stupid. And to be honest disappointed with my French skills. With adults you can ask 'Comment on dit a chair en francais '. With children you cannot use that as they don't speak English. Each child stayed about one week or so. Extremely stressful and extremely satisfying still. Very nice kids, we had a lot of fun. After a couple of days with the first one I found myself thinking in French at work: J'ai besoin de ... Speaking French had 'gone into my system' although I still didn't know very many words.
    All you said in the video I can assure is true, because I tried that with those kids. We went outside (winter time) and I said 'On peux faire...' and paused and the exchange student continued ' ...un bonhomme de neige'. That's exactly how it works. Deducing from the context.

  • @FrenchTwist
    @FrenchTwist 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    And..... listening online to French radio stations helps to keep ears in tune to get familiar with the language. And the music is wonderful with artists we don't hear in in the US.

    • @mrgreendot4784
      @mrgreendot4784 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Linda Weddle I learn a lot from French music actually

    • @jeffkardosjr.3825
      @jeffkardosjr.3825 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You might get AM radio from Quebec at night. AM 940 has music.

  • @davemattia
    @davemattia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I know that I can SAY anything in French, but I have to take a long route to make my point because I do not know any of the direct ways or common-speak ways. For example, if I were to describe my occupation to a French person, I would say, "I am a writer. I live in the United States and I write about horse racing for a magazine that is very popular." I do not know how to say, "I'm a horse racing writer for a well-known publication." Usually, it's far more complicated than that example." Sometimes, on your channel, I see the way you say things and they are very different from the way I would say them because you say it in real French and I say it in baby French. What's really crazy is that I learned French when I was a baby, ( my grandmother and aunts spoke it) so when I speak, I have almost no accent, but I don't know the words of a grown up person so I sound like a mentally slow person. That causes me a lot of anxiety.

    • @2002RM
      @2002RM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      "...so I sound like a mentally slow person" Haha, you are being way too harsh on yourself. But at least you made me chuckle :-)

    • @voltape
      @voltape 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@2002RM Let me try - I'm a student of French - I think I'll say: J'écris sur les courses des chevaux dans une revue très connue - Does it sound any French??

    • @ericlind6581
      @ericlind6581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve noticed in French will just break things up into short sentences or phrases. I’d just say “J’écris pour une publication. C’est très connue”.

    • @davemattia
      @davemattia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@2002RM LOL - but it's sadly true. If I had an Anglo-American accent, people would understand why I speak haltingly. But without any accent, I sound like a simpleton. People murmur, "What's wrong with him?"

    • @davemattia
      @davemattia 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Melissa Streeter Thank you - :)

  • @annsephton1258
    @annsephton1258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was recommended to your webpage by my French teacher as she thought it was so helpful and I have enjoyed it for quite a few years thank you

  • @cristinacoppola9417
    @cristinacoppola9417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would like to say that I am loving this channel and I have subscribed. I used to speak French at an intermediate level but I have been living in the UK for the past 6 years and I completely forgot the spoken part of the language. I am preparing for an interview which won't be specifically in French but it will be with a French speaking interviewee and this specific lesson is making me feel much more comfortable knowing I won't be as near as good as I used to be!

  • @truchretienne8889
    @truchretienne8889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    14:01 I paused to read the whole thing. ROTF! OMG! I can't wait to share that with my french class.

  • @johnwoodward7726
    @johnwoodward7726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These are very important tips which I greatly appreciate. The challenges also apply to me because I have a significant hearing loss and miss a lot of what is said even in English where I have to ask people to repeat what they said (in a louder voice). Je suis sourd. So - learning French is also a bigger challenge for me which I hope to have achieved before I am totally deaf and not able to hear how words are pronounced. Your lessons are wonderful and I enjoy them all.

  • @carmennunez2400
    @carmennunez2400 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the music!!

  • @robinmcgann3777
    @robinmcgann3777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't get embarrassed enough to stop speaking and making mistakes. I just laugh at myself and go on, even if I've tied myself in knots trying to get an idea across. I also think that if I like their accents in my language, they will like mine in theirs (no matter which language I'm massacring at the time :D). That's my story and I'm sticking to it. Love your channel, just found it.

  • @tomkins7382
    @tomkins7382 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I really struggle with knowing when and how to use the word "en" - like, "j'en voudrais..."
    Could you maybe explore this in another video, if you haven't already?
    Merci bien ! :)

    • @alduine7986
      @alduine7986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It kinda means “it”
      Je (ne) sais pas : I do not know
      J’en sais rien ( or je n’en sais rien ) : I know nothing ( about it, about that topic )
      Je voudrais... : I would like...
      J’en voudrais : Yes I want it too ( works as an answer to someone offering smth)
      J’en veux a quelqu’un also means I blame someone

    • @BreakingBad13
      @BreakingBad13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      There is one use for quantities :
      J'en voudrais -> I'd like some
      J'en prends -> I take some
      Tu en as ? -> Do you have some ?
      Il y en a -> There is some
      It is also used as a substitute to "about something"
      J'en ai marre -> I'm fed up about this
      J'en ai parlé -> I talked about this
      J'en rigole encore -> I'm still laughing about that
      J'en chie (vulgar) -> I'm struggling with it
      Also used like "in", "inside", "within"
      C'est en moi -> it is inside me (rare / literal)
      It could be a location (country or region) indicator :
      Je vais en Normandie ou en Hollande -> I'm going to Normandy or to the Netherland (doesn't work with cities for a reason).
      Also used to indicate a moment :
      Q : Le saumon est servi quand ? A : En entrée -> Q When will be the salmon served ? A : As an entry
      En première partie du spectacle -> In the first part of the show
      Or a transport mean :
      J'y vais en train -> I take the train (in the sense I will use the train to go there)
      J'y vais en bus -> I'm taking the bus
      Also used to indicate something that you're doing while doing something else (+ ...ant) :
      Je mange en regardant la télé -> I'm watching the TV while I'm eating
      Je me douche en chantant -> I'm singing when I take a shower
      It could be a state of someone or something :
      être en retard/to be late
      Être en joie/to be joyful (rare)
      Être en panique/to be panicking (not sure about the translation :/)
      La voiture est en panne/the car is broken
      And I'm sure I missed some.
      .....
      So yeah, it is maybe one of the most difficult word in french.

    • @clairebrowning4645
      @clairebrowning4645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      en usually means 'some' so when you say j'en voudrais = i would like some ..

    • @andro4384
      @andro4384 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Arnaud Nyme bless you

    • @9UaYXxB
      @9UaYXxB 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BreakingBad13 Very generous response, Arnaud.....many many thanks

  • @maldives00
    @maldives00 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent, UPLIFTING lesson. MANY thanx.

  • @glenysmorgan9065
    @glenysmorgan9065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I completely fall apart on the telephone in French ! Even when I ask the caller to repeat their sentence I often continue to be unable to understand them.

  • @victoriastavish4412
    @victoriastavish4412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love it! Thank you so much. Once I learned to use what I know without fear, I made a quantum leap. A beginner who was not afraid who interacted very well taught me this! I am a French major.....:-)

  • @JanetteHeffernan
    @JanetteHeffernan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I enjoyed your lesson. In France, I find speaking French almost impossible as the French want to try out their English on me. I speak wonderful English but I can never find a French person to speak English to me in railway stations. There it is French only and I am so surprised I forget "ma droite de ma gauche!" or the French attendants rattle off times and platforms and how much does it costs tres vite and I then have to work out the French numbering system and anything over 60 scares me stiff. I had to say "eighty four" in French It takes time to work out four twenties four and 1999 is even worse. Let me try mille neuf cent quatre vingt dix neuf? It was only on my fourth visit to Paris I found out I had paid much too much for my paper as when I asked how much? the price came out so fast I just did not understand. The one phrase I really needed in The Gardens of Versailles and was unable to come up with was "Cet homme me suit pastout". That is the one phrase every girl needs. I was lucky I found two young students who spoke delightful French to me as I insisted back to the Palace but I was extremely lucky as it was scary. They said I was quite good mais jsuis nul en francais! This actually is a good opening line. One day my French will get better.

  • @TMD3453
    @TMD3453 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was asking for something in the bakery "au dessous" when I meant "au dessus." People were helpful! Good thought about not only knowing the language but knowing how to use it! Merci!!

    • @wudgee
      @wudgee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dessous and dessus sound exactly the same to me, so difficult having such similar words for opposites.

    • @knucklehoagies
      @knucklehoagies 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wudgee the "ou" sound and "u" sound are completely different. "ou" sounds like the english "oo". The French "u" sound doesn't exist in english. It's more of a sharper sound that you need to tighten your lips in order to make.

  • @michelgolabaigne595
    @michelgolabaigne595 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Les phrases extrêmement importantes !!!
    MERCI Geraldine!!!
    Cela rend l'apprentissage amusant…:)

  • @yomama...isaverynicelady
    @yomama...isaverynicelady 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Merci beaucoup pour expliquer ces phrases en français! I have struggled for years to find someone who can explain how to say just these things. Youre the best! I appreciate your videos!

  • @josedosanjos2200
    @josedosanjos2200 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for that french video lesson ! Merci !!

  • @edwardkenna3744
    @edwardkenna3744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Super helpful advice, Géraldine. Merci! In general, if a friend is speaking French to me, often times they think I understand every word they’re saying. In these circumstances , their speech pattern is lightening fast, so I don’t even know where to interject the concern that I’m not understanding. I often feel pretty stupid for not being able to keep up. And when the person resorts to English, I feel even more dumb.

  • @uktanker
    @uktanker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks a lot! Really helpful. I am studying French for quite a while, but still speaking fluently in French is a challenge for me as I don't have much speaking practice. For me, mental blocking is a usual thing when I'm trying to say something in French, quite a long process and I feel myself a dummy). I think that the most scary thing for me is to talk on the phone with someone in French. It implies additional problems as there may be problems with connection, you might not hear everything clearly and it's obviously hard in this case to explain something using gestures or describing something very long. That's why I wonder if there are any useful tricks for phone conversation except asking a person to contact you via email). Thanks !

  • @martinwright4125
    @martinwright4125 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    madam, you are so kind and disarming, and in my book, that makes you a treasured and valued teacher. thank you for helping.

  • @rapfr2037
    @rapfr2037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    je suis français, c'est ma langue maternelle, et je m'exprime (j'espère) déjà très bien à l'oral, mais je reste fasciné par la qualité de la prononciation de Géraldine.
    Lorsqu'elle parle et qu'elle articule, autant en anglais qu'en français, c'est une musique pour mes oreilles :)
    Merci pour ces vidéos, c'est un vrai plaisir de les voir / les revoir.
    Et moi ça m'aide avec la prononciation anglaise.

  • @arnievolatina7044
    @arnievolatina7044 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bonsoir Madam
    Merci Beaucoup pour tout le videos.
    Thanks a lot my sweet teacher, God bless you forever 🙏

  • @davidirvine6387
    @davidirvine6387 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mme Lepere, I just finished making 15 flash cards of your 15 expressions, as a warm-up for your 30-day course to begin tomorrow! Merci beaucoup!

  • @DillonJoseph
    @DillonJoseph 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Where I keep making mistakes in French is putting all the small words together,
    "Je ne souviens plus" Au lieu de -> "Je ne ME souviens plus".

  • @derekplaster
    @derekplaster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As someone who has worked with many different nationalities, I personally love these “embarrassing” moments. I was once trying to explain that I really liked a musician from England to one of my Mexican coworkers in Spanish and could not remember how to say it in Spanish. I tried describing the location and still no luck hahaha. Knowing the languages are very similar I used the French word instead and we were able to figure it out. True this only helps in limited scenarios but it worked so 🤷‍♂️ why not lol

  • @CristianeLira
    @CristianeLira 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    J'étais à Paris et je voulais à emporter un café au lait à ma mère, qui se reposait à l'hôtel. Je ne savais pas comment demander et j'ai essayé de parler de la même manière que nous parlons en portugais (Brésil): je voudrais un café au lait ... "voyageant"? La réponse était: oui, bien sûr, un café au lait voyageant (et elle agita les bras comme des ailes). Après la blague, elle m'a appris à parler correctement: un café au lait à emporter. Je n'étais pas fâché. Ici, on dit généralement "je perds mon ami, mais je ne perds pas la blague".

    • @anthonythompson5959
      @anthonythompson5959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha! C’est tellement drôle! Je ne pouvais pas m’empêcher de rire!

    • @CristianeLira
      @CristianeLira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anthonythompson5959 😄😄😄

  • @Liflecken
    @Liflecken 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Salut, Geraldine! Cette lesson est très intéressante!

  • @rmacapobre
    @rmacapobre 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    c'est tres utile .. mil merci

  • @rushdialrashed9627
    @rushdialrashed9627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The number 1 problem with French is the amount of the unpronounced letters ! U go like : blah blah blah and I go like : huh? What ? Then u write it and I am like : oh! Ok. That’s easy! 😱

  • @christineallen9013
    @christineallen9013 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I find it difficult when at the reception of a clinic at the hospital. I have been learning French for some time and find that speaking to a stranger who speaks very fast I get completely lost and forget the most basic words in reply. This lesson is very helpful, thank you

  • @bluemoon1033
    @bluemoon1033 ปีที่แล้ว

    Merci I am taking notes 😊

  • @mpjhoppins
    @mpjhoppins 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Merci beaucoup! 👍

  • @mybp5
    @mybp5 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    J’adore votre manière enseigner! Merci merci merci beaucoup pour votres vidéos!

  • @grc7759
    @grc7759 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dear Géradine, thank you for your video! This has been so helpful. And I have a story to share:
    I remember a slightly embarrassing and funny situation. Once, I was introduced for the first time to a newly moved in french housemate (his mum was there too). I was a little nervous and a little eager to practice my french. However, at the introduction, instead of asking him « comment tu t'appelle ? » I said to him « comment il s'appelle ? » In my head, I was probably thinking to myself in english "what is this new guy's name" so then arrived at the wrong form of the question. At the instance though, he froze for a little bit and thought I was asking about his mother at first meeting!!!
    I feel quite embarrassed, but only for a little while. It was in fact rather funny actually :)

    • @armoricain
      @armoricain 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But you know what, Grc?... the way you asked the question wasn't totally wrong because sometimes when you aren't sure whether you can "tutoyer" or have to "vouvoyer" somebody, it is a clever, albeit rare, way of making sure you are not going to offend the person you are talking to.

  • @maxdminimalist715
    @maxdminimalist715 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bonjour Geraldine
    Your videos are so informative and welcomed. I had an embarrassing moment en vacance in DR. A woman was complimenting my baby and asked her name. I did not understand and she looked at me like I was stupid because I said I could speak French une peu. My comprehension skills are even worse than my speaking skills which are minimal at best.

  • @Antoniathinks
    @Antoniathinks 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so grateful to find your lessons!! Wow, very very helpful!!! Je vous remercier, Geraldine!!! J’habite en le Languedoc-Roussillon et le Françoise ici en peux different comme l’autre dans l’ecole. On doix pronouncer the é au fin des mots et aussi temps du temps en g sûr loins et mots qui se fins avec -ions.

  • @cafiend
    @cafiend 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Merci.

  • @ericlind6581
    @ericlind6581 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I lived in the South of France, I used to just have a lot of fun cause I didn’t care about making mistakes. So I would just chit chat through every situation like “Excusez-moi, je voudrais trois de....uhhh quel est le mot en Français, ...merde qu’est-ce qu’on dit pour ça, c’est comme chop chop....” then the lady would laugh and say “tranches!” and I’d say “Oui!! Trois tranches de jambon s’il vous plaît!” Just have fun, learn those little chit chat phrases to keep fluidity in the conversation and laugh at learning!! The chit chat phrases like “quel est le mot en Français”, “qu’est-ce qu’on dit”, “c’est quoi ça”, “comment dit-on”, “c’est à dire”, “quelle est l’expression pour”, “on peut dire ça en français” , etc all help to just keep the conversation flowing and you will appear to be speaking while learning!

  • @deidreifill1166
    @deidreifill1166 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I studied French for a number of years when I was a student, but have not practiced speaking in many, many years. This past November, I met a woman from the Czech Republic who spoke 5 languages, including French and English. Because she didn't speak English well, we conversed in French...which I know didn't speak well enough. She understood a lot of what I said and I understood much of what she said. At that moment, I wished I had kept up with practicing French; I would have been much more comfortable.

  • @solotrippin09
    @solotrippin09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was in New Caledonia for a vacation and I had all the 3 problems listed in the video haha

  • @BTheTrue
    @BTheTrue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    When I'm talking to my friend's bilingual children and they look at me like I'm crazy and then they switch to English to speak to me. .
    Confidence GONE! 🤦‍♀️

    • @yulianaecheverripineda7214
      @yulianaecheverripineda7214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Children are rude and selfish. Do not worry! Keep on with what you've done so far.

    • @BTheTrue
      @BTheTrue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What?!
      No! Most Children are lovely!
      My friends kids are not rude at all...
      I was just being silly with them...
      Thanks for the support though . x

    • @da96103
      @da96103 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tell them, aujourd’hui nous parlons en français. Demain, nous parlons en anglais. (Please read the 2nd sentence in future tense) parlerais?

    • @ThorASic
      @ThorASic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Voici ce qu'il faut faire. Vous souriez de joie et vous vous exclamez "Vous parlez anglais!" And then you start talking like this as fast as you can get the words out:
      _I gather from the way you transitioned to my preferred method of locution that my French aptitude may necessitate some edification. It would seem apparent, however, that this approach would only serve to hinder my progress, however deliberate. Nevertheless if this represents your preferred method of communication, so be it._
      _So to revisit my original interrogative, could you please elucidate an expeditious means of conveyance to the most renowned collection of art and antiquities in Paris?_

      Pause and wait like you expect an answer. There will likely be a look of confusion and terror. If they don't switch back to French, keep using the most esoteric words in your English vocabulary. When you start to feel bad for them, smile and say "On peut parler français si vous voulez"

    • @BTheTrue
      @BTheTrue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ThorASic 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      Savage!!!!!!!!
      That would work!!!!!!!!!!

  • @CedricSantizo
    @CedricSantizo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This helps a lot!!! Merci!

  • @shirajilav
    @shirajilav 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Merci beaucoup mademoiselle for giving such useful tips.

  • @sketchur
    @sketchur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I really needed this video, and I also love how you pronounce "vocabulary !" 😁

  • @rorymacgregor2084
    @rorymacgregor2084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My biggest issue with speaking french in pronunciation of words. Because my first language is English, my brain brain wants to pronounce every letter, lol

  • @jinushaun
    @jinushaun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I often feel very rushed in Paris, especially in certain restaurants and certain vendors in a street market. I guilty because there is a long line behind me in the store.

  • @marvinraphaelmonfort8289
    @marvinraphaelmonfort8289 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    j'aime l'ordinateur mini avec "comme une français" =]

  • @lauraday3163
    @lauraday3163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had a francophone patient that I needed to switch to a different bed in the emergency room. I walked in and introduced myself like normal. When he said he only speaks French, I thought, "yes! Practice!" Then I promptly forgot the word for bed (un lit, but the best I could do was un livre, which I didn't say out loud because it was obviously a book, not a bed)... I ended up muddling through with English and hand signals and didn't say anything in French.
    Reflecting on it later, if that happened again, I would start the conversation over when I realized the conversation needed to switch to French, something like this:
    (Patient) "Sorry, I only speak French"
    (Me)"Oh! Je parle un petit peu. Je m'appelle Laura et nous voulons vous changer à un autre lit. Ça va?"
    That probably has mistakes because I didn't double check myself (as I wouldn't be able to in the moment). And that's the point, giving my brain a moment of backtracking to where I'm solid in French would give it time to switch tracks and remember stuff I need, perhaps even, "j'ai oublié le mot pour..." 😄

    • @da96103
      @da96103 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think you should always start with je m’appelle... It is the first thing everyone learns and puts you in the French mode.

  • @polyanna025
    @polyanna025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bonjour! Je vous remercie pour cette video! Pour répondre à la dernière question: j'ai des difficultés et je m'inquiète quand je fais un appel téléphonique et la personne ou moi-même ne comprennons rien. C'est plus compliqué dans le cas où on ne peuvent pas regarder les gestes des autres.

  • @roulanasri4156
    @roulanasri4156 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bonjour, first I would like to thank you for your way in explaining how to speak French, the most embarrassing situation happens to me with the securite soicale, and the bank, asking about some information . Would you please talk about these issues . thanks a lot

  • @afindisfamily1730
    @afindisfamily1730 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Merci bien

  • @CraigDG
    @CraigDG 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Merci pour une autre superbe lecon.

  • @chamathariyasinghe9226
    @chamathariyasinghe9226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such a lovely video. Thanks Geraldine...I think this will really help bluff my way through tricky situations. 💓

  • @katherinemarsh784
    @katherinemarsh784 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bonjour Geraldine. Pas tired. Bonne apres midi. : ) Katherine MARSH

  • @suewright1299
    @suewright1299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Merci beaucoup, vous êtes magnifique!

  • @ladyautonauta
    @ladyautonauta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Merci beaucoup! ❤️

  • @dhesg8561
    @dhesg8561 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. Such a huge help. Those were my fears that stop me from having conversation with French native.

  • @Kianglekable
    @Kianglekable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I suppose one has to be "authentic and sincere" with one's approach to people, taking into account regional social customs and taboos
    Generally people will be patient with you if they like you
    Once we've established that, the improvements would come gradually
    There's no need to "impress"

  • @basheerrazamisbahi3423
    @basheerrazamisbahi3423 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    cetait tres utile mademoiselle .bisous de l'inde

  • @maxotat
    @maxotat ปีที่แล้ว

    Merci pour cette leçon. Vous avez presenté une question: “What is a specific example of when you feel foolish speaking French?” Pour moi, j’ai découvert que je peux parler bien, je peux prononce très bien certaines phrases. Par example, “Bonjour, comment ça vas; ça vas bien?” et “Je voudrais deux croissants, s’il vous plaît.” Mais depuis la personne française pense que je peux parler la langue très bien, alors elle parle rapidement et je ne comprends pas du tout. Ainsi, j’oublie touts les mots, je ne me souvenir pas du tout! Je ne peux pas comprends et je ne peux pas parler. En lyçee mon professeur expected that we pronounce everything very well, so I learned to do that; but I didn’t learn how to converse or comprehend well at all. C’est si embarrassant. Maintenant, je suis une femme vielle. J’aime toujours la langue française, et j’étudie chaque jour, mais quand j’attends un groupe conversationnel, I freeze!
    (Excusez-moi pour les erreurs.)

  • @MyHowHowHow
    @MyHowHowHow 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your excellent video!. Something you might want to check out: I can hear static with headphones, maybe it is the mic you are using.

  • @moonshynegirl172
    @moonshynegirl172 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like I found my lucky star today in discovering your videos.

  • @gabrielbiniam7900
    @gabrielbiniam7900 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good!

  • @lisawhite1548
    @lisawhite1548 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    We tried ordering a dozen donuts at duncan donuts in Quebec, they spoke no English. Of course we were in the drive through and we said une douzaine donuts please. Everyone on the other end laughed out loud it was very funny because I hadn't had any French practice since high school, we just repeated it again and laughed along with them. It is a great and funny memory of our trip.

  • @clivebennett8103
    @clivebennett8103 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The most common situations for me are phone calls. Often the speech is very quick and there is no personal or visual contact to get hints from. All you can do is ask for a repeat and if there is an accent issue too, it can be pretty difficult. This seems to happen even if you know what the subject is - e.g. booking or cancelling a restaurant table. :-(

  • @melitakyriakou399
    @melitakyriakou399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is SO helpful. And you are so cute! I love your channel.

  • @nancyyingling3744
    @nancyyingling3744 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mercibeaucoup. j'aime ce video.

  • @suninmoon4601
    @suninmoon4601 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super encouraging lesson ☺ You reiterate several times how difficult it is to learn French 🤔 Is this a French conceit? I suspect that, given sufficient time, learning to SPEAK French is no more difficult than any other language. Leaning to read and write French, however, is another matter entirely!
    Not trolling, but French seems to be an excessively self-conscious language with a grammar that signifies more than its meaning 🤷‍♂

  • @zhanwang9814
    @zhanwang9814 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video

  • @Matt-uu9lz
    @Matt-uu9lz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so my french friend hyped up the fact that i studied french for 5 years in the past to his mom.. but i havent used it in 3 years, and in the past 3 years, ive picked up a different language, so that grammar has been in my head. obviously im trying to get back into french now. anyways, what happened was, she asked me a question, and i totally gave an answer that had nothing to do with the question :( how would i recover from that ? merci beaucoup!

  • @jclark9176
    @jclark9176 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bonjour! I just discovered your videos and they are wonderful. I am beginning French using both Duolingo and Memrise. I would like to view all your videos starting with the BEGINNING and viewing in order. How do I find your first videos and view in succession?

  • @dollysharma9946
    @dollysharma9946 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When people in front of me speak more fast than me, I forget all the things I know how to speak, specifically the fear blanks me out, however I understand almost all what they speak but can't utter anything.

  • @FelipeVime
    @FelipeVime 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm scared about speaking in french when I'm actually in front of a French person... I don't understand them clearly and I immediately feel they won't understand me either. I've studied french through Duolingo only for a year :(

    • @ivantellez9217
      @ivantellez9217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @MirrorSpiritus that's not encouraging. I'm trying to learn the French language by listen music radio TH-cam's etc

    • @jonnyr5049
      @jonnyr5049 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Juan I Mendoza that’s the one of the best ways to learn a language! I use French you tubers such as Cyprien or squeezie to learn French more fluently

  • @sugarfree1894
    @sugarfree1894 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was in the butcher's in Paris. I had just learned the French word for frying pan and wanted to practice using it. As the butcher gave me the steak, I asked "Est-ce que je peu le cuisiner a poile?" He replied, "Madame, vous pouvez le cuisiner comme vous voulez."
    Frying pan = poele.
    Butt naked = a poile.

  •  4 ปีที่แล้ว

    French complaining about some letters not being pronounced :-D That made my day!

  •  4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't know/forgot some word in French? Just say and mutilate the word in English and you'll be fine :)
    Just yesterday we were talking about food and I was supposed to say shrimp and oyster and of course I didn't know it (they were not in the vocabulary), so I tried them in English and it worked! :o))

  • @rickjenkins6127
    @rickjenkins6127 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My first trip to a french City was Noumea in NC. I needed to buy a telephone card (Pre Iphones etc) I practiced the french I needed to purchase the card. Unfortunately, I didn't imagine what the answer might be or how to answer correctly when they replied. So I stood there with a stupid look on my face until the assistant realised I could not really speak french and answered me in English. I was very embarrassed. Twenty years down the track and I am still not there but still trying.

  • @danielmugambi1019
    @danielmugambi1019 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have a problem... I know how to write but its a bit tricky speaking. .. I form a sentence in my head but get confused when delivering the speech

  • @camelopardalus
    @camelopardalus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I feel embarrassed when I use the wrong article - "le" for "la" or "une" for "un" - and make like gender errors with modifiers.

    • @jennahmirrim3787
      @jennahmirrim3787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I found out that most French are guessing some times for the articles too.

    • @filipo9093
      @filipo9093 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Even French people sometimes use the wrong gender for a word : ask a French person which article to use with : aparté, astérisque, après-midi,... and so on

    • @rmacapobre
      @rmacapobre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      c'est fun quand un mot est feminin en francais et masculin en espagnol par exemple. la voiture = el coche .. le lit = la cama. je suppose que ca depends aussi sur les langues on parle deja .. et puis en anglais il n'y a pas le gender.. the car. the bed

    • @vanouille3444
      @vanouille3444 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nous aussi ça nous arrive de nous tromper, surtout sur des mots qu'on utilise pas souvent, t'inquiète pas pour ça ;)

    • @autumn_of_thought
      @autumn_of_thought 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I sometimes say "n' ", "l' ", "d' " etc as a sort of contraction to cover up any potential embarrassment haha.

  • @katparent8783
    @katparent8783 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ça m'arrive souvent que je parle avec mes collègues ou mon gérant, et elles me demandent de me répéter. Ça ce peut qu'elles me n'avaient pas entendu, mais ça me donne l'impression que je l'ai mal dit (soit avec vocabulaire, grammaire ou prononciation) et je me répète en englais pour être sûre qu'elles me comprendent. Surtout parce que je vie au Québec et mon ville est divisé également en des anglophones et des francophones, alors je me doute si le mot que j'ai dit est un vrai mot en français or une anglicisme

  • @RosemaryN
    @RosemaryN 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was taught ‘comment dit-on ____en français ?’ . Is the inversion no longer used?

  • @Awesomekid2283
    @Awesomekid2283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Je souhaite que je l'aie vu avant mon voyage en France… Je crois bien que les français avec qui je restais n'avaient aucune idée ce que je disais !

  • @meghancroft6689
    @meghancroft6689 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need to rewatch this video a couple times so I remember these phrases

  • @EG-sd4ss
    @EG-sd4ss 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Geraldine, vous êtes très fantastique. J'adore votre videos! Je suis American, et le veux vous dire que je simplement lutte- struggle- a comprendre "spoken" français tout le temps. J'écoute d'habitude la radio Parisienne qui joue la musique française - Chante France ou M Radio, mais je ne peux comprendre que les concepts dans leur intégralité générales, mais pas en details, ce si est parle des informations météorologique, les nouvelles, ou de la publicité. Je ne peux avoir seulement que d'une idée plus générale.... Je me sent souvent très stupide! Qu'est-ce que vous pensez je dois faire pour améliorer ma compression de la langue et pour éliminer mon problème? Je vous en priez! Je voudrais vous remercier grandement votre aide! Merci! Ed G.

  • @bijoymgeorge
    @bijoymgeorge 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Une fois, quand j'etais au Quebec, j'ai demandé la route aux Etats-Unis à la poste d'essence. . Je n'ai pas bien compris les directionnes, mais j'ai fait l'erreur de ne pas lui demander à répéter. J'ai pris une route mauvaise e perdu beaucoup de temps. C'etait une désastre.

  • @Magpiecheek
    @Magpiecheek 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Still very much a beginning French learner, but I'm fluent in Spanish. "Un" is frustrating me right now because my instinct is to say "un" like you would in Spanish. "Une" is easy, though.

  • @katherinemarsh784
    @katherinemarsh784 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pas panic. Pas situation/scenario. Pas de problem.

  • @sintraoliviadukecordier2432
    @sintraoliviadukecordier2432 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am in Costa Rica and I speak fairly well but when I forget a word of an object i am looking for I bring up a picture of it on my phone... Google it and ask for images... It works everytime and they say oh a.... and tell me the word and rhey relax.

  • @buckrogers5331
    @buckrogers5331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Btw, is that Minitel in the background working?

  • @lordrosco5985
    @lordrosco5985 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bonsoir Géraldine:) Je sais français, mais… when I am upset about something or angry, I instinctively speak in English. Also, most french people
    When I am upset or angry I instinctively speak in English.
    Also, the French people that I speak with often always most of the time speak to me in English and every now and then in French.
    I had lived and traveled through France and I still immediately speak in English even though I understand them. Basically, I want to organically speak
    in French without a thought.

    • @katparent8783
      @katparent8783 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Find yourself a situation where you need to speak French, one where English is not acceptable. For example you can do this by telling your French friends/coworkers that you want to improve and they should not speak to you if you don't reply in French. The way I improved the most in French is through my work because my superiors only speak French. Throughout time my vocabulary improved because it was necessary for it and now I instinctively go to French when speaking to people of authority, when defending or explaining a mistake, or when I want to be heard or taken more seriously, since that is what I would need French the most for while at work. By creating this context of 'this is when we speak French', your mind will adapt and help you out

    • @BreakingBad13
      @BreakingBad13 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pourquoi tu ne demandes pas aux français de te répondre en français ? Si tu leur expliques que tu souhaites apprendre ça ne les embêtera pas.