I'm beginning to see what Kandi saw in Todd. Ya'll this is a calm dude with a HEAD on his shoulder. Did u guys see how he expressed himself so calmly about real issues affecting his family? GOOD COMMUNICATION! Now, that's a catch!
Absolutely! He is definitely not in this for the money; even when he explained why he started doing so many businesses at a fast pace, because he felt like he had to prove something to her mom and the world because everyone just looked at him as a gold Diggin man. Like he stated, he had a career before Kandi and stopped working that career because Kandi didn’t like him doing all of that traveling. He even talked about how he isn’t truly happy doing all of the things he is currently doing, but he does them so that he can bring him money so he doesn’t look like a deadbeat because he doesn’t make the money she makes.
Ace Lee Some men are loud on camera and not just on RHOA . Emotions get the best of some people and sometimes regardless of the surroundings, people lose their cool. Never seen Todd talk crazy to Kandi and doubt Kandi would deal with a man like that.
Todd is such an intelligent man, Kandi has a gem on her hands, she needs to realise what she's got before it's too late. Most of our black men don't have the emotional intelligence to articulate their feelings the way Todd does, wow, total respect from a black woman.
Yes Todd does. However, I must say that a lot of black men are capable of this type of communication. I happen to know this growing up. I don't base my view on their behavior based on what I see on TV.
Todd ain’t wrong! I think this is what your daughter was referring to when she said you shouldn’t bring another child into this world. I love you Kandi, I love your hustle but you can’t do it all and that’s ok.
Riley was right . Kandi doesn't have time. I see why she said that now . Lord help they have too little one's. I love them but they have kids involved now that changes everything. They didn't need any kids if there career's meant more than children they should've kept it like it was . No kids amd then they could've did them and have there marriage set the way they wanted it go . All about the money and go e all the time . They we're doing this before kids . So it's not like we have to do this for the kids because they've been that way . Excuses. I pray they get it together for them babies and 🙏they make it
I like Todd for Kandi. He’s very laid back & chill. And I love how he’s approachable and can have dialogue w/her maturely, even when he’s upset about something.
Tara Anthony Or Kandi can include her husband and/or kids in anything else she does. Like if it’s a fundraiser dinner, invite him. Or do something right after... like dinner with him and kids.
Kandi, I felt this in my soul, I served in the military for 21 years, my husband had to take on an “untraditional” role. I’ve deployed multiples times, but even when I wasn’t deployed, I put my career ahead of my family, working 12-14 hour days, trying to balance them both was a struggle. My decisions caused me to almost lose my family. Now that I’m retired, I see what my husband was saying for so many years... Slow down Kandi, enjoy these moments, because you’ll never get that time back. Love you two together!!
If they were to divorce today (many prayers that they don't🙏🏿), no judge on this planet wouldn't give Todd full custody. Kandi, needs to slow down. I hope I'm wrong, but it seems that he's making a public documentary case that he is the Primary Caregiver in which he is. Gone 10 weeks, she has the finance to not only take her kids with her, but to also take a full staff. Look Ace can do a trade off, do homeschool in order to see his Mom. Riley can fly out on weekends. You better watch out Kandi, because this seems like a no brainer. I love their relationship and especially Todd. However, I've seen this scenario play out a many of times in favor of the parent that is with the children over 50% of the time.
Props to Todd as a black man sacrificing and putting his goal aside to support his family. He dealt with a lot of slack but he's obviously a good dude and a family man that loves his wife. I just want to take time to honor that. Beautiful family!!! #blacklove
He’s getting props for doing what he’s supposed to as a father? Lol the bar is set so low it’s ridiculous. If the roles were reversed would Kandi get props for being a stay at home mom?
I’m glad Todd spoke his truth. Kandi you’re my girl, but take heed to how your husband feels. Also, don’t forget what Dr Jackie went through. Her husband told her the same thing and she didn’t listen. Look what happen to them. That’s one of the worst things is to tell your partner how you feel and they can’t receive it. The bottom line is people have needs and if their partner not fulfilling them they are going to seek it elsewhere.
Dr Jackie use her job to hid from the reality or distraction from not being able to have a child ......Kandi work hard for her family so they have a comfortable life
If he made more money wouldn’t be no problem !! But since she makes the bread she will always get the bag and call the shots !! Play your role Todd !! Same since beginning! Raise some kids pretend you working on business and STFU
I do love that Todd expresses himself REALLY WELL as a man. He knows how to articulate his feelings in a calm manner. And most important, he knows how to listen!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@mypageisbeinghacked exactly. The way a man talks to u is how he loves u. He has tender affection for Kandi but at the same time that authority as her husband.
When your husband is reaching out saying, I need more time, you have to take heed and make time. Khandi you have a good dude. My two cents...lol...just try. I am rooting for you and Todd. Family is important.
When Todd gathered you all the way together, I was like Yes, Todd! Give it to her! You need to listen to him pls, he's a rare gem & a beautiful communicator too. God continue to bless your family ❣ happy anniversary.
I understand Todd....he saying, "slow down Kandi!" He NEEDS his wife home. I understand Kandi, "I gotta get to the bag, support others (keeping me and OUR brand out there) and keeping the empire secure. Kandi you gotta find balance sis cause hubby is respectfully and clearly saying this. Atleast he respectful....kudos Todd...BTW Happy Anniversary 😍
See somewhat maybe its hes babysitting more and more sees how women are dealing with this everyday up all night with colds, wet diapers all day Change of clothes cleaning house the list is so long he's feeling it. he loves his family I know I
Peaches Royale she should take a week long family vacation at least 4 times a yr (1 per qtr). Then she should take Anniversary, and bday breaks for just her and Todd (3 days or so). That way the time they do get together is real QUALITY time. I bet if she she does this it would create a much better balance. Her work can not overlap with this time she must completely unplug. After those week long vacays they will be recharged and fine with her probably working consistent 12 hr work days. I wrote all this hoping she reads it. Good luck Kandi & Todd and Happy Quarantined Anniversary.
Kandi lost her brother, SOMETIMES when someone/something has been snatched from you; sometimes you can become a workaholic or a control freak (because you have control over that). It doesn't make it right but sometimes it's reality. Also, when your the one that takes care of everyone, it's the SAME people who says you "work too much". I go through that ALOT! I REALLY like them together. Its refreshing to see her still let him carry the lead even tho she is a boss! I LOVE his calmness when he communicates. Opposites do attract! I pray God continues to cover them!
MyOwn DayOne Exactky! It’s called prioritizing your family. You should want to be home with your family and chill after being on the road. I know I do. The last thing I want to see is extra people.
Denise Robinson is she not allowed to find her way through her journey. There’s no right and wrong in this situation as two people sharing a life together they get to figure this out and find a balance. Something like this on some level in some area occurs in all healthy relationships.
This quarantine has been a blessing & a curse. It can drive ppl crazy being stuck in the house & on the flip side, it gave y'all much needed family time. Enjoy this time together. Love y'all take care!
I like how Kandi took ownership for her actions. I like Todd's honesty. I think she should really listen to her family's concerns and try to make necessary changes. Love u guys and love the show❤
Love you guys!! Todd is right Kandi, he loves you, it's very clear how much he and Ace adore you. Stay with your family every every time you get!! Y'all are awesome and inspiring to watch together!! Plz stay together...you must...Ace ain't having it.
I didn't see any ownership being taken at all... Are we watching the same video? I seen Kandi agree with Todd after he repetitively repeated himself just to shut him up. I also seen Kandi make excuses for her actions i.e.... Saying she meet someone and got Kayla into fashion school so something good came from her not being at home(like girll what),I just wanna scream🗣 girl shut up..
I was going to say... isn’t it the job of a personal assistant to make sure your schedule is balanced and that you have a healthy work life balance. 🤷🏾♀️
I like how you guys were transparent instead of lying or putting on like it was nothing. Ppl need to see that every relationship has issues, but you stay persistent and committed to each other. Keep loving each other. God bless your union.
All I know is when Todd say "time out, time out, time out" he serious as shit and Kandi stops! I LOVE IT! She know he serious about whatever he saying without elevating any tones!
It’s like Kandi wasn’t hearing NOTHING her husband was saying! She always had a comeback. But I’m glad she acknowledged she was wrong. I loved this video though.
I love them together. They are perfect for each other. Both calm, chill, hardworking & good at articulating their frustrations without doing too much. Thank you for sharing your time.
I love how Todd can communicate effectively with his concerns instead of holding it in or acting like everything is ok!!! So during the QT, I’m playing more online games on my phone 😂. I’m now subscribed to Todd Tv too😉
Comedian JRenee Witherspoon It’s true, that’s why I hear a Lot of women that would rather have a great career establish first before they choose to have children or get married
Camelia Aldridge Well if you decide to change your dreams then it’s not really a dreams if you’re changing it for your spouse and his kids this is why a lot of women choose to have a career first or chasing a dream first before they settle down and have children and get married
Sis can I make a suggestion? When your son is eating his breakfast in the morning have that time for you and him to caught up. Remove his laptop and get into a routine of getting to know him and him you.
I observed that and commented to my husband about that. I love Kandi but as a culture and a generation, we have to do better developing healthier habits with our children, with each other and for ourselves.
I hear you and it was also my first thought. Then, I considered that she could have very well been preparing to do something together with Ace, just because there is laptop present doesn't mean that there is no quality time happening. Every family is different and may do things differently, since there is more than one way to do it.
Todd is very reasonable and I do respect Kandi's grind, however, balance is key. Sacrifices have to be made, but family should not suffer for work. I love them together.
Todd is very clearly expressing his feelings in a very mature way, this level of communication is NOT typical of a lot of couples, instead of voicing what is wrong most will go out and find others or other things to fill the void, if the person cares enough to express the expectation and desires they feel you are not meeting, take it seriously ❤❤❤
Shout out to Todd for being amazing and speaking his mind without getting out the box. Kandi say you're sorry and take everyone's feelings into consideration! Stay strong and stay together! Love y'all!
I loved the way Todd spoke with you on the episode and here. He is an excellent communicator. No yelling, no sarcasm, no rolling eyes, no tone, no weird attitude, just a straight shooter. He was very upfront with his feelings but in a respectful way. He got out all his points out clearly. And I applaud Kandi for understanding and listening.
I love that they talk it out and try to work things out. People always quick to say they are going to get a divorce, no time soon, I don't see it yet. I love them together. ❤
Kimberly Monique I feel what you’re saying but do you think she may be a workaholic? I’m not even sure if it’s about money. I feel like she’s just a hustler. Always securing the bag.
This was really humanizing for me. Thanks for being transparent & open! You both seem to be great parents. Work life balance is hard. Stay focused and put family first. Good luck
I’ve always been a fan of them together... I never thought he was using her or trying to have a come up... you could tell they loved each other from the beginning ❤️❤️❤️. I am all for the communication and understanding = grown folks love!!!
I love his personality, he is a good communicator, also looks like a fun person too, I love their relationship, I think they have the best relationship.
No he's not she just being selfish and wants all the success which in the end ain't gone mean nothing she better get it right before she loses her husband frfr
I agree, it's nit unreasonable but his way is a little passive aggressive. I would take that over an aggressive man with a wreckless mouth any day. Ideal man would be durect and assertive without being passive aggressive or aggressive
Love you both and love your hustle! I’m an essential employee working as the Director of Education at a residential treatment center for abused and traumatized children. This quarantine has been tough on all of us. The kids can’t have visitors right now and we are working on crisis mode. But to make it fun for the kids and our staff, we have played more games and devoted more time to the children. It has brought us all joy. For my personal fun time, I watch TH-cam and talk to my family since they are out of town.
She wasn't blaming Don Juan he is her assistant. He is so used to her keeping him busy he just be wanting to stay on track. Thats all. But not at the risk of Her family. They all learned.
I'm a single mother and I work at a nursing home, I wish I had the option to stay home with my children, before I leave my house I pray to God to protect me. I've seen how this Cov-19 takes over your body.
Kandi & Todd, I love this “Speak On It” which was awesome! It’s great to see how you both are just down to earth people that are genuine. You’ve both talked about the ups & downs of life situations in your marriage. At the same time, you keep it honest with how you feel towards the other that’s everybody can relate to. Congratulations on April 4, 2020 being your 6th Anniversary; Mr. & Mrs. Tucker!!!!🎉🥂
I love the conversation with Todd & Kandi. Being married with thriving careers is difficult. I have to admit my husband and I have been able to reconnect. After 11 years of marriage we are back to when we were dating. We've fallen in love all over again. 💖
Hi Khandi and Todd, I missed the RHOA episode your talking about, but heard about it. I'm a bit older than you and Todd and am not married. My parents have been together for 47 yrs and I think that is awesome the commitment that they share and hope to one day find someone who wants to last as long as they have. With that being said, I FREAKIN LOVE the two of you, always have and I love the connection you both share. Keep up the good work!! It seems as if you have a very solid dude with a level head on his shoulder. Keep on communicating with one another and rocking hard for the sake of your man and family.
Yes, but at the same time. She has to go hard to substane the lifestyle that they're living, and her kids. Also understand why they had another child, why waste an good egg, that you can use. When a lot of people struggling to conceived 🤷🤷
Mrs. B yeah but there are several videos of Riley wearing Fendi and starting a TH-cam channel tik tok etc. she wouldn’t have the platform or those items if It wasn’t for her moms success or platform. But they both have a point.
I knew y’all was ok!! Lol Some ppl think whenever there’s a conflict the couple is gonna break up, I kno better! I’ve been wit my husband since high school (21yrs.) & we’ve learned a lot. I feel the love between u and Todd, like even when y’all speak about uncomfortable issues, I don’t see awkwardness from either of u. I just see two ppl in love willing to listen & learn from each other.
Ok somebody agrees with me this kandi peep game yall whn kandi laugh she cover her smile at first whn she laugh i say yess thats kandi oh and she did the same signature stand in her performance.
You guys are the best married couples ever and love watching you guys together please Kandi try to fix the problem . Want to see you guy grow older together. Make your family happy .... God bless and protect you and your family . Be safe and healthy
I like Todd he can communicate, he knows to argue both y’all do and that’s a good thing.. plus he’s not asking for much. Come on Kandi get it together❤️
When Todd said you prioritize your career friends then family I felt that. You can always work but you can never get back time you missed with your family. Todd don't be hating on us Tauruses♉
This is a great dialogue between you too. Todd is really showing his emotions and something rare in some men. Love it and Love you both. 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
I agree with Todd. She has a family that loves her. They want her time and affection. Money is awesome. It allows you to have a house, food, and clothes. So money is needed. But time spent with family is priceless. Make your money don't let it make you-Players Club.
Kandi Work out your schedule...this might cost your marriage..Your hubby.....family need yo Time time time..which is spelled as Love to a child.Love you guys
Kandi you and Todd are soooo blessed to have one another! Stand with each other and continue to uplift one another that’s what it’s all about ! Everyone makes mistakes but as long as you grow from it keep on keeping on! God bless your family❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!
Y’all really inspire me. I’m 25 and I’m in my first REAL relationship and I love how you guys provide positive examples of communication and reconciliation. You guys are showing me a great example of how to talk this crazy ass boy.
Y'all gonna be alright because the communication is there. I like that he can tell how he's feeling and you don't get mad about what he's saying.❤❤❤❤ Awwwwww broke my heart..
One fun thing that my husband has been doing with the kids is reacting moments from the Bible we have to guess what book it came from . The kids enjoy it. Pray that everyone is safe and taking some time to cherish one another stay bless fam ... Happy anniversary 🎉 may God continue to bless your covenant with many more. Shalom ❤️
I love u and Todd as a couple. But Kandi. Todd is trying to reason with u about not being there for ur family! Please take heed to his cry otherwise u could as well lose him! Don't let ur dreams dictate ur relationship....its not worth it! God bless yall marriage and family!
@@thefreckledafrikan She knows and don't care . Money is her first priority it looks like . Kandi all her life has been going after bags . It's not like she doesn't have money she wants it all . Riley was right they didn't need Ace and they didn't need this new baby . It doesn't fit her schedule at all . So she probably has a nanny raising this baby and Todd . Why get a surrogate to go through 9 months for you and then you have someone raise it you knew you wanted the baby before this scting gig right . So Kandi knew her time wasn't going to be there. Hell it wasn't there for Ace that's why Todd had Daddy daycare showing him and Ace everyday . Anyway . I feel bad for Todd and Ace , Riley and Kayla because they will never have Kandi's time . Her career comes first . Always has always will be ....
He didn't change his tune in the end. He was just saying when you're on a break from your acting SPEND TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY. He wants to be prioritized and not pushed to the way back because he's supportive.
Kandi you found a real one... hear him out: this is the communication most women ask men to have and Todd is ACING the f*ck out of it. The message: when you home, BE HOME WITH MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT!
Another fun thing to do is to teach the kids an “old school skill”, like sewing! Gosh I use to love sewing when I was younger and I made so many quirky things for my family. It’s such a useful skills too!
Being a taurus is hard, i see alot of myself in Kandi. We're so independent but supportive of people that it conflicts with our personal lives and it's hard to balance. I cant wait to find the kandi to my todd
I wholeheartedly agree. We get tunnel visioned sometimes with our goals and that is hard for someone else to understand. We look at the big picture but small things sometimes go out the window. We know how to make an opportunity from anything BUT in our personal lives, if the person we are with does not understand that drive or does not have the same drive, it will not work. We wear many hats and they are hard to take off bc we know the goal at the end of the tunnel will be beneficial
I love y'all together! I really want y'all to make it! Glad you put forth the effort to improve before issues got bad. And thanks for sharing your life with us. 🤗
Khandi girl yep Todd's a super dope husband and father y'all both complete each other...I will never stop praying for you guys and y'all family...forever love y'all stay blessed and keep handling that 💰💰💰💰 bag.... Todd is a plus and he needs u heart and soul remember his mom passed away and they were VERY close now he needs u and them kids close like no other...love y'all stay blessed Khandi girl
I'm beginning to see what Kandi saw in Todd. Ya'll this is a calm dude with a HEAD on his shoulder. Did u guys see how he expressed himself so calmly about real issues affecting his family? GOOD COMMUNICATION! Now, that's a catch!
timna nuahn I agree. Also the man is just telling you he misses you. What woman doesn’t want to hear that☺️
Absolutely! He is definitely not in this for the money; even when he explained why he started doing so many businesses at a fast pace, because he felt like he had to prove something to her mom and the world because everyone just looked at him as a gold Diggin man. Like he stated, he had a career before Kandi and stopped working that career because Kandi didn’t like him doing all of that traveling. He even talked about how he isn’t truly happy doing all of the things he is currently doing, but he does them so that he can bring him money so he doesn’t look like a deadbeat because he doesn’t make the money she makes.
Todd is s stand up guy, not to many out here.
@@lovewins8914 yes he said that perfectly and she listen and heard him they are going to make it forever always
Right😊
I love how Todd expresses his feelings with out getting angry or loud. Alot of men could learn alot from him. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!
Ace Lee Some men are loud on camera and not just on RHOA . Emotions get the best of some people and sometimes regardless of the surroundings, people lose their cool. Never seen Todd talk crazy to Kandi and doubt Kandi would deal with a man like that.
Taylor Moore right like where the other ones like this 😂
@@Lele_lightfoot exactly
@@karmikarm1079 well said
That is a good man.
Todd is such an intelligent man, Kandi has a gem on her hands, she needs to realise what she's got before it's too late. Most of our black men don't have the emotional intelligence to articulate their feelings the way Todd does, wow, total respect from a black woman.
I can see Todd being a husband/life coach.
Yes Todd does. However, I must say that a lot of black men are capable of this type of communication. I happen to know this growing up. I don't base my view on their behavior based on what I see on TV.
@@everyroseenterprises2226 Me either. Kandi and Todd on TH-cam is more entertaining then when they're on Rhoa
Facts!
@@everyroseenterprises2226 👍💯👍 THANK YOU!
I be like where did some folk grow up???
Todd ain’t wrong! I think this is what your daughter was referring to when she said you shouldn’t bring another child into this world. I love you Kandi, I love your hustle but you can’t do it all and that’s ok.
Bre Henderson I agree
I agree
I immediately thought of Riley's comment when I saw that scene in the episode.
Riley was right . Kandi doesn't have time. I see why she said that now . Lord help they have too little one's. I love them but they have kids involved now that changes everything. They didn't need any kids if there career's meant more than children they should've kept it like it was . No kids amd then they could've did them and have there marriage set the way they wanted it go . All about the money and go e all the time . They we're doing this before kids . So it's not like we have to do this for the kids because they've been that way . Excuses. I pray they get it together for them babies and 🙏they make it
Agreed...khandi lovebug slooow down some.❤
He didn't change his tune. He said he supported the ACTING. His problem was when you're back home in ATL, not coming home.
I like Todd for Kandi. He’s very laid back & chill. And I love how he’s approachable and can have dialogue w/her maturely, even when he’s upset about something.
He so chill that's the NYC 167st in him.
I agree with Todd. If you're going to be away acting, you can at lease stay home for those couple of days you're home.
Tara Anthony Happens. Happens. Bye
Tara Anthony agreed y’all can get through this tho ... but Todd is right 💯
Tara Anthony Or Kandi can include her husband and/or kids in anything else she does. Like if it’s a fundraiser dinner, invite him. Or do something right after... like dinner with him and kids.
Kandi, I felt this in my soul, I served in the military for 21 years, my husband had to take on an “untraditional” role. I’ve deployed multiples times, but even when I wasn’t deployed, I put my career ahead of my family, working 12-14 hour days, trying to balance them both was a struggle. My decisions caused me to almost lose my family. Now that I’m retired, I see what my husband was saying for so many years... Slow down Kandi, enjoy these moments, because you’ll never get that time back. Love you two together!!
So True🙌🙌
Yes We get in a zone and keep pushing forgetting all the parts. Btw Thank you for your service
Thank you for you service Rachel
If they were to divorce today (many prayers that they don't🙏🏿), no judge on this planet wouldn't give Todd full custody. Kandi, needs to slow down. I hope I'm wrong, but it seems that he's making a public documentary case that he is the Primary Caregiver in which he is. Gone 10 weeks, she has the finance to not only take her kids with her, but to also take a full staff. Look Ace can do a trade off, do homeschool in order to see his Mom. Riley can fly out on weekends.
You better watch out Kandi, because this seems like a no brainer. I love their relationship and especially Todd. However, I've seen this scenario play out a many of times in favor of the parent that is with the children over 50% of the time.
I didn’t like to see Ace cry, that broke my heart. He miss his mommy 🤧
Props to Todd as a black man sacrificing and putting his goal aside to support his family. He dealt with a lot of slack but he's obviously a good dude and a family man that loves his wife. I just want to take time to honor that. Beautiful family!!! #blacklove
You are so right! I get tires of people constantly putting him down. It's as though people aren't used to seeing a good black man
Todd! 👍👍👍✌✌✌👁👁👀👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Right on!
He’s getting props for doing what he’s supposed to as a father? Lol the bar is set so low it’s ridiculous. If the roles were reversed would Kandi get props for being a stay at home mom?
Todd is up there 👆🏾 in terms of communication. He really knows how to communicate, I’m learning 👏🏾
LOL. His daughter says differently. He seems needy.
@@carltonwalton9819 agree and whining
Hes a great man, i would definitely want to come home to him.
Clear Eyes Discerning Heart the way Kayla talks seems like she don’t know how to communicate
Todd communicates so well. I love it.
Just slow down Kandi. Real friends will understand you need to be with your family.
Kandi is not listening to her husband who is crying. About family
All of her kids are going to say the same thing like Riley
Todd is absolutely right, I hope they are able to spend quality time together during this quarantine.
I love how Kandi and Todd argue yet don't argue. Btw...Todd looking like a young Frankie Beverly. Best wishes to this beautiful couple. 🙏🏽
I’m glad Todd spoke his truth. Kandi you’re my girl, but take heed to how your husband feels. Also, don’t forget what Dr Jackie went through. Her husband told her the same thing and she didn’t listen. Look what happen to them. That’s one of the worst things is to tell your partner how you feel and they can’t receive it. The bottom line is people have needs and if their partner not fulfilling them they are going to seek it elsewhere.
Factz
Did they split?
Dr Jackie use her job to hid from the reality or distraction from not being able to have a child ......Kandi work hard for her family so they have a comfortable life
Do you remember how Todd was upset when he was asked to sign the prenup
If he made more money wouldn’t be no problem !! But since she makes the bread she will always get the bag and call the shots !! Play your role Todd !! Same since beginning! Raise some kids pretend you working on business and STFU
I do love that Todd expresses himself REALLY WELL as a man. He knows how to articulate his feelings in a calm manner. And most important, he knows how to listen!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
A mature man can be vunerable and communicate, it was awesome to watch. Kandi still didn't get what his real issue was months later
I love that!...He's not screaming and hollering!!...Great communication!
@@mypageisbeinghacked exactly. The way a man talks to u is how he loves u. He has tender affection for Kandi but at the same time that authority as her husband.
Yes! I Like that too! Thank for a Beautiful & Positive comment.
Totally agree!
When your husband is reaching out saying, I need more time, you have to take heed and make time. Khandi you have a good dude. My two cents...lol...just try. I am rooting for you and Todd. Family is important.
When Todd gathered you all the way together, I was like Yes, Todd! Give it to her! You need to listen to him pls, he's a rare gem & a beautiful communicator too. God continue to bless your family ❣ happy anniversary.
I understand Todd....he saying, "slow down Kandi!" He NEEDS his wife home. I understand Kandi, "I gotta get to the bag, support others (keeping me and OUR brand out there) and keeping the empire secure. Kandi you gotta find balance sis cause hubby is respectfully and clearly saying this. Atleast he respectful....kudos Todd...BTW Happy Anniversary 😍
See somewhat maybe its hes babysitting more and more sees how women are dealing with this everyday up all night with colds, wet diapers all day Change of clothes cleaning house the list is so long he's feeling it. he loves his family I know I
He wants her home so he can do his own thing and not be home you people are ridiculous 😡 it's double standards.
Money is not everything that you dont be their for you family
Come on now
@@estherfarris3802 👏
Peaches Royale she should take a week long family vacation at least 4 times a yr (1 per qtr). Then she should take Anniversary, and bday breaks for just her and Todd (3 days or so). That way the time they do get together is real QUALITY time. I bet if she she does this it would create a much better balance. Her work can not overlap with this time she must completely unplug. After those week long vacays they will be recharged and fine with her probably working consistent 12 hr work days. I wrote all this hoping she reads it. Good luck Kandi & Todd and Happy Quarantined Anniversary.
I agree with Todd 🧡. When you’re home. Be home.
Kandi lost her brother, SOMETIMES when someone/something has been snatched from you; sometimes you can become a workaholic or a control freak (because you have control over that). It doesn't make it right but sometimes it's reality. Also, when your the one that takes care of everyone, it's the SAME people who says you "work too much". I go through that ALOT! I REALLY like them together. Its refreshing to see her still let him carry the lead even tho she is a boss! I LOVE his calmness when he communicates. Opposites do attract! I pray God continues to cover them!
MyOwn DayOne Exactky! It’s called prioritizing your family. You should want to be home with your family and chill after being on the road. I know I do. The last thing I want to see is extra people.
Kandi should adapt the mindset...
If it don't make money, it don't make $ense!
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Kandi we are living in serious times. Listen to your husband your
Son needs you. Prioritize!
Sharon Zennetta - And you just repeated the whole video point lol. She already took that in!
I'm saying!🤫
Right. She can allow more time
@@Kassy_1234 But did she really get it????!!!!!
Denise Robinson is she not allowed to find her way through her journey. There’s no right and wrong in this situation as two people sharing a life together they get to figure this out and find a balance. Something like this on some level in some area occurs in all healthy relationships.
This quarantine has been a blessing & a curse. It can drive ppl crazy being stuck in the house & on the flip side, it gave y'all much needed family time. Enjoy this time together. Love y'all take care!
Communication so very important
Yes, I believe it's getting people closer and thinking about what's important. 😉
When two people are willimg to mk things work they will. Humble theirselves and these two have showed and proved that..
I felt for Todd in that scene, I thought he was being heartfelt about really wanting to spend time with you.
I like how Kandi took ownership for her actions. I like Todd's honesty. I think she should really listen to her family's concerns and try to make necessary changes.
Love u guys and love the show❤
Yes! She definitely agreed when Tod talked about the tears...that was so bad...lol
I AM MONIQUE she a crybaby Taurus 0517 birthday twins lol
Yes!
Love you guys!! Todd is right Kandi, he loves you, it's very clear how much he and Ace adore you. Stay with your family every every time you get!! Y'all are awesome and inspiring to watch together!! Plz stay together...you must...Ace ain't having it.
I didn't see any ownership being taken at all... Are we watching the same video? I seen Kandi agree with Todd after he repetitively repeated himself just to shut him up. I also seen Kandi make excuses for her actions i.e.... Saying she meet someone and got Kayla into fashion school so something good came from her not being at home(like girll what),I just wanna scream🗣 girl shut up..
Your agent and personal assistant needs to do better they need to book family time in your schedule
👍👍
True.. also her fault too
I agree, but she approves her schedule I’m sure.
They need to meet so there is no conflict
I was going to say... isn’t it the job of a personal assistant to make sure your schedule is balanced and that you have a healthy work life balance. 🤷🏾♀️
I think quarantining is giving y'all the time y'all need.
F.A. H. They have a house quest Patrick
I like how you guys were transparent instead of lying or putting on like it was nothing. Ppl need to see that every relationship has issues, but you stay persistent and committed to each other. Keep loving each other. God bless your union.
Miz Nik and more importantly that’s they dealt with it together. I’m so proud of them. Communication is important. I’m so happy that Todd spoke up
Yes; I like how they communicate and listen to each other; they do listen; One must listen to understand versus listening just to respond🤗
@@lesley-annnash1124 I think Ace had a lot to do with him speak up that was hard for them
When they continue to talk it out they can not fail..
@@lovewins8914 exactly
Big ups on Todd for communicating how he felt. Can we see more of that.
The dude can communicate, bigup to Todd so much maturity.
Lord.... I can breathe now. I have been waiting for this since Sunday. So many blogs have been assuming things. Thank you 😊
#kandiandtodd
Ms Chiquita Ikr... Same here. I don’t know why some people always want to assume the worst. It’s crazy... Miserable I guess.
I'm a true fan of Kandi & Todd, I love their relationship! Happy Anniversary, y'all got this🙌🏾🙏🏾👌🏾💯
msmcoffeebanks Me too. Love them ❤️
@@msmcoffeebanks me 3
All I know is when Todd say "time out, time out, time out" he serious as shit and Kandi stops! I LOVE IT! She know he serious about whatever he saying without elevating any tones!
Oh yeah!!!!
that shit was so sexy🤤
That part, same tone. Baby check me but respect me. Tone is everything
@@cookie_candles sexy as hell!
I love it too! Lol.
It’s like Kandi wasn’t hearing NOTHING her husband was saying! She always had a comeback. But I’m glad she acknowledged she was wrong. I loved this video though.
Too many comebacks. But she admitted she fucked up. That’s good.
Sorry Kandi, I'm with Todd on this. 😂😂. #TeamTodd...slow down Kandi.
These two are definitely twin flames! They disagree but I can feel the love through the screen. I happy for you guys!
I love them together. They are perfect for each other. Both calm, chill, hardworking & good at articulating their frustrations without doing too much. Thank you for sharing your time.
I love how Todd can communicate effectively with his concerns instead of holding it in or acting like everything is ok!!! So during the QT, I’m playing more online games on my phone 😂. I’m now subscribed to Todd Tv too😉
Now if he had the same energy for his daughter.
Queen D Lifestyle so much! I love this comment. Todd is such a great communicator
@@tlanay902 Exactly. He sounds hypocritical AF
Being a mother and wife is hard when you are chasing your dreams
Comedian JRenee Witherspoon It’s true, that’s why I hear a Lot of women that would rather have a great career establish first before they choose to have children or get married
Right he should go after his dreans
Its hard when u can't say no n don't get that u have to sacrifice. Ur dreams should change when u have a spouse n kids let alone two kids under 5
Thomas Brewer J&JB Transport No that is not chasing dreams that call support team I think your friend or the charity whatever it’s about
Camelia Aldridge Well if you decide to change your dreams then it’s not really a dreams if you’re changing it for your spouse and his kids this is why a lot of women choose to have a career first or chasing a dream first before they settle down and have children and get married
When Todd says "Time out, Time out!" LMAOOOOO LMAOOOOO LMAOOOOO LMAOOOOO you know he is getting ready to go in...
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sis can I make a suggestion? When your son is eating his breakfast in the morning have that time for you and him to caught up. Remove his laptop and get into a routine of getting to know him and him you.
I observed that and commented to my husband about that. I love Kandi but as a culture and a generation, we have to do better developing healthier habits with our children, with each other and for ourselves.
Kandi, hear your man, his ear to yours. Listen please!
I hear you and it was also my first thought. Then, I considered that she could have very well been preparing to do something together with Ace, just because there is laptop present doesn't mean that there is no quality time happening. Every family is different and may do things differently, since there is more than one way to do it.
I was thinking the same thing
Parents keep thinking that's parenting
Todd is very reasonable and I do respect Kandi's grind, however, balance is key. Sacrifices have to be made, but family should not suffer for work. I love them together.
Todd is very clearly expressing his feelings in a very mature way, this level of communication is NOT typical of a lot of couples, instead of voicing what is wrong most will go out and find others or other things to fill the void, if the person cares enough to express the expectation and desires they feel you are not meeting, take it seriously ❤❤❤
serendipiti126 I disagree I feel he’s being very disrespectful to his Queen in front of the public. And I do not respect that.
serendipiti126 SPEAK ON IT
Exactly! She going to miss her blessing. She keep on
Right
Kandi you need to listen to him he's speaking up and telling you how he feels
Shout out to Todd for being amazing and speaking his mind without getting out the box. Kandi say you're sorry and take everyone's feelings into consideration! Stay strong and stay together! Love y'all!
Kandi and Todd need to produce a spin-off called Husbands of Housewives and give the husbands that want to do it their own show
Nick Cannon already made real husbands of Hollywood.
Great Idea.......sounds good.
Good idea 💡 & ❤️💛💜 the Name
Husbands of Housewives!!!😊
@@massaleegodwins7583 that was more comedy, skits. Not the same
Yess
I loved the way Todd spoke with you on the episode and here. He is an excellent communicator. No yelling, no sarcasm, no rolling eyes, no tone, no weird attitude, just a straight shooter. He was very upfront with his feelings but in a respectful way. He got out all his points out clearly. And I applaud Kandi for understanding and listening.
I truly appreciate you guys being Upfront. It's refreshing to see that. Black 🖤🖤
I love them lol
I love that they talk it out and try to work things out. People always quick to say they are going to get a divorce, no time soon, I don't see it yet. I love them together. ❤
🖤
I agree
Little kids need their mommy, they don’t care about anything else or understand.
Well except mine 🙈🤦♀️
Christianah Job 😂
You are absolutely right 💯
Kids also need to eat!!!!!!
Kimberly Monique I feel what you’re saying but do you think she may be a workaholic?
I’m not even sure if it’s about money. I feel like she’s just a hustler. Always securing the bag.
This was really humanizing for me. Thanks for being transparent & open! You both seem to be great parents.
Work life balance is hard. Stay focused and put family first. Good luck
I’ve always been a fan of them together... I never thought he was using her or trying to have a come up... you could tell they loved each other from the beginning ❤️❤️❤️.
I am all for the communication and understanding = grown folks love!!!
Leslie Velez f love them
I agree
I agree!!!
She needs to listen to him. He isn't asking for anything unreasonable
I love his personality, he is a good communicator, also looks like a fun person too, I love their relationship, I think they have the best relationship.
She keep rolling her eyes too
No he's not she just being selfish and wants all the success which in the end ain't gone mean nothing she better get it right before she loses her husband frfr
I agree, it's nit unreasonable but his way is a little passive aggressive. I would take that over an aggressive man with a wreckless mouth any day. Ideal man would be durect and assertive without being passive aggressive or aggressive
@RonnyLamar KylesJr. Are you talking about the streets, Phaedra started the rumour, its not true, and Kandi is no fool
Today is my birthday and I can’t do nothing but praising God for another year.
God bless hour new age
Happy Birthday!
I see what he's saying and I agree. Those dinners and luncheons arent paying. Theyre just extra curricular activities. Those can be left alone.
I'm not gone fake when Ace said, "I want my mommy". The water works got to flowing (I teared up😪)omg so sad😭😭😭😭and adorable at the same time.
Todd took the toy from him. That why he started crying.
Yes ace is so adorable...&I need that T-shirt.....I'm so not a morning person
I hold my back this time
@@tabithabrice8541 i tried lol but when that tear fell out of his eye.. I was a mess lol..
@Manda Babi Simpson I got teary eyed too
Love you both and love your hustle! I’m an essential employee working as the Director of Education at a residential treatment center for abused and traumatized children. This quarantine has been tough on all of us. The kids can’t have visitors right now and we are working on crisis mode. But to make it fun for the kids and our staff, we have played more games and devoted more time to the children. It has brought us all joy. For my personal fun time, I watch TH-cam and talk to my family since they are out of town.
Kandi listen to your husband girl 🤦🏾♀️
Trying to blame Duan (how however u spell his name ) talking about he filled the schedule like you have no power over it 😅
He's just doing his job and he's good at it!
She wasn't blaming Don Juan he is her assistant. He is so used to her keeping him busy he just be wanting to stay on track. Thats all. But not at the risk of Her family. They all learned.
I'm a single mother and I work at a nursing home, I wish I had the option to stay home with my children, before I leave my house I pray to God to protect me. I've seen how this Cov-19 takes over your body.
God Have You Queen...Stay Cautious💪
An Happy 6 year Of Marriage 🥰🥰
Thank you!
Happy anniversary kandiandtodd.God bless you with more years.Love from Nairobi kenya😍
I've always liked Todd but I love him after this! A man who fights for his family.
Yes! Much respect! I love them together.
Me too
Agreed!!! Where are the other single men like him?
Todd is a real dude level headed and fair.
Todd is really fighting for his family. I appaud his efforts. Kandi please listen to Todd and Ace. Riley kinda spoke on this on a previous episode...
Kandi & Todd, I love this “Speak On It” which was awesome! It’s great to see how you both are just down to earth people that are genuine. You’ve both talked about the ups & downs of life situations in your marriage. At the same time, you keep it honest with how you feel towards the other that’s everybody can relate to. Congratulations on April 4, 2020 being your 6th Anniversary; Mr. & Mrs. Tucker!!!!🎉🥂
Luv them together...so glad Kandi HEARD Todd!!! He was DEFINITELY RIGHT on this one! God bless & stay safe! 😄😄😄
Happy belated annìversary may GOD multiply many more years to come.
I love the conversation with Todd & Kandi. Being married with thriving careers is difficult. I have to admit my husband and I have been able to reconnect. After 11 years of marriage we are back to when we were dating. We've fallen in love all over again. 💖
I love the fact the he expressed his feelings a lot of him can do that.
Todd is bae...ages so well...I am not worried about y'all marriage...y'all got this and God got you
Hi Khandi and Todd, I missed the RHOA episode your talking about, but heard about it. I'm a bit older than you and Todd and am not married. My parents have been together for 47 yrs and I think that is awesome the commitment that they share and hope to one day find someone who wants to last as long as they have. With that being said, I FREAKIN LOVE the two of you, always have and I love the connection you both share. Keep up the good work!! It seems as if you have a very solid dude with a level head on his shoulder. Keep on communicating with one another and rocking hard for the sake of your man and family.
Todd was nailing the point home to you Kandi but I'm glad what he was saying that the need more time with you. That's a great thing 😊.
Do you guys remember Riley telling Kandi that she didn't have time for more kids before she had the new babies?
Yes, but at the same time. She has to go hard to substane the lifestyle that they're living, and her kids. Also understand why they had another child, why waste an good egg, that you can use. When a lot of people struggling to conceived 🤷🤷
Mrs. B yeah but there are several videos of Riley wearing Fendi and starting a TH-cam channel tik tok etc. she wouldn’t have the platform or those items if It wasn’t for her moms success or platform. But they both have a point.
@@leggs4113 I'm not speaking from a material standpoint.
@@pettybetty4447 I'm not speaking of a material standpoint. you can give a kid the world and none of that matters if you don't spend time with them.
Mrs. B are speaking from a time standpoint? The time she spends away from them helps affords the lifestyle.
He was complaining about her not being at home. She's home with him now quarantining that's good for him 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I knew y’all was ok!! Lol Some ppl think whenever there’s a conflict the couple is gonna break up, I kno better! I’ve been wit my husband since high school (21yrs.) & we’ve learned a lot. I feel the love between u and Todd, like even when y’all speak about uncomfortable issues, I don’t see awkwardness from either of u. I just see two ppl in love willing to listen & learn from each other.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
IKR? Every couple will have conflict and it doesn't mean it's over.
And got the nerve to squeeze in Masked Singer on top of everything else. Yes, we know it's you Kandi 😂
Ain't that the truth! She took me back to Xscape album "off the hook". I loved her voice.
Right lmaoo
Right she ain’t slick lol 😆💜
Ok somebody agrees with me this kandi peep game yall whn kandi laugh she cover her smile at first whn she laugh i say yess thats kandi oh and she did the same signature stand in her performance.
😂😂😂
Really happy you and Todd are still together. Just keep working it out.
Blessings.
Riley said she didnt need anymore kids. Money ain't everything. Her kids aren't happy and her man isn't either. I agree with Todd 100%
You guys are the best married couples ever and love watching you guys together please Kandi try to fix the problem . Want to see you guy grow older together. Make your family happy .... God bless and protect you and your family . Be safe and healthy
Me too
And she keeps rolling her eyes too
Entitled as riley is she can't talk
I am so glad that you cleared the air!! Even the most powerful couples how their moments...what's important is that you two get through it!😘🙏
I like Todd he can communicate, he knows to argue both y’all do and that’s a good thing.. plus he’s not asking for much. Come on Kandi get it together❤️
When Todd said you prioritize your career friends then family I felt that. You can always work but you can never get back time you missed with your family. Todd don't be hating on us Tauruses♉
BULLLLLLLLLL GANNGGGG♉
He's a Leo Remember they LOVEE Attention. Lol while he talking crap lol
This is a great dialogue between you too. Todd is really showing his emotions and something rare in some men. Love it and Love you both. 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
I agree with Todd. She has a family that loves her. They want her time and affection. Money is awesome. It allows you to have a house, food, and clothes. So money is needed. But time spent with family is priceless. Make your money don't let it make you-Players Club.
Kandi listen to what your husband is saying....get it together and stop jumping in oceans for other people who wouldn't jump in puddles for you.
Kandi Work out your schedule...this might cost your marriage..Your hubby.....family need yo
Time time time..which is spelled as Love to a child.Love you guys
Kandi you and Todd are soooo blessed to have one another! Stand with each other and continue to uplift one another that’s what it’s all about ! Everyone makes mistakes but as long as you grow from it keep on keeping on! God bless your family❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!
Nae’ Nee’ Amen to that!!🥰
Nae’ Nee’ Beautiful & Positive message.
Audrey Knows Best -🙏🏽 thanks encouragement and kindness goes a long way!
One of my favorite couples 👏🏾
-Spring cleaning.
-Plant flowers, veggies or fruit.
-Everyday learn something new.
-Catch up on episodes of RHOA.
Y’all really inspire me. I’m 25 and I’m in my first REAL relationship and I love how you guys provide positive examples of communication and reconciliation. You guys are showing me a great example of how to talk this crazy ass boy.
Y'all gonna be alright because the communication is there. I like that he can tell how he's feeling and you don't get mad about what he's saying.❤❤❤❤ Awwwwww broke my heart..
"I forgot to heat the pool" Thems is rich ppl problems 😙
Y'all will be just fine. Long as you communicate & work together. Every argument or disagreement doesn't end in divorce.
One fun thing that my husband has been doing with the kids is reacting moments from the Bible we have to guess what book it came from . The kids enjoy it. Pray that everyone is safe and taking some time to cherish one another stay bless fam ... Happy anniversary 🎉 may God continue to bless your covenant with many more. Shalom ❤️
I love that!
Todd never did change his tune he was upset that when u come home u dont spend that time with the family!!
I love u and Todd as a couple. But Kandi. Todd is trying to reason with u about not being there for ur family! Please take heed to his cry otherwise u could as well lose him! Don't let ur dreams dictate ur relationship....its not worth it! God bless yall marriage and family!
Riley already questioned why kandi wanted to another kid and said she wasnt going to be around. So this shouldn't be a surprise to anyone.
Denotra Valentine and kandi was offended that she said it. It’s the truth.
Denotra Valentine she did. Kandi doing it bc she can. If they really get on her she will understand. She know she doing wayyyy too much
@@thefreckledafrikan She knows and don't care . Money is her first priority it looks like . Kandi all her life has been going after bags . It's not like she doesn't have money she wants it all . Riley was right they didn't need Ace and they didn't need this new baby . It doesn't fit her schedule at all . So she probably has a nanny raising this baby and Todd . Why get a surrogate to go through 9 months for you and then you have someone raise it you knew you wanted the baby before this scting gig right . So Kandi knew her time wasn't going to be there. Hell it wasn't there for Ace that's why Todd had Daddy daycare showing him and Ace everyday . Anyway . I feel bad for Todd and Ace , Riley and Kayla because they will never have Kandi's time . Her career comes first . Always has always will be ....
He didn't change his tune in the end. He was just saying when you're on a break from your acting SPEND TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY. He wants to be prioritized and not pushed to the way back because he's supportive.
sharnia murray it’s deeper than that believe me....I check people consistent behavior and eyes.
Christ is King and he’s bringing the sword Michelle and what did your checking come up with??
I thought this was one of the best episodes. You guys were so raw and relatable....💕👍🏿
That right Todd you teller. He's fighting for his wife and family. I love it.
Kandi you found a real one... hear him out: this is the communication most women ask men to have and Todd is ACING the f*ck out of it. The message: when you home, BE HOME WITH MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT!
Happy Anniversary, you Two make the perfect dose. Family Treasures, life is Better.
And being on the Masked Singer 🤭😂whew Chile you got your hands full.
terriboop1985 exactly!!!! She knows that her REAL FANS KNOW HER VOICE. ANYWHERE 😂😂😂😩
Another fun thing to do is to teach the kids an “old school skill”, like sewing! Gosh I use to love sewing when I was younger and I made so many quirky things for my family. It’s such a useful skills too!
I'm thinking of getting my daughter one for her 12th birthday.
Can you still sew?
Natasha a little, yes!
More people need to communicate like this, this was a real grown folk conversation
I love you guys and your connection. God bless you guys and your family.
Being a taurus is hard, i see alot of myself in Kandi. We're so independent but supportive of people that it conflicts with our personal lives and it's hard to balance. I cant wait to find the kandi to my todd
Agree
Yes. Exactly. As a Taurus, I found myself being a better friend than a spouse lol
Exactly! I recognize Kandi’s hustle and trying to reaching her goals.
But I definitely see Todd’s perspectives.
I wholeheartedly agree. We get tunnel visioned sometimes with our goals and that is hard for someone else to understand. We look at the big picture but small things sometimes go out the window. We know how to make an opportunity from anything BUT in our personal lives, if the person we are with does not understand that drive or does not have the same drive, it will not work. We wear many hats and they are hard to take off bc we know the goal at the end of the tunnel will be beneficial
@Ace Lee Right👏 apparently
I love y'all together! I really want y'all to make it! Glad you put forth the effort to improve before issues got bad. And thanks for sharing your life with us. 🤗
Khandi girl yep Todd's a super dope husband and father y'all both complete each other...I will never stop praying for you guys and y'all family...forever love y'all stay blessed and keep handling that 💰💰💰💰 bag.... Todd is a plus and he needs u heart and soul remember his mom passed away and they were VERY close now he needs u and them kids close like no other...love y'all stay blessed Khandi girl