I am an Africian American man. I moved to the Philippines 5 years ago. I was in unhappy relationships in NYC. Women demanded credit scores, care, money, you want to take care of them and their kids. I was unhappy being a gamer. The women did not respect my life choices. I moved here, met my wife, started my own business, have a family. I am happy and blessed that I met the woman of my dreams. Filipina woman are not stupid or ignorant. Most men are coming to the Philippines because of life values, the women in the US forgot how to treat a man. Asian women has basic family values. This is what is attacted to men. Not the feminist woman that is taking over the states. Most women are so Independent they forgot the man needs to be treated as a man. Filipina women are not dominated, filipina women are partners. That is what is attracted to men. Not being dictated but treat man as a partner. I will never date an American women again. I am married and happy and blessed.
Traveling really helped me to start seeing the disorder in US society. I'm sure there are still good women in the country but they are the minority. I don't see any reason to have and angry demon in your house when you can marry a feminine kind woman that actually loves, honors, and respects you.
This is coming from a Filipina who is born and raised in the Philippines but spent my life traveling abroad, stayed in Vegas and LA for a few years. The difference between Western women and Filipinas and why some foreign men might prefer us is this: We were raised by our mothers to run the household and care for our fathers and siblings. We see our mothers cook, clean, run the home, run errands, discipline us kids while having a full time career and at the end of the day, still make time for everybody. We prioritise home life and family. We rarely complain and tough it up during hard times with you. We love and live for our feminine energy and love and admire a man who takes the lead, while we play our roles as partners and balance our strengths and weakness. We are family focused and oriented. That money argument these western women have? LOL. We work like cattle for pennies with no complaints, if a man wants to treat us, it changes our world but it's not everything! The most materialistic women I've met that will blatantly ask you what your job is, how much you earning, on the First Date, majority are western women, without a thought at all what they can contribute. The digging can be diabolical and so heartless. I'm sorry to say. We Filipinas are simple in our ways with men. Our focus is you, your happiness, your well being. Just like our mothers were. We just love our man to love being a man and love his responsibilities towards his family and we provide the supporting role as partners.
Yah you're right alot of but not all western women always wanna know how much we bring to the table but if we ask them what they bring, they get offended. Personally, it don't bother me if the woman I'm with makes more money than me or makes less. For me, the make or break is the simple fact of whether we get along or not. You can be with a billionaire or a bum if that person makes you happy it doesn't matter in the end.
You should become muslim then. With all theses values and principles you would be much more happier and have more time to cultivate your feminine energy and gaining for yourself as well. InshAllah ☪️
I've been living in the Philippines for 7 years now and with my wife for 5 years. It destroys western women that a Filipina can do everything, hold a job, raise a family, run a household, and all the while enjoying being a woman and their feminity. The family unit and family values are still strong in most Filipinas and a Filipina wants to be proud of her man and family.
@@letmelickbud ...truth is so many countries outside of the West, are like this. Because human nature is such that once ppl get enriched, or gorge on prosperity, they forget the small things that are of value
I am an Asian woman born in America and I still follow the old school Indian ways my mom did. Because of that I have a wonderful relationship. Western women feminists are so unhappy.
Good morals and high values are like gold now. Stay true to who you are and ignore all those self-labeled new-wave feminine "coaches", who try and have you believe in their system. The damage caused has only divided people. Many are seeking ways, similar to how you live. It's time for them to admit their errors and learn from untainted women. Maybe they should follow traditional women around for a week to see what is possible.
I am a Filipina and I believe most of us are home makers. We cook , clean, and tend our children and it's our choice. It doesnt mean we can't make our own careers but because we value family a lot. We love to support our man not because we are submissive but because we value our man's worth. Most of all, we are not pushover coz the moment we received harsh treatment, it's gameover.
I love how western women feel THEIR way is the right way and so Asian women need to fall into line and emulate THEM. Words like "ethnocentric", "racist", "colonial mentality" come to mind. Anyone who actually knows asian women knows they are NOT pushovers - they draw on femininity for power while western women emulate masculinity for power. Gotta love yin and yang!
Most western women know absolutely nothing about being a woman. Being a man, I'm not qualified in saying what makes a woman. However, I am qualified enough to say that masculinity and women are an extremely unecessary and unattractive mix
@@Aubatron FACTS!!!! That is how the western powers justified their colonial holdings. It was the "white savior" mentality. The belief that the Europeans had a duty to save the non-western savages from themselves and civilize/westernize them and their ways. Only this time it is the feminists who is attempting to "save" out of a sense of the same level of supremacy as the Europeans in the past.
i had my fill of the MODERN WESTERN WOMAN and got tired of being cheated on, disrespected, treated as an ATM and nothing else. I've had a Filipina girlfriend now for 4 yrs and have been very happy. Trust me she is submissive but is not a doormat. She wants respect like I do also, and I treat her with respect. She is willing to let me lead but she offers input especially when dealing with issues about the laws and concerns about her country. She is the most loving, caring traditional woman I have ever known. She is the real deal and is genuine in her emotions and feelings for me. She will not let me be taken advantage of by local merchants and rarely asks for anything for herself other than basic needs. She loves to cook, is very clean and loves a clean house. I basically provide and she handles the housework. We do everything together like shopping and cooking as I love to cook as well. I teach her about American food and I learn Filipino food from her. I wouldn't even think of going back to an American woman. I have peace of mind now and feel truly loved for who I am. We only had one slight disagreement when we first started our relationship and it was brief and a simple cultural difference that was overcome easily. So to all the FEMINISTS out there trying to discredit, shame men for wanting a better life, class of women. All I can say is You're actions have forced men from you're lives. Feel free to bask in you're freedom and enjoy being alone and miserable as more and more men leave you high and dry.
My wife is Filipina. And I 100% agree and will back you up on this. Especially Filipina from Mindanao like mine. She’s willing to cook and clean and give me a back rub. But mess around and the you’ll wish you were in hell with your back broken. She’s not some slave girl. She’s my wife and she expects the same respect from me that she gives and she’s not shy about letting me know if I step over the line. The feminists don’t get it and never will that strength doesn’t come from being bossy or loud or overly abrasive. It comes from not compromising your values. Feminists are losing men because they took away mens desires and then mocked them for their issues. They call it toxic for men to want to compete, to want to fight, to desire to protect and have final word in family matters and to do the hardest jobs. They then mock us for not dating them and for going with women that respect men who act like men and say it’s because we want weak women? If we wanted weak women we’d date feminists. Because only a weak person feels the need to mock and belittle people to compensate for their own lack of abilities. We want strong women who build us up and have the strength to hold us up. To give us a sense of purpose and who give us that drive to become better by being someone worth growing for. It takes no strength to treat someone like garbage and mock their spouses faults. It takes real strength to accept those faults and work around them because you love them more than yourself. And Filipina have that in spades. Glad I found this channel brother. From one expat to another god bless and thank you for helping to blow this myth about Filipina off the tracks. Next time I’m in country Ill have to buy you some red horse.
My fillipina is definetly submissive but not a pushover. She does her best to do what she can for me and us. Shes always thinking ahead and now that shes graduated college shes out getting a job already. She knows my love language and she uses it all the time thanking me for providing and working hard. My western ex wives never did that.
So incredibly true. My wife was definitely from a poor family, but they weren't in poverty. It taught her how to work hard and he happy with what she has. She also takes such incredibly good care of me that it makes me want to take even better care of her. I do help her family when I see they need help, but I made it clear not to ask me for stuff. I got my new family a new fridge, TV, some solar panels, etc, but it was all my choice. My Filipino family also takes incredibly good care of me in other ways. My father in law cooks the best chicken I've ever tasted. Every time I visit them or they visit me, my father in law always brings me the chickens he bred and cooked himself. It is such a great relationship I have with my wife and her family. This Christmas, they don't know it yet, but I have something huge planned for them! Can't wait to see their reactions! Keep up the great work Jay!
Amazing. What a great family brother. Family is family. A team. Specially one with morals and values. Take good care of them and show them a man like you is hard to come by and find.
Yes sir! I still remember when my fit, feminine loving 5'2" 90 lb soft spoken filipina told me in conversation once with such clear confidence "I'm not weak", game over I only fell even more in love with her beautiful self
I am a filipino living in the Phils. We can put it in one sentence this matter. I live like a King but I have a Commander in chief and a treasurer beside me.
I’ve been married to a Filipina for almost 18 years now. Submissive? Filipinas submissive? Oh hell no! No there are times when my Filipina will defer to my judgment out of respect for my role as the leader of the family and because I’ve demonstrated through my actions that I am a good leader as I always put family first and not my own interest and she respects the hell out that and it relieves her of that burden knowing she can trust me and that I will be the one who bears the consequences of accountability for those decisions but does that make her submissive? Oh hell no. She just has her focus on different priorities at home she can be a little tyrant and god help you if the garbage isn’t taken out on time. Not to mention when I am in a position where I have to make decisions she’s my best counselor as she smart and I mean really smart but submissive? Oh hell no. These feminists confuse politeness, manners and respect as weakness and submissiveness then there’s something wrong with their values. Most of the disrespectful experiences I’ve had in regards to my beautiful immigrant wife from other people where I live has been from women. Most American men fall instantly for her feminine charm and beauty and are complimentary. Most of the negative comments I’ve heard about my Beautiful Bride has come from other women and have been directed at me by other women. Normally I just laugh at them. A lot of these feminists think because they went to a good college and graduated with a Mickey Mouse degree that they’re the smartest person in the room. I can remember one feminist was talking to me in a very condescending manner and then made the mistake of bragging to me that she had graduated from Oberlon College with Honors in Sociology. To which I responded “You went to an expensive and prestigious private college and you took a Micke Mouse Major?”. She was instantly pissed and made a snide comment along the lines of what would I know about that. To which I told her well I graduated from undergrad school with a Pre-Med Biology degree with a minor in chemistry and that I did my Masters in Human Biology and then I went back to school in my early 30’s and earned at Masters in Materials Engineering. That shut her up but if looks could kill. Another time some mouthy feminist was talking smack in front of my wife and made the comment to me that I shouldn’t be so smug about exploiting some poor illiterate third world girl for a wife. I calmly asked her where she went to college and what she studied? She replied that she had graduated from a good school with a degree in education. I then told he my illiterate peasant wife had a BS in Business where she graduated Cum Laude and that as a high school senior had been offered a scholarship to the Philippine Military Academy but turned it down as she didn’t want a military career and that she was currently knocking down close to a six figure income. I then asked her how much she was earning? That pretty much ended the conversation. Another time a gal referred to my misses as my “Mail Order Bride” in front of my wife! I put the fear of God into her. I came right out of my chair furious and said “Are you calling my wife a whore? No one calls my wife a whore!” I mean I was fighting mad. Talk about a real fast change in attitude as no one came to her defense and I looked like I was going to rain down on her. She feebly tried to say she wasn’t calling my wife a whore and what was I talking about and then my wife gave her what I call the dragon lady look and said “Yes, you did call me a whore. Where I come from there’s no difference between calling a woman a mail order bride and whore.”. All I can say was she was lucky my wife didn’t kick her butt. Those however were just the worst ones. Most of the time is just some snide dismissive comment to which I laugh and I laugh because my marriage to my Filipina has been the best thing that ever happened to me in my life and that I’m a lot happier than they are.
They are just mad men are finding better women out there. Giving how lazy they date. How often they flake. Their egos. It is no wonder men look for better women elsewhere.
@@manangmambobola3252 hah I'd say if you are not USA Canada or UK they will view it that way. Even Polish ones just stopped being viewed that way only recently and fun fact is we were European since 10th century also girls here were pretty bossy without feminism to fall back on.
Western men don’t want to deal with the lazy daters, or the marriage quitters that western women have a reputation for being. At 50 myself I see all the leftovers 40-55 being either bitchy or desperate in their demeanor. At an 80% filing rate for divorce by western women men are not gambling anymore.
Just here to read the comments 😊 Thank you gentlemen for defending the Filipinas you are in relationship with 😊 And goodluck to those men who wanted to find their own Filipina 😊
@@Vizible21 Your screen tag: Most appropriate ...... But I'm surprised. Most men don't willingly out themselves as bigoted InCels (involuntary celibate).
My Filipina neighbor has fire temper, flying flip flops, loud too but she's been an awesome neighbor, second mamma to my oldest son, shares food sometimes and all about family. Love her SO much!!
As a filipino man, the comments I've read gave me a broad spectrum as to why westeners seek filipino women. I know how it feels to be loved by one. And hope we all stay happy with our women, filipino women that is. 😉 ❤️🇵🇭
I was ahead of the curve (albeit accidentally) and it is the one thing I can thank my abusive mother for. I wasn't interesting in English women, I saw how they behaved and what they were like and said "nah." Now I'm nearly 20 years married to a feminine Moldovan woman. I've never had a family until I made one.
@@kni9ght Go and experience the world because close minded western women and their men hating ways are NOT the norm. South Korea also has a nice culture to experience. So do Thailand and Vietnam. I wouldn't waste your time in Europe or Australia though because fems have ruined it.
My oldest friend married a Filipino and there was no power imbalance. As the years have gone on, she has absolutely exerted her considerable will over their lives while being remarkably feminine and taking care of her man. Deranged feminists can continue to complain and die alone.
I'm a Islander in Australia. I got sick of dating western women for the obvious reasons. I met a Filipina woman 6 years ago and have not looked back. She's a beautiful definition of what real women are to me. She's kind and gentle yet strong and a bloody hard worker.She is petite but don't mess with her. She's a little savage when she wants to be and will hold her ground. I'm a big Islander guy and I shit myself when she's angry. She is also family orientated and she holds her religion close to her heart. I said to her once ' I was the luckiest man in the world '. She said - 'all us Filipina women are like this, We are strong women '. She is very correct.
I’ve seen a Filipina who 14yrs old came to the states barley could speak English graduate high school as a valevictorian. That shows how hard working they are
I told 4 guys at work I was dating a Filipina like 6 years ago, three of them visited the Philippines within a year and are now in relationships with Filipina and going there frequently, making plans. The fourth is secretly talking to a Filipina online while he waits for his kids to graduate high school so he can divorce his bitch western wife. Many western women do not even know what a woman is anymore. I left that company a while ago but just recently seen one of the guys, when I asked how he was doing, he thanked me and told me that his Filipina brings out the best in him. Guys, if you want a good woman talk to a Filipina. Just be a good guy, don't abuse them. Just a couple more years and I leave the west behind and my Filipina and I will retire early to her home country. We both are so looking forward to it.
You are absolutely right about Filipinas. I have been married to my Filipina wife for 16 years. American women are spoiled brats, and are quick separate and divorce. There are limits to their love. When a Filipina loves she loves with her whole heart. She will stay with her man. American men find Filipinas for the qualities American women have lost. Real men want want their mates to be real women, who love being women. They're proud to be girls.
Exactly bro, my Pinay says it's her duty to do all she does for me and the kids. And she is happy to do so, and she is a 31 year old province girl. Totally different than any of the 35 women in my lifetime. White or Hispanic. She also has her flower farm she works to earn a living. I support her with some money, to help expand the farm, so she can earn even more pesos.
I have had the opportunity to live and work with Philipino nurses, they are the best. It is not so much for the training they have, that I don't doubt is the best, but because they really care for people and make others feel as if they matter, because they matter. I can understand why men are attracted to them, everybody wants to find someone who cares and think they are special. I hope all these men really appreciate the gift they are.
Growing up having a table decurom, not able to touch the food unless our father is sitted in his cabesa chair and telling us we can start to eat after prayer, giving his slippers upon entering our house, I think in a family with a patriarch head is more healthier to raise kids and a bonded family unit.
🤣🤣 I think the West will be very shock if they saw how we are raised as children. We also did that, once our father arrived home from work we greet him at the door with his slippers. I think families in the province still do this.
Look my girl she's a Filipina and here's how it is, you treat them right they'll treat you right. Don't ever lie to them, don't ever cheat, don't ever disrespect them and you're good, that's all they want. Now with all three of those things I just mentioned you have to understand that those are what men want too. What does that mean, it means they're as real as any woman is ever gonna get.
I guess I have to agree with that sentiment... being a Filipino myself. If you have a well-grounded mindset and common decency, you will attract like minded Filipinas. It reminds me of my recent exGF. Pretty decent women, and very attracted to integrity and good values. Heck, I can attest that physical looks are secondary to a Filipina woman when they pick their men. They appreciate good character and principles.
Pinay women are givers in nature and do not understand the greedy miserable feminist. They believe their role is to keep the home together and raise healthy loving children, to take care of their men because they appreciate them. This love empowers men in return do whatever it takes to keep their families happy. But if you mess w a pinay....she'll put you in your place and remind you of YOUR role. It's a true partnership.👍🏽❤
How ironic that the women complaining about passport guys are in fact allowing themselves to be used by guys richer than them here in the States. It's the same concept at a different money scale.
The way you get dominated is the filipina makes you so happy you will bend over backwards to give her everything she wants! For example just yesterday I went out in the rain on my motorcycle because my wife wanted donuts lol. It would of been a cold year in hell let alone a day before I did that for my ex lol. But that desire to give her everything she wants will push you as a man to new heights you never thought you could reach!
The core value of family and loyalty is in general much higher in the Philippines and rest of Asia, in the west it have really lost it's value over time.
The only downside to being with a Filipina is you better like Karaoke when you visit family. They seem to really enjoy this particular bonding activity.
I was stranded in the Philippines in 2015 after I lost my passport. I never met a kinder, more generous and helpful people. Ive also never seen a happier people. Everyone is laughing and smiling and joking around. People like to help eachother and doing stuff for each other.¨ They shared everything and took pride in it. It didnt matter how well they were off, some clearly had money, others didnt but the spirit and mentality was always the same. Help eachother. First time I drank with the locals and they put out one single glas blew my mind. Another time I was playing chess in the street with a gang of teenagers who didnt speak english and one guy just walked up to the other and held out his hand, didnt even say anything and everyone chipped in a few coins and he went a bought a pack of smokes and they all split them up. One of their mothers passed by, spoke a couple of words in Tagalog that I didnt understand, nodded to me and the all dragged me off to dinner which she, in words even I could understand, sent her husband out to get the grosseries for. In the house, SHE was the boss... there was no doubt about it. Not saying there are not bad people, I saw some parts of Manila that was pure nightmare fuel. But the general population lived in harmony. They respected and appriciated eachother. Yes, most of the women were homemakers but I never saw one who was that didnt want to be or was unhappy in that role. And the spoiled, feminaxi, cxnts of the west is trying to tell the Philippines that THEYRE the ones doing it wrong? Misery loves company, I guess. All my love and respect to the Philippino people, without you guys I would probably not have survived. And to be honest, I went to the Philippines in the first place cuz I had lost faith in humanity and I needed a change of scenery. The genuine kindness and generousity I found quite literally gave me hope back. Edit: Hah, I was leaving the keyboard to go cook dinner and left the video on in the background. And like 30 seconds before you said it I was thinking "theyre actually quite alot like Latino women" xD
It's called the Bayanihan culture which means helping each other out in times of need. Glad you received some help and families took you in after you lost your passport, bro.
I have no idea about the ladies from the Philippines, but I've worked with a few guys from the Philippines and from every one of them I get the impression of a pretty awesome culture. Seems very family oriented and supportive.
@@ryan-smith Mom raised us for the most part because our dad got sent all over the country, all while she worked and went on duty in the hospital (OB-Gyn, Public hospital) A home-maker and career woman, my mother is one hell of a woman.
A buddy of mine married a Filipina as his second wife and she has been by his side and supported him through his ups and downs and he is better for it. He and I were in college together and I watched him progress.
😂😂😂 my mom also, it's always my dad who say sorry after a fight. But she's a homemaker, she's a great cook and always caring to the point she nags me, it's annoying but I consider myself lucky coz she always remember me despite I'm already a 25-year old woman and already living independently in another city away from them.
Yep always telling us to ask our dad for permission but then you'll have my dad catering to what my mom already decided and avoid disagreeing too much.
Filipina women will dominate the house and many other aspects because it's likely her main area of responsibility. Similarly my dad does the same but in his work and company.. different things
I met my filipino wife 24 yrs ago in my own country. They are not easier or more compliant but when they decide to start a family with you they know the priorities. For the rest they are women lol they all have their manual 😂 Plus my wife has 2 things going for her, 1. She has moral and values 2. She has a bolo and knows how to handle it 😁 And for men that find there partner in a bar ? Well thats an universal risk in any country.
I praise God every day for showing me the truth for the roles of a marriage. I also feel like a lot of these issues could be solved with genuine love and respect for your man. If you REALLY love your husband, what’s wrong with cooking and cleaning and nurturing for him?
Filipina girls enjoy being a woman, honestly. Most Filipinos are still chivalric and being a pinoy myself, I can tell you most women here ignore the feminist agenda, they love to be served, they love to be dependent, when you cook for them, when you fetch and protect them. In turn they also serve you, hug you, cook for you and support you. Pinays like and are willing to be submissive. I know because I'm already married.
I live in Toronto and i can tell you a lot of wealthy men here hired these ladies as nanny and ended up marring them and it happening in the upscale neighborhood.
I’m a below average looking man with a above average income over six figures. I used to get taken advantage of by western women. Now I’m happily married to a Filipina for four years. Western women of all races are mad that they are being replaced. I’m a good nice guy so western women treat me like crap. My Filipina treats me like a king. I have never wanted a submissive woman, I just wanted a woman who would corporate with me. She can and will put her foot down when she feels it’s something important to her so she is far from a push over. Those times are very few so we spend our time loving each other not fighting. If u are tired of the western women BS or are not a chad, then u can go find a Filipina that is ur equal in looks to marry and be happy with so go do it.
@@justabystander1567 yup. If I can do it anyone can. So if you are a relationship guy like me go grab you one. Lol let these strong independent I don’t need a man (but they sure want one) western women be alone.
What I fell in love with about Asia whether it be Thailand or the Philippines or Vietnam was the people and the women. Crystal Blue water man tropical fish multiple colors people nice yeah it is bad people everywhere but not like here mostly the people are kind and respectful. And that's the way I carried myself when I was in those countries was respect other customs the way they look in life not come there to try to tell them how they should look at the world they look at the world the way they want to look at it and I love it.
I’ll give you advice don’t ever take a Vietnamese woman to the USA. Been with One for 5 years and ended up cheating on me after influence of western crap culture and thug culture.
My wife was born in the states and raised in the Philippines. Couldn’t have been more lucky to have married he: a beautiful, smart, and very redpilled pinay woman. Blessed!
Western men have been going abroad for a mate for YEARS; this is not new. The issue is that nowadays, more and more Western men are seeking to branch out to find a feminine, friendly cooperative woman, to settle down with, because of modern women such as the Caucasian feminist, that finds it affable that a woman can cater to her man in the 21st century. At the end of the day, men have way more options than women nowadays, and many women are expressing their displeasure over it, hence the "passport bashing" videos that are more prevalent. Great video, Jay 👍🏿
By women in the West he means Western women as in White women. He says it that way(in the West) to disarm any rebuttals against what he really means while still getting to say it.
I speak from 14 years and counting married to a wonderful Filipina when I say they are definitely not pushovers lol. But they are attentive and loving, they have an inner confidence that makes a man feel lucky just to be near her. But cross the line and your in serious trouble hahaha.
im a white, not so good looking man maybe also abit insecure. i have only gotten treated like somekind of sub human by WHITE women. Thanks to the Phillipines i found an amazing kind hearted woman that i love very deeply.❤
Yeah, they are definitely not pushovers. You treat a filipina like shit and see what happens to you. However, if you treat them with respect and kindness they will appreciate you and do the same in return, which is different from western women. Filipinas are not selfish and self centered. Its that simple. Its mutual.
Even before Spain conquered Philippines, Filipino women been kicking men's ass. Before feminism became a thing, Filipinas been fighting the Spaniard in the frontline and leading the battle. Even during the American and Japanese occupation Filipinas been kicking their balls.
They are not push overs, when a Filipina takes care of her man is because she wants to do it, it’s in her nature that’s the way they where brought up it’s not dominating
As a man of Afro/Asian and Polynesian bloodlines, I appreciate what your about. I have dated Filipina women in the past and yes they are sweet and loving; however, they will stand up to you in a minute. The white and black American feminists love to make broad generalizations and will only give a benefit of a doubt if it's in their favor. Too many people are giving ear to their madness.
I'm really considering visiting Philipines. I'm Catholic who always wanted a girl with family values and I practice filipino martial arts. The more I think about it the more I believe Philipines is the place where I could find happiness.
the Catholic culture in the Philippines teaches girls at a very young age that a woman's role in a family is subservience to her husband. Filipinas are very feminine and gentle. Just treat them right and most will treat u like a king.
The loud AND wrong feminist crew strikes again. The filipina "tampo" might be different than the western woman's mouth, but it's effective lol. Those who know, know.
I dated a filipina. True, they are soft and gentle...until they're not. If you push them the wrong way they dig in and won't budge. They're not push overs. I guess I wrote too soon. This guy said the same thing I did.
I've raised two young adults now been married twice but Asia has always been in my heart from the time I visited there 17 years old in the military first place I went to was Pattaya Beach then Manila. Now I can return. Now it's my time to relax.
In phlippine school we have a subject called "values", and the lesson are about how to respect other people, good characteristic, the role of a girl, boy, man, women, wife, husband, children, and always be good to other people as possible, they teach this from kindergarten to highschool, maybe that's the reason why most filipino's knows their role wherever they belong.
Western women....stop being so mad and jealous because maybe you can learn something from these women..... and if you don't want to learn, this is why you're loosing your men.
instead of embracing the power they had in their femininity, they chose to throw it away to be masculine. most men want their partner to be happy. even if she doesnt have direct power to decide without damaging the relationship, the guy will listen and will try to make it happen if its possible. this becomes more accurate, the more the women supports his man emotionally, and makes him feel that its worth it for "her".
Most men would be happy with partnership. Problem is women behave like this sort of scarecrow version of a male they have in their mind. In all truthfulness their idea what men is if it was implemented by any leader they would be looking at business end of someone's guns sword fist or mental acumen very, very fast. Men are civil to other men because there is underlying threat of violence and rooted knowledge that you could loose a duel even with all advantage in the world.
I was in the Philippines for and they were definitely very nice but trust me they definitely have a back bone. I remember I went to a Filipina woman's house she offered me some food I said no that was the worst thing I could of done. She was not gonna take no for an answer I shriveled and caved fast as hell didn't stand on nothing she told me what I was gonna do and I did it.
Sir good day, in ph it's considered disrespectful if you decline food or beverage that has been offered po. You can eat a little if you're already full, just out of respect. 😅
When you go to a town fiesta in the province, every house you pass will invite you to come in and offer you food. We try to eat a little because it is very disconcerting not to accept the invitation. The secret is to eat just a little in every house that you were invited in so that you won't die of heart attack 😁😁😂😂🤮🤮
1st marriage was one from the US that was a nightmare. I wasn't even looking for another wife I moved to the Dominican republic and I found my 2nd wife there, She's about her career and the family. Not all the feminist crap She takes care of the home the kids but no way I can just run her over. But the dynamic at home with the family culture it's great, been happily married 14+ years and counting. I feel sorry for the way these woman are and feel worse for men today.
been to many Asian countries. I come from a Guamanian Filipino family . next Asian country I travel to is definitely the Philippines . just found your channel. subbed.
It is only a matter of time before over half of western men wives will be foreign. Western Men are waking up and going abroad. I am in love with an Ethiopian woman she is submissive and put her family first and she is a god fearing woman
My first love was Filipina. She stole my heart. She made me chicken adobe and I made her banana pancakes. Western girls can’t even boil hotdogs right. I hope you’re doing well Renee. Thanks for the video. Eastern women are the best in every way.
I worked in a large hospital and there were a lot of Ethiopian women that worked there. Except for one, all of the women I spoke with were feminine, respectful, and kind.
As a Filipino American male, the western culture has it twisted. Pinay women are as strong if not stronger than the western woman due to the struggles they endure. Western women are great too but they expect more from their men and do less than a woman should. Love the Channel my Pinoy brotha. Stay strong in paradise.
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I think it's funny how the feminist won't look at herself and think "damn I am really so horrible that men would rather go to another country for a woman".
A lot of Pilipinas are loyal and gentle people but don't take advantage of those traits because despite they are, they can also go Amazona Mode on you and leave you if necessary. They have the female cat trait that makes them capable of being in Solo Mode, that's how strong and attractive they are.
just wanna say that most Filipinas are family oriented but not everyone is the same. Just be careful since there are also those that would take advantage of you, it's very rare but they are out there. So far though, all the couples I've seen/ know have been living happy with each other.
Every man who has ever been involved with a Filipina, know the cat growl !! That sound she makes when you've crossed the line or displeased her..... . It's been 40 years since the last time I was involved with one...... I still get chills up my spine talking about it !! Filipinas are not pushovers.
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I am an Africian American man. I moved to the Philippines 5 years ago. I was in unhappy relationships in NYC. Women demanded credit scores, care, money, you want to take care of them and their kids. I was unhappy being a gamer. The women did not respect my life choices. I moved here, met my wife, started my own business, have a family. I am happy and blessed that I met the woman of my dreams. Filipina woman are not stupid or ignorant. Most men are coming to the Philippines because of life values, the women in the US forgot how to treat a man. Asian women has basic family values. This is what is attacted to men. Not the feminist woman that is taking over the states. Most women are so Independent they forgot the man needs to be treated as a man. Filipina women are not dominated, filipina women are partners. That is what is attracted to men. Not being dictated but treat man as a partner. I will never date an American women again. I am married and happy and blessed.
Traveling really helped me to start seeing the disorder in US society. I'm sure there are still good women in the country but they are the minority. I don't see any reason to have and angry demon in your house when you can marry a feminine kind woman that actually loves, honors, and respects you.
Congrats
Y’all love going to third world countries to find a woman,smh
good to have you here brother
Nice one mate 😁
This is coming from a Filipina who is born and raised in the Philippines but spent my life traveling abroad, stayed in Vegas and LA for a few years. The difference between Western women and Filipinas and why some foreign men might prefer us is this: We were raised by our mothers to run the household and care for our fathers and siblings. We see our mothers cook, clean, run the home, run errands, discipline us kids while having a full time career and at the end of the day, still make time for everybody. We prioritise home life and family. We rarely complain and tough it up during hard times with you. We love and live for our feminine energy and love and admire a man who takes the lead, while we play our roles as partners and balance our strengths and weakness. We are family focused and oriented. That money argument these western women have? LOL. We work like cattle for pennies with no complaints, if a man wants to treat us, it changes our world but it's not everything! The most materialistic women I've met that will blatantly ask you what your job is, how much you earning, on the First Date, majority are western women, without a thought at all what they can contribute. The digging can be diabolical and so heartless. I'm sorry to say. We Filipinas are simple in our ways with men. Our focus is you, your happiness, your well being. Just like our mothers were. We just love our man to love being a man and love his responsibilities towards his family and we provide the supporting role as partners.
Yah you're right alot of but not all western women always wanna know how much we bring to the table but if we ask them what they bring, they get offended. Personally, it don't bother me if the woman I'm with makes more money than me or makes less. For me, the make or break is the simple fact of whether we get along or not. You can be with a billionaire or a bum if that person makes you happy it doesn't matter in the end.
God bless you. would love to meet a woman like you.
Beautiful
And you know what, lady? You deserve everything all the way the other way around from your man. Simple as, and heavily unlike the women over here.
You should become muslim then. With all theses values and principles you would be much more happier and have more time to cultivate your feminine energy and gaining for yourself as well. InshAllah ☪️
I've been living in the Philippines for 7 years now and with my wife for 5 years. It destroys western women that a Filipina can do everything, hold a job, raise a family, run a household, and all the while enjoying being a woman and their feminity. The family unit and family values are still strong in most Filipinas and a Filipina wants to be proud of her man and family.
...this true
If every man learns about filippina culture .,, all feminists will die alone
@@letmelickbud ...truth is so many countries outside of the West, are like this. Because human nature is such that once ppl get enriched, or gorge on prosperity, they forget the small things that are of value
I agree with you. The woman talking maybe saying she's a Filipina but has no absolute Filipina values.
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There's an adage that every Filipino is familiar with:
"The husband is the pillar of the home; the wife is its light."
true
It's our culture.
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and the children are the noise of the home. in a joyful way.
@@TheBlackFilipino "Ang tatay ang haligi ng tahanan, ang nanay ang ilaw."
True😊
I am an Asian woman born in America and I still follow the old school Indian ways my mom did. Because of that I have a wonderful relationship. Western women feminists are so unhappy.
its why u see them complaining all the time on tiktok or shaking their assets to gain audiences . wish u the best in your future endeavours vidya
Vidya Parthasarathy: I hope you a long and happy life.
Good morals and high values are like gold now. Stay true to who you are and ignore all those self-labeled new-wave feminine "coaches", who try and have you believe in their system.
The damage caused has only divided people. Many are seeking ways, similar to how you live. It's time for them to admit their errors and learn from untainted women. Maybe they should follow traditional women around for a week to see what is possible.
Yeah Filipina women are nice ans sweet.
But can be sneaky. I did really get used to the food tho.
Congratulations you were not fooled into drinking the coolaid! So many others missed out on learning the secrets of their ancestors.
I am a Filipina and I believe most of us are home makers. We cook , clean, and tend our children and it's our choice. It doesnt mean we can't make our own careers but because we value family a lot. We love to support our man not because we are submissive but because we value our man's worth. Most of all, we are not pushover coz the moment we received harsh treatment, it's gameover.
“It’s gameover” LOL spoken like a true Filipina!!! 😂😂👏🏼👏🏼💪🏼💪🏼
Amen po! I still don’t get why some people shame others for being a “at-home” parent, do they think the house just runs itself? 😂
Yeah my girlfriend's Filipina and she most definitely doesn't need any help from any feminists. We are happy in the place we're at.
A feminist would simply pee in her cheerios and attempt to make her miserable and angry as the feminist is.
How dare you oppress her with your love and support.
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@@marcm83 bruh😆
@@marcm83 hahahahahahhaha
They dominate by making themselves irreplaceable and valuable.
BOOM!!!
I love how western women feel THEIR way is the right way and so Asian women need to fall into line and emulate THEM. Words like "ethnocentric", "racist", "colonial mentality" come to mind. Anyone who actually knows asian women knows they are NOT pushovers - they draw on femininity for power while western women emulate masculinity for power. Gotta love yin and yang!
If you dig down deep western women feeling they need to save women in developing countries is actually from a racist superiority prospective.
Most western women know absolutely nothing about being a woman. Being a man, I'm not qualified in saying what makes a woman. However, I am qualified enough to say that masculinity and women are an extremely unecessary and unattractive mix
@@Aubatron FACTS!!!! That is how the western powers justified their colonial holdings. It was the "white savior" mentality. The belief that the Europeans had a duty to save the non-western savages from themselves and civilize/westernize them and their ways. Only this time it is the feminists who is attempting to "save" out of a sense of the same level of supremacy as the Europeans in the past.
younger Philippines get like the western world, under 24 . they are a lot like the west due to Hollywood and stuff.
It's not just about women.
West thinks that only they know how to live correctly in general, heh.
Russian here
LOL!! My momma use to say, "Don't take my kindness as a weakness."
i had my fill of the MODERN WESTERN WOMAN and got tired of being cheated on, disrespected, treated as an ATM and nothing else. I've had a Filipina girlfriend now for 4 yrs and have been very happy. Trust me she is submissive but is not a doormat. She wants respect like I do also, and I treat her with respect. She is willing to let me lead but she offers input especially when dealing with issues about the laws and concerns about her country. She is the most loving, caring traditional woman I have ever known. She is the real deal and is genuine in her emotions and feelings for me. She will not let me be taken advantage of by local merchants and rarely asks for anything for herself other than basic needs. She loves to cook, is very clean and loves a clean house. I basically provide and she handles the housework. We do everything together like shopping and cooking as I love to cook as well. I teach her about American food and I learn Filipino food from her. I wouldn't even think of going back to an American woman. I have peace of mind now and feel truly loved for who I am. We only had one slight disagreement when we first started our relationship and it was brief and a simple cultural difference that was overcome easily. So to all the FEMINISTS out there trying to discredit, shame men for wanting a better life, class of women. All I can say is You're actions have forced men from you're lives. Feel free to bask in you're freedom and enjoy being alone and miserable as more and more men leave you high and dry.
AMEN!!!! Mine is the same way...
Preach !
Same brother
ECXACTLY!!!
ME 3 😁
So when are you going to give her the utmost respect by marrying her?
My wife is Filipina. And I 100% agree and will back you up on this. Especially Filipina from Mindanao like mine. She’s willing to cook and clean and give me a back rub. But mess around and the you’ll wish you were in hell with your back broken. She’s not some slave girl. She’s my wife and she expects the same respect from me that she gives and she’s not shy about letting me know if I step over the line. The feminists don’t get it and never will that strength doesn’t come from being bossy or loud or overly abrasive. It comes from not compromising your values. Feminists are losing men because they took away mens desires and then mocked them for their issues. They call it toxic for men to want to compete, to want to fight, to desire to protect and have final word in family matters and to do the hardest jobs. They then mock us for not dating them and for going with women that respect men who act like men and say it’s because we want weak women? If we wanted weak women we’d date feminists. Because only a weak person feels the need to mock and belittle people to compensate for their own lack of abilities. We want strong women who build us up and have the strength to hold us up. To give us a sense of purpose and who give us that drive to become better by being someone worth growing for. It takes no strength to treat someone like garbage and mock their spouses faults. It takes real strength to accept those faults and work around them because you love them more than yourself. And Filipina have that in spades.
Glad I found this channel brother. From one expat to another god bless and thank you for helping to blow this myth about Filipina off the tracks. Next time I’m in country Ill have to buy you some red horse.
A woman can be fit, feminine and friendly and live a great life without trying to be a man or trying to play games with men.
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My fillipina is definetly submissive but not a pushover. She does her best to do what she can for me and us. Shes always thinking ahead and now that shes graduated college shes out getting a job already. She knows my love language and she uses it all the time thanking me for providing and working hard. My western ex wives never did that.
So incredibly true. My wife was definitely from a poor family, but they weren't in poverty. It taught her how to work hard and he happy with what she has. She also takes such incredibly good care of me that it makes me want to take even better care of her. I do help her family when I see they need help, but I made it clear not to ask me for stuff. I got my new family a new fridge, TV, some solar panels, etc, but it was all my choice. My Filipino family also takes incredibly good care of me in other ways. My father in law cooks the best chicken I've ever tasted. Every time I visit them or they visit me, my father in law always brings me the chickens he bred and cooked himself. It is such a great relationship I have with my wife and her family. This Christmas, they don't know it yet, but I have something huge planned for them! Can't wait to see their reactions! Keep up the great work Jay!
thanks bro🙏🏽
Amazing. What a great family brother. Family is family. A team. Specially one with morals and values. Take good care of them and show them a man like you is hard to come by and find.
This is so cute 😭😭
Bottom line, you both support each other, not expect her to be your servant. That’s how couples should be.
Oo nga Pala malapit na Pasko, ngayon ko lang napansin kasi di ako tumitingin ng Calendar. x'D
African American male here
I'm married to a Filipina and I tell you that she is so much peace and love and the sweetest thing on earth
Yes sir! I still remember when my fit, feminine loving 5'2" 90 lb soft spoken filipina told me in conversation once with such clear confidence "I'm not weak", game over I only fell even more in love with her beautiful self
Sounds about right lol 😂
I am a filipino living in the Phils. We can put it in one sentence this matter. I live like a King but I have a Commander in chief and a treasurer beside me.
Perfectly simplified.
amen brother
If the King has no say as to how the money is spent in the kingdom, the King is not a King
@@johnki325 …correct… you are not a king at all.
But I am the King, I have the last say. I establish the rule and everyone follows.
@@rely7318 Acknowledged, may you live long and prosper 😊
Only in America can unhappy women try and convince women from other countries they're not happy. You can't make this ish up.
Lmao, yeah 🤣🤣
They doe this to Americans, not just to women in other countries.
I’ve been married to a Filipina for almost 18 years now. Submissive? Filipinas submissive? Oh hell no! No there are times when my Filipina will defer to my judgment out of respect for my role as the leader of the family and because I’ve demonstrated through my actions that I am a good leader as I always put family first and not my own interest and she respects the hell out that and it relieves her of that burden knowing she can trust me and that I will be the one who bears the consequences of accountability for those decisions but does that make her submissive?
Oh hell no. She just has her focus on different priorities at home she can be a little tyrant and god help you if the garbage isn’t taken out on time. Not to mention when I am in a position where I have to make decisions she’s my best counselor as she smart and I mean really smart but submissive? Oh hell no. These feminists confuse politeness, manners and respect as weakness and submissiveness then there’s something wrong with their values.
Most of the disrespectful experiences I’ve had in regards to my beautiful immigrant wife from other people where I live has been from women. Most American men fall instantly for her feminine charm and beauty and are complimentary.
Most of the negative comments I’ve heard about my Beautiful Bride has come from other women and have been directed at me by other women. Normally I just laugh at them.
A lot of these feminists think because they went to a good college and graduated with a Mickey Mouse degree that they’re the smartest person in the room. I can remember one feminist was talking to me in a very condescending manner and then made the mistake of bragging to me that she had graduated from Oberlon College with Honors in Sociology. To which I responded “You went to an expensive and prestigious private college and you took a Micke Mouse Major?”.
She was instantly pissed and made a snide comment along the lines of what would I know about that. To which I told her well I graduated from undergrad school with a Pre-Med Biology degree with a minor in chemistry and that I did my Masters in Human Biology and then I went back to school in my early 30’s and earned at Masters in Materials Engineering. That shut her up but if looks could kill.
Another time some mouthy feminist was talking smack in front of my wife and made the comment to me that I shouldn’t be so smug about exploiting some poor illiterate third world girl for a wife. I calmly asked her where she went to college and what she studied? She replied that she had graduated from a good school with a degree in education. I then told he my illiterate peasant wife had a BS in Business where she graduated Cum Laude and that as a high school senior had been offered a scholarship to the Philippine Military Academy but turned it down as she didn’t want a military career and that she was currently knocking down close to a six figure income. I then asked her how much she was earning? That pretty much ended the conversation.
Another time a gal referred to my misses as my “Mail Order Bride” in front of my wife! I put the fear of God into her. I came right out of my chair furious and said “Are you calling my wife a whore? No one calls my wife a whore!” I mean I was fighting mad. Talk about a real fast change in attitude as no one came to her defense and I looked like I was going to rain down on her. She feebly tried to say she wasn’t calling my wife a whore and what was I talking about and then my wife gave her what I call the dragon lady look and said “Yes, you did call me a whore. Where I come from there’s no difference between calling a woman a mail order bride and whore.”. All I can say was she was lucky my wife didn’t kick her butt.
Those however were just the worst ones. Most of the time is just some snide dismissive comment to which I laugh and I laugh because my marriage to my Filipina has been the best thing that ever happened to me in my life and that I’m a lot happier than they are.
They are just mad men are finding better women out there.
Giving how lazy they date.
How often they flake.
Their egos.
It is no wonder men look for better women elsewhere.
uggg! this makes me so mad how western women view us! 😡
Thank you for this!
@@manangmambobola3252 hah I'd say if you are not USA Canada or UK they will view it that way. Even Polish ones just stopped being viewed that way only recently and fun fact is we were European since 10th century also girls here were pretty bossy without feminism to fall back on.
Western men don’t want to deal with the lazy daters, or the marriage quitters that western women have a reputation for being.
At 50 myself I see all the leftovers 40-55 being either bitchy or desperate in their demeanor.
At an 80% filing rate for divorce by western women men are not gambling anymore.
Filipinas are very resourceful and smart! They will give as good as they get...Western women ONLY take take take. Bayyyeeeeeee
Just here to read the comments 😊
Thank you gentlemen for defending the Filipinas you are in relationship with 😊
And goodluck to those men who wanted to find their own Filipina 😊
Sounds like a filipina trying to find her porenjer. Lmao
@@Vizible21 Your screen tag: Most appropriate ...... But I'm surprised. Most men don't willingly out themselves as bigoted InCels (involuntary celibate).
My (white) coworker went to the Philippines and found a wife, they just had their first child on and they're happy..👏 👏 🙏
Are you going too bud? Let me know I’ll go with you😂
My Filipina neighbor has fire temper, flying flip flops, loud too but she's been an awesome neighbor, second mamma to my oldest son, shares food sometimes and all about family. Love her SO much!!
no push over. not bossy either. Hahaa they don’t know us Pinays, hey Aloha from the Philippines, have a wonderful day.
We love y’all ❤️❤️❤️
As a filipino man, the comments I've read gave me a broad spectrum as to why westeners seek filipino women. I know how it feels to be loved by one. And hope we all stay happy with our women, filipino women that is. 😉
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I was ahead of the curve (albeit accidentally) and it is the one thing I can thank my abusive mother for. I wasn't interesting in English women, I saw how they behaved and what they were like and said "nah." Now I'm nearly 20 years married to a feminine Moldovan woman. I've never had a family until I made one.
My abusive, crazy, Leftist mother also prepared me as a child for what men are experiencing now.
My mother is a tyrant and hypocrite, sadly that is factory standard today and seriously thinking about the passport
@@kni9ght Go and experience the world because close minded western women and their men hating ways are NOT the norm. South Korea also has a nice culture to experience. So do Thailand and Vietnam. I wouldn't waste your time in Europe or Australia though because fems have ruined it.
@@JosephDiveley sounds like a pretty good time, need to just get my passport
I will get a Filipina
My oldest friend married a Filipino and there was no power imbalance. As the years have gone on, she has absolutely exerted her considerable will over their lives while being remarkably feminine and taking care of her man. Deranged feminists can continue to complain and die alone.
A feminine woman is very powerful
Filipinas are most beautiful, loyal , real women. Traditional values, traditional family values, perfect women.
I'm a Islander in Australia. I got sick of dating western women for the obvious reasons. I met a Filipina woman 6 years ago and have not looked back. She's a beautiful definition of what real women
are to me. She's kind and gentle yet strong and a bloody hard worker.She is petite but don't mess with her. She's a little savage when she wants to be and will hold her ground. I'm a big Islander guy and I shit myself when she's angry. She is also family orientated and she holds her religion close to her heart. I said to her once ' I was the luckiest man in the world '. She said - 'all us Filipina women are like this, We are strong women '. She is very correct.
Filipina women are strong women. Western women are weak men.
@@bk3805 I love this
I’ve seen a Filipina who 14yrs old came to the states barley could speak English graduate high school as a valevictorian. That shows how hard working they are
I told 4 guys at work I was dating a Filipina like 6 years ago, three of them visited the Philippines within a year and are now in relationships with Filipina and going there frequently, making plans. The fourth is secretly talking to a Filipina online while he waits for his kids to graduate high school so he can divorce his bitch western wife. Many western women do not even know what a woman is anymore.
I left that company a while ago but just recently seen one of the guys, when I asked how he was doing, he thanked me and told me that his Filipina brings out the best in him. Guys, if you want a good woman talk to a Filipina. Just be a good guy, don't abuse them.
Just a couple more years and I leave the west behind and my Filipina and I will retire early to her home country. We both are so looking forward to it.
You are absolutely right about Filipinas. I have been married to my Filipina wife for 16 years. American women are spoiled brats, and are quick separate and divorce. There are limits to their love. When a Filipina loves she loves with her whole heart. She will stay with her man. American men find Filipinas for the qualities American women have lost. Real men want want their mates to be real women, who love being women. They're proud to be girls.
Exactly bro, my Pinay says it's her duty to do all she does for me and the kids. And she is happy to do so, and she is a 31 year old province girl. Totally different than any of the 35 women in my lifetime. White or Hispanic. She also has her flower farm she works to earn a living. I support her with some money, to help expand the farm, so she can earn even more pesos.
I have had the opportunity to live and work with Philipino nurses, they are the best. It is not so much for the training they have, that I don't doubt is the best, but because they really care for people and make others feel as if they matter, because they matter. I can understand why men are attracted to them, everybody wants to find someone who cares and think they are special. I hope all these men really appreciate the gift they are.
Growing up having a table decurom, not able to touch the food unless our father is sitted in his cabesa chair and telling us we can start to eat after prayer, giving his slippers upon entering our house, I think in a family with a patriarch head is more healthier to raise kids and a bonded family unit.
patriachy has protected the family for 6000 years since Adam n Eve. Strong men breed respectful children which turn high character individuals.
🤣🤣 I think the West will be very shock if they saw how we are raised as children. We also did that, once our father arrived home from work we greet him at the door with his slippers. I think families in the province still do this.
Look my girl she's a Filipina and here's how it is, you treat them right they'll treat you right. Don't ever lie to them, don't ever cheat, don't ever disrespect them and you're good, that's all they want. Now with all three of those things I just mentioned you have to understand that those are what men want too.
What does that mean, it means they're as real as any woman is ever gonna get.
In the Philippines is a place where nice guys can finish 1st because they don't like assholes
They sure don’t
That's it, I'm sold LOL
Time to build a couple more income streams and game over
@@tryscience i got hooked too . im gonna work on my income and live there most probably
I guess I have to agree with that sentiment... being a Filipino myself. If you have a well-grounded mindset and common decency, you will attract like minded Filipinas.
It reminds me of my recent exGF. Pretty decent women, and very attracted to integrity and good values. Heck, I can attest that physical looks are secondary to a Filipina woman when they pick their men. They appreciate good character and principles.
there is some truth to that but as western culture dominating, its kinda changing especially in city.
Pinay women are givers in nature and do not understand the greedy miserable feminist. They believe their role is to keep the home together and raise healthy loving children, to take care of their men because they appreciate them. This love empowers men in return do whatever it takes to keep their families happy.
But if you mess w a pinay....she'll put you in your place and remind you of YOUR role. It's a true partnership.👍🏽❤
How ironic that the women complaining about passport guys are in fact allowing themselves to be used by guys richer than them here in the States. It's the same concept at a different money scale.
The way you get dominated is the filipina makes you so happy you will bend over backwards to give her everything she wants! For example just yesterday I went out in the rain on my motorcycle because my wife wanted donuts lol. It would of been a cold year in hell let alone a day before I did that for my ex lol. But that desire to give her everything she wants will push you as a man to new heights you never thought you could reach!
The core value of family and loyalty is in general much higher in the Philippines and rest of Asia, in the west it have really lost it's value over time.
The only downside to being with a Filipina is you better like Karaoke when you visit family. They seem to really enjoy this particular bonding activity.
I was stranded in the Philippines in 2015 after I lost my passport.
I never met a kinder, more generous and helpful people.
Ive also never seen a happier people.
Everyone is laughing and smiling and joking around.
People like to help eachother and doing stuff for each other.¨
They shared everything and took pride in it.
It didnt matter how well they were off, some clearly had money, others didnt but the spirit and mentality was always the same.
Help eachother.
First time I drank with the locals and they put out one single glas blew my mind.
Another time I was playing chess in the street with a gang of teenagers who didnt speak english and one guy just walked up to the other and held out his hand, didnt even say anything and everyone chipped in a few coins and he went a bought a pack of smokes and they all split them up.
One of their mothers passed by, spoke a couple of words in Tagalog that I didnt understand, nodded to me and the all dragged me off to dinner which she, in words even I could understand, sent her husband out to get the grosseries for.
In the house, SHE was the boss... there was no doubt about it.
Not saying there are not bad people, I saw some parts of Manila that was pure nightmare fuel.
But the general population lived in harmony.
They respected and appriciated eachother.
Yes, most of the women were homemakers but I never saw one who was that didnt want to be or was unhappy in that role.
And the spoiled, feminaxi, cxnts of the west is trying to tell the Philippines that THEYRE the ones doing it wrong?
Misery loves company, I guess.
All my love and respect to the Philippino people, without you guys I would probably not have survived.
And to be honest, I went to the Philippines in the first place cuz I had lost faith in humanity and I needed a change of scenery.
The genuine kindness and generousity I found quite literally gave me hope back.
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Hah, I was leaving the keyboard to go cook dinner and left the video on in the background.
And like 30 seconds before you said it I was thinking "theyre actually quite alot like Latino women" xD
It's called the Bayanihan culture which means helping each other out in times of need. Glad you received some help and families took you in after you lost your passport, bro.
Well the filipines dis got colonised by the spanish. So it makes senwe they are like latinas. They share some dna.
My brother went to the Philippines. He got robbed on the first day.
It's not always perfect in the Philippines
@@rossrose1534 no one saying Philippines is perfect.
Every Filipina I've met was a BOSS! Fine as hell! But, very respectful. I didn't know there were black Filipinos. But, I guess so. Makes sense.
Actually our ancestors are blacks.
Ain't no racism in the Philippines at least when I was there they was equally very nice to everyone.
@@SmittyB88 Racism doesn't exist here in PH. We only get angry when foreigners act asshole-like.
Mixed race.
I have no idea about the ladies from the Philippines, but I've worked with a few guys from the Philippines and from every one of them I get the impression of a pretty awesome culture. Seems very family oriented and supportive.
If a man wants to be a provider, and wants a woman who is a homemaker, and that’s what she wants, what makes other people so angry about that?
Because the career women are left with dogs and cats and no husbands. They're bitter for that.
@@ryan-smith Mom raised us for the most part because our dad got sent all over the country, all while she worked and went on duty in the hospital (OB-Gyn, Public hospital)
A home-maker and career woman, my mother is one hell of a woman.
My personal experience with a Filipino woman, she is strong and independent yet loving and respectful, a wife material.
A buddy of mine married a Filipina as his second wife and she has been by his side and supported him through his ups and downs and he is better for it. He and I were in college together and I watched him progress.
I'm a Filipino and I grew up in a family where ALL women are dominant.
😂😂😂 my mom also, it's always my dad who say sorry after a fight. But she's a homemaker, she's a great cook and always caring to the point she nags me, it's annoying but I consider myself lucky coz she always remember me despite I'm already a 25-year old woman and already living independently in another city away from them.
Yep always telling us to ask our dad for permission but then you'll have my dad catering to what my mom already decided and avoid disagreeing too much.
Filipina women will dominate the house and many other aspects because it's likely her main area of responsibility. Similarly my dad does the same but in his work and company.. different things
I met my filipino wife 24 yrs ago in my own country. They are not easier or more compliant but when they decide to start a family with you they know the priorities. For the rest they are women lol they all have their manual 😂
Plus my wife has 2 things going for her, 1. She has moral and values
2. She has a bolo and knows how to handle it 😁
And for men that find there partner in a bar ? Well thats an universal risk in any country.
Be carefull in her bolo...dont mess with her..and if you did,dont fall as sleep....watch out for ur d**k🤣
I praise God every day for showing me the truth for the roles of a marriage. I also feel like a lot of these issues could be solved with genuine love and respect for your man. If you REALLY love your husband, what’s wrong with cooking and cleaning and nurturing for him?
The problem in marriage starts when couples forget that marriage is about we not me. Each one should cover each other not just serve the other.
Filipina girls enjoy being a woman, honestly. Most Filipinos are still chivalric and being a pinoy myself, I can tell you most women here ignore the feminist agenda, they love to be served, they love to be dependent, when you cook for them, when you fetch and protect them. In turn they also serve you, hug you, cook for you and support you. Pinays like and are willing to be submissive. I know because I'm already married.
I live in Toronto and i can tell you a lot of wealthy men here hired these ladies as nanny and ended up marring them and it happening in the upscale neighborhood.
I’m a below average looking man with a above average income over six figures. I used to get taken advantage of by western women. Now I’m happily married to a Filipina for four years. Western women of all races are mad that they are being replaced. I’m a good nice guy so western women treat me like crap. My Filipina treats me like a king. I have never wanted a submissive woman, I just wanted a woman who would corporate with me. She can and will put her foot down when she feels it’s something important to her so she is far from a push over. Those times are very few so we spend our time loving each other not fighting. If u are tired of the western women BS or are not a chad, then u can go find a Filipina that is ur equal in looks to marry and be happy with so go do it.
Just so your happy man. Good for you.
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@@justabystander1567 yup. If I can do it anyone can. So if you are a relationship guy like me go grab you one. Lol let these strong independent I don’t need a man (but they sure want one) western women be alone.
Filipina woman actually run the household. They are no joke.
I’m one of them! 😅
The difference between an Asian and western woman is like night and day! When you have a good Asian wife, LIFE IS BETTER!!
What I fell in love with about Asia whether it be Thailand or the Philippines or Vietnam was the people and the women. Crystal Blue water man tropical fish multiple colors people nice yeah it is bad people everywhere but not like here mostly the people are kind and respectful. And that's the way I carried myself when I was in those countries was respect other customs the way they look in life not come there to try to tell them how they should look at the world they look at the world the way they want to look at it and I love it.
I’ll give you advice don’t ever take a Vietnamese woman to the USA. Been with One for 5 years and ended up cheating on me after influence of western crap culture and thug culture.
My wife was born in the states and raised in the Philippines. Couldn’t have been more lucky to have married he: a beautiful, smart, and very redpilled pinay woman. Blessed!
Western men have been going abroad for a mate for YEARS; this is not new. The issue is that nowadays, more and more Western men are seeking to branch out to find a feminine, friendly cooperative woman, to settle down with, because of modern women such as the Caucasian feminist, that finds it affable that a woman can cater to her man in the 21st century.
At the end of the day, men have way more options than women nowadays, and many women are expressing their displeasure over it, hence the "passport bashing" videos that are more prevalent.
Great video, Jay 👍🏿
Thanks 🙏 for watching
Yep if anyone doesn't remember there used to be foreign correspondent dating service called cherry blossoms they were around since 1973
Most BW are just as bad as the caucasian feminist, it's really just the majority of western women.
@Linda Lowther And it’s true most of these leftist feminist ideologies are all driven by unattractive white women.
By women in the West he means Western women as in White women. He says it that way(in the West) to disarm any rebuttals against what he really means while still getting to say it.
I speak from 14 years and counting married to a wonderful Filipina when I say they are definitely not pushovers lol. But they are attentive and loving, they have an inner confidence that makes a man feel lucky just to be near her. But cross the line and your in serious trouble hahaha.
I can already imagine this. 😅
im a white, not so good looking man maybe also abit insecure. i have only gotten treated like somekind of sub human by WHITE women. Thanks to the Phillipines i found an amazing kind hearted woman that i love very deeply.❤
This is awsome . I get what is being said here. By the video and the commenters. I’m happy for you to have found love and happiness.
Yeah, they are definitely not pushovers. You treat a filipina like shit and see what happens to you. However, if you treat them with respect and kindness they will appreciate you and do the same in return, which is different from western women. Filipinas are not selfish and self centered. Its that simple. Its mutual.
Even before Spain conquered Philippines, Filipino women been kicking men's ass.
Before feminism became a thing, Filipinas been fighting the Spaniard in the frontline and leading the battle.
Even during the American and Japanese occupation Filipinas been kicking their balls.
Heading to the Philippines in december.
Filipinas are the backbones of the family.
They are not push overs, when a Filipina takes care of her man is because she wants to do it, it’s in her nature that’s the way they where brought up it’s not dominating
Exactly
As a man of Afro/Asian and Polynesian bloodlines, I appreciate what your about. I have dated Filipina women in the past and yes they are sweet and loving; however, they will stand up to you in a minute. The white and black American feminists love to make broad generalizations and will only give a benefit of a doubt if it's in their favor. Too many people are giving ear to their madness.
Once you go Asian, you won't need a vacation.
Good 👍 one lol 😂
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
I'm really considering visiting Philipines. I'm Catholic who always wanted a girl with family values and I practice filipino martial arts. The more I think about it the more I believe Philipines is the place where I could find happiness.
Haha... this comment is the best to read! Filipino Martial Arts ❤👍👍
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@@cheryllsebial8590 Filipino. Thanks for correction 😅
I'm sure you're already happy where you are, a partner kinda just doubles it haha
@@inaythankyou761 good point. Happiness comes out of inside. If one is not happy with himself one can't be happy with others. Thx for reminding me👍😁
the Catholic culture in the Philippines teaches girls at a very young age that a woman's role in a family is subservience to her husband. Filipinas are very feminine and gentle. Just treat them right and most will treat u like a king.
The loud AND wrong feminist crew strikes again. The filipina "tampo" might be different than the western woman's mouth, but it's effective lol. Those who know, know.
I'll pick silent treatment over constant shouting anyday
yup. we know how to assert and be cute while asserting. 😄😅
I dated a filipina. True, they are soft and gentle...until they're not. If you push them the wrong way they dig in and won't budge. They're not push overs.
I guess I wrote too soon. This guy said the same thing I did.
I've raised two young adults now been married twice but Asia has always been in my heart from the time I visited there 17 years old in the military first place I went to was Pattaya Beach then Manila. Now I can return. Now it's my time to relax.
In phlippine school we have a subject called "values", and the lesson are about how to respect other people, good characteristic, the role of a girl, boy, man, women, wife, husband, children, and always be good to other people as possible, they teach this from kindergarten to highschool, maybe that's the reason why most filipino's knows their role wherever they belong.
Western women....stop being so mad and jealous because maybe you can learn something from these women..... and if you don't want to learn, this is why you're loosing your men.
instead of embracing the power they had in their femininity, they chose to throw it away to be masculine. most men want their partner to be happy. even if she doesnt have direct power to decide without damaging the relationship, the guy will listen and will try to make it happen if its possible. this becomes more accurate, the more the women supports his man emotionally, and makes him feel that its worth it for "her".
True. Men will do what a woman wants if it's within their reach and when the man's love language coincides with it.
Most men would be happy with partnership. Problem is women behave like this sort of scarecrow version of a male they have in their mind. In all truthfulness their idea what men is if it was implemented by any leader they would be looking at business end of someone's guns sword fist or mental acumen very, very fast. Men are civil to other men because there is underlying threat of violence and rooted knowledge that you could loose a duel even with all advantage in the world.
Housewife is not a lesser profession.
I was in the Philippines for and they were definitely very nice but trust me they definitely have a back bone. I remember I went to a Filipina woman's house she offered me some food I said no that was the worst thing I could of done. She was not gonna take no for an answer I shriveled and caved fast as hell didn't stand on nothing she told me what I was gonna do and I did it.
Sir good day, in ph it's considered disrespectful if you decline food or beverage that has been offered po. You can eat a little if you're already full, just out of respect. 😅
When you go to a town fiesta in the province, every house you pass will invite you to come in and offer you food. We try to eat a little because it is very disconcerting not to accept the invitation. The secret is to eat just a little in every house that you were invited in so that you won't die of heart attack 😁😁😂😂🤮🤮
They call them GOLD DIGGER, just like they are.
Yes they are projecting.
@@tshaolin971 projecting onto them and gaslighting us black men.
1st marriage was one from the US that was a nightmare. I wasn't even looking for another wife I moved to the Dominican republic and I found my 2nd wife there, She's about her career and the family. Not all the feminist crap She takes care of the home the kids but no way I can just run her over. But the dynamic at home with the family culture it's great, been happily married 14+ years and counting. I feel sorry for the way these woman are and feel worse for men today.
I cannot wait to be in cebu with my fiance and our kids blessings and prayers jay
been to many Asian countries. I come from a Guamanian Filipino family . next Asian country I travel to is definitely the Philippines . just found your channel. subbed.
thanks 🙏🏽
I now officially declare the Feminist threat level to
"DEFCON 4" lol
Do not feel sorry for someone who has consciously chosen evil over good their entire lives.
It is only a matter of time before over half of western men wives will be foreign. Western Men are waking up and going abroad. I am in love with an Ethiopian woman she is submissive and put her family first and she is a god fearing woman
@Dominic yes sir
My first love was Filipina. She stole my heart. She made me chicken adobe and I made her banana pancakes. Western girls can’t even boil hotdogs right. I hope you’re doing well Renee. Thanks for the video. Eastern women are the best in every way.
Well bro.. we Filipinos knew it was meant to be boiled but...most of us prefer it fried 😅
@@denciolombos2510 ...or grilled😁😁😁
I cannot but I can cook crayfish and octopus 😋
Ethiopian women are like Filipina women they will love you with all of their soul and heart
That is a sacred lane Ethiopia
@@TheBlackFilipino Very true my brother.
I worked in a large hospital and there were a lot of Ethiopian women that worked there. Except for one, all of the women I spoke with were feminine, respectful, and kind.
Filipinos are by no means a push over. Mostly good committed people who respect their partners
As a Filipino American male, the western culture has it twisted. Pinay women are as strong if not stronger than the western woman due to the struggles they endure. Western women are great too but they expect more from their men and do less than a woman should. Love the Channel my Pinoy brotha. Stay strong in paradise.
thanks for watching
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I think it's funny how the feminist won't look at herself and think "damn I am really so horrible that men would rather go to another country for a woman".
A lot of Pilipinas are loyal and gentle people but don't take advantage of those traits because despite they are, they can also go Amazona Mode on you and leave you if necessary. They have the female cat trait that makes them capable of being in Solo Mode, that's how strong and attractive they are.
just wanna say that most Filipinas are family oriented but not everyone is the same. Just be careful since there are also those that would take advantage of you, it's very rare but they are out there. So far though, all the couples I've seen/ know have been living happy with each other.
Every man who has ever been involved with a Filipina, know the cat growl !! That sound she makes when you've crossed the line or displeased her..... .
It's been 40 years since the last time I was involved with one...... I still get chills up my spine talking about it !!
Filipinas are not pushovers.
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣…how about the eye look with the mouth slightly open and a bit of nodding?
They see women happy to serve their men, and they don’t like that.
100% right
Most white women don't like that. They want to be men
Met a couple of Philippino people in my lifetime...seems like good vibes when they told me about their country
You get what you look for...no matter where you are.
Great show I use to be around Filipino women a lot in the Military, choose wisely.