Everything Jess puts up on this channel has been helpful since day one, and from the look of things i can't imagine how much she's still got in her to offer you know. Much Love
Bro don't feel sorry for yourself for getting friendzoned. Come in direct with your intentions and if she isn't on the same page move on. But don't come in covert.
Thank you ma, this is exactly the kind of message I have been waiting for. This is exactly my girlfriend, and I have been wondering why she is pulling back from me, but with the help of some of your other videos, I am winning little by little.
this came at a perfect time. i just said something too intimate-focused to this girl i'm talking to and she always withdraws when i do something like that. i've realised that now. i'm gonna speak to her in a completely different manner now to show her i understand her and want her to feel safe. im actually the same with a lot of people, especially family. ive realised im semi-avoidant leaning into secure, depending on the person in my life. can be daunting and overwhelming. lets see if we can make this work
I started dating a woman a few weeks ago and I think that this is her issue. She is quite beautiful with no makeup, she doesn't make the effort to look attractive and I would most most men don't give her the attention they would if she presented herself different. I however always look to see an attractive woman without makeup so when we wake up together in the morning, we find each other attractive. I think she is hurt from her previous marriage or relationship and is hard to break open. I have been doing what you stated in this video naturally, but your tips are SPOT ON!!! Prove yourself by actions, not words. If you know how it hurts to be betrayed, then you should also understand what she feels betrayed but probably more than you. Build that connection slowly and with actions, she will have to learn to trust you or anyone for that matter
This video came at the perfect time for me. This is exactly what I need for my current situation. Thanks Jessica you are truly a blessing for our men.❤
Thank you alot Jessica . It seems you have a vision with my same current situation and this video has really opened my eyes now. I need to work on being patient with her now.
Thanks for this wonderful video. I’m talking to someone who is like this, and it’s nice to know that I can reach them in a way that suits their unique personality.
Thanks Jess, perfect timing but me now am tired even unknowingly how to term it I have been trying to get along with my person but it's too much draining am tired, think they need time or someone else who can withstand such instability, someone who is always making you feel like your playing devil's advocate, it's crazy to handle these kind of people, been with this one for some time, I give up, I have done my best, you rather get where your energy is matched and replicated, not always trying to be the one to clean up someone's mess because they're too afraid to let themselves just enjoy life for what it is... am done friends but thanks for the video at least I know it's not only me who been in this!
Jess what you are highlight it is 100% correct sometimes a partner can always be scared or have fears on a new relationship after a bad past experience but I believe it's important to take it slow until a solid trust is gained that's where I am on a 2 month old relationship yet I'm at 1000 mile away but from now onwards I'm going to be more closer than ever before
By the time realized she is FA, she already broke up with me 4times. Now it is 5months and seems final. She offered to be friends and I declined because of my romantic interests in her. In another video you recommended to be be friends with your Ex to eventually rekindle. I don’t know about that. I also don’t know if I should try the friends route to see where it leads but I do boot want to be stuck in a friend zone that is full of emotional draining hurt
Spent 10 years with an FA. Do not learn hot to love them. They need to learn how to love like a normal person and will likely need help to get there if possible. These people are basically narcissist-lite and can devour a normal person and turn them anxious or worse. Please don’t hurt yourself by wasting time loving an avoidant.
@@SecretMarsupial Fearful Avoidant is more like a borderline or codependent. Avoidant is more likely to be narcissistic. Either way, just run for the hills.
Basically put on some special kid gloves. Never expect anything in return. Don't give too much nor too little. Only to find out they've put the trust you've been slowly building on a life-line by not being able to control their own emotion, jumping for an easy 15 minute fling just to see if you'd stay. For the love of god, don't do this to yourselves. An avoidant will make you feel like you could be the one, and then they disregard you like you never meant anything.
Hey Jessica, I hope your day is going great! I just wanted to ask if you have a video on how to make a woman fall in love without having to say “I love you” or using any other sweet talk. I’ve seen a lot of people do this, and it works for them every time, but I’m yet to understand how to do it like they do. If you do make a video, could you let me know the title so it’s easier for me to find?
Hey my friend...go.and ask those ppl how they do it! Instead of you to focused ur entire life on growth and grind to the best POINTS to attract her....u busy looking for someone to fall in love with you " while" u look dirty and un attractive ....I don't kn when u ppl will grow up!
@ who says I was doing it to attract someone? I’m doing it for research purposes . I’m trying to study why women do the things Dey do, the complexities in them.
Typically these type of issues are never resolved with women. Don't waste your time and resources on these women. It will be a hellacious roller coaster ride. Up and down. Down and up. You'll look around one day and realize you've wasted all this time. This will be for the entire length of the relationship. Relationships are difficult as they are. Believe me. I've been in two of these type relationships. Neither are healed and neither have kept a relationship.
Love em then leave em. They always seem to eventually come back when they realize the grass isn't greener. And when they come back. Don't make the same mistakes. Make sure their return is on ur terms. Or you'll be back at square one. Lol
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Everything Jess puts up on this channel has been helpful since day one, and from the look of things i can't imagine how much she's still got in her to offer you know. Much Love
Actually, I'm done saving lives and they decide to throw it to someone else while I remain just a friend with no feelings for me in return
@WilliamZ92 I couldn't had said it better.
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Bro don't feel sorry for yourself for getting friendzoned. Come in direct with your intentions and if she isn't on the same page move on. But don't come in covert.
Thank you ma, this is exactly the kind of message I have been waiting for.
This is exactly my girlfriend, and I have been wondering why she is pulling back from me, but with the help of some of your other videos, I am winning little by little.
Thanks Jessica O's 😊
this came at a perfect time. i just said something too intimate-focused to this girl i'm talking to and she always withdraws when i do something like that. i've realised that now. i'm gonna speak to her in a completely different manner now to show her i understand her and want her to feel safe. im actually the same with a lot of people, especially family. ive realised im semi-avoidant leaning into secure, depending on the person in my life. can be daunting and overwhelming. lets see if we can make this work
I started dating a woman a few weeks ago and I think that this is her issue. She is quite beautiful with no makeup, she doesn't make the effort to look attractive and I would most most men don't give her the attention they would if she presented herself different. I however always look to see an attractive woman without makeup so when we wake up together in the morning, we find each other attractive. I think she is hurt from her previous marriage or relationship and is hard to break open. I have been doing what you stated in this video naturally, but your tips are SPOT ON!!! Prove yourself by actions, not words. If you know how it hurts to be betrayed, then you should also understand what she feels betrayed but probably more than you. Build that connection slowly and with actions, she will have to learn to trust you or anyone for that matter
This video came at the perfect time for me. This is exactly what I need for my current situation. Thanks Jessica you are truly a blessing for our men.❤
Thank you for seeing both sides of things. Right around the end of the video!!!!
This emotional healing for me . Thank you so much Jassy
Thank you alot Jessica . It seems you have a vision with my same current situation and this video has really opened my eyes now. I need to work on being patient with her now.
Fantastic topic!
Thanks for this wonderful video. I’m talking to someone who is like this, and it’s nice to know that I can reach them in a way that suits their unique personality.
I SO NEEDED THIS RIGHT NOW! Thank you!
Thanks Jess, perfect timing but me now am tired even unknowingly how to term it I have been trying to get along with my person but it's too much draining am tired, think they need time or someone else who can withstand such instability, someone who is always making you feel like your playing devil's advocate, it's crazy to handle these kind of people, been with this one for some time, I give up, I have done my best, you rather get where your energy is matched and replicated, not always trying to be the one to clean up someone's mess because they're too afraid to let themselves just enjoy life for what it is... am done friends but thanks for the video at least I know it's not only me who been in this!
This video was super helpful thanks for uploading 🙏🏾
Been looking at a lot of your videos lately! Definitely appreciate the advice!!
Glad it's helping! 🙏
Another Zinger!🎉❤Thanks Jess
Jess what you are highlight it is 100% correct sometimes a partner can always be scared or have fears on a new relationship after a bad past experience but I believe it's important to take it slow until a solid trust is gained that's where I am on a 2 month old relationship yet I'm at 1000 mile away but from now onwards I'm going to be more closer than ever before
Very helpful video. Thank you for all the great content you put out.
Jessica I needed this info 3 months ago. Dang.
ooops! Better late than never
Wow. Jessica, you’re on target. I just recently experienced this. I cannot believe how on time with your strategic commentary!!!❤❤❤
I'm glad this resonated with you! 💕
@ in this season in my life, it seems like you’re taking directly to me. Thanks again. Jermane Enoch💕
By the time realized she is FA, she already broke up with me 4times. Now it is 5months and seems final. She offered to be friends and I declined because of my romantic interests in her. In another video you recommended to be be friends with your Ex to eventually rekindle. I don’t know about that. I also don’t know if I should try the friends route to see where it leads but I do boot want to be stuck in a friend zone that is full of emotional draining hurt
This video is very helpful
Thank you 🤝 very much for this.
Great Video
Thanks for the advice.
Exactly 💯% behind. from these words .. .. 👏🏽. thanks Jessica
Another great advice ❤from amazing women on point 🙏
I'm so grateful to the universe and to you Jessica Os for coming across this video it has helped me a lot, God bless you Ma❤❤❤
I'm so glad it helped! 🙏
Loved this video,thank you my lovely early bird 🐦 I'll stick around for you always x
Spent 10 years with an FA. Do not learn hot to love them. They need to learn how to love like a normal person and will likely need help to get there if possible.
These people are basically narcissist-lite and can devour a normal person and turn them anxious or worse.
Please don’t hurt yourself by wasting time loving an avoidant.
This
@@SecretMarsupial Fearful Avoidant is more like a borderline or codependent. Avoidant is more likely to be narcissistic. Either way, just run for the hills.
True, closeness can hurt
Fricking love your voice.
awww! thank you kindly
Good video by the way.
Basically put on some special kid gloves. Never expect anything in return. Don't give too much nor too little. Only to find out they've put the trust you've been slowly building on a life-line by not being able to control their own emotion, jumping for an easy 15 minute fling just to see if you'd stay. For the love of god, don't do this to yourselves. An avoidant will make you feel like you could be the one, and then they disregard you like you never meant anything.
Thank you!
This why a lot of guys avoid the divorced women and single mothers. I think women should just deal with their issues before getting back to dating
Seems like you know my current situation, been asking whether all this stress is it worth it….
I feel you. There's those good times that makes it feel like it is, and crappy times where you wonder why you're putting yourself through it
I used to think Appolonia Ponti was good until I met Jessica. Jessy you are inbuilt smart , brilliant......
Oh my !
Appolonia is a great woman. i'm a fan
I need this
Us men go through the same thing, trust me I deal with it.. it's y I been single so long.. well 1 reason..
Spot on
My thoughts and actions exactly
Incredible revelations
What's up with these ladies actually expecting to be saved? You're either easy going and pleasant or out you go 🤣
Hey Jessica, I hope your day is going great! I just wanted to ask if you have a video on how to make a woman fall in love without having to say “I love you” or using any other sweet talk. I’ve seen a lot of people do this, and it works for them every time, but I’m yet to understand how to do it like they do. If you do make a video, could you let me know the title so it’s easier for me to find?
Hey my friend...go.and ask those ppl how they do it! Instead of you to focused ur entire life on growth and grind to the best POINTS to attract her....u busy looking for someone to fall in love with you " while" u look dirty and un attractive ....I don't kn when u ppl will grow up!
@ who says I was doing it to attract someone? I’m doing it for research purposes . I’m trying to study why women do the things Dey do, the complexities in them.
Love and caring because women never what u tell them so say something good to her
First thanks a lot for this content, but unfortunately I distroy my love with that kind ok woman. It's my time to rebuild the relationship. Thanks
How about normal or usual text messages? How does one handle that?
Typically these type of issues are never resolved with women. Don't waste your time and resources on these women. It will be a hellacious roller coaster ride. Up and down. Down and up. You'll look around one day and realize you've wasted all this time. This will be for the entire length of the relationship. Relationships are difficult as they are. Believe me. I've been in two of these type relationships. Neither are healed and neither have kept a relationship.
i have been left on read since Saturday, what do I do?
Please help
What if the person who you have trust was your cheating husband? He says he wants to repair the marriage but does nothing but talk? What do I do then?
Run from avoidant. Date or marry them if you're ok being confused
nah supporting avoidant people is a miserable experience and you will jsut collect your own baggage. Best to avoid avoidant people.
As a guy I'm also like this
Imagine wanting to deal with all this nonsense?!
I'll pass.
What If she is A-sexual , fearful Avoidant, ptsd etc ?
🎉 hahahahahaha, perfect communication
Love em then leave em. They always seem to eventually come back when they realize the grass isn't greener. And when they come back. Don't make the same mistakes. Make sure their return is on ur terms. Or you'll be back at square one. Lol
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